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From what you’ve said yourself, you think based on your experiences of being a short man. Based on how the majority of short men act on their subreddits...you clearly aren’t thinking with your “right head”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:54 PM
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I would take this more seriously if anything you said was true. The majority of people don’t think having an N count of 2 from serious relationships is ‘slutty’...especially when your aim isn’t to date virgins. If you think this is slutty...good luck finding someone who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:00 PM
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I personally agree. However, many men who aren’t virgins seek a virgin wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:05 PM
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Sure, I personally agree with it. Also, I’m assuming the only thing the accident can apply to is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:04 PM
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Not all men are taller than all women. Yes...that’s pretty obvious, what your point? You seem to be unable to accept things that are universally accepted on this sub. Again, you’re just proving that you are unable to think beyond what you currently think is correct and the majority of your beliefs are nothing more than your opinion. What you call "nuance" is nothing more than mealy mouthed weaseling If you look at the world in such a black and white way, I’d recommend you get out more. There's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:02 PM
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Does it really matter? It doesn't! According to your previous comment, it completely matters. A virgin man who has tried to have casual sex with many different women and has failed, does not have morals that are similar to a woman who has declined sex and chosen to stay a virgin till marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:43 PM
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Sure, and the “slut” is the one that virgins who wait for marriage worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:33 PM
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Either ALL OF THE FOLLOWING stem from insecurity and constitute double standards, OR NONE do: Why would it constitute a double standard if it is true for both sexes? ✓Women choosing taller partners If you think this belongs in the same category...you’re obviously completely unable to understand anything that is being said. A woman dating a man taller than her 99% of the time has nothing to do with insecurity. Men are biologically taller than women....women also don’t have feelings of shame towar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:30 PM
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Maybe...most likely still insecurity but could be that This seems very similar to the huge problem that men have with women. Sleeping with chads until they settle down with a “beta”. Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:03 PM
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Right what about the other examples are they all insecurity Again, your reading comprehension seems to be very questionable if you think I said the above makes them insecure... There’s a few nuances but sure, to keep it simple for you, it applies to everything. because that sums up how practically all women choose their mates. How have you come to this conclusion? Or are you a filthy worthless hypocrite? I’m sorry you’re getting so emotionally affected and upset :( I hope you get better soon...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:00 PM
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This is your opinion. My opinion is that the disgust stems from insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:50 PM
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"BuT thOsE aRE DiFFeREnNNnNtTTT!!111!!!!" where did I say any of those things were different? you seemed to be very outraged and seeing things that aren’t there.... Unless you are fully incapable of understanding simple language...it’s not that difficult. A woman with a low level of status who thinks about/is looking for a man with a high level of status is insecure A woman with a low level of status who is looking for a man with a high level of status is more likely to be insecure than a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:45 PM
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.....my N count is 2 If that is what you got from my generalisation, then yes you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:43 PM
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Yes....where did I say that someone needs to justify their preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:41 PM
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Do you mean the low N count example? Some men are virgins for religious reasons, so it’s normal for them to want to date someone saving them self for marriage. If you have a low N count because you believe sex should be had between people only when they love each other and they’ve been dating for a while, it’s again normal to want someone who shares this view. If your low N count is because you’ve tried and failed to have sex with people, I don’t think this applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:16 PM
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Yes they could be. I’m saying it’s more likely the second one is insecure. I disagree with “just as easily”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:10 PM
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Are you not comprehending? I’ve literally just explained why I said what I said in the comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:41 AM
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Anyone who hates or even dislikes 4 billion people they don’t know is clearly not a sane person. Their reasons for doing so are frankly irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:21 AM
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No, I just think you should transition in order to really milk it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:15 AM
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Lame attempts at gotchas do not a proper counter-argument make. ....an argument that uses a well known logical fallacy isn’t a “gotcha”. Since you think it’s “lame”, there’s really no point and it’s a waste of my quarantine time. Good luck living as a woman as you mentioned above! I hope this works out and your transition goes smoothly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:13 AM
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Yes, because you keep mischaracterizing my points again and again. That’s because your points are invalid and I explained why above. No true scotsman? What? You were adamant about me replying to your points....if you don’t know what it is, then ask a friend, google it etc. All your points are invalidated by it. Also, will you please stop thumbing down all my replies? It's really childish. ....I’m not downvoting anything. I saw your profile earlier and your comment karma was already in the negati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:55 AM
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You’ve made the same exact points again and again....there are no new arguments in your latest comment. Your points are completely invalidated by the no true scotsman fallacy. If you want to argue why they aren’t invalidated by this, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:37 AM
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Instead, I've simply resolved to live as a woman - i.e. take as much as I can out of the system, and give fuck all back. Sounds depressing....good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:34 AM
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Please, what part of this don't you understand? I’d ask you the same thing. Again, you’ve clearly shown that you, yourself have no idea what you’re trying to say. men as a whole are useful I'm ok with paying welfare to people who are useful to me. You keep contradicting yourself... You are talking about people being useful to YOU. You don’t know all men and all women...the majority of the population hasn’t been useful to you and really doesn’t care to be useful to you personally (...because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:18 AM
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This is true in some cases and false in others. A man who is a virgin or has a low N count of say, 2, looking for a woman who is similar to his N count is normal. He’s looking for someone with the same morals and feelings towards sex as him. A man with a high N count who thinks about/is looking for a woman with a low N count is insecure. This has nothing to do with morals. The insecurity is most likely about how he feels he will not be able to compare to the other men. They obviously will not ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:08 AM
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Yes, that is an empty statement and you’ve proved so yourself when you clearly had no idea what you actually meant by this. You also said I'm ok with paying welfare to people who are useful to me. So again, your only point here is that you don’t like paying welfare to people that aren’t doing something for you....it’s not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:01 AM
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Well, I haven't worked out the details yet Clearly... but the point stands You don’t have a point. All you are saying is that you think you should only pay welfare to people who have been useful to you....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:52 AM
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So how does that work exactly? Are you going to submit a list of names along with your taxes of people that have been useful to you that year?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:41 AM
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I’m not talking about one individual. Are you okay with paying welfare and providing for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:31 AM
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Ambition? No way. They give up. I disagree. There’s a huge number of “struggling artists” in their 40s that are still hoping to catch a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:14 AM
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So your argument basically has nothing to do with sex/gender....your argument is just that you believe welfare shouldn’t exist. Or are you okay paying welfare if it is going to a an unemployed man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:12 AM
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Does that mean I would flat out refuse to date a blonde? No. That’s your preference. I fail to see what the problem would be if you didn’t date people with blonde hair. Someone not dating people with blonde hair has no effect on people with blonde hair. Being more sexually attracted to a certain race and being more likely to date people of that race as a result is different from flat out saying that you wouldn’t date someone of a certain race. In your example, they’re only rejecting one specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:06 AM
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If you have no chance of X then X is not your ambition. I disagree. This is entirely possible. Anyone has a statistically negligible chance of being a world famous pop star...that doesn’t mean that it isn’t the ambition of hundreds of thousands of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:20 AM
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Yes, nailed it. It’s especially true for short men according to what most people here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:54 PM
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I’m not talking about quitting your job. It’s very possible to be a high status man and to take a few months off for paternal leave. Women, no matter how hypergamous they are, will not think these few months of paternal leave will suddenly make their partner lazy and unambitious. Again, I just believe it’s used as a justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:52 PM
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A black lady that dates white men is internalizing racism, but a white lady that dates only black men is what then? I didn’t say that a black lady that dates white men is internalising racism....I said internalised racism sometimes effects people’s choice in partners. If a black woman refuses to date black men because she thinks black men are unattractive, THIS may be internalised racism. Almost everyone that’s a POC knows this to be true and personally knows examples. There’s hundreds of exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:48 PM
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Men buy women drinks, they buy them meals, they pay for their holidays just to enjoy the pleasures of their company. Yes. This is extremely stupid behaviour IMO. Women don’t give a fuck about men, just what we can do for them. Sorry you’ve personally had that experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:40 PM
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This is a way to get divorced. I disagree. This is just a justification that is used to mask the fact that men feel like they need to be the provider and their ego is hurt by having their wife provide for them. I guess you don't know a lot of lower class men that will never hold any interesting nor meaningful job in their lives and have absolutely no chance to be entrepeneurs. Having no chance of something is extremely different from not wanting something. These men would rather be successful bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:38 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:33 PM
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This is nothing more than a money making scheme...men flock to wherever women are and men are the ones buying girls drinks in the hopes that she will fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:30 PM
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If a girl would work, stick your dick in a dog. Are you still a virgin? Or just in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:27 PM
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Is it that hard to believe that there is a significant number of men that have sex/relationships as their only aspiration. Yes...this sounds like an extremely depressing life. And that path invoves a sex, a wife and kids. Yes...but this is about casual sex and casual online dating. The majority of men find it easy to find one woman to marry without making it their only aspiration. most men have only one path towards a happy and fullfilled life. Also, if this was actually true, these men would st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:24 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:19 PM
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100%. Being from the same social class, education level and tax bracket are all equally important and influence someone’s sexual attraction. Other than family traditions and religion This is the main reason for me personally. I’m also aware i’m a little closed minded on this, I know a lot of Indians in interracial couples in very happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 10:54 PM
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Maybe... I have no personal or anecdotal evidence that proves or goes against. Some people will also internalise racism and colourism and they will only date white or mixed race men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 10:48 PM
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It doesn’t apply for everyone. I’ve personally noticed it has always been true for me. An Indian is almost always more likely to be aware of Indian culture than someone who is white. I’ve personally never met a white person that has been raised in India, but I’m sure they would be culturally compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:53 PM
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This is exactly the generalisations we are talking about! Self aware much? False. This isn’t a “generalisation”, it’s a fact that can be proven from my previously read posts. It would be a generalisation if I said every similar comment that everyone has seen is always by a man. I simply stated that all the ones that I personally have seen have been from men. All along the lines of AWALT. I’m sure if I purposefully searched, I could find some from women... That’s also why I said “claimed” as thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:50 PM
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Yes. IMO Every single time I’ve seen it, it’s been from someone claiming they are male...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:23 PM
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To make a generalization that having a certain preference means a group of people are insecure is false Yes, I know what you’re saying. However, this entire sub is poorly made generalisations. Every post has someone saying: all women are X and do Y/all men are Z and do W.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:18 PM
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But it's also intellectually lazy So is 99% of casual conversation. Sure, it’s not an amazing thing for someone to say...but I don’t think it’s as big of a deal as some people make it. I’ve always believed words like “insecure” don’t really carry shame if you don’t let them. Calling a confident person insecure has absolutely no effect on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:16 PM
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I’m just making an assumption here but I’m guessing you’re talking about a certain race. Who knows what the reason for other people’s sexual attraction is, I’m sure there’s a whole host of different factors that influence it. In some cases, it definitely seems like a racial fetish, even if they aren’t conscious of it fully. This is true, but have you ever stopped to wonder why? I prefer dating my own race because I believe the less cultural differences there are, the more likely a marriage will …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:11 PM
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I know you didn’t, but it wasn’t mentioned and it’s a big part of what you were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:05 PM
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True but sexuality is a thing. I’m friends with men and women. I date men. If friendships and relationships were the same, I’d date both too. Some people are sexually more attracted to a particular race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:02 PM
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What I disagree with are those who ascribe to the belief that someone is insecure or less than because they hold certain preferences. What’s wrong with this being their opinion? Are you really bothered by someone thinking that you are insecure? You may not be insecure. They may have reasons/personal experience that makes them believe otherwise... You have your own opinion on what is suitable in a partner and everyone else has theres.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:00 PM
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I want to at least take comfort in the knowledge that women and their children are starving out in the cold. Are you the father of all these children? Or are you just talking about people who have nothing to do with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:54 PM
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You just said I need to work harder which is why I’m unsuccessful. Yes, if you want to...whether you do or don’t doesn’t have anything to do with me. Regarding the medical conditions, I imagine I’ve got something wrong with me. Personally, I’d try and figure out what that something is so you can treat it. I got the bare minimum after all I the work I put into myself. The bare minimum is no sex or relationships. An LTR isn’t the bare minimum because it isn’t something you’re “owed”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:48 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:45 PM
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....no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:44 PM
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What more do you want me to do lol? I personally don’t want you to do anything. I’ve got a small amount of definition but nothing substantial (I’m pretty sure I need roids). No one needs steroids to achieve a “Chad-like” figure. Unless you have any health conditions, you are able to achieve this naturally with the right resources. 5’6 isn’t awful. The only thing I got out of it in LTRs. What’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:28 PM
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The men who believe not being able to have sex or being rejected by women is the worst suffering in life....have never actually suffered or worked hard for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:23 PM
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Work harder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:14 PM
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your mistake is listening to what women say. it's like when she puts no hookups on her profile These two things aren’t the same.... Women legitimately not wanting to date short men isn’t a shit test....they have no reason to shit test you because they are not interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:13 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:53 PM
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Men will do a job just to get a pay check (e.g being a garbage man). Many also choose to financially support women...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:52 PM
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I’m friends with / work with lots of insanely badass women and they don’t volunteer for the dull tasks that must be done. I’ve personally experienced the opposite in my line of work. Women are given the majority of the dull work to do and statistically spend more time doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:50 PM
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Oops, sorry. I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:48 PM
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So do some women...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:49 PM
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Thinning hair in women is actually the easiest thing to solve compared to all the other answers here. No man would even be able to tell. Even if you are living with that woman. You’d be surprised how many women you see daily with great hair that isn’t theirs... Comparing this easy fix to limb lengthening surgery....is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:47 PM
