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Alot of men unironically agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:02 AM
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Exactly Just pump n dump
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:59 AM
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Generally, off. Let's be for real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:58 AM
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Tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:55 PM
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Stupidity is creating a relationship dynamic statically bound to have male cheating and then wondering why the male cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:21 AM
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And most men think the same way I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:56 PM
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Your extrapolating hugely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah because women are self hating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:16 AM
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Why don't you just get a sperm donor. Why do women seek out marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:15 AM
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Wah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:33 PM
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Choke and anal. Best I can do. Most men can do that actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:33 PM
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Whining babies. An annoying sight for all. Don't worry tho, you're probably infertile from your self mutilation. You'll never have children anyways 😂🤣 The T+ so fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:15 PM
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You don't even know what men and women are. Why should I listen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:06 PM
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There's no shortage of men who wanna be role models. Just look at Tate and the various manosphere guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:40 PM
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It's not even really toxic masculinity causing this, some can argue toxic femininity. At my old high school, some black parents campaigned for having a program called "dads on duty" for dads to tutor fatherless boys (and girls). It got shut down by mainly feminist white women because apparently such a program would "demean single mothers and make them feel that they're not enough for their children, and reinforce stereotypes about women being insufficient" Screw you, no offence, your own side is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:36 PM
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Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:26 PM
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So women are just as selfish and evil and capitalistic as men. Glad we established that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:24 PM
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What do you want from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:23 PM
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Well yeah ofc. Because women don't just want a man to have xyz. They also want him to have abcdefghijklm..... Etc... They mainly want a man to have AF/bb 😂 Endless requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:22 PM
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Women didn't wanna stop earning money Women didn't give af about blue collar That's the distinction you left out and it's very evident today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:20 PM
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Answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:13 PM
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Just be single then. Alot of women can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:12 PM
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Perfect example of an arrogant bitch is Bronte Resnik.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:14 PM
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You are mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:11 PM
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The thing is tho, women look for men who make up for it in income / salary. https://news.ubc.ca/2016/10/28/marrying-up-despite-more-education-women-still-choose-husbands-with-higher-incomes/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands Women will ALWAYS choose hypergamy if the option is available. If it isn't, women will settle then whine and bitch about why they had to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:08 PM
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If society collapsed, the carpenter dude will be more useful than a bioinformatics gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:05 PM
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He's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:03 PM
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The last sentence is true, but women asked for it tbh. Nobody asked for you to do it all. If you wanna have it all, do it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:03 PM
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Degrees don't make dicks hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:01 PM
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Men hang on to feminine women. If you're gonna be a bossy whore, he will leave you for a younger bossy whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:58 PM
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So women only do blue collar jobs when nobody else is doing it. Kind of like how children will only take the trash out when their parents stop doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:57 PM
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Tf you want your man to do to make you feel alive? Strangle you as he gives you backshots? 99% of young men have no issue doing that btw. If you don't want the cash, take it up the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:56 PM
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And entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:54 PM
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That's great because I have a female friend who tells me she's distrustful of guy friends because they all just wanna date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:06 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:36 AM
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Fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:36 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:35 AM
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Firstly, this is a survey not an actual widespread huge study so I'd take it with a grain of salt. I think the general trend follows this : 1) good marriage happiest 2) single is medium happy 3) bad marriage is least happy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:34 AM
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All women in their 40s, regardless of marital status or child status. It's a hormonal menopause thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:33 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:32 AM
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I don't want to waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:37 AM
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Not really. It didn't disprove what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:23 AM
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https://macleans.ca/society/health/natural-selection-is-still-at-work/ Because the human species is a different species. Just like chimpanzees. And apes / gorillas. And tigers. Benefits or larger male : can do physical labor while the females can rear children Benefits of larger female : female can go through pregnancy safely Nature is random.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:12 AM
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Non mammalian is key. Look at chimps and apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:04 AM
