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| 1 | I am getting frustrated with my attorney and I'm not sure what I should do.Your ex is past the deadline and you said nothing has come of it. You knew when the deadline was. Get your awesome attorney to file a complaint with the court that the deadline has passed, and the court will serve your ex with an order so she complies. YOU can also do this without an attorney if you can just do some research. She took.the money out of your account, so since you're not ordered to pay anything, don't. Don't even reply. This is yours to lose, so don't talk to her unless it's absolu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | House/Alimony Math HelpDid you file for divorce due to the cheating, and do you have evidence proving it? And obviously you couldn't have also been cheating.. If so.. alimony is completely off the table (in GA). | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE:That sucks man. No one is perfect, but cheating is a choice, just like loving is. You might have subconsciously known what was up and your drinking and being distant could have been a way to disassociate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 11:06 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE:Glad you're making progress. Be sure to go after your part of the investment property sale. This is blatant misuse of marital funds, and the court won't look kindly upon it. Alimony ahould be based on need, not want, check your local laws because they are all different and they can also change. 120k a year is insane. If you haven't been giving her any official payments for nearly 10 years, you could argue she doesn't even need it. Also be sure you do your research even though you have a lawyer. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Having Lunch with my STBX todayCommon mistake. And it might not be that simple. Depending on the state, contributions to retirement could be considered non-marital as well as the resulting earnings. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Having Lunch with my STBX todayYou'd owe 25k not 50k. Pooled together would be 150, split 50/50 would be 75k each. You'd make up the difference. The QDRO ensures no tax consequences on the account being split out. If the other party decides to accept the transfer and pull it out as a distribution, and thus incur taxes and early withdrawal penalties, that's on them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Question about division of propertyThis depends on the state and is not always the case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Question about division of propertyDepends on the state. In some states you can get what you put into it before getting married, then 50% of the equity after that. In some states she doesn't even need to be on the deed, it'd still be considered marital property. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Oh it’s a dayLook into filing an emergency injunction to force her to let you see your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Long-term separation and assert division (FL)Forensic accountants can be assigned to your case by the court, and they can and do go through documents that are compelled by court order. Do they catch everything? Of course not, but you shouldn't try to lead people to believe they are not a viable option and that the court won't hear any testimony and evidence from their findings. Good luck with the crypto scene | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Long-term separation and assert division (FL)Lol ok bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Long-term separation and assert division (FL)Yes, equitable also implies "fair". Of course 50/50 is a starting point, but it is not always the end result. Asset split depends on what is considered marital assets. Voluntarily disclosing assets is not required to move forward; a party can be forced to submit to subpeona and/or pay for the other party's forensic accountant to uncover the details. Many states require a declarion of assets as part of the process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Long-term separation and assert division (FL)Not a lawyer. Florida is an equitable division state, so not necessarily a 50/50 split. Everything considered as a marital asset is subject to division. That you put in 100% while she put in 0% -- while married -- isn't relevant in the eyes of the court, with a few exceptions like gifts and inheritances. Up until separation, and maybe even up to the divorce is finalized, this arrangement is seen as mutually agreeable. You can and should be able to argue that you had x assets before marriage, so … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Ex targeting oldest son with DCFS allegationsYou mentioned you have a lawyer. He should be able to file a motion that asks the judge to gatekeep any further requests to head off any more investigations. Ask him about filing for cease and desist, and filing harrassment charges. I'm more pissed at your lawyer for just sitting on this and making you go through it when it could have been addressed a whole ago. Tell your lawyer to get his thumb out of his ass and do his job, and talk about steep discounts for having to tell him so. You have the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/24 07:56 PM |
| 3 | LL wife cheat?Nah, you only find out about it when they leave. It's not "Gee, that was fast", they've been hooking up months before that point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How much net worth did you lose?Yes the $8 for a box of cereal is not sustainable. Corporate greed is at an all-time high. I bought all groceries BOGO, no dinner or salad kits, nothing fancy, still comes to about 150 a week at 50% off. For just me and my kids. Rent is higher than a mortgage payment, but can't buy a house. Pretty much fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 06:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the anger and frustration that your spouse triggers in you?Three years? You should have finished that book a long time ago! /s | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 03:48 AM |