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What percentage of these extremely tall women are actually models? It’s negligible in this argument. Have you ever seen a short male model? If we want to talk about negligible number then yes. I’ve also seen models of both sexes who are obese, have facial deformities, have prosthetic limbs and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:39 PM
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We are different and we both have a biological standard that we follow. AMALT doesn’t mean men are like women....being hypergamous or not has nothing to do with it. All men in general are very similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:37 PM
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Why would I go out of my way to date someone below me.... Most people find their partners at school or work....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:01 PM
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Short men don't really have a major problem getting women They feel very very different about this apparently...if we take r/ short and other height related subs as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:53 PM
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In that case, there’s a few mistakes, a few more things that need to be added and a few things that need to be taken off Fortunately, I’ve never had to date someone without the majority of these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:51 PM
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The entire sub is about transgenders. But you keep using at as your primary example
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:07 PM
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So your list was 100% real?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:06 PM
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Also skinny women with no ass, tits, and sexy, curvy body shapes; or skinny and square bodied women with no ass and tits. Skinny or bulky women with v-taper torsos, big waist, narrow hips, and small ass/flat ass. This is extremely common/normal. These women don’t have a problem getting laid...especially not compared to extremely short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:05 PM
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I disagree. Even though these women might do nothing about their weight, it doesn’t mean it has any comparison to height. Not being fat is easy to do if you don’t have a health condition that is making you fat...which many don’t. The closest comparison is extremely tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:03 PM
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Ah so your issue is their opinion on transgender people? What is it that is offending you in gender critical? Do you know what percentile of women participate in that sub? It’s so extremely low that it’s negligible.. Have you seen gender critical men...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:59 PM
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? I’m not downvoting....if you’ve very concerned about this I can screenshot and upload later
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:58 PM
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The sarcasm has obviously gone way over your head.....especially when you started the list 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:57 PM
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I wasn’t talking about what you said....I was talking about what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:55 PM
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(because you don’t) This is false but better luck next time....I’ve never had any problem initiating and it’s necessary especially when the guy you like is very introverted You were throwing out justifications These aren’t justifications....I can’t speak for all women (because there’s 4 billion of them). Red pill men don’t want women who initiate. If they do, they aren’t red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:53 PM
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I am not sure what kind of guys you have around. The hundreds of men that I have schooled and worked with. Maybe there’s already a level of selection that’s happened...however, it’s not exactly an insanely high bar. None of them are 5 feet and 300 pounds, the top 10% of them are “chads”. The rest have no problem with having sex and have been in several relationships/had many ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:46 PM
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aware of what? it’s not very insightful to structure your life around whether the other sex finds you attractive or not...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:39 PM
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I know with 100% certainty several of these accounts are owned by women...because I know them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:36 PM
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it does women no favors to display such distasteful behaviors How do you know the people trolling are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:35 PM
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Women like yourself on PPD It’s not just about you. It’s about women. You really can’t seem to make up your mind...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:10 AM
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A sociopath...for thinking the majority of men are driven to suicide for reasons other than female rejection and their penis? Unfortunately, everything you’ve said about men has been extremely reductive. The majority of people fighting for men’s right believe the same so I’m assuming you think they’re sociopaths too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:08 AM
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What women consider a high IQ is really just a medium IQ. ....IQ isn’t subjective. It’s quantifiable. A truly free and penetrating intellect is terrifying to women. Only a cuck would pander to this. The rest of your list is just a lol. Unfortunately, a HVM has all of those things. It’s understandable that you will think it’s a “lol” if you don’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:05 AM
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How do you know what someone’s true belief is when you don’t know who they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:57 AM
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You’re still making men sound pathetic...which I’m assuming isn’t what you’re trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:53 AM
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Your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:52 AM
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A medium IQ All true except this. No one wants someone mediocre. Unless you’re a cuck, you won’t care if your girlfriend has negative feelings about your IQ. A few things you missed: His parents aren’t divorced and are also highly educated. Has extremely high societal value and is well known in his community. Has no family history of any illnesses. Has a great head of hair (too many ugly bald men these days) and no family history of balding. High quality sperm. Owns several cars, not just the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:44 AM
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Women like yourself on PPD say they don’t approach men for this reason. Where did I say I personally don’t approach men? Have I talked about myself personally in these comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:37 AM
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that some men feel the need to do this so they don’t commit suicide. So you’re saying men are so afraid of rejection, it’s making them consider suicide? You’re making men sound pathetic. The vast majority of men don’t commit suicide because they’re scared a woman will reject them...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:35 AM
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I'm not sure if you're sarcastic or not. Absolutely no sarcasm...none at all. Then, maybe I can stop lifting and turning to another kind of physical activity like bodyweight or, who knows, dancing (it won't make me athletic but it's fun, a good complement and helps a lot with fat loss). Do what YOU enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:31 AM
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How often do you hit the gym? 3x per week. I work out 6x per week. I’m a runner. You all want a fit guy but aren’t willing to put in the work. Interesting....statistically impossible. Unfortunately I can’t speak for ALL women (as there’s 4 billion of them).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:29 AM
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OP just wants an excuse to stop lifting.....very alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:51 AM
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Plus, a lot of guys are resistant to facial surgery because they feel being dishonest about their looks is beneath them. Yet many men degrade themselves by paying to put their penis in someone who has been used so many times she’s community property.... They would be bowing to the superficiality of women The majority of men bow to the superficially of women. Even chads marry women who are poor as shit and become nothing more than cash cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:47 AM
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That’s a bullshit cop out women use to rationalise their laziness, entitlement and cowardice when it comes to dating. Do you have any examples of this? Has anyone ever told you they didn’t approach you because of this reason? A beautiful woman sparking a conversation with you and displaying clear signs of interest is incredibly validating and arousing to men. Yes...you BELIEVE you want this. In reality the vast majority of men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:43 AM
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And this made me think, is weight lifting worth in that regard? Are you living your life just for the attention of women? If you are, then you might as well stop lifting...like you said, you will never be considered naturally good looking. There’s always different variations of this post - women will never like me, shouldn’t I just stop doing XYZ Yes, go ahead, you have permission to become obese. You might as well at least enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:40 AM
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Again, I disagree. They don’t want any woman to initiate...they just THINK they do. They want someone who is below them so they can train them into doing what they want them to do. These women don’t initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:33 AM
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There are certain traits you can’t change, and for some men it truly is hopeless without surgery. Why don’t these men just get surgery? Male plastic surgery is becoming increasingly very common. It’s also financially accessible for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:29 AM
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Why would anyone want to raise someone else’s kid? Men and women. I’d rather never be in a relationship again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:26 AM
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They are very simple sentences...I don’t see how you are finding them unclear. My point is simply what I said in my first comment: RP men don’t really want women to initiate, even though a lot of them whine about having to always initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:24 AM
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This makes the assumption that you wouldn’t do your job if you weren’t getting paid for it. This may apply to a lot of people but definitely not all...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:18 AM
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Yes, rarely. That’s not what I was talking about. I’m talking about what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:11 AM
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True. TRP dudes DEFINITELY don't want girls to initiate. Its far more easy wooing a passive girl who's clueless about her own hotspots and surprise her with things she likes in a relationship than some know it all bitch who acts entitled because she thinks she knows what she wants. Yes...this is the in line with RP thinking. However, I’ve seen many people (who say they are RP) agree with this thinking and STILL complain/whine about women not initiating. If women truly want to initiate The vast m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:40 AM
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Yes...in a vacuum. The type of woman that RP men themselves say they want isn’t the type that initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:37 AM
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The accounts are clearly women--regular users--and they say some pretty nasty, callous things If that’s what you believe, then good luck to you. I’d just take everything with a grain of salt as I said. I know with 100% certainty that several of the high rated posts (plus things that have been added to the sidebar) by “men” on several male subs are definitely not by men....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:35 AM
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Very strange...I would take your word for it if I didn’t know any men. None of the men I know have any problem finding someone to have sex with. Are the men you are talking about extremely unattractive/5 foot 4/obese etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:26 AM
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Women don’t initiate. That’s the biggest hurdle in dating for men, other than the fact they find most of us unattractive. Men don’t want women to initiate. Men don’t want to date/marry/fuck their equals. Red pill men will say they want women to initiate but they also want women they can “train” and “groom”. I fail to see how they think this is logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:02 AM
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The rewards are bigger with marriage though. In your opinion, what are the rewards? (from a RP perspective)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:51 AM
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and especially PPD with what the women say I’m glad you’ve gained clarity...however, it’s very strange that anonymous accounts on the internet have such a huge impact on your view of the world.... Especially if you’re 32 years old, I’d think you would take anything you read on here with a pinch of salt. These women on PPD that have influenced you/had any influence in you believing love isn’t real could be 19 year old men....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:48 AM
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Yes but the other option is marriage. Ugly guys have to put an insane amount of time, effort and money into marriage. I’d argue that this outweighs the effort that the majority of men have to put into trying to get laid at least a little more than a few times a year. If someone is seriously 5 feet tall and painful to look at, paying for sex is the easiest and most logical answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:37 AM
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but they at least got laid a few times per year. This is depressing. Any man that puts in time and effort can have sex more than a handful of times a year....if someones in a marriage like this and they believe in RP philosophy, I just don’t see how they think it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:26 AM
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A penis can’t be a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:28 PM
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SOCIAL. INTERACTION. That's it Most men on these subs think going to a club or going to a place where people are drunk is the most effective way to have sex.... The vast majority of sexual encounters don’t occur from those circumstances...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:27 PM
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I know more men than women....it seems you know a lot of sex addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:24 PM
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She doesn’t have a choice...he does. He has the choice to have sex without getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:08 PM
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If someone feels like they are a “sex crazed animal” and have an “itch that can’t be scratched”, this isn’t a normal phenomenon in men. That is sex addiction and should be treated as it affects you from functioning in your day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:07 PM
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The rules are clear, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:04 PM
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Ah, okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:01 PM
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So you believe someone paying $10 for your drink makes it “respectable attention”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:00 PM
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Don’t bring that up here I will. I was replying to a comment that brought up female mental illness (which has no relevance to OPs post) so I don’t see why male mental illness shouldn’t be brought up...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 11:10 AM
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Generally, one sets out with an objective first. In this case, equality, and then comes to the practical of how to actually implement it. Yes....we’ve already established that equality is the goal... Since women seem to be perfectly happy to use the argument to get things that benefit from them, I see no problem in using the argument to get things that benefit men. Where did I say that? Unless I personally have done this, this is nothing more than diverting from the topic. You or any woman can m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 11:05 AM
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.....yet you have no idea how this law should be enforced and have no idea how to deal with inequality that comes from enforcing it. 5 year olds also want equality....it’s not exactly hard to grasp. You failed to have any understanding of this subject other than “men and women should be treated the same”. That works when you’re in high school but the real world is unfortunately not so black and white. The law is also not black and white. Again, this is extremely embarrassing for you. Unfortunate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:25 AM
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Thank you for ceding to all of my points. You don’t have any points....whatsoever. You have no understanding of anything you are trying to talk about...you are unable to answer extremely simple questions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:09 AM
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You’re obviously embarrassed, it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:08 AM
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I'm not a doctor, and neither are you. .....check my profile. and my username 🤡 It’s very apparent you don’t understand any of this and like I said, you are extremely out of your depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:57 AM
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Someone dying because they tried to give themselves an abortion has no effect on me whatsoever. Whether it has an effect on you personally has no bearing....shockingly, laws are not based on you. If men don't have the option of a financial/legal abortion, then I don't believe abortion should be legal for women in any circumstances. So, you’ve proven you want anything other than equality. If you think rape and incest is “equal” and fair...everything you’ve said so far is utterly meaningless. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:51 AM
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....have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:06 AM
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.....what are you talking about? this entire conversation was about mental illness...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:00 AM
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Trust me, your height isn’t the issue....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:46 AM
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Women have BPD and narcissism not depression. I apologise if this offends you....but you’re extremely delusional. I have to assume you’re trolling or a young teenager. If not, since we’re talking about mental health, you definitely don’t have anything to lose by going to a therapist. You have absolutely no understanding of psychiatry and mental health. You should absolutely not be the one advocating for men’s mental health either....leave that for the people who have some understanding of the su…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:42 AM
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In one you can achieve the desired outcome and in the other you have 0 chance of it. Having sex with a condom doesn’t mean you 100% can’t cum. Washing your hands with gloves on means you 100% can’t wash your hands...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:31 AM
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So, by your own logic, since so many women have mental illnesses....life as a women is hard and shit and no one gives a fuck about them... Also...that’s not how mental illness works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:25 AM
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I mean...he did completely make up statistics and pulled them out of his ass so I don’t think he cares about what the reality of it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:24 AM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:22 AM
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Don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:21 AM
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I rarely have “drunken hookups”...every time I’ve had sex drunk I’ve orgasmed because I know how to make myself orgasm.....what exactly should I be honest with myself about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:21 AM
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You clearly have no idea what normal people do then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:18 AM
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75% of people diagnosed with BPD are women. Are we just stating random statistics about mental illness? You said close to the majority of women take SSRIs, you didn’t say the majority of people diagnosed with BPD are women.... Men kill themselves because You can continue to believe whatever you want to believe. People who know much more about male suicide than you would disagree. Men kill themselves because they have a mental illness...that’s pretty common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:11 AM