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Your insinuating that patriarchy began with the Abrahamic religion is patently false and a common myth spouted by girls indoctrinated by ideologically motivated professors, not truth motivated professors. There's a lot of articles on how organized patriarchy was established by King Sargon of the Akkadians when he colonized Sumerian Mesopotamia. That was around 2279 BC. Judaism began in 1800 BC roughly That's some 470 years before Judaism, we already had well established patriarchy. Stop blaming …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:03 AM
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It's almost like, men can't get pregnant. Yeah crazy right? Women have a special ability that men lack, yet women neglect it and wanna become men. It seems like women are more misogynist than I thought. They hate womanhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:55 PM
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That isn't concrete evidence. That's historical anecdotes filled with your own biased handwringing. "concrete evidence" "confirmed" you're fucking dense as a neutron star, using objective words to talk about your anecdotal evidence. I can tell you never took basic tenth grade science. Holy shit. If you have two different countries, one with men and one with women, both would be able to thrive, albeit grudgingly. The men's society would clearly be more fit for construction and nobody in the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:53 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:45 PM
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Again, you're missing the fucking point. It has nothing to do with gender. It has everything to do with wars vs strikes. During a war, people expect it to go on for around 5 years or more and realize that not only that its long term, but those people who left will probably be dead and lying in ditches. That motivates and incentivizes domestic people to join the workforce / labor force and replace the missing people. Wars completely turn countries upside down and change everything. Strikes are di…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:44 PM
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@ u/Educational_Lab_525 I feel like the demonization of older women / aging women is mainly being supported by the Beauty industry and makeup industry, also magazine model industry. If we want to end the demonization of aging women, we have to stop buying from those and boycott those industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:31 PM
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You don't think women are more selective?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:05 PM
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Active combat is still majority male. Firefighters is still majority male. Most blue collar jobs are majority male. Like 90% each.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:24 PM
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This is the correct answer. If you have a daughter and a son, and you always give the daughter apples, and the Son always gets oranges. The daughter is a skilled apple cutter and the Son is a skilled orange cutter. They both make art out of it. One day you give the Son an apple, a rarity, he's going to want it alot because he never gets it. He wants to be recognized for that. One day you give the daughter an orange. It's a rarity. She's going to want it alot because she never gets it. She wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:39 PM
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Women were historically extremely selective with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:17 PM
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Every post on dating over thirty is the opposite. Women in their 30s looking for committed men. No men up to the task. Women gives up and freezes eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:10 PM
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I call it lawn projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:56 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/decadeology/s/iQy8HE3l85 OP reposted this post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:29 AM
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https://www.npwomenshealthcare.com/older-women-use-the-most-antidepressants-survey-finds/ Women can get dick on tap and also use antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:16 AM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:15 AM
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Wtf. No. Are you male or female? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:02 AM
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Have you seen the female dominated anti porn subs? They're leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:47 PM
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Idk about women but definitely left wing. A study by the university of Arizona found that incels were evenly distributed across the political spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:36 PM
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Milfs need love too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:03 AM
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Alot of the redpillers larp as tradcons. Just immature selfish boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:01 PM
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Not really. I mean look. Going by your logic. Those hot women probably aren't gonna wanna marry those virgin dudes anyways. So everybody is happy. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:45 PM
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Bruv, freedom is freedom. People who wanna hookup have every right to do so. When it comes to virgins vetting for marriage / LTR, they also have a right to vet out / remove people who have hookedup / fornicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:27 PM
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There's no such thing as unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:20 PM
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AFBB
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:14 PM
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Nope. Just bringing the main point back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:29 PM
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Why do women hate accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:14 PM
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5'10", low body fat, average income corporate job
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:07 PM
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Below avg probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:58 PM
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Ehh moderately attractive woman, same age, average bmi is ok for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:54 PM
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You watch a college girl get tied and gangbanged by 12 men? Your pro that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:42 PM
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*more feminine, fun accountant Age and looks doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:20 PM
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Mansplaining is a bs word. Women are the actual insecure ones. You don't wanna be challenged by men correcting you or calling out your bs so you shut it down by labelling it with buzzwords like mansplain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:17 PM
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"I get older, they stay the same age" XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:09 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:08 AM
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Alot of men also desire to take care of women like this way as well. Sorry. Not possible. Inflation. What can I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:05 AM
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What is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:04 AM
