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broguesnotoxfords/r/seduction29/07/15 08:59 PM
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It's physiologically impossible However banging with a full bladder would hurt or even lead to injury
/r/seduction25/09/17 02:45 PM
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How much of the material in the side are have you read? Pick something ask us how to "flip the script" What kind of guys are you interested in luring into aproaching you or aproaching them yourself? Age group? Try some of the old standby mystery material it's not used on men often so it won't be detected or if he is a pua he will know you are dtf and seduce you Like all of us you will have to aproach, practice and crash and burn, if you want to improve If you smoke ask for a light when done put …
/r/seduction21/09/17 10:15 PM
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Basic Hygiene and style. Genuinely have fun and an open posture Just like for Men if your not having fun you will have "Resting Bitch face" Make your goal having fun and interacting with people and men will approach you. Make you goal luring men to approach and you will turn into the weirdo they avoid.
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:54 PM
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Yes it is possible Read the sidebar, work on yourself and your confidence build a life that makes you happy pay extra attention to the push pull techniques if you want to have a woman lusting after you in the way you mention. I'm average I've a had a woman strip kneel and announce she wanted my cock.. in front of her boyfriend, it can happen.
/r/seduction27/01/16 08:44 PM
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Your at a plateau and a bit burned out by the process learning takes failure but failure can lead to self doubt. It sounds like your doubting yourself, your roots and the process. Time for a break, congrats on beating AA and getting where you are. Take time to refocus on your passions social life and having genuine fun. You will be out of the outcome mentality and opportunities will arise and all your hard work will play out naturally. I can almost guarantee within two weeks of your vacation fro…
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:57 PM
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Its not about being an asshole its about being confident and respecting yourself. If you had self respect would you want to be with someone that is disrespectful or wants a one sided relationship with you. The "Alpha" thing to do would be to not want someone like that in the first place, and certainly set and stand by your boundaries early in a relationship you have to be willing to walk away because you have a multitude of opportunities and don't need to put up with shit. If your drawn/attracte…
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:40 PM
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Guys get burned in the long run by successively hanging out and not showing or building attraction. Asking if sex will happen to early or before a date is not a friend zone defense its needy and not confident. Its better to assume attraction and have advances shot down during a date than to outright ask if they will succeed ahead of time. A story is more fun if you don't know how it will end. If advances are declined, end the date and let her know your not looking for a friend or play it out bec…
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:19 PM
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I think you perfectly described everything we are supposed to be doing as men who follow this thread. Unfortunately many men don't read this material, they will do awkward things and you have to choose how you want to deal with it. and a more challenging question. Can you steer the date back on course after they make a bonehead move like asking if sex will happen or end the date on the spot? Pointers for men reading the thread that don't already get the basics. Outcome independence ! she wants t…
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:01 PM
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Ive done the Calorie in Vs Out thing. Its does not work! at least not for the Obese who have a different problem all together Homeostasis kicks in and either lethargy, binge eating or illness will take over Excess calorie intake isn't the cause its a symptom of metabolic problems usually type 2 diabetes or insulin resistance, in rare cases thyroid issues. Those can all be resolved if discovered/diagnosed and action is taken. Fix the metabolic issues and the calorie intake will work itself out mu…
/r/seduction09/10/15 03:03 PM
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I know it sounds counter intuitive but cut the fruit, Fructose stops ketone production dead. Skip the cardio! do Aerobic exorcise to increase keton production at least 2 consecutive hours a few times a week. Make it fun, dance while watching TV or music vids 2 hrs is only 2 episodes of your favorite show! you can do it! The ketons produced will continue turning fat into butyric acid for your mitochondria to use as direct fuel, this has a positive affect on mood, energy levels, insulin resistance…
/r/seduction09/10/15 02:50 PM
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A thong and sundress are perfect for spontaneous sex bent over a table ;) who doesn't like that ?! Nothing wrong with the coat, heals and matching bra idea either though. Take an Uber :)
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:22 PM
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Wear a dress or skirt Find a fun location to get him to go down on you let him discover it when he lifts the dress/skirt That or the standard bend over to get something and give him a peek.
/r/seduction06/10/15 03:50 PM
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sounds like she was hot for you and wanted to go home together. The legs over yours and touching near the skirt.. she wanted them higher. Ignore the wedding comment. You accidentally played it well.. the fact you escalated and got her hot and bothered but did not take her home means she will be thinking about and desiring you. Wait 2 days from the date and make a date with her at your place. Have all the amenities ready for sex.
