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You're wrong. There are two alternatives here: Either it's pure randomness, or there are patterns. If there are patterns it means it's a skill that can be learned. And there clearly are patterns in seduction, and it's clearly a skill that can be learned, just like martial arts, soccer, business, medicine or whatever.
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:09 AM
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I'd phrase it this way instead: "Confidence is knowing what outcomes are possible and caused them". If you're new a girl could scream at you for saying hi, for all you know. When you're experienced you not only know that it is unlikely to happen, but you know that if it does happen it's not about you anyway. *You know from experience that it's a fluke, so you don't worse from it because it doesn't mean anything. *
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:55 AM
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You're welcome to become my teacher if you want
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:10 PM
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Thanks for the hair tips, I'll be sure to fix it! None of my male friends have girlfriends 😑. They either have casual sex or are like me.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:52 AM
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How did you conquer your demons?
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:48 AM
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As I said: I can have fun with friends, but when it's time to approach I still get twitchy and nervous.
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:48 AM
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Thanks for the feedback! How do I go about getting a new haircut? My hairdresser only does what she's told basically. Don't have any female friends :(
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:35 AM
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Got it. So how do I go about believing that?
/r/seduction09/10/16 08:54 PM
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Dude, I know I'm supposed to do that but I can't. Everytime I'm near a girl I get all twitchy and weird. Can't get female friends for that exact reason. Just started going to the gym. I get money from my family, don't have time to work.
/r/seduction09/10/16 08:49 PM
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I'm gonna be completely honest and say that I don't think he gets more attractive by the second one. But I see that most people ITT agree with you, so I'll get better pictures and ask for honest advice.
/r/seduction09/10/16 08:03 PM
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Right, sorry. Just a sensitive subject, you know. Nobody wants to think they're not good enough. But yes, it's immature to get angry at well meant advice. Thank you for your feedback, I'll post better photos there and improve my looks best I can.
/r/seduction09/10/16 08:00 PM
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Right, and thank you for that. But do you really believe that I've gotten no results in 6 months because my hair is suboptimal? I'm at least above average right now, right?
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:51 PM
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Thanks. That's some actual actionable advise. I'll try it. Said it multiple times ITT: I can't, all girls get weirded out by me, even when I'm not trying to game. Working out isn't enough?
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:47 PM
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So you hate the hair, but is it so ugly that ALL girls will get disinterested by it? I'm not that self-aware but I do know that I am at least above average attractive looks wise and that the problem lies elsewhere. As I said: All girls get weirded out by me, even girls I meet through social circle that I'm not "doing game" on.
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:45 PM
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My life is good. I have male friends, money, am studying and go to the gym. Only problem i have is interacting with girls.
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:42 PM
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OK, so how do I get better?
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:40 PM
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I don't know how. All women get creeped out by me because I'm so uncomfortable around them.
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:39 PM
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I literally have nothing else to fix dude. I have many male friends, an amazing family and am studying. My only problem is in interacting with strangers (Much worse with women than men though) and I have no idea why.
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:38 PM
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A very random thing to say out of nowhere. And my wings have never gotten such comments. Do you honestly believe I'm unattractive? I'm biased yes, but I don't see it.
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:10 PM
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Mostly guys who have said it tbh. But yeah I get it. I think this picture is just bad though.
/r/seduction09/10/16 05:41 PM
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I see. I am hitting the gym already, so that should be fixed soon
/r/seduction09/10/16 04:09 PM
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Right, but I still don't understand. Would so many people really lie about something like that? It's been completely unsolicited most of the times.
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:45 PM
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No. 20.
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:44 PM
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Every time I try those things my face gets all twitchy because I'm so scared and the girls get freaked out.
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:30 PM
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No
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:28 PM
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To start, cut your stupid hair and wear better fitting clothes. I'm seeing this a lot ITT. Could be that you guys are the only honest guys, could be that the picture quality is just that bad, but I've been told many times that I'm good looking by a lot of different people. Are you sure this is the problem? Would you have predicted in advance that I suck from that pic if I hadn't told you?
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:27 PM
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You really think my looks are the problem? I've been told on multiple occasions that I'm good looking.
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:25 PM
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I've never gotten any girl to reciprocate in any way, and you want me to go for the fucking kiss, let alone try to pull?
/r/seduction09/10/16 04:48 AM
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I went from being a little bitch who's scared of women to being a little bitch who's scared of women but has also approached a lot of them. Nothing about myself has been fixed, and I don't know how to go about it at all.
/r/seduction09/10/16 04:48 AM
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Where all do you do approaches? Coffee shops? Yoga classes? Libraries? Clubs? Bars? Tinder? Bars and Clubs mostly Have you touched girls you just met within <1 <5 <10 minutes (not handshake)? Yes, but they've always disliked it Have you got a girl to dance with you? Have you held a conversation with a girl 10+ minutes? Have you gotten a number and had a conversation with her on the phone? Have you gotten and gone on a date? No. As I've said, no success. I've gained nothing and I don't know how t…
/r/seduction09/10/16 04:46 AM
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How? Like a spy camera or what?
/r/seduction09/10/16 04:45 AM
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We're both in basically the same spot, so nothing.
/r/seduction09/10/16 04:45 AM
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I'm telling you: I approach any girl regardless of her looks. They all react the same
/r/seduction09/10/16 02:43 AM
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