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Seriously. This post and all the comments agreeing with it... what the actual fuck. This place is mostly filled with shit these days.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 10:02 PM
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Not true. I have seen people go through shit and come out the other side a completely different person. Didn’t take long until their family realised they were not the same person they grew up with. This can apply anywhere in life. Work, home, romance etc.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:23 AM
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What the actual fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 05:11 PM
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Brah I’m ugly as fuck. Got a big Iranian fuck off nose and a weak little chin. I’m not chad but I still get girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 08:00 PM
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The amount of mental gymnastics in this and the asktrp sub is ridiculous. The whole point of this place is to teach you fuckers to stop putting pussy on a pedestal and to stop seeking female validation. Yet you’re all trying your hardest to seek validation through whatever means you can. “If I do X then HB8 will like me, and then I’m alpha and my life is complete”. Fuck off. Whether women find you attractive or not should not concern you. All that should concern you is that you’re the best you c…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 04:12 PM
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I’ve been here for a few years now, and whilst most RP truths are confirmed to me on a daily basis, I don’t buy into this post, or perhaps I have misinterpreted it. I’ve met many basic bitches who lack empathy, who are narcissistic and selfish. I’ve also met many women who are intelligent, self aware and have plenty of empathy to others. It doesn’t at all change AWALT. But the idea that all women are some strange beings that can’t feel empathy, and can’t even comprehend life outside of their own…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 06:36 PM
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I must be a cynical bastard because I think almost every response here is far too easy going. Even if by some miracle she isn’t fucking some other dude, she’s being sly and dishonest and that in itself is a red flag. Easy for a stranger to say, but I’d straight up ditch her ass as of now.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:18 AM
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This shit has been happening for years and won’t stop anytime soon. There’s an article on the BBC right now which states categorically that complimenting a woman on the smell of her perfume is sexual harassment. I shit you not. That Gillette add features fat beta dads making it seem like boys play fighting is bad - “toxic masculinity”. It also has a scene where a buff chad goes to chat up sexy Stacy, and is stopped by Tyrone who makes it clear that approaching women is “not cool”. We are being t…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:28 PM
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Nofap is a load of bullshit. If you’re a porn addict with a broken dick, sort yourself out. If you’re a normal guy who watches porn every once in a while, you won’t unlock some supernatural powers or become an alpha by abstaining from it.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:11 PM
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I know you’re just trolling. Here’s a story anyway, for anyone who comes across this thread: A scorpion asks a frog to carry him over a river. The frog is afraid of being stung, but the scorpion argues that if it did so, both would sink and the scorpion would drown. The frog then agrees, but midway across the river the scorpion does indeed sting the frog, dooming them both. Before sinking below the water, the frog asks the scorpion “why did you do that? You have killed us both.” The scorpion rep…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:20 PM
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A) Because you’re a female Or B) Because you have issues
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:52 PM
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What 100% alpha is going to want her old post wall body to fuck? These men are out slaying whatever women they want. The only thing she’s getting is weak men who are way below her in the financial food chain, or gold diggers looking to exploit her money and/or social status/connections.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 12:44 AM
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He’s rich enough that who gives a fuck. She’s known him since his beta chump prime days and that image will never change for her. 25 years is a surprisingly solid run. What would be stupid, is if he goes and gets married again.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 06:06 PM
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I don’t agree with this. Look back through history and you will find an infinite supply of powerful men that have committed and been responsible the darkest atrocities you can imagine. Sometimes leading their countries/tribes into great power, sometimes leading to their own destruction. Mass genocide, war, murder, dictatorship etc etc. I think on a human level, men and women both have an equally high potential for being cold as fuck. The people in this world with real power will not think twice …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 01:46 PM
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Post is bullshit. The term “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” is a simple truth. There’s no deep hidden meaning to it, there’s no cuck mantra, it’s just a simple way to let blue pill men grasp that you don’t own women and you can’t control what they do, so stop trying. If she stays, she stays, if she leaves, she leaves. Nothing cuckish about that. Nothing defeatist about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 09:28 AM
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No mate, what I’m trying to say is women do not speak with red pill terms like OP seems to say. Females speak covertly. OP is a shit story teller and even worse liar. Women will ditch you for being a pussy but they won’t openly say it how it is, they’ll make up some other BS excuse. What the fuck has this sub turned into....
