brightcityvice Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Men's Rights, Domestic violence and Cake Boss They sound like the type of women who lament over the fact that "there are no good men any more" but are just awful people themselves	/r/MensRights	11/10/13 12:08 AM
9	Vicky Pryce: Most women in my jail were there because of men (says someone who tried to use a female-only defence to avoid prison) "Everyone in here is innocent, what are you in for?" "Lawyer fucked me"	/r/MensRights	06/10/13 09:14 AM
1	A great article about identifying if your girlfriend/wife is a abusive narcissist. It could save you a lot of grief and pain. It's rare to find articles that speak to men about mental disorders. I did the same after a few weeks after I felt bad because she said she "couldn't live without me", biggest mistake of my life.	/r/MensRights	26/09/13 04:42 PM
2	A great article about identifying if your girlfriend/wife is a abusive narcissist. It could save you a lot of grief and pain. It's rare to find articles that speak to men about mental disorders. I thought I'd try it to see if mine followed a couple, every single one was a perfect descriptor. Makes me understand better why I was so miserable	/r/MensRights	26/09/13 10:52 AM
3	'Blurred Lines' banned from campus bars at five UK universities - World News What really gets me riled up is that this is a set of lyrics and music that is being banned because of some peoples interpretation. I used to write songs and I'd hate people reading the lyrics because then they'd ask stupid questions about whether the songs were about them and why I wrote what I did. If you don't agree with what Robin Thicke says about his own song then that's your interpretation and therefore only your problem.	/r/MensRights	26/09/13 12:17 AM
7	Looks like hate speech based on a specific gender only applies if the gender is female. I think someone should make a "I hate the "I hate men" page". See how hypocritical they are then.	/r/MensRights	25/09/13 06:36 PM
9	Biological dad returns 4-year-old Veronica to adoptive parents - A family court judge had ruled in Brown's favor in late 2011, and he took his daughter to Oklahoma. The Capobiancos had fought since to have Veronica returned, arguing federal law does not define an unwed biological father as a parent. Yet federal law classes an unwed biological father as responsible for paying child support if the child was still with the mother? Men get a great deal in this system.	/r/MensRights	25/09/13 12:13 AM
6	From "I'd like to fuck these complete strangers as long as they're attractive" to "Ew, men are untrained animals" to "Lol, I rule over these disgusting creatures" Some men are oppressed, and some women are oppressed. Saying that no men are allowed help when they're down on their luck just displays a total lack of empathy	/r/MensRights	10/09/13 12:07 AM
3	From "I'd like to fuck these complete strangers as long as they're attractive" to "Ew, men are untrained animals" to "Lol, I rule over these disgusting creatures" I don't think I've seen anyone in this community complain about any safe spaces, just that men would like one too. Please inform me of where we do this.	/r/MensRights	10/09/13 12:01 AM
4	"One Color" with Neil Hilborn and Renee Schminkey. Really puts rape into perspective. That was really powerful, it's inspiring seeing this shared fight and both genders listening to one another over something which is fucking horrible. Listening and education without demonising the male gender, this is what need.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 11:25 PM
18	Why Men Should Be Afraid To Give Women Compliments I require your consent to give you a compliment? Do I need your consent to say that your article was a nonsensical piece of shit?	/r/MensRights	02/09/13 12:44 AM
3	I've made a feminist robot This isn't a mens rights issue, it's not really suitable for this sub.	/r/MensRights	01/09/13 01:15 PM
5	Sexy, single, and lookin' for love You feel bad for me, terrific, I came to this sub at first to talk about male depression. Its an issue that deserves some empathy and recognition, there are far too many men committing suicide. I don't have any anger or hatred towards women, I just have a problem with the issues that face men and those who deny their existence. I also have a problem with people who wave around that they learned about something and that makes them superior to others, which is what your post does.	/r/MensRights	01/09/13 10:41 AM
9	Study shows men as likely as women to face depression. New review of male symptoms of depression. This is something I suspected when I was dealing with my own depression. Talking with friends when they knew about my depression, a lot of them had felt similar things. I'm glad there's some recognition in this area, I hope that one day the suicide rate will be much lower and those men will get the support they need.	/r/MensRights	01/09/13 01:11 AM
2	These have popped up where I live. Yes, these posters imply only women can be victims. This is one of those situations where graffiti is warranted to correct the message	/r/MensRights	29/08/13 01:40 PM
5	Thought It Was Just Men Who Flew Abroad For Squalid Sexual Kicks? Meet The Middle-Aged, Middle-Class Women Who Are Britain's Female Sex Tourists I'm refusing to take responsibility for my actions, it must be mens fault that I want to have sex.	/r/MensRights	27/08/13 03:12 PM