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Considering most women rarely, if ever orgasm from piv sex Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation. PIV and clitoral stimulation aren’t mutually exclusive....most men know this and take it upon themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:06 AM
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....why would you need him to pay for you in order to get attention? what does the money have to do with attention when you already have his attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:04 AM
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The men women want attention from are the ones going on dinner dates. Going on dinner dates is something normal people do... Most women don’t want to have sex with someone who doesn’t even follow social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:03 AM
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Interesting... If by “close to majority” you mean 16%....I’ve personally never heard anyone say 16% was close to majority before. Lots of men have mental health problems and keep killing themselves. Men are killing themselves 3-4x more than women....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:56 AM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:47 AM
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Sorry you’re getting offended
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:44 AM
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Congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:43 AM
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How do you argue your intuition? Intuition means you’re going off a gut feeling with no conscious reasoning behind it as I’ve said above. Sure, I also have anecdotes. I doubt you have any studies on this either Of course not. My intuition also doesn’t tell me that I know the motivations behind all men’s and women’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:42 AM
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Its strange that you took my reply as being “offended”... If you’re judging the actions of all men and all women based on your intuition without the need for conscious reasoning...why would you want someone to change your view? Your ‘view’ on this can’t be changed unless there is some reasoning behind what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:28 AM
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So it’s just your feeling? How did you come to the conclusion that your personal experience is also what happens with all women? All of your replies just sound like you haven’t interacted with many people before/haven’t had many relationships with different types of women/things you’ve just seen on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:20 AM
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Interesting...my friends have never tried to fuck me.... Why do you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:17 AM
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How have you come to this conclusion? Apart from personal experience and anecdotal evidence? I ask as my experience and anecdotal evidence is that women who love sex typically want it from a variety of men. Have you got any statistical evidence for this or is this just a “feeling” you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:14 AM
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Confused by what you’re trying to say...can you elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:03 AM
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why is that a problem for society? Public health is a problem for society...this is indisputable. Again, this is common knowledge. Regarding the other things I mentioned, what do you think should be done with miscarriages? How do you know if they were intentional or not as 10-50% of pregnancies unintentionally end up in miscarriage? This isn’t like the lesser 1% statistic of women who are raped getting an abortion. If we want to take the 1% into account too, how do we prove that someone’s pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:01 AM
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If you want to convince someone of a position that goes against their self-interest That’s the point. I wasn’t trying to convince you of anything. I was just stating what my belief was. I don't think normally it's a good idea for the government to tell people what they can or can't do with their bodies. I have the same view. If women didn't want to be parents then they shouldn't have had sex. If men don’t want to be a parent, they shouldn’t have sex either. You argument for equality isn’t actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:30 AM
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This is weird to me. Do you believe men and women just can’t be friends? I have several male friends who I’ve known for a long time and they definitely don’t think I’m flirting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:33 PM
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When you're in a mixed-gender social setting yes sometimes unfortunately men rudely speak over women, but it's not a sexual thing. The particular scenario you’re giving isn’t a sexual thing. It’s sexism and arrogance. I’ve never heard feminists say it was “sexual”. The only people I seem to meet who don't speak to me like a human being are actually women. That sucks for you. It’s also your personal experience whereas your post is talking about all women and men in general. There’s also a chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:28 PM
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True. Could also be “oneitis”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:10 PM
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I see. The above still applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:51 PM
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After having a lot of quanitity... it became about higher quality women. What about AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:50 PM
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While it may not seem like it, men are the ones who actually get respect. Where? Which men? I’m assuming you mean all men as you don’t specify. If you think society gives respect to the average man....you sure haven’t seen much. Especially since your first example of this is two reddit subs... I hate to break it to you but....no one cares or gives any respect to the majority of men. The average man in America right now is uneducated (doesn’t have a college degree), overweight and makes 50k a yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:49 PM
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What on earth are you saying? I’m just going to assume your english isn’t that strong as I don’t see how you’re still misunderstanding. Telling someone to “act like an adult” or “grow up” DOES NOT bring their gender into it. It has no connection whatsoever to their gender/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:34 PM
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You do you dude. In the situation you described, there’s also a possibility that she would’ve gotten pregnant and had the baby. Just because someone says something, doesn’t mean that’s how they will act...especially when it comes to abortion. Hopefully you were aware of this when you had sex with her and were ready to raise a child and pay child support...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:31 PM
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I don’t see who I’m being disrespectful too when I’m talking about a hypothetical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:28 PM
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So RP philosophy is amoral, what you do with this knowledge is upto the individual. Yes but this question was directed towards RP men. If you know RP philosophy and you don’t act according to its teachings, how are you a red pill man? RP is about accepting that reality and trying to maximize the chance to get sex. Isn’t earning a lot of money and having sex with a prostitute every day & ONS regularly the best chance to maximise sex? No matter how you “groom” a women following RP philosophies I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:25 PM
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If you don’t implement what you’ve been taught by it...you obviously haven’t taken the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:19 PM
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Affection is just a chemical reaction, an electrical pattern in the brain. It is as real as any physical phenomenon. You can get the same chemical reactions from a nasal spray. Playing with your dog also causes the same physical phenomenon. It doesn't feel the same. If it did then you would have a point. If it doesn’t feel the same then there much be an underlying reason. Do you know what it is? Can it be explained by RP philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:18 PM
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sex feels great. What does sex have to do with being in a relationship? You can have sex every day with a prostitute if you need it every day. If not, you can have one night stands. Love is just electrochemical signals in the neuron in your brains. It makes you feel nice, but doesn't mean it's not just biology and physics. If this is the case why not just get an OxyContin nasal spray? It’s cheaper and much more reliable. Dogs also give you the same electrochemical signals and are also more relia…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:15 PM
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Regardless, if a women says the above, she hasn’t covered her unreasonableness well and you shouldn’t have sex with her. If you do, you’re an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:09 PM
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What are you talking about? Are you saying acting like an adult is only associated with/possible from one gender? Last time I checked, not acting childish wasn’t a gender norm....it’s something myself and others say to both genders. “Act like a man” is the one that enforces gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:07 PM
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If you wash your hands with gloves on, did you really even wash your hands? This analogy....doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:05 PM
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I’ve never heard any sane and reasonable woman say this...if you’ve/anyone else has heard this before...my advise would be to keep your penis away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:03 PM
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More importantly, why should I care? Weird question. I can’t really tell a random on the internet why they should or shouldn’t care about something. That’s your choice. I commented in response to your comment which said let’s make abortion illegal...so I assumed you cared about the legislation of abortion. Not exactly a stretch. When you’re taking about legislation...you usually take things like public health into account. Again, whether you personally care about it or not doesn’t really have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:59 PM
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Strange. I’ve followed it for a long time and it’s obvious. If you look at the girls who look like models, they get the same rating as mediocre guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:47 PM
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Men rate ugly men 7s and equally attractive women 3s. I think men rate themselves higher but also rate other men higher too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:14 PM
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Red Pill guys don't often admit this, but deep intimate relationships are very fulfilling. They provide peace and contentment in a way that short and casual just doesn't. If any of them think this way then they aren’t red pill. This goes against RP philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:05 PM
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Feels nice though. If you’re aware that it is meaningless and that there’s no love...how does it feel nice? Have you just tricked your brain into turning off the logic when you’re in these situations? You answered yes for affection but clearly the affection isn’t actually real. Why be in a relationship when you can just pay for a prostitute (and other help) as that’s essentially what you’re already doing? Isn’t this 100x better because it removes all the facades?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:02 PM
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How is telling someone to act like an adult when they’re being childish a “shaming tactic”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:52 PM
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I’m against abortion. Unfortunately, abortion is a public health issue. Unless you have managed to figure out how we solve the health problems that come with criminalising abortion. It would also be much easier to take it seriously if politicians who sponsor these bills don’t say things like “you need to reimplant ectopic pregnancies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:19 AM
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I am against abortion but I think abortion should be legal. My reasons for this mostly concern public health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:19 PM
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It doesn’t have anything to do with theirs vs mine. That’s really weird. I definitely don’t think gynecomastia is attractive. If we’re talking about muscular guys, it’s attractive if their chest is well proportioned to the rest of their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:16 PM
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How much do you make per year? Why are you asking? I thought you already knew? Especially since your assumptions aren’t baseless as you just said. Just wait until I am done with school lol. Wait for what? My assumptions were not baseless... They were baseless. I don’t even have to quote because it’s very easy to go up and look at all of them...there’s also so many. It is literally one of the most famous pro-choice papers. So yah more than just me lmao... ....when did I say it wasn’t? It is. Many…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:12 PM
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Yikes for baseless assumptions you sure do make plenty. That was....the point? How did you not understand that? I am much more well off than you and younger as well. Which critically acclaimed literature is this based on? What do I make per year? What’s my net worth? How much did I pay in taxes last year? 🤡 Very unlikely but sure I’ll take your word for it ;) More baseless assumptions Again....just following your lead, this is obviously something you love to do and started doing just one or two …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:55 PM
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This is hilariously prominent on r/ true rate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:46 PM
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Again, I assume since you have not answered the above question twice now that you do not have any credentials. You were also the one who went on a rant about intelligence, being a child etc. This isn’t usually something a very ‘intelligent’ person does...instead it’s something people who are community college educated and earn <40k a year say....since you like making baseless assumptions. That is laughable because it is academically and critically acclaimed. I still think you don’t understand ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:43 PM
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I’m pro-life..... Are you okay? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:31 PM
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That there was something in your comment that could be looked at in a condescending way...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:19 PM
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Is that the only paper you’ve read? Is she the only person you’ve read work from? Are you implying that someone’s opinion on a matter should come from ONE piece of academic work.... Yes as I’ve said you’re more than welcome to keep thinking I’m bullshitting....it doesn’t really make any difference to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:18 PM
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Most likely you were being snippy or stupid. It actually hadn’t occurred to me that you thought I was insulting you.... You seem to be projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:16 PM
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Again, very cute assumptions. I have read that paper and several of her other works. I’ve also done a literature review concerning abortion. I asked what your credentials were and if you were well versed or not but you haven’t answered. Feel free to keep making assumptions though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:13 PM
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I’ve already explained in my previous comment....the end point of this conversation is legislation...are you not understanding that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:10 PM
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You mentioned it....on a post about abortion and gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:03 PM
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Are you really so daft you need everything explicitly laid out for you like a child? I expected too much of you apparently... Very cute. Also laughable. What’s the famous academic paper? What are your credentials? Are you academically well versed in this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:02 PM
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That’s not how I “took it” but if that’s what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:54 PM
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Women also have to carry the baby....so from your logic, men should also give birth and nurse babies so that’s it’s fair? If you think basic anatomy and bodily autonomy is unfair, I think there’s a bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:53 PM
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First off consent to sex is not so sent to raise a child and it is a stupid argument. If we follow ur logic all abortion should be illegal. It is as dumb as saying women that dress slutty are asking for it You make zero sense. Are you saying a woman wearing a “slutty dress” is biologically likely to get raped? Is a hijab a condom in your analogy? I think you’re forgetting about the science here...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:51 PM
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I didn’t say you said that... The entire end point of this conversation is legislation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:49 PM
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You are anti abortion....but you encourage abortion.... Seems logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:47 PM
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According to your own posts, you think abortion is murder. Yet you would personally encourage someone to commit murder? Your arguments are invalid, you contradict yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:47 PM
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Getting an A in an abortion class unfortunately has absolutely no bearing on the legislation of abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:43 PM
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Consent to ejaculate is not consent to raise a child. It is. Parasites, every last one of you. Seems you are getting a little emotional. I have a vagina and I will never be taking money from any man. I’m also not a lesbian. Murder is dishonourable. A woman capable of murdering her own kin, whatever rationalisations she uses to justify her actions to herself, is a vile and dishonourable person. No decent person could do that. That’s your opinion. I also wouldn’t get an abortion. However, your arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:41 PM
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So you are against abortion I take it Yes. I personally am. Abortion is a public health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:35 PM
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a major life decision you had NO SAY OVER. You did have a say....unless the women raped you and forced you to ejaculate inside of her. Abortion is a public health issue. I am against abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:33 PM
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Unfortunately men are too dishonourable to actually raise their own kids. I fail to see how not aborting a baby is dishonourable. But yes, life is unfair. Both parties know sex can result in a baby no matter what precautions they take. If you’re a man who has casual sex and doesn’t want a baby, you’re an idiot for complaining if you haven’t had a vasectomy. If a man is really not able to understand that sex can = a baby, he should consider only having anal sex (if he can control himself). If not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:36 AM
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Life is unfair. You know what you are signing up for when you wilfully put your penis in someone’s vagina and you know it could result in pregnancy. Unless you’re 15, you don’t abandon your own child and you handle it like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:32 AM
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Interesting. Not American but I’m guessing it’s mainly cultural reasons. I always gravitate towards people similar to me in terms of culture/language/upbringing/education level/financial level as I believe it’s much more likely for things to work out. divorce rape happens Off topic but people who get married without a solid prenup are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:56 PM
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Not exactly This is probably why you had that experience. Most women who save themselves for marriage marry men who are the same and value their virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:37 PM
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Where is this happening? I follow a lot of women and haven’t seen it. Also sucks for small businesses going under too. Boo hoo for them too I guess 😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:14 PM
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Yep. Pretty obvious from how bloody often they talk about it. Make more money, date someone that pays half or stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:11 PM
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redpill people are people who have repeatedly or even solely experienced rejection for shallow reasons. How do you know what the majority of red pill people have experienced apart from the little real life evidence you may have? Have you met the majority of these men and experienced their relationships? If not, you’re just believing one side of a story someone who may or may not be a man has put on the internet and making an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:07 PM
2