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:31 PM
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This is the fakest shit I’ve ever read, no woman talks like that.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:29 PM
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Lmao, stretch to get tall? OP, lift more, try join a martial arts gym, and don’t take shit from people. You shouldn’t need friends sucking you off in order to feel good about yourself. Be the man you want to be and you’ll get friends naturally with time.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:06 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:50 PM
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Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:39 PM
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Cool man. When your brother or best mate is burning alive in a crashed car, you go be alpha and build your empire and let him die. I’ll happily (we’ll it’s not happy at all, but I wouldn’t need to make a choice) perish trying to get him out, I’m not sure how anyone could live with themselves if they stood and watched a loved one die when they could have helped. I’m not saying go sacrifice yourself for strangers or causes you don’t believe in, perhaps I didn’t get my point across right. If you do…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:26 PM
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Fair enough, I agree about the morality part. I’m more trying to get at the point that men are protectors, killers and also the ones expected to die. Trying to avoid that burden is the opposite of being a man.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:21 PM
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Shit reply, try again. Fuck these so called people above you, fuck your idea of “high value”. You should be willing to die for the people you love and care for, and if you aren’t you’re no man. In day to day life you may choose to confront the armed burgler to protect your children, in combat you may choose to put your life on the line to protect your best friend. Either way, as a man: you create, you protect, you fight, you die. That’s literally your biological goal. Embrace it. Get over it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 02:36 PM
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Did almost the exact same thing as you. When I was about 16 had a hot girl come back to mine after college, she layed on my bed and told me she liked to sleep in her birthday suit... I had no game, no escalation, nothing, and still managed to get her on my bed and fuck it up. I didn’t even go for a kiss let alone anything more. She stole my jumper and went home. Hardest cringe of my life. Funny looking back on it though.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 08:01 AM
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How would an RP man go about creating the correct environment for raising a child without being married? Genuine question not smart arse. Just live with the woman but not married? In most countries won’t she still get half your shit if you break up?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:18 PM
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I’m completely with you, but what happens when I want a child? If there was one thing I would want to do as a father, it would be to raise my child properly, and I do believe the best environment for that is under one roof with married parents. I have no idea if I want children yet, if I did, I have no idea how I’d ever find a woman I trust enough to raise my child. It’s a fucking minefield. Sure you can have a kid and just not get married, but to be honest, if you’re going to spray your sperm i…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:46 PM
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As a real life example, I had an absolutely shit day yesterday, had none of my own prepared food, and was busy at work. This is my genuine food log. Hardly healthy at all. Yet, I hit all my macros (within reason, far too much sugar was the biggest issue): Yog: 205 cals 11.25 fat 14g sugar 12.75g protein Cereal: 200 cals 6.1g fat 8g sugars 4.7g protein Salmon Salad: 251 cals 14g fat 5.8g sugar 14g protein 2.8g fibre Samosa: 200 cals approx 15g fat approx Protein shake: 190 cals 0.6g fat 14.4g sug…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 11:35 PM
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You don’t disagree with me, you simply haven’t taken onboard what I’ve said. If you eat 3,000 calories of sugar, you have completely missed all your macros. You have exceeded your sugar macro, not hit your protein, not hit your fats etc. The only macro you’ve hit is calories. (3000). Now, if you hit 3,000 calories, and 1,500 of them were from a cheeseburger, and at the end of the day you hit 100% of your macros as you planned, it doesn’t matter what you ate. All that matters is that the macros a…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 11:31 PM
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I’m too late for most people to see this, but the health and fitness industry is pretty much a scam. Sorry people, but you can eat whatever the fuck you want. The only thing that is of importance is hitting your macros. If you hit the required calorie target, protein, fat and sugar levels you’ll be fine. Yes, you also need to make sure you’re getting the minimum required vitamins etc. A calorie is a calorie. If you can fit a chocolate, a cheeseburger or a pizza into your daily diet, AND not go o…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:10 PM
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This is a large problem with TRP that I think a lot of men don’t realise, and it’s incredibly easy to fall into. They develop and attitude and personality which attracts crazy hot bitches and alienates the more normal girls. Yes, AWALT is always true, but if you only ever sleep with crazy bitches you’re going to think they are all that exists. This isn’t BP nonsense, there are no unicorns so don’t go looking for one. But you can definitely surround yourself with far more stable and easy to manag…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 03:22 PM
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Ok mate, you are pathetic and you’re probably not going to listen to any advice here. First, this girl is a bitch who doesn’t respect you. How can you possibly want to be with someone like that? Second, you probably don’t deserve respect because you are a needy fucker. Third, read the sidebar. Anyway, your oneitis has already checked out and probably already has strange dick inside her. Whether you like it or not, it’s over. Hopefully when the depression of that fact hits you properly, you’ll co…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:32 PM
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I’m from the UK. It’s fine to start lifting. Eat as much as possible and start a program like stronglifts. By the time you hit 18 you’ll be in great shape and growing like a beast.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 11:31 AM
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Learning through other people’s mistakes is a fucking good way to learn, why on earth would you want to make a mistake which you could avoid just by obtaining a little knowledge? Our existence is based on the fact we remember mistakes our ancestors made, and we don’t make them anymore. (Basic example, would you test which wild fruits are poisonous by eating each one until you die, or would you read a book written by a man who has been there, has friends who died by eating the bad shit, and can t…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:29 PM
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Don’t worry, I don’t listen to anything as gospel, whether it’s here or real life. GLO posts plenty of shit I don’t agree with at all, but he also posts plenty of shit I do. We have to filter it for ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:23 PM
