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The game wasn't meant to hold anything practical, it was a memoir about what happens when you let one aspect of your life control everything you do. If anything it was a warning about letting things like pickup define who you are.
/r/seduction04/11/13 04:03 AM
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I'm in New Orleans, the weather was really nice until around 930 when it got hot as balls then rained around 1130.
/r/seduction25/09/13 03:20 AM
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Fuck that, I had to walk about 200 yards at the port by the convention center this morning in my suit and I was sweating already.
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:12 PM
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But the weather was so nice this morning, for like an hour.
/r/seduction24/09/13 05:55 PM
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I wouldn't say that at all, it doesn't have a ton of theory or technique in it. What the game does is provide an awesome narrative about what happens when you let any one thing take your life over. The real story is that these guys all too pickup too seriously and ended up worse off because of it(excluding the author because he seemed to figure out the self destructive nature before he was too deep). The thing is it doesn't have to be pickup, it can be anything, if we obsess over any one thing t…
/r/seduction16/06/13 01:50 AM
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I currently have a great infatuation There's your problem.
/r/seduction20/04/13 02:52 AM
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I didn't say that at all; I don't know anyone who would advocate that. Being witty, funny, and not afraid of teasing someone is attractive. Being an asshole isn't attractive at all.
/r/seduction19/01/13 02:58 AM
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Being an asshole is not game.
/r/seduction19/01/13 02:38 AM
1

No offense, but taking pickup advice from pre-scripted scenes performed by actors is probably the worst idea ever. His body language is over-exaggerated and only works for the scene because the scripted responses of the other actors.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:18 AM
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Heh, northwestern mutual.
/r/seduction22/09/12 12:27 PM
1

Take up space meh, depends on the positioning, you don't want to be all spread eagle and shit but if you're on a couch spread out a little Hands in pockets/legs crossed while standing displays comfort. do what's natural, hands all the way in the pockets looks strange, I like to keep the fingers in but the thumb out but that's just comfy for me. Steady movement over jerky action. yeah, I guess, this is more of a just don't be a spaz thing. my suggestion? look up those actors that your female frie…
/r/seduction19/09/12 06:27 AM
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I usually just ignore it; give an answer like "uh huh" or something. this doesn't lock me in to any particular position and if you're doing your job and building attraction it won't be a deterrent anyway.
/r/seduction12/09/12 04:38 AM
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N.b. decided to use a throwaway. would have worked if you didn't post the same thing right here under your non throwaway account: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/zbpz4/18_yo_virgin_how_important_is_sex_really/
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:19 AM
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oh damn, you really sold the lie eh? this one is most probably a lost cause outside of a one night stand or something, I still think my above suggestion is the best approach if you have to face the subject, just hope it's far enough in the future that memories are a bit fuzzy. also lesson learned, never sell a lie to get a number. you just might have to face it later on.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:13 AM
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as important as you make it.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:03 AM
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if it comes up just tell her you're 22 and act like she's ditzy for remembering the wrong age.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:02 AM
4

