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13

100% confirmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:31 AM
8

It's so funny bc I literally have never had a guy make me orgasm. Ever. They are shit in bed. Please god make them their sex robots already so we can find peace. I'd rather be with a woman any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:08 AM
25

Yup, learned that the absolute hard way. Need that money now more than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:33 AM
15

Probably, i'm sure they think plan b is some kind of abortion pill lmfao. I mean they've been trying to get planned parenthood shut down for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:48 AM
6

I've been planning moving out of the US for a year now but still struggling. Soon though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:45 AM
14

I will never get over how there would be an abortion clinic on every corner if men were the ones who got pregnant. May they all burn in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:40 AM
141

This is why you don't use Tinder. It's literally like a sick mobile game that men play when they're bored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:45 AM
111

This. My old therapist even told me this!? She told me "that level of romance and love and lust just isn't sustainable, it's called the honeymoon period sweetie." Wtf. I dumped her after 3 appointments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:13 AM
73

This. Every workaholic I've ever known or dated had serious addiction problems with many other things in their life including alcohol, weed, drugs, porn, cheating, "the chase," etc. It is a huge red flag for personality problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 07:51 AM
6

Not the inner demons LMFAOOOO. Everyday we stray further from me being attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:04 AM
31

Yep, he had been pursuing amber for like a decade lol. Grimes is backup and he even used her to make amber jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:00 AM
38

Sounds exactly like my most recent relationship/ex. Refused to help me get my career jump started even though we were both in the same field and he was well established in the LA film scene and had connections. REFUSED. And would never pay for me and made a big deal out of having to buy me gifts. Biggest piece of shit I've ever met. Grimes is the biggest pickme in the world, people have been telling her that for years. She screams insecure though. I don't even feel bad for her. She'll learn the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:57 AM
5

Same 😔 my relationships in my 20s are my deepest regrets. I would do anything to go back in time. I'm just glad I know better and am healing now. The one bright side I keep trying to tell myself is that at least I only ruined a decade of my life, it could have been so much more. I never married them. I never had their children. I now know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:34 AM
3

LMFAO. Men will always have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:25 AM
62

Yes, but remember that even if they DID manage to get the "dream girl" they'd still cheat and fuck it up. Men are an anomaly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:15 AM
92

Goddamn, the truth in this comment! I've had three different men tell me I am their absolute dream girl (and I agree with them, I'm awesome and gorgeous lol), only to end up leaving me for: Ex 1) a comfortable and mentally messed up ex because he was insecure as fuck, and he knew his ex would never leave him if they married. Ex 2) sabotaged the relationship because he didn't think he was good enough for me and couldn't live up to my expectations. At the time, I didn't even have any lol. Ex 3) ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:13 AM
17

Holy shit, did you date my ex? (Wouldn't be surprised, he cheated the entire time). He did everything you say, down to him having some weird fear of me exploiting him by playing "victim." He needs serious help, but alas, he is already dating and on tinder again after 5 days of a two year relationship lol. He will never mature or learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:17 AM
18

I just broke up with my NVM because he exhibited all of these towards me. He stonewalled me for weeks any chance he could get. NEVER AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:15 AM
41

Same! FDS has helped me SO MUCH, I could cry. My people pleasing has gotten better, and I blocked my ex, not allowing him to come back with a reply to my breakup text. You want to ignore me for weeks? Go fuck yourself, I don't want an apology. I used to put up with bad, abusive behavior for months/years. Not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:26 AM
17

Unfortunately this is probably the right conclusion. When I think about the crazy stuff I believed and put up with and allowed, I'm like... was I even conscious during the relationship?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:44 AM
3

Oh fuck no. This might be one of the worst I've read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:40 AM
10

This is exactly what i am trying to learn, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:18 AM
46

Yep, this is why i hate onlyfans even more than regular porn. It's creating monsters out of everyday men and women, completely bleeding porn into everyday life, and blurring the line that once seperated porn stars who are ACTING, from real life. I'm so sick of scrolling twitter and just seeing ass after ass after ass of girls I follow promoting their OF, and thinking they're better than girls who don't have one bc "every man wants them." Yes, it's such an accomplishment to be seen as a set of ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:14 AM
14

Yes, two of my exes negged me constantly. Most recent one was dumb as shit and thought badly of college and that it was a waste of time and money. He would make fun of me constantly and downplay my degree from a top 20 US private university.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:05 AM
49

It's the toxic porn positive culture and plastic surgery becoming SO normalized. Young women think they have to be the best looking, sluttiest, plastic anime girl for men on the internet bc their boyfriends expect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:31 AM
36

I've legitimately never had an orgasm from a man, so. And not a single one of my exes ever tried to please me or make me come, so again... I hate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:09 AM
6

I don't really snoop on anyone, except my abuser because I WANT to know how shitty his life has gotten lol. A mutual friend keeps me updated if I ask. The company he moved away/ghosted me for is in the gutter and he's about to lose his job LMAO. He married some girl who looks like Gollum, is unemployed and depending on his income + insurance, and has more issues than a magazine subscription. He thought I had problems, oh honey. He is also completely balding and has a ton of new wrinkles because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:07 AM
64