Before you realised this, were you planning on waiting to have sex till marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:03 PM
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Which countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:02 PM
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I make a huge distinction between pretending to feel degraded and actually being put in a lower position in society by being degrated. Being degraded does not always = being put in a lower position in society. You can also be degraded by your partner with it having no effect on how society views you. Again, a lot of people’s kink IS being degraded. Whether it’s ‘pretend’ in order to achieve orgasm or not doesn’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:46 PM
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What’s your definition of grooming?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:35 PM
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This post is about paying for sex. The vast majority of people who pay for sex are male....so I didn’t bring up women and makeup etc. as I didn’t think that was part of the conversation. However, I still believe anyone (male or female) paying for sex is pathetic. I also believe paying for commitment is pathetic. Both of those things are things that aren’t a ‘commodity’ and you can never really buy them. If you’re paying for either of those, you’re not really getting them as a HUGE part of both i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:34 PM
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This post is about paying for sex. The vast majority of people who pay for sex are male....so I didn’t bring up women and makeup etc. as I didn’t think that was part of the conversation. However, I still believe anyone (male or female) paying for sex is pathetic. I also believe paying for commitment is pathetic. Both of those things are things that aren’t a ‘commodity’ and you can never really buy them. If you’re paying for either of those, you’re not really getting them as a HUGE part of both i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:34 PM
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Yep. Could say the same about all the men that fund cam girls who make a living from nothing and all the men that marry/provide for women who don’t bring in their half of the share.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:28 PM
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Men also become more and more worthless depending on how many women they’ve slept with. More so as they pay with money and then pay again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:11 PM
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Lmao why would I ever pay someone for sex. I wouldn’t pay a dime even if it was to have sex with Brad Pitt (when he was younger and hotter). It’s pathetic and only something men would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:08 PM
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What I'm saying is: sex is not degrading, nobody degrades oneself by having any type of sex, raceplay, etc. This doesn’t make any sense though. Some people’s kink IS being degraded. I’m not talking about whether it’s offensive or not, someone can be degraded and not be offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:03 PM
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what are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:18 AM
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Those consequences -- homelessness (actual homeless), incarceration, forced labor (aka slavery) Have you faced any one of these three? What have you done to legally further men’s rights? You think any view that is different to yours is “disgusting” and you haven’t actually said what equality is in several of these situations. You’re very far to one side on the discussion and emotional so it’s hard for you to see clearly. From your posts, this seems to be because of your personal negative experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:13 AM
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Why is it degrading? Why is calling someone a e.g disgusting whore degrading? It’s degrading because those are words with negative meanings. Unless there’s cultures in which these words are used positively in normal conversation. Someone asking for this doesn’t change whether it is degrading or not. If a black man is being e.g pegged by a woman and wants her to call him the N word...this again would be degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:06 PM
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and you assume she’s telling you the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:57 PM
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So what gives it away? Do you ask women what their N count is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:55 PM
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But the assumption that rough sex is degrading is blue pill. Sex is just sex, and whether you like harder or softer reflects very little on your actual personality. Some sex is degrading....some women want this degrading sex. Whether or not they actually want it is a different question. I’d say having someone piss on you or calling you a disgusting whore as ‘dirty talk’ is inherently degrading. The generational difference is largely due to differences in pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:47 PM
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Sounds like a deep rooted issue you should probably get treated for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:43 PM
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Yeah...the math doesn’t really make sense. 5’6 btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:22 PM
1

