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Red Pill Theorybrowndelicious/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:27 PM
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browndelicious/r/becomeaman24/07/13 02:09 PM
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Red Pill Theorybrowndelicious/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:42 PM
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Make it a 3 year minimum if you want to set a timeline for her. She can't fake it for 3 years and you'll have plenty of time to get past the chemical high known as "love." In 3 years, if you still feel strongly about this woman, you'll have your answer.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:00 PM
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Making a shit-ton of money won't make you happy either. Contentment doesn't come from the byproducts of success, any more than medals around your neck.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:33 PM
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Don't worry about it. For now, keep your social activities and just order a lime and soda. A substitute is all you need and you can still go out to the clubs all you want. BUT... you'll eventually realize that the girls at the club are lame. Being drunk doesn't make them smarter, more attractive,or more interesting to be around. It just doesn't. It does the opposite. Eventually, you'll find other places to meet high quality, worthy short or long term partners. It won't be a lonely journey. You'l…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:46 PM
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There are a lot of idiots on this sub and young men without experience, who can't read the nuance and will take you literally. Abso-fucking-lutely, yes.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:48 PM
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Exactly. Is it possible to unendorse someone?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:45 PM
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no, it's not. Ravishment implies consent. The moment you allow someone to rape you, it's not rape - by definition. How the fuck did you get endorsed?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:44 PM
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Grossly sensational like a NY Post headline. Sad, really.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:43 PM
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What does, "Get out there and make some survivors gentlemen" mean? Sounds like you're advocating rape to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:42 PM
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That's why I stopped reading it. It was just that bad, but it also taps into a deep subconscious yearning by women who want to be dominated by their man.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:22 PM
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It can be a little challenging to choke and adult size woman while fucking her from behind, unless she's super short or you've got arms like an orangutan. As for giving as good as getting, Absolutely!. I've got what feels like a friction burn on my cock from last night's dominant play time. p.s. rape and dominance aren't the same thing...
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:21 PM
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Whoa, whoa, whoa. Dominance and rape are not the same thing, and you're clearly confused. Even aggressive dominance is not rape. Even hard core, public humiliation style dominance is not rape. I read a bit of 50 Shades. It was horrible, so I stopped reading after a few chapters but but one thing is clear. She submits to it with a contract. That's not rape, it's permission to dominate. Try reading the book before building an argument from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:17 PM
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Fascinating. How about a Redpill example?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:22 PM
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Oh shit, I haven't seen that in forever. So true and still hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:08 AM
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It's ok if you like 'em curvy, bro. The majority opine... http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/3763887.stm
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:00 PM
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Feminine confidence might better called grace and gracefulness is very attractive Contrast these videos. Here's that annoying Pantene feminist advertising campaign. It shows women who take on physical traits of high status, confident men. Women who behave like men are simply not attractive. Horrible marketing for a beauty product, by the way. Now check out Audrey Hepburn at 60 years old. She's obviously lost much of her physical attractiveness (30+ years post wall) but she's still beautiful. Not…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:52 PM
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Confidence is attractive, arrogance isn't and there's a big difference between. It applies to both genders. I've met plenty of women who are confident, still feminine, and very attractive. I've also met women who look good but attraction quickly fades if they have little confidence in themselves. Women come off as dim-wits, mousy, flaky, or neurotic when they lack self confidence. After the fucking is done, what authentic alpha wants such a low quality woman by his side? It doesn't matter what s…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:10 PM
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This took me a while to understand, too. Don't expect one person to satisfy all of your needs. Being with a younger woman can satisfy many of your needs for sex and companionship, but intellectual stimulation...probably not. Make friends. As for wanting marriage, I don't think it's a widely held notion on r/theredpill. Maybe it's something we want for our daughters but it's a bad deal for men.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:39 PM
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There's a place for social media and there's nothing wrong with sharing your highlight reel. Just keep it in check and make sure you're living your life for YOU, not for what gets posted. Don't spend too much time on it if you can help it, mute/block the whiners and gamers who invite you/share garbage, but don't for a minute convince yourself that your online reputation/presence doesn't matter. It does.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:39 AM
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WTF is Ducci_Bot?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 07:28 PM
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Having actually experimented with poly, I have some insight into this but I see so many comments by men who have no idea what they're talking about. The signal drowns in the noise.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:09 PM
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You hit on a very powerful truth. She might be looking to get knocked up or maybe she wants to ride bareback and avoid pregnancy. Either way, why would the OP care enough to take the screenshot and post it. Answer: He's still attached somehow - the drama, the gossip, the bullshit. It can be tough to break free from a long term relationship cleanly.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:02 PM
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I could write on this subject extensively but frankly, it doesn't belong here. Read the definition on the sidebar. The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:20 PM
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http://callingdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/20131118134819-bruce-lee-wallpaper-photos-windows-hd1.jpg
/r/seduction23/03/14 03:08 PM
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Ha! I thought I was the only one who did this. I also imagine a woman bald to see if she has value beyond her physical attractiveness. There often isn't and then, at least my intentions (and expectations) are clear.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 03:57 PM
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This may be the best post I've ever read on r/TRP.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:40 AM
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This is amusing, but sort of reads like teenage boy humor. Which of course is FUNNY but I have a hard imagining any of it will get you laid. Good luck out there, lads.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 06:28 PM
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She'll look up to you when you're worth looking up to. Fix your own life.
