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If a woman has sex with the same guy a 100 times, for an hour each time, sometimes multiple times in one session, n she never comes close to orgasming once ... who is she gonna say is at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:40 PM
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Lets not throw the "holier than thou" card around n act like misandry isnt at an all time high right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:22 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:09 AM
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Proof ???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:11 AM
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Ppl gotta learn how to siphon info and reject what doesnt apply to you. What ive taken from the red pill space is: focus on urself, build ur own value, dont prioritize women and when uve put in enough work, some women will take notice n wont play games with u. N even if they do play games, quickly kick em to the curb n move on. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:04 AM
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Ur right but theres always more than one way to skin a cat. U do have "good guys" that get played, cheated on rejected n eventually, enough of em turn to the dark side n become a sith lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:59 AM
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BOTH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 AM
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A woman could be the finest gal on gods green earth but if she got a nasty attitude or super combative or stubborn like a horse, shes a 0/10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:31 PM
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i mean, "a need" and "a want" are two different things and i find it sad that a lot of ppl quantify a relationship as "a need". thats just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:27 AM
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you cant survive without oxygen and water. you can survive if youve never had sex or been in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:49 AM
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Yea there are definitely people who neglect their friends to spend time with a partner, especially when it never works out and they keep chasing that new relationship energy Its not so much neglect of friends, thats one side to it. Its more so = this new girlfriend or boyfriend, who they just met n started dating a week ago, now becomes the sun of their universe and every part of their life now revolves around them. But it's totally different from saying "women will never be interested in you if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:33 PM
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Becuz at diff times iml, ive been rly gud friends with ppl who are like that fr. Whenever u spend time hanging, the convos is ALWAYS about who they like, who likes them, who theyre talking to now, how badly they wanna be in a relationship but cant find a person despite talking to a few interested ppl. Whenever i change topics, it eventually goes back to "so guess what happened between me and so so". Ppl like that, we eventually drift apart or i'll cut off becuz they'll finally get a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:59 PM
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Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:18 PM
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For most people, the definition of having a fulfilling life involves having a partner You are absolutely correct and therein lies the paradox: u shud be able to live a fullfilling life without a partner but to many ppl, having a partner is the only way to live a fullfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:06 PM
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A LOT OF PPL absolutely believe, at the bottom of their hearts, a relationship will 100% solve all their lifes problems n bring them a lvl of happiness that nothing else in this world will. I am not one of those ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:03 PM
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Id still rather be happy n end up never needing a partner, than to have to need a partner just to obtain a happines i couldnt attain alone. Then if my partner leaves, now im broken until i find another partner to replace n make me feel whole n happy again. Yeah im not interested in living my life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:01 PM
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"Love me for who i am" does not exist unless its your mom or you loving yourself. The instant you lose whatever made u stand out or attractive to women, she may stick it out for a while but eventually she'll abandon ship and monkey branch to the next best option. This behavior is ingrained in womens dna for survival. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:53 PM
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I agreee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:21 AM
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Fixation on height preference is definitely a western part of the world thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:51 AM
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Oh cool. Where from? Be different and start up the trend then. I thought faded ripped jeans was something new back in high school til my mom told me she wore those back in the 70s. Styles are always in and out and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:33 AM
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Its been 90 degrees every day in my country since summer started, of course i am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:22 AM
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Why aren't you dressing like the cast of Peaky Blinders? Been hearing a lot about that show lately. Maybe i should watch n see what all the hype is about If you want to join a FLDS cult where women are made to wear drab floor length dresses or go to Afghanistan where they are all forced to wear burkas, nobody is stopping you Of course youre gonna go with the most extreme of examples lol. Not even i would feel right having my wife be THAT covered up especially on a hot summer day. And fashion has…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:13 AM
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Yeah becuz surfers are dressing in a full wardrobe to be more aerodynamic in the water 😐 Obviously swimwear is more revealing and socially acceptable AT the beach. But why do some women need to look like theyre going to the beach but strolling around in public. Lets not be dumb n pretend like the dress code for women in general is more revealing now than its ever before as compared with dress codes for the last 50 -100 years. For example: Less and less material is used now for womens clothes. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:03 PM