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You are correct. But the whole point of an EC is that they have a post history which can be viewed, and which shows that at the very least they have been around and contributed valuable content for some time. This means generally, I will be more willing to accept an EC post and test its material, than I will some rando. Being an EC is generally the closest we get to “verified non bullshitter”. It doesn’t mean anyone who’s not an EC has nothing to contribute, it just means we can all be aware tha…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:19 PM
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That post makes a lot of sense, thanks. I try to keep things balanced in my posts and stick to what I've found to be true rather than what I imagine to be true. It's a constant struggle. There's always the temptation to just paste a quick soundbite, enjoy the validation of the upvotes and get on with my day. I can only hope most EC’s think this way. Anonymous or not, the points do stroke the ego, and it’s very tough to remain truthful and not chase validation, regardless of who you are.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:55 PM
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Moral of the story you can learn a lot by critically reading and understanding what others do wrong so you don't make the same mistakes That’s the main reason I read FR’s. The good ones always have valuable lessons.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:50 PM
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You are absolutely correct, and you will see the most senior and experienced men here say the same thing. The second you give up free thought and follow blindly, you are in huge trouble. It’s that same mindset that has led most men here. They followed the herd and got fucked over. The very essence of TRP should be to wake up and take ownsership of yourself and your actions. Use what you read here, go out and experience it. You have the theory, now go and put it into practice, and then draw your …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:49 PM
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Couldn’t care less. Go take advice on how to get your squat above 200kg from someone who’s overweight, wheelchair bound and never been to a gym in their life. See how far you get. I’ll take my advice from those who have proven it has value. They earned the right to teach what they know. It’s as simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:41 PM
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Liquor and Whores has summed it up perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:29 PM
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“I wouldn't go as far as wish only endorsed contributors should vote (not against it though) but the increase in low quality content does detract from the initial message.” To be honest I wouldn’t be against this either. It doesn’t restrict what gets posted, but it does give a better idea of what is quality and what is not. A rotten tomatoes style could work: user votes/endorsed votes. Doubt that’s possible but it’s an idea.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:29 AM
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It said it was a woman. Also said it was asexual and liked to fuck girls. It’s irrelevant really as it’s obvious nothing they say is of any value, but most people seemed to miss that.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:27 AM
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I’m quoting someone else from these forums, but I recently read that “comfort tests are land mines in disguise”. It’s true. I believe failing a comfort test can have worse consequences than failing a shit test, so it’s definitely worth reading up on them.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:26 PM
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I completely agree, but in all honesty you will also meet women who give you absolutely no indication, gut feeling or suspicion that they are doing shady shit, and yet if you checked, you’d find they are just as disloyal as the hoes that made your stomach feel weird. You literally never know, until you know.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:23 PM
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This is a great FR. Sometimes we just need to read about a man in a similar situation to us, see the mistakes he made, see the consequences, and take the lesson away from it. It’s posts like these which highlight just how easy it is, even when you think you are RP, to fall for the charm and allure of a woman, and to get yourself into trouble. Gotta keep your head screwed on at all times. Thanks OP.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:19 PM
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You need to offer some comfort in an LTR/marriage or you’ll end up with a woman who feels you are cold and emotionless. That never ends well for you or her. Hell, I’d even say you need to give occasional comfort to plates to keep them spinning as you see fit. Comfort tests can pop up at any moment, and generally, failing them means losing your plate. Yes, IDGAF and abundance, blah blah, but sometimes you don’t want a plate to drop so you tell her a little something she wants to hear and you keep…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:09 PM
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Spot on. Even when it’s caused by illness or injury, I feel like absolute shit when I’m not lifting, running or doing any of the activities I enjoy and am trying to improve at.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 03:28 PM
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I feel you. We have to make some tough decisions, and sometimes they are wrong and we have to live with them. It’s not easy, but it’s certainly better than living in the dream blue pill world.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 07:39 PM
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I hear you. I completely agree with your point, and maybe I have some deep inkling of "oneitis" in the sense I've finally bagged the hot chick I always wanted to, but I really do not have feels for her. I know the post is focused on her, but it's nothing to do with me keeping or her, or wanting her, she's just the catalyst to a train of thought. What's got me is the realisation that I don't want her, and it's something I've never felt before. I've never once had access to such a physically attra…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 12:01 PM
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Yeah, she's a live one. When I say she seems nice, I mean, if you are family/female. She doesn't seem like a bad person, if that makes sense? But in terms of me being a male and sexually involved with her, then yes, it seems she may be a level 10 crazy bitch.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:54 AM
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I already feel nothing for this girl, and my opinion of her is low enough that I don't fear ever catching feels. Is it safe to keep plating, or shall I abandon ship anyway?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:51 AM
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Shit, I'll look into this. She's definitely got the warning signs. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:49 AM
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Thanks for the advice, I relate to it. I'll check those sources out.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:47 AM
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Haha, nah man, part of the reason I’m an “asshole” is because I point blank refuse to take her to dinner. It was a cocktail bar. We literally just do drinks > Home > fuck, or Home > fuck. She asks me to take her to dinner and I won’t. She gave the number out before I got there, and I didn’t totally realise until that night. Definitely agree her behaviour sucks though, and I’m sure there’s many things I can do better. In this case I’m certainly not beta chump though, at least I have that going fo…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:40 AM
