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| 566 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went good | Field Report | bruno-vr | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 06:12 PM |
| 40 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonight | Lifestyle | bruno-vr | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:49 AM |
| 30 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonight | Field Report | bruno-vr | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 04:46 AM |
| 30 | Going out solo & sober tonight | Lifestyle | bruno-vr | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Going out alone sober tonight. Drop your best advice/tips! | Lifestyle | bruno-vr | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:05 AM |
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| 19 | There is no such thing as "out of your league"Go date Sydney Sweeney then. Haha | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 03:14 PM |
| 9 | Hostel Seduction StrategyI went to one in Prague and it was 70% male. I went to one in Budapest and it was 50/50. I went to one in Krakow and it was 70% women. In these social/adventurous environments you want to be as interesting and as fun as possible. The only way to achieve that is to have a fun and interesting life. I’d recommend avoiding the boring small talk loop of “Where are you from / Where are you going next” at hostels, focus on telling good stories and sharing funny experiences from your travels. Be the per… | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you guys cold approach?no, i talk to people | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 01:16 AM |
| 8 | Girl asked for MY Instagram - Is that a good sign?Why do some people overthink everything so much? Is this seriously the most upvoted comment? Dude, asking for your contact is just a sign of interest at that moment. She’s not playing games. Just text her, see where it goes and move along… | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?I’m 23 and I’m dating a girl that is 27. Not so much older but I like it. Knows what she wants, very mature and with clear life goals. I don’t think I’m ever going back. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsRIP | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | What’s the general rule of thumb in double texting?too much overthinking… if you are worried about this then you’re in too deep and chances are she’s really not into you. a woman that likes you will make time for you believe me. double texting is fine but it should be a “send it, forget it, move on and don’t expect anything from it” thing… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 14 | What has been the worst rejection you have ever receive? And how it happenedThree girls barked at me while recording me after I tried to talk to them at a bar. Hahahah | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldI disagree with both the post and your comment. Long text. The post sounds like a man complaining about women “being” (note the word) arrogant out in the streets… Women don’t owe you anything. You’re a stranger. Yes, some girls walk outside with great energy, big smile and positive vibes. Some girls have RBF. Some women will react positively to your approach, some will tell you to fuck off. You can’t expect a cute girl to “give you positive body language” when she’s out running errands or focuse… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:31 PM |
| 3 | I've been doing daygame in a few countries in Europe and...Love Krakow. The best city I’ve visited along with Budapest. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | When do you know it’s time to just stay with one girl ?literally lol | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?if the girl doesn’t like dogs… run away… | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 01:30 AM |
| 7 | Gonna try and approach again today.Don’t put so much pressure on yourself… when you approach you should be in such a state of mind and confident frame that it feels natural and not like a chore, otherwise no matter what you do it won’t feel authentic. Yes, anxiety is always there but it should be more like excitement than fear. Good job for getting out of the comfort zone tho. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?Since you’re a beginner on this, it’s better that you learn tools and canned lines/techniques until you’re comfortable with flirting and you improve your conversation skills and your “wit”. Please keep in mind that these are just tools, in reality you don’t want to over complicate things and you want to be yourself. But they work. Some tools you can look up on this subreddit: push-pull, roleplay, cold reads, escalation. My favorite is definitely the cold reads. Combine cold reads + teasing = goo… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Does not kissing on the first date that big of a deal to youFuck yeah, you just described abundance. I agree with everything you said | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Offline > Online - From 37 to Elite: How World Travel Killed My Tolerance for Mid Dating Apps"Totally valid bro I’m not arguing with your post just providing input. I’m glad you’re taking action towards this stuff though. Keep it up bro. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:33 PM |