/r/askTRP28/01/14 12:53 AM
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Good point. Women have higher SMV way earlier than hitting the proverbial wall at ~30. With that said, women past the wall still have some SMV. Most men are still willing to have sex with an attractive 32 - 35 year old - especially if they are older themselves. They just aren't willing to put a ring on her more eager then ever finger.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 12:46 AM
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Men top out when they reach their maximum wealth and status potential. Some top out early and most will never be high earners or have high status, i.e. alphas. Reaching maximum potential and maximum SMV is a wall. The difference is that for men, the wall is largely in our heads. Like physical fitness, we can actually improve our SMV. Up to a certain point, anyway. As for not really caring about sex and relationships when we get older, I doubt it. Even in a nursing home, Men never stop wanting to…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:33 PM
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...not anymore though, right? Actively trying to better your life is itself a reward. Having the sense to do that is your opportunity. This doesn't suck. Let the hamsters pat each other on the back and go on about how much they deserve better. Watch as their self worth, so closely tied to their beauty, gets ripped apart. No friend, be glad. Be glad that you were born with a good brain on your shoulders and a cock between your legs. You won the genetic lottery. Now do something with your life, so…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:08 PM
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I don't know if carousel is the right metaphor, but Oneitis is certainly a mental disease for men. The cure is realizing the world is awash in pussy and the one you're pining for isn't all that special. The road to increased opportunity is to invest all that energy you're wasting on undeserving women in yourself; professionally, physically, socially. Do that and women will come flocking.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:56 PM
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For men - befriending and being an emotional tampon for women who you really want to fuck, but never will, is a carousel of sorts. It's not the same thing as riding the alpha cock carousel for women, I suppose it's similar. By the way - some men hit an eventual wall too, it's just much later. If man can no longer provide resources (including status), he's hit the wall. Why would a woman want him?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:52 PM
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link fixed. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:43 PM
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That's hilarious!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:50 PM
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Work on your insecurities. There is nothing less attractive to a woman than an insecure man. It's far more important than your physical appearance. If you can't accept yourself, you will never find a high caliber woman who will. Do bodyweight excercises until you have access to a gym or join a cheap public gym. Hell, buy some weights off Craigslist or make your own from concrete and plastic tubs. Just don't make any more fucking excuses. Brad Pitt supposedly weighed only 155lbs in Fight Club and…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:30 PM
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Men lie as well. We lie about different things and I think it's pretty clear we lie less. I think the best you can do is to learn how to detect lies, especially when you're having a difficult conversation and stop being a willing participant. http://www.ted.com/talks/pamela_meyer_how_to_spot_a_liar.html
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:03 PM
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As you should expect by now, top comments are rabid hamstering. Edit: Link fixed. Thanks Gfresh405
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:29 PM
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I hate to burst your bubble, but all relationships are an exchange of value - including prostitution. If nothing else, you're trading opportunity cost. Prostitution just happens to be a little more transparent and it carries a social stigma. Don't believe me? Stop adding value to your next LTR and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:20 AM
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If nothing else, remember one thing: You're the master of your fate and you always end up with what you deserve. You have to work on it to get better. Manage booze and other drugs, don't stay away entirely. Have a fucking life. Find your passion and pursue it relentlessly. Seek your own satisfaction. Find and kill all approval seeking behavior within you. Stay on your edge, don't get complacent in anything. Seek mastery.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:16 AM
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This post starts on bashing a straw man (female participation in education is intended to strengthen the economy) and spirals downward to conclude that educated women means less high quality dna in the gene pool. How does restricted opportunities for education in certain fields solve the so called hypergamy problem? And what makes you think hypergamy is a problem?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:07 AM
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You need better friends.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:57 AM
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Congratulations on marrying a keeper.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:04 AM