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Im not your "bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:26 PM
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This all can be boiled down into one simple phrase: Women want to have their cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:23 PM
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Jesus, you are the very definition of "start a fight then go run and tell the teacher the other person hit you first". Please stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:48 PM
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Imagine saying this while in r/purplepilldebate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:45 PM
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I dont think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:25 PM
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In the courtship phase they woulda gone on dates once a week every other week or once every month. They was not going on dates every single day. Dont be ridiculous. The wife and children are secured financially. Better than running around after baby daddy for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:22 PM
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What you said doesn’t contradict what I said Ok presumes every man wants a modest women Definitely not every, but most men do want their wives/mother of their children to not be like a kim kardashian
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:07 AM
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Im not sure what that has to do with choosing to date a woman who has history with many guys vs choosing to date a woman with some history with a few guys. Theres no positive trait that can equally level something like being able to google old images/videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:54 AM
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Cest la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:44 AM
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U say most ppl follow this train of thought but yet passed around women get chosen everyday. Simping is at an all time high and OF girls still hitting licks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:08 AM
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Nothing wrong with women having sex whenever and however they consent But youll be judged pretty fucking hard by society for having a lot of it with a lot of ppl. Eating too much = bad Drinking too much = bad Smoking too much = bad Anything too much = bad Having too much sex = its always nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:04 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:55 AM
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Not tryna start a war but sleeping around is not the sole qualifier for promiscuity. Constantly taking scantilly cladded pictures counts as promiscous behavior. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:52 AM
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Curves all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:02 AM
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Im mad that this jonah hill thing is even a thing. Its amazing to me how so much ppl care about this. But its more idiotic to me how guys will meet an ig girl through her doing her ig girl thing but then want her to change after they get her. Attention for these type of girls is like a drug to them and relationship is like entering a rehab center. Whats the recovery rate for addiction again? ... low. Same thing goes for women who like to sexually explore options. Theres a study that shows the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:52 AM
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OP shot themself in the foot by saying "men have more preselect bias than women" but then a few sentences later say "men find an array of women attractive i.e. tall, slim, short, chubby etc." Men being able to find a large variety of different women attractive to partner with is the exact opposite to the nature of preselect bias. No matter what study is done, itll aways show that women are far more pickier than men when selecting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:09 PM
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They aren't even thinking about their children To me this the saddest part. Children suffer for decisions they didnt even make.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:02 PM
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short men date short women further creating more shorter people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:00 PM
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Youre stating your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:32 PM
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If were married, no. If we arent married, hell yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:16 PM
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Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:15 PM
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Dude, pick a side for cripes sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:20 PM
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Do men really struggle with dating? Every guy I know has a girlfriend or wife. In other words, me and everyone i know eats 3 meals per day. Do ppl really go hungry? Does world hunger really exist in other countries. Smdh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:06 AM
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And thats not what ive seen. What ive seen is when u do part (a) correctly and build yourself up as man, you take good care of yourself, you become an asset to society, you own resources, you build a reputation... u wont have a second in your day to waste on manipulating a woman becuz just like how groupies stalk celebrities in every city, women will notice you or hear about you. The red pill also warns guys about wifing up hoes or girls with a hoe past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:49 AM
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The red pill isnt vague or impossible. Speak for yourself and say that you are confused about it and dont understand it. Rollo Tomassi is very well known as the father of the red pill ideology, and he wrote a book on it thats widely available for anyone to purchase or read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:13 AM
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All the red pill teachings ive ever seen or read was boiled down to two things: a) become the best most successful version of yourself so that ppl chase you, you dont chase ppl b) understand how female nature works so that women dont use you or you waste your time/money on them and they kick you to the curb in the name of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:05 AM