My cringe story? I had been talking, video chatting, and texting with a cool guy every day for 2 months. Thought I really found someone special. Turns out he hid his real life. Scrote made me drive 6 hours to meet him (I was moving to his city in the upcoming months and needed a little vacation from work anyways, this is how I justified it at least). He slept until 5pm so I couldn't get a hold of him to confirm/tell him I was on my way until I was already halfway there. I get there and his place…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:42 PM
14

Idgi either, my last THREE longterm relationships were all with men who rarely brushed their teeth, never ever before bed 🤢 and occasionally if they "remembered" in the morning. Excuse of my most recent ex? "Well I never have cavities when I go to the dentist." 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:30 PM
28

I agree with this, just like HVM partners, there are HVM friends. It's rare, but possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:06 AM
85

Men literally fuck their car's exhaust pipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:00 AM
11

I do this because I hate being bothered in public and for some reason, strangers love talking to me. Occasionally I'll get a man calling me a bitch. Lol. So be prepared for men to retaliate (hopefully not violently).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:55 AM
192

I don't even believe most men have real feelings for women or want to be in love, even when they say they do. Sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:56 AM
32

Hope she dumps him and he has fun trying to have sex with porn stars. LOL. What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:44 AM
2

Happy Gilmore and 50 First Dates are his only tolerable comedic movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:43 AM
142

He probably wants all male sons too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:35 AM
6

I literally dont even want a chad, lol. I am not attracted to that super fit alpha male type look that incels think every woman wants. And having a partner with money who treats you to gifts and makes sure you feel special is not being a golddigger, my GOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:33 AM
28

My ex told me he hadn't washed his hair in 5 weeks, I'm.... still speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:15 AM
39

Yep. I sought closure after being ghosted from a 4 year relationship. I sought it for so long that I completely lost myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:56 PM
100

Lol, this is exactly why we warn younger girls about older males. The ONLY reason a man in his 30s and 40s is going after barely legal girls is to manipulate them into doing things that they know any self respecting, mature woman would never do. I would tell him to go take a permanent hike, whereas this poor college aged girl is being manipulated into thinking she has to do horrible things in order to be a good girlfriend. Sigh. Someone bring her to FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:48 PM
69

Yep, this is the #1 thing. Every piece of shit I've dated has had an irrational anger towards overweight women and an obsession with my weight. It used to boggle my mind why my ex would, out of nowhere, point out some overweight woman who was minding her business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:41 AM
16

Combination of porn addiction + oversexualization in our culture + numbness that comes from it. In other words, men are needing more and more vile, deranged things in order to get off because everything has become so normalized, and in their mind, "boring." I legitimately have no hope for men. It's just going to get worse with every generation living more and more online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:38 AM
1

Lmaooo, she is the absolute queen AND king of roasting. I will never forget how hard she dragged tf out of Elon Musk while sitting in his house. (Yes, she is terrible, but a girl can laugh.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:23 AM
27

Nothing but applause for this comment, wow 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:48 AM
10

Good for you! I wish I could find people who like to outdoors stuff like that, because that's what I love to spend my time doing too 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:30 PM
11

This is the ONLY reason they do it, at least, for LVM. They are highly manipulative and want you to expect the least out of them while being the most obedient cool girl. They know that the more they complain about their ex, the more you are going to want to "compete" against her to prove to him that you are "better."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:08 AM
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I'm pretty sure the dude replying is being sarcastic. That's what happens when you post stuff like this that should be common sense?? What is this girl thinking lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:05 AM
5

What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:08 AM
2

I agree with others that it is more than likely a mental block, over anything. I have what you're describing as "porn pussy" and I have never came from sex either. Masturbation is incredibly personal and can be whatever you want it to be, I would try getting to know and accept your body more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:05 AM
8

Yes same lol. I also would get "I love how independent you are" as a double whammy manipulative tactic as a way for them to: 1) do absolutely jack shit for me in the relationship, I didn't even get the bare minimum of hanging out more than once a week, 2) not give me any emotional connection, support, or affection, and 3) a way to neg me INTO being more independent as a way to "please" him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:59 AM
17

This is so insane lmfao, what is WRONG with men? JUST BE SINGLE AND LEAVE US ALONE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:41 AM
30

My last ex did this, except I didn't even know he had a tinder. Guess who reactivated it and was using it out of nowhere last summer for a month when we got into an argument?? Pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:39 AM
2

Man, i saw this on my fyp on tiktok. I'm just glad she's leaving, and hope she doesn't go back, AND that he doesn't turn violent/stalker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:38 AM
33

Mine did this too omfg. Even worse, when we would go out to a bar, he loved to people-watch (women only lol, god I really hate him), and he would point out a bartender or some woman and ask me, "How old do you think she looks?" as a way to neg me into getting plastic surgery. I'd say "idk, mid 30s?" because they looked normal and pretty, and looked their age. And he'd go on and on about no way, she looks sooooo old and women need to take care of themselves blah blah blah. Fuck outta here 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:01 PM
16