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Just a couple on notes LTR Tier Rewarding good behavior is not enough to mold a woman. Successfully managing a LTR is much more complicated than carrot and stick. Wife Tier It's not a requirement nor is necessarily any better than a committed LTR. There is zero stigma for having children outside of marriage. You immediate family (or hers) may care, but society doesn't give a shit. That doesn't get you off the hook for being a great dad and provider for your family, by the way. Don't knock 'em up…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:01 AM
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Actually, we're much closer to Bonobos. Read Sex at Dawn.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 03:05 PM
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This post, fresh off the press, actually nails it. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1twla1/forget_game_become_a_badass_dont_fake_it/ I'm just starting to enter phase III. Lots of work ahead of me, but I can see the light.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:26 AM
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Thanks for sharing the FR. What's clear is that we're massively different on stuff like smoking and watching sports in a bar with friends, but there's still value in reading your post. One thing that's starting to become clear. While early tactics may be similar, long tactics and strategy can by quite different for men depending on desired outcome. A man's age, maturity, and life experience can significantly shift things. For example... in my 20's, the idea of banging a different woman every wee…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 08:37 AM
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Ted moved on. Smart man. Rule: If you want to fuck a woman, don't try to be friends. It's really that simple and it's important to make it clear to the woman (and yourself) as early as possible. For me... the sticky part is when I haven't decided whether I want to have sex with a particular woman or not. I get enough pussy that I'm selective and sometimes, I just don't know until I spend a little time with a new woman. And yet, the sooner you polarize, the better. It's frequently a conundrum. An…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 03:38 PM
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If that's a 5, I need to recalibrate. Turns out most of the women I've been banging are at least an 8.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:01 AM
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I think it takes a bit more than a good fuck. I've had several since becoming more self obsessed and self driven, but occasionally I can find myself getting too fixated on one or other particular woman. It's a journey letting go of the blue pill mentality that was so heavily ingrained. It would be smart to not expect that sort of thing overnight.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 04:53 AM
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Look her in the eye and tell her that if she ever cheated on you, you would end it without another word. You could do this in the context of discussing what happened with the roommate and the anonymous texts (probably same person, btw). Speaking of that douche, you need to make a few things straight with him as well.
/r/askTRP15/10/13 07:50 PM
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This happened to me too, a long time ago. When she started spreading her lies, it ruined a few of my friendships. They immediately assumed she was telling the truth. When her story kept changing, some came to me and apologized for believing her, but this was months later. The damage to my reputation had already been done. The impact on me was significant. I changed my behavior around women and to this day, I won't have sex with a girl for the first time if we've been heavily drinking. Drunk sex …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 02:18 PM
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You knew you wanted to create a social circle, and you did that. Congratulations on being self actualized and proactive about creating the things you want in life. What do you want with women? Do you want lots of short term, casual relationships? Do you want a long term girlfriend? I wouldn't give too much credence to what other people think. Women (and men) will talk, they always do. Discretion is advisable but you should focus your energy on creating what you want, not reacting to unconfirmed …
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:06 PM
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There is no replacement for direct, firsthand experience. You can read up on TRP theory and field reports all you want. Without direct, first-hand experience, it will be difficult to filter the signal from the noise. You can't become a master by reading up on it. What you need is experience, son. Lots of it. Here's a little secret for you. Make your priority having fun and stop over analyzing everything.
/r/askTRP04/10/13 04:43 PM
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Withdrawal is passive aggressive beta bullshit. Fuck that. It's better to express your anger (without resorting to physical violence to her). It's better to raise your voice. It's better to let her know exactly what she did wrong, especially. Withdrawal (i.e. the silent treatment) is a big mistake. Update: I'm OK with the softnext approach, but don't bottle your emotions. It leads to bad things.
/r/askTRP01/10/13 11:49 PM
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I'm starting to believe Indian men have an inferiority complex. If you think Indian men are portrayed badly, check out Homer and the rest of the white male characters. White men are portrayed as bumbling idiots right, left and center. Seriously - ignore the media. This is going to be hard for you because you're completely inexperienced with women. My advice is focus on yourself and have a dozen or two flings before you lock yourself down into a marriage. And more than anything else, learn to thi…
/r/askTRP30/09/13 04:09 AM
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Wow. EVERY woman wants to marry up, friend. Desi women are no exception. You wanted my advice, you got it. You get to decide how you want to live your life.