40%?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:18 PM
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Again, it is different for you because you are privileged. You almost shouldn't have a voice in this because you clearly cannot sympathize with people of the opposite gender. I assume you believe anyone who is a woman is more privileged than a man? I would say anyone with this view is clearly sexist. I also didn’t realise that an individual could decide whether or not someone is valid in participating in a conversation about sexism or not. How is it clear that I can’t sympathise? Is this somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:09 PM
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They promise it....in reality most gain 2 inches. I set my filter to 5’8 and have dated men this height....because height isn’t everything. Most women IRL are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:40 PM
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loses money and health and gains 0 in return
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:38 PM
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I’m saying you have never experienced rejection and loathing on the level very short men have. Personally, If you’re talking about sexual rejection, sure. Other types of suffering and rejection? Not reserved for short men. I wouldn’t be surprised if some get the surgery just so they can win back some faith in humanity. Does this work out? If you’re 5’4 and are 5’6 after getting surgery, will the women who have rejected you and the men who have made fun of you feel differently? I doubt it. Wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:35 PM
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Again...a lot of people are aware of the pain that is causing someone to feel they want to do this. Like I said, human suffering isn’t reserved specifically for short men. Thinking that everyone else has “no idea” what it must be like is naive and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:21 PM
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You will never understand the psychological trauma short unwanted men go through in their search for affection. shock horror but many people with other undesirable qualities are debilitated and ostracised because of them them too. being short isn’t the be all and end all of human suffering. There will obviously always be someone who doesn’t care about your wellbeing who is willing to perform this surgery. If someone decides to do this against medical advice, fair play and good luck to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:09 PM
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I don’t claim this isn’t true and I sympathise as I know I wouldn’t date someone of that height. However, romantic relationships and what the opposite sex thinks about you shouldn’t control your life to the point that you think an extremely painful surgery with a lot of complications is necessary. Especially when the end result will leave you a few measly inches taller. It’s very likely that you invest a huge amount into the surgery and women still don’t look at you the way you want to be looked…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:59 PM
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Unless you have a deformity you are getting fixed, life is also shitty if you get one of the many complications. Leg lengthening isn’t like getting a nose job. I sympathise with short men but being e.g 5’4 isn’t a deformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:50 PM
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You may simply be repeating what those people say All my views on this topic are based on literature or are my own views from experiences as I don’t talk about this outside of that. And to be clear, arguing that it does, is sexist (just like it would be racist in the other context). Arguing that men don’t want custody of their kids because they aren’t fighting for custody is sexist? I disagree. Also, as a POC, this isn’t a comparable example and doesn’t make sense. Its basically like saying men …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:44 PM
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They come from a position of deep seated hatred and bigotry against men. It seems you are very emotional about this topic and are heavily projecting. You’ve assumed above I had specific negative views when I didn’t and also was ignoring literature when I wasn’t. This “deep seated hatred” you’re talking about is also false. Let's get more places to pass equal custody legislation and then talk about this. I definitely wouldn’t call it privilege, I’d say it would be a moral obligation. But yes, I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:29 PM
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Did I say they didn’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:16 PM
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That's because you don't understand it and you probably don't want to understand it. Correct. No matter what financial, societal, economic circumstances someone is under, I find it difficult to understand why someone wouldn’t fight for custody of their kids. I can understand how “law's and society's treatment and expectations of divorced fathers may be facilitating their disengagement” as the study said. Key word being facilitating. This doesn’t explain how a parent could actually place societie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:11 PM
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Are you speaking for all women? Because I personally disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:49 PM
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Man with receding hairline getting a hair transplant. Sure. Hair transplant procedures/technology are incredible now. Man with extensive baldness getting a hair piece. If you can’t afford the above. They don’t look too great. Short man getting leg lengthening surgery. As a doctor - absolutely not. If someone is seriously considering going to this extent for something that is aesthetic, I’d think they had bigger problems. Man with small frame spending hours in the gym packing on muscle. And in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:04 PM
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Yes. Why wouldn’t I? I’d be happy to give suggestions as well if someone asked me to. The only time I personally wouldn’t like it was if this enhancement made them look ‘feminine’ e.g heavy face makeup or if the enhancement wasn’t well done (obvious huge blinding white veneers)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:54 PM
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I don’t have any problem with being what I am now, but if we somehow got to choose sex before birth I’d definitely choose to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:13 PM
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These decisions are overwhelmingly made under the backdrop of what would happen if it went to court. Again, since the percentage that actually end up with family court rulings are so low, it seems very weird to me that someone who wants custody wouldn’t even fight for it. if someone doesn’t legally fight for custody, it’s safe to assume it’s not something they cared about. Personally, I’d fight tooth and nail. Go ahead and let hubby take fewer hours at work so he can spend more time at home with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:21 PM
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Women decide who gets sexed based on comparing both of you...so there would be a competition especially if the women is higher value than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:04 PM
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Maybe you’re right or maybe this is what you’ve experienced. I personally haven’t experienced this with all the women I know but I’m sure my anecdotal evidence is a small %. My point is - what do we actually do about this? Men and women both want children and society needs children. Childcare is expensive and sometimes costs more than your salary. Do we just flip and focus on parental care as soon as the babies born so the mother can start earning again? I personally think this is a good idea bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:03 PM
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The men OP is talking about in his post...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:59 AM
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Every person regardless of their genitalia is supposed to be strong and independent. I agree, men should stop financially supporting women and only date women who make the same amount or more than them. Women should never date/marry someone who makes more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:58 AM
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91 percent of child custody after divorce is decided with no interference from the family court system. This sexism and bias toward mothers that people talk about applies to fewer than 4 percent of custody decisions that are made by the family court. A married father spends on average 6.5 hours a week taking part in primary child care activities with his children. The married mother spends on average 12.9 hours. Since two-income households are now the norm the above indicates that working mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:49 AM
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Sure, you can make an somewhat educated guess....but it would be stupid to think anyone can know how many people a person has slept with/if they have casual sex or not, with 100% accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:14 AM
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It is not the general consensus but mostly the slow morph of your perception if you read to much of communities that loath in their pathologies like Redpill or FDS. I meant general RP consensus as this is what OPs post talks about. This isn’t what I subscribe to. The RP opinion of what you’ve described would be that women don’t need trust, connection etc to have sex if the person they’re having sex with is a 10/10 chad. They only need these things from men they choose to ‘settle’ with where emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:53 AM
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Lmaooo how stupid Start working on your papers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:43 AM
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a guy does not care about the girls N-count for casual hookups (STDs aside) And since they all start that way (unless it’s a specific introduction) it’s not a topic of conversation or care at first. Again, this seems to be completely contradictory. If you meet someone and it leads to a casual hookup, you would want to have sex with them quickly. If most marriages are through hookups/casual dating, then according to OP/this line of thought, the person you are interested in marrying didn’t make yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:39 AM
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Dated a woman who wasn't comfortable and never did it. Sex happened after three months (or so?). Why wasn’t she comfortable? As OP states, wouldn’t she have slept with you earlier if she was more attracted to you? Also, how do you know she’s never done it before? Isn’t the general consensus that women lie about their sex lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:13 AM
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If she's never had casual sex I'll know. How will you know? I thought the general consensus was that all women lie about their N count/sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:10 AM
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Or when the man leaves and never comes back? But yes I’m assuming these superior men can handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:08 AM
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That’s the point I’m making. If you want a low N count wife she will most likely make you wait more than someone who has casual sex. Unless you believe that someone who has never had casual sex will somehow act differently JUST for you because she’s so taken by you. Seems counterintuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:28 AM
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Can’t these superior men OP is talking about look after themselves? I doubt these men want sympathy or pity for doing their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:22 AM
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The fact that women work less, at easier jobs, with better benefits, and lower pay, exemplifies what you might call female privilege. How much of this do you think is due to childbirth ans child care? Is childbirth selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:19 AM
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Yes...I’m talking about marriage too. Does OPs post not apply to marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:11 AM
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I’m talking about marriage/LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:56 AM
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If this is true, why do most RP guys want girls with N counts as low as possible? Isn’t that completely contradictory? As it’s very likely that a woman has had the opportunity to sleep with attractive men a large number of times. If RP theory is that a woman should never make a man wait for sex, her N count should be astronomical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:40 PM
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Shouldn’t you then hate all other men too because you’re competing with them for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:28 PM
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Although I don’t subscribe to this exact line of thinking, I think the point is that the average woman spends significantly more (money and time) on these things than the average man. I also think men wouldn’t be very happy if a women showed up to a date making none of this extra effort (makeup, hair etc). Most men say women lose a large amount of their attractiveness without these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:34 AM
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True. It depends what kind of attack it is. If we’re just talking about any violent crime that occurs at night time as in the OP, it’s not just men who jump out of alley ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:32 PM
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Did my penis magically protect me? Of course your penis doesn’t magically protect you...statistically it means you’re more likely to get mugged. I’m sorry no one cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:30 PM
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Sure, and some women want equality while also benefitting from gender roles (i.e., the man pays and initiates everything). I think that's also a red flag. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:28 PM
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A lot of men INSIST on always paying during the first few dates...at least from personal experience. I don’t see how this is a negative if you know you will be paying on future dates. I’ve also had the experience that some men who believe they should never have to pay for a woman still expect her to follow ‘gender roles’. Essentially they want ‘equality’ but only when it’s benefitting them. IMO that’s a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:06 PM
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If by support you mean pay 50/50 for everything in a relationship....again have only read some of their posts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:41 PM
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No, I see what you’re trying to say. The bear comparison still doesn’t make sense. Any way And in 99% of the cases average men aren't. This is what I disagree with. The average attacker isn’t stronger than the average man. The people who commit violent crimes aren’t jacked 6 foot 5 men the majority of the time. It doesn't matter if you can bench 25kg more than a women when you are confronted by a aggressive criminal who wants to violently attack you. It definitely does matter. Especially in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:39 PM
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In theory I agree. How do you prove a woman forgot her BC though unless she admits it? As BC fails.
/r/MensRights16/03/20 07:56 AM
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There’s nothing inherently sexist about having separate facilities. From a medical viewpoint, some victims of abuse have visceral reactions & PTSD that is triggered by anyone of the offending sex. So it makes sense that victims feel safer in separated spaces when they haven’t recovered yet. This is why rape kits are done by same sex doctors. This is obviously more complicated when it comes to men’s shelters as more of the perpetrators will also be men.
/r/MensRights16/03/20 07:53 AM
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Women can’t rape men in the UK either.
/r/MensRights16/03/20 07:39 AM
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Quotas affect the free market...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:57 AM
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That’s exactly the point I’m making.... If you have to hire people who are less qualified (because you HAVE to fill any type of quota), you will lose out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:50 AM
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Yes, I disagree with quotas. However, I believe that anyone who disagrees with gender quotas should also be against all others (affirmative action etc). I see. My experience has been completely different. My med school class of 200 was 50% female with women scoring higher marks than men and outperforming on average in all other extracurriculars. Going into a surgical field, my group is still a 50/50 split and no quotas involved. “Woman power” often leads to unreliable people and unskilled worker…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:45 AM
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I was talking about man vs. bear AND women vs. bear. Why/where does the bear come into this? We’re talking about physical differences between men and women and which one is stronger than the other.... What point is the bear comparison making? The bear is stronger than both man and woman. Just like in a man vs man and woman vs man situation the man is stronger. Do you believe women and men should compete in violent sports like boxing etc? Theres a reason almost everyone is opposed to mixed boxing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:36 AM
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I agree with most of what you’ve said...but I don’t see how it has much to do with gender as there’s female counterparts to everything you’ve mentioned. One can argue which one is worse or better but I don’t see what that achieves. shove women into the space to stick to the men even though there was no issue. Is the problem that women are taking away things that were traditionally ‘yours’? As there is an “issue” - most STEM fields need more people working in them...so encouraging 50% of the popu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:28 AM
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You also don't say men have an advantage in a fight against a bear because they are stronger than women. I think you’re entirely missing the point.... Why would you talk about a women’s strength when it’s a man vs a bear....is the women also involved in this fight? You’re talking about a woman’s strength when it’s a man vs a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:14 AM
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So your gripe is only with women who have committed crimes and have received lesser sentences/have low rates of conviction? I agree that women should be convicted/sentenced at the same rate men are. Not talking about crime but the rest of your comment - in what ways do you think women are being helped whereas men are being discarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:11 AM
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Average males don't have any advantage over average females. This is scientifically false...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:07 AM
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So.....why is OP being a coward?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:05 AM
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Of course it shouldn’t. EVERYONE should be cautious, especially in times like these. I don’t think anyone would dispute this. From what I’ve experienced, everyone is told to be cautious. Just like everyone is told to be cautious when walking through particular areas of town. The reason the focus is on women is because they are physically weaker than men (it’s unlikely they will be attacked by a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:00 AM
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So is your point that men need to be protected from other men like in your original post or that men need help before they commit crimes? I don’t see how the latter has anything to do with women being told to be careful/protect themselves. What you’ve explained is obviously true. But that’s a whole other conversation - generational poverty, racial inequality, absent fathers, labour market, shit health care, mass incarceration etc etc Also, women have mental health issues too. Women are more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:53 AM
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I see. All posts I’ve seen so far have been about financial independence, leaving abusive relationships etc. I’ll have to take your word for it as I have no interest in reading that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:39 AM
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If the point is simply that women are at greater risk at nigh time, then it depends on which crime you’re talking about. Women are much more likely to be raped or sexually assaulted. Looking at all other violent crimes, the victim to population ratio for men and women is roughly equal. The gender of the criminals was never part of the discussion. Why? The gender of both perpetrator and victim is always talked about. If it’s not part of the discussion then there’s no point talking about gender in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:37 AM
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Is FDS about being provided for? I thought that was red pill women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:17 AM
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I wish safety advice and being cautious wasn’t something society tells only women to worry about. I find this view pretty strange. Boys are told literally since pre school to not let anyone fuck with them or take advantage of them. It’s encouraged that they fight. Dads will even teach their sons ways to protect themselves. Do you mean you wish there were more classes/advice for men on how to protect themselves from sexual abuse/violence? And I dearly wish society would stop treating safety as so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:15 AM
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It wouldn’t be a gendered issue if men and women were attacking at similar rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:00 AM
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Why would anyone who is “empowered” (the type of person OP is talking about) want someone who will “provide” for them? That’s the opposite of female empowerment..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:58 AM
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The #1 porn search for straight women is lesbian Generally speaking, hetero porn is made for men. For example, girls like watching p**sy licking (searched for it 281% more than men) and there’s a lot more focus on this in lesbian porn. Hetero porn is usually more extreme/‘degrading’. Also, the majority of men in porn are not nice to look at. 1/3 women have had sexual thoughts/dreams about their female friends 74% of women get aroused at the sight of naked female bodies These studies tend to be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:51 AM
1