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It's like saying that someone is starving, even though they're repeatedly invited to all-you-can-eat buffets, their meal is paid for, except they just take 2-3 bites off a plate before walking out But ppl do walk out of buffets, didnt eat anything and then say there wasnt no good food available. If you dont want spicy, sweet or salty food thats fine by your preference but dont say "there wasnt no good food at all" - which is the only part that crosses the line into incel territory. I agree with …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:31 AM
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In my opinion going on multiple dates and breaking it off before a committed relationship starts I would still say it depends why theyre breaking it off. Becuz if ur dating people but finding a fault with every single person (which every person has a fault) and constantly putting the fault on the opposite sex, to me that would count as incel behavior. nowadays incel is basically just a buzzword to insult and shame someone and get them to either shut up or derail the conversation, so yeah Exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:06 PM
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Youre using the word "incel" and you have no idea what it means or ALL the factors that makes a person an incel. Any person who has went a long time without a relationship involuntarily is also a qualifier to be called an incel. Its not limited to only virgins. Women can also be incels too becuz going on many dates but cant get the guy to commit and then go online and say "all men are bad blah blah blah, id rather still single until i die than settle" is the same exact attitude that women accuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:21 PM
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Example: if im in a relationship for 10 years, we lived together, we break up, we move out and im single for the next 5 years unsuccessfully and i go "all women are bad blah blah blah .... Its the same fucking situation as being married for 10 years, divorced and then bitter and jaded towards all men after a string of bad dates. A man doesnt need to be a virgin to be considered an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:10 PM
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I assume these femcels, much like the incels, are young and inexperienced and will eventually grow out of it. No try r/datingoverforty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:49 PM
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Always gotta be one you of guys in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:43 PM
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Guys can happily live in a shack on the mountains The shack is only a front for hiding the secret batcave lair underground with all the expensive toys and gagdets 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:42 PM
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Yeah capitalism is everyones friendly neighborhood spiderman until a big multi corp dilutes a product with a harmful cancer causing agent to make more money in sales but at the cost of your health. Then you gotta burn thru your lifes savings at their ultra expensive hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:32 PM
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Sexual revolution would also empower and grow the porn industry and lead to prostitution becoming "legal".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:25 PM
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I find it humorous that you'd link the two given sex is one of the few things not legally traded Then explain instagram, strip clubs, onlyfans and websites for escorts = all which i can access sex in exchange for money. "Prostitution" in word only is whats illegal, but lets not be dumb like sliding in a girls dm and offering her a Dubai shopping trip in exchange for sex isnt the same thing as prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:22 PM
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but the dating market isn’t the same as the sexual revolution Its movements such as the sexual revolution and feminism waves that have affected and shaped womens behaviors over the generations that contributed to how shitty modern dating is now. As of 2023 around 60% or more of men have completely checked out of dating. There are actual websites now for women to check and see if theyre dating the same guy by posting their bfs pics. Monogamy in the west is on life support and polygamy is rising -…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:16 PM
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Whats the purpose of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:12 AM
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Shoot for the moon so even if you miss, you land on a star.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:46 PM
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I’d even go as far as to say that the lesser attractive woman will resent you more as she will know that she settled Dont you mean that she will know "you" settled for her becuz she wasnt the first option? Regardless, i hate this word "settled" and wish it would be erased from dating terminology. Choosing options within your max:min range is not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:45 PM
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This year i added 2 new red flag traits to my 'do not date ever' list: Women with multiple body piercings (including more than 1 ear piercing on each ear) Women with tattoos (even if its a tiny one always hidden under clothes) As a guy with no piercings and no tattoos, ive realized in retrospect that the last few women ive tried dating and failed, they all had tattoos and multiple piercings. It cant be coincidence their relationship beliefs also aligned on the liberal side aka i want a man but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:22 PM
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Uh wut??? What guy on earth period doesnt want free sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:34 AM
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Im guessn they didnt read all the posts in the pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:32 AM
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This is nothing new tho... a lot of women lie. Redddit is so left wing its ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:31 AM
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If you really do live like that when you log off reddit, i commend you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 04:46 PM
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You do realize for most of human history, ppl courted for marriage not dated for a limbo relationship hoping it leads to marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 04:43 PM
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A woman wanting the best she can get is not bad or negative except for men who cannot make the cut Wanting the best simply only becuz you exist, breathe air and based off your own personal assigned smv is delusional and unrealistic. Which is exactly my point and what i said verbatim. I stand firm on that. Dont twist my words to fuel your gender war.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 04:41 PM
