brise-mysterieuse Archive

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1	Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7? ~1–2 years of dating in some capacity. It was completely random. We didn’t share any social circles. She was splitting time between two cities and had just moved to the second. She was talking to her mom about how no one spoke their language. My friend, who did, overheard and joined the conversation. I came by, got introduced, and we all chatted. I asked her to go out she said yes. I took her out a few more times. She clearly liked me, but she was hard to pin down. She was seriously dating someo…	/r/seduction	21/05/25 10:53 AM
4	Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7? i agree with this i’m an edge case. i consider myself a 7 and dated a 9-10 fashion model in a major city. it was due to random chance of meeting her (she spoke russian and my friend was russian who she met first) and her thinking i was cute. many girls aren’t into me, but some are, and she was one of them. so, i was in a situation where most 7-8 girls aren’t into me but had a 9-10 that was	/r/seduction	20/05/25 10:01 PM
2	Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7? yes. i consider myself a 7. i dated a fashion model that is a 9. i don’t know how, she thought i was cute. i explain it by law of large numbers. it wasn’t easy dating her because she had a lot of prospects in a major city and went on dates with hollywood directors and wealthy men. i was just a normal guy	/r/seduction	20/05/25 09:58 PM
3	Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age? Same. I’m 36 and girls think I am 25-26. It’s truly a blessing. But I feel uncomfortable bringing up age because whenever I do they’re extremely shocked and don’t believe me. They want to see my ID and it becomes a “thing” overtaking the entire conversation. Due to that I never brought up age with some friends and I assume they think I’m 25-26. I generally don’t discuss it and see how things go. Last year I dated a girl who was 28 and she thought I was 25 when she first met me and a 25 year old …	/r/seduction	29/10/24 09:46 AM
3	Someone who doesn’t have a social circle or many friends for that matter. How can one meet women outside of online means? cold approach. be prepared to get rejected a lot	/r/seduction	18/10/24 05:53 PM
1	I gave 10 people new dating app pics. Here is what happened tinder uses an internal ranking and that ranking could tank if you delete and recreate your account a few times	/r/seduction	18/10/24 08:54 AM
1	What’s up with dating apps? i agree because i’ve deleted hinge a few times and it tanked my score hinge went from showing me attractive women to only obese women, i could have swiped for hours and not seen anyone within my weight range delete your hinge account a few times if you don’t believe me and see if it doesn’t mess with your swipe stack just because it didn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen generally	/r/seduction	18/10/24 08:52 AM
–	What’s up with dating apps? Not generally true. Delete your hinge and recreate it a few times and you’ll likely see your experience dips and never recovers. You get shoveled in the land of obese women and never will get a match with an attractive woman again. Happened to me after I took a break from Hinge and deleted and reinstalled it	/r/seduction	17/10/24 05:37 AM
3	I gave 10 people new dating app pics. Here is what happened This works if you don’t already have a low ELO. If you have a low ELO, even if the new photos would objectively lead to more matches, no one would see them or you’d have low visibility. same for shadowban	/r/seduction	12/10/24 08:29 PM
8	I Approached Thousands Of Women – 4 Surprising Lessons I Learned In The Process What is your success rate for first dates or kissing? My success rate for getting women on a date after getting their Instagram or phone number is about 5%. My success rate for securing a second date or more is 2%. My success rate for kissing on the same night or on a date is a bit higher, around 13%. This includes women who will make out with me that night and those who will go on dates with me later. I’m not sure how “good” these numbers are. I’ve been facing a lot of rejections lately. I’m on…	/r/seduction	08/10/24 04:36 PM
1	How To Get Laid On Tinder Tonight How do you approach in real life? Most interactions are ambiguous whether they’re into you and most don’t text back even after you get their numbers or instas	/r/seduction	05/10/24 06:02 AM
0	How To Get Laid On Tinder Tonight Op, this is easy to do on tinder but what is your success rate meeting women in the wild?	/r/seduction	03/10/24 10:33 AM
3	How to seduce someone out of your league without showing needy If Lana can marry airboat captain Jeremy Dufrene, then there’s hope for the rest of us. To be honest, you need to have a realistic mindset. Most women won’t find you attractive if you’re just average or even slightly above average in looks. You have to be exceptionally attractive to be universally appealing to women, and most men don’t meet that standard. Go in with the mindset that you have nothing to lose, that failure is the most likely outcome, and that you shouldn’t invest too heavily in an…	/r/seduction	02/10/24 09:46 AM
2	Anyone approached a girl in her place of work ? yeah, i became a regular at an upscale cocktail bar. she’s one of the employees at the bar. overtime i became friends with her and asked her out recently and she agreed to go out with me. i’m still seeing how it plays out. i had situations where this method didn’t work out and it’s purely a numbers game. i learned don’t focus on any particular outcome and go with the flow. most situations won’t work out.	/r/seduction	28/09/24 06:28 AM
–	Do this if she doesn't respond! Or just meet in-person and ditch the apps. I only do in-person approaches now	/r/seduction	20/09/24 12:50 PM
10	Do you just approach beautiful looking women? If so, what has been your results!? Yes, all the time. Mixed results. Generally women have no interest in me, but they’ll chat out of politeness or friendliness for a few minutes at a bar then vanish. Otherwise, I get a lot that seem interested in the moment and agree to go out with me and they’ll give me their numbers and follow me on insta but never respond to my follow-ups. Other times they become legitimate friends and now I am starting to have large friend groups of just hot women and they are legitimate friends. But sometime…	/r/seduction	19/09/24 03:52 AM
1	Does anyone feel like going from kissing a stranger to a one night stand the same night is the hardest and most awesome part of seduction? What percentage of your hookups roughly have you done this way? I agree with this. I don’t use dating apps and started going out in the wild trying to meet women. This year, I’ve made out with two attractive women at a bar unplanned. I literally had no idea what I was doing and was surprised I escalated like I did in both cases. Does that imply that they found me attractive even if they were drunk? I normally DO NOT approach women and am trying to get over my fears. I do not know what my rating is but these women were attractive. Neither of them replied to m…	/r/seduction	18/09/24 10:42 AM
1	I get zero action on dating apps Probably shadowbanned or have a low ELO on the apps. You’ll have to approach in person or do a hard reset which isn’t trivial	/r/seduction	17/09/24 06:18 PM
1	Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ? Op. what do you say in your messages and how do you get them out? I usually follow mutuals and they’ll follow me back and watch my stories but not sure if I should play the long game or be blunt and ask them out. I found being blunt and asking them out early hasn’t led to much success so now I’m playing the long game to see what it nets	/r/seduction	13/09/24 01:18 AM
1	Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRL How do you get dates from cold approach? Most women aren’t interested IRL	/r/seduction	11/09/24 08:09 PM