Yes sexuality is definitely a spectrum....but some people are just straight and some are just gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:05 PM
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at least as bi as women are. .....that’s exactly what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 01:53 PM
1

So all women are bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:18 AM
2

Why does it matter if they’re willing to pay half or not? Are you planning on pimping her out?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:49 AM
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100% straight is largely a myth Right....well I’ll have to take your word for it. Does this mean all straight men are lying/repressing themselves? Should I just assume they’re all bi or gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:45 AM
-1

Although many have bought into the cult idea, theres no scientific proof that semen retention has any health benefits. Anecdotal evidence and a placebo effect. Might as well believe in star signs too. it’ll continue to progressively feel less fun. If this happens you’re wasting your time with them and you move on to the next
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:06 AM
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The same reason people don’t believe in vaccines....they’re fucking idiots
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:56 AM
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Wtf? Sex should have no affect on you mentally. It’s like food. Gotta eat at least one a day or you’ll morph into a beta
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:46 AM
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lmao fortunately nope don’t live there at the end of the day it’s a billion dollar business, people being healthy is bad for almost all industries the “fat positive moment” is nothing but people wanting to drain every penny from you till you balloon and die
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:23 AM
1

Sorry you haven’t taken the pill my dude
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:01 PM
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😂😂 this is a massive reach that I’ve never even heard before but sure....ride it out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:23 PM
2

Yes it’s definitely rising....but it’s absolutely nowhere near the majority of people/women as your comment made it seem. If what’s been prevalent in the media was representative then we’d be living under socialism right now....not the other way around that’s actually happening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:08 PM
2

“princess party” 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:00 PM
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I’m not talking about either one specifically. Im just saying statistically, single men (both types you mentioned) are miserable and more likely to kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:56 PM
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Lmao why do you care so much about what, despite what twitter & reddit make it seem, is a minority of the population? Not everyone is a wOkE lefty.....anyone who believes they are is spending too much time online or is a middle class white elite who only associates with people just like them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:54 PM
2

I’m not talking about divorce....divorce is a risk factor for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:44 PM
3

You want a slave girl that demonstrates self-esteem? Lmao. Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:43 PM
7

Male friends or a a dog Sounds nice in theory. Turns out single men are absolutely miserable (more miserable than single women), are incapable of making friends/being social, and keep killing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:37 PM
-6

Settling down is beta. You’re literally ‘settling’ for less than you could get elsewhere and giving a single woman too much. Why settle for less than a 10/a supermodel? What are you gaining from the situation? Nothing. She will 100% leave you/cheat any way. AWALT
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:10 PM
1

Ah...well I guess you’ll have to ask them. I’m talking about IRL dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:01 PM
1

I am not saying the girl you are dating should tell you. Isn’t OP talking about girls he’s seeing/going on dates with? I don’t think he’s talking about a random on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:52 PM
3

RP hurts
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:49 PM
7

I suppose my worry is fitting someone else's standards. So pretty much what every human goes through. Unless you’re lying about something, it’s not wasting time. That’s just what dating is. Trial and error.
/r/askFDS13/03/20 12:48 PM
1

It’s a nice thought in theory...however, I can’t imagine any man would actually prefer being told he isn’t the most attractive man you’ve dated. A large majority would HATE it. Maybe everyone who feels this way should just date virgins and be celibate outside LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:39 PM
2

(aka human cam girls vs ProjektMelody) Huh? Why would someone who is anti sex work & porn (the people OP is talking about) be a cam girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:29 PM
1

Because I essentially feel that I wasn't attractive enough for her to sleep with me right away but other guys she had no problem with. Have you considered that this may actually be the case? That she didn’t sleep with you right away because she wasn’t that sexually attracted to you whereas the other men were more attractive? What would make this manipulative? Have you also considered that a woman might tell you she waited for respect etc in order to not be rude/hurt your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:08 PM
1