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I mean my husband is just over 6 foot, runs an incredibly successful business, and is considered objectively attractive. He’s fun, funny, adventurous, and generous. He’s got a tech business but he’s still incredibly handy with home reno, cars, his motorcycles. He also comes from an incredible family and his parents are still together (major deal for me). Great. You got urself a hvm.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 04:34 PM
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You need to remember that every woman is going to have a different definition of high value. It's more like "high value within my social sphere". Yeah what women doesnt think that hv means 6 foot, 6 figure salary, social status in real life and good looks. Theyre all be correct for thinking that too. Something that is rare is high value. You say this in an incredibly dismissive way The truth is always unflattering, ugly, not nice and dismissive isnt it? 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 02:24 PM
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Because thats what modern society and social media has done to impressionable women.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 01:25 PM
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I’m guessing you’re around other people in their 20s and that’s mostly what they’re looking for Im guessn u dont know her best chances of finding someone to take her serious and marry her as a virgin would be a guy in his 20s. Men in their 30s-40s have become jaded by relationships or marriages at that point.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 01:22 PM
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You can even tell them you won’t be getting physical with anyone until you’re in a relationship Physical? Shes a virgin. Very few men that are used to getting continuous home base action would be willing to give that up and revert to settling for 2nd or 3rd base. She should be looking to get married not dating.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 01:17 PM
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Ive never heard about such a joke until just now when u said this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:05 PM
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If u wanna learn how to catch fish, dont ask other fish, ask a fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:20 PM
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OP absolutely meant "why do people go on dates relying on emotions to be their north on the compass when instead it should be common sense and logistics". For example: person im on date with has been in multiple 1 year long relationships showing signs of no stability but im still going to seriously pursue them for a committed long last lasting relationship just because i like them and i feel sparks being around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:56 PM
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How about you provide your evidence and studies to back up what youre saying because you seem to be very out of touch with dating in 2023. Its not surpising because this conversation is in your favor and you cant see your own dating priviledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:46 PM
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Why did this post topic become a conversation of underaged children. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:14 PM
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100% agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:21 PM
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"sadly" to there not being a solution other than the robots This. Because women are never gonna change. They have no reason to until a problem drastically affects their way of life but by then it'll be too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:10 PM
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Sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:05 PM
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If most women are gonna pursue monogamy then i see no problem with most men pursuing monogamy. However, thats not the problem. Most women are pursuing monogamy with a very small amount of men. Most men are single AND sexless. Most women are in situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:33 PM
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Lmao when a woman wears makeup that’s manipulation too. A push-up bra? Manipulation. Liposuction? Manipulation. When that girl that wants to get your attention tells you she loves your shirt? Manipulation. When she leans on your shoulder so you can smell her perfume and asks you to buy her a drink? Manipulation. When she wears that outfit that accentuates every curve and drives you wild? Manipulation. When you say and do things that give you and the other person what you both want? Mutual manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:46 PM
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You typed a whole wall of nothing except prove why its a waste of effort and energy approaching women. You literally explained how a lot of men, all ages approached you and youre still single while also proving you had to do absolutely nothing to receive that much attention = which is exactly why ive stopped seriously approaching women. All this does, is inflate ego's of average women like yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:14 AM
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And women will just have to accept from choosing the opposites of extremes. Marry a simp or marry a psychopath. Society seems to be going the same way, lets remove the middle class and take it back to ancient times = kings or peasants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:59 AM
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Telling her what she wants to hear in order to get what you want. This is called manipulation, not flirting. If that’s too hard for you then be happy with your dry dick The fact that you think a man's life cant be happily gratified unless his dick is in some girls vagina is a disgustingly sad outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:46 AM
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but females gotta know how to act though 100% agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:33 PM
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Yeah becuz going to a car dealer lot and picking whatever car u want to drive is sooo much harder than assembling a million parts together to build one car 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:40 PM
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The best answer on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:20 PM