Right, lol? Our entire culture, society, WORLD, is dedicated to men's opinions and desires. Fuck off with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:01 AM
2

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:53 AM
19

This. I kind of hate this pickme idea of feeling "special" because some douche came crawling back. You should feel better when they DON'T. You know, and they know, that you are above them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:52 AM
3

Like others said, this is not at all foolproof. My ex had perfect behavior on our multiple trips. He was diagnosed with NPD, and was cheating/triangulating me the entire year we dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:50 AM
12

An old ex was stalking me and I had a panic attack on the phone with my NVM ex because my old ex turned up at my job. NVM wouldn't comfort me, instead said, "men get stalked and killed too, if you were really worried you would go to the police," before hanging up. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:48 AM
31

If this is a director you're talking about, I think I know who it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:18 AM
29

GOOD! Always, always trust your gut about men, it could seriously save your life. Do not hesitate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:16 AM
15

Ding ding ding. Emotionally neglectful and lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:27 AM
9

Sounds like my most recent ex lol. He is legit the most selfish, self-absorbed person I've encountered and idolozes Daniel Day Lewis' character in Phantom Thead LMAO. (if any of yall have seen it, you know what I put up with for a year). I was in absolute awe that he had a few friends. Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:24 AM
29

Not the crotch-shrimp 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:13 AM
13

Yes, so much yes. This is what happens to emotionally stunted, porn addicted men who think the world revolves around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:42 AM
28

Yet another example of: Straight men want to be oppressed so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:25 AM
21

I just don't get it lol. Men have masturbated for centuries without porn. Highly sexual women masturbate without porn to this day (me). Nobody NEEDS porn, it's an addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:57 AM
3

My brother never washed his hands after peeing or defecating 🤡 I dont really talk to him anymore but whoever he ends up with.. I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:30 AM
7

This sounds exactly like my ex who had NPD. Like almost textbook behavior, scary. The std part was the worst. He said he wanted me to go with him to his blood test and then at the last second he told me no, came back with no bandage on his arm or any sign of a needle puncturing him, and then said he lost the results a few days later. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:28 AM
5

Thank you for this, I really needed it 😭 all of my mental issues (a lot from men) really cloud my judgment. I've gotten so much better though with FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:20 AM
10

Oh man, I know the silent treatment all too well. I get such bad anxiety from it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:18 AM
12

Your point on animal cruelty almost made me cry. I DESPISE people who are cruel to animals, I mean most people do but, omg there was blood 😔 My 5 reasons are from multiple differen LVM, not just one: He hid me: Don't want to go into details because I'm deeply embarrassed/ashamed by it and it triggers my c-ptsd, but we were in a long distance relationship for most of 4 years and none of his friends knew about me. Only his mom & dad. Wouldn't interact with me on social media. This one really fucke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:16 AM
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Omg that's... one of the most insane things I've ever read. Wtf. I'm so sorry you had to deal with it but I'm laughing at his clown ass so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:05 AM
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Never 👏 chase 👏 men 👏 ladies. Show your interest, and be interested, but do not chase. Also beware of love-bombing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:49 AM
13

Lol, sounds like my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:40 AM
12

Men don't like outspoken women, that's literally all it is. Any strong opinions or defiance is seen as either annoying or a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:39 AM
2

This is literally not true, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:36 AM
8

Oh, this is awful. It's just going to discourage people from using them even more, leading to more unsafe sex, diseases, and unwanted pregnancies. Smh. This country will never f*cking learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:35 AM
10

She's definitely never had an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:12 AM
5

This is so fucking embarrassing and PATHETIC. I really hope every porn addicted pervert knows that they are embarrassing, like I'm sorry but imagine your life being this lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:10 AM
3

Just here to give some support. My entire 20's were littered with horrible relationships, narcissistic high-functioning addicts, and an abusive man who hid me for years. So trust me when I say, I know how you're feeling. I've never really had any friends, I drifted away from my brother who I was once extremely close with, and my entire worth came from my horrible exes and the small comfort they provided. I was petrified of being alone. But now, years later, I actually prefer it. I am MENTALLY an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:46 AM
2

Oh dear god, this one is really bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:55 AM
3

Sounds like my awful ex. I was at the vet while my dog was dying unexpectedly and he ignored me. Wouldn't answer my calls or texts for days and then finally texted, "you better yet?" Like if I had said no, he would have went back to ignoring me 🤡🤡🤡 Fuck that dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:34 AM
2

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:28 AM
2

What the fuck LMAO. I'm sorry but... "holes???!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:27 AM
1

Right there with ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:17 AM
7

Oh my GOD, this is the worst lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:12 AM
9

Wow, very much me. I feel incredible while single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:12 AM
8