By the time your dick is out you're fine unless you've met someone who is really fucked up.
/r/seduction27/08/12 12:31 PM
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possible, but I think a general discussion on how to not go overboard with "alpha" or pickup behavior in general would be beneficial anyway, so I'll humor him.
/r/seduction04/07/12 08:56 PM
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I thought girls were supposed to like assholes though? figuratively, like the guy who doesn't cater to everything she wants, the guy who won't buy her a drink, that sort of stuff. not the guy who walks up to someone in a club and calls him a fag for no reason. I also figured if he got mad and started a fight with me that he would look like the idiot. probably not, he didn't start a fight cuz he was jealous, he started a fight because some random dude called him a fag for no reason. that makes yo…
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:48 PM
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I walked up and said "hey gorgeous" to the girl and "sup fag" to the guy. Then I was like "there's some guys over there for you to talk to". ... "you're talking to this guy. We all make mistakes I guess." I'm going to say this as nicely as possible. you were not being suave, a pua, alpha, or anything there. you were being an asshole. more than likely you made the other guy look "alpha" by being able to easily stand up to and deal with some random asshole who insulted him for no reason. being alp…
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:29 PM
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this is the crux of the entire idea of seduction, if you try too hard or come on to forceful you cross that line between outgoing and confident and slide in to a dick who is creeping on women all the time. give us a few play by plays, everything said between you and the girl with her facial expressions, settings, everthing. this will help us to point out what may be going wrong.
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:42 PM
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Just call.her, tell her.you were busy apartment shopping, The worst that can happen is she says no.
/r/seduction22/05/12 02:08 AM
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On the head? The fuck? That's really strange, sure she freaked out and did something completely unwarranted but that's strange bro. For the record don't approach from behind, it throws the girl in defensive mode and makes it look like you're needy, its just a bit awkward in general. Always approach from the side/front area.
/r/seduction17/05/12 12:17 AM
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Usually I'm not this picky but for Christ's sake learn to type.
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:59 PM
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oh, missed the week ago part, oh well, win some/lose some.
/r/seduction24/04/12 04:59 AM
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your text didn't necessitate a reply, plans were already set and you just indicated you were on the way. plus your friends are there, if she shows that's great, if not you're still good. I'm guessing she'll show but don't text her anymore if she's running late or something, the ball is in her court now.
/r/seduction24/04/12 04:46 AM
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uhhh, any girl that is throwing around the L word after a week or so is not someone I want to be casually messing around with.
/r/seduction23/03/12 02:42 AM
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I think the best approach would be to spend money, not on yourself or the girl; like buy lapdances for friends, or buy a round of shots for your friends and tip well. maybe buy a lapdance for yourself and give her a slight neg at the end. you absolutely cannot make yourself a customer though, you're right.
/r/seduction07/02/12 02:55 AM
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You're probably not actually creating true attraction. Remember a good stripper is a good actress, she's there for the money, you've got to spend enough to get her attention, but not enough to buy it. Also I doubt you can pick one up in one night, those types of things usually take a few times(assuming she's working)
/r/seduction06/02/12 07:42 PM
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Move on, IMO she's not interested and is just a pretty big slut working for tips. If she was interested you would have gotten a text by now, if you get one later proceed from there but as of now I think the general rule is if you've sent two consecutive texts with no response its time to drop it. And its very plausible for someone in the bar scene to still be sleeping past 1:20.
/r/seduction06/02/12 07:25 PM
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What would you guys do? I wouldn't bring it up, if she does just say something like "oh really, cool" it's no big deal really.
/r/seduction04/02/12 08:28 PM
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Iirc he was on a few radio shows and what not and is basically a massive fraud.
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:17 PM
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ummm... no, he doesn't. his points actually coincide with mine.
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:23 AM
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You uhhh... actually have anything to say about it? Perhaps reasoning? Otherwise I don't think this post of yours adds anything to the discussion.
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:16 AM
1