/r/askTRP30/09/13 02:33 AM
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Nightclubs suck. All those betas throwing money and attention at women with overinflated egos. A real waste. With that said, prostitutes cost real money. Part of the fun is the chase and if you have a TRP frame, it's pretty clear that you don't pay more than your share unless you're already getting some. Don't prepay for sex.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 08:46 PM
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Huh? TRP is full of TRP tips for dating. What are you talking about?
/r/askTRP29/09/13 08:41 PM
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Pussy is for closers! :)
/r/askTRP29/09/13 08:40 PM
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She's on the paradigm that women belong on pedestals, all that Disney happy ending bullshit. It can be tough coming out a beta orbiter pattern. Congrats on taking the first step and breaking up with your friend girl. p.s. Sorry to break it to you, but the bitch calling you names in public means she never was really your friend anyway. No great loss. Next!
/r/askTRP29/09/13 08:36 PM
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Figure out your own beliefs, not what you were spoon fed your whole life. If the community you current live in doesn't support your beliefs, move. There is an intersection between your values and getting what you want. Personally, I think any religion that treats sexuality as something negative is bullshit. It's a cult trying to maintain its own power and control. Get out. Take the money for now if you must but strategize your exit and get out, as quickly as you can muster.
/r/askTRP29/09/13 08:33 PM
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Women really are everywhere. 3.5 billion pussies on the planet.
/r/askTRP29/09/13 08:21 PM
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You're a 28 year old virgin about to become a practicing doctor, making a mid six figure income and having a profession that is generally considered high status. You're asking us what we'd do? I'd take care of my body, mind, and spirit. I'd work on my career and developing my own spiritual beliefs, instead of adopting my parent's beliefs. I'd also spin plates with the hottest hotties I could stick my condom covered penis into until I was in my mid to late 30's. I'd Clooney the fuck up and enjoy …
/r/askTRP29/09/13 08:17 PM
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Huge diversity of experiences (and likely ages) in TRP and the comments reflect this. Some of us have been in LTR, others haven't. Just something to keep in mind. By the way - the original poster is confused between LTR and monogamy, they aren't the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 08:03 PM
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I'm 38 and I still get crushes. It's a great feeling, actually. Hope it never stops. p.s. Don't always act on your crushes or develop oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/09/13 06:23 PM
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Try showing genuine interest and celebrating the successes and hobbies of other people. Expand your horizons. Challenge yourself to find something interesting in what they're talking about. No idea what AA is but stop using it as an excuse. Everyone has challenges. Work on overcoming yours and achieving mastery. Mind altering substances can give you a glimpse into how easy social interaction can be, the challenge is to do it sober. Challenge yourself. Just reach out and absently touch her leg or…
/r/askTRP23/09/13 03:04 PM
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WHAT do YOU want? Do the things that get you what you want.
/r/askTRP23/09/13 02:45 PM
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Most Indian guys here are pretty socially inept because they've been raised in an environment that believes sex itself is a shameful sin and should be only to produce children. Many cultures and religions treat sex as shameful and women as objects on a pedestal. In my opinion, if you want to be a superior man, it's critical to unlearn that false belief. They therefore develop no game in high school and college. They won't flirt with girls, they can't get laid easily, and they become bitter over …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 01:44 PM
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Unfortunately this entitlement is getting worse with our generation – and it's not just women, but also guys. Guys of low value, that have nothing to offer, also feel entitled to sexy women. I can't agree with this more. TRP is about recognizing your own worth in the sexual marketplace and seeking to improve it, for real. That means taking care of your mind, body, spirit, AND your financial well being. In the long game, you're not going to attract AND keep a high status woman if you're a low sta…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 01:30 PM
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As I get older and more financially successful the respect I get from women (of all races) just keeps going up. I'm also far less beta than I used to be, which is probably the biggest difference. Strong family values + financially successful = high status.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 01:27 PM
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Also Indian-American. Back in my 20's, I found women like the author completely unattractive. Allowing parents to force them to meet all these potential suitors was a red flag for controlling mommy/daddy issues. Meeting via parents is also a slippery slope because there was no casual dating and fucking. Better to not step on the slope at all. Lots of other ways to meet desirable women, Indian or not.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 01:22 PM
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Negative emotions are normal. The best way to deal with them is to allow them to happen by practicing non resistance/non attachment. They will pass much more quickly. What you resist, persists. As for the racist father, flip this situation around - in your head. You're now free, after two years to date other women. Your ex is also seriously fucked up and comes from a fucked up family. Be grateful it ended. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. NEXT!
