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Question for RedPillbrokegradstudent93/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:29 PM
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Very much so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 11:08 PM
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Pothead. It’s being decriminalized everywhere anyway and potheads are just lazy not mean and vicious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:16 PM
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Maybe improve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:41 PM
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I mean I guess it all depends on the shit test and how important it is that he has the right answer. Some shit tests are small and mean nothing while some mean a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:38 PM
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Again then you weren’t listening to us or only hearing what you wanted to hear. We talk about cute boys constantly. Especially when we are going through puberty. Talk dark and handsome has been a saying for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:51 PM
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That’s not the same as looks don’t matter. Men might be MORE visual but that doesn’t mean women aren’t really visual. All we used to read were romance novels where they describe the boys features in detail. And we’d fawn over them. Same with guys on tv and musicians. We weren’t subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:41 PM
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That women say looks don’t matter. We talk about which boys we think are cute starting at age 10 boys just didn’t listen to us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 07:28 AM
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Usually Indian men who just got to the US, I’m in a stem masters program and we have a lot of foreign men around all the time. There has been a bit of a language barrier hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:19 AM
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This is the person you will spend the rest of your life with. Better fucking hope it’s not someone you feel just ok about. The guy doesn’t have to be perfect to society but he should be her perfect. Otherwise you will end up in a dead bedroom and likely divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:35 AM
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Dated a guy who was 4’9 for a couple weeks, actually liked him a lot. We were both going into similar fields in academia but then he brought religion into it and it was too much for me personally. And for Indian guys it varies! My first bf ever was a short Indian guy in my class and I was head over heels obsessed he actually looked a little like aziz I’m not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:33 AM
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So basically the fear of false accusations is male projection because they are so immoral they would falsely accuse if they were in the same position. Ok that actually makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:25 AM
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I think lying to anyone for personal gain is bad. What happened to honor and integrity? What happened to having a moral compass? What happened to karma and the golden rule. We all need to go back to kindergarten and learn the basics on how to treat each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:23 AM
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Race: I’ve dated mostly white guys but I’ve been attracted to most races. I actually have a thing for Indian guys but never the ones that ask me out Height: I prefer tall guys (6’+) but I’m 5’1 and have dated men shorter than me before so height is definitely not a requirement Face: I like feminine faces, and a pair of nice fitting glasses make me melt Body type: skinny with a little muscle but like skinny. Preferably thinner or as thin as me (size 4) Balding: I don’t really care, a lot of guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:18 AM
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I wouldn’t be insulted because any guy who says this doesn’t deserve even my god damn pity so why tf would I be insulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:04 AM
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Some people wanna feel a connection and kind of like the person at least a little bit to want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 08:21 PM
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Because someone’s worth isn’t built upon whether or not I wanna sleep with them. We just might not be compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 08:07 PM
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A lot of men won’t admit to wanting to be stay at home dads so a lot of women believe men don’t want to be stay at home dads
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:53 PM
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We go Dutch and have plenty of sex. I actually take him out quite often and pay for the whole thing. I’m a little bit more financially secure right now in the relationship. For a first date I’d expect him to pay but nothing more than like $30 on me and after that we go Dutch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:51 PM
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I think it should be more about looking at work ethic. If you date a broke dude who is working hard and getting his shit together but is in school or job training or working towards either of those would probably be ideal if you can get him to commit. If he’s broke and lazy and doesn’t do anything that’s another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:48 PM
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A healthy mix of both. They probably weren’t thin thin before marriage in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:43 PM
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I still don’t see how me not being interested because I can’t see myself spending the rest of my life means I’m better than them? It just means we aren’t compatible and finding someone to spend the rest of your life with is hard and you should be picky unless you want to end up in a dead bedroom relationship where you hate each other in 20 years. I guess that comes down to if we are fucking I can see us ending up together. And that my goal. Not casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:39 PM
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I did once and it turned into ya living together and planning our lives together
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:08 AM
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I’ve never taken pleasure in rejecting men unless they are extremely rude. I always feel bad rejecting guys who are nice that I feel absolutely nothing for. It’s not their fault. They aren’t less than me at all just cause I am not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:29 PM
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I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:45 AM
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If no one is getting your post then you didn’t properly communicate so it’s a fucking shitty post. Maybe you should edit your op to clear confusion and get your actual point across
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:42 AM
