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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Field Report - one night stand after some rejections Do you factor the rejections in to when you decide to "hop" to the next bar? Generally, how do you think about calibrating that sort of decision without getting self-conscious about how "everyone at this bar" is perceiving you?	/r/seduction	24/08/22 04:47 PM
3	This Exercise Makes You Irresistible Honestly, doing sit-ups and reading War and Peace would be solid advice. OP's post is basically a verbose and oversimplified take on internal family systems therapy -- which, as it turns out, is actually a useful therapeutic modality for helping people grow up and learn how to take care of the neglected inner parts of themselves. So, after War and Peace, the thing to do would be to read a real book on IFS. I got a lot out of You are the One You've Been Waiting For, but there are a few other good…	/r/seduction	22/05/22 09:11 PM
9	I am deeply terrified that I missed out on the human experience in life. I have never hugged, never kissed, never had friends, never done anything that didn't have an "economic" value assigned to it. Virgin at 30. That suggestion about the YouTube video is brilliant. I always forget that there's a tutorial for literally everything on there nowadays.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 05:13 AM
2	I am deeply terrified that I missed out on the human experience in life. I have never hugged, never kissed, never had friends, never done anything that didn't have an "economic" value assigned to it. Virgin at 30. Damn. That is pretty rough. Someday you won't be alone, but those people will still be shitty therapists.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 05:10 AM
2	Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up. I was thinking about this recently, too. I'm no expert, but this is the framing I landed on so far: Confidence is self-acceptance and self-understanding: You have some sense of your own strengths and weaknesses, and you have the peace that comes from knowing you're working on improving the things that you can change. "Bad" things that happen in the world are just more data to help you, and you're comfortable knowing they're not a judgment on your self-worth. Arrogance is self-rejection: You loud…	/r/seduction	28/04/22 02:39 PM

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