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Your right about the rejection bit. 30 year old women are just as hot as 20 year old women. It's just a revenge thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:03 AM
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Bangon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:02 AM
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Sounds fucking retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:58 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I think older women are cute and I want to marry one someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:02 AM
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Other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:56 AM
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Those stats deal with a older generation of guys. The older gen Z types.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:41 AM
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Really? https://therapybrands.com/blog/forever-alone-the-growing-sense-of-isolation-for-young-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:41 AM
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Whiff of pussy? Like the cashier girl behind the wife's back?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:11 AM
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"no man wants to commit to her for various reasons" Pretty sure the men would comitt if the men were mature. Thing is tho, men wanna get even and make up for missed time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:07 AM
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Could the women grow up and give the guys a freebie (open relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:00 AM
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If you ask me, I'd say give him king treatment. Not necessarily cooking and cleaning for him, just treat him extra special so he doesn't feel like he's missed out. A guy who stayed virgin is obviously gonna be sad if most of the women his age who now want to marry, have had fun with guys years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:56 AM
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If the woman had her fun time, let the husband have his.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:54 AM
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How the fuck do we solve such an issue. Those men who are now 30 never got a chance at wild fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:47 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:46 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:45 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:42 AM
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If women stayed Virgins and demanded better from men, men would change. Women give sex for free and wonder why they got played.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:41 AM
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Women can be petty for lots of stuff. Let men do it as well. Let's be fair now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:40 AM
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Ah so a rich king with servants at his beck and call, if he complains about the service that's feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:37 AM
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Reply to your first sentence : Magnus Hirschfield : godfather of transgender studies : "every single human trait and behaviour exist in a scale of masculine to feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:35 AM
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It's fair. If women can shame feminine men, men can shame masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:34 AM
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I mean there are. There are young women in their 20s willing to fuck a average looking guy in his 30s who's well established.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:17 AM
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It's hard to find women who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:10 AM
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Ok how about rephrasing it like this. The guy is a virgin for his wife, but he feels frustrated / annoyed that his wife had lots of intimate hookups with men in her 20s. That's a reasonable frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:00 AM
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Why not? Open marriages are cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:54 AM
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Non comittal men probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:48 AM
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I literally explained that in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:45 AM
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I don't support hookup culture but I understand the men wanting to get even.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:33 AM
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The man probably also wants to be wanted enough that either women had sex with him in his 20s before he was established (OR) women waited and stayed single to marry a man like him now at age 33. All I'm saying is that you could consider it pathetic and humiliating for the man as well. He's gonna feel bad that he stayed a Virgin before marriage while most women around had fun before settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:32 AM
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So you're ok with him having a pseudo polygamous lifestyle for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:27 AM
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I bet those men really want you but just feel resentful that they aren't your first, while you are their first. Men want to feel chased a little bit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:08 AM
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Fair enough. So should women let their husband have some freebies with college girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:05 AM
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So womens are aware their own choices are responsible for limiting the pool of serious men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:02 AM
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They probably want to but need a nudge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:59 PM
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Have you read the post I linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:58 PM
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What if that's most men in their 30s don't wanna commit. How will you find the few that do and convince them they aren't missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:58 PM
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I think men in group B really still do desire marriage. They're just resentful and need a nudge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:53 PM
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Consider the same scenario, ok so far thus good. The man is now open to marrying you (without himself hooking up first) but he's still frustrated that you got to enjoy lots of men while he didn't get to enjoy lots of women. How could you make up for such a discrepancy. Would you treat him better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:49 PM
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Wow. Judgemental much. Live and let live homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:37 PM
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People do fall in love. I'm talking about generalities. Women generally like a man who's higher status because she can look up to him. Men generally like a woman who's slightly lower status so that the man can feel looked up to. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:24 PM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:23 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:22 PM
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I feel like the issue here isn't women developing career in their 20s. That's fine. The resentment comes from how the women in their 20s got to bang guys in their 20s, then wanna settle. Yet men rarely got that opportunity. So at 30, the men now want a revenge fantasy and will go for young girls to satisfy their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:22 PM
