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| 4 | Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/Are you shredded? Gotta get in the gym and get the most out of dem der bbc genetics brah Seriously I don't think you're ugly at all its not gonna be your appearance that drives a girl away. I think girls tend to be a little intimidated by tall black guys so dress well and keep hair in check. Some guys get away with being aggressive because they're short or whatever and look harmless. Not so much when the guy towers over the girl. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 06:54 PM |
| 2 | What does everyone look like?Lol did op expect any real replies from the keyboard warriors on seddit | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 11:23 PM |
| 0 | A 9/10 girl's review on Pickup - "With great power comes great responsibility"i don't see how it's helpful to bring up what her score/10 is here. Is everyone going to think she's a 9? Are all 9s the same way as her? Just detracts from the overall point | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 09:16 PM |
| 0 | A 9/10 girl's review on Pickup - "With great power comes great responsibility"Good advice but it seems less believable when you have to say you're a 9 and then say dork/not into pretty girl bitchy etc. Did you ask a bunch of random guys what they'd rate you and decide you're a 9 but also not one to bandy it about because you're humble? Why does it make a difference how attractive you or anyone else thinks you are when reading your opinion? Just seems like you want more attention by arbitrarily saying you're a 9 on reddit giving advice. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Post-festival depression.You had sex with 1 girl and hooked up with 2 others? What does hooking up mean to you then | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Shy girls of Seddit, what things can a guy you like do to make your day?shy girls of seddit Lol | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 05:55 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Didn't feel like going out tonight. I did anyways and finally lost my V card.Sex with a condom is pretty overrated | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 01:49 PM |
| 15 | Do women like/dislike bald men?Bald? It's not a big deal Bald and fat? Kinda big deal Bald fat and ugly? Big deal Bald fat ugly and rich? Perfect | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Girls just aren't interested?Be more direct. Don't waste time with meaningless questions, tell them you're there cus you like what you see and you want to get to know them, get the date or the number. Not interested move on, just a personal opinion but people form their opinion of you in the first minute or so of meeting you, so just get to the point and fuck off if they don't want to see more. some people might disagree but this is what I saw the most success with | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrongWhat are you even saying? If not lifting, whatever crap you suggest OP to do to build self confidence requires him to develop some skill or aspect of his life in a significant way, which is exactly what lifting does. You just single it out as not worth it for some illogical reason. When you stop lifting? If you ever truly get into the habit you realize how you want to be consistent and not just quit. Square one? During the period you're imrpoving your image you're building self confidence, proba… | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 04:59 PM |
| 12 | Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrongSome people need something tangible to start that internalization process. Even if you don't its still a huge help. Not to mention the health benefits physically and mentally. Just because some gym rats act douchey doesn't mean it's in any way negative to start working out, only people insecure about their image that are too scared to make a serious change to their lifestyle will resort to saying shit about people who do. "Ew I hate muscles he looks weird and spends all day in the gym"= I know I… | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 04:11 PM |
| 29 | Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrongYou need self confidence. Easiest way is to start lifting. Get big as shit and no one tries talking shit to you, cus they know they'll get their ass handed to them. Also when you look in the mirror and see yourself improving its impossible not to build confidence in yourself because the physical proof is right in front of you | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Her: You aren't the only guy that I've gone on dates with or possibly will be going on dates with.If you want a relationship or a healthy fwb thing just walk away. Girl is too promiscuous for a relationship and similarly isn't exactly the safest person to be sleeping with due to the same reason | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 03:54 AM |
| 76 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost.That song line sound smooth as fuck you sly dog | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is saying "hey, I thought you were cute *and so on*" really a bad opener?If she likes the way you approach what you say is the least important thing | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 03:30 PM |
| 20 | Crazy how true this is.Even if days pass, there's nothing to be gained by thinking about it. She's not interested so whatever move on, not worth the time if she doesn't care enough to respond to a text | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 01:47 AM |
| 1 | As if you didn't need any more proof that you should be going to the gymDo people actually think OPs body is impressive, being serious here that's attainable in less than a year of consistently working out with an okay diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 12:48 PM |
| 1 | As if you didn't need any more proof that you should be going to the gymYou think women actually tell you what they really want? They tell you what they want you to think. Women don't say they want a ripped body because they don't want to appear shallow and totally focused on appearance but put someone like OP with a mediocre body next to a fitness model and no woman is gonna choose OPs 4 pack and slight muscle over the fitness model. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Get Laid with Online Dating- The Complete GuideWomen get overloaded with messages = women get overinflated egos online = women online way pickier than they are in real life | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Get Laid with Online Dating- The Complete GuideThis Also fucking photo filters good lord | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Protip: Get naked togetherDefinitely have noticed her clothes come off much easier once yours are off | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are not just going out with girls, but with hot ones? The head turners. The ones that give you "that feeling" in your gut just by looking at.You sound like that guy from silence of the lambs. Jesus. Eyebrow implants and spray tans? I was okay with what you were saying and then your last 2 paragraphs completely disqualify you as anyone id listen to. Pickup is about being confident enough to be yourself not getting surgery and shit to try and be someone else just to attract a couple hot girls | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 07:17 PM |