| 16 | Offline > Online - From 37 to Elite: How World Travel Killed My Tolerance for Mid Dating Apps"Btw, the other comments on this post are hilarious. I agree with the post, but the apps are just fine. Yes, meeting in person is 1000x more fun and if your life relies on a screen then you might have a problem. But all this hate for the apps comes from “resentment” (for lack of a better word) of men not getting any matches or not knowing “online” game. If you know how to work your way through the apps they are very fun. I go on multiple dates from the apps all the time at this point, and it take… | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Does not kissing on the first date that big of a deal to youIf you spend the date worried about kissing her or pulling her home, in my opinion you’re doing it wrong. On a first date you want to focus on having fun and (most importantly) giving her an experience, not really on kissing or sex with her. If you give her an experience and an excellent date that she can brag to her friends trust me, she won’t care if you had sex that same night or whether you two kissed or not. She’ll be dying to see you again. And if she’s comfortable with kissing or sleeping… | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Today I saw game in real lifeGame is everywhere. Men hookup with women they met the same night all the time and they have been doing it for hundreds of years? Of course game exists? it’s just that in this community we are just a bunch of autistic people that couldn’t figure it out naturally so we “learned it through books and experience” and became good at it, many times way better than those that learned it naturally. This post basically is “this guy flirted seamlessly with a hot girl and took her home and I thought that w… | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Are You Guys Even Enjoying Yourselves?This is the best thing I’ve read on this sub in a long long time. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | The Real Battle Every Man Must Fightpeople have been meeting women, building relationships and having babies for generations. it’s not that deep bro | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Is 3 dates in less than a week too much?Too much overthinking here. OP, if you have an abundance mentality you shouldn’t be worried about this stuff. Yes, don’t be too clingy, try to space it out, you both have your own lives too, but don’t play these pointless mind games of “waiting X hours/days to reply, disappearing for several days on purpose to make her miss you, etc”. That’s not game. The moment you try to use those stupid manipulation games on purpose you’re ruining whatever connection you have. You like her, she likes you. Enj… | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 10:59 PM |
| 113 | What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results?When you meet someone or go on a date, the goal is not to “impress her” or “win her over”, the goal is to see whether you’re “compatible or not” Stop worrying about whether she likes you or not, jf she does she’ll let you know. If she doesn’t, why would you be with someone not really into you? (If you have to ask yourself whether she likes you or not, chances are she doesn’t) | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 01:42 PM |
| 2 | The Foolproof Way to Test a Girl Before a DateFrom my experience, asking them to send you a video instead works better (100% success rate). but you have to do it 15.3 minutes before the date or it doesn’t work. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | I get lots of girls, but never make it past the 3rd dateThis. OP, I’ve been having lots of unsuccessful 2nd/3rd dates recently too. But honestly I’m not stressing over it. You’ll meet someone you can be yourself 24/7 with and she’ll love that. Yes, attraction is important for starting and maintaining a relationship, but if you had to be thinking about “techniques” or “acting in XYZ way” to avoid turning them off then let me tell you that person ain’t for you. The moment you stop being yourself or even start thinking in the slightest that you gotta ac… | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 10:57 PM |
| 5 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?the idea of “women don’t want to be bothered throughout their day”, men being scared of women, and the fear of getting canceled (which roots from really bad approaches that other people consider “harassment” due to uncalibrated men / men that can’t take rejection) yes, lots of girls don’t want to be bothered and will not be attracted to you. but if you approach correctly most of them will be nice about it, and if you’re respectful and know how to take a no you’ll be fine. many times you’ll make … | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 05:09 AM |
| 71 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?out at night? all the time during the day? barely | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 5 | I Slept with 40 Women Last Year From Real Life Approaches - Here are 7 Lessons I learnedExcellent post brother! One of the very few good ones I see on here nowadays. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Just had my first makeout in a club and it was incredible.Be ready to get ghosted. Not saying it’ll happen, but it’s very likely to happen (read: buyer’s remorse). Use this as momentum and as a confidence boost experience, but understand that as of right now this is just a one time thing she did to have fun. If anything brother, the most important thing: don’t worry too much about what’s gonna happen in the near future (whether you guys will see each other again or not), enjoy the present and the good memory you made. Love the game. Think of abundance … | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I cold approached a girl and today i got rejectedBro… i’ve had girls acting like they are in love with me and that I am the “perfect man” on the first date. Date looks perfect, lots of chemistry… then you get the “I didn’t feel the spark” text next morning or simply get ghosted. And you are worried over a girl just being social and nice to you on one interaction. Keep putting in the work, don’t stress over simple things like this. Outcome independent. I know it’s hard but this is how the game works! Cold approach is socializing. It’s appropria… | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Is the first time the worst?i haven’t done a direct “cold” approach in a while but from what i recall is yeah the first one is the worst and then it gets easier and easier but the next day it resets and it’s like you have to go thru all of it again, especially if you’re an introvert like some of us that’s why building momentum is important | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Where do you guys get the endurance?the more you care, the more you overtry, the less authentic you act, the more youre gonna fail. yeah I mean I wish I had a beautiful girl or a hot social circle rn in terms of this, but it doesn’t really affect me much right now because i’m very happy with where i am in life. as long as i continue like this and put myself there, i know everything will fall in place and ill find people/women i love to be around. and if not, who gives a shit? just gotta keep trying and enjoy the fuck ups 😂 or if y… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 12:14 AM |