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Men must learn and be good at a million and one things and all women have to do is look pretty and show up. Yeah, id rather spend my time being happy indulging in personal hobbies and making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:19 PM
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30 18-25
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:42 PM
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Point being he had many women despite telling other people otherwise Provide me a link to the scripture verse? Solomon never said that. Solomon was also the richest man in the bible too. He could have afforded those thousands of wives, you cant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:03 PM
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A man is still a man at the end of day, imperfect and will make mistakes. Women nag you to death until they get their way or you go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:45 PM
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I can tell you dont know anything about the bible. At the end of Solomons life, becuz he married so many foreign women - mostly for political reasons to expand territory and form alliances with nations and also why he didnt have wars with other countries during his reign over Israel - it brought him further away from his walk with God becuz he also built those women temples to worship their god's = a big no no in the ten commandments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:16 PM
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You like them at first, then 5 or 10 years go by and theyve changed and its like youre living with a completely different person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:04 AM
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I completely disagree. It becomes boring when you become boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:16 AM
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Even Solomon, the wisest man in the bible, says its better for a man to sleep on the roof of his house than safe inside with the company of a quarrelsome woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:15 AM
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Not really. It's stupid if you think someone is breaking in for one person to peel off alone. Most couples both wake up, both check their security system or grab a bat/weapon et cetera. The smartest thing to do to protect yourselves if someone breaks in is to leave the residence and call 911 anyway. Your particular situation does not mean men are a default 'head'. Im speaking from a real life actually happened experience... are you??? fine, I'm glad it worked out for you. Marriages among younger…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:11 AM
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Becuz when a thief or murderer breaks into our crib at the dead of night, im the one pitching up into action to kill or be killed - yes it has happened to me before and she cowered in fear behind me not knowing what to do while my instincts kicked in. Ppl talk tough until the real shit happens. I was born and raised with traditional values - something thats lost on this new confused ass generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:25 PM
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Hmmm. Im also not American and im not attracted to petite women. Im also not attracted to whales either. I look at chest to gut ratio. Most importantly shes also bending over not standing str8 up so of course more fat will show.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:44 PM
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No such thing as equals in a relationship. The man is the head and the woman is the neck supporting the head and in return the man protects her and provides for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:21 PM
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I remember the day the news broke for the first guy. I hope she gets life in prison. She lied str8 up that he was abusive to her until the evidence came out that she was physically abusive to him for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:03 PM
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Facts! 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:13 PM
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😐 Youre over exaggerating calling her fat. Besides do you not see those beautiful twin peaks. She has a 🤏🏾 of stomach but the chest to stomach ratio is still very favorable. If she also has a great personality too id easily be satisfied with wifing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:10 PM
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Good rating. Mine is: 7/10 5/10 1/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:00 PM
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Age aint ntn but a number as long as its over 21
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:47 AM
5

A is above average. B is average. C is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:18 AM
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Seems obvious but talk to a married couple you know and trust whose been married for at least a decade.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 03:21 PM
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Best answer on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:17 PM
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You said a whole lot of accusations but no proof
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:50 AM
2

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:48 PM
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What bills ??? Men in relationships dont pay bills too? Were not paying for our housing, car, food, loans, children (if any) and dating? We just out here living free and homeless while being taken care of by our girlfriends or wives. Bro, this is not an opinion... most men in our lifetimes, when in relationships or marriages, will disproportionately contribute more financially to women than inversely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:40 PM
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●60% of US women 18-29 are single. ●31% increase in the number of US single women 30-34 between 2007-2012. ●26% of US adults 18-32 are married. ●96% list “being independent” as their single most important life goal ●87% define success as being able to shape their own future ●68% say becoming a mom is a priority. ●50% say getting married is a priority. Women, when compared to men, spent most of their money on buying new homes, food, clothes, beauty and healthcare = all personal investments. 50-80…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:46 PM
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Very admirable. I hope you stay true to your word!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:17 AM