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He's right but you should also understand it from the man's perspective. The man sees women as having the opportunity for fun all throughout her 20s. Most men have trouble in their 20s but once they are established, men have a slightly easier time hooking up in their 30s. So you have men and women both 33, the woman wants to settle down (absolutely her right), but the man is gonna be bitter. He didn't get much chance to hookup. So the man will waste his 30s with casual flings, punishing the 33 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:19 PM
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I only see one solution. 1) encourage abstinence so hookup culture is reduced 2) focus on improving men's economic standing so that more men become desirable, instead of just a small minority of men that abuse their desirability 3) step ladder unions. Instead of women going for ultra rich men, just go for men one income step above. Not ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:11 PM
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The end goal is most women want a man with equal or greater income. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:08 PM
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Learn to use dyadic power wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:03 PM
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All women should get consent and respect and dignity. At the same time, only few women (Virgins) deserve princess treatment. A man who's never been able to hookup will not want to bow down to a woman who's hookuped for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:00 PM
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If women had to have a crazy fun phase, shouldn't men also be able to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:50 PM
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Look, women want a man who earns equal or greater. If men happen to use some cringy mental process to motivate themselves, so what? It doesn't affect you. Don't worry about how they get to it. Just focus on the end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:49 PM
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True, but these men never had a fun phase. The girls had it and had their fill and are satisfied. The girls at 33 now consider marriage. The men, most men, never got to experience this. They want to make up for lost time. "she got it. Why can't I?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:45 PM
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Not take her down. Surpass her. Nothing wrong with that. Women desire men who are a few steps above. What's wrong with men wanting to climb the staircase to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:43 PM
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Except that most women were able to get hookups in their 20s. Only a few men were. The reality is most young men were not able to have this chance. The men become extremely bitter and that's why men in their 30s want young women. It's a revenge fantasy and also its Making up for missed time to get even with the women they graduated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:40 PM
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While I disagree with OP because he supports hookups and I don't, I understand where he's coming from. Most girls probably were able to have and have lots of hookups in their 20s. Only a small group of very attractive men were able to get that same level of hookups in their 20s. Studies show most young men are sexless. So the plethora of average looking men have to spend years building up a career to become desirable. Then both the woman and the man are age 33. The women are now have had their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:39 PM
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Easy for you to say. Women can get men like a running tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:32 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:28 PM
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A small group of hyper attractive men. Other men have to wait and essentially build up a career and status to make up for their looks. It's not unheard of to hear that slot of men have easier dating when they're established.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:28 PM
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Not chads. Just slightly above their level. It takes time for men to develop an education and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:27 PM
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Ugh. This is so absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:25 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:25 PM
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Your not getting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:21 PM
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That might be due to limited options. In terms of desirability, women want a man just 2-3 years older. Not 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:21 PM
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You misunderstood me. In real life in person, women desire competent men. Not dickheads. Nobody likes jerks. In fantasy, women desire a man who's both competent and slightly aggressive. Not mean, but sort of "rough, scowl" personality. In this fantasy however, women want to fix him. They want to make him open up, become gentle, soft, and loving. This is a fairly common fantasy in women. I'm not lying about this. Please try to understand what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:20 PM
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That's because western society is hyper capitalist and cut throat, usually implying masculine traits. Business has traditionally been a man's realm for this reason. Everybody needs money. Especially with inflation. Women understand they need money as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:17 PM
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Ok so one year younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:13 PM
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I found the ages. Woman's peak looks is 24, men's is 29. This the one you read right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:12 PM
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Life partnership - men desire woman as same age to one year younger. Never older, although men can tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:11 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:24 PM
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Women need to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:08 PM
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They have it yet they complain. Looks like women can't have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:06 PM
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Who.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:59 PM
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And yet women still report more dis satisfaction from hookups, some women saying they do it in hopes the man will start a committed relationship. Lol. Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:53 PM
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Yet men still consistently put a woman's youth and her appearance as more important than her wealth and status. Sorry OP, women aren't men. It doesn't work out the same way. Women can not get men the same way men get women, even in an era of egalitarian economics. Every study consistently shows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:51 PM
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Finally. Honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:49 PM
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-Studies show men find women most attractive as a 24 year old woman, whereas women find men most attractive as a 29 year old man. -Men in their 20s and above consistently rank women most attractive as when the woman is in her early 20s. -Men on average prefer a woman 3 years younger. At @OP tf are you smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:46 PM
