| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 30 | How can I manage to just not give a f | broken_msst | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 12:00 PM | |
| 10 | Cohabitate, how tough it is? | Court | broken_msst | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 12:13 AM |
| 6 | How??? | broken_msst | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 07:17 AM | |
| 3 | Another one | broken_msst | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 06:31 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Recently divorced, how do I get back into dating.Yes details please! Lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 01:34 PM |
| 9 | My Friend Said Something That Made Me Smile….Exactly what I needed to hear. My divorce is getting pretty destructive. That thing previously known as my wife actually told me 2 days ago that she will destroy my life, all after cheating on me and getting angry about being caught (she still denies). It's so sad to think about how some women behave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing a narc wife - real life experiences neededOr mine. She wants to kick me out of my previously purchased house, the kids, the car and she also wants me to pay for every expense of the kids. Also she's racheted up the direct insults to me. The talking shit about me to everyone she's ever met including my family. I mean, brace for impact brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Fucking bitchNext one? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/25 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchNarc people cannot and I mean CANNOT admit anything wrong with them. Always excuses. They don't have the capacity to self reflect and take responsibility for their actions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Ex works at kid's school, using educational gatekeeping to cut me out, anyone else?Oh man. Reading this scares the shit out of me. Good luck. The fight is never over with this kind of women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Ex works at kid's school, using educational gatekeeping to cut me out, anyone else?I'm pretty much in the same boat. We just changed our kids to the one were my stbx works. I'm already noticing some weird things there, but they just started classes. The school is run by a bunch of women, and my stbx is a complete narcissist that already started a smear campaign with everyone, neighbors, family, friends and obviously everyone at that school. I figured there's nothing I can do, just play the long game. Ps: I was at a neighbors birthday party and everyone was cold with me. What a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Lessons learned from using divorce attorney + saving money on caseWhy are you saying, "next time". Are you a masochist? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Does it get easier?Exactly. They fabricate this narrative and I believe they genuinely believe in it. And everything that contradicts this narrative is subconsciously dangerous so they get even more vicious. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Cohabitate, how tough it is?What happened at the end. Did she leave? I'm debating with myself if I stay and try to make her life as miserable as possible. I could also just leave the house taking absolutely everything with me (lawyer told me there's a limit to that, I can't even take all my shit with me). Idk man, I feel so screwed... Frustrating, specially since the divorce is her fault. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/25 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Thank youIt's funny how similar our experiences can sometimes be. I don't post here a lot, but I kkep reading, and only the fact that I see several guys having the almost exact same problems, reactions, seeing that women behave pretty similar under the same circumstances is helping me a lot. We are not alone my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Cohabitate, how tough it is?Yeah man. I'm think I'm going to tough it out. Worst thing is the marriage is over because shes a serial cheater. The freaking injustice man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Cohabitate, how tough it is?I get that. I might be in the same boat. However MI stbxw is flat out saying she's not going anywhere. Even though I offered to help her moving out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Cohabitate, how tough it is?Why would someone prefer to live with a ex is beyond me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Cohabitate, how tough it is?I could see her doing exactly the same. Do you have kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Cohabitate, how tough it is?It would be tough to afford that. I was thinking to make her life even more miserable and force her to leave but it would be ugly and even traumatic, specially for the kids. Why can't she just move out and get on with her life? I'm beyond pissed right now. Feel like I'm freaking trapped with nowhere to go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 12:48 AM |
| 4 | How can I manage to just not give a fYeah I honestly don care about me. I'm a big boy and can take it. But the damage my little girls I just can't take it. I've long come to the conclusion that she objectively doesn't love our kids. You're right, they are just a prop to make her look good to others and a pretty effective weapon against me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 01:00 PM |
| 6 | How can I manage to just not give a fThree degrees of hate... Genius! That's exactly what it feels like. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 12:41 PM |
| 4 | How can I manage to just not give a fYeah it's something I just can't control at the moment. Always said to myself I "got unlucky" or a "luck of the draw" kind of thing, but at the moment I kind of hate all of them outside of my immediate family, since I know them well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 12:37 PM |
| 3 | How can I manage to just not give a fI guess I can't understand why I can't control myself, I particularly hate when she says contentious things in front of the kids. She's well aware that's an automated trigger for me. I have told her we should have a rule not to argue in front of them, but she absolutely intentionally does that since she knows that drives me completely mad! Funny thing is that since I don't engage with her when that happens and tell her "we should talk about this later" she actually gets mad at me, gets in my fac… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Don't lose your cool.Lol exactly! Nice one... | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/25 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Once married, never again.God damnit. I always say that she wasn't like this before the marriage, and everything changed after that. But deep down I kind knew it. I unconsciously dragged that engagement as much as I could (until she got pregnant). What a crazy MF I got. I'm still married though, I can't leave my two girls with a dangerous and crazy person. At least until they a little older (currently 6 & 7yo). | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/25 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Did I make the right call?Sorry but it sounds she's been in a relationship for more than 2 months to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Another oneShe's an attractive woman. But I get your point, I seriously believe no one can endure her in the long run. This woman is seriously damaged. Long story, not enough time, but she has real daddy/abandonment issues.i can't believe I didn't jump ship before getting married | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Another oneJust for my peace of mind. This thing is getting worst by the day btw | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.Sometimes it's hard to know what the best course of action is. A lawyer who told me to wait for her to file and I knew it was a terrible advice. I still don't know how it will all play out but thank to you guys I know I need to go all out war, my stbxw just told me that if we actually split up she's willing to leave everything (even the kids) and go away, but shes the kind that I just KNOW deep inside will try to take everything from me. I just know that! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Another oneThe absolutely worst is thinking about the inevitable creep that will get with her and become their stepdad. I still cannot fathom the thought, it's what's keeping me from just be done with her right now! I need to hit the gym, im sure it will help out, and also prepare me for when I'm single again. Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Another oneThanks man. Three weeks and still in the gutter. I thought I would be better by now... I know my strength and focus whenever I feel weak must come from my daughters... Appreciate it | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Another oneI'm trying to think a few years ahead, but right now is really tough, and it's really hard to make her believe everything is fine at the moment... Thanks for the advice, I intend to follow it up... | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Another oneI'm really sorry man... I'm not sure if I want to, but i absolutely need text logs or something... The uncertainty is killing me inside... | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Another oneAt first I thought about leaving, now I would like to gather solid evidence, of course, as she knows the way I feel right now I think she will be extremely cautious for a while, problem is im not sure how can I bring myself out of this emotional hole living together. I don't want to make a mistake. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Another oneNo way man. That's really not an option, she's the kind that cannot calmly talk, like so many cheaters shes always deferring guilt, being defensive and always denying any wrongdoing. I'm trying to get concrete evidence but she's good.a few years ago I caught her lying about where she was one time, and I know she deteled messages, but that's not enough for me to leave my little (4 and 6 years old) girls. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Wife cheated on meMan hearing all of you guys stories really makes me realize I'm not the only one. I always think I must be the most unlucky man in the whole world. Reading this stories literally bring tears to my eyes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 06:14 PM |
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