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A womans finance and education benefits only herself. When most men make money, they use it to take care of their family and build for the future/legacy. When most women make money, they use it on themselves and dont think about the longterm. Some women are wiser than most men with money but theyre the exceptions, not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:13 AM
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Only thing i agree with OP on is that its a far better look to be childless seeking marriage, than already with children seeking marriage. However, what shes not considering is that being a childless woman still isnt a huge enough incentive when the divorce rate in the west is above 50%. Shes still just as likely as any woman to hit the eject button after the wedding fever wears off and she popped out the children she wanted. The law will be on her side n reward her for breaking her vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:01 AM
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This is a trait that describes women, not men. Women marry up. Men marry down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:34 AM
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Women mostly file for divorce. Most times the government allows the woman to keep the house - even if she didnt build it or bought it, keep the children plus receive child support - sometimes even if the children is not biologically his, and recieve alimony just for being divorced. The ex husband is left broke, homeless, a mountain of debt, emotionally scarred and expected to rebuild his life all over again. Theres no incentive for men to marry women as of 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:33 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:14 PM
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I dont disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:18 AM
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There is something seriously wrong with getting in shape for the sole purpose of attracting a woman's attention - especially if you never cared to do so before. You should have already been in shape because you want to be healthier for yourself. Lets not pretend most men dont go to the gym to be healthy, they do it to look better for women. Muscles is a facade, no different from women who wear makeup. Cardio is actually more important than a muscular physique. Being healthy should be apart of ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:47 PM
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Change whats in your power to change, of course but keep expectations within reality and human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:18 PM
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Okay then fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:41 PM
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Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 either Read OP' post again and then re-examine everything youre saying. Theres actual stats and data that prove most women dont find most men attractive. This is not an opinion, this is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:39 PM
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What does unrealistic expections have to do with most women who are actually 5s and 6s but carry themselves like 8s and 9s so when average guys on their level approach them, they shun those guys off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:26 PM
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But, even though it's not a ticket to Yale in most cases, getting off drugs almost always offers at least some improvement to one's life, even if it does not solve all problems. That could be the takeaway from the story, even if the storyteller is oblivious. Completely missing the point. A diamond covered in mud was/will always be a diamond underneath but a regular rock thats covered in mud will still just be a regular rock no matter how much you try to shine it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:22 PM
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Im waiting too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:14 PM
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"How tall are you?" You can do every type of self-improvement you just named plus more under the sun but if youre a short guy (under 5'7"), it doesnt make one single difference to most women. The only two things that matter most to women are: height and wealth. If you got height, you dont need wealth. If you werent born with height, then get wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:53 PM
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Lol fair
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 01:35 AM
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Im not gonna lie but from the energy i get from your comment/replies, even if your man told you something, you'd still have a problem with it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 01:04 AM
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Yup, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 01:01 AM
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The person giving the lie or truth has absolutely nothing to do with the person's reaction to receiving the lie or truth. There's no nice way to tell the truth becuz the truth is never flattering or kind. Theres a reason why the saying "truth hurts" exists - becuz it does hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 12:23 AM
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Ask any average girl to rate herself... Her: I'm a 8-9/10 Most average women dont believe or see themselves as average. They believe theyre above average because social media created hyper-inflated ego's. Just like i'll never know what its like to give birth as a man, women will never know what its like to be an average man trying to woo an average girl who thinks shes above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:44 PM
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You make an excellent point and the irony here is that women still dont wanna talk about it lol. Its common knowledge now that its okay in society for women to have standards for men but if a man has the same standards for women then its misogyny. FnF/Whatever podcast is a panel of 2 guys and 10 women. Whats more red pill than seeing 10 women willingly reveal their own nature of how they think about men. And according to whose standard are podcasts like these not seen as red pill content - like …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/23 02:25 PM
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Long term > short term
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:37 AM
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Seriously. Average is the new ugly in today's era and it only applies to men. Theres nothing wrong with being average looking. How is it that the society we (our fathers and forefathers) built benefits everyone (women, children, elderly, domestic animals) else except us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:31 AM