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Keep dreaming. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:39 PM
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You're denying reality. Every year there's a new article saying "women struggling to find men who make as much as they do. There's five articles already in this, interviewing women complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:26 PM
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Exactly! Stop complaining then! Women should not complain if men decline career women. I found 10 articles of women saying they're annoyed at men for rejecting them. Men have no qualms saying men adore and desire women. Most women however wouldn't say that. Women don't desire men as much as men want women. So fine. Stay single then? At least you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:21 PM
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Look up the guardian and Atlantic articles. Highly educated, high career women have trouble finding a man. Look it up. Not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:19 PM
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:( I mean.. Isn't it possible for you to quit and take a lower role? Or a lower job? Or on dates with those men you could say you're willing to quit or something. Is it that serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:17 PM
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When 3/4 of the med school are women, why are they expecting to marry male doctors? By survey, these girls are expecting to marry a male doctor. Not possible. They should become lesbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:11 PM
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Like the fantasy not the reality. That's true for how men see alpha women. It's a real psychological phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:10 PM
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Do you know that money is zero sum? When only men worked, single incomes were fine. Women decided to work and now two incomes aren't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:04 PM
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Women will get loads of ideal partners if they use their dyadic power wisely. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:02 PM
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I gave you the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:02 PM
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1 is wrong. There's women who said single life is better and later end up regretting. Why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:58 PM
1

Ok. Go bossbabe and be single. Right. Happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:57 PM
1

Good for you. Genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:56 PM
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K be single. Maybe I'll go for a plus size woman. Better than a career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:49 PM
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Men don't want to marry career women because they are arrogant, prideful, bossy, and domineering. Not because the men are "intimidated or insecure".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:48 PM
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It's all consensual and deserved. The women chose to seek out men knowing that the women were not desirable enough. The men kicked them to the curb. Women are finally realizing what men have dealt with for decades. Rejection!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:35 PM
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Right so all the women out there leading guys on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:34 PM
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I'm not trolling I'm just glad you figured out how men are. We're not less petty than women. We aren't less sassy either. We're the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:26 PM
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Women talking to friends "I want a real man. One who's tall and has a good career going. A real man, not like these guy's guys." Also women "wait what? Height and income are correlated with masculinity? Wtf? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:25 PM
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Seems like women won't learn until single women in their 40s start teaching young women what dating over 30 is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:23 PM
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You're an exception among women to be honest. Most young women by survey still desire richer men, even though these young women already have good careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:22 PM
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Good you learned reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:22 PM
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Ok so they can go for modest / average office jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:20 PM
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Women who refuse to date down because they find it a turnoff statistically have the highest options of marriageable men if they have at a bachelor's degree and a modest job. The further the climb the economic ladder, the exponentially less men there are available. Women wanna have it all. They wanna have the high flying career while also having enough men at the end to marry. If you're somebody who doesn't like to look down at people, stop walking upstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:19 PM
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Why are the women complaining? Do you face any issue in the marriage market?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:15 PM
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If women wanna marry doctors and dentists, shouldn't women stop going to med school and dental school then? It's so strange. Both professional schools nowadays have more women, yet when you survey these women they're still looking for doctor / dentist husbands. Do they think there's infinite jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:14 PM
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If women don't like dating down and don't like the shortage of "economically attractive men" Why were women climbing the ladder and taking men's spots from jobs? Isn't that like shooting yourself in the leg?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:12 PM
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Think of a world where women could be independent and get decent jobs with enough money to provide for a good condo and lifestyle, yet all the young men were statistically more educated, more wealthy. That's probably what the redpillers want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:11 PM
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How.?? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:01 PM
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Why do women desire highly rich educated men even when the same women are already rich and educated? Why do women refuse to settle. Just marry the broke guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:00 PM
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OP I'll answer your question honestly. What some of those redpill men want isn't 50s, but more like 1970s. Where women could earn enough money to be independent and not need a man, but still choose out high status men. Some Redpill guys like the 70s because it had balance. Men still had a oneup somewhat on education and income, but women at least could stand on their own feet through modest jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:56 PM
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Because outside of the third world, people have ways of getting their fix with other people, even during committed relationships. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:31 PM
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Ok fine, so you're good with him banging younger girls in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:28 PM
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Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:25 PM