| 12 | Where do you guys get the endurance?Hey I had really good success on apps and I deleted them this year too because I dont like the idea of dating girls I met online while sitting in the couch swiping. I lost my ‘roster’ of 3 girls this week and I’m back to zero again too 😂 Looking forward to those rejections again lol | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Today is my 22nd birthday and I am still a virgin. I will quit Reddit but I wanted to say some things before I leave.Happy birthday brother! When I was 20 I was a virgin and couldn’t even talk to a girl without feeling like I was gonna explode. Just turned 23 a month ago and i’ve been with more girls that I could’ve imagined. I still struggle getting women… still get anxious many times and have big fuck ups. I also still can’t find “the one” and it makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me sometimes, and comparing myself to others with happy relationships makes me really insecure sometimes. What im sa… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Do you have a friend that lies about his lay count?Haha just tell him you don’t believe it, could be a funny convo. Who gives a shit about lay count though? Some people treat it like a K/D ratio or some shit. I have a kinda high one for my age but it doesn’t mean shit. Back in college my buddy who looked like a model pulled way less but when he did they were always gorgeous. Quality vs. quantity always. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women of my preference.No need to be a dick here. OP likes younger women (his reasons are his own business) AND understands it can be seen as “creepy” by most people because that’s uncommon. He’s very transparent with it (read his comment). I personally wouldn’t prefer that age gap (although late 20s and early 40s is somewhat common), but calling him a predator is insane. They are adults. He’s not forcing them into anything, he’s letting them pick him, and if they don’t he walks away. Only creepy thing here would be t… | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 04:47 PM |
| -1 | Meeting women of my preference.You’re in the wrong sub mate. People in their 20s are adults. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:54 PM |
| 35 | Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 Minutesbro let my man enjoy his healthy relationship in peace… y’all overthink everything… | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 6 | I finally did it !Good shit. The “rush” is my favorite part of game. Now even though it feels you can get any girl you want by being consistent with that… get ready to get rejected. 10, 100, 1000 times. It’ll happen. A fuck ton. Some of these will be bad and embarrassing. Some will be in the nicest way possible. Some you don’t even know why. It’ll happen, sometimes repeatedly and you will start questioning yourself. Don’t let your mind get you off track. Get used to it. When you win though, when you fucking win… | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Seducing while travelling : How not to burn your identity ?I’ve stayed in hostels before and befriended multiple girls in those too that told me stories. There’s a fuck ton of men that are creepy / can’t read the room when a girl isn’t interested / are pushy and annoying. Trust me, if you’re being respectful… no one will say anything and no one will care if you get rejected. And if they do… so what? Assuming you’re being respectful and fun, they’ll just think of you as the flirty guy. Not the weird one that keeps chasing pussy desperately. Plus… you’re … | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightThanks dude. I’ve got really good friends and I’m very happy with my life, but I still want to improve my social/dating because it’s fun. It’s that little voice in your head that fucks you up sometimes, but gotta keep your frame and attitude 100%. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightCollege town in the desert. College bars/clubs. I honestly find it easier with normal clubs/bars. I’m 23. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 08:31 AM |
| 1 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightHahaha yeah all good. feeling like shit too even tho I’m sober and nothing happened. I just didn’t feel myself tonight. But hey bro you put yourself there, good shit. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 08:30 AM |