Funny because you said you were a lawyer, no? Where? “Working in law” whilst doing an undergrad in law is not the same as being a lawyer. You are obviously going in circles avoiding the same shit other posters and I keep saying. .....again, I’m talking about the majority of women killed by men with firearms (the 55% who are victims of intimate partner violence)....you seem to not be able to comprehend this although it’s been made extremely clear. You are also unable to distinguish fact from opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:33 AM
0

Authority bias much? I still argue that your specific situation is not the norm. I do not believe it. Maybe out of anecdotal shit, I know more women who have had to deal with altercations with strangers than an ex boyfriend. Feel free to argue with the CDC. As I said....it’s a fact not “anecdotal”. If you think a fact is an opinion...there’s not much anyone can do and it’s pointless. You knowing more women who have had altercations with strangers is....the definition of anecdotal.... edit: only …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:20 AM
3

Or is this a burden for small men only? It’s a “burden” if you make it one. The reason you disclose this is because the size of your penis will affect your sexual compatibility...which will affect all aspects of your relationship. The dealbreaker here isn’t if your penis is 2 inches long or 3 inches long etc. It’s if you can make your partner climax or not and if she will actually enjoy having sex with you. Some women are not stimulated enough unless their partner is of a certain size. If your p…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 11:14 AM
1

The mistake you’re making is thinking any woman is different to other women. They are ALL the same. Neither has “genuine interest” in you One might be better at acting. AWALT.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:40 AM
-8

Sounds like you have major oneitis. Why are you thinking so hard about leaving a woman? She’s probably already fucking someone else. AWALT
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:48 AM
1

I’m aware. However, if I’m dating someone and find out they’ve lied (even by omission), I won’t be dating them anymore. I’d think this was a pretty normal reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:22 AM
1

There’s about 20 different things here that are......false. Also several sentences that completely contradict each other.....but you’re emotional so it’s understandable. Out of all violent altercations between men and women how many are truly domestic disputes? How many are rapes among strangers? Muggings? Home invasions? 55% are....so......the majority. In above 90% of this 55% of DV cases the perpetrator was a current partner. Your idea that strangers kill women more....is very off. Strangers …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:20 AM
1

Again, sorry you are very emotional about this.....it’s obvious from the decline in what you’re saying and the amount of fluff here that this is extremely sensitive for you. You’ve made the same point and I still disagree....for the exact same reasons I’ve already explained multiple times. If you believe you are more well versed in this issue than people who have done this their whole lives, fair play. People are allowed to disagree with each other and have differing opinions....it’s a pretty co…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:09 AM
1

Makes zero sense again....sorry you are very affected by this and can’t understand logic and stats so end up making baseless assumptions. Also, come on now, we all know people only start cussing when they have nothing else to say. It’s beneath you. No crazy ex....studied and worked in law under people who study it (partner violence) for a living. But I’m sure you know more than them... Don’t shoot your ex wasn’t an “insult”....it was a direct response to you saying you wanted to kill your ex...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:21 PM
1

I still argue a woman in most situations save for your very specific domestic dispute/ crazy ex, the woman has a better chance with a firearm than with not. This was the only situation I was talking about....because we’re on a sub that talks about gender... It also isn’t very specific or extremely rare as you said. If you look at men who kill their partners, the majority do this with firearms. That was my whole point. Nothing else. Again there’s statistics on it but I’m sure you can find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:14 PM
71

MGTOW - but ONLY talk about women 95% of the time 🤡 They’re literally the men’s group most obsessed with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:02 PM
1

Or they just like having a chance to be “the victim”. All the girls get to do it why can’t we 😫😫😫!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:24 PM
1

completely missed the point again....this study talks about gun statistics on the whole....I was talking about guns & their impact on women/if they “equalize” women. Yes, people on the whole, are less likely to be injured during an attack if they have a gun...that’s common knowledge. if you still haven’t understood the difference between these two completely different discussions, you’re either trolling or there’s nothing much anyone can really do. Former or latter, have fun with your guns, try …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:52 PM
1

The problem isn’t with strangers and people you don’t know. In those cases, depending on the risk, I think women do benefit from being armed. I’m talking about the HUGE disparity in intimate partner violence. Men kill their girlfriends/wives at an alarmingly higher rate than women kill their husbands/boyfriends. Statistically, in a majority of incidents, this happens at home. Both partners know there is a gun in the house (so they are seemingly “safe”), and the men use this gun to kill their par…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:36 PM
20

“I dodged a bullet, I knew she was a fucking psycho since the day I met her. DoNt sTiCk yOur DiCk iN cRaZy bOys!!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:46 AM
1

Just read one of your unsent letters.....wow. Makes sense now 🤡 I take back my comments, following for the entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:26 AM
1

Yes...but it seems you are making an anti or pro gun argument whereas I’m ONLY talking about whether a gun makes a man and a woman equal...as I’ve said several times. Also I apologize for the “biased” link but frankly I’m not going to go digging for a left wing article supporting 2A shit I also wouldn’t use a left wing media source to make any of these points either. There is...the centre? There is also facts and science? Statistics are much less likely to be biased than TNA of all media sources…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:16 AM
1

Again, I don’t see what you’re exactly arguing about. As I mentioned in my comment below, you stated weapons make men and women equal. I disagreed. I didn’t think there was anyone who actually had this view...as it’s just common knowledge when there’s so much proof. But agree to disagree I guess. I also don’t know what you mean about screen names and making random assumptions. What happens with gun rights isn’t something I’m interested in...it doesn’t really affect me. I see you are very passion…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:10 AM
1

just laying there and taking it like your defeatist attitude seems to suggest. What has given you this idea? Where have I talked about what I think someone should do in this hypothetical situation? The statement was that guns are an equaliser between men and women. I disagree. Not just in this made up scenario of a random dude attacking you, but as a whole. It’s science....not a random media article piece. It’s also something you see first hand if you work in specific professions. https://www.nc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:05 AM
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I’m aware of these stats and also sometimes read TNA. What does this have to do with what I commented on in the first place? My comment was that “guns aren’t equalisers”. It seems you took this as me participating in a pro or anti gun argument....which I wasn’t. Also, it’s probably best to not use media sources that are well known to have an explicit right wing bias when arguing for right wing causes....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:45 AM
1

I don’t online date, I’ve only dated people I know well, unless they were “in the closet” I’d have known about it. But if I did then yes I’d slide the topic of sexuality in there if I planned on going on a second date. So I’m not wasting anyone’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:38 AM
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Sex positivity my ass. One of the best things I ever did for my mental health was to essentially curate my feeds. Unfollow every single person who doesn’t fit into your values. Also unfollow everyone who makes you feel bad about yourself, even when it’s not their fault. Constantly seeing this idea of “beauty” or someone else’s idea of success will make even the most mentally strong person doubt themselves. Instagram is cancer but the good thing is there is always someone on there who is an influ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:27 AM
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Nah IMO give them absolutely zero reason for them to call you “crazy”. Also give them zero reason to think they hurt you in any way and you’re taking it out on them. It will actually drive them mad and they’ll start to lose it completely 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:16 AM
75

Lmao exactly. Why do you NEED a male counterpart at work? Can’t you just be normal and be friends with people at work instead of having to create some weird fake relationship 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:14 AM
4

a free spirit/free love dude. ...so not straight? pansexual? You can never know anymore. Yep. That’s the risk you take when you decide to spend the rest of your life with someone. They could also take all of your money and kill your entire family. I would definitely prefer them coming out as gay over this....but yes anything can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:51 AM
0

....Both. Your argument is also flawed in several other ways which would mean the man is still stronger than the women even when both have guns. One of them - motor response. Men have statistically quicker motor responses to women and would most likely always be “stronger” even if there was no possibility of either being disarmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:46 AM
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.....idk....maybe if a man comes up behind you without you seeing him and corners you before you have time to grab your gun AND create distance? real life doesn’t usually play out like a video game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:35 AM
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That's 4% of all women Exactly my point. 4% isn’t a majority or even “a lot” like the people on this thread have made it seem. Except that they say there is no biology of gender as it's all constructed so there is no biology You’re talking about gender....radical feminists believe that “gender” doesn’t have a “biology” because there’s no difference between someones biological sex and their gender. A biological man is always a man. What is “constructed” are gender rules like: girls wear pink, boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:34 AM
11

How does a high count compare to sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:22 AM
9

You may want to just read what you’ve written...and clarify or rephrase 🤡 Are you saying bisexuality is a “phase”? Is bisexuality inherently “wild”? Is bisexuality also inherently “submissive”? Is sexuality a choice? Would your scenario also include this man being submissive to other women in the past? What about if it was a woman who identified as male? Why are you assuming that “its something in his past”? This seems to be where you’re misunderstanding. People don’t SUDDENLY become straight. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:20 AM
17

Are you comparing the number of partners that someone has had.....to sexuality? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:08 AM
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He’s posting on TRP and MGTOW 😫🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:04 AM
2

Do all men into fitness exclusively date fitness girls? What do you mean by a “normal girl”? If you don’t want to date a fitness girl or an obese girl, why don’t you date girls who don’t fit into these categories?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:03 AM
3

Good for you, your comment made it sound like you weren’t planning on improving just because girls might not want you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:58 AM
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Idc, this is the new standard for this sub 🤷🏻‍♀️🤡🚫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:56 AM
2

....a person can disarm you, this is easier done if the person is stronger than you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:51 AM
3

How on earth have you been able to ask all feminists what their views on science is? Must’ve been an enormous task
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:40 AM
0

If both have a gun and the man is stronger, how does he not have the upper hand? How is this equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:37 AM
3

and what proportion of the female population do you think these people make up? because studies and statistics show it’s VERY low compared to what the people on here think. I also don’t know where you got this description of radical feminism from. In fact, radical feminists are the ones that believe men are stronger and hence shouldn’t compete in female sports. You seem to be talking about liberal feminists....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:36 AM
3

if I ever improve myself to the point where a normal girl wants to date me 🤡 maybe take things step by step and actually improve yourself first? you obviously feel you need to improve in something. Or is your entire value as a person based on whether a girl will date you or not/how women value you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:28 AM
2

Correct. Masculine men allow several women to treat them badly again and again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:20 AM
2

You think a fist is sexual?? Maybe that’s just what you like sexually.... For normal people, and in line with what you were speaking about with regards to not dating women and realising your worth, a fist is used as a sign of empowerment....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:18 AM
1