Not only did I have my entire college experience ruined, I developed severe depression, anxiety, and agoraphobia because of my abusive ex ☺ I thought I was dying. All of this because he took out his own mental problems on me, then ghosted me by moving away and getting married without telling me when he felt better. And then blackmailing me into staying quiet by saying he'd say i abused him. Men sure are fucking great!!! I am SO MUCH better now that he's gone, and have never experienced that kind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:11 AM
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They are deranged lmao. The hollow, soul-sucking void inside them is so large and empty that the only way they can feel anything, let alone pleasure, is by being cruel, laughing at others, and using people. Imanine having to go through life like that, just miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:02 AM
51

This is true. I am very much 50/50 bi, and find it VERY difficult to ever find a man I am physically attracted to. They're either plain, boring, tying too hard to look like a douche, or just gross. Women, on the other hand... beauty all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:35 AM
14

They're delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:31 AM
29

Because men are secretly in love with... wait for it, other men. Their buddies provide them everything they need! They don't need a girl around to be friends with, just to stick their dicks in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:37 PM
24

Same here, except he stopped having sex with me after 3 months, I'm sure because he thought he "conquered" me and got bored. He kept me around for a year because he has no friends and is lonely, and I am a reformed people pleaser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:35 PM
20

Good lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:32 PM
33

On the contrary, I bet you he DID court her and lovebomb the fuck out of her. That is usually the only way these gross, insecure losers get incredibly cool and attractive girls. They don't want to have her, their fragile as fuck egos just want to see if they CAN get her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:31 PM
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LITERALLY MY INSECURE EX to a t, who cheated, ghosted me, and then married the plain girl 5 months later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:28 PM
6

She is sooo cute! None of my boyfriends have ever done this lol, they let me try their food though?? My one HVM ex would let me switch with him if I didn't like it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:04 PM
7

I'm so sorry. I've been there before, almost exactly to what you described in the first paragraph. It still makes me anxious to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:47 AM
14

Reading all these made me never want to date again. Oh my god. I don't want to put up with these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:46 AM
2

Sounds like my ex boyfriend's baby mama. She had his child when they were 20, then three more kids with THREE other different men. All her kids had different fathers. None ever married her, always cheated, and she was the only one who ever had a job while they stayed in her house playing video games/"looking" for jobs/living off insurance money or something. When I first met her, the dude she was with wouldn't even come out of his "office" to come say hi to me and my ex because he was playing vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:00 AM
2

Lol good. I'm so tired of seeing onlyfans and people putting their pussy on display everywhere I look, I hope more people realize they aren't getting rich off it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:50 AM
13

Unfortunately it is really women, especially young women. Just go look at the amount of them on twitter with onlyfans and doing nothing but posting nude photos and tweets like "i blow my bf 5 times a day, who wants me." It's pathetic and honestly an epidemic lol. It wouldn't bother me as much if it was EVER about their own sexual pleasure, but no it's only about bragging about how many gross dudes want to fuck them and how they'll do anything for them for validation. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:39 AM
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It's negging most likely. I once told a co-worker I do freelance work on the side and he said, I shit you not, "Like porn? That's what most girls mean when they say they do freelance." Yes totally, douche, I went to a top 25 university for writing & editing and I do porn on the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:47 AM
4

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:43 AM
8

Men were a mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:39 AM
4

Girl same. I never had an orgasm once and he never even tried 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:38 AM
11

Yes, this is what these young girls don't understand. No matter what you do they will still leave or cheat. They are sick in the head from porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:37 AM
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Jesus, you dodged a huge bullet! That guy unfollowed you to follow her because he is dating her. And he doesn't want her to know you two are together still. Dude is probably an insecure loser. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this! I have been there. You deserve better. Stay strong and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:33 AM
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Don't blame yourself, even when they try to blame you. They'll say you're bad in bed, too "loose," try to turn you into a pickme to try harder to please them, etc etc, do not let them. They have limp dick because nothing can get them off but their gorilla grip hands chafing their dicks to disgusting porn. NO vagina will ever have the kind of "tightness" that a hand has, no matter who you are, because that's not how vaginas are built or meant to be. Honestly, it makes me laugh. They have done thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:03 AM
12

True and amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:59 AM
23

Ahhh, my ex's favorite behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:05 AM
10

Right there with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:00 AM
16

Yep, I have been hurt by every single man that has ever been in my life, starting with my emotionally non-existant father and my lying, cold-hearted brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:00 AM
34

Same here. Even my therapist said it must be me that's the issue because I am the common denominator lmfao, I hated her. People, especially men, have taken advantage of my kindness my entire life, even when I set boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:58 AM
4

Ok but so many men do think like this, it's sick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:50 AM
2

Her facial expressions lmfaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:23 AM
2

Mine didn't work out because I was very young and wasn't ready for what he wanted: marriage, kids, etc, which I now know it wasn't an age thing, I never want those. Kids, at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:32 AM
14

Girl, same. I still beat myself up, but realistically that relationship happened from age 17-21 and the odds of it having lasted forever were slim. But still to this day i think about the HVM things he did for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:30 AM
3

Wtfff lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:29 AM
19

99.9% of men do not experience empathy, and if they do it has to revolve around themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:28 AM
11

This is it. They don't want to do even the bare minimum for anyone. Keep expectations low so she'll stay in line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:42 AM
8

