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| 89 | He doesn’t treat me the way I deserve but I still can’t let goYou have, like so so many of us, fallen victim to falling in love with potential, or at least just a piece of him. Maybe he's really funny or he has a smile that makes you giddy inside or you like how passionate he is about a hobby. Whatever piece you love about him, you see something good, and it only makes sense that he should be able to expound that goodness to include caring about and for you. Unfortunately, you think this way because you can care about him, so you understand that is should … | /r/askFDS | 04/08/21 04:26 PM |
| 7 | Correlation between paper and dice roleplaying games (e.g.: D&D) and LVM?I'll happily disagree here! My friend group plays, and we started not too long ago. Amongst the group we have: married couple #1 where he actually works for Twitch and she's an artist, he makes great money for the both of them and takes care of her very well; married couple #2 where he's a med student and she works, and they have a lovely home (they actually host our playing sessions); single guy #1 who lives in the 2nd couple's spacious basement apartment and holds a good engineering job; singl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:04 AM |
| 5 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Thank you! I really did. I wish I could post more pictures but Reddit can be scary when you post pictures of yourself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:29 AM |
| 6 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Oh, best of luck to you as well!🖤 And absolutely. I think it's totally okay for men to having learning moments and such, as no one is born with inherent knowledge on how to date well, but there's a difference in if you need to train your partner like a dog vs if they're learning on their own and simply need some direction here and there. How they respond matters (actually changing behavior immediately vs conveniently forgetting or never even trying). Healthy relationships grow and improve togeth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 24 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Sure! I actually met him just before I found FDS. We met on Tinder really just before Covid became a thing (at least, where I live), which is the short of it. We obviously didn't have a usual dating experience because of that, so I spent 6 months vetting before agreeing to be in a committed relationship, though he was ready about 3 months in. Before I found FDS, I had already been shifting some of my opinions and mindsets, so when I found it, it just solidified and helped me pinpoint a lot of th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:19 AM |
| 19 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Thank you! And I love almost every color of roses, and I've been on a pink kick lately! I loved the matching vase, too. He picked such a good delivery company. I should have added another picture to better show off the display instead of just the height, but I was so surprised by how big they were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 81 | My birthday was on a Sunday, and my boyfriend turned my birthday into a weekend celebration, starting with these huge (B&BW candle for scale) roses delivered to my door on Friday and taking me to a lovely restaurant in the canyons on Monday, with gifts and family time in the middle🖤🖤🖤Last year, we had just started dating (not in a relationship), and he got me a small but thoughtful gift (I believe we also got some takeout? I don't remember, my location was pretty shut down at this point because of Covid). But after several months in a relationship and taking note of what I specifically love, he got me my favorite flowers (yes, I love roses, idc if it's basic lol) delivered, which really set the tone. We spent lots of time with my family, and his gifts were things he picked f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 93 | Flowers???Flowers are a lovely gesture! Lovebombing would be something like, "You're the most incredible and beautiful girl on the planet, and I can't wait to start our lives together." Get the flowers:) | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 25 | Former SWer looking for input, advice, wisdom, etc. from FDS on how to move on with my life & heal.I think the other comments have been really spot on for your emotional and mental well-being. Career-wise, you're already doing great with rebuilding your social media and all of that. Put your stuff on private, etc. And then just go for it! Pick a career you want and make the path forward. Don't let yourself be stopped by thinking your past work will limit you. Pretend you're fresh out of high school and it's time to venture forward with your career plans, whether that's going to school or lear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Journal therapy for emotional and mental leveling up. By women, for women. Info in the comments on how it works, but it's essentially at-home therapy and mental training to love yourself and be happy. It's been working for me, and I hope it helps someone else!You're very welcome! Hope it helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Journal therapy for emotional and mental leveling up. By women, for women. Info in the comments on how it works, but it's essentially at-home therapy and mental training to love yourself and be happy. It's been working for me, and I hope it helps someone else!Ofc! Hope it helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Journal therapy for emotional and mental leveling up. By women, for women. Info in the comments on how it works, but it's essentially at-home therapy and mental training to love yourself and be happy. It's been working for me, and I hope it helps someone else!Ofc! Hope it helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Journal therapy for emotional and mental leveling up. By women, for women. Info in the comments on how it works, but it's essentially at-home therapy and mental training to love yourself and be happy. It's been working for me, and I hope it helps someone else!I highly recommend it. You can go at whatever pace suits you, and it's guided without being restrictive. I think there's a lot of room for adapting the methods and prompts to your own needs:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Journal therapy for emotional and mental leveling up. By women, for women. Info in the comments on how it works, but it's essentially at-home therapy and mental training to love yourself and be happy. It's been working for me, and I hope it helps someone else!For anyone interested: https://www.waveofmind.com/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:29 PM |
| 40 | Journal therapy for emotional and mental leveling up. By women, for women. Info in the comments on how it works, but it's essentially at-home therapy and mental training to love yourself and be happy. It's been working for me, and I hope it helps someone else!Wave of Mind is a 6-month journal program that helps guide you, day by day, week by week, month by month to increase your mental and emotional well-being. Each month has its own theme, and since it’s a journal, you can work at your own pace. This company is completely women-owned and established, and they have used female clinal psychology professionals to “curate this content so you can apply research-based techniques to your specific concerns.” There are various lessons, activities, practices,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Hahahaha yes, love it all! Swimmer's build is a great way to put it, too! Soul sister here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?I just grimace at the thought of chubby hands holding my face or trying to lace my own fingers with them, so ha, I don't blame you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Lol right?? Especially if a guy is trying to run his fingers through my hair or trace my body or just hold on to me in any capacity at all, like...fat fingers get in the way and are clumsy! Slender fingers do such a nice job at all the things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 13 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Oh boy do I have preferences! In the spirit of the post, we’ll list the more peculiar/picky ones first and go to more general agreements from there. · Long fingers, preferably a bit slender. I don’t like sausage fingers. Hands that are thicker from like, rock climbing or something are nice, too, just no fat hands. · Big head. Like a big noggin. I like bigger than average skulls. · Teeth particularity: Nice canines. I like a little vampire-esque look. Teeth in general: MUST HAVE GOOD TEETH. My te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Hints in his apartment that he is high value?A man without a bathroom trash can does not know how to take care of a woman. You're going to notice whether or not the floors are clean and the towels are fresh, etc., but that's an easy one to 1) forget to check and 2) give you a very good idea on how well he understands women. Excuse yourself to the restroom early on and take a moment to check his linens closet if it's in there and underneath the sink; you can usually see if they have a respectable amount of towels and products that indicate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Letting go of resentmentAfter a couple of bad and bitter breakups, I went through a phase of being angry all the time. I had no interaction with my ex(es, this happened twice), but I was simply consumed with anger and resentment. It kept up until I realized how exhausting and draining it was to have him on my mind all the time, and I also realized by allowing myself to think of all the wrongs and grievances, I was letting him have power in my life still, and I was still spending time and energy on his undeserving self.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:51 PM |
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