20	When people ask why you're not a feminist, or why you're against feminism, how do you respond? Two reasons I don't support feminism or similar groups I refuse to associate with a group that sees a problem with what I am, disregarding my actions and identity and just putting a label on me. I've shunned mainstream societies views on what is a gender mould and feminism doesn't address male identity. I don't feel the need to apologise for crimes or morally reprehensible acts that I've never committed. I've never raped, oppressed or abused women and I am not responsible for any acts that have …	/r/MensRights	25/08/13 01:36 AM
3	Why Do So Many Incompetent Men Become Leaders? The people that want power should never have it, the people that have power thrust upon them, by those who think they are worthy are more likely to be a suitable leader.	/r/MensRights	24/08/13 02:24 AM
2	Women Should Pay More for Health Care Yeh but patriarchy means they'll get paid more so we should tax them again to meet this gap derp derp derp derp derp	/r/MensRights	24/08/13 01:51 AM
3	Some Constructive discourse on the amazing atheist's youtube page I'm not letting my jimmys be rustled over this one	/r/MensRights	21/08/13 02:16 AM
26	American women hate the fact that I married a Filipina. Yeh in 20 years we're going to be outsourcing all our love to Asia because it gives us a greater return.	/r/MensRights	21/08/13 12:26 AM
1	Daughter: I lied and sent my dad to prison for rape During criminal proceedings normally the police look for whether the victim is being coerced into saying nothing about real abuse. Why is there not the same standard for seeing whether someone is being coerced into false statements of abuse?	/r/MensRights	20/08/13 11:08 AM
17	I know many of you might have issues with "The Amazing Atheist", but you should watch this video he just posted. Apparently Youtube is removing many of his videos, mostly the ones concerning feminism. They don't see the irony of banning "feminism vs free speech"	/r/MensRights	20/08/13 08:49 AM
26	Remember the "Tropes vs. Women" videos? Well here's a parody that had me laughing. Tropes vs. Men. Worth a Watch for the sillyness alone. Guys I'm going to need hundreds of thousands of dollars, how else can I deal with the pain of retrospectively claiming misogyny against games that simply used easy to explain plots that can quickly start the game?	/r/MensRights	17/08/13 12:33 PM
14	If a man doesn't want sex, he must be broken and is a "crappy" partner It's not always trolls who say this though, there's a lot of otherwise-sensible people who buy into this crap	/r/MensRights	15/08/13 12:49 PM
66	If a man doesn't want sex, he must be broken and is a "crappy" partner This is like saying women are hardcoded to cook and clean and be submissive. This men thinking about sex every 7 seconds is bullshit, many men don't have these endless libidos like the TV caricatures that supposedly represent masculinity. I've met women with higher libidos than myself and have had this same shit said asking why I'm not a real man.	/r/MensRights	15/08/13 12:11 PM
74	If a man doesn't want sex, he must be broken and is a "crappy" partner I hate that this is what is thought of in relationships If I say I want to have sex with my girlfriend and she's not in the mood, fine. I go off to do my business or just do something else. Does not affect me. If my girlfriend wants sex and I say I'm not in the mood, not fine. They then say that they feel fat/ugly or that I must be cheating on them because how could I not want sex?	/r/MensRights	15/08/13 12:03 PM
3	Why are you a MRA? Was there a single defining moment for you or was it a culmination of events? Sorry I'm at work I'm on my mobile, don't want to search the words "sexualisation of children" no matter what the reasons are on my work computer. If you search that with germane greer in the title it should come up with a video of her saying it directly	/r/MensRights	14/08/13 10:52 AM
13	Why are you a MRA? Was there a single defining moment for you or was it a culmination of events? For me it's been a whole bunch of reasons at one; hearing family members losing opportunities to see their kids even though they are great dads. Having germaine Greer given airtime on political discussions I usually enjoy watching and seeing people agree with her when she says a father hugging kids is "sexualising" them. Having depression as a man and realising its a lot less well accepted, since I'm not able to show emotion in society. Bringing up said depression with women who said I'm a man w…	/r/MensRights	14/08/13 06:41 AM
3	Insights on the female pedophile, and feminists' denial of its existence. She also said that dads hugging their kids is "sexualising them", she is a bigot that thinks of men as uncontrollable sex objects. Also her first name is germaine, in case others want to look at her horrible notions	/r/MensRights	12/08/13 05:30 PM
23	Michael Shermer accused of rape on blog. Feminist mod: "There will be no benefit of the doubters or devils advocates" here. Due process? But witch hunts are so much easier!	/r/MensRights	11/08/13 02:24 PM