Thank you for this. I hope to one day find a HVM! All of your stuff about NVM ring completely true to my awful experiences :( slowly rebuilding my spirit and passion for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:46 PM
29

Porn. That's literally the answer to every depraved man's brain. They have an obsession with "tight pussy," power imbalance, and girls who look 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:02 AM
3

Yep, I feel so bad for the woman my ex married (not really, she chose her awful bed to lie in). He hid me the entire 3 yr relationship. Old habits die hard because guess who didn't even post on social media or tell anyone that he got married lmfao. Meanwhile she is posting it everywhere, and he didn't even like the pics 💀💀 (My friend who is still in his friend circle told me, I have him blocked).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:52 AM
60

Yep, and they see nothing wrong with lying. They'll be like "so?" if you call them out. I'm sorry WHAT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:45 AM
89

They hate vaginas so much. I wish they'd all just be gay already, leave us alone 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:43 AM
14

Men are on tinder for 3 things only: nudes, attention/validation, and quick sex. This is why I would never, and have never, used dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:36 AM
10

Men are sf stupid, my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:34 AM
2

Exactly, all of my texts and videos and screaming phone calls are long gone, I wish I still had proof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:03 AM
7

I want to out mine so bad, he is very well-known on youtube, but I'm so scared. I still have complex PTSD from him 2 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:02 AM
12

Lmfao, men LOOOOVE playing devil's advocate about age gaps, it is fucking disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:43 AM
7

Lol, ask my ex. I was literally repulsed and awestruck after driving hours to meet up with him for the first time. His place was the most disgusting thing I'd ever seen, layers of dirt, grime, and hair in his bathroom and mold in his shower. Didn't even try to clean before I came over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:45 AM
10

Yeah, my ex called me bitter. He was the most selfish, two-faced, mean piece of shit lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:36 AM
8

Ok same but the LAST TWO GUYS I DATED! Wtf is wrong with these men?! Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:32 AM
10

Exactly, I have had nothing but horrible times at various therapists. People always say "therapy!" like it's a magic fix-all but it's done next to notning for me, even with the one therapist I liked for a bit. Also not everyone can afford therapy, like myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:30 AM
3

For real, I just could not ever imagine... my vagina dries up like the sahara when i read posts about 22 year old women with 2 kids asking for advice on how to get their scrote husband to spend time with them. No ty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:27 AM
13

Omg that's seriously adorable lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:52 PM
2

Every guy I've ever been with has been severely disappointing sexually, never went down on me, and rarely, if ever, got me to finish, and they have the audacity to tell me they'll make me cum in 5 minutes because they "love to please their partner." LMFAO, by love you mean ignore and jackhammer me?? I rarely felt pleasure, even when I asked them to do things a certain way for me, especially because there was never any passion or emotion or even making out. But oh did they love porn! They were al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:42 AM
7

Same here. Also my dog almost died and I got zero sympathy/comfort or a phone call. All I got was "sorry you're having a bad day!" Excuse me ?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:26 AM
2

Omg my recent ex scrote did this. He would purposefully ignore some of the things I addressed or act like he didn't understand like an idiot to make it all confusing for both of us, then bring up something I apparently did months ago to turn the argument on to me, then stonewall me for days, and NEVER apologize. I always apologized because he said I was "always mad about something" even though I didn't do anything. Maybe I wouldn't bring shit up if you were a decent fucking human being! The fury…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:23 AM
4

It's nothing but highly insecure pickme women that are rightwing extremists. They love the feeling of superiority when these ugly manchildren tell them they're so cool for being a trump supporter and beliving in crazy conspiracies. No one should pity these female-hating women. They are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:51 AM
3

Thanks, i want to die after reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:45 AM
32

Like others have said, time and going through it enough has sadly done it for me. I've deeply realized in my soul that most men have no empathy/emotions and that it has nothing to do with me. What I always say is that it is THEIR loss. What the f am I losing? Absolutely nothing. They add nothing to my life. They're the ones losing someone who cares, can love openly, and is loyal. Those are rare things in this day and age and you should be holding yourself up for possessing those qualities, not p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:33 AM
23

Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:04 AM
59

I get so damn depressed thinking about how awful men truly are, like deep down to their core. It's deranged. I hate seeing these posts and being reminded that we're fleshlights for them. What's the point of having a personality, wit, thoughts, interests, passions, curiosity about the world when all men want is to jerk off inside us. Sigh. End of venting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:02 AM
47

Yep, zero social media can be just as much a red flag as too much time spent on it. I am actually way more suspicious of it, because it's just too easy to hide another life without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:08 AM
2

One of the greatest and most true comments I've ever been blessed with reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:52 AM
9

Too many women like this 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:07 AM
7

Jesus, what a disaster of a "relationship." Someone please get her to FDS, nobody deserves to live such a shitty life like that. Her husband is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:06 AM
13

Yes 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:58 AM
89

Lol seriously. My last bf said this after 3 months and I walked out his door and never spoke to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:00 AM
41