| -2 | Stop searching for the 2 legged females....Yeah but a woman doesn't walk sideways when you bang em. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 05:48 AM |
| 2 | How much net worth did you lose?Just pretend you've already taken them to bed. Ask them what they like to do, not what they do for work. They will buy you a drink. And of course you have to be clean, smell good, and have somewhat decent shoes. Anyone can do that. There's your book. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 01:17 AM |
| 4 | How much net worth did you lose?lol I didnt read the username until after I read your comment | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How much net worth did you lose?You sir are lying /s. Congrats on finding one of the few logical, and in comparison, kind, exes out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 01:09 AM |
| 3 | How much net worth did you lose?It's so messed up that you got screwed over in two currencies. Seriously though, sorry for your loss, I hope things are on the upswing for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | How much net worth did you lose?Sorry to hear that. I named a not-so-great TMI, uh, thing, after my ex. Maybe it helps my body react and fight harder than usual. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How much net worth did you lose?Same, as in the homeless part. Glad you've got a roof over your head! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 12:59 AM |
| 2 | How much net worth did you lose?I was just talking to someone about Kevin Costner and his 40k A MONTH child support bill. I hope I got the number wrong. Sorry for your loss, I hope that means you also have $$ to recover. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 12:57 AM |
| 9 | How much net worth did you lose?Who the hell doesn't want to hear that? Congrats! And storytime, maybe ? lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Child’s Health InsuranceAnytime man. This shit sucks and we've all been there. Thanks for being brave and sharing. YOU are also helping others by doing so. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Child’s Health InsuranceTake him to a therapist, they can submit that there is coaching going on. Just be careful not to unintentionally lead him, he just needs to be honest. The court will not take kindly to this--it's parental alienation and it's considered child abuse. If the stars align, you should get any time you ask for, and possiblly impose restrictions on her time, like supervised visitation and no overnight stays. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're only human and we don't think straight when we're in shock.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Child’s Health InsuranceFirst. She is only trying to get you to look bad by making her pay out of pocket for out-of-network. She's failing miserably and showing that she's being petty. The judge will love this, don't worry about it, it is to your favor. She has primary custody and so generally can make decisons on day-to-day care and possibly emergency care. If she decides on out-of-network for non-emergencies, that is literally her choice and it looks like you have that covered. For out-of-network costs for emergency … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Divorce vs. Legal Separation.?Laws varies by state. Do some web searching and ask specific questions that we can try to help answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | anyone know if you can liquidate 401k transfer without penalty?She is the one who would be transferring funds and thus having to file the QDRO. All he needs is a new or existing retirement account to accept the transfer to avoid any penalties related to getting a distribution, i.e. cashing out, which would then require paying income tax and early withdrawal penalties. The receiving account manager doesn't care where the money comes from and only needs the info to do the transfer. If he wants to liquidate the funds after, its the same as taking a distributio… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | PropertyCan't prove a negative so all you can do is say you don't know what he's talking about. He's fishing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | It’s our fault guys that we are here.As seen in r/scams lol. I hope no one takes your bait. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | It’s our fault guys that we are here.There's no making them happy, that has to come from within. We're set up to fail so might as well keep our dignity intact and maybe find a woman to not marry haha. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 07:07 AM |
| 5 | It’s our fault guys that we are here.That sounds like a different outcome to me 😀 They think marriage is an infinite money hack. I even told my ex, we can do what you want to do, but that means they'll be nothing left for other stuff. Sure enough, did things her way, we didn't have shit after, and boom, everything just went sideways. The old adage of "at least with a hooker, you know what you're in for, compared to a wife" is an unfortunate truth. Never again lol. Edit: how do you even find escorts and high-quality ones--asking for… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 12:21 AM |
| 18 | It’s our fault guys that we are here.80% of divorce cases are filed by women. Most of the time it's becase we as men caved to their constant bitching and tried to make them happy, which is impossible. The more we try, the more they lose respect, and so the cycle continues until we're suddenly the asshole. And they use THAT reaction as an excuse to fuck around and destroy their family and others', all to repeat it again. We enabled it by trying to make them happy, based on the belief they know what they want. They have no fucking cl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/24 11:00 PM |
