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Resourcesbrutusdidnothinwrong/r/seduction02/05/20 05:36 AM
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Bro I've never had sales calls where I felt deeply connected to the other person but I do all the time with dating Careful of the frameworks you adopt
/r/seduction18/04/23 06:55 PM
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The most important part is once negative motivators have served you, let it go
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:20 AM
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😂😂
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:37 PM
0

Look a bit butthurt? If someone feels like blocking her theyre definitly butthurt
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:37 PM
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Why never text her again? Be open to it You don't know why she's not answering. Don't throw out the possibility she's interested just slow to get back to you for some reason
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:35 PM
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You don't intend to get their opinion on something, you want to be man-to-woman with her
/r/seduction22/07/20 03:28 AM
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no-tomfoolery? Sounds like a lot of tomfoolery with no intent/premise
/r/seduction22/07/20 03:27 AM
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there are hundreds of reasons nowadays why people dont have real friends none of them account for having 0 friends. Having 1+ friends is a normal thing. At least once. Otherwise it is in fact weird. Human being are social by nature. That said, no shame. Just keep working to be better and it'll happen
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:40 PM
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didn't wanna come off as a boring dude. Yo good on you for taking the risk!!! That's HUGE because now you can learn from it!
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:39 PM
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Good point. If it flows naturally and he's not shit talking I bet its less concerning though?
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:39 PM
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Ah and being the first one to bring it up is big as well. You normalize it and she doesn't want to be the first
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:38 PM
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Start with tone of voice, eye contact. You can talk about previous partners and then ease into it as if it's not a big deal and just another talking point
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:37 PM
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On our way back to my house and I asked her if she even remembered my name and she stumbled and surprisingly didn't know and I said I remember yours and she felt dumb. /u/PowerfulBlaze bro you didnt just make her feel dumb, you shamed her. Asking that is almost always best followed by "I also forgot your name, why don't we restart" or something taking the pressure off them
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:36 PM
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Apps work less but take less time In-person works more but takes more time
/r/seduction19/12/19 04:42 PM
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Well those are your weak points maybe but what are your strengths? Reply to my comment with 3 of them
/r/seduction17/12/19 06:43 PM
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That sounds like it could be pulled off very well. In fact I might try that. Any other dg stuff you do to escalate/spike early?
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:56 PM
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You get to know if she is attracted to you and you stop yourself from wasting time Say it to someone you've talked to for 1 minute and they might polarize to a hard no that you can't recover from. Or you could say it to them after a few hours of being around them and after isolating and they'll say yes please do. If you pull the trigger too early or just polarize before she's ready then you've lost an opportunity
/r/seduction18/11/19 09:02 PM
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eh the ideas differ quite a bit between RSD (and ex RSD) instructors from what I've seen. The truth lies between the extremes of biological determinism and everything is socially constructed/everyone's unique
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:25 AM
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Its also called a congruence test. When someone overtly or most often subtly challenges you. A theory of attraction is that feminine girls and masculine men are attracted to eachother. Poking at your social, psychological, etc "armour" is her way of seeing if youre really the great strong masculine guy you might present yourself as
/r/seduction04/11/19 06:54 PM
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The by myesterious thing is stupid though Its funny but no way that convo wouldnt have happened like that IRL
/r/seduction03/11/19 10:13 PM
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Im curious
/r/seduction03/11/19 09:04 PM
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Ah ok fair enough. The low investment might also show her willingness to flake. Either way its no big deal unless youre overly invested
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:24 PM
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Who wouldve thought improving your relatio ships could lead to marriage
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:23 PM
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Did you know she worked at 4pm when you picked 2 or was there a reason it couldnt be earlier?
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:20 PM
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Rsd also says women enjoy sex so without any social presssure with a dude in her bed why wouldnt be be down?
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:19 PM
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Did you pick the time and left it to her to say yes or no to 2pm? You could do a softer close and set the day and later ask her what time is best for her
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:17 PM
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Canada /s
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:13 PM
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Is it the first time? If so Id say give her the benefit of the doubt and reschedule Picking 2pm for a date with her work at 4 is really not great. She has to be thrre before 4 most likely and then travel means you might have a very short date. Aim for a better time
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:12 PM
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I don't really dig that article of clothing but you pull it off"
/r/seduction02/11/19 03:12 AM
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Turn on captions?
/r/seduction02/11/19 03:10 AM
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Kiss her in front of him
/r/seduction29/08/19 11:41 PM
0