| 2 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightI have a rule when I buy drinks for a girl. Only when: 1) We spent 30+ mins together (and flirted) 2) We already kissed. Whichever happens first. If none of these happened, I don’t buy them. In the past, I’ve refused to do it even though they asked me, and they got a bit mad. I walked away… and they came back to me. Follow that rule and you won’t break your bank and will be respected. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightposted the update. rough night compared to previous ones i posted… but there’s no good days without bad ones :) | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 07:52 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with “are you here alone?”So where are your friends? I’m here by myself. You go out alone? Yeah, I love my friends but also love doing stuff on my own and meeting people. In fact, I travel by myself all the time. It’s my favorite. Wow that sounds cool, I wish I could do that. This is how it goes 90% of the time. But for your concern let’s imagine she says this instead… That’s kinda weird, even more if you do this all the time. Nope, I love it. I’m here 3x a week, all the time. I live nearby and enjoy the music and talkin… | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with “are you here alone?”Exact same thing for me. In fact many times they react more positively than when I’m out with friends… this sub is about confidence and picking up girls authentically, while being your best self. why lie???? been a few weeks though. going out by myself tonight | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with “are you here alone?”Really bad advice here (no surprise…) Don’t lie. Own it and make it look badass. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | 5 Proven Topics to Talk About on a Date That Build Deep Connectionnot everything on this sub is good advice. just saying | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Field report (dance floor make out and insta close)Good shit, been going out by myself too. It’s funny how the best nights are the ones that happen after failing to convince yourself not to go out. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 07:45 PM |
| 7 | How to actually "lower my standards"?dude some of these posts are scary… and the replies are even worse. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Meeting a hot girl at a techno club, any tips?Don’t treat it as a date. Go have fun for the experience, meet and talk to everyone, including other strangers and other girls. Stay around them, but don’t stick to this girl all night. Always one step behind. Could be really fun. Keep the flirty vibe with her, but don’t overdo it. Again, it could be a date, but don’t expect this to be one. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 04:44 PM |
| 5 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightI just tell them I like to do things on my own all the time, and going out is one of them. I tell them I love solo traveling, spending time by myself, but I also love meeting new people, which is why I’m there that night too. I also could say it was something I didn’t plan that night, but better to be outside than bored at home… and that I love spontaneous things and some of the best memories I’ve ever made were product of last minute - and maybe stupid :) - decisions. Always with confidence and… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:50 PM |
| 4 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightThe social experiment thing you said is so real haha. It does feel like that. Some people are super easy to talk to… and others look like they don’t vibe with “strangers” at all. Whatever it is, I think the key is to never take the outcome personal. They don’t even know you! | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 9 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightNgl the first time I ever did it (half a year ago) I was scared shitless. But bro it’s all in your head. Go to the club and you’ll see men in big groups just standing up and doing nothing. Everyone’s thinking about themselves and how “stupid” they look (they don’t, it’s just overthinking). No one cares. Even if you’re alone and struggle, embrace it. It grows balls. Makes you feel alive. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 11:09 AM |
| 5 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightMy favorite opener for groups of girls is… “Hey you all look like you are having the most fun tonight, I wanna meet you” Or you just talk to the girl you like and say… “I love your - piece of clothing - I was gonna wear the same one tonight actually, but I have it in pink. You think I could’ve pulled it off?” Also… I love this one and it’s kinda bullshit but they all seem to love it… Once you are into the first couple of mins of conversation, you can ask them. “Are you foreign by any chance? You… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 10:54 AM |
| 6 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightKeep it up brother, I’m just going out looking to enjoy some conversations and dance a bit. No expectations on getting a girl, but I will try regardless (it’s fun, why not?). Less expectations -> less pressure on you -> more focus on having a good night :) | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Going out solo & sober tonightI did! | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Probability that girls in the range of 5-7 would be interested in me.Yes. Have good standards. I get rejected more because I shoot high. But also take care of yourself… no attractive woman that has their shit together wants to be with a loser. The question is… Would you date yourself if you were a woman? | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Probability that girls in the range of 5-7 would be interested in me.Have good standards. I get rejected more because I shoot high. But also take care of yourself… no attractive woman that has their shit together wants to be with a loser. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Are premium dating app subscriptions worth it?A long time ago I paid for Tinder Platinum (when it wasn’t even close to as expensive as it is right now) for several months and the difference was pretty crazy for me, then I think the app assumed I was “dependent on it” and nerfed it lol. It does not make girls swipe right on you more (duh), it just exposes you to those faster. It’s kinda embarrassing and my friends laugh when I tell them, but when they find out I got with like 20 girls thanks to it (which costed way less than drinks and a nig… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:07 PM |