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:52 PM
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Often a Doormat offers value as it is the only thing they have to offer so they do so hopping to gain from the little they have. Consider this frame.The of the survival of the species; we did not survive and reach the place we are by being selfish. some things were done for the betterment of all, and in-so the self included. is a city or culture a life form? are you a component of that? and are you playing your part or malignant to its ecosystem? So i guess for your case, offer value into places…
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:12 PM
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We wear our emotions on the outside! The more social you become the more you will learn to read it as well, its instinct and evolution. what you are feeling is reflected in your posture and facial expressions at all times and you cant fake that. You can work on what your feeling so that you give off the right vibes however. The body reflects the emotions, The emotions reflect the mind, The Mind reflects your Will and your choices. walk down the street suspend disbelief and pretend you have an au…
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:19 PM
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Anchor the feelings from the setting your comfortable in and carry them over to the new setting. Mini Guide to NLP Anchors
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:59 PM
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Get aggro first ? :)
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:52 PM
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Transition into social circle game and light flirting you don't have to get numbers and lays. more lite flirting and attractive woman friends will remind you, and her, that your a catch and the chode mentality will be replaced with abundance mentality. Just don't overdue the flirting keep it light and respectful of your current GF
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:48 PM
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Over 220 here I of course am, working out and taking care of myself. I own my wight and some of my passions include weight loss activities. I pull plenty of woman online; 1st and 2nd date lays happen. I look for women who are equally chubby and attractive who also care about there health and are also loosing weight. Why wait to start practicing seduction? As you get healthier your game will improve. Own your weight and own that you are going forward. Just make sure if your hook up for something …
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:37 PM
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Thenakedpeaker said most of what i would. You have to work on understanding you and your sexual nature completely. understand your carnal nature, fantasy and desires. Those scenes are in movies for a reason they tap into men and woman's carnal nature. Honestly if you were witness to to some truly terrible things Therapy may be a necessary start in getting in touch with you sexuality and finding a healthy perspective.
/r/seduction26/08/15 02:53 PM
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I wrote a quick guide to on how to use NLP Anchors to create a confident state for approaching The resting bitch face is an expression of your emotional state. You could use the guide it to make an "approachable" anchor Make a point of using the anchor in situations you want to get noticed and be approachable.
/r/seduction24/08/15 08:13 PM
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Meet in person and escalate kino. do you want a Gilfriend/FB or a gaming buddy. make gaming something you do together after you have built romantic interest.
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:23 PM
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Ya the aftercare can be a shock if your not ready for or expecting it but it is very necessary especially after an intense session :D. Have fun and play safe ;)
/r/seduction21/08/15 06:55 PM
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Pick up a copy of "screw the roses send me the thorns" Watch the movie "Preaching to the perverted". Explore you local fetish community meetups. For helpful advice from locals who are already doing it. There is many safety concerns and a lot to take in, so take it slow and focus on communicating with your partner what to try next. decide safewords and what exactly is ok before any play happens Check out some bdsm porn for ideas. There are altered states of consciousness that may come into play f…
/r/seduction21/08/15 04:16 PM
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It's shit that she did not return your "friendship" however she may have realized you were insincere, in that you wanted more than friendship but were not clear on this. This is Nice Guy/White knight behavior you are not entitled to her affection for being kind. Be kind for its own sake. be attractive and flirty for its own sake. improve your fitness looks value and your game. move on now! You will not even care about her nonsense, you'll be better off for it. If you want revenge, become a bette…
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:05 PM
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If she initiated a peck and stayed later than expected that's good. Not all first dates need to become make out sessions. remember what you learned about seating. Don't forget to plan for some transition so you can walk and hold hands (let go of her hand to hand talk occasionally during conversation let her retake your hand) , that will help you build to a make out. consider logistics plan the date near her place to give her extra time or yours depending on living situations. have a reason to in…
/r/seduction19/08/15 04:34 PM
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I think this video is Relevant to your question check it out its regarding the double standard women give a provider. Learn to be the lover Hidden Cam Reveals How Women Judge Men! Women's Double Standard EXPOSED! +Infield Its never to late. 30 is a great age, get started, hit the side bar, build your confidence clean up and get out there! Now!
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:22 PM
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Depending on the dance style you won't pick up in the class but will do well in clubs and bars Find out what is popular in your city's dance clubs; Salsa, Cuban Style, Batchata Take lessons on that, then at the clubs you have an extra edge. Social Dances and classes are great for confidence, getting used to being close to and talking to attractive woman. but don't game there
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:05 PM
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That all sounds reasonable mentioning ex's in context is not so bad or a big warning sign. It doesn't sound like she has a history of dysfunctional relationships and is not fixated on them so sounds ok. as long as its not everything she says trails back to an ex storry
/r/seduction18/08/15 04:27 AM
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start with The Way of The Superior Man Its a good fit for your current goals
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:43 PM
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provide more clear examples the nature of the subject mater is important Is it all negative how often mentions of abuse ect...