magnum is a condom brand
/r/seduction27/08/19 05:44 PM
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Focusing on technique might stifle your vibe though
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:04 PM
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Lie in a certain way
/r/seduction12/08/19 09:46 PM
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On the flipside, RSD Tyler is critical of "technique game" and has gone much further into spirituality and self-help where you supposedly stop trying to be a certain way and become that way
/r/seduction10/08/19 07:37 PM
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Not if it's coming from a needy place and/or is forced
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:21 PM
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fuck lmaooooo
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:21 PM
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ding ding ding
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:41 PM
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Instead of be yourself I like to say, be your *best* self
/r/seduction26/06/19 05:37 PM
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I haven't. The principle still applies even if you get a really really shitty hand of cards
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:38 PM
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How about this: I had been flirting with someone and she's interested. I was on a date walking in a park holding hands with a girl and that girl saw me with the date. Later on the girl I've been flirting with was extremely receptive and initiated to make things happen. It can be social proof. It could also be scandalous if you let it be.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:37 PM
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If you can't fix it, embrace it. Joke about it, wear it on the surface, say it makes you more attainable. People conform to your version of reality: if you are confident and make it seems perfectly normal, other's will feel like it's perfectly normal.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:34 PM
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Sure it'll teach discipline if you force it, which you do at the start, but for vitality it really helps if you're intrinsically motivated and not just disciplined and swimming against the tide of your passions
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:32 PM
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Maybe they have stronger passions outside of gym-ing
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:22 PM
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It's about being your best self. Bring out the best, burn away the worst. And because people aren't static over time, work to amplify the best in you. ​ If you can't fix it (say, autism) then incorporate and own it freely.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:20 PM
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Repeat after me: creepiness isn't caused by what you say, but how you say it
/r/seduction13/06/19 11:40 PM
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If I was the girl everything before and after this is wrong
/r/seduction13/06/19 11:31 PM
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Don't focus to much on what to say, how to say it etc. this! You can't fake confident either, how you say anything will show your true self
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:13 PM
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Also just be manly ab stuff (sports cars muscle sex) horrible advice
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:12 PM
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Don't do pet names no absolute rule when it comes to stuff like that. If its playful and fits the social setting then try it out
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:11 PM
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Jesus. Fix your bio and pictures...
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:14 AM
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If it were a trap it would be gay 🤔
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:14 AM
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healthy family relationships aren't unattractive. Also it could be done in a cute way
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:09 AM
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Girls like guys who have the same level of confidence in themselves as they do. ​ Or more ​
/r/seduction08/01/19 01:34 AM
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Keep busy doing the things that made you happy previously. this!
/r/seduction07/01/19 08:47 PM
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Focus on yourself. If you stick to your hobbies, sleep schedule, healthy diet (if you have one), workout schedule, studies without compromising them for her you're respecting yourself and she will respect you more for it.
/r/seduction07/01/19 08:44 PM
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idk man certainly more insecure ppl get more intimidated the more gorgeous/classy a girl is...
/r/seduction04/01/19 07:34 PM
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"Why are you looking at me like that? Do you want to harvest my organs for the black market?"
/r/seduction03/01/19 07:30 PM
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"no homo"
/r/seduction03/01/19 07:30 PM
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I might add, smile if you feel like it. An honest neutral might resonate better than a plastic smile
/r/seduction03/01/19 07:29 PM
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Models comes to mind. He said he had some girl freak out at him when he approach her and touched her arm. He said in his more mature perspective now he wouldve just laughed and walked away
/r/seduction03/01/19 01:32 AM
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You're just meeting her where she's at. Why are you levelling yourself with a low energy person and not to the person you want to be tomorrow?
/r/seduction03/01/19 01:29 AM
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There's definitely enough confident guys and creeps to keep her busy. But yea if she cares about looks on her 'level' then there's a smaller pool of compatible people
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:35 PM
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Until you're around someone that's actually acting out what depression means. The experience of it isnt trendy
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:28 AM
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telling a girl things like "I want to kiss you right now", "I miss you", etc show a type of weakness and neediness that girls - while they may find gratifying in the short term - ultimately end up unattracted by as a result Until she's emotionally invested in you...
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:33 PM
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B R U T E
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:17 PM
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What if OP doesn't go to the University of Rome?
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:59 PM
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xDDDDD
/r/seduction20/12/18 12:47 AM
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dated this is a loose word
/r/seduction20/12/18 12:46 AM
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He's a /r/madlad
/r/seduction20/12/18 12:46 AM
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>I really don't know why she chose him over me and to be honest I don't really care. She chose him over people on her radar. Were you on her radar? If not don't even compare yourself to him
/r/seduction20/12/18 12:45 AM
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atleast I don’t look like a potato I loled
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:46 PM
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agree and amplify. or plow through and completely ignore it
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:44 PM
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or "I appeal to you"
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:44 PM
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That kind of stuff ends up in 4chan greentext cringe stories
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:43 PM
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just being myself hasn't worked out all that great in the past few years "Being yourself" means aligning your honest desires and convictions with action. Being nervous or stumbling over your words in a way that dis-aligns your actions from your desires is not being yourself
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:55 AM
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Nice
/r/seduction10/11/18 08:17 PM
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"the most" is where you get downvotes. There's a lot of ways of respecting someome. Sometimes thats giving them distance
/r/seduction10/11/18 08:14 PM
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Most PU content is just self help
/r/seduction10/11/18 08:07 PM
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Its because it reflects a firm confidence in ones boundaries or needs that doesn't compromise for others. That is strength in a sense but selfishness as in being a str8 up dick isnt cool
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:16 AM
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if she is now getting in the way of you meeting other women, you have to distance yourself from her immediately. To be fair, unless OP wants the friendship but it sounds like he's not interested in that
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:23 PM
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Yea its Thursday lol my sex life isn't even in the top 3 'lives' I care about
/r/seduction17/08/18 04:45 AM
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You're either reaching or you're settling. If you're the one settling, you lose interest. -/u/RandomBrowsingToday he said it best
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:28 PM
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Ahh I see. Thanks
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:19 PM
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What do you mean objective?
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:58 PM
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Well only if you want to continue with them, I assume?
/r/seduction12/08/18 01:37 AM
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I get what you and /u/fighterzacc are talking about and recently I had an interesting experience. The first half of the night felt like I was floating around, being unsocial, no progress, I was stiff with dancing, I wasn't really feeling the music and just fell back on my friends. Then halfway through the night everything changed. A new DJ went on and I started enjoying the music, let loose a little and danced for fun. Once I started having fun everything clicked and even some rejections were wh…
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:03 AM
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I'd think you come across pretty awkward if you get a bunch of rejections from approaching and you're sitting there solo. I've been in that kind of scenario but if the bar/club is big enough or busy enough you just go back into the mass of people, no need to "sit" either physically or in terms of your mindset
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:56 AM
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Thank you for this! Reading about the concepts in actions really helps 🙌
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:17 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:09 AM
1