2	Abused men of Reddit, help me understand. In terms of a bad relationship, mine seems infinitely more trivial than what your boyfriend has gone through but I will only state what has worked for me and you can take it or leave it depending on whether you think it's relevant. Feel free to skip to the end for just the advice. My ex-girlfriend kind of knew I had some depressive issues and used personal information I'd confided in her to hurt me whenever I did something wrong and it got to the full blown wanting to kill myself, looking up how…	/r/MensRights	11/08/13 02:32 AM
3	Methodist Pastor jumps on the "Teach Boys Not To Rape" bandwagon. Can we write a list of rules of how pastors shouldn't rape the young children in their care? Oh wait that's not fair because its only a minority of cases...	/r/MensRights	10/08/13 01:36 AM
-1	"Don't rape should be taught alongside eat your vegetables and look both ways when crossing the road. I think it would work, and if it doesn't, society has lost precisely nothing in trying it." Apparently Feminists think people need to be told not to rape? Next they'll be telling me I shouldn't murder hitchhikers. Feminists keep latching onto this idea and I fear it will be widespread within the next few years, I sense there will be arguing with schools and teachers when I have kids some day about teaching these issues.	/r/MensRights	10/08/13 01:34 AM
12	How is it Robin Thicke is a rape apologist, but no one mentions Pink supporting DV? I'm offended by your well reasoned argument	/r/MensRights	09/08/13 07:25 PM
84	When a feminist pulls the misogyny card during a discussion over an abuse button on Twitter Change the subject, interrupt after they've listened to your argument, use the privilege card, "help I'm being oppressed", straw man arguments, use the gender card. The feminazis must be proud	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 11:19 AM
3	Judge sentences woman to 6 years in prison for pimping out her 11 year old daughter. A jury trial could have given her 25 years. Now the john goes on trial. Was very confused when first read the title. I was quite sure the queens mother was dead.	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 01:22 AM
25	So I guess all the "nerd" bashing of boys I've heard throughout my life (both real and in the media) is just a hallucination He was really popular	/r/MensRights	06/08/13 08:19 PM
19	Don't Lose the Lads' Mags I could not agree more, I do not buy lads mags because they're shit but if we're going to make it hard to get them I think the same should be done for these women's magazines. I think its far more damaging to point out everything wrong with how a normal woman, or even one that is far more attractive than most of the readers and editors of the magazine, looks in photos she is not preparing for. Also they always want to go down the cosmo route and give out shitty relationship which pisses me off n…	/r/MensRights	05/08/13 01:34 PM
4	A Guy buys a girl drinks, she doesn't go home with him, but gets into accident killing people when she leaves him at bar, Police issue warrant for Man's arrest for getting her drunk. Breaking news: women can't look after themselves, lets blame the men for all their mistakes	/r/MensRights	04/08/13 11:05 AM
24	Just more feminism double standards MYAH!	/r/MensRights	03/08/13 05:19 PM
480	Just more feminism double standards It really is an issue where I just think "hey, what's going on?"	/r/MensRights	03/08/13 03:57 PM
8	Twitter boss issues an apology to women who have suffered abuse online (but not the men) All I hear from this apology is "we see women as unable of defending themselves so we have to do it for you. We see all those women that get threats and trolls on twitter as being unable to stop themselves feeding those trolls" Many of the people targeted feed the trolls by linking it back into how men are pigs etc.	/r/MensRights	03/08/13 03:14 PM
7	Damsel in Distress: Part 3 - Tropes vs Women in Video Games No discussion, someone might say something dumb	/r/MensRights	02/08/13 09:25 AM
34	Men's Rights Movement Attracts Angry Young Men -- Macleans.ca Nah man we should totally respect women, and by respect I mean apologise for our own gender and never discourage sexism against men.	/r/MensRights	02/08/13 12:31 AM
2	Australian Sex Discrimination Commission OKs paying men less for the same work Can we not descend into posting stuff like this? I like MRA being a place of civilised discussion not sound bites	/r/MensRights	02/08/13 12:01 AM
12	Study: Women admit to committing more dating violence than men Yeh well all men are liars. That's totally the reason why this study disagrees with feminist mantra	/r/MensRights	31/07/13 11:03 PM
1	Male suicide rate caused by....patriarchy and sexism I have found personally that the other men in my life have really stripped away the stereotypical view of men when I've told them I've had depression. They have shared so much of how they've had similar thoughts and saying how they see me as the happiest guy they know and offer every bit of support. The ones who have responded poorly or ignored it have been mostly the women, girlfriends and friends who say I have nothing to be sad about and that they have so many more things to worry about. We a…	/r/MensRights	29/06/13 08:24 PM
3	Double standards. Why does breast cancer have the biggest amount of public exposure when prostate cancer is the most common type, and kills more people?? I couldn't agree more with you, I'm currently being treated for depression and I've had shrinks who don't help so I changed until I found one that gave me lifestyle advice that actually worked. I was bounced off of three different antidepressants before I found one that worked and its annoying how people wont listen when you say the drugs make your life feel like shit	/r/MensRights	24/06/13 09:09 AM