/r/askTRP23/09/13 01:05 PM
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Women always shit test. It's a fact of life. Do not expect this to ever change and you won't be disappointed.
/r/askTRP14/09/13 11:17 AM
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Clearly a shit test.
/r/askTRP14/09/13 11:16 AM
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For some, having and maintaining a family yields deep and abundant meaning. For others, living a life of service to a much broader family than one's progeny has greater value. And yet "should" is a word laden with the unexamined expectations of others. It's sad that the skill of thinking critically and independently gets so little focus in academia. Then again, many academic fields would find few proponents in the wake of that ship passing. Whatever your path - follow your own road, pursue your …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 08:09 PM
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Poly requires a much higher level of communication for everyone involved. Done right and your children and LTRs have a much better environment. Done poorly and it's a much larger cluster fuck. With so little cultural support in the west for such a lifestyle, I think a cluster fuck is more likely to be the outcome. You'll find multiple wives much more common in Middle Eastern countries. My suggestion would be to live there if you're headed in that direction.
/r/askTRP09/09/13 05:27 PM
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A warning tale for mid 20's women who think the cock carousel might be more exciting than marrying a stable, loving life partner. Her vision of the future is entirely laughable; a spinster boarding house.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 03:24 PM
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Take home lesson: always take video when your woman stays going psycho.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 03:34 PM
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Wax it and trim downtown while you're at it. Sex is so much better with more skin on skin.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 07:30 PM
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A lot. I'm 6'2", exercise several times a week, and have a solid six figure income with goals to move that to seven figures. I'm disease free, have a spiritual practice but not conventionally religious, and I'm LTR/family oriented. I'm well educated, own my own company (but not a workaholic), and I'm driven to live a passionate life. I've got a healthy relationship with my family and the only significant debt in my name is mortgage related. How about you?
/r/askTRP10/08/13 04:42 PM
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Minimize your interaction with angry women, always. You can't fix them, you can only bring yourself down to their level - which is what they want. You can't avoid them, nor do I recommend trying to do so. Just minimize. p.s. The overt bitch is less insidious as the subconsciously angry one. Both are to be weary of.
/r/askTRP09/08/13 05:10 PM
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STOP. The problem is you. Ask yourself why you need this woman's validation and then give yourself the validation you crave. Don't look for it from a woman. The more you want her validation, the weaker (more beta) you become as a man. You should be spinning plates. Instead you're obsessing in your head.
/r/askTRP09/08/13 05:06 PM
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VERY well written post and spot on. I'll add that faking it works for short flings but eventually women will see past the facade. If you want to keep a high value woman in a LTR, the long game is to relentlessly focus on becoming the guy you're pretending to be (i.e. r/becomaman ).
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 04:58 PM
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I'm probably not the only one who is confused by your misuse of quotes. FYI...
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 06:15 PM
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TRP is about sexual strategies. The single best piece of advice I've read is to develop your self esteem, focus on being a better/stronger man, and work on what Mark Manson calls True Confidence. "The key to True Confidence is to have both: respect for oneself and for women. " - Mark Manson Misogyny is the hatred of women. It's often exhibited by bitter, sexually unsuccessful men who are overcompensating for their historic blue pill driven failings by lashing out. When you accept women for how t…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 04:12 PM
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2 year minimum, 3 years preferred. I wouldn't recommend marrying a woman for any reason, given the dozens of negatives associated, but if you must, wait at least 2 years. http://www.nytimes.com/2005/05/31/health/psychology/31love.html?pagewanted=all
/r/askTRP05/08/13 06:02 PM
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The creation of art, in all its forms, is about passionate expression - without apology. Men who create genuine art are and have always been high status men, whether or not they're broke. Creating art can be a very alpha activity and it hits women in their emotional centers. As women get older, and their brains start to work, the importance of resources starts to weigh in. Suddenly the broke artist doesn't look so attractive - in a relationship. They'll still fuck them because, to be honest, the…
/r/askTRP05/08/13 05:04 PM
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All those years of being Mr. Nice Guy and not getting what you want fro women... ouch. It can be a painful pill. For me, TRP is just one aspect of living in truth. It's simply the way the world really is and specifically how sexual attraction actually works, not how people (especially feminists) wished it was. The truth sets you free. I have no intention of losing my compassion and my equanimity, or what the Buddhists call "loving kindness." My goal is to practice that towards myself in greater …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 04:54 PM
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Dominance and submission play, with safe words = fun. Rape play, not without a contractual agreement and probably not even then.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 04:33 PM
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She had horrible emotional self management and was an emotional train wreck. Looking back, it's clear that she was emotionally abusive and I eventually got tired of playing therapist. I gave her a choice; seek professional counseling or I'm ending it. My #2 criteria above is a direct result of that experience. Getting past the compulsive thinking mind is a practice with deep rewards. I'll also add that it's smart to wait at least 3 years before committing to a relationship. NRE is a very real th…
/r/askTRP05/08/13 03:31 PM
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The 48 Laws of Power is entertaining and arguably enlightening, but there are so many better books out there. I think the sidebar content here is better.