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I mean weren’t you asking if there were different preferences? So women being attracted to different types of guys (masculine vs feminine and big vs thin) is basically showing you that there is variation. And think Benedict cumberbach thin. Or 80s rockstar thin. I’d argue that musicians are the sensitive lovely dovey type (the ones who actually write their own music and most young women probably think most singers write their own music hahaha) I just think the trp view that there is no variation…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:41 AM
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Ya I like super skinny. Like thinner than me (I’m a size 4). I know a few girls from college who were extremely into the dad bod and idk the reason but they loved it. I’d argue a lot of the musicians aren’t traditionally hot and very feminine. Look at the boy bands and stuff, they look more like women than men and girls fawn all over them. What did you mean by sensitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:31 AM
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There are women who prefer dad bods and women love the sensitive musician/artists over crazy muscular dudes. Personally I like skinny guys with glasses the best! Makes me swoon. Can’t stand gym rat guys or frat boys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:23 AM
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Then you made a shitty post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:17 AM
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I mean there are plenty of moms who are “rapey” with their children. I don’t think that’s really a commonly used word to describe protective dads anywhere other than here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:30 AM
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Um no one ever said mothers were perfect...a lot of mothers are really shitty and anyone with any bit of common sense knows that there are shitty mothers out there. Gtfo with your bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:15 AM
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You are a creep man. No wonder no girls above a 5 give you the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:35 PM
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In entertainment, like the view, neither do men. They just have to look confident when they say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:49 PM
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Well I mean the reason is different individuals want different things. I was raised in Alabama in a somewhat conservative house. While I’m definitely pretty liberal my dating views were definitely affected by that. I’ve also always known I want a family and to be a mom. Like the only thing I really want in life so relationships are the better way to get that. I am also a romantic. Also I can get myself off better than every guy ive dated except my current bf so casual sex doesn’t have a lot of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:32 PM
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I mean I personally don’t like sleeping with anyone I don’t know and try not to make a habit out of it. Does part of me want to sleep with them immediately? Sure! Is it a strong enough want for me to act on it? No, not even for the hottest man I’ve dated even though I wanted him bad. I wanna make sure that whoever I do sleep with will stick around for awhile. I also wanna make sure they won’t up and leave if I do manage to get pregnant. I have a great degree and getting my masters so I can affor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:19 PM
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Boyfriend not a husband but he’s awesome for so many reasons. First he’s sweet but knows how to be a funny asshole (I’m one as well and can’t handle someone who can’t take it). He does stuff around the house to help out, he is 100% my physical type...it’s actually a little freaky I feel like I built a boyfriend sometimes, he’s hardworking and dedicated He is confident in himself but can take criticism and be self reflective He’s proven himself to be trustworthy time and time again He has interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:12 PM
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I mean the goal is a relationship though right? (At least mine is) so getting to know a guy on a personal level without sex can be a great thing! I usually make guys wait awhile until I decide I actually like the guy. But that doesn’t have to do with approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:03 PM
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But they will tell you they want to date you just so you sleep with them and then ghost you. Sooooo I get why it’s taught. But I think the world is a lot more nuanced than “never be the one to approach”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:58 PM
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A lot of women are taught to NEVER make the first move. I personally think this is ridiculous but I mean it’s definitely the norm and it keeps getting perpetuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:44 PM
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Absolutely love this! If you are constantly told you are beautiful buy guys all the time you might start to believe it eventually even if they are just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:30 PM
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I love alt rock to my core but that’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard Edit:that being into alt rock makes you more intelligent not your comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:21 PM
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The black pill has an extreme messaging problem. Maybe if the black pill didn’t use such hateful speech people would actually listen because there is some truth. That truth takes a long time to see though because you have to sift through all the extreme shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:13 PM
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I’m a feminist but I’m empathetic and want help with male issues like divorce court problems and male suicide. But no we are all so bad and hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:12 PM
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I mean if you had two failed marriages maybe you should do some introspection into your own behavior...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 01:52 PM
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While I agree being in a GOOd relationship should theoretically make everyone happier a lot of people don’t end up in good relationships. Some people believe it’s better to be alone than be with someone out of fear of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 08:22 AM
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Not everyone can get an abortion. In some states it’s next to impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:37 PM
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And he should have kept it in his pants. It takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:33 PM
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Attractiveness is subjective and doesn’t fall on a bell curve. What I find attractive might only be a tiny portion of guys (tall and lanky basically manorexic looking) and I’m really not turned on by ANYTHING else. Have I dated guys outside of this type? Yes. But was I viscerally attracted to them like I am with the tiny proportion of guys I find attractive? No not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:26 PM