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Yep. Women wanted to be single right. Always talking about how single women are happy. Suck it up. Women just gotta accept pump n dump status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:25 PM
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Women should know that masculinity is a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:24 PM
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That's who's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:23 PM
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The studies also show domestic violence rise in those marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:22 PM
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It's their right to do it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:22 PM
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Too bad. Because women have been doing this shit forever. Women will gladly turn down poor men. Men have the right to turn down rich women. If your marriage ends in adultery don't say we didn't warn you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:21 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:20 PM
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It's crazy how women get away with stuff like "he cannot be shorter than me at all, he cannot make less than me etc" But when a guy says the opposite, suddenly it's fragile ego. Women also getting the ick from men being slightly femme, but if a man considers a woman too masc, then it's a evil crime. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:55 PM
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Somebody could ask why you haven't taken a lower status job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:49 PM
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Studies show women's preferred age for a man is late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:46 PM
1

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:45 PM
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They do looks but they still go for late 20s / early 30s. Alot of young women keep dating older guys for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:44 PM
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Denial about what? Women's age preference is higher than men's age preference. Men's age preference was mid 20s. Women's was late 20s to early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:44 PM
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Really? Because the studies I've seen said women in early 30s ranked men in early 30s as most desirable. https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/ There's plenty of evidence on Tinder for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:42 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:40 PM
1

Ic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:39 PM
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The thing is, women in their 30s go for men aged 31 while men in their 30s keep going for 20 something year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:38 PM
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Somebody could make a similar argument from the men's side. Why should he have to put up with such a woman / attitude just for her lifestyle requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:37 PM
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Can't your husband do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:36 PM
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The average age women date is a man 1-3 years older than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:35 PM
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I think the two main reasons are attraction and life stage. That's why the age gaps are how they are. https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/ Read the two graphs in this link. The second issue is life stage. Women generally prefer a man who's life stage is stable and built, sometimes even slightly higher status than the woman. That takes time for the man, thus his older age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:34 PM
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Yeah because men develop later. Puberty I'm guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:31 PM
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I got a friend who's a divorce lawyer in New York and they tell me something interesting. Alot of women say they can handle a husband earning less. Not so true. Marriage ends in adultery and divorce. Likewise, the reverse is true for men apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:29 PM
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Read the many comments those guys have sent you. You have the option to quit. Nobody is stopping you. Dating dynamics is easy for women. Quitting is easy. A man would have to build upwards. That's tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:27 PM
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You are an exception, those marriages often have female adultery (source is simondslawgroup). If you're asking what advice I'd give to such women if they really struggle to find a partner, quit your career altogether or find a more modest job to work and let the man lead. Is that a sacrifice you'd be willing to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:25 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:59 AM
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I'm saying because women's preference tends to be equal or greater in a partners income. And a man's preference tends to be equal or less for a partner. However, the lack of available male options causes women to settle resentfully, likewise a lack of income advancement also causes men to settle resentfully as well. Both in a marriage that's not ideal for them. This resentment leads to adultery. I'll tell you about an interesting experiment. They asked a woman if she earned 40k for example, woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:51 AM
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So what's the solution. I guess those women should be ready to quit their career and marry a man who has a decent stable income. So her sacrifice would be giving up her career. And men should be ready to marry these women if they're willing to become homemakers. Even if she's older, a little chubby, etc. And men need to step up on their personal economic development. You're a woman, is this a solution you think might work? Is this acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:42 AM
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Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:38 AM
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I'm 25, I could marry a woman who's 36 honestly. But I have other requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:32 AM
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Yall ain't lonely tho. You're living the best life, got a career going, degrees, constant validation from men everywhere. Every article I read says women are choosing singleness, single women are happier than married women, etc. You women are living the best life. Wtf are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:31 AM
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Nah, I bet those women are doing fine. They don't experience loneliness because they still get attention and validation. They wouldn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:28 AM
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You're a woman tho? Wtf? Sure you not a dude like me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:27 AM
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Also women : give us special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:00 PM
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I wonder if I asked you that sometime ago. Maybe with a different account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:15 AM
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Women should stop dating them. They haven't yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:12 AM
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The girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:08 AM