| 9 | It’s our fault guys that we are here.I'm pretty sure one definition of doing things for personal gain no matter who you hurt in the process, is "psychopath." Or "cunt". I forget. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | She moved on super quickSo it boils down to what constitutes 'real present danger'. How is parental alienation and emotional abuse...not abuse? Why are there such legal terms in the first place? Why encourage other men to not do something about it in totality and act like there's no recourse for when there's an actual issue? All rhetorical. I get that some men would do whatever in court out of jealousy, and that isn't what I was addressing. Only a man in that predicament could make that call, to be honest with himself,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | She moved on super quickThere's nothing simp-like about protecting your children from thinking their mom's, and their new partner's, behavior is normal and healthy. Your attempt at belittling when you encounter a different opinion is funny and sad at the same time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 12:24 AM |
| -1 | She moved on super quickDoesn't cost money unless you go the route of hiring a lawyer to file with the court, which isn't necessary at all if you do your research on what steps to take. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | She moved on super quickRight to association and the few examples I provided aren't even close to the same thing. You're trying to deflect and failing miserably. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 11:57 PM |
| 0 | She moved on super quickReviewing your post history is very telling. You advised someone on this sub there was NOTHING that could be done and it would cost 5k to hire an attorney to file a complaint. Both of the statements you made were not true then, and they aren't true now. Family law matters aren't typically published but if you look for it there are real-life examples where the morality clause were in the decree, it was enforced, and there were very real consequences for those who were found in contempt. Obviously… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Creating Wealth Post-Divorce Without Having to Give it to Ex?Thanks for clarifying, that makes perfect sense. Definitely wise to cater to her greed at the onset so you can be freed up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | She moved on super quickStill wrong. It is considered blatent parental alienation, which is a form of child abuse, and the court will enforce it. And I already said proof was required. As if it ever isn't... so stop with the misinformation please. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 10:25 PM |
| 0 | She moved on super quickAwesome. The more it is known and understood, the better all around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 10:23 PM |
| -3 | She moved on super quickWrong. It is considered blatent parental alienation, which is a form of child abuse, and the court will enforce it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 10:16 PM |
| -1 | She moved on super quickThere is absolutely recourse, but you have to add a morality clause and be ready to supply evidence for it to be enforced. One or two times might only cause a slap on the wrist, depending on the judge, but they will find her in contempt of court if her behavior continues. Which means fines and even potential jail time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 09:43 PM |
| 0 | She moved on super quickMake sure you have a morality clause in your decree. If she violates it, she can be found in contempt of court. So no asshat "friends" can be around your kids for a year, etc. It sounds like you might still have time to get it added in. just do some web searching for examples. This affects your kids, so you can't care what she thinks, just do it. It sucks, but more often than not they move on a lot earlier than you know about. Might not apply here, but for others..if she had an affair, you can c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Creating Wealth Post-Divorce Without Having to Give it to Ex?Investments are assets. Houses are assets. Anything purchased while married is an asset that needs to be accounted for and divided according to whatever state law. Some assets even start as non-marital and can become marital. Just saying there's no legitimate way to invest in anything for it not to be up for divison. You had some lawyer if you were advised to give her the house plus half of your other assets. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Creating Wealth Post-Divorce Without Having to Give it to Ex?She's been a SAHM for 16 years, so you'll be on the hook for significant spousal support for a while. Get her into therapy, it's way cheaper. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Creating Wealth Post-Divorce Without Having to Give it to Ex?How is it that you only have have to split the money from the first full-time job? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 12:42 PM |
| 4 | To keep or not to keepKeep your home. Live in it and think of it as exposure therapy. You considering your options tells me you got this. Mobile parks will sell you a home, which you can eventually pay off, but you also have to pay rent for the lot and abide by all their rules. You also don't build equity, it's considered chattle, not exactly real estate, which is why the loan structure is different. If you have the option, keep your home and its equity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | This is going to be the death of me.Focused on the relationship like you should have been? What the fuck was she doing to invest in the relationship? Seems like she was doing her own thing, waiting for the house purchase, to then try to take it from you. Maybe you can get an annulment since you haven't been married long. You have your whole life ahead of you and you'll see this as a blessing in disguise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceTalk to several as part of the free consultation so you can come up with a solid game plan that isn't just one lawyer's opinion. Does the ex have social media that you can take screenshots of? If there's evidence of her using, you need to make records of it before they are deleted. Make everything legit, from your separation to your divorce filing. You lawyer should suggest interrogatories that include drug use. Living with her parents, doing drugs, and just waiting around will all play to your … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Honey DoYes, play nice, but not for nothing. My ex put it IN her filing that she deserved half my stuff. Didn't occur to her that she also needed to disclose what she had. Women can claim they are owed the world because "they got used to a certain lifestyle". Talk to me when I can say something to the effect of, "Yeah I want all the sex you withheld or gave out to others, cause I deserve it. Feel free to outsource it because you disgust me now" I swear, they are all entitled brats and responsibility is … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Honey Do"Wha, what are you so busy doing that you can't come?" "Nothing" or "Anything else". This is my go-to for birthday party invites. For adults. They think I'm joking. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Looking for perspective and maybe some advice.We fall for it cause we were told (by women) that women really want is a white knight to give in to their demands no matter what the sacrifice. When we do that, they lose respect for us, and the blame game begins until we give them a reaction that justifies it. Exit stage left monster/former white knight. Enter new white knight. Repeat. Never get married, never cohabitate. Or get an iron-clad prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 04:16 AM |
| 10 | Man did I ever screw upIf it wasn't this event that drove you to drink in excess, it would have been something else. Take your life back from other people and things, and make the choice to learn to deal with life in a healthy way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Looking for perspective and maybe some advice.You can't negotiate with her as-is. You'd need a mediator to help, which you could file a motion to force her to the table. Sounds like she's already in a relationship. Did you separate or counter the filing because of her adultery? Also assuming you kept your nose clean. Some states don't allow alimony at all if infidelity is the cause. But yeah talk to lawyers, take advantage of the free consults and learn as much as you can with each one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/24 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Looking for perspective and maybe some advice.Alimony calculations should have imputed her income. She is capable of supporting herself by 50k more than she claimed--she doesn't get to do fuck all on your dime just because she wants to. You may have to reach out to the court..but unfortunately I'm not a lawyer and don't exactly know. Her paying off her debt with marital assets was her plan all along. The second she shacks up with her next victim you need to file to have alimony adjusted further, citing cohabitation rules if they apply in yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/24 03:11 AM |
| 12 | She criedWhy therapy if no relationship, though? She wants you as a backup, but with plausible deniability in case her other options run out. Don't talk to her about anything you don't have to. She's shown what kind of person she is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Why…….We've learned the hard way that you can't make woman happy. That's her responsibility. And responsibility is their kryptonite. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/24 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Why…….This. They say they want us to share and be vulnerable, then they are revolted to learn that men are also human. Before that point they try to change us to what they want, and if they succeed, the respect goes out the window and they start looking for new D. Cause why not, the courts rule in their favor, and split custody means she can bail on the kids and go back to whoring it up for meals at the Olive Garden. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/24 08:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the lonelinessThanks man, you too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the lonelinessThen that's a shit therapist, lol. They should never work harder than their client, as a professional boundary. I can improve one day, one week, slide back down, and go through it again. It's one of the toughest things to endure, so some escapism is ok as long as you can still function until things get better. I'm over the hump not sliding back into despair; I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and for once it's not a damn train. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 11 | How do you deal with the lonelinessLet yourself feel your emotions, then once you're tired of that, force yourself to get sun first thing in the morning, and exercise. Make lists, keep your home clean. Start setting about 15 minutes a day to feel sorry for yourself once you start feeling better. Not that I did any of this cause I'm an idiot, I'm still drinking and staying up late, but that's what I tell my therapist I'm doing and she seems cool with it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Anniversary painSame here. She refused to acknowledge there are two people in a marriage and both have to participate. Gave her everything she said she wanted and nothing was ever good enough. Did her name start with an S ? lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, WTF is going on with my case?That is some bullshit. If she filed the date with the court it doesn't seem like she could just change it. If your lawyer isn't fighting for you, why keep paying her? You're allowed to change lawyers and request all her notes, etc. That money you would be paying out would at least have a chance at going towards a competent lawyer. Ask your ex what she would accept and ask that she put it in writing, signed by her. Weigh rhat against how much you think you'll burn through with lawyers, lost work,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Out to the younder!!!Have I thought about it, hell yes. Can I? Not by a long shot until kids are grown. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Why…….I had to google it so I didn't mess it up lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 12:19 AM |