| 22 | What are some of your go-to witty remarks?the autism on these responses is crazy | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | 6 Dates In: A Humbling ExperienceWell said. I love going on dates because it lets me share life stories and listen to others’ while flirting (which makes it even more fun). I went from thinking “I hope she likes me” to “I hope I have fun tonight” ;) this makes you outcome-independent too and that helps with potential rejection. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Should I have approached?the amount of bad advice on this sub is crazy sometimes. thankgod the eventual great advice makes up for it | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 04:08 PM |
| -3 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)“target” 😭 this sub rly speaks like we’re all autistic sometimes | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:28 PM |
| 66 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsGood shit for shooting your shot. Social calibration and knowing when to leave and accept the rejection is important. Lots of women say to leave them alone and that they hate it when men “interrupt” their day to talk to them, but it’s because many men can’t read a room or are not respectful. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Asking Girls Out Randomly Can Sometimes Be The Only Way?Tips on approaching? Don’t overthink shit. (PSA: Everyone on this sub overthinks everything) Go on your day and make small talk to strangers whenever you have the chance, anything from “How’s it going” to “I like your shirt”. Builds momentum and while it’s not necessary, it really helps especially for introverts. When you see someone you like, if you dont know what to say just tell her a genuine compliment. She’ll smile and say thanks, and you can just ask for her name / where she’s from / basic… | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Bootcamp adviceI’ve never done and would never do / would’ve never done one of these. They are typically expensive and I’d rather figure shit out on my own and challenge myself. (I’m at the point of my life where I don’t need this shit either lol, my game is decent now) However, when traveling I met one guy that fits all the conditions of being a “pick up artist” (ha). We became friends before I knew he did this as a side hustle and we went out a few times. His game was incredibly sharp and the way he explaine… | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 02:27 PM |
| -11 | MILF/Cougar bar in NYC?Find god | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:28 PM |
| 3 | First time getting hit on while walking down the streetEven better! That means you care about your appearance nice brother | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 12:16 PM |
| 30 | First time getting hit on while walking down the streetIt’s funny how us men remember every time a stranger girl asked for our number… And for girls it’s just whatever haha | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 04:57 AM |
| 49 | Should i cold approach if i am overweight?Stop calling it “cold approach”. Call it “being social”. You could be very attractive and go up to a girl and still get rejected. There’s so many things involved it’s not even worth thinking about. Work on yourself, improve all aspects of your life, and “be social” and go talk to those people you’re interested in. Don’t overthink the outcome, get used to rejection, and keep living your life. Also props to you for losing the weight. Work hard and keep going 💪 | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Pulled 2 friends numbersNice bro. You’re wild for making plans with two friends hahahah hope it works out for you and you end up having fun | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Any one think a date goes well but gets ghosted anyway?It happens. You never take it personal, you two just met for a few hours and there’s a million reasons. However it’s always good to go back and think what you could’ve done better regardless of the outcome :) you could’ve had the “perfect” date and still end up ghosted. It’s how it all works, when you realize it’s for the better because you two were most likely not meant for each other then it doesn’t hurt at all | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Going to do my first cold approaches tomorrowNice brother. Expect rejection and get used to it. Great that you’re taking steps to improve yourself | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:21 AM |
| 5 | How is the dating scene in Eastern European countries for Latino/Black guys?Im latino currently inter railing around part of Central/Eastern Europe. I’ve been getting positive experiences with girls my age, way better than where I live (US/South America). Older people though, they can look at you weird or act very rude for no reason sometimes (racism). It’ll get worse the more rural you go (I haven’t done that) Girls are way more attractive, feminine and traditional and they won’t do one night stands (which I love). Again, it’s even worse in the country side thats what … | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What day (and time) of the week do you think is better to set a date? If possible, of course.This is mostly overthinking… but… first date: tuesday or thursday (avoid weekends or “busy” days). 2nd+ date: any day | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 09:54 PM |
| 8 | Is it normal to never get over a major fumble?Jesus no it ain’t normal. This girl was desperate, she would’ve probably ghosted you even if you got with her. Move on. To make you feel better: Years ago I finally got a date with my “crush”. We had to go back to my room to pick something up and she had no problem with it. We went there and she was sitting on my bed for a while, all happy… I (stupidly) completely ignored that and said let’s go for a walk... We went to a parking garage, walked all the way up to the 6th level. Beautiful city view… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 11:55 PM |
