britishgent60 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
558	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers	britishgent60	/r/seduction	12/11/21 01:12 PM
166	Always approach girls no matter what	britishgent60	/r/seduction	21/04/21 01:41 PM
53	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date	britishgent60	/r/seduction	27/09/21 06:20 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s? Dragging every man they’ve ever met on social media. And reporting every negative interaction on tiktok. That’s basically the only hobbies women have nowadays.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 10:33 AM
2	Best way to ask her out on a date? Just a simple “hey I’m free from (insert time) this week, let me know if you want to go out for dinner or do something in the day time”. It’s clear she has good intentions otherwise she wouldn’t have given you her number. But giving her a day date or an evening date leaves no pressure from her side.	/r/seduction	23/01/22 11:54 AM
–	How? By talking. Tell her how you feel. You might find out that she is nervous because she hasn’t dated for years. Or maybe she has something else going on in her life which is distracting her. If she is making it to date 7, she must like you. Otherwise she would have stopped meeting you already. Ask her again exactly what she is looking for. Some girls are extremely reserved and this is just their way of showing commitment. (Though it feels unnatural to most guys).	/r/seduction	18/01/22 10:44 AM
6	Is driving an hour to meet up with a woman doing to much? I wouldn’t say so. You won’t necessarily find people you like in a 20 mile radius. That’s just not how life works. So if you have a connection, I’d just go for it.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 02:28 PM
–	MONEY, LETS BE HONEST! I wouldn’t say it makes a difference. If I’m honest, you can’t show wealth over tinder etc. And if you do it just looks like you are showing off. I’d consider myself wealthy for my age, but if I’m honest 90% of women don’t care what job you have. And on dating apps are only concerned about looks. When I was on these apps I got very few likes because I’m average looking.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 05:21 PM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers In the past I’d obviously be more overtly flirty. But now I don’t need to approach people as much. I still do it if I’m bored or just want to have a bit of fun. But you can always change your behaviour and cater it to your current relationship. I have quite a few girl friends via my girlfriend. And I have good banter with them because we are comfortable with one another.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 12:51 PM
2	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Hope it helped.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:58 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers It’s weird. I’ve had some crazy reactions. But it’s always the feminist crazies who get upset. Like “omg a man is talking to me, I must make a scene”. But 99% of women just love conversation and a variation to their normal routine. And you’ll find are happy that you are even talking to them.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:57 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers It’s because the gym is not a good place to talk to people. She is there to work out. Not to flirt or chat. I’d never approach a girl at the gym unless I already knew her.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:55 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Yes, everyone has their own story. It’s amazing how much you can have in common with complete strangers.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:53 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers It just makes sense to do this. And also lifts my own mood if I’m feeling down and need a lift myself.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:53 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers It’s weird how talking to Pepe can completely change their day. It all comes down to mood. A lot of people go a lot of time without talking to other people. It’s amazing what a conversation can do.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:52 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Like 1%. The rest of us know we are not bad people. And equally respect women / other men. So this doesn’t even cross our minds.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:50 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Just start with small steps. Go on walks. Say hello or good morning to people. Go to a store you wouldn’t normally visit. Ask what they recommend. Most of this would come down to facing your fear. Which I guess is the fear or rejection or not being wanted. The best thing to do is start with small steps. And eventually you may be confident enough to join a group or a club of people. And over time regain some of your confidence.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:50 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers You will never have a ‘deep’ conversation with strangers. There’s the occasional person who really clicks with you. But unless you are meeting more than once, it’s unlikely you are going to enter a deep conversation on the spot, with someone on the street. But it doesn’t mean you can’t form a relationship with someone like this over the space of a few weeks or months.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:47 AM