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I mean with our economy it’s almost impossible to afford a child without having both parents work. So either wages need to be fixed or child care needs to be fixed. But for most families women staying at home isn’t an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:05 PM
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Eh but was that by women’s want for the actual man or marriage or out of a need for protection that isn’t necessary today?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:32 PM
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None. Most women know that most men aren’t rapists. But the men who rape, rape a lot and you can’t tell who is one and who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:23 PM
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You could say this about any movement with extremists. There will always be crazies on the fringe of movements who will literally say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:56 PM
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I personally do ask men out and take risks like that, but my point is still valid that until most women have to start approaching they won’t. And rejection sucks. I don’t mean that it doesn’t. But it sucks for everyone and it’s a completely normal part of life for everyone making it not a big deal in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:44 PM
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I think this all depends on your definition of rape fantasies. I think it’s all mostly dominance fantasies which I couldn’t care less about. But if a guy told me he actually fantasized about violently raping women I’d be crazy not to be a little frightened. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:40 PM
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They seem equally hard but I’m completely different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:54 AM
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Just basic strength. I’m 5’1 110 lbs. a 6’2 muscular guy is gonna beat me unless a miracle happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 10:28 PM
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I know it’s late but this is the realist thing I’ve read on this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 08:18 PM
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I mean of course not. Especially the guy who said it after 2 weeks of meeting me. People say stuff they don’t mean all the time. That doesn’t deter from the fact that they said it first and contradicts the women always say it first thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:52 PM
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I mean as anecdotal evidence I was for sure told this by my mother, grandmother, both of their friends, a Sunday school teacher, and a regular teacher. It’s not an uncommon thing to hear as a girl. I also heard “you are the prize” almost constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:42 PM
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Lol every guy I’ve dated said it first since I was 17
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:38 PM
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Eh I think it’s when both partners start to show that they love each other. Sometimes it takes awhile to actually say it but people have a hard time hiding it through their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:37 PM
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You are absolutely insane. I’ve never felt this way (except when it was said way way way too soon) when a boyfriend told me he loved me first. And every guy I’ve ever dated has said it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:27 PM
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While I’m still not sure of my own view point I can understand why people would classify that as rape or rape lite. Again it’s all about consent. It’s like a used car salesman selling an obvious lemon with bad sales taxes. You can sue that guy and basically ruin his life if you really want to. Similar to when a guy uses bad tactics to “sell” sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 12:25 PM
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This can be said about anybody at anytime. Anyone can lie about what women do too and get them labeled in negative ways. It happens all the time. Life isn’t fair and people lie that’s part of life but just because some people do this doesn’t mean we shouldn’t take accusations seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 11:03 PM
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False pretenses, she might not have consented if she knew the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:47 PM
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It isn’t harassment but could be labeled as discrimination. This boils down to treat everyone like human beings and make sure it doesn’t seem like you want to fuck your coworkers. If everyone is going out after work don’t not invite the women but maybe don’t ask her out one on one for coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:45 PM
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That’s just narcissism...happens in both men and women. Shitty people act shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:44 PM
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Yes your grandfather is a sexist entitled asshole and it’s sad that other men want to be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:37 PM
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If women had to start approaching to date then they will start approaching even if rejection is scary. And the ones who don’t will be left behind just like men. However in our society women don’t have to approach. Some still do anyway but you are being extremely obtuse. He’s right everyone is scared of rejection and you are trying to make it into a big thing when it’s just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:05 PM
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I’ve asked several men on dates and initiated the relationship. I’ve been flat out rejected by men before. Ya it sucks but it’s part of life. Get the fuck over it. Every single person deals with rejection. If you are so fragile you can’t handle being rejected you really aren’t gonna be happy in life because life is just constantly being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:58 PM
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Girls take an hour just for the shower, make up and hair plus extra time for eating breakfast and doing all that if they do that in the morning. As far as clothing effort: I’m 5’1 and curvy while being a size 4. Nothing ever fits. That’s not a man thing that’s having a weird body type. If you are abnormally large or small clothes are hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:47 PM
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But our society is a sink or swim society. It always has been. Again they have all the resources they could ever need. If they don’t have the initiative to relearn old bad habits as adults then that’s on them. Do I think they are evil? No, I actually really pity them. But if they don’t change their attitudes I don’t think they have a positive impact on society and should be ignored. This isn’t saying if someone asks for help that we should say no. If they are big enough to want help and to want …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:41 PM