/r/askTRP04/08/13 10:06 PM
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I'm a huge believer in Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose (AMP). Swallowing the TRP is what enables you realize that you're in an AMP environment and always have been when it comes to women. Here's the thing - Alpha/Beta/Omega is very useful when discussing sexual strategy and sexual success. I'm not sure it pertains to life in general, or more specifically work. Betas will also deliver very good results in an AMP environment. Anyway, thanks for sharing that Ted talk. I've read Pink's book but hadn'…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 05:41 PM
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In the short run, the game is really one of pump and dump. If she's worthy, the mid game is girlfriend territory. The long game? Well... My goal is to find a worthy longer term partner(s) and continue to have shorter term sexual playmates. The longer term partner(s) could be a life partner, or not. Most of the women I've been dating aren't going to make the cut to the next level. They might have hot bodies, but that's not enough to qualify for being my girlfriend, much less a long term partner. …
/r/askTRP04/08/13 05:14 PM
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My advice is to make having fun, learning, and connecting your mission. Find your passion and follow that, relentlessly. Focus on acheiving mastery in what you deem worthy. I'd also try to limit your future debt load and make sure you have career options. Whatever you do, do not make women your mission. Trying desperately to get laid will only make you look desperate. Don't forget that it's all play, in college and beyond.
/r/askTRP04/08/13 04:47 PM
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Oh when the carousel stops and the beach party is over, reality takes hold. Reminds me of this scene from Monster: http://youtu.be/ruN_KcF-Ouw?t=58s
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:33 PM
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Agreed. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:22 PM
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So hard to take someone seriously who calls women, wimminz. Looking past that, what's this guy's point? He's all over the place. The few minutes of the video I've watched is funny, admittedly. I'm definitely drawn to bush country. Although I have to ask.. what the F am I watching? I stopped the video at the blackface character.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:20 PM
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There's a time and a place for brutal honesty. If you want to be a low class, low status but alpha man - go ahead and be brutally honest with everyone you come across. Just remember that sophistication and social mastery also have their rewards.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:04 PM
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Polyamory Ayn Rand and Objectivism Religion Racism
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 03:55 PM
4

Haha...
/r/askTRP02/08/13 06:02 PM
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LOL
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 05:50 PM
2

One word: Alabama.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 05:49 PM
3

If you want to be a better man, TRP is one step in a long journey of self improvement and mastery. The post feminism men's movement goes far beyond TRP. Read David Deida.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 04:56 PM
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Wow. I don't have any easy answers for you, but I applaud your courage. It's time for a redefinition of what it takes to be a strong woman. By asking the question alone, I think you're well on the road...
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 06:21 AM
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If I had children, I'd raise them according to the stage they're in. See Bill Plotkin's Developmental Wheel and Nature and the Human Soul. I'd do everything I could to show them a strong man. That means being emotionally aware and having a worthwhile mission in life and having agency. Everything they see and experience in you as a father will come back to them in their life choices, including future selection of partners. p.s. show, not tell.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 03:10 PM
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Happy LTR: Mutual respect, common growth trajectory, similar socioeconomic backgrounds, and shared beliefs/values/interests. A well educated professional man is not likely to be interested in a LTR with a 20 something woman with a GED. Physical attractiveness is a given of course. Red Flags: Anger, either latent lurking beneath the surface or boiling over at minor inconveniences. A negative outlook on life. A lack of spiritual or mindfulness practice (she can be atheist as long as she meditates …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 03:47 PM
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TRP is a discussion of sex positive strategies for men, period. If you're asking me personally what I think women should do, what I wrote above applies equally. Explore your subconscious and make peace with your self discoveries. It is deeply rewarding. I don't think women should seek to transcend carnal desire, I think they should dive deep into their fantasies and swim freely. A woman who is in touch with her desire is deeply attractive, and in the long run, a worthy life partner for a superio…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 03:01 AM
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Great exercise. I want to add that ignoring your negative emotions is a great way to get them to persist. The way to get past emotions which do not serve you is to acknowledge them. Notice your fear but don't feed it. The feeling will all but go away. Resist it and it will grow.