This is literally 100% true. Tried and tested. Any guy who has said this to me did it as a "warning" because he knew he was going to sabotage it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:58 PM
3

Yep, I have CPTSD too from an emotionally abusive, highly manipulative relationship where he lied and hid me from everyone in his life for years. Still experience stress/major triggers 2 years after he ghosted me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:58 AM
6

Oh for sure. Demons just means "my personality disorder." Never again lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:21 PM
13

I wish someone had told me, taught me, and made me comprehend this 10 years ago. So much of my life wasted that I will never get back, begging for men to care about me and my wellbeing. I am proud of myself now, no matter how badly it fucking hurts when yet ANOTHER guy doesn't give a shit. Time to work on fixing my destroyed soul and nurture my heart 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:13 AM
15

Yep, terrible ingredients for your body too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:34 AM
10

Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:22 AM
10

Good for you, I wish I had done the same at your age. I am now beyond psychologically damaged from the shit I was put through. Not worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:20 AM
22

Hard agree. As dramatic as it sounds, I feel like it ruined any hope for a normal partner/future for me and it makes me so sad. I have never been with a man who tried to please me, unless I asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:18 AM
2

Been dealing with this. Been very sad this weekend from finally putting my foot down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:39 AM
9

Same here. My biggest life regret, and I hate that I can't get past it. Completely ruined the trajectory of my life and I still haven't recovered years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:32 AM
3

No, I really don't think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:31 AM
3

I do the same thing. I know it's not good to say this, but I wish nothing but hellish misery on mine too. A little part of me hopes one day he'll finally get his punishment after the abuse he put me through. I've been doing better about it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:28 AM
48

Same. Society has progressed past the need for those type of men and that type of thinking. It is not romantic or sexy if a guy is a douche to everyone but you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:10 PM
32

The "he changed for me" thing 🤢🤢 AWFUL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:09 PM
6

Artists, filmmakers, and writers will make your life a living hell. This is from experience. You will always come second, third, fourth to their massive and unwarranted egos lmfao. And will use "working" and being in a "creative" headspace as an excuse to never spend time with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:13 AM
3

Yes, this was me. Unfortunately both of my parents were emotionally shut off completely so I experienced that double.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:02 AM
6

Ty for this. I try to drill your last sentiment into my head every day even though it's so hard for me. My entire life I have subconsciously felt I am only good for sex & my looks because I developed very early. I know I am interesting, funny, smart, and a good catch but men have made me feel differently. Being desired is literally not even a compliment. Men will fuck ANYTHING. I can't beat myself up over pornsick losers who can't keep their eyes and dicks to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:58 PM
22

Yupppp. The ol' female harem for debilitating self-esteem issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:35 AM
13

True, I have also found them to be either Narcissists or predators. One had the biggest ego and narc behaviors I'd EVER seen, and the other was a semi famous dude who got cancelled for being a sexual predator and trying to fuck 16 year olds. I don't trust men who say they only have female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:33 AM
7

If I wasn't done with men before, i am now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:50 AM
11

Every avoidant I've dated has had a sick porn addiction. Not surprised. The men I've been with who had more secure attachments never spoke about their porn consumption or even made it known to me if they watched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:48 AM
2

It sucks so bad lol. Every damn time too, I feel so duped and humiliated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:14 PM
8

This. Sadly, many women (including myself) think that the only way they'll ever get a man or hold a man's attention is by being a perfect blow up doll porn star. We are preyed upon starting at such young ages that we internalize the idea that all we are good for is sex and sexual attraction. If someone doesn't find us attractive, we are useless. Hell, even my own mother played into it, encouraging this horrid behavior towards me at age 13 from middle aged men. It damaged me badly. I still am hyp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:12 PM
13

Girl WHAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:24 AM
1

It's only the GOAL if that is your goal... lol. If you don't want marriage, that literally doesn't apply to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:20 AM
18

Yeah, it's insane. They know he's going to cheat on them too right, lmfao? Not an accomplishment, and definitely not something to be proud of. You look f*cking stupid, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:47 AM
7

They don't care if we leave because they seriously (LMAO) think they can find another girl in 10 minutes to date them. We are nothing but things to be used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:30 AM
6

Good for you 👏 he is not your child, do not treat him like one any longer. I'm sorry you have to parent by yourself, but you will be happier in the long run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:27 AM
3

None of my exes except for one, ever cared about my wellbeing or happiness. It is incredibly sad, pathetic, and humiliating, and the reason I am no longer dating. Men don't have empathy, they are selfish monsters to the core, I will never believe otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:25 AM
3

I have no hope for humanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:22 AM
13

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:46 AM
28

Agreed 100%. I genuinely cannot believe the shit I have dealt with and been put through by abusive & childish men with no feelings or empathy. Sometimes I just cry for myself. I worked so hard and put in so much effort and wasted so much of my life on the spawns of satan. No more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:43 AM
6

Girl 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:50 AM
10

Yes, it's good, it surprised me! Some other suggestions I have: Legally Blonde, She's The Man, Miss Congeniality, Freaky Friday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:44 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:39 AM
21

