bronzerblush Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally end I don’t think you want to expose how often girls in high schools in the hood (black girls) are being preyed upon by adult males in their 20s and 30s. A lot of that is predatory and often led to sex trafficking. Please go away! Some of us who grew up in the hood don’t want to be reminded of having to walk home from schools as children and having adult males trying to pick us up. This is not what’s being discussed here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 04:14 AM
11	30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average. Low effort outings, not consistent communication, being dishonest, not giving the woman your best efforts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:57 AM
23	30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average. I’ve heard men say there is nothing wrong with being average then proceed to tell women because they are average they should be ok with bare minimum efforts and expect to put out sooner than above average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:19 AM
0	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Men have one standard for sex another for sex plus commitment and even smaller for marriage. Women have one small bucket for men who meet all three.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 02:49 AM
0	If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single? Too true. It’s why I cringe when some men say women don’t like “nice guys.” We do but just the attractive ones. In my experience the worst type of men aren’t the cute ones, the ugly ones, the short ones or the tall ones but the broke ones. Men with no money are just mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 09:21 PM
3	Women punching too high in dating Stop worrying about the number of women desired men get and appreciate the women you have access too. Only Drake can date like Drake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 01:49 AM
–	It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated. Where this idea come from that desirable men were mean? They aren’t. They tend to be nonchalant and oftentimes very charming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 01:38 AM
5	Women punching too high in dating This convo is stupid. If women were only having sex with good looking tall guys our body counts would be in the low single digits. Y’all dudes out here unremarkable but we still give you the time of day. Stop crying	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 01:31 AM
0	Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30s Also Taylor has zero sex appeal woof!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 06:37 AM
48	Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30s According to TRP there are girls who are 22 prettier than Taylor and Travis shouldn’t care how much money she has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 06:36 AM
1	What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids? I’ll take my chances with the stability of marriage over being a girlfriend	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 12:14 AM
2	What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids? People don’t walk away from marriages like they do non marriages. it’s just easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 03:04 PM
2	What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids? You say that until they just up and decide they are done and you find yourself on the wrong side of 40 or 50.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 05:25 AM
2	Men don't take responsibility either, and often bludgeon ourselves with our own wall. Let me tell you that most women don’t run or can attract rich chads. Most men women run into are average and average. That’s who we date. Apex men are for apex women. The rest of us just date who we are around. I live in a city with the 4th highest incomes in the country- a tech hub. I can’t remember the last time I saw a good looking guy who ALSO made good money who was ALSO interested. Average people don’t want each other. That’s the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 12:57 AM
1	Men don't take responsibility either, and often bludgeon ourselves with our own wall. Wait a second. What kind of man should a woman want? You don’t want your woman to be slovenly or damaged. Self improvement isn’t an exact science and May not net you all the women you want but certainly more women and better quality women than you’d get without it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 12:50 AM
6	Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired? Sis, honestly most women are average. The truth is too many men want the same outcomes as very attractive men. It’s not as if they don’t get any attention just not enough of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 06:55 AM
2	Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired? Yup! Mens sex drive inflates women’s desirability. You gotta increase women’s sex drive and the average man will start looking better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 06:40 AM
14	Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired? The only way the average Joe is going to be more desirable is when the average Jane has the same sex drive as the average Joe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 06:32 AM
2	Have you ever had a realization, or epiphany, about dating that helped put things in perspective? When people tell you who they are.., believe them. Don’t try to see good or humbleness in their admissions to being trash! They know themselves better than you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 12:27 AM
–	The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the same Samsung users always hating!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 10:09 PM
–	CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationship If you’re out asking what women bring to the table (as if all women are the same) you should probably keep things very casual. It’s not a woman’s job to prove anything to you. In the USA all relationships are voluntary. You either want what she is or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 09:17 PM
5	A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them. People need to learn to cut people off. Also men need to create the environment for the type of woman they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 04:36 PM
2	What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value? We do because it’s what you’ve chosen not what we’ve decided.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 06:13 AM
3	What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value? Sorry dude I’m not falling for the theatrics. When’s the last time you accomplished a goal? Helped someone? A lot of you folks want the world to see you in a way that doesn’t match your efforts. Go feed the homeless during the holidays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 01:46 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women Men are ok with age gap relationships so long as it’s not their daughter	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 01:00 AM
–	Whats the most attractive thing a man/woman can say to you? What’s your cashapp	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 11:51 PM
5	How does anyone connect if no one will chase? I’m not even mad at you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 10:20 PM