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Men do not enmasse consider SAHMs to be lazy gold diggers. That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:08 AM
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Some men would even crowdfund money for traditional women to stay afloat, even if those men aren't gonna be able to marry her. Men will always simp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:08 AM
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Women are more depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:49 AM
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Oil companies had time to spew lobbyists to deny climate change. Tobacco companies lie about tobacco. I'm sure corpos don't mind the same shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:18 AM
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Is that all you are? Is that all you see yourself as?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:14 AM
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I don't understand that tho. If he thought you were fine already, why do you want him to have more stringent bar for you? It's like : "hey I like you already" "but I'm not enough. So if you like me, you're bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:07 AM
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Ending up on the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:05 AM
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Nobody asked women to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:52 AM
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Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:52 AM
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Ok so women should not complain that men nowadays do not want to commit. You're ok with us using porn and cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:18 AM
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Could say that about anything right? Everything and anybody is replaceable. What is the woman bringing that's special?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:16 AM
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No they're not. That's masc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:51 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:45 AM
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Yes, feminine women are more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:28 AM
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The way you look down upon and resent uneducated / poor women speaks to the classism that exists within so called feminist discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:14 AM
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Women pushed for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:35 AM
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Ah I'm sure having your daughter railed by 20 men by the time she's 30 is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:34 AM
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You're right. It's a deliberately meticulously planned concept by elites to atomize, disenfranchise, and destroy young men and women into hating each other and just becoming brainless capitalist consumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:33 AM
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You know there's a middle ground right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:31 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:27 AM
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It is all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:18 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:18 AM
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Second sentence is true for alot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:16 AM
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Marriages are declining and so is women's happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:14 AM
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That's pretty close except for the food bit. I'd buy her a steak and I'd want her to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:12 AM
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Why should you change despite it causing depression among people? More depressed women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:10 AM
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Being successful doesn't typically add to a woman's dating value. It's femininity. You could be ugly as a sack of potatoes and still have men in love with you for femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:08 AM
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Nah you're wanting to divorce. I know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:07 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:05 AM
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Men are desperate to fuck anything. Doesn't mean we don't have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:04 AM
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Not out of want. Women are bitter they can't get the men they want and have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:03 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:03 AM
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Yeah as if that will get men a tinder date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:00 AM
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That's a shame for the men who wanted to do it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:59 AM
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I'm gonna be doing the cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:58 AM
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Ok fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:58 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:50 AM
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I'm referring to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:47 AM
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Honestly, I think men originally did give alot of value to those feminine qualities. Women decided first that was oppressive so men just went "ok sure fine"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:47 AM
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Women want it all and give nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:45 AM
1

Are you a man? Do you experience it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:31 AM
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Childcare while I'm at work. I'm ok taking over when I come back home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:18 AM
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Did you literally just say "love and adoration" is for the top men only? Lmao. This is how far dating has fallen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:18 AM
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Because capitalism. AI isn't here to save us. It's to make CEOs layoff people so that people are more scared to protest for fair wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:17 AM
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Yep. That's the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:07 AM
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Read the top four for each. It's exactly what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:03 AM
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Whatever tinder women are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:02 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:00 AM
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Yeah. So are you gonna teach your young daughters to have sex with old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:00 AM
-1

It's not just what you can do for me. It's also "what can I do for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:59 AM
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It could happen. So polygamy should be legalized. We literally have fucking "polyam pride" nowadays. Might as well legalize polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:58 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:55 AM
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You wanna put that on a women's magazine as a message to all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:54 AM