This has happened to me too lol. At some point I just stop trying to talk to them because they seem bored by anything I say that isn't DIRECTLY related to their interests. 100% of the time, it's them that's boring, not you, because they have no idea how to hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around them and have no desire to actually get to know the opposite sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:52 AM
3

Lmfaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:12 AM
2

I'm struggling too lol, but we will soon both be HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:56 AM
1

Damn, if that doesn't describe me to a T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:55 AM
11

I feel like the only girl who has never gotten random dick pics? Like, literally, not once. They have asked to send them but when I say no, they don't lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:50 AM
7

My ex with NPD (legit, his mom told me he was diagnosed) did the same thing. My self-esteem is STILL in the dumpster because of him always hinting that I wasn't his type and he wanted me to get tattoos and wanted me to change my hair, etc etc. Ladies, do not fail yourself like I did. And yes the funniest thing is that he was absolutely horrible in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:57 AM
6

My sniveling ex was like this. Brought up my weight for no reason even though I'm perfectly normal, would always ask why I don't want to get tattoos, told me to wear my hair up, etc etc. Always had something to say about my appearance. He also had a horrifically bad wandering eye, so bad that he'd run into stuff or trip while trying to check out and eye-fuck other girls. He would actively try to make me feel bad by looking at and flirting with women who look nothing like me. Turns out he had bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:01 AM
13

Goddamnit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:44 AM
3

Hard truth. I truly don't think men ever put themselves in others shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:42 AM
14

Nope, both my trash exes in their 30s did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:03 AM
23

It's INSANELY embarrassing that this is the hill that they choose to die on. I wish they all knew how much we laugh at their pathetic asses for doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:02 AM
10

For real. It's exhausting and insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:57 AM
10

I've done this all my life. Men have always said I'm ""mysterious"" or they can't figure me out because I do not open up. I listen. Maybe too intently lol. It is the best thing you can ever learn to do to protect yourself and see invisible intentions. My problem before was always that I was afraid of being alone so I would ignore everything (I have BPD, working on it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:54 AM
7

Stop LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:50 AM
10

How did my ex do every single one of these things....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:23 AM
8

Jfc, we definitely dated the same asshole. Any time I brought up a friend or my brother he'd say something negative about them. What the fuck is that about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:21 AM
12

So did mine. He thought everyone was jealous of him lmao and proudly described himself as an asshole at the ripe age of 32. Also never had a long term relationship. Heavy sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:19 AM
10

Between social media, facetune & photoshop, the rise and normalization of plastic surgery, and the viewing of porn at such a young age now.... I have no hope for girls growing up healthy or having any self-confidence. It makes me so sad. I thought it was bad enough for me and I grew up before all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:23 PM
4

I agree with your last paragraph so hard lol, at least there are super embarrassing REAL consequences for their embarrassing behavior. Unlike most of their shameful behavior 🙄Man, I'm so disgusted by pornsick men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:20 PM
8

Me too. It sucks so goddamn bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:17 PM
6

My ex was just like that, also ignored me for weeks & months, and when I finally blocked him tried to reach out to me everywhere. Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:38 AM
27

Yes. And if you do eat, they suggest you two go work out together afterwards even though he never works out by himself and looks like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:32 AM
17

My last 2 relationshits. So many years wasted babying these ugly, delusional, lying men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:16 AM
9

Omg i'm stealing your line that you said to the porn sick dude LMFAO, so good and 100% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:00 AM
6

In my experience, they never change. I'm sure it's possible but out of the 5 longterm relationships I have been in, all of them have come back to me wih some shit like OP's post, and the couple of them that I allowed back in were okay for about 2 weeks before going back to their old ways and treating me like shit. They just want sex + familiarity, usually. The ones I didn't let back in are just as miserable as they have always been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:55 AM
10

Lol for real. Blocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:52 AM
33

This is what woke me up too. My ex was the lowest of the low. A felon on house arrest with children from multiple women. A pathological liar who would do anything for his next addiction. Abused everyone in his life. And he laughed at me for being with him. Called me pathetic for being with someone like him. And yet still believed he deserved better than me. Do not ever date a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:50 AM
2

Lmao, yes. I am repulsed by my last two boyfriends to the point where I shake or gag thinking about them. The stuff I put up with makes my blood boil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:42 AM
2

My ex said the exact same things. It's ego/narc tendencies. Thinking he'll always be able to get any woman he wants. He had the biggest ego I've ever seen on a dude before because he's "semi successful" in Hollywood lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:21 AM
3

Thank you sm for this 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:16 AM
19

Yep, and then he moves on immediately and marries the next girl after you within 6 months where she gets to have all the good parts of him that you helped build. Fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:14 AM
23

I'm tired of it. I'm so damn tired yall. I have been dealing with having my time wasted for a decade now, and I am not dating anymore for awhile. It doesn't matter if you're upfront about what you want, or tell them they're welcome to leave if they don't want something serious, all men do is LIE! Lie, and pretend, and lead you on. They all want free emotional support. Not anymore, clowns 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:11 AM
7

