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Wait, people (can I call you that?) like you ACTUALLY exist?
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:05 AM
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Find a way to pickup girls that you enjoy. I think a big problem is people going out to try and practice pickup when they should just be practicing improving their social skills with people while they're already out doing their thing. Of course you'll hate it if you're forcing yourself out, facing rejection after rejection. It's like a job that you aren't getting paid for.
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:02 AM
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They want to put people through enough miserable situations that they buck up. It's stupid and I'd rather just have fun lol
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:39 PM
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It IS stupid. Being a PUA for a job is just embarassing, and people will give me shit for shitting on how some people make a living, but so much of it is just manipulating women to have sex with them. How is that cool or in? I simply agree with the whole "what you say doesn't matter, so there's nothing to learn" because the big thing you're trying to learn is how to be the best, most confident version of yourself. Everything else will follow. Confident people can do bold things, like approach, s…
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:32 PM
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I still make mistakes all the time. My biggest mistake is being unable to break out of my shell. When I started seduction it was success success success but being a perfectionist I never thought I was good enough so I tried too hard, and now I feel like my identity is all over the place because I had been feigning so much confidence, using so many techniques I'd read about that honestly I'm not even sure what works or what doesn't anymore, and so I've realized that the most important, cliché thi…
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:27 PM
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This fully sounds like a case of somebody who had zero self confidence with an afro and major self confidence with a haircut. I laughed hardest at the part where you said even guys were envious of your looks.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:16 PM
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Some shit on this sub is so dumb.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:11 PM
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It's different for everybody. If I went out even slightly stoned it'd be me basically rambling about nothing while also stuttering from time to time. Not for everybody.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:09 PM
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We've made out and we kiss regularly. When I asked her what she was looking for she said not hookups, but to see where it goes.
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:06 AM
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Yeah, this is going to be our fourth date. Hope all goes well. Thanks for the tips. :)
/r/seduction09/10/19 02:35 AM
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Did this recently. I'm 23, slept with a 43 year old. For me, literally no difference, we just chatted and I got to know her. Eventually it led to sex. Maybe older women are more comfortable with these things, so it's great.
/r/seduction09/10/19 02:33 AM
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Seems fine. Ultimately you made a move and that's the good thing. It was quick, I'm sure she was flattered, and now you wait. Either way, it's a positive experience.
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:18 PM
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That's true Ezra is pretty big
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:32 AM
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No. Not at all. The best wingmen are your lovely friends that want you to succeed.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:16 AM
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Seems like every girl walks past him and he's like "GREAT HERE WE GO AGAIN"
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:16 AM
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BROUGHDALE BABYYYY
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:57 PM
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Probably because she isn't shallow and might like someone for more than just their dick game. I'm sorry you're like this.
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:56 PM
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I was completely joking.
/r/seduction26/09/19 12:58 PM
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I agree. I read only the first few sentences, but being in the moment is something I struggle with a lot and it'd help me immensely if I'd stop. I overthink a lot, when I meet a new girl I like I usually mess it up by caring too much, etc. Gotta meditate or something and see if that works.
/r/seduction26/09/19 01:21 AM
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Yeah I currently do answer the question without being asked, but overtime I start to feel self centered, ironically enough. I do have anxiety so it puts me in my head often and I know it's not the case that I'm actually being self centered. Working on it! Thank you :)
/r/seduction12/04/19 05:25 PM
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Sounds good, thank you. :)
/r/seduction12/04/19 05:23 PM
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I just want to know what people FIRST say. I don't care about the rest because I've got that covered to a T.
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:46 PM
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Absolutely. Tell me about yourself is a death sentence. I'm not trying to hire her.
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:45 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:44 PM
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It's just those first 15 seconds I need a bit of a push wish. Once the initial anxiousness is down I have no issue with making very fun convo, but I want to get rid of that and just have a great time from the get go. I find that I feel more nerves regarding the date only because of that initial 15 secs.
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:44 PM
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That's nice man, but what the fuck do you mean by "I am way more interesting than whatever stupid shit she is looking at or listening to on her phone" that's just plain rude lmao. Be better man, you can pick up girls and be confident in yourself without insulting anyone. You've got a lot of upvotes, but I assume the reason you got downvoted was for that embarassing comment haha.
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:58 PM
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I've asked that question before, it's very interview-esque (It's like "tell me about yourself..") and more often than not, it's nervous laughter and they generally don't know what exactly to say. It's rude of me to say, but I honestly feel like on my dates I need to spoon feed them, at least in most cases. I agree with sitting next to them as well, but you don't always get that choice. I like taking girls out to sushi here in my city on the 2nd or 3rd date because they give a single iPad, which …
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:55 PM
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Hey that's an idea. I usually get to that question a bit later but opening with it could be good.
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:42 PM
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Depression aside, it really can be more than just your 1. and 2. haha
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:14 PM
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Swipe right, swipe left, swipe right, swipe left. Witty opener, hey we should hangout sometime let me get your number, what's your schedule looking like? Oh, Thursday, April 11th? Done, see you then. THAT work. I don't even fuck with day game anymore honestly, day game would take so much effort and probably net me a few dates for sure, but if I can just go on Tinder and get dates without a premium account in a small city? I'm gonna use my time to work on my passions as opposed to approaching peo…
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:12 PM
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Damn, so it's ONLY those 2 options? Fuck, I just WISH there was anything else that COULD be the case. Couldn't be my depression, or anything else along those lines. Probably erectile dysfunction.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:10 PM
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That's a good idea, having a side goal. Taking this girl to the same place I took my ex on our first date, so maybe I'll try every drink on the menu as well.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:07 PM
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I mean, the reason I GET dates is because I do the work. I don't understand.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:06 PM
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Hey maybe I'll do that
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:04 PM
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Damn man what's going on? However, thinking of it positively, to fuck 3 girls a year actually isn't even bad, considering a lot of people don't even get close to that.
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:14 PM
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Small interactions, comment on something she has on, maybe a cool shirt logo, maybe she's doing an exercise you don't know about so you ask about it, introduce yourself, tell her it was nice meeting her and walk away. Now, whenever you see her you can initiate a conversation and she'll remember you hopefully. Or if you're quitting that particular gym, wait til she's done her workout and talk to her and ask her out, if yes, sweet, if no you're moving gyms anyway lol. Someone said don't shit where…
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:16 PM
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Please don't walk up to her and say "That's good form."
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:25 PM
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