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:40 PM
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I'm assuming the OP is an attractive woman looking to be more approachable. If so this would be an exelent question for F-PUA 1. Too Attractive Many very hot woman are seen as unapproachable and even find themselves lonely, even if they take initiative the man could be intimidated and stumble When approaching start with simple conversation and questions. He may think "its a trap", be genuine and friendly and give the guy some time to realize your genuine. Dress down for the venue, hair and makeu…
/r/seduction17/08/15 07:36 PM
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Find or download a copy of the way of the superior man refocus on your physical health and activity pursue or rediscover your passions Just get out more Getting older is an uphill battle you just need to build up some momentum Yes your probably a bit depressed or just need to eat/live healthier Be genuine(congruent) if you don't feel like being the life of the party that's ok just have fun
/r/seduction17/08/15 07:20 PM
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This exactly, you are higher value as a well put together 30 something than an 18 Y old and if single and no kids, way ahead of the competition your age. Some younger women like a classy older guy. Older woman have less "slut" issues about sex and are experienced! game doesn't end at 30 for men, it goes on tap
/r/seduction13/08/15 03:25 PM
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your already doing well especially since you mentioned make outs and stuff. The push is super subtle and more of a brief stop for whatever.
/r/seduction12/08/15 07:45 PM
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Take a break focus intensely on your passions, Women will start ambushing you like ninjas !
/r/seduction12/08/15 07:04 PM
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some women will DQ you, some won't your inner game is a big component of that. Its not being short that turns women off its how a guy feels about being short. as always Own It no fucks given. If everything else is good it may limit your pool but not as bad as you think. Search on a dating sites there are tones of attractive <5'4 women out there and some of the taller ones don't really care
/r/seduction12/08/15 07:01 PM
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the goal is a playful "come here go away" game with flirting, touch and even conversation There is a guide in the forums but its a bit douchey/cocky good for your age range though if you can do cocky Mystery has a good vid series on kino escalation and how to push/pull with kino you offer a bit then take away before she does. leaving her wanting more and eventually initiating herself. Never de-escalate like its a punishment just stop by being distracted by something like it was totally normal so…
/r/seduction12/08/15 06:43 PM
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Early 30s is the best time for casual sex and dating. You have your shit together, your own place, money to travel and date so do they. don't limit yourself worrying about height.
/r/seduction12/08/15 06:09 PM
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your getting first dates ! Your coming out of a relationship with a borderline that can be completely devastating to a sense of self worth and mental well being. Yet you are getting regular make outs and hand jobs that's great! and somewhat par for the course. keep doing what your doing. Building your social skills and dating skills, your on your way to abundance mentality. It sounds like you should re frame your success as just that. your confidence and self worth will heal over time. If you wa…
/r/seduction12/08/15 03:57 PM
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I don't think that is an unreasonable fear at all. BC is not %100; other medications can conflict, sometimes a woman may forget or even lie about it. a condom is the only way to be nearly sure and prevents disease anyway. if you find yourself with a woman having a ONS and she adamantly does not want you to wear a condom ask yourself why!
/r/seduction06/08/15 05:16 PM
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I think this response. is hitting the nail on the head. You don't need to F-Close the first night! If you can't get it up, often when trying to F-Close first night, Stop! That wont be attractive for her either anyway. Anxiety is likely the cause especially if you have no problems getting it up on your own. If you are unable to get it up because of the anxiety on the first night. that's OK! its OK if that is to soon for you! you have to meet your needs not the needs of the Pick up community. It s…
/r/seduction04/08/15 04:18 PM
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Hate the game not the player! ;)
/r/seduction04/08/15 03:31 PM
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This is a test, and it is likely to test if you are the jealous type. If she is to start a FWB or just hook up, she needs to know you will be cool about it and not get clingy or needy. Also you stopped escalation she may simply be purposely trying to get you jealous so you start again, basic girl-game to get/keep you invested in her. Or option 3 she doesn't appreciate your escalation and is using AFC hoping you will get the hint and leave.
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:44 PM
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Why not enjoy a polyamorus relationship with the two women. They don't have to be in love with each other if "Samantha" lets go of her emotional love for your girlfriend you can even still have threesomes a polyamorus relationship does not have to be a perfect love triangle or "polygon" for that matter.
/r/seduction30/07/15 02:58 PM
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Anchors for approach confidence and dealing with phobias Setting an anchor is simple conditioning create a mental/emotional state create a connection to a trigger and practice and enforce it Some things like phobias you may need to chain anchors together in sequence and the desired emotional state is to distante or incongruent with the current state ie if you have a phobia of heights and want to make an anchor to counter it you may need to chain anchors to get to calm Terrified > Scared > Nervou…
/r/seduction24/07/15 09:25 PM
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Ive used it for public speaking i have a significant personality shift and actually have fun when giving presentations now after having set up a confident fun projecting mental state anchor its been functioning for over 4 years I'm only recently single after an LTR so i haven't applied it to game yet but i cant see why it would not apply you can use "future pacing" to make preset anchors fire under given circumstance and you will notice a full mental state change thinking about them can also fir…
/r/seduction23/07/15 03:41 PM
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Find Joseph O'Coners NLP Workbook Read about Environment checks and Anchors Make an compound anchor for confident approach
/r/seduction21/07/15 09:44 PM
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