/r/becomeaman28/07/13 06:10 PM
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One way out of hamstering is to start to make peace with your own subconscious desires. The problem is that by definition, subconscious desires are unknown to the conscious mind. They can only be viewed obliquely, through exploration of your dreams, and various other techniques. It's worth the effort. Uncovering subconscious beliefs and desires is deeply rewarding. And once you've brought those subconscious beliefs into conscious awareness, it's time to play. Start by noticing when you're hamste…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 05:15 PM
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Putting on my biology hat... The goal is to pass on your genetics. Male and female sexual strategy varies enormously. 50/50 mix of offspring is probably the best chance to pass on your genes.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 03:38 PM
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Being waited on by five female nurses sounds kind of nice. Enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 03:34 PM
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Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:18 PM
2

I'm in a small men's group and every single one of us is driven, passionate, and has tremendous integrity. It's the most powerful band of brothers I could ever imagine. They're the bedrock in my world, my private circle of advisers, and they encourage me to push my limits. Seriously, other men are your allies.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 12:45 AM
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Wow, your story brought back memories. I'll spare you the details. Here's the take home: Looking back on this, you're going to realize she did you a favor.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 12:37 AM
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I've heard it said resentment is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Odds are that you'll be working with women, have women as clients, maybe even as a boss in the future. Better to make your peace with how women are than harbor resentment.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 12:32 AM
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I haven't given much thought to the women who "catalyzed my RP transition." I suppose I should be grateful for them, because without those experiences, I wouldn't be where I am now. At the same time, if I navel gaze long enough, I could probably convince myself that I have a lot of stored up anger and resentment towards those women. Interesting thought to ponder, really...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 12:31 AM
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Not bitter at all. There you go again with your suppositions. I think we just have different taste in women. I love the young and dumb ones, don't get me wrong, but not if I'm going to have babies with them. My long term strategy is to have an adventurous, fulfilling, and meaningful life. Women are delicious side dishes, playful companions on the road, but they're not the destination.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 11:54 PM
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I'm thinking Kiley has an interest. Since you have an interest too, I'd focus on that one. Oh, but wait. Jenny sounds like she wants it too. And... you kissed Molly? Yeah, foursome. Good luck. ;)
/r/seduction26/07/13 11:50 PM
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Who said they were? Strawman arguments aren't going to get you anywhere. Here's a simple fact. Well educated and 18 years old doesn't match up well anywhere in the world.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 11:15 PM
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What sort of mother do you think an 18 year old from a third world country would be like? Hate to burst your fantasy, but I think I'd rather be a single father than have my kids raised by an uneducated third world mother.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 08:57 PM
3

So glad you brought this up.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 08:01 PM
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Dominance and submission is missing from this discussion. I can tell you from experience that many MWW enjoy being dominated in bed and dream about it. Hence the Shades of Grey success. At the same time, the docile FFW can be a complete dominatrix as she grows older. Starts off submissive but grows in power in the context of the relationship. Not sure these generalizations about foreign women are all that useful. I know it looks like FFW are all that, but looks can be deeply deceiving.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:57 PM
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Consider this: The demons you don't conquer from your childhood will haunt you, forever. They'll effect every decision you make. That's how the subconscious works. Without TRP, you would be in serious danger of marrying a woman just. like. your. mom. You brought all that bullshit up from the dark subconscious into the light of day. You've examined it, dissected it, and now you just need to make your peace with it. You will never change your mom (or your dad). Forget about it. You're also unlikel…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:27 PM
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"No one on the red pill hates women." I have to disagree with you on this. I've only been on TRP for a few weeks and I love it. It's also clear that the golden nuggets of wisdom are occasionally served with little steaming turds of misogyny. My guess is maybe 5% to 10% of subscribers are disenchanted, discouraged, and dealing with serious anger. That's the foam on the wake of decades of out of control feminist brain washing. I'm focused on the learning and sharing wisdom. Occasionally I'm also t…
/r/becomeaman26/07/13 04:13 PM
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I'm 38. The only issue I have found with women younger than 25 is that they're so immature. It's like their brains haven't fully formed. They're often horrible at sex and usually broke. While I can afford to be a sugar daddy, I'm not sure 21-25 year old poontang is worth it. They look good though. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:39 PM
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Make your drink a Gin and Tonic (with top shelf gin) and then alternate club soda and lime. They look the same. Just go up to the bar solo and order for yourself. Voila, 50% alcohol reduction. p.s. Focus on spending time with better friends and drop the drunks.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:48 PM
2