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I don’t feel I’ve shown weak frame with this girl though, I’ve done it with many girls before, but with her I’ve been pretty much entirely no fucks given. My impression is that whether I find out or not, she’s speaking to other guys and getting numbers daily, so it didn’t phase me so much that she did this. Although it definitely shows me she’s of little/no value, it doesn’t make me feel I’ve fucked up, she’s just a ho.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:29 AM
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Sure, I'm not a pro at shit tests but I seem to manage most of the time. The shit tests this girl gave me were so far past my experience level and comfort I truly don't know how I passed them. The best one was at the bar, and this is something that's never happened to me before, and was one time I truly "enjoyed" the test. She is busy telling me how little I care, and how mean I am. I'm smiling and agreeing, when a woman walks past. I wont write some erotica for you, but this woman was 10\10, to…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:07 AM
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Yeah I think you hit the nail on the head. I needed to hear that.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:56 PM
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Thank you, it’s encouraging to hear that. Tomorrow I’ll use this to fuel some squat PR’s.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:55 PM
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Shit man. That resonates with me to the core. How do you stay strong and on course through this? Knowing the girls are virtually all the same and you’re just going through the motions? Does it not start feeling totally empty to the point that you don’t even want it anymore? It’s a really tough part of the pill for me. I accept it, but I’m feeling the pain right now.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:54 PM
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Thanks, I’ll keep working away. It’s good that I see these things, but it doesn’t feel great.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:51 PM
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Thanks. I have read before about enjoying shit tests, and I mostly do. I knew if I passed them I was getting some fiery sex, but it just gets to a point where it’s boring and tiring, you know? Just for sex, sometimes the effort going in isn’t worth the reward. Very good points about comfort/value, I don’t plan on giving her more comfort at all, so far she’s not shown me anything to suggest she’s trustworthy or even close to LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:42 PM
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You speak some sense. I’m gonna take a step back from this and analyse her more objectively. She definitely doesn’t come across as a nasty girl, but they never do until it’s too late. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:34 PM
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Thanks for the reply. You raised some points which really make sense. One thing I’d add, our chemistry in bed is probably the best I’ve had before. There’s a real connection there and I enjoy it immensely. Out of bed, she’s a cool, nice girl. It’s just the shit tests, they are unreal and unrelenting. She’s so insecure. I do like her, I love the sex, but the shit tests and need for attention from every man she sees drives me away. It’s mentally draining.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:30 PM
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Thanks, makes sense.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:53 PM
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I ask because I’m still learning and reprogramming myself. Sometimes I feel I know the right thing to do, but want more experienced people to back it up, or put me straight. There were many things I used to be unsure of whch I would ask here, and as time has gone on there is less and less I need help with. But, there’s still some shit where I’m not sure I’m making the right moves, so I come here to check myself. It’s pretty basic shit I’m asking, but honestly it helps keep me on the straight and…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:22 PM
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Doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong, regardless of TRP teachings you shouldn’t need to weigh up if caring for someone in pain looks “Alpha”. If you caring for the fact she’s in pain has made her see you as weak, or she’s decided to ghost you, fuck that bitch, move on. If she makes contact again, I’d just carry on as you already were and not even mention it. Nothing to sweat in my opinion.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:29 PM
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Regardless of how you look now, if you can’t find the time to work out you will simply get weaker and weaker. It’s a never ending pursuit. You have to make time for it. I’m waking up at 4:30am tomorrow purely for that reason, I have no time in the day, so I will wake up earlier instead.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:09 PM
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I think you need to get back to the gym and get your body back to how it was before you became ill. It will help you a lot.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:39 PM
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No easy way around it. If you wake up at 0430 and work hard all day, you’re gonna be tired in the evening. Just gotta power through it.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:36 PM
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Solid post, I like the tower anecdote especially. You have to think very carefully about what you read here and what advice you listen to. It may be TRP but a lot of the comments from the thousands of John Doe’s are just feel good bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:35 PM
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Don’t worry about routine, in fact I’d say that’s a bad thing. Definitely use next week as an opportunity to get some space. Also, be prepared to walk away at any second, otherwise you’re already fucked. Keep that abundance mentality, think with your brain even when your feelz try to trick you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:17 PM
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Your relationship = few months, yet you class it “LTR”. This isn’t even remotely an LTR. You recover loss of frame by resetting. Soft next her for a week, ghost her, just generally be unavailable and demonstrate you have options. If you want to know about recovering frame in an actual LTR, go browse the MRP sub, it’s a gold mine.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 04:47 PM
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Agreed. Self defence a very useful (and imo essential) tool to have, but at the same time you should never find yourself in a position to use it. Always avoid trouble, fuck the ego, stay safe. Like all defence systems, be it guns, air bags in your car or martial arts, the idea is always that you don’t ever want to have to use it. But should the situation arise that you need it (for example someone in another car swerves head on into yours), the air bag there to save your ass.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 12:01 PM
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I like the order of weapons there, pretty much spot on. Although I would add bjj/some form of martial arts should be a cornerstone of TRP as well as lifting. The same way lifting gives you confidence, being good at martial arts does the same thing. Plus, bjj moves can set you up nicely for some “bed time sparring” with your girls...
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:44 AM
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Please don’t let TRP turn into buzzfeed. “7 reasons you aren’t alpha enough” “Top 5 reasons she won’t let you do anal” “9 simple hacks to increase your SMV instantly” “This incel went from virgin to 65 lays in 3 months... FIND OUT HOW! Blue pillers hate him!”