| 9 | Why…….Because MOST typical women don't know what the hell they want. They say they want to know a man's feelings, then they are disgusted to realize we're also human beings with needs. Not a prince who whisks them away from all the cares and responsibilities of the world. Good men are forced out of their own homes, out of their childrens' lives, leaving the woman to teach their sons how to be a man. And so the pussification of America perpetuates itself under the guise of women's rights. They are neve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | I am way too old to feel this way about a woman (post divorce dating)Have something else to do early on, and throughout. Be happy in your life and friends and hobbies. If she fits into your life and has an equally healthy life of her own, you avoid the codependent "you don't make me happy" bullshit on both sides. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | I am way too old to feel this way about a woman (post divorce dating)Well, she mentioned lunch, but what that really means is, she wants wear your ass like a hat | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/24 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Wife wants a divorceSounds like a cop out. Check out the happy wife school on youtube. She fixed her marriage by realizing she was being a jerk to put it mildly. Maybe your wife will be open minded enough to listen to another woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/24 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Leaving wife,Without any context as to why, it sounds like you're leaving your family for your job, just to do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/24 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Seriously, WTF is going on with my case?Should be in the original filing in the first few pages. Also you can file a motion with the court to force mediation. Each party is required to pay half. Your lawyer.. Alimony amounts should be determined based on need, not want. She is purposefully underemployed and her boyfriend is also supporting her. You should have a clause about cohabitation as well, as another poster pointed out. Might not even need that, it varies by state. You need to seize control of this, no one can do that or even c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/24 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Should divorce Spouse but I don't have the balls to do itAgree. We are raised to be codependent. No one human being can complete us, or make us happy. It has got to come from within. You can't be friends with other women without risking your marriage to some degree. You have to own that part just as if she would if the roles were reversed. Get your thumb looked at so you avoid permanent damage if at all possible. You can file a police report but it might not help anything other than get it on record. She needs anger management therapy and you should i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Think I might always want my own place even if dating againYou have the right idea. If a woman lives with you or spends the night too much, you might be common law married and she can take half your shit just like a wife could. There's no reason to risk it and if they don't like it, they know where the door is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 03:56 AM |
| 13 | Going thought a divorceSorry you're going through this. Know that you are not alone. Like someone else said, no one just eakes up and decides to nuke their marriage and family. Women check out long before we know it, so by the time the news hits, it's like we've been blind sided. Love is a choice, every day. Typically what happens is we forget to keep dating our spouse when kids come into the picture, and the kids are the primary focus. Once the kids leave the household, the focus shifts back on each other, and since … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | My MIL and BIL are destroying our marriageI agree, it's the principle. But I see her point, too. She is providing value, just in a different way. If you split up, you would be responsible for taking care of those things all on your own. What financial value would you place on them? Getting take out would at least double. Childcare is crazy expensive. Running errands and shuttling kids around is time-consuming. Child support can run 20% of gross or more. Spousal support, who knows. You'd see your children half the time. And she'd get hal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 05:33 PM |
| 5 | My MIL and BIL are destroying our marriageSome people enjoy trying to make other people upset. Decide ahead of time that you're not going to give them the pleasure. You're the only one who can control your feelings, so don't worry about what anyone says. You know the truth and you don't have to prove anything. If you find that you say to yourself "how dare they..", change that thought into something like, "I know that's not true and they just need help". It's our ego that defends our manhood, but the second you get into a fight, you've … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Hearing about AP from daughterCan you file an emergency injunction to get custody until trial? Most lawyers will do a free consult and this seems like it might be worth looking into. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/24 06:49 AM |
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