2	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I agree. But I go to a lot of cities so maybe this is only unique to me. I do a lot of travel, so technically am a tourist. But you could also use it in a playful way. “I feel like a tourist in my own city”.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:45 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I think you are overthinking. If you are talking to a complete stranger, why does it matter if you can’t keep a conversation going? Nobody is going to judge you for flaking a conversation. You just need to pick up on what they’re saying and try and shadow them.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:43 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I agree, you probably aren’t going to find the next soul mate. But it’s how you apply it. You could find someone that shares an interest. And meet a lot more people and grow your circle.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:41 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I am probably the biggest introvert on this damn sub. And was the ‘loser’. I can go weeks at a time alone if I wanted to and it wouldn’t bother me. But I realised I wasn’t a loser, but was just being lazy. You need to realise that people don’t make much effort like they used to. So if you put yourself out. People will appreciate it.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:37 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I agree. There’s always a small percentage of society that can ruin the image for everyone else. But you’ll be surprised how happy strangers are when you talk to them. It’s something they are not used to and a novelty in this age.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:35 AM
2	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers It’s kind of sad to see. But given the rise in social media. I’m glad I was born into it. And not born with it. Kids nowadays don’t know a world without it.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:34 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Covid.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:33 AM
2	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers That’s kind of the whole idea of this post. And it works because I’ve done it many times in multiple cities. Strangers are somewhat interested when you disrupt their normal routine.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:33 AM
2	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers There is no point getting numbers if you have no intention to follow it up. This is why it is better to try and get to know people before you ask for their number. Or at least work on conversation skills before you consider looking to go further with people.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:32 AM
2	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers “I am actually a time traveller I don’t know what an iPhone is”.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:30 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers There will always be part of society like this. But at least you can recognise this behaviour.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:29 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I think this is what people misunderstand about this stupid “pickup” trend. It isn’t about closing the solid 10 super model. It’s about conversing with as many people as possible. And being the most confident and open version of yourself you can be.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:28 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers As many said. We rely too much on the internet. And live our lives through others. And derive our happiness through what they’re doing. So when we go to have our own experiences, they never live up to what we thought they would. Too many people keep their heads down. Even if you say hello to the old guy at the shops. It could make his day. You never know how lonely people are.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:26 AM
–	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I agree and disagree. I think this is about building confidence. And is not necessarily going all in to get a number or close on a date. Most of it is just conversational skills that most have all but forgotten during lockdowns or C19. But if you are approaching a specific person, obviously this is not the right psychological approach to take.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:24 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers I consider myself an introvert. But once I start talking to people, that whole anxiety goes away. Same with parties. I’m not a fan. But once I get there I’m a completely different person. It comes down to do you want to enjoy time? Or dwell on what you didn’t do? But it is a juggling act. I agree.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:21 AM
1	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Very true.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 11:20 AM
–	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date We went out a couple of times since. Maybe I do a follow up. But since the initial leg work is done, there isn’t really much else to add. It feels like we know each other enough now and are really comfortable together.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 02:04 PM
–	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date I guess. But I could have easily just said no. I saw a chance and took it. Like she probably did too.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 10:18 PM
–	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date Probably like 5 - 10 seconds. Because she was driving. I didn’t want to distract her too much.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 10:15 PM
1	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date Thanks. So far so good.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 06:17 PM
1	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date Appreciate it. Thanks. It was so hard because she was literally the first girl I’d spoken to after covid lockdowns. And I felt so rusty. But went in with an all or nothing attitude (which I think helped ease my nerves) I had nothing to lose.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 05:16 PM
1	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date We’ve been for cocktails and drinks a few times. Had a few meals and spent quite a bit of time together. It’s crazy how if I wouldn’t have acted on my intuition, none of this would’ve happened. Time and place is such a weird thing.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 05:15 PM
–	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date Sorry the text was so long. I got hyped up after a bad year of covid lockdowns. And it was my first interaction with a girl in sooooo many months. So had to write out every tiny detail.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 05:13 PM