BDSM?? You seem to be far more knowledgeable about whatever you’re talking about than me...if an emoji is reminding you of sexual acts....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:12 AM
2

What’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:09 AM
2

Loud and proud. You go gurl👏👏✊✊👊👊
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:07 AM
5

I wouldn’t call it being obtuse, you’ve just given no other meaningful examples of the point you’re trying to make. Regardless, it doesn’t matter. You’re the victim. Congrats on never having to date a woman again. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:06 AM
7

Yes speaking about men in general “getting used to women in the work place”. Why are 60 year old men in the dating pool and why would women want to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:00 AM
2

Good for you 👏👏✊✊👊👊👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:56 PM
8

What do you mean? How are you “getting used” to women in the workplace if you aren’t 60? Are you 55?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:54 PM
2

Good 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:46 PM
15

If I can get used to women in the workplace If you’re having to “get used to women in the workplace”, your situation definitely makes more sense. It’s unlikely that women want to date a 60 year old man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:44 PM
3

Then don’t date.....or suck it up and don’t bitch about it? If you choose to repeat the same thing and expect a different result...this doesn’t seem like a logical thing for an extremely rich tall attractive affectionate compassionate considerate loyal courageous man like yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:42 PM
1

So don’t date them....over and over again...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:38 PM
1

congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:35 PM
2

Why have you allowed multiple people to do this? Didn’t you realise after the first time....or the second time if it was so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:34 PM
0

How? How is a man with a gun equal to a woman with a gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:32 PM
3

Yeah he seems very upset, he’s obviously been fucked over by someone 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:28 PM
3

Guess I’m surrounding myself with the right people then 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s been pretty obvious social media narratives have nothing to do with the real world purely based on election results etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:26 PM
2

Bullshit you’ve never seen it happen. It happens every day. ...you seem very affected by this emotionally. I can’t really explain to you why your experience isn’t the ONLY one that exists. Again, only seen it happen on TV and reality shows. I also don’t talk to random women or notice random women’s relationships....maybe this is why. You said women don’t do this when they very obviously do. Nope, I said some crazy women do this and some crazy men do this. I won’t be dating anyone until women sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:25 PM
5

🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:18 PM
14

Surprisingly, women on Twitter and Reddit who make up the noise you’ve heard isn’t representative of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:17 PM
3

This comment has nothing to do with what I said. Most women write this behaviour off by women as the price of entry for dating for men. Again, as a woman, never seen this happen. Do you know most women? Regardless, I’m glad you will only be dating women who are your equals from now on. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:16 PM
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Is there any sane woman that disagrees that men are stronger than women? I’ve never heard of this. Isn’t is just a well known scientific fact? Hence why there’s a lot of women who don’t want biological men competing against women even if their hormones have been altered. Just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:04 PM
3

Who is “everyone”? I’ve never once in my life heard any female who behaves the way you explained in your post be described as anything positive by sane people. (Not considering reddit as real life here). Have you actually talked about “hypergamy” with anyone when discussing relationships in a real life professional or social setting? There may be a few crazy people who think women can act however they want etc. There’s also just as many men who act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:00 PM
6

What do you mean by “naturally red pilled”? Do you mean that someone is red pilled as soon as they come out of the womb? or have they been taught these values? I’ve never had any personal negative experiences with men. The only thing I can think of is being in a 3rd world country and being advised to cover up etc so that men won’t stare and I won’t feel uncomfortable. I also was never taught anything other than that women are equal to men. I’ve never experienced any disadvantage for being female…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:52 PM
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So does hypergamy exist or not? You said it doesn’t. Humans are wired to want the best option. Women want someone superior....so do men. Men will be broke, unemployed, obese, a 3 on the ‘scale’ and still consider most women ugly and won’t want to date a woman who is also a 3. That’s not anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:43 PM
2

Well, sucks for you then unfortunately. Seems like you will never find someone suitable for your ‘requirements’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 12:45 PM
5

Even if they did, they'll be running after male celebrities, not me. Have you personally experienced this? Surely you can meet women outside of your ‘circle’? If you’re a businessman, have you never met other female entrepreneurs? It seems you don’t like your current situation but you also don’t want to date women that are financially on the same level as you. So either suck it up or don’t date at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:18 AM
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According to RP, even if you tell a man about the number of men you’ve been with, he won’t believe you. So what’s the point 🤡 He will 100% assume it’s significantly higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:04 AM
9

Why are you choosing to date these women when it’s obviously a problem for you? Why don’t you date a woman that makes equal or more money than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:01 AM
2

Right....so gender doesn’t really have anything to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:48 AM
45

Barnett is an idiot for marrying Amber. The money thing should’ve scared him away. Also, i don’t see what makes him that high value. He’s average looking and is an engineer but wasn’t anything special. Jessica is a whole mess and shouldn’t have gone on the show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:43 AM
3

It pretty much just sounds like you find anything that is PC isn’t funny. Fair enough. Do you find PC men funny? There’s a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:38 AM
6

There’s plenty of girls who do this for their partners and go above and beyond. Pick better. Also if you feel like you’re ‘forcing’ yourself to do those things for a girl instead of actually wanting to, probably the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:35 AM
18

Block the 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:54 PM
16

Jesus, I need details 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:40 AM
68

He genuinely sounds like a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:12 AM
2

Personally, never experienced it. I don’t see them as more or less attractive as they aren’t a potential partner. I think it happens though. It depends on the ‘status’ of the girl the man is dating. If he was dating a model, more women would find him attractive. Pete Davidson is an example of an ugly dude this happened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:28 AM
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Weird question. They’re 50% of the population, so of course I have sympathy for them. Just like I would anyone else that may be going through something shit. I wouldn’t have sympathy for someone JUST because they have a penis though. If you’re talking about the disadvantages that men face due to gender roles, then yes. However, if you’re talking about the average man living in a western country, I personally don’t feel bad about what they perceive is “the short end of the stick”. If a man is bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:17 AM
12

I accidentally said this exact thing to a man while I was drunk and watched the light go out of his eyes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:09 PM
16

100%. How do these mediocre at best looking ‘men’ think it’s in any way ok or completely fine to insult THEIR OWN GIRLFRIENDS appearance? How can you be THAT brainless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:07 PM
36

Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:46 PM
5

I just really enjoy oral sex and I can't orgasm without it. I assumed you must’ve told him that you can’t orgasm without oral. I think it’s very different if he is also refusing to receive as in your example. Some people have just grown up with a certain amount of shame towards oral and you could try and work through it together. I assumed he was not giving but didn’t mind receiving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:43 PM
5

Yay! Glad you got out of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:08 AM
28

Trust me, not having a man at all is much better than having a man that can’t even TRY to give you an orgasm. There’s plenty of others just like him or better than him. Just keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:02 AM
10

I would’ve also found it cute at 14/15 but would be mortified I ever wore one looking back now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:57 PM
6

Yes, some people have to resort to sex work. Whether someone thinks it’s feminist or not, that’s their opinion. However, I think OP was referring more to the rise in sugar babies/cam girls/onlyfans girls. I know a lot of these women who do not need the money and see it as a side hustle. A girl I went to private school with dropped out at 16 and makes upwards of 10k a month from being a sugar baby. (I know this because she mentors other girls on how to do the same on social media). At 22, she bou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:50 PM
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That’s the point...sex doesn’t have a ‘rate’ because it’s not a ‘commodity’...at least IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:31 PM
201

Imagine valuing your pussy at the rate of a burger and french fries 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:59 PM
39

my rule after being an idiot in my teens: if I’m not engaged/married to you, ONE strike policy that will only be two strikes in extreme circumstances. if you’re afraid you’re losing something otherwise good, end it, be no contact and if it’s meant to be, he will find a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:05 PM
9

🤡......he wants a slave. tell him, no matter which way he calculates it, it’s cheaper to pay for a cook/cleaner/prostitute. also tell him never to have kids, surely this woman will get bored and cheat and he will end up paying life support for the next 18 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:56 PM
9

I’m not one to say it NEVER works. I just think you should live your life assuming and being prepared for it not to. I’ve personally been around a lot of great heterosexual relationships that have lasted 50-60 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:52 PM
34

NEVER. I regret being a 16 year old and doing this. BLOCK. DELETE. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:18 PM
12

I like men that look after themselves but I don’t like ‘feminine men’. Just my preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:15 PM
52

Men lose all power the second you don’t depend on them financially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:14 PM
1

Never been asked. Any normal person who knows how to handle themselves in social situations wouldn’t ask. I’d expect a teenager or an angry fat man to ask but I don’t really interact with those groups. If they did, I would answer the question. Wouldn’t ask them and it would be of no interest to me as I would not see them as someone I’d want to pursue anything with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:05 PM
21

Agreed. Sucks more when you’re from ethnic/religious backgrounds that deem you “not marriage worthy” after a certain age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:00 PM
2

I’m the same way with my dad. I value his opinion he knows what I want and don’t want in a partner and I hope that if I’m ever ‘blinded’ by someone, he will be able to point it out. If a guy says “it’s not feminist”...that’s bullshit and he either has a bad relationship with his parents and doesn’t understand it or he’s insecure. The whole mamas boy thing is a little overblown for me. I want to be with someone who loves their parents just as much as I love mine. It comes down to what type of per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:32 AM
6

Lmao the audacity they have to think anyone else cares about their slight discomfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:25 AM
7

In what world is Penn Badgley anything less than an 8?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:44 AM
5

Agreed. Semantics. Yeah bezos could literally have any woman on the planet, his girlfriend is 50 give or take. Macron, Trudeau etc. Lots of examples of men who marry women <= 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:51 PM
4

Ever. Disagree. Look around. Would you say a very high SMV man dating someone in their 50s doesn’t have the choice of dating a 25 year old? There’s examples I’ve seen in my life and I’m sure you’ve come across. If not, there’s a lot of celebrities/influential people in these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:40 PM
4

Depends what you’re looking for as a man. If you’re looking to have kids then obviously not. However, for the average man who didn’t want more children, I’d say a large percent would choose JLo (50) over the average 25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:34 PM
9

I definitely feel the pressure of having an expiration date. However it’s self inflicted. I want a lot of children and would like to conceive naturally and not out of wedlock. I also want to be financially in a good place before I have children. After I have children though, I don’t feel like my age affects anything I do. I have financial goals for each decade so I can retire early but I wouldn’t consider this as an expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:28 PM
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