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Part of why I have a hard time being empathetic is because there is a plethora of information out there on how to self improve and how to get better. Every single person (incel or not) should constantly be trying to improve and if they aren’t I don’t really have sympathy for them. If they are still trying then I have all the sympathy in the world for them. But it’s hard to feel for someone who just gives up when something is hard. (Not the same for victims of actual crimes and extreme trauma)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:32 PM
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Um I’ve definitely been called a dick before and told I was being an asshole before. Women get called those things all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:13 PM
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Eh I think toxic masculinity exists but I don’t think it’s the same thing as masculinity. It’s more like when masculine traits get taken to an extreme. Too much of anything can be toxic. Just like when women are way too feminine and submissive can be toxic. But I don’t think anyone thinks masculine traits themselves are toxic just when the scale is extremely tipped that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:12 PM
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Just because a woman doesn’t like the other women at her work doesn’t mean she doesn’t have extremely strong loyal bonds with female friends outside of work. Also men are extremely competitive at work and don’t have each other’s backs/will try to knock each other from the top (at least in the fields I’ve worked in) I think wanting to be at the top is a personal drive based more on personality types than gender. And yes a lot of men sleep with their friends s/o. Is it the majority? I sure hope no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:06 PM
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Ha in been in a former LDR I can say there are amazing things I will remember fondly about my LDR but it was extremely hard and it obviously didn’t work out and it was honestly due to the distance. We were both really busy with being in school and working full time so communication started to get worse over time and those moments when we could have spent together if we lived in the same city we couldn’t do while apart. So is it impossible? Of course not, I know several couples who were able to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 09:38 PM
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But his interests in something she likes might...like being in a band or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 01:38 AM
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I have several friends from my freshman friend group who didn’t start dating until senior year and then got married. So it definitely happens and happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 01:06 AM
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I have dated men that were 5’2. I know tons of guys that are short who are total man whores. While some women will flat out refuse short men it’s definitely not all of us. And a lot of women who say they won’t date shorter men will end up dating a shorter man if he has all the other qualities she wants and he’s still attractive minus the height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:55 AM
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If someone I was trying to commit to was playing games like this I would run for the hills. This kills pair bonds as others have said and once those bonds are broken they are very hard to get back. I don’t want someone who is going to actively try and put me a little bit on edge. I want someone who will hold me accountable and communicate with me when I’m doing something wrong or if I’m letting myself go. But maybe that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:02 AM
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Man that would make me want to jump ship and just let him have the other women...if he was posting pics with his exes and stuff. That’s honestly just disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:54 PM
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I think the only issue with this is post pregnancy weight can be extremely hard to lose. Some women develop permanent hormone imbalances and can’t lose the weight. But if there are no babies involve and she isn’t even trying then that’s another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:44 PM
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Yes it can be done without marriage but you are being obtuse. It’s a lot harder to do with a partner you aren’t married to. Raising a family and owning property together are easier when you get the benefits from a legal marriage. Who gives a shit about the romance. If you love each other enough to commit without marriage why not just get married and get all the benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:29 PM
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Not all animals have the same mating strategy. In several species men actually do the selecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:27 PM
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Just because things go wrong doesn’t mean await. It could be that the man does something wrong too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:06 PM
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He’s also gotta keep putting in work to keep women with character because they won’t put up with bullshit either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:04 PM
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Then you are gonna be depressed. Failing is important and not really a bad thing. How we pick ourselves up from failure shows more about you then actually failing itself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:51 PM
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It’s not them being wrong if you didn’t properly communicate your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:45 PM
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I think the issue is that we never taught you that...our parents taught you the most basic dumbed down version. For a ltr you need all those bp things but that’s the basics. You still need to be somewhat exciting/fun/playful and have a connection on top of those things. Both parties should do so to keep interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:07 PM
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If you ask them interview style questions you probably won’t get vibes from someone. But if you ask a similar question just a much more laid back version of that question you will be more likely to vibe with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:48 PM
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I would venture to say it could also be lack of common interests and incompatibility and not a lack of social skills. Tons of people have great social skills but are incompatible mentally with certain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:34 PM
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I agree with the stem earning more! That’s why I have to be in grad school, it’s way over hyped!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:38 PM
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Hahaha I was trying to support your argument because everyone acts like getting a masters in stem is some huge thing when it really isn’t. I wasn’t saying “oh look at me” or trying to be generic and sorry if it came off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:38 PM