1	Instead of an Uber I went in her car and set up a date It’s also really intense in an enclosed space like a car. Because I was sat literally a foot away from her face. So it’s not like I can just pull away easily. I think most of it comes to the verbal communication we had. While being suggestive and giving her the lead. She was really quick to click with me. Which made it such a fun and interesting interaction. Not many times do I go in girls cars (unless my very close girl friends). So it was definitely a different scenario to deal with.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 05:11 PM
1	Always approach girls no matter what I was pretty surprised how well we both clicked. I enjoyed it a lot.	/r/seduction	23/04/21 08:30 AM
1	Always approach girls no matter what Kind of. I’d say show you care. But in your feelings just be more relaxed.	/r/seduction	23/04/21 08:29 AM
2	Always approach girls no matter what Far from it. Just always think 2 steps ahead and have something else to say. And it’ll be so much easier.	/r/seduction	23/04/21 08:28 AM
1	Always approach girls no matter what Yes. I don’t care anymore.	/r/seduction	22/04/21 10:05 AM
1	Always approach girls no matter what Just start with light touch and she will probably slowly build up in her body language and facial expressions in making an effort to reciprocate it. Enjoy. And most importantly just have fun.	/r/seduction	22/04/21 10:00 AM
2	Always approach girls no matter what Ask about random topics. Joke about how boring the pandemic is. Or “I’ve actually completed Netflix 7 times now”. She will laugh and respond with “no way, me too”. Which also leads to; “we should watch a movie sometime”. Her “great idea, I can’t wait”. Me “yes, but who’s in charge of snacks?”. Her “I am snack god”.... just talk about things that seem boring but relatable. And she will most likely keep talking.	/r/seduction	22/04/21 09:56 AM
1	Always approach girls no matter what Nothing is easy.	/r/seduction	22/04/21 09:48 AM
1	Always approach girls no matter what 🙏	/r/seduction	22/04/21 09:47 AM
6	Always approach girls no matter what I think in this situation most of it comes down to eye contact and suggestive questions. If you talk about the weather, let her know you think it’s cold. Most of the time she will agree. Then say “come closer to me, I can block the wind out”. It then gives her the chance to move closer. I also had the bonus of the dog lead. I kept deliberately getting the dog tangled in my legs so she would have to untangle it. It meant that we were passing the lead back and forth and ended up in a lot of hand t…	/r/seduction	21/04/21 11:11 PM
3	Always approach girls no matter what I literally just sat down and then said in a softer voice; Hey, I’m just going to sit here. Obviously she can’t say no. But it also verbalised what I was doing. As for names you should always introduce yourself first. And she will likely say hi I’m . As for excitement I think a lot of it comes down to where we were. Look around you. So __ do you like people watching? Where would you go if you could people watch anywhere in the world? Talking of world, do you have any vacation planned this year? …	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:54 PM
3	Always approach girls no matter what Thanks.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:40 PM
2	Always approach girls no matter what Yes. Lockdown and covid changed me. I seem to be more fearless than I was before. I just decided to not care what people think of me anymore.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:40 PM
7	Always approach girls no matter what I was fine to leave it where it was. In all we probably spoke a good hour and a half of deep conversation. To the point where I didn’t want to get boring but also wanted to maintain some mystery. And as we arranged a date to meet again there and then it made it so much easier. That something I thought of. Always confirm future meetings in person. As she felt way more comfortable than me just barraging her with loads of messages.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:38 PM
2	Always approach girls no matter what There honestly is no risk. If she said no. I’d of still talked to her, I just would have been less flirty if I realised she was not receptive. I think I noticed that too. I sometimes leave conversations too early. When I could just have a normal conversation with somebody to work on my flow. I also realised how quickly I adapted on the fly to how she responded.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:35 PM
3	Always approach girls no matter what I think people base too much off of social media. You can be the most attractive dude in the world but have the charisma and charm of a wet fish. Just do it. Most girls really just want interesting people to listen and or talk to.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:29 PM
7	Always approach girls no matter what Yes, this actually happened. I just had a go hard or go home attitude. Covid has really messed up a lot of things. And I’ve learnt to just take every opportunity and be more outgoing with strangers. 2021 I finally conquer my approach game.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:26 PM
12	Always approach girls no matter what I think the issue is that people go straight in for the “can I have your number” which puts a girl off. I had no intention of getting it. I was genuinely bored of being at home, saw the cute girl and showed genuine interest for a solid hour. Opening with “I want your number” is going to get you rejected very quickly as you have built no rapport and are simply a stranger at that point.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:23 PM
3	Always approach girls no matter what Everyone was standing and she sat down alone 20 feet away from everyone. So I was like; Holy shit, if I don’t sit next to her now I’ll never talk to her. I think all the guys in the group noticed because they were like “who the fuck is this dude?”. It was hilarious. And in itself it gave me more confidence because they all just stood around looking bored.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:20 PM
10	Always approach girls no matter what First time in months talking face to face with “real people” . Figured I literally had nothing to lose. Thanks.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:16 PM
1	I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value. And how many are deep fucking value ?	/r/seduction	16/02/21 09:50 PM