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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	[deleted by user] Unless you feel like she might not be comfortable with being around a boner. Read the room, get to know the girl. Boners are normal and healthy but so is menstruation and period blood. Not all of us guys want to hear about or see that side of a vagina esp out in public. Ditto for the ladies and our boners. But if she cool with it, then it cool Stay classy out there gents	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:42 PM
2	[deleted by user] Yes we shouldn't feel ashamed of boners but that doesn't mean all partners will feel okay seeing one. Not all intimate relationships need to be or are in any way sexual. Not everyone wants to let their crush 'feel' their boners or fuck each other silly in a dark park or a lonely beach. It's awesome that you've had great sexual partners in the past but not everything has to be about sex my man	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:38 PM
2	[deleted by user] That's the wrong idea lmao. There was a r/TIFU of a guy waking up with a raging morning wood so he tucked his boner up into his boxer waistband and went down for breakfast. Walked past his family only to realize his dick was visibly sticking out of his shorts	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:27 PM
1	[deleted by user] Not all girls are comfortable with boners even if they're mature. Not all girls will find a boner flattering, this is from my genuine dating experience. Sure, maybe you're attracted to women who aren't bothered by a hard on or even likes it, but it's cocky to expect all girls to feel the same way. Most guys find menstruating disgusting, and some girls don't like seeing boners outside the bedroom. Just my take	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:25 PM
1	[deleted by user] OP, my take is to wear comfy boxer briefs to help your area down under be comfortable, wear dark colored pants or jeans to hide any outlines, and maybe the biggest thing is to relax your lower body so that the boner will go away on its own. What's helped me with calming boners around girls I'm attracted to is to try to bring all that sexual intimate energy around my groin up to my chest and heart. Instead of getting turned on, I feel warmth. Might sound strange but it's weirdly helped me desexua…	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:21 PM
2	[deleted by user] I'm with you on this one. Kegel exercises were created to help with edging but you can also use them to diffuse a boner lol	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:09 PM
2	[deleted by user] We do have control over a boner. I'm not sure if it's something you've ever tried but you CAN fight a boner if it's because of a sexual reaction	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:07 PM
2	[deleted by user] I agree, but more so if you get the sense she isn't/won't be comfortable with it	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:05 PM
1	[deleted by user] In the wrong moments, they're not. Intimacy should exist even without sex	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:04 PM
2	[deleted by user] Some girls aren't comfortable with seeing boners. Boners are natural and just how our bodies work, but that doesn't mean we should expect all women or even men to be comfortable around a guy having one. Menstruation and period blood is normal for women, there's also nothing wrong or strange about that, no?	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:03 PM
2	[deleted by user] There is no "us" or "them" when it comes to preferance. I'm a guy whose had a partner in the past who reacted negatively to a boner when we were cuddling just because she assumed I was only doing this because I wanted sex. I explained to her it was just a biological thing. She was a sweet, lively girl who saw the world through innocent eyes and I understood that it wasn't something she was comfortable with Call her a prude if you'd like, but "us" might just mean "us women who prefer not to see a…	/r/seduction	18/01/22 05:57 PM
2	[deleted by user] I think OP is worried his special other might react negatively to seeing a boner in an intimate but non sexual situation. I've had a partner in the past who was turned off by anything sexual in an intimate moment. Some girls are like this, and some might assume the wrong thing from seeing a boner i.e. that it means the guy wants to have sex right there and then Don't take this as a cause for anxiety thoufh OP, just pointing this out	/r/seduction	18/01/22 05:47 PM
7	[deleted by user] Care to explain why you feel so? EDIT: Some girls aren't comfortable with seeing boners. Boners are natural and just how our bodies work, but that doesn't mean we should expect all women or even men to be comfortable around a guy having one. Menstruation and period blood is normal for women, but some guys find it revolting. That's just how their bodies work. If I saw a 40 year old guy with a boner staring at my girlfriend I''d be creeped the fuck out. Even more so if it was a 20 year old staring…	/r/seduction	18/01/22 05:36 PM