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:13 PM
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There is nothing wrong with LTR’s if you remain in control and in power. Constantly improving SMV, constantly on top of your game, always ready to walk away in an instant. Women know when they have a powerful and in demand man, the passive dread will keep her on her toes. The trouble is, it’s very hard to keep up. It’s constant work on your part, you have to be the captain. Anyone who thinks LTR’s are simply the devil, go read the MRP sub. Some amazing stuff there. I personally appreciate intima…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:53 PM
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Put the effort in and find his podcast on your phone, listen to the whole of episode one, (yes, 2 hours worth), and then see what you think. Hi directly addresses, several times, the type of man he is, and nothing he says is bullshit motivational money making jargon. He’s transparent. No sound bite I send you will convey that, just listen to a whole ep and make your own judgement. The depth in the subjects he covers is unmatched by any podcast I’ve listened to.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:32 PM
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I don’t watch it per say, I listen on my phone when I’m driving, commuting, ironing, or generally doing mundane shit. His podcasts are immensely insightful, and although they are mostly based on war, everything he talks about transpires through to real life, and he emphasizes that. The last hour of every episode is him answering questions which is very useful. I honestly can’t recommend it enough, and I truly don’t see how anyone could listen to it and not gain some valuable insight. He’s as nat…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:47 PM
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If he’s a 3/10, everyone on this whole fucking sub is a 0. I’m not saying he’s Chad thundercock, but he has a nice facial profile, good proportions/symmetry, nice smile and jaw, basically just a normal looking dude. 3/10 are dudes with no symmetry, big nose, recessed chin, wonky features etc.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:10 PM
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Not sure why I didn’t reply to this back when you posted it, but thanks, it’s appreciated.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:35 PM
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I do agree with this, it’s a very valid point. I think it’s important to know however, that to get a high quality girl to sleep with you on date one, you need to be of such a high SMV that she is simply awe struck. I do first hand know girls who will absolutely not sleep with a man on date one, not just because they are super good girls, but also because woman DO know that putting out on day one = slutty, and may be looked down upon by the male. This is bad news for her if she’s actively seeking…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:09 AM
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“Cool, take care” Or simply don’t reply. You’ve lost nothing. Move on bro.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:50 PM
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That’s fine, ignore her and move on. You have nothing to lose, have lost nothing, and can go game other chicks. Whatever you see in this chick, she’s no unicorn. Move on, and if she comes back try again. Sound like she might just be fishing for attention. Whatever you do, don’t become an orbiter, girls with BF’s want their little army of orbiters, and they do it by dangling the carrot but never giving you a bite.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:47 PM
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First, I personally wouldn’t be afraid of letting her know you’re sexually interested. She’s made it clear she knows that’s what you want, don’t be afraid to admit it to her. Meeting for bowling is a good chance to do this, good for kino and escalation. Go for it.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:36 PM
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Set priorities and go and fucking do them. Forget about your ugly face right now, you can’t control that (yet). How does your body look? Are you a beautiful, ripped, Greek god that makes women get wet when they see you take your shirt off? If the answer is no, why not? Unless you have a physical disability you have NO EXCUSE for not having a fucking incredible body. OWN IT. FIX IT. Next, your face is fucked up? Weak chin? Don’t like your eyebrows? FIX IT! Save up, take out a loan, do whatever yo…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:33 PM
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She wants your dick. Run your game properly and it’s in the bag. Keep escalating. Fucking a girl with a bf is a risk in itself, only you can make that call. TRP is amoral and that’s fine, but no pussy is worth getting beat up or shot over.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:27 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 08:17 PM
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You want more than just emotionless (or at least less emotionally connected) sex. That’s totally normal. I have the same feeling, I am bored of meaningless sex. I’m not sure how to solve it, but I know one thing, don’t slow down your advances. A girl who may have LTR potential will not sleep with you on the first date. There are some women out there like that (who won’t put out on date 1), but not many. I wish you luck, I’m still trying to figure this shit out myself.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:34 PM
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Haha. Have fun dude. She’s not LTR material, but if you can keep brushing off her ever increasing shit tests I don’t see why she can’t be a good plate for a while.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:11 PM
3

Hey dude, I really feel you. It seems the more women I sleep with the less happy I feel. Something is wrong within us. I feel a lot better when I spend time with good friends, live life, lift and generally have fun. But in the moments of loneliness, when I’m in bed, or when a girl has just left my place, I sometimes feel empty and down. These are my demons. I’m working on them, they are up and down. One thing I know is that you have to keep going, keep improving, and keep learning so that you ca…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:50 PM
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Spot on. TRP is a great reference, and a guide for when you find yourself getting lost. It’s not just a map, but also a living document with troubleshooting guides for common issues men may face. It’s absolutely vital you actually get out there and learn first hand, only then does anything on the map actually start to make sense. I will say TRP has helped me the most not in the anger stage, but in the depression stage. Humans relate and feel comfort in knowing others are also experiencing their …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:17 PM
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Mate, consider this your “red pill” moment. Take the red pill, block her, don’t speak to her. Accept the reality, feel the pain. Live with the truth and work through it. Or, swallow the blue pill, message her, give her validation, let the wool cover your eyes. You’ll get used, trampled over, and spit out. It’s an easy choice, but one your male hamster will spin into overdrive. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 03:06 PM