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1 and 2 are passable. 3, 4 and 5 = Do not pass go. Go straight to jail!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:14 AM
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Her past doesnt matter if its just a hookup n im never gonna see her again. Her past absolutely matters when i gotta call her my wife, introduce her to my family/friends, having children with her and the whole world can see vids of her bussing it wide open on xvideos.com
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:19 PM
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Lol unfortunately i agree. Never enter into a contract with a person whose rewarded from breaking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:54 PM
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Aight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:37 PM
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Honestly, i feel like you answered the question. It doesnt need to exist. The negatives far outweigh the positives but its just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:25 PM
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Men get aroused by looking at a naked woman. Period. No straight man is aroused by another man's dick unless he's gay or bi. Porn is all about the woman not the man. Thats why actresses get paid 3x more than actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:39 PM
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Theres clearly an imbalance in the force
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 12:16 PM
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I feel like a lot of guys want women to act like wives without actually making them a wife first. I also feel like a lot of women pick guys who are not husband material to try to act like wives too. Its just as wide as it is deep.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:08 AM
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So your legitmate concern is a company not being able to profit off of a destructive and negative application? Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:54 AM
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Any women can have a high N count simply for possessing a vagina Truer words have never been spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:51 AM
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I agree, a slut is still a slut regardless of gender. However, women still line up around the block to sleep with slut guy so what does that say?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:49 AM
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What tf is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:40 AM
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Marry a sex worker or an adult actress. Seems right up your alley.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:10 AM
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When you said ups and downs, i thought you meant like seesaws of arguments and making ups. Sounds really more like u want him to be romantic to you every day as if yall are still in the dating phase.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 10:40 AM
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From your response, you absolutely implied paying a sex worker. Bro just stfu, stop trying to shame him and respect his honesty/decision to live his life the way he wants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:57 PM
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I said it before, i'll say it again... Most women have all the choosing power/dating options on men. Most men are single, most women are in situationships. Most women dont want most men but the irony is the few men they all want leaves those few men with 100% of dating options on women. Most men will continue being alone or settle for whatever woman comes their way. The average woman's ego is so entitled and hyper-inflated because of social media that it becomes a double edged sword. Just becuz …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 10:12 PM
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Nah wrong. Most women want relationships and most men want sex. The problem is most woment dont want most men, so the few men getting most women just enjoy the buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:17 AM
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Person A wants a relationship and person B just wants sex... so person A wants a banana and person B wants an apple. Two different things mate. An unripe banana will forever always turn into a ripe banana. Sex will never always turn into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:21 AM
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Who or what is symbolic for the banana?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:04 PM
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Because both nuns and monks live a better quality of life than most average men and women. Guided by righteous morals, beliefs and actively performing social duties everyday - cleaning, teaching, nurturing, socializing, volunteering etc. Compared to their existence, we (myself included) live a very stressful and shallow life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:54 PM
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Fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:41 PM
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No study data supports your claim. The more years you spend having sex, the longer you prolong your natural life for both men and women. Not having sex kills you quicker so yes you can die from not having sex. https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/men-have-longer-sex-life-expectancy-study-says-flna1c9443292 https://www.aarp.org/health/healthy-living/info-2017/health-benefits-regular-sex-fd/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:39 PM
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Youre not wrong but youre also not right. The very second she told him she wanted a relationship, and he said no, just sex... they immediately shoulda ended talks. Its not okay to keep romantically talking to a person knowing that they like you back and want more from you. Thats literally the definition of taking advantage of a persons feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:30 PM
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Most women want relationships but most women dont want most men. Therein lies the paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:22 PM
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I dont understand your analogy? Even if you got green bananas, theyre still bananas (not like you got apples) and theyre gonna ripen 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:16 PM
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No the problem is by not thinking that it is black and white because it is! If any person wants a relationship, stop leading/accepting sex as a gateway for a relationship. If any person wants just sex and their date says they want a relationship, dont be a scumbag and lie. We also need to be more realistic with our options. We're all not 10's or else we'd all be in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:14 PM