Oh my god yes, one of my exes made his house super clean the first 3 times I stayed over. After that, PIG STY. Mice, ants, I would have bug bites after sleeping over. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:04 AM
41

Definitely insecurity. Sometimes self sabotage. They're afraid you'll see the real him through his facade and leave, so they either cheat or treat you like dirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:29 AM
25

Yep. Ugly men are the most entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:28 AM
39

Literally the guy I just dated. Despite being exclusive, becoming close with each other's friends, going on expensive dates, taking me to his work stuff, he still introduced me as his friend 5 months in. FUCK MEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:26 AM
3

Same. I just...do not.. and will never understand these dumbasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:07 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:41 AM
2

Definitely on that path right now. I can't take anymore, I have found that relationships just give me severe anxiety and I need time to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:38 AM
11

Evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:33 AM
7

Thank you for this. Needed to hear. I have a horrible fear of being made into a fool and yet my kindness and overbearing desire to help and solve problems always makes me into a sucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:33 AM
19

Oof, good call. Sounds like this douche definitely has a girlfriend and didn't want to be seen with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:31 AM
9

Oh child, no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:26 AM
4

I have. He was on house arrest and had two baby mamas and triangulated me with his ex for a year. When I tell yall it changed me as a person.... 😐 never again will I fall for love-bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:24 AM
2

Yep, there's only ever been one. It was nearly a decade ago though, when I was 18-21. I self-sabotaged hard because I was so messed up from emotionally neglectful LV father and boyfriends. He bored me, even though now I'd give anything to have a loving, caring, stable man. It is truly sad what LVM do to your thought process and functioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:21 AM
2

This is honestly so true lol. The only time i've ever gotten a response is when I went ice cold and never texted or called them or yelled or cried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:44 AM
4

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:40 AM
7

It sucks so bad, because the women who accept this behavior are making it hell for the rest of us 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:39 AM
2

I'm sorry what... I'm so done with people. Brain damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:34 AM
7

Jesus. How do they deal w/ the humiliation? I WISH girls would have told me mine was cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:31 AM
8

The pain i'm feeling rn for reading this ha ha... This literally just happened to me and I have never felt more worthless. He wouldn't even own up to being on tinder, he said "he used to use it before!" Except we've been dating almost a year. And then I texted him today to try to get some sense of closure or apology and he ignored it. Feels AWFUL. But I am finding sanctuary in this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:29 AM
3

Yes 💜 remember reading it in college for a class and falling in love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:47 AM
5

Girl, same. It is infuriating and demeaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:18 AM
25

THANK YOU FOR THIS!! I just broke up with my asshole long distance LVM today. He led me on and I wasted nearly a year of my life on him to find out today he's been online dating in quarantine for god knows how long. With trashy, way younger girls. I have been drafting a long paragraph in my notes all night lol, because our phone conversation was so short and I didn't even get to call him out on everything or tell him what an insecure asshole he is. But this post was my sign not to. He doesn't ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:13 AM
20

Exactly. It sucks so goddamn much that they'll never get it either. They'll move on to a new girl and brag about the ~spark and passion he feels with her. Even thouh he had it with you too until he became a soul sucking emotionally abusive vampire. They never realize it will just keep happening with every girl lol. Because nah, all girls are crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:06 AM
1

I've been in this photo for all of my last 3 relationships lol. Thanks i hate it. That's why i found this place 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:57 AM
4

Are you ME? Literally, everything in your post is my life, down to the man I just dated with the same problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:50 AM
2

Yep, never again. Guy I just dumped today would stonewall me for days. The most was 5 before I gave in and texted. Fuck him. I told him how anxious it made me and he didn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:48 AM
1

Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:47 AM
7

Girl, do it. Please! I was in your exact position 24 hours ago dealing with the SAME shit and making excuses to myself. I broke up with him a few hours ago on the phone after seeing he has been cheating on dating apps while we've been quarantined this whole time. My heart is broken, and the loss of a possible future sucks, but I was tired and worn out from stressing all the time. He wouldn't even admit to it or apologize, and said he never cared about me anyways. Dump him before it gets worse, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:58 AM
1

Yep, same here. The guy I just dumped today actually said "I would like to keep seeing you until you get sick of my shit" the first time we met. I think I blocked it out of my memory until now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:50 AM
2

100% correct. Dealt with this twice now in the past 2 years. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:48 AM
5

Slowly learning this! No more giving dudes my all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:04 AM
6

Yep, probably a dude with NPD and trust me, genuine narcs will ruin your life LOL. I was so naive... he asked me to be his girlfriend after one date/less than a week of meeting. Said I love you after two weeks and wouldn't let me do anything by mself. First discard after 2 months. Destroyed my life and cheated for a year. Then stalked me when I finally blocked him. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:02 AM
3

Very me 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:26 PM
3

It's terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:25 PM
2

Wtf is WRONG with men? It's genuinely disturbing to me that people have this kind of selfish mindset. I literally can't understand or comprehend it. How do you not feel bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:24 PM
1

So beautiful. Wishing you all the luck with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:20 PM
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