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Alpha as a lifestyle is fairly easy to quantify, look at someone like Jocko Willink as someone who leads an alpha lifestyle. The key thing he does is take “extreme ownsership” of his life. That essentially means he does not lay blame on others, he takes responsibility for everything, because by taking responsibility, he can take action. This, in my opinion is alpha. He knows what he wants and he gets it. “Alpha” in sexual terms, mainly when referring to “Chad”, is completely and utterly dependan…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:56 PM
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Good stuff, thanks. You taking any other supplements with the vit D?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:31 PM
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Yeah I have the exact same thing, serious winter blues. I have martial arts and the gym, it helps, but not when I get into bed at night alone with my thoughts. I wonder if vitamin D deficiency is the cause? Lack of sunlight and all that jazz.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:19 PM
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From what I’ve read it’s best to plan it after you’ve left. Planning dates whilst on one makes it seem that you are too available and doesn’t keep her on her toes. Like all things though I think it’s very contextual. I’ve had luck with both, but generally stay on the side of caution and wait till the week to book another date. I’m sure some more experienced guys can chime in.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:24 PM
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Ok so I’ve got a problem with this chick, I love to go down on a girl but she is super conscious obout her pussy. Because she got some shaving rash... I can tell compared to other girls she’s very conscious about her body. Always tries to kiss my to take my gaze away from her body. How the hell do I bypass this? For reference her body is smoking. I’ve been with girls who are a little shy for me to go down on them but I think this one needs more working up to it. Any tips?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:26 PM
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I hit these lows all the time as well, sometimes we have good days sometime we have bad ones. I’m not having the best days at the moment, (best in terms of seeing girls, worst in terms of mental happiness), just gotta keep hitting the gym and making forward steps, things will improve. Just don’t quit. That’s the #1 rule.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:14 PM
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Alright, cheers for the help, appreciated.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:24 PM
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Ok, thanks. I’m getting a bit hung up on the fact she left when there was a slightly weird vibe, rather than there being a “happy” mood when she left, if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:03 PM
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Could you give me some more detail on how I didn’t escalate right? We were in bed, naked, making out. I was giving all the signals that usually lead to sex but she seemed more interested in cuddles. I could have pushed harder for sure but in all honesty I couldn’t be bothered, the mood left me.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:58 PM
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Ok, understood. Would it be wise to drop her a line then to see if she’s still available to meet? How could I have improved my escalation? We were naked, in bed, making out. Perhaps I wasn’t assertive enough? She just didn’t seem to want to go all the way, rather than working it I just lost interest. Perhaps a fuck up on my part, I’ll remember that in future.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:53 PM
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Believe in it, you’ll make it happen. I feel like where I want to be is so far away, almost impossibly far. But then I look at where I am now and where I was a year ago, and the difference is massive. It keeps me going. One step at a time, just keep progressing. You may not even notice the progress, but one day you’ll look back and see how far behind you the past is, and see how far you’ve come.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 11:32 PM
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Piers is a first class asshole. No frame, can’t control his temper, is unable to listen to another persons opinion. He doesn’t provide any sense of calmness or leadership to the people around him. All men watching this, do not be like Piers. As for the dating guru, my own experience in Europe completely aligns with what he says, however he is also not the greatest at putting a point across. Much better frame than Piers however. Don’t even need to say anything about pink hair SJW. Blondie on the …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 11:13 PM
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Body fat seems unrealistically low. 5% is ridiculous. For your weight you need to be benching your bodyweight for reps. Do what you need to do but make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:35 PM
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Honestly I don’t know what I’d say. If it was a plate I’d know instantly she doesn’t respect me enough and is not attracted enough. Soft next. In your boat, it’s not what you want to hear but it sounds like she’s already lost respect for you. Likely you need to next her, but I don’t know what’s been happening between you for the last 12 months so only you can make that call. Whether you next her or not, read the sidebar and top posts of all time at TRP main sub. It’ll help.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:33 PM
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Don’t worry about your height, worry about the fact this girl is not showing any sign of respect for you. Directly attacking your height and weight is a big red flag. Not a girl I’d want around me. Also, lift more. :)
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:07 PM
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Woah dude. Your squat and DL doesn’t seem too bad, but 10KG in 3 years is not much, and that bench is very low. What’s your age, height and weight? Sounds like you need to eat a lot more and get progressive overload on your lifts. I’m honestly no special specimen, and I got my bench from 20kg bar to 75kg in 6 months just by following SL 5x5 and eating a lot. For reference, bench felt difficult after 40kg, I estimate when I started my 1rm was probably 50kg.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 12:21 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:51 PM
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Shit man, I live with my old man. Just me and him, it’s a good arrangement for me and I don’t want to move out yet. (Financial reasons) I usually try and bed girls at their place, but recently a plate came to mine and very briefly met my old man. Am I in trouble here? Or can I brush it off? She’s a good plate and realistically my place is the best place for us to get to business. More she comes here the more she’s gonna see my dad....
