| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough? | SEEKING ADVICE | brinmxxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:03 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Needing support in finally leaving douchey LVMI’d honestly stay home or straight up ignore him until he gets the message not to talk to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 11 | Some Amazing Women , Prob FDS;) on PPD Perfectly Summed Up Why Smart Men Get Why THEY Should Be Paying For Dates...The Market Dictates The Value. Simples!What’s PPD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:40 PM |
| -2 | Why are they asking for pictures?I mean if you want to, you can send one. I find that strange but I guess it depends on which sites/app you use. It could be a part of the app culture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:07 PM |
| 14 | Why are they asking for pictures?If you set up a profile with no photos at all or just one then they are probably worried about what you look like. It’s normal to want to know what someone looks like when getting to know them romantically. If you mean nudes though then yes they are LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:55 PM |
| 24 | Ive decided im ready to start putting myself out there againI’m very happy for you! One thing to note, I think the 30 min texting rule is a bit outdated, just don’t drop everything to text him back or finish what you were doing before. It’s okay to respond immediately sometimes if you’re not doing anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 05:13 AM |
| 18 | Is it a bad idea to send your long term partner sexy videos and pictures?It is a bad idea to include your face and also a bad idea to do videos as if/when they get released it is so easy to identify you. You could try phone sex or something because you would also get something out of it. Something I was concerned about is that you may be doing it out of fear that he will “look elsewhere” Sweetie if he does that let the trash take itself out ! Only send nudes if you’re 100% comfortable with the fact that your friends and family could see them. (Most people are not com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 22 | Guy is bringing up how we will pay for dates , & we have not even gone on one date yet? Is this a red flag?It’s either his first relationship or he’s trying to see what he can get away with. I have the same idea as you, my man pays unless I’m feeling very generous or it’s his birthday or if it’s cheap enough. I never discussed it with him tho. I think it’s very strange that he’s asking you. Maybe start looking into other guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:51 PM |
| 25 | Imagine speaking that badly of women and not even reaching 6ft.Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | HVM adapt in these tough timesHe hasn’t messaged you girl, that should tell you something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:33 PM |
| 6 | A real winnerIt’s probably the hats sticker, some people leave them on the hat when they buy them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?We spoke on the phone last night and he SAYS he wants to be better and will be better because he cares. It seems like he does want to step up, only time will tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 01:15 PM |
| 10 | AUNTIE FDSI mean I’m not an aunt but since the boy is 11 you could probably say something to him without having to involve the parents, as long as it’s planned out. If you haven’t gone to their parents already is it because you’re worried they’ll tell you not to interfere? I think basically that it’s okay to talk to the boy because he is old enough to think critically enough to know why his behaviour is unacceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?I try to be more enthusiastic on the outside but it’s still an issue, it’s hard to remember to do. He has a dermatologist appointment next month, I’m hoping that works out well for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?I think he feels lacking in mostly how he looks. He also thinks I’m not very receptive at times and he’s right about that because everyone in my life at some point comments that I react to things in a lacklustre fashion. We haven’t had an argument recently nor have I expressed being unhappy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?This particular comment resonates with me, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:21 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?He’s always the kind of person to try to be as “perfect” as possible. I asked him to make a simple list of cars for me because I was trying to decide pros and cons and he went all out. I don’t think he wants to lower my expectations and last night I told him if he thinks I’m expecting to much I would leave. I’m not sure why he thinks he’s not good enough but I think he’s not confident in his looks. And yes I agree he should work on improving himself and I’m giving him space to work on what he ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:19 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?Thank you for your advice. I’ve never met a man my age with a lot of confidence who also wasn’t a jerk though but I’ll see what he thinks of a counsellor. Last night I told him that he needs to figure out his insecurities and I’m going to give him space and he seemed okay with that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?What would stepping up look like in this scenario? Considering I’m fine with how we’ve been doing so far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?I’ll check it out, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:58 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?Oof girl I’m sorry that happened to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?This is true, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:26 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?What would you say back to him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?I wasn’t upset at him, he just said something was bothering him and then sent me that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I have a great man. But I've realised how complacent he is and I don't know where our relationship is going.I dated a man like this. It’s not your duty to babysit sis. Ambition is my non negotiable. He’s only doing those things because you might leave not because he thinks he needs them. Once you “calm down “ he’ll stop trying again and make excuses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:44 AM |
| 9 | Another brilliant LVM opening line regarding my body 🙄He might have meant real or fake profile? Some tinder profiles are bots and he might’ve been asking about that. REGARDLESS he seems unintelligent or boring conversation wise so I’m glad you’re not pursuing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 23 | Maybe I need [advice] too since I texted first, but I def won't take an inaccurate apology.He’s not going to apologize now because of how you’ve already responded. If you don’t know him well, never text him again even if he texts you. Anyway, mistake #1, asking if the plans were still on. Mistake #2 double texting and using lol in the text when you want to show that he shouldn’t have stood you up. Edit: I realize now you didn’t double text but same concept applies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 22 | I wonder where he got his statistics. 🤔 And don't forget that little gem on the bottom I got just before I was about to post the previous screenshot. 🙄The math obviously doesn’t make sense because you can keep subtracting the same guys bc they share those traits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the “Call Her Daddy” podcast?Tbh there’s good and bad with this podcast. I’ve listened to many episodes. I enjoyed it, and I think others enjoy it, because it was rare that I found women who felt free enough to talk about what they needed in bed, and they teach guys and gals sex tips I wouldn’t have known otherwise. I stopped watching after a while and I didn’t really know why, but I think it was because the rest of their advice would attract a guy I didn’t want, and so it no longer counted as relevant advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 01:08 PM |
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