33	Australian men should be a little more feminine Man being comfortable with his own sexuality and having a good heart does not make him feminine. What is this fixation some women have that all the good traits are feminine and all the bad ones are masculine?	/r/MensRights	23/06/13 07:09 AM
5	Double standards. Why does breast cancer have the biggest amount of public exposure when prostate cancer is the most common type, and kills more people?? Depression underlies suicide which is more treatable than many cancers	/r/MensRights	23/06/13 05:14 AM
1	well i finally did it! i told all the important people in my life i was an MRA? went better than expected too. When I started telling people how I felt about mens rights they weren't surprised, as it went with my personality of always questioning things and pointing out double standards. I feel glad I've actually brought a few girls around to my way of thinking too.	/r/MensRights	20/06/13 07:23 AM
4	I've noticed a trend in the media: The sexualization of male friendship. I don't agree with your post, I thought it was more accepting of male bonding, rather than just two guys drinking scotch and talking about sports all the time. I do think some women seem to put down male relationships and guys need to exaggerate these qualities in order to justify their relationship with another guy. Overall I think it's better we have some guys who are portrayed investing emotions and feelings into relationships with their guy friends, showing that friends relationships mean ju…	/r/MensRights	20/06/13 06:41 AM
24	Naomi Wolf - the lone voice of reason in the feminist movement when it comes to False Accusations of Rape Jacelyn is basically saying that good sex is the only consentual sex. That would mean some of my girlfriends have raped me repeatedly.	/r/MensRights	17/06/13 06:44 PM
1	Samsung portrays men as unevolved slobs. I almost feel bad that I contributed money to this company previously for them to spend money on marketing like this. Will make me think twice about making the decision again	/r/MensRights	24/05/13 12:12 PM
1	new study: absence of fathers in early childhood leads to depression My parents are still together and always have been but my dad wasn't around much when I was young because he worked so much. I've been struggling with depression for years, was finally diagnosed last year and I could not agree more with this study. I've seen what single parenthood does, especially when the mother is trying to score points against the father	/r/MensRights	18/05/13 12:40 AM
2	Evolutionary Husband Samsung Commercial Lazy marketing, seems unusual for a technology company to go down this route with such a male customer base for the very latest technology. I actually get kind of pissed off that some women think its weird that I cook really fucking well, like I'm doing something wrong.	/r/MensRights	18/05/13 12:36 AM
1	Woman behind bars for false rape claim (From Oxford Mail) Glad to see there's some justice in my home city, it's bad that when I saw the title I already had a list of names of people I might know who perpetrated this.	/r/MensRights	18/05/13 12:10 AM
8	The Onion - Desperate Mom Okays Male Babysitter I just think one day I'm going to be a great dad and shit all over other people's expectations of me as a child caregiver. My dad wasn't around much when I was younger and it lead to me not knowing a lot about being a man in my teens. I've also struggled with depression and it just makes me more determined to make my future kids happy. It really makes me sad to see this as an "accepted" opinion enough for the onion, I didn't think we were such a low hanging fruit.	/r/MensRights	15/05/13 10:07 PM
17	Fuck this. (x-post r/standupshots) I take this the other way, if I could choose to be gay I could bypass all these issues of baby traps and bullshit alimony, then I would only have to answer for my imaginary pay check increase for having a y chromosome. My family and friends are all very accepting so it really wouldn't have any negatives.	/r/MensRights	15/05/13 10:00 PM
3	I think I did good. I'm always glad to be part of this community when I see this. Just because the argument is in our favour, doesn't mean we shouldn't strive to make it equal and unbiased.	/r/MensRights	09/05/13 11:31 AM
5	Radfems promise legal action to stop "bullying tactics from male rights extremists groups". Group of people with extremist opinions taking legal action against anyone who questions their one sided, bigoted views? I didn't realise radical feminism had just gone full Westboro baptist church on us	/r/MensRights	06/05/13 07:20 AM
1	I teach English to kids. Saw this in a textbook yesterday, annoyed me a little. You can buy devices that track speed, acceleration and brake times of your car and can be used to reduce your premiums (at least in the UK). Also the no claims bonus is a good measure, not just an automatic gender premium. I think I should not be judged for others of my gender, as a lot of posts on this subreddit argue. I am a good careful driver and it infuriates me when I see dangerous drivers who I know are paying less than me, even with more expensive cars.	/r/MensRights	17/04/13 07:28 PM