| 6 | First hookup in ~2 years. Social Anxiety way down; hopefully someone gets something out of this!If this is true bit of a dick move going for her if she has a boyfriend and keeps mentioning it, even if she's slutty enough to not care | /r/seduction | 11/07/14 12:45 PM |
| 4 | [FR] My Night With a Bike ThiefShould have closed before telling her, seems like the epitome of crazy | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 10:52 PM |
| 0 | No gf. No friends. How to pass summer holidays off work?Uhh that's 25 pounds gained in a month? Highly doubtful unless 90% of that is fat, or are you not talking about weight? | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 02:38 AM |
| 1 | If I'm ugly is there any point in trying?With proper effort anyone can be at least a 5-6 no matter how ugly they are. With extraordinary effort anyone can be 7+ (Assuming you weren't already) Proper hygiene and knowing how to take care of yourself is a huge part of how attractive someone is. A 10 at the club could easily be a 5 if you saw her without makeup and hair done wearing sweatpants while she's taking her dog for a walk or whatever. Genetics matter a good amount and anyone that says otherwise is kidding themselves. But you need … | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] struggled, thought I failed, but I k-closed my first girl at a barGirl sounds pretty cool, congrats bud | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 03:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life.First time is always the moment you realize how much you've overthought everything up to this point, congrats on a great first approach. | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 04:53 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachs, rejected!Are you french? If so go for American girls on vacation, European accents and languages instantly give you points with almost any American girl | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Don't let yourself shut down after a rejection!Yeah just bad timing on both parts, she seemed a lot more into it at first and probably decided to give up cus I wasn't. Ah well thanks bud | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Don't let yourself shut down after a rejection!This resonates with me right now. 2 weeks ago hooked up with a girl (wasn't great), but we hung out afterwards and she was a pretty cool person. She asked me what I wanted etc after the sex so that was kind of awkward since I went in assuming it'd be a one time thing. Unfortunately I kinda started liking her and after a while but I'd already given her the impression that I wasn't really into it I guess so she wasn't interested anymore. Not some huge heartbreak but still been bumming me out. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 02:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I turned a flake into a successful dateShe seems like an attention whore no offense. Hit it and run/10 | /r/seduction | 20/06/14 12:49 PM |
| 10 | Need advice on clubbing game, and staying in stateDon't go to the club when you're not in the mood and don't go with people that stand around in the corner all night | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 05:56 PM |
| 25 | [FR] First daygaming ever. Girl working in a small toystore. Went ok-ishGreat first steps, still ballsier than 90% of guys. Wasn't there so I'm not going to say I know what you did wrong but it sounds like your sense of humor was just different and that is so crucial for any relationship | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Next Move after #-closingWhat the fuck do people really use that xx and xo shit like that? Anyway doesn't seem like it went cold at all reading from the lines you wrote. It's dumb to wait a few days, I'd rather make it clear I'm interested while her memory is still fresh, just ask her out to something you enjoy doing and feel relaxed doing and keep texting to a minimum. If you don't know the girl well you always want to minimize chance of miscommunication from text. Sounds like you're doin fine | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Im tired of one night stands, to the point of stopping mid sex and telling them to leave.I'm going through a similar situation with a lower number. Made improvements to a bunch of stuff in my life and I'm getting around 2 f-closes a month now with 7+s and I really just feel like a shitbag instead of accomplishing anything. Last girl I felt like we were hitting it off alright and I talked to her about making it something more but in the end it still didn't work out but I didn't even care much because I knew I didn't really care about her that much, I was mainly depressed because it m… | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 12:54 PM |
| 10 | Oneitis to the point where I feel like throwing upMm tell me more about how you're alpha as fuck cus no one means anything real to you which makes you a real man because you swap everyone out if necessary | /r/seduction | 10/06/14 03:27 AM |
| 66 | Oneitis to the point where I feel like throwing upEveryone in this subreddit is going to say the same thing about how you're a beta fuck and need to go meet more women to forget about her but I'll just say while that works a lot of the time sometimes oneitis isn't a fucking disease that everyone that's alpha needs to run the fuck away from, since in this case she has mutual feelings maybe it's worth it to pursue this and discuss one person moving if you're in a situation to do so. Almost everyone gets "oneitis" eventually and realizes the rando… | /r/seduction | 10/06/14 02:13 AM |
| 124 | Not a seduction question, but when I see a really pretty girl, I don't fantasize about "banging" her. I crave other forms of intimacy.I notice the face first, I'm sure a majority of guys do as well. No matter how nice her body is it doesn't matter if she's ugly...just hard to ignore that element in physical attraction. Also if she has a nice face it's easier to want to look at it more, to make it yours and basically see it more often. It's shallow but 99% of guys won't be interested in a serious relationship with a girl they think has an ugly face, at the very least it has to be attractive in some way. Kids on this subreddit c… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 04:57 PM |