What does FR mean?
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:08 PM
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Or shes just internally conflicted about her boyfriend and OP brings those insecurities to the surface
/r/seduction02/08/18 03:50 PM
20

I can only agree that at least 1 of those pixels is unattractive
/r/seduction02/08/18 03:46 PM
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idk man
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:45 AM
-5

So... people are selective and everyone is aware of that? No need to generalize genders around that
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:42 AM
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If youre on a bus where people dont really talk or in other circumstances where you might not expect ppl to hit on eachother be like Hey this is kind of random but you're really pretty, whats your name?
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:39 AM
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If a girl showed a speck of interest in me I’d take it from there But surely you would evaluate whether or not you're interested in them. That is what the top commenter is focused on and thats often what guys get hung up on with approaching girls (what does she think of me???)
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:38 AM
1

Honest flattery is a good idea
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:36 AM
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Flattery is probably the safest and (when honest) easiest way to get a guy interested. /u/Thenewghost gives good advice.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:36 AM
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wut
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:53 PM
3

Who??
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:43 PM
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Look its Jeff Bezos!
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:19 PM
2

It likely boils down to knowing what to expect from someone. Is someone sketchy looking? avoid. Is someone friendly looking? no need to avoid. Is someone ambiguous? be uncertain
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:18 PM
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Have a conversation and feel out if theyre interested. Idk flirt lightly see if they reciprocate instead of straight up asking
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:30 AM
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This isn't a bad idea. It'd be hard to assume much from just "Im busy, maybe next week" so to keep talking and ask again or find out more in a round about way would let you flush it out.
/r/seduction03/07/18 10:52 PM
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