3	Signs he’s a good leader I have a friend I’ve known for a couple of years and anytime we hang out there’s always a lot of thoughtfulness, intention, follow through, and a good time. He’s told me on many occasions that he is intentional about how he shows up in our relationship. Him being intentional makes me so comfortable that a trust him and can relax around him. I let him do his thing and we both benefit. That’s leadership to me. When a person can make decisions that benefit the group and not just themselves.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/23 11:49 PM
-5	Single men are bitter. I wonder why? I don’t feel sorry for lonely men. They all (or most) had a woman but didn’t want to make it work. Their loneliness is a result of their inability to appreciate what they have and their inability to replace what they lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 05:20 PM
3	Single men are bitter. I wonder why? So you guys are paying for dates to get sex? I thought you guys were trying to get to know women and them getting to know you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 05:18 PM
3	I’ve seen this claim on PPD. Women of PPD, if abortions were banned tomorrow, would you keep having casual sex? Birth control is EXTREMELY effective. Most women use it with success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 01:34 AM
1	Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more? Young women prefer good looking men. As women age it changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 06:38 AM
0	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is Not all IR pairings are equal. Those involving white men= more stable. Those involving black men or white women= less stable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 09:50 PM
10	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is The same men who celebrate age gap relationships are the same men who decry divorce even though age gap relationships are very unstable. Btw I’m not talking about 3-5 years but 15-20 years. Age gap relationships become less concerning the older the woman is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 08:42 PM
-4	STD rates of different races Stop crying. Black women (for example) have a smaller pool of men to have sex with and the small pool that does exist include men in and out of prison, men who have no access to medical care (assuming they would even go) and men who sleep with both men and women. So if you’re a black woman you don’t have to be a slut. I’m certain white or Asian women can have sex In their community with more men and still be at less risk compared to black women who have sex in their community with fewer partners…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 06:25 AM
1	STD rates of different races Black men are giving black women a lot of STDs. Smdh	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 06:20 AM
2	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. None of these men were “broke.” Bill Gates Marc zuckerberg and Elon musk came from money. Gates and Zuckerburg went to private high schools that cost 50k a year. Broke where?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 11:38 PM
0	Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first date There are other vulnerabilities for women associated with sex not just pregnancy and STDs. Men can’t empathize with that because you’re not a woman. There are physical and social vulnerabilities associated with sex for women that’s why we at least attempt to vet men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:09 PM
-2	Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first date How is paying relevant to sex? Men have turned sex into a transaction not women. You want dates to be down payments on coochie and the down payment seems to be less and less with each generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:07 PM
-2	Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first date No because the act of sex is not an equal exchange between men and women. We risk pregnancy (men don’t) we have higher risk of STDs because of anatomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 04:01 PM
2	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. What do you means? It’s always flipped	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 09:02 PM
2	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. And there’s another woman probably making you wait. You need to calm down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 08:29 PM
8	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. What no one wants to mention is that the average woman RARELY and I mean rarely ever encounter or are hit up by this chad/Tyrone person. You know how many women are getting their hearts broken by ugly broke dudes who they gave a chance to? I think I’ve been with two “chads/Tyrones “ in my life and one I never had sex with and the other looked like panthro from thunder cars. Everyone else including my ex husband were regular dudes who wouldn’t turn most womans heads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 08:27 PM
3	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. The fact that you guys aren’t arguing about not getting sex at all but are upset you have to wait is baffling. So some other guy gets in day 3 but you have to wait 30 days. What An Injustice	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 08:10 PM
5	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. The “wyd” woman almost exclusively deals with “wyd” men and doesn’t go between “relationships beta guy” and “wyd” guy. Besides you’d wait longer for the very hot girl while expecting the less hot girl to serve it to you on a panther because latest YT guru told you she’s been serving coochie to everyone before she met you. And seriously these men are kicking up a fuss after a few days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 08:08 PM
4	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. The fact that men are crying because a woman won’t let a complete stranger in her uterus is crazy… yo ITS BEEN 48 hours! Calm down!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 08:02 PM
0	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. Not true. Men insist on treating women differently based on what value he places on her and women have to accept that, if you have to work a little harder who cares? . Women certainly can’t expect every man she’s with to treat her like he would a young supermodel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 08:00 PM
3	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks This isn’t about guarantees but probabilities and it’d make a lot more sense to put yourself in the social environments of these men If you hope to meet and bond with them. Those women have an advantage simply because they are around them a lot. This isn’t rocket science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 09:43 PM
8	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks So your doctor uncles married women who had children and were stay at home mothers? They married single moms? Who had no jobs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 09:32 PM