What's the dissonance about? Do you believe that humanity and compassion are not compatible with alpha traits like assertiveness, confidence, and decisiveness?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:42 PM
3

This makes me want to hurl and then go cuddle with my well worn copy of Atlas Shrugged.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:27 PM
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Don't think so. What sort of man leaves his woman sexually dissatisfied and asking an internet forum if she should dump his ass? Not much of a man in my book. And he's got sexual hangups to boot. Yes, she should dump his ass.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:24 PM
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You should seen the six star. :P
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 05:01 PM
1

That's not really the full story. There was a marriage in between the orbiting.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 05:01 PM
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It's really two walls. Physical looks and fecundity. Or maybe even three, if you count earning power.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 03:42 PM
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Agreed, but I don't need to get shit faced for that. She isn't a fascination, she's already faded. I used to get much more obsessed about women, but no longer.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 03:40 PM
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Agreed. I'm not fixated on her, which is a relief.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 03:38 PM
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There's an art to spending on women. As another commenter mentioned, it's not a big sum to me. It's the principle and the play that matters. And I played my hand poorly.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 03:37 PM
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Practice snappy come backs. For most people this is not a gift, it takes intention and practice. They come in all flavors, angry, sarcastic, and yes.. funny. I also want to say that I just found this subreddit and I LOVE IT. I also wish I could add comments to some of the older posts but they're in archive mode.
/r/becomeaman24/07/13 02:05 PM
1

Awesome!
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 02:01 PM
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Ok, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:51 PM
2

What are linked posts?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:47 PM
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I agree. Black women generally have amazing skin and if they take care of themselves, better physiques than white women. Athletic black women physically look better at 33-36 than most athletic white women. Not so sure about the other colors of the rainbow, but it's pretty clear with black/white comparison.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:45 PM
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It's quite possible to be an alpha - direct, driven, passionate, and successful - and still have some class. Not just with women but more importantly, with life itself. That's where I'm coming from.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:40 PM
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Well said. It's been a while since I was a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:36 PM
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I totally appreciate the lessons. I was also just giving you some feedback. Generally speaking, profanity without context is vulgar and comes off as immature. It applies to real life as well as the written word. If you want me to be more specific, I can do that.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:36 PM
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Just telling you how it read.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:47 PM
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I'm 38 and live in a city where most people are skinny, eat healthy, exercise regularly, and frankly look pretty good. The wall comes later if you take care of yourself, into the mid to later 30's even. Anecdotally, the vast majority of my peer group was married by 30 - men included. Remaining single past 30 has to freak most women out and not coincidentally, most of the men I know married their women out of being pressured.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:45 PM
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Interesting question. I've heard it said that aging is stripping away all the parts your body/mind that aren't really you. For a woman who has mostly identified herself with her physical beauty, watching that begin to fade in her mid 20s will be pretty painful. Plus society is saying they should be married and having babies by their late 20's. I think the wall for women is a quarter life crisis and they start to get a little desperate. How do they overcome it? The same way men do, if they're wor…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:41 PM
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I started buzzing my hair with a clipper in my early 30s and then shaving it completely shortly thereafter. The number and quality of the women I fuck has only increased as I approach my late 30's. But so has my confidence So has my focus on my mission (instead of my woman) and so has my financial abundance. Whatever you do, don't try to hide it. There is nothing more beta than a man with a combover.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 03:14 PM
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That's exactly the reaction I had. At least she's being honest about it. Here's the other thing. If she's sexually rewarding, takes care of the house, shops and prepares every meal, has social grace, and looks impressive on his arm it might actually be a good deal. At least in the short term. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 02:56 PM
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Alimony only exists if you marry her. Replaced, but at a very high price.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 02:54 PM
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Undershirts are fine as long as you don't tuck. If you're tucking, an undershirt looks HORRIBLE. It create a bulge of cloth around your midsection and can make you look like a fucking pear. When you're not tucking, the extra shirt layer can smooth your body lines so that's a benefit. Want to know a better one? Start working the fuck out and you won't have to hide your blubber with an undershirt! Rule #1? Man the fuck up!
/r/seduction29/11/12 05:48 AM
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