Shit, I just be friendly with everyone, I'm not worried if they're alpha or beta or anything. You'll look dumb if you exclude others because.they're 'beta'
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:46 PM
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tips: don't worry about it; life is not a social contest. if you try to make yourself appear more 'alpha' then you will most likely fail. keep it casual, keep confident, be engaging. talk to the dude, become friends, it's a good thing and will build social proof. whatever you do don't be a dick to the guy, that makes you look weak and insecure.
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:19 AM
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guys, don't you ever realize that striving so hard to be 'alpha' defeats the point entirely. seduction/life are about being confident and driven, that is in a nutshell what 'alpha' is but to strive towards some arbitrary name makes you lose sight of where you're actually headed. oh, and if you're truly 'alpha' then interaction doesn't matter as you're confident enough in yourself to not have to engage in a silly social dynamic of trying to appear more or less 'alpha' then the guy next to you. ju…
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:12 AM
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I don't get why people feel it's cool to make fun of dudes on the internet just because they're strange, you'd look like a douche making fun of him in person so why do it online?
/r/seduction19/01/12 02:40 PM
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even when he does not actively interfere thanks, I'm glad you were able to wikipedia kant but your premise is completely wrong to begin with. a 'boyfriend destroyer'(god these names are cheesy) is an active method with which to inerfere with an established relationship. it's not necessary in a casual relationship or in instances where the female is going to cheat anyway and thus the entire argument you just laid forth is false. secondly your definitions of insecurity are completely out of line w…
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:47 AM
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which is immature, anyone who's experienced life understands that relationships develop in stages and shades, it's not a black or white endeavor.
/r/seduction18/01/12 12:40 AM
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This knee jerk reaction that someone's gf should be untouchable stems from your insecurity. you're oversimplifying what I was saying. secondly I really don't get reddit(especially seddit)'s obsession with linking a disagreement to some type of insecurity. In this particular example it simply makes no sense, I'm a pretty confident guy, like most I have some insecurities but they're rarely with women. More importantly there is no possible way you can logically link insecurities with making a consc…
/r/seduction18/01/12 12:18 AM
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that's a pretty immature way to view relationships.
/r/seduction18/01/12 12:11 AM
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and out in the club actively looking to get dick we've talked about this false premise already, stop using it. if the girl is out looking to get laid it's an entirely different dynamic and 'boyfriend destroyers' are not necessary and probably detrimental. Fuck it. Keep not closing girls. by demonstrating to others that I have an attractive female in a relationship as one of my close friends I build social proof and am able to position myself to easily be introduced to friends and others. remembe…
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:58 AM
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your entire response is a massive strawman, we're talking about instances where a girl actually has a committed monogamous boyfriend. all of these examples about swingers, her using it as a bitch-shield, etc are simply bullshit. and your attempt to reframe the argument is laughable; the op's post is clearly about actively pursuing a taken girl. using precise cognitive cues and anchoring to change her subconscious feelings towards both the boyfriend and the 'sarger'. you attempt to make it seem l…
/r/seduction17/01/12 03:37 AM
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Not bitter, its widely accepted that trying to break up an established relationship.is a douche move.
/r/seduction16/01/12 11:53 PM
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kinda seeing someone is different than a committed boyfriend. if a girl mentions she is dating, talking to, or seeing someone that's still fair game imo, if it's an established boyfriend then back out gracefully and friend zone her. she's probably got plenty of friends she'd love to play "matchmaker" with for you anyway. a good way of digging this up is ignoring it the first time she mentions it, if she mentions it again ask her how long they've been together. if she hesitates or says it's just …
/r/seduction16/01/12 11:21 PM
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you may have no problem with that because you're morally bankrupt but anyone with even mild ethics doesn't mess with committed girls on purpose. seduction isn't about sticking your dick in every piece of meat you can find through whatever cold calculating means you can find. it's about being able to meet more people, and overcome your own roadblocks to being successful with women. it's about building yourself in to a higher value individual. also, on a more logical note; women talk, once they fi…
/r/seduction16/01/12 10:40 PM
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Sorry dude, most self respecting men wont go after a girl in a committed relationship.
/r/seduction16/01/12 09:41 AM
1

just start reading around this sub a lot, take it with a grain of salt but for the most part there's a lot of good info here on how to overcome your social anxieties. also, and I know it's not super popular here, but pick up a copy of 'the game' by niel strauss. not because it's got incredible tips on picking up girls, it really doesn't, but because it's an excellent view in to one mans journey from being an average chump, to learning about himself and social interactions, to becoming a master o…
/r/seduction13/01/12 06:08 AM
6

I've had nothing but good experiences at a gay club, you don't really have to worry about breaking down defenses much as the women think you're either gay or must be pretty awesome/confident to be hanging out in a gay bar. go with a gay friend though, it's sorta strange to go there just to hit on girls and they'll figure it out really fast.
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:23 AM
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meet more girls. there's a bunch out there.
/r/seduction04/12/11 06:56 PM
7

no, you don't. have a few drinks, enjoy yourself, but I promise you a drunk girl doesn't really know the difference between a buzzed guy at a party and a drunk guy at a party. she does know the difference between a dude who says the right things and a dude who slurs his shit and spouts off all sorts of nonsense because he's drunk.
/r/seduction20/11/11 08:36 AM
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but I just couldn't do it. I wasn't drunk enough stop relying on alcohol as a crutch, it makes your game worse and you often end up saying stupid shit that won't help you. try just sipping all night and relaxing yourself mentally.
/r/seduction20/11/11 08:24 AM
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I don't think you understand the concept of women testing men. I've seen dudes fain miserably by being too aggressive. And yes, one instance was after a girl grabbed his cock.
/r/seduction18/11/11 08:43 PM
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Pua advice? Please, you sound like a kid. Life is more about developing inner game and letting that flow on the outside. I've personally used that line before and had it work wonders, if you don't want to take the advice that's on you. And yes, you can talk at a loud concert. For all you know her grabbing the dick could be a test, I've seen women grab on guys before only to shut them down for being too aggressive later.
/r/seduction18/11/11 06:01 PM
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Not if you do it confidently. It puts you in a position of authority and makes her the one chasing you. She then will have to qualify herself to you. The ultimate goal isn't to be chasing after the girl but have her subconsciously working to get with you.
/r/seduction18/11/11 05:25 PM
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Tell her to slow down, she's gotta take you to dinner or something first.
/r/seduction18/11/11 05:16 PM
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