2	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks No, what he is grooming women for are to be the types of women that these men don’t in fact marry but have extramarital relationships with. When you de-emphasize education and career, which puts you in greater proximity to these men, how are you supposed to be in their line of sight? People marry who they are around, they marry those similar to them and they marry those they have in common with- mostly. If you want to marry a Harvard Crimson wouldn’t it make sense to attend Harvard? That takes a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:57 PM
8	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks But this conversation is about who these men marry because that’s what these women want to be: wives. You can give advice on how to be these men’s escorts and side chicks which will be unlike what it would take to be their wives. KS advice to women is on how to be a side chick to these men especially when he de-emphasizes being a woman who will be a mirror to these men in terms of class education background and social standing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:43 PM
10	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks Doctors don’t marry stay at home moms. They marry with with careers who become stay at home nomes by virtue of his income and her maternity leave package.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:38 PM
2	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks The Fresh and Fit podcast is in Miami and KS is in Atlanta and both those places have a unique dating culture similar to LA but very dissimilar to Seattle, Boston, or even Manhattan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:36 PM
2	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks He’s speaking to and largely about a black population where HVM are even more scarce. Like I said he is speaking largely on young monied gigolos. He lives in Atlanta and those types abound but so do attractive women who largely stay unmarried but are apart of sexual harems. This is why he is so big on infidelity and submitting because that’s the state of MOST black relationships regardless of income and status. Black relationships are a shit show for a reason and it’s got little to do with money…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:34 PM
1	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks So the women KA does promote as qualifying for a HVM end up being escorts for them? It’s more secure to be the wife it would seem and she tends to be his equal or close to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:29 PM
5	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks None of the men you referenced came from modest backgrounds. They were all upper middle class with Zuckerburg and Gates having attended one of the priciest private schools before Harvard. There are no rags to riches stories with these guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 08:24 PM
5	Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women? THANK YOU!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:56 AM
6	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Right? When’s the last time you seen a legit good looking dude? Rarely. Average looking women look better than average looking men. And if men are judged by finances and not looks than average looking women look better than the finances of average men. And these average women still work, pop out babies, cook and clean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:54 PM
3	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. I’d argue women are well prepared to deal with average men but men will rate themselves a 5 but perform like a 2. Then the 5 male will wonder why the 5 woman aspires for more. Then the 5 male will talk her down with SMV boilerplate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 07:19 PM
2	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Men do rate themselves more accurately but then double down with performing well below that in relationships. Then you wonder why women have these aspirations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 07:16 PM
9	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Dude...women rarely even encounter a good looking dude let alone are sleeping with one. The problem a lot of women are having (and one men are rarely willing to admit) is that women ARE coupling with average dudes but the results are average at best or awful at worse. It’s women who come to relationships with average dudes having to over compensate. That’s where the ennui of women stems from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 07:14 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. What planet are you on where very attractive and monied men are sleeping with average unattractive women? That doesn’t happen. 9/10 women are sleeping with average dudes. Micheal B Jordan and Henry Cavil are sleeping with their female counterparts. The average woman is giving the average man a chance with average or below average results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 07:10 PM
12	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Actually what’s happening are people who don’t meet those standards having a fit. If a woman only likes 6’5 guys then her standards are between her and all the 6’5 guys. Men Who are 6’4 and under should mind their business and keep it moving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 10:09 AM
34	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. When it comes to peoples standards I’m of the opinion that you have a right to freedom of association. Your standards are only the concern of you and the person who fits them. Let them come to whatever terms (if any) they want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 10:06 AM
3	Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime". Men don’t file for divorce because they’d rather their cake and eat it too. Men “divorce” but still stay in the marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 12:52 AM
1	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” If you can do better you will do better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 05:35 PM
8	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” I know right? I don’t see any of these so-called HVM saving the waitresses or the Walmart greeters of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 08:43 PM
9	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” I think women realize being those things don’t net the benefits you guys say they will. All sounds like busy work to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 08:41 PM
2	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” Men don’t care to be liked. They just want access.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 08:36 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? In sex you don’t assume the level of risk women do. We are more susceptible to STDs, we can get pregnant and we risk rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 11:14 PM
4	Girl’s 30 year old BF manipulates her into anal and gaslights/verbally abuses her when she expresses she feels manipulated What’s the correlation with porn watchers and anal? I knew a guy who was obsessed with doing anal (with me) but wouldn’t do it with his girl?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 09:28 AM
3	LVM's greatest fear are Cat Ladies. Here's why: It’s about control. Men who swear (but are usually lying because they don’t like their options) that they don’t want to get married hate women who likewise don’t want to get married. You’d think the two groups would get along but noooo...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 05:41 AM