27	I teach English to kids. Saw this in a textbook yesterday, annoyed me a little. If you were to say that a certain racial group is worse at driving its discrimination. I don't care if some men are the worst drivers in our society, car insurance fees should be based solely on our ability and time since we last claimed. Thats why I'm glad that the UK has made men and women equal because its only fair. I'm 21 year old man and my fees are still ridiculous on a 10 year old car, they were higher than a girl of the same age who had written off a car before the laws changed.	/r/MensRights	17/04/13 11:57 AM
4	Saw this on my first day at university. It's the little things... It's so true, I think men just assume they're overworked, tired or that they've never really been able to be truly happy. I fit into that category and I only thought I actually might be depressed when I wrote a paper for my university course (I'm studying pharmacy). I realised these feelings weren't normal and it still took me a long time to accept that I needed a counsellor. Only just managed to get my life back on track now really.	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 01:51 PM
12	Saw this on my first day at university. It's the little things... As someone recently diagnosed with depression I applaud this poster for highlighting depression in men. I know only too well people responding poorly to my condition, i was surprised to find so many of them on the less sensible subreddits. Men report less depression than women but kill themselves at a much higher rate. There's clearly a problem that needs stopping.	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 09:45 AM
11	Saw this on my first day at university. It's the little things... I hear that, only started getting treatment about 6 months ago. I wish that people, including family and friends, wouldn't brush off depression simply because I'm a man.	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 09:41 AM
48	This pile of crap just showed up on Canadian "news". "Why men shouldn't be left alone with children". He's holding the camera with his own misogyny, that's what is laughing	/r/MensRights	30/03/13 12:01 AM
4	I am a liberal, and I find MRAs to be way less pushy and arrogant in their struggle than feminists, I found this comic on the "top" of "all time" in /r/feminisms. Is this how they feel when people bri I hate this view that men are only there to complain. I was furious when one of my lecturers went on and on about men complain about minor ailments (I study pharmacy). When the topic of depression came up she said that its something women suffer so much more with it. Left out that its underreported in men because men are actually ashamed to have it a lot. Left out how more men kill themselves than women. I'm currently taking antidepressants and its this shit that grinds my gears	/r/MensRights	25/02/13 01:38 PM
2	An Unlawful Refusal to Sell Emergency Contraception (to a man) As much as I appreciate the spirit of the post here, as a male trainee pharmacist I am torn as to my opinion. On the one hand, it makes no sense to discriminate the sale of medicines based on gender and the intentions of the sale is unlikely to cause problems. I would prefer to speak to the woman however, to counsel her as to ensure that giving her this medicine is right. A man will probably know when the unprotected sex happened, but unlikely to know all of the following: *When was your last pe…	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 09:38 PM
17	Prospect of an “artificial uterus” worries feminist – well good Was just thinking that, but that story can be spun by the media to say "men are silly, let's get rid of them".	/r/MensRights	24/09/12 09:55 AM
4	Woman who falsely claimed she was raped by three men because she regretted having sex with them jailed for two years And that's why I don't go out in Nottingham on a Saturday night...	/r/MensRights	18/09/12 02:10 PM
13	Oh look it's this crap again: "The excessive use of video games in pursuit of the next thing is creating a generation of risk-adverse guys who are unable (and unwilling) to navigate the complexities and risks inherent to real-life relationships, school and employment" Some men's minds tell them to play video games and sleep in all day but a lot of them don't, they restrain themselves and get jobs and go to school. Men don't need to be "taught" any more than women do about contributing to society, we're expected to be providers. If a woman is just relying on support from her husband, has no job and no kids how is she contributing to society?	/r/MensRights	24/05/12 02:18 PM
77	Oh look it's this crap again: "The excessive use of video games in pursuit of the next thing is creating a generation of risk-adverse guys who are unable (and unwilling) to navigate the complexities and risks inherent to real-life relationships, school and employment" But there's no "excessive watching of romantic comedies and reading trashy romance novels has lead to a generation of women unable to accept that no man is without flaws, and that they do indeed deserve to be treated like royalty no matter how they treat their partner". It's true for some women but it's a generalisation, I wish the person who wrote that article would understand that.	/r/MensRights	24/05/12 11:29 AM