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Very interesting. I'd be perfectly happy dating a slightly overweight woman. The magazines are just made to sell weight loss product.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:52 AM
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You seem to have plenty of experience. You should teach your daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:48 AM
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It isn't that old women are unattractive. It's being a virgin that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:47 AM
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I'm aware of that. Average money won't. But alot will. That's why rich women in tinder still try to bag the rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:45 AM
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I would discuss them. Just by asking what both of us expect out of a relationship, what our preferences for each other are. I've actually gone on dates before and asked that. The women were very friendly and we both discussed for a while what we wanted from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:44 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:43 AM
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Well there's probably more on the masculine side that women want. So tell me. What are they.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:41 AM
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Love that you gave anecdotal evidence. It's like saying a carnivore diet is amazing because I personally enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:41 AM
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Men date same tax bracket because of social circles and proximity. Secondly, your anecdotal evidence is worthless to me. Most men by studies prefer women who earn slightly less, and most women by studies prefer men who earn slightly more. Exceptions exist among all data, and if you studied statistics, which you probably did in high school, you would know that. Another fun fact : adultery is high among relationships where women are the breadwinner, and so is domestic violence. Fun fact : and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:39 AM
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That's pretty much spot on. Except I'm ok with her being overweight / wrinkly if she is. And I'm ok taking on some cooking as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:33 AM
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It is. Mens preference is equal or less. Women's is equal or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:31 AM
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Which other ones are there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:29 AM
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Because women are often dishonest about relationships the same way men are dishonest with economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:28 AM
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In a way its related. Women desire men of Atleast equal status. Men would be ok marrying women two rungs below.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:27 AM
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Damn. That's sad. That's pretty amazing tho. I'd give anything for that, I'd also reciprocate it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:26 AM
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Could say that about women as well. Alot of women complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:25 AM
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Yeah. Women desire given the chance to date hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:24 AM
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Why do women think they know what men want better than what men actually want themselves? See the difference is men are pretty straightforward and honest about what they want. Women lie about relationships, men lie about capitalism. That's how it's always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:22 AM
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You sort of agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:18 AM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:16 AM
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Not her looks. Just feminine traits. Is she ok doing childcare? Can she nurture? Can she she be sweet and gentle? Can she do the female role? I don't care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:16 AM
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Except studies indicate that even rich women still go for the richest men on dating platforms and marriage services.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:14 AM
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Because studies, and even surveys from my OWN university show that women still expect and have a preference for high income men, even Tinder shows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:33 AM
-1

Did you know studies suggest 50% of women are expected to be childless and single by 2050 in North America?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:31 AM
0

I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:31 AM
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Not asexual, but I'm perfectly cognizant of the fact that it's better to be single than have a relationship where your partner isn't offering the roles you want from them. That's why most women are choosing to be single nowadays. Studies show they want a husband, but are aware that there aren't enough men to provide what they want, so they choose singlehood because they can keep their peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:28 AM
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Alot of people are asking because most people in 2023 are disenfranchised by a terrible dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:25 AM
0

Ok just childcare then. I'll split chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:23 AM
0

Good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:23 AM
1

Studies show that even rich women still desire rich husbands. Most women nowadays are even choosing to be single and childless because they are not finding enough men willing / able to provide what the woman wants. Women still desire status and income from a man and this is backed up by tons of surveys. Women eventually give up and settle for lacklustre options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:22 AM
-5

Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:16 AM
-3

Honestly, maybe I should consider a magic experiment that could turn me bi so I could date men. If women aren't gonna provide any feminine / womanly roles, why bother dating women? Men may as well date other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:14 AM
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I make enough to provide for two. And I'll be perfectly happy to do that. So my question is, why is it that men themselves know that they are to provide traditionally masculine roles to a relationship (income) whereas women flat out refuse to do any or the traditionally feminine roles in a relationship? You realize that it used to be both sides would bring in something unique to a relationship. Now women don't want to hold up their end of the bargain but expect men to do theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:13 AM
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Earning more and being educated isn't bringing something to the table, if men don't desire those things. Why not bring femininity and household chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:51 PM
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Why would it be? I'm not in need of that, nor am I attracted to a piece of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:50 PM
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Women don't actually know what they want, it's time to stop asking women. Those street interviews are proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:50 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:48 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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