| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | [FR] OkCupid date with some girl's perspective on getting game | brolio | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 03:36 AM | |
| 8 | [FR] OkCupid date to Fclose | brolio | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 07:42 PM | |
| 5 | Being called a player | brolio | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 07:21 PM | |
| 0 | [FR] K-close first date | brolio | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 11:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 30 | 11/11/11 11:11pm what will you be doing?banging this girl i'm seeing then make her watch me play skyrim probably. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 02:38 PM |
| 3 | [FR] OkCupid date with some girl's perspective on getting gameI get the feeling as well. She already wants to be exclusive which I am still contemplating. | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] OkCupid date with some girl's perspective on getting gameShe knows I am seeing many other girls and it makes her REALLY jealous which plays into my favor. Thing is I actually like her more than the other ones I'm seeing, but I would never tell her that this early just to keep the cat and the hanging string theory going and it's working out great. | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 02:19 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 2 OKCupid dates with no sparkI been on over 20 okc dates and been through the same thing you went through when I started. My advice is to cut through the shit and start kino right away with a hug and kiss. As for conversation, keep a playful frame and when she starts interviewing, ask her if she's really into boring interview questions and move towards more interesting topics like relationship and sex. It will get you laid in no time. | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Being called a playeryou're right. Overall, both her and I had a very fun night out. I think I just know I can typically get further and feel unsatisfied by not getting past making out which is outcome dependent. Will keep that in mind more I guess and just accept that every girl is different and I can't sleep with them all. | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Being called a playerI typically can play it off smoothly and I like the one you give thanks, but I just get the vibe that they know I am playing them and they tell me they can't trust me | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Being called a playerBecause I didn't get it from them yet. Regardless of how much I escalate on the first date, they will hold back. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 08:32 PM |
| 20 | It Never Ceases To Amaze Me How Much Backing Off Gets Them To ChaseNo it means you let her initiate first and push it further. If she tries to touch you, you go for a kiss. She says no or tries to stop you, then you stop and pull back completely. She will try to initiate again and then you push even more. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 05:37 PM |
| 22 | It Never Ceases To Amaze Me How Much Backing Off Gets Them To ChaseIt sounds like one of those girls who feeds off attention and when it stops, she wants it back. I'd say go with the I don't care you had your chance frame and play it from there. If she pushes, then you push harder and if you hit resistance, then you back off completely and let her push again. Rinse and repeat. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 05:12 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Hot blonde, heavy duty make-out, no pay off!You focused purely on your target while ignoring her friend. You have to befriend her friend first because she is the gate keeper who isn't going to let her drunk friend sleep with anyone. If she thinks you're cool, then she might just leave you two alone. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 02:42 PM |
| 4 | Specific question about the text-game. Asked a girl for a 2nd date early this morning for tonight. No answer (yet) from her. Should I...I think instead of asking in text, you should of taken the lead by suggesting instead. "Hey lets grab a drink at this place tonight" Give it a couple more hours before texting her again saying u made other plans, but don't say "see you" in the end as it implies you were mad about her not replying. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 03:36 PM |
| 9 | [FR] OkCupid date to FcloseIf a girl is saying "No" but all giggly and laughing, I don't consider it as rape. It typically means not yet. | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 09:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] OkCupid date to FcloseNever ask to meet up in the first message. That's a major turn off for the girls on okc. I notice even ugly fat chicks have the red dot "replies very selectively" so you can tell by the amount of messages girls get. First message is just really fishing for a response so you can get some type of conversation going. I personally never really got a date on OKC until about 8 messages or more. I know Tofu posted to exchange around 4 msg or so, but I never had luck with that. Girls will tell me they d… | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Trying not to mess this one up.You could of followed up with something like this: "You have been a bad girl...no wonder you got sick :P" If you built enough rapport, try and tease her as much as you can while keeping the joking vibe. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 02:23 AM |
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