| 49 | Have you ever regretted going for the kissi’ve only regretted not doing it. even if you do it and fail it’s not even awkward if you don’t make it awkward, but you gotta read the room too (if there’s zero connection and the date is going pretty bad i don’t make a move. gotta have standards too) | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 8 | A cold approach purpose is to seduce them, not to get their number in less than 1 minute and then complain that your text game sucks.This is exactly why I don’t even ask for the number after the interaction and just say goodbye if these two check out: 1) Conversation didn’t have chemistry 2) It was shorter than 5 minutes | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 03:27 PM |
| 9 | What's your advice on how to have an attractive Instagram profile?Stop overthinking this shit. Just post good quality photos of you doing cool shit and being social. Takes < 10 min to take a good picture of you. Show a good lifestyle with hobbies, travel, education, sports, social life. Keep bio and post captions short. And engineering is hot (I’m an engineer) | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Why you should record your infield footage and upload them to YouTubeI know you do. I spent too much time on Reddit today and went over some of your posts. You treat women like objects on many of them and over analyze everything you do and treat it all like complex science and it’s pretty embarrassing. I understand we all love pickup and this is a hobby for many of us, but the way you write some things looks fucked up and creepy. Just my opinion. Also, if you are eager to record your interactions use a mic. If you use video, at least blur their faces, hide person… | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Why you should record your infield footage and upload them to YouTubebro i recommend you not to make pickup your entire life (it kinda looks like it and its a bit embarrassing,) I hope im wrong but to each their own. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Why you should record your infield footage and upload them to YouTubedon’t record girls outside without their consent | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | "You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this?you’re right. these people overthink every word that comes out of your mouth. i hate it when they treat it like super complicated science dude | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 03:09 PM |
| 4 | First night out in JapanCan’t a man just have some quick fun with a girl then leave to continue meeting other people and let preselection kick in? What happened to the abundance mentality this sub roots for? Ever heard of logistics? (I bet you did since y’all seem so active on this sub) My man is in another country, having fun, exploring, and letting go. It looks like many men get attacked by the fact that other men get approached by other girls. They either invalidate the opinion because the man “is probably attractiv… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went goodwe’re currently fwb lol. don’t know how long it’ll last but been a good time | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | easily jealous of other guys who get a lot of women.This applies to life in general and it’s helpful. No matter what you do, there will always be someone that is or SEEMS (many times it’s all in your head) to be better than you at it. Could be work, a sport, pickup, a certain skill, etc. If you keep comparing yourself to other people then that will make you unhappy. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 32 | easily jealous of other guys who get a lot of women.No matter how badass you think you are, there is always a bigger badass than you out there. Always. Make friends with them, learn from them, and only compare yourself with the person you were yesterday. For me, this has been key to feel more happy every day. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 02:30 AM |
| 26 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went goodIt’s tough brother I know. Learn to enjoy time by yourself through hobbies and practice self-development, but also leave some time to get out there and try to socialize for the sake of it. ALWAYS keep in mind that once you find that first good friend or that first girl you like then all the previous failed attempts won’t matter and will have been worth it. One genuine, good friend is worth a million acquaintances/strangers, and it can really take a lot of time/effort to find someone like that. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 07:36 PM |
| 18 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went goodI only did it once but my mindset was that I wasn’t going out to pick up women, make friends, or anything. I went out strictly to dance and talk to strangers with no specific purpose (as someone that was very introverted in the past, I really enjoy this!). If you’re good looking you can go to a club where you enjoy the music, go to the dance floor and find that group of crazy dudes just jumping and having a blast with no women (there is always one group like this). Dance near them, wait for a go… | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 07:24 PM |
| 39 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went goodYeah most of it. at some point I thought they wanted to use me for drinks as I got a shot for each of us eventually and they kept asking for some more. Got sick of that and straight told them I’m not buying a second one (Im in college, I value my $), they got upset which I found stupid so I left to another part of the club. They came back to me lol. It was fun to be with them it helped that they were social, we were dancing, smiling and having fun and when you do that other people join you too | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 06:55 PM |
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