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This! I met I guy just like this and you described him pretty much perfectly.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 07:39 PM
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Yes! I briefly dated a man who seemed pretty traditionally masculine outwardly but had a hidden submissive side. It was a genuine surprise to me, as I have a dominant streak myself. He only went out of his way to let me know because I had done it first on a whim. We generally liked each other a lot, but we didn't work out due to a lack of chemistry (in terms of personality). So yes, men like this do exist but they can be hard to find. They are very hidden and you usually don't suspect it from th…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 07:37 PM
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I totally understand the sentiment, but generations are made up of diverse and complex individuals. Yes, many are going to be incompatible with you, but in that there are people just like you standing their ground and staying true to their values, albeit often quite quietly. Send out the right signals and be more honest about what you desire and expect, the right men are more likely to come to you. Remain discerning, though. Edit: I'm not much older than you (20) and I've met handfuls of people …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 02:39 PM
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In my experience the guys who are more traditional are either harder to spot because they're more modest and not as showy or they grow into being more traditional as they get a little older since they are no longer influenced by their immature peers. Take your time, you're really young, it's not impossible but it's uncommon to find at your age and for now that's likely for the best.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 02:31 PM
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I hope you get better soon.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/25 08:58 PM
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This is so relatable! I remember having childhood fantasies of being a happy SAHW to my imaginary future husband too. One thing I know for sure-- you need a man who inspires your devotion. You simply will never be truly happy with a man who you feel doesn't deserve it. Devoting your life, love, and time to a man is meaningful and doing so with a man you can't take seriously will feel like an insult to your soul. I'm young too--only 20-- and just like you several months ago I was with a guy I kne…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/25 08:49 PM
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This is a late reply and I might catch some flack for this perspective but I find that a bit sad. One of the things that makes me want to be intimate with my partner is the resonance and sense of mutual love between us. When a man treats me right and cares for me I'm much more willing to be intimate with him. I totally understand why you've grown resentful, you likely feel "used" to some extent... as if you are not a person, his wife, but simply a body. I would feel the exact same way you do in …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/25 02:58 PM
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I started long-distance dating at 16, I've since stopped. Some manage to make it work but for me it was a dead-end. I much prefer to be around and with my partner, physical affection and presence is important to me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/25 05:41 PM
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No. I am monogamous, my husband will be monogamous. If he chooses to betray me, I leave. This is why women need to protect their own autonomy. Do not let a man barter and haggle for your loyalty simply because he is your only source of material survival. I want true love and a dedicated husband/father to grow to old age with, not just a handsome wallet. Furthermore, imagine what example you're setting for your children. Absolutely not.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 03:56 AM
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I'm grateful you have someone to go to! <3 You deserve better, much love and peace to you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 01:09 PM
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Go to someone you trust and admit that you're having serious second thoughts and would like to postpone or call it off. This is for you and possibly your future children. These behaviors may be able to shrugged off now but they will very likely not get any better and he very likely won't heed your criticisms toward him. Marriage is a serious commitment and the character assessments you've made are a little too conerning to make it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 12:35 PM
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