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Eh I say it on here because when I’m a girl saying I am getting a masters degree they assume it’s in gender studies or education (which shouldn’t necessarily be looked down upon but on reddit they sure are). Stem fields also tend to be the higher earning careers which seemed like a relevant descriptor for OPs original argument
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:33 PM
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My grad school is 1000X easier than my undergrad! I also didn’t need a 3.0 to get into a decent stem grad program
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:27 PM
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It’s not that much of an outlier. My bf and I are basically the same way. I’m about to finish my stem grad degree while he is working on finding a trade apprenticeship so he can do trade work on the side while being a sahd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:25 PM
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I’m not trying to be mean but how does “just be yourself” equal shower her with attention? Also when did being nice to someone start meaning shower them with attention? That’s never what being nice meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:42 PM
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I’d rather them talk shit than yell directly in each other’s faces in front of my 7 year old sister at the time. I know plenty of people who are extremely happy after divorcing, they either moved on and are now in happier relationships or are traveling. Not all but plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 01:36 PM
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I think this is happily married. If you actively hate your partner but “stay for the kids” they will know because it will be a toxic environment. I used to beg my parents to get divorced we would have all been happier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 01:27 PM
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Again I think it depends on context and tone. I was thinking a random man coming up and saying it in a scary way because that has happened to me and I would definitely consider it harassment. But if it was obviously light hearted and came from someone I kind of know then I probably would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 02:11 PM
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I think this comes down to what harassment is. No one is going to say you harassed someone for telling a girl that her hair looks nice today or that you like her shoes or her dress or whatever. If you say something like “you are the sexiest woman I’ve ever seen and your ass is fantastic” that will probably be taken as sexual harassment. You can be a little flirty without harassing someone. I think some guys have a hard time knowing where the line is that most people just intuitively know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:21 PM
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I think it depends on context. A simple up down? Hell no that’s not harassment. But a guy staring a chick down for 5 minutes without breaking? Could definitely be considered harassment. That’s why this issue is so hard because it’s so nuanced and delicate to balance attraction vs harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 12:19 PM
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I don’t care if you look but no one has to stare. If you are a grown man and you still stare at women publicly then something is wrong with you. Adults are supposed to be civilized which includes not staring at people. It’s just rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 12:14 PM
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I’ve found women don’t comment from a place of wanting to actually see them or actually get with me. It’s usually from a false sense of sisterhood that they think it’a ok. Is it wrong? Of course! Does it bother me as much as when straight me do it? Not at all. Mostly because of the intent behind it. But like I said before I’m fine if a guy glances every once in awhile because boobs are great! But once a person is staring or vocally acknowledging it, I get extremely uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:59 AM
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Oh I’m definitely thought of as tits first then a person second. That’s the first thing anyone notices about me and lots of people feel the need to tell me about it. Even when I wear T-shirts and show no cleavage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:50 AM
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Confidence, self reliance, hard working, etc are great traditionally masculine traits! These aren’t toxic at all! I think it’s only toxic when masculinity gets taken to the extremes. Like the men who try way too hard to prove their manhood. But there are definitely masculine traits that are admired by many feminists. The extremist feminists don’t speak for all of us in the movement!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:37 AM
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It was mortifying...I didn’t know what to do because there were like 50-70ish people staring right at my chest for a good 10 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:24 AM
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Not necessarily malicious but definitely gendered. I was on a cruise with friends when I was 22(F). The ship had a formal dinner and I wore a somewhat sexy dress that showed some cleavage but was still very classy. I have large boobs so a little bit of cleavage for me is still a lot but that’s never going to change (can’t even wear button ups). After dinner we went to a bar and the piano player and his friend openly started discussing and telling everyone in the bar through the microphone to sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:16 AM
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The solution is honestly to raise our boys to not be so thirsty and to not validate women’s every move on the internet. If all women weren’t flooded with tons of messages a day (ie didn’t have as many options) we will have to come around to lowering our standards. Men have no desire to do this though just like with your solution. Women don’t care so why would they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:37 PM
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I think there is middle ground here. We should be teaching all of our children regardless of gender how to be full functioning well rounded adults. That means teaching them how to be strong and have a backbone but also how to be empathetic and how to express emotions in a respectful way. Only teaching strength or only teaching empathy will lead to a broken person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:01 PM
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Highly intelligent comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:28 AM
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Yes but we are smart creatures who can have rational thought and empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:24 PM
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There is no such thing as natural make up if you know what make up looks like. Even if all she’s wearing is some eyeshadow and mascara it’s pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:50 PM
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Some girls want to do some stuff like fool around but are very much against full blown penetration. This is extremely understandable and should be respected
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:47 PM
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