| 0 | I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground.Fuck that bitch yes you did the right thing and 99% of the people here wouldn't have the guts to do it, probably myself included | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 06:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How an attempted #-close turned into an instant date and F-close6'7 dear lord I thought 6'1 was decent | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 02:30 PM |
| 0 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?Time is the only thing that's gonna make it better. In the meantime keep busy and don't sit around thinkin about her or stalking her Facebook etc. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed about, sex is great but still so overrated. If you really want to be someone that gets girls' attention, you need to stop judging yourself based on what society says and what the media makes being 21 out to be. You're the only one in charge of your happiness and if you spend all your time worrying about what others will think then no one will want to be around you | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 06:26 PM |
| 1 | F'n OneitisBreak it off if you can't control your emotions, it's pointless to continue something that can't end the way you want and at the same time interferes with you finding what you really want. Takes time to get over it but it's that way with everyone | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 02:14 AM |
| 7 | [FR] First cold approach. Got a number.That's kind of hilarious that you had the balls to do that on your first cold approach. Work out some more to prevent the bicep thing from happening again, and forget the first girl because she was just practice. Don't worry about her not texting you back, she's no one and can be replaced within 5 minutes once you've got your approach down | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Im a 28 yo virgin who has hit rock bottom. looking to begin this journey and am in serious need of encouragement/motivation. any at allPeople probably covered everything else so I'm just goin to say you need to just pluck up the courage and escalate instead of playing it safe and friendly with the women you meet. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 08:39 PM |
| 44 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on Tinder?/10 | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Did an approach on a beautiful girl at a bar, went from feeling alpha to feeling like a p*ssy. Help?People need to stop stressing about finding some amazing thing to talk about. Saying literally anything is sufficient as long as it's not offensive. First couple things to say if nothing comes to mind for me is something unusual about the situation or area we're in, or some movie I just watched or the usual "wow you're kind of hot" (my favorite is "word on the street is you're not ugly", since it leads to other questions like "who told you" etc etc laugh laugh). Everyone has those chokes, just p… | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisgood advice, awful title. Chest and ceps are the vanity muscles but only an amateur goes to the gym just for curls and bench. If you're going to start workin out do it seriously and include multiple compound exercises, mainly bench dead and squat. Not only do these work out your body as a whole, they promote faster growth overall than if you just did bicep curls. Also get a routine and stick with it aka 3+ times a week for at least an hour a day. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 12:31 PM |
| 1 | We're all gonna make it guysI think I can help a bit. Seeing as you're going to oxford, you're obviously hard working and ambitious. Not only that, you're smart and have realized during your life you can beat the majority of people in standardized settings. Because of that, any area that you don't succeed in perfectly you feel like complete shit in and it makes you feel worthless even though it's only a small part of your life. I went to an upper ivy for undergrad and I'm not gonna lie on some level it made me feel better … | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How to get from the Dinner Table to the Bed?The way I think of it is just how to get them back to the apartment. Once they're in your apartment or house or whatever it's basically as clear a message as you're gonna get that she wants to f. So basically any number of excuses that seem mildly relevant will work as long as she has some interest in you and you haven't been creeping her out in some way. Anything from video games to movies to coffee or some nice wine you have or a goddam book if you have one to recommend. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 09:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Went to the club for the first time ever by myselfBalls to the wall, congratufuckinglations. This is how you build serious confidence; when you have friends around doing a bunch of stupid shit isn't that intimidating but doing it alone in a room full of strangers is just awesome. Nice man | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 02:03 AM |
| 10 | Alcohol: The Reason I Chose to Stop Drinking1-5 drinks = wicked hangover? cannot comprehend I guess if your tolerance is that low it makes sense that you should just stop | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 07:16 PM |
| 0 | {FR} Made out with the hottest chick at the weddingyou're sposed to move from mexico to canada, not the other way around. da fuck | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Losing It: How to Get Laid When You're Still a VirginThis is a pretty accurate post; you really do see the world so differently when you're a virgin and it's the go-to topic that you daydream about or something. You'll make it out to be so difficult but once it's over you're in a little bit of awe at first but then realize it wasn't nearly as big a deal as you initially made it out to be. One thing that is important is just having the balls to put yourself out there and meet people while at the same time being yourself. Nobody likes a poser but th… | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 04:24 AM |
| 18 | How do you keep up attraction if there is a long time between dates?This sums it up well. Don't ignore her but texting alot just shows you have nothing else to do | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 04:54 PM |
| 3 | How to make a girl choose you over another good-looking, funny and accomplished guy?Get jacked so other guys won't butt in on your conversations | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 03:54 PM |
| 4 | ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there!If a girl isn't interested in you, she's not worth your time anyway. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 10:32 PM |
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