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:57 PM
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I completely agree with you. But lifting is step one. Perhaps if you have a super pretty face you can be a skinny fuck and pull girls. Aside from that, lift first, discover the natural confidence that comes with strength, and then use that confidence to carry you through experiments with social game and approaching.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:56 PM
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If you lifted straight for two years and were still a “fag”, you clearly had a big hole inside of you. Does gaming women fulfil you? Does it give you purpose in life? If it does, sweet, keep rocking on. For myself, lifting gave me the foundations to not need to go out every night for three months learning game, I can speak to girls in different environments fairly naturally. I am a man, she is a woman, that’s all that’s needed for attraction. No fancy game tricks besides RP common knowledge: don…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:30 PM
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Motivation to better yourself should be your #1 goal in life. Be stronger, be smarter, be a man men want to be around, be a man women want to be around, be their rock. When you leave them, leave them better than when you found them. When your goal is to make you better, you actually make life better for everyone around you, too. Some people see self improvement as selfish, but thruthfully, I think it’s one of the least selfish things you can do. You take the blame away from everyone else about w…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 10:26 AM
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Just suck it up and deload. I know just how frustrating it is, but you have to take the hit to your ego. Lower those weights and work back up.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 10:09 AM
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I’m 6ft 3, 85kg 11% bf last time I was measured. I missed out months of lifting and had to deload due to injury, currently here: Squat: 100KG 5x5 DL: 100KG 1x5 Bench: 80KG 5x5 Nothing amazing. I don’t seem to have lost much size when I was injured, but lost a lot of strength. Kickboxing and climbing has really helped to get the “ripped” look.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:53 PM
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There is a sub here on Reddit for stronglifts. Think it’s r/stronglifts5x5 Go there and keep smashing it.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:54 PM
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Thing is, she doesn’t need you to try and punish her. Being calm and genuinely ok with her leaving, not fighting it, that will do all the work for you. Right now she is hurt, but has it in her head “he called a girl right in front of me just to get back at me”. So instantly she knows she’s hurt you, and that is validation for her. It shows abundance, yes, but it shows a weakness too. On the other hand, if you were calm and collected, showed her out and acted completely unphased, she’s going to b…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:57 PM
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This is much better than being a whiny bitch and begging her not to leave etc. But I really think this revenge/women are evil mentality is not healthy, and new guys reading this should not replicate it. It would be perfectly fine to handle it calmly, give her the bags and see her out. When she’s left you can chase other girls and go about your life. Your calmness alone will speak volumes to her about how little it bothers you, and that will trigger her hamster if that’s the goal. No need to “des…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:39 PM
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This is so important and something I’ve had to keep myself in check with. If you find yourself considering skipping a gym session, or not eating the right food, slipping out of discipline + a wide variety of other things for a girl, you’re in trouble. Get it in check, or cut her out, because your mission is compromised and that is the start of a slippery slope.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 12:49 PM
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Took a girl on a first date last week, went to a couple bars, was a successful night. Made out, now planning to meet again this week. She already suggested drinks, and then my place for Netflix.... lol. What I want to know is, how shall I play it? We’ll be going into the same local town as the first date, but there isn’t a huge amount to do and I don’t fancy taking her to the same bar again. Or is it ok to visit the same venue? I plan on having a drink or two and then back to mine for “Netflix”.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 11:42 AM
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I was referring to hair, you absolutely have to have all other areas of your life on point. But purely on the subject of hair, having a hot face means you can rock any look, having an ugly face means you’ll always be ugly. That’s just reality. Yes some styles will look better than others, but we’re talking minor changes in SMV. You can’t put a nice hairstyle on a bridge troll and suddenly it’s attractive. But you can put scruffy unkempt hair on a model and he’ll still look hot.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 04:45 PM
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Having your hair in order is important, but just to clarify for all of you, having an attractive face is all that really matters. Chris Hemsworth can rock short hair, long hair, messy hair, medium hair, pink hair, you name it. Dude has a sexy face. Conversely, if you have an ugly face, no hair style will fix that. To summarise: lift
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 10:32 AM
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Thanks all, needed a kick. Going to get back on my feet.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 10:56 AM
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This is truth.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:50 PM
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Bro, ghost her. Honestly she is walking all over you and treating you like shit. Probably already sucking someone else's dick. Don't stand around waiting for her to leave you when she's used you up. Ghost her and never look back.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:50 PM
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I agree that we do not need to fulfill our biological purpose to "make babies". Nor do we "need" to be physically fit and strong. Thanks to modern civilisation we no longer need to hunt and fight. The men who used to hunt all day now sit in offices. This is how we've developed science, gone to the moon, developed medicine etc. If everyone was still caveman we'd all have low life expectancy and, well, live in caves..... However. Just because we don't "need" to be physically fit, I think every man…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 09:09 AM
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Seriously, mods should delete these threads. Absolute horse shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 04:01 PM
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To add a different opinion to the mix: I'm 6ft 3 and started stronglifts at 78kg After 6 months I was at 83-84kg and had noticeably filled out, become more muscular and much stronger. Started in the empty bar and worked my way up. When I stopped I went from squatting 20kg to 95kg. Bench from 20kg to 72.5kg Deadlift 100kg Row 60kg OHP 50kg None of those numbers are particularly impressive for any kind of weight lifter, but I went from skinny runt to comfortably stronger than most men I know. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:53 PM
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Buy a set of juggling balls and learn to juggle when you're bored and at home. Seems like a useless skill, but it's surprisingly easy to learn, and surprisingly impressive to other people when you pull it out as a party trick. Also, why not by a guitar or cheap instrument and learn to play in the evenings when free?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:44 AM
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Not to be a lazy shit but do you have a link to the post about buying flowers? Sounds interesting. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 10:20 PM
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If the relationship is going well, no reason to sabotage it. You'll regret it if there is no good reason other than to experience other girls. However, you almost certainly have oneitis and likely things will end one day and you'll be in a tough position that all guys at TRP have been in before. Keep your relationship RP and don't be a bitch, have fun, when it ends stay strong and become better.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 06:02 PM
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Your height to weight ratio is shocking, I was the same when I was 16. For now don't focus too hard on what you eat. Start smashing stronglifts 5x5 and just eat as much as you can. Ok, try to eat good nutritious foods, but for someone as skinny as you step 1 is just to eat more. Once the weight starts getting heavy after 3+ months start tweaking the diet to reflect the heavier weights. You'll want to cut out artificial shit and pastry/pizza and replace with chicken, rice, veg etc. But seriously.…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:23 PM
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I didn't think of it from that angle, makes sense.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 01:19 PM
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Thanks mate. I have her on Facebook and that's it. When I met her I didn't bother with number due to being abroad.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:29 PM
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Ok thanks, I am doing my best in the self improvement and hobbies department. I'll keep that inner beta at bay...
/r/askTRP01/07/17 08:58 PM
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Fair play dude. Good luck.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:10 PM
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What's the point is asking a question here if you won't take the advice? Just ghost her, not worth the effort at all.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:00 PM
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Good advice but if you have an ounce of discipline you don't need to sell your TV... just don't watch it when you should be doing other things.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:38 PM
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When I first started lifting it was just after a breakup, it was also the time I fully accepted TRP and started making huge changes in my life. I was a little angry, and very disappointed at the way my relationship ended, and lifting was the one true light that no matter how shit I felt, it boosted me every time. I guess it became an addiction. Every time I lifted and hit new PR's, all the negativity in my life went. Lifting releases lots of good chemicals that the brain enjoys, and it certainly…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 11:35 AM
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Hey dude, as great as she may have been, no decent woman will text her ex in your absence, if you meant that much to her there would be no reason to speak to him. Being needy and jealous is one thing, contacting an ex is another. The breakup is her fault and you did the right thing.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:33 PM
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Each to their own. I'm not personally a fan of stirring another mans porridge... double standards maybe, but that's my own opinion and it's how I work.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 07:12 PM
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Bro, she's already crossed about 3 boundaries. Gets a guys number, invites another guy to her house and has a bottle of wine with him, and then sleeps in the same bed.... "separately". LOL. Your hamster must be out of control if you somehow think she is LTR material. She's not even plate material at this point.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:15 PM
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I imagine he wasn't as Alpha as you think. AWALT, sure, but a man with his shit together won't get blindsided like that, he'll know when things are slipping. I imagine if that same dude posted his story to MRP we'd discover a long history of him showing weakness to his wife. Women won't ditch you for a lower value man, so your job is to always be the best option. That's easy when plating, super hard when married as you have to keep it up forever.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:56 AM
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You won't take my advice, but you need to get out of there asap. Drop her. You will never win the battle against her nostalgia feels. The past times they had will always seem great to her, she'll fuck him, and then realise they really weren't as great as she remembered. Just like when you play an old video game you used to love, and when you play it again you realise it sucks now... Anyhow, she got feels for someone else so why waste your time on a hamstering non loyal girl?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 10:36 AM
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Your comment is and should be top comment. TRP is correct almost always, but men forget that there is also a loop you can get trapped in. If you look for women at bars and on tinder, you're only going to find the type of women who go to bars and who go on tinder. (Hint, not high quality women) You aren't going to find a loyal, LTR worthy girl hanging out in places where non loyal, non LTR worthy girls hang out. No woman is a unicorn, but believe it or not there is much better out there than slut…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 11:51 PM
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I've been hitting the gym consistently since the start of January. I've had a couple of tough weeks where I let myself down and didn't go for 5 days, but on the whole I've been doing good. I'm doing SL 5x5 and started on the empty bar as the program said. (Except rows and deads as recommended by app). It's now mid March and last night I got to 72.5kg on squats, 90kg on deadlifts and 45kg on OHP. I hit my first ever stall, I only got 4 reps on my 4th set of OHP but I got 5 on the 5th. I'll get it…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:43 AM
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Awesome, thanks. I started at the bottom with the empty bar,I got the paid version of the app which I highly recommend. Warmup sets and plate calculations are very useful. My squat session at 60kg is now this when following the app: 1x5 empty bar 1x5 empty bar 1x5 40kg 1x3 50kg And then: 5x5 60kg So a 25 rep session is actually 43 reps, it feels good when you get through all of that. Can't wait to see where I'm at in a couple more months.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 11:13 AM
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Good work. Did you start on an empty bar or higher? How longs it taken you to hit 92 since you started? How are you finding the OH press, and have you stalled on anything yet? I'm coming towards the end of month 2, so would be interesting to hear from someone else.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:25 PM
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Fucking awesome, keep that going.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:08 PM
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This is a great idea for a thread. This week I pushed my limits physically, a little too far in fact, but I learned a lot. Started trying my hand at rock climbing, alongside my current gym routine. Added a tough ab circuit to my weekly workout routine. Hit PR's in every lift on my 5x5 program. I'm about to hit 2 months of solid, disciplined lifting and workout and I feel better than ever. Starting new job in 1 week, can't wait to get started. Had some business ideas, and rather than sitting on t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:07 PM
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I appreciate guys here trying to help, but fellas, if you want fitness advice don't get it from TRP. The notion to "lift" here is spot on, but actual advice on how and what to lift should be found elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:36 AM
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Yeah, you're right. But as someone who was still plugged in and still with a heavy dose of oneitis, it's what gave me the final push. I did not have the balls to end it, did not understand how to end it, "loved" her, etc. So I had to see for myself, does she actually give a shit? Was I Immature? Maybe. Red pill? Maybe not. Did it successfully shove the pill down my throat and teach me the lesson i needed to learn? Yes! We all end up here somehow. I was aware of RP for months before the breakup, …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 07:45 AM
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Good on you mate. The exact same thing happened to me. Tested my LTR for a month, hoping she'd show any sign of fight. Absolutely nothing, despite all the shit I stood through for her. She's single now. Funny thing is, now she's the one in pain and I'm happier than ever. AWALT. *Edit - this is how blue pill me learned to swallow the red pill. This is not how any RP man would handle a relationship.... but it certainly is how a BP man may finally swallow the pill if he has oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:38 PM
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Thank you all for replies, I wasn't expecting such a response. Some very good points made on both sides of the argument. I've chosen to move to the new job, updated original post. I want to follow this up with a FR in a few months, my upcoming experiences may help others in a similar situation. Cheers.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:20 AM
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