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But as long as you aren’t outright lying or deliberately misleading your intentions, I wouldn’t think you were a bad person. So you agree or dont agree? because this looks like your shooting some bail
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:57 PM
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It doesnt sound like im saying anything other than what i said... a single mom raising a fatherless son from infant to adult, has the greatest likelihood to enter the dating world exhibiting learned behaviors from his mother (who also sometimes immitated masculine behaviors in attempt to fill the fatherly role when needed). Any other deviation is just deflection.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 03:52 PM
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Use your brain and look at the data. A zebra cant teach a cub how to be a lion anymore than a single mom cant teach her son how to behave like a man.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 02:09 PM
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Fathers who were never there, women who purposefully pushed fathers from being present, fathers who played long distant roles, fathers who were there physically but disconnected mentally and emotionally... etc etc etc = all situations which creates feminine behaviors in men.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 03:36 PM
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Forgot the most important thing, ask him how he was raised from birth til 18: single mom and dad m.i.a = yup he's a straight man with feminine behaviors
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 01:56 PM
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That was a beautiful explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 02:38 PM
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Women are the only species in history that can have all of the dating options, and still blame men for being 100% at fault when it doesnt work out in the end. Your choice, your outcome. Zero accountability syndrome.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 04:21 AM
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So true and lol thats such a right wing mentality: "the problem will handle itself and go away on its own if i do nothing and ignore it". After justice for the children, the next issue should be fixing marriage, divorce and child support laws. We need to start normalizing families again. This independent mindset bullshit is outta hand.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 01:39 PM
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Dang thats true. Capitalism at its finest. Anything for the sake of profit, even if the world has to go up in flames from the view of their mansions, yachts and ferraris. But thats true, conservatives are like sheep and liberals are like zebras.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 01:22 PM
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But all of these social media platforms arent owned and ran by young adults, theyre just the consumers. All the ceos are middle aged. So by your explanation, these owners shouldve become more conservative by their 40's but we see the opposite happening. Young people hopping online, promoting leftism and facing zero penalities for it is like me coming into your house going rick james mode. Yes im responsible for my actions but if my actions go unpunnished then what does that say about the house o…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 01:04 PM
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Why IS reddit so leftist tho?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 07:51 AM
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The next serious guy you date will respect you x100 more if you go nun mode. Sex is so easy to get but finding a long lasting healthy relationship is like a needle in a haystack.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 03:03 AM
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ROTFL 😂 im casting my vote right here too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:49 PM
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No they didn't. They didn't want to be equal to men, they wanted all of men's power with none of the responsibility, because feminism has always been about female empowerment, NOT female equality. Were saying the same thing but i hard disagree with equality. Women wanting to have all the perks of a man is wanting to be on equal footing with men. The empowerment has always been about why can men do this but women cant? No. If the woman can do it all, what's the point of having a man? Men say, "Oh…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/23 03:41 PM
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A lot of guys are like “Women told us to F off, so we effed off, and now they’re mad about that.” Women wanted to be heard and we listened! Now theyre saying: "Why dont guys chase us anymore?" "You men lack social skills and cant handle rejection anymore"
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 02:35 PM
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Right because judging a book by its cover is a reliable bullet proof method.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 02:31 PM
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I appreciate your honesty and im glad you decided to do something about it unlike most ppl who'll complain. I would say keep going until you start seeing the results you want.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 08:47 PM
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I dont believe you. What if you are below average?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 08:35 PM
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No man has ever told you he liked you?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 08:21 PM
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I agree that feminism is one huge reason for the disparity in gender roles and dating but i disagree with your explanation for a different reason. Women rallied for more power and to be equal to men. They got their wish but now theyre unhappy (the fucking irony of getting what you asked for and still unsatisfied) because most men dont want to deal with the masculine energy from these new empowered women. Only a few men are more alpha than these alpha women but the rest of us are like fuck it, yo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 06:14 PM
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After the rise of social media, dating got ridiculously more harder for average guys and way more easier for average girls. Do you know how many rounds of flaking/rejection a regular guy has to go through just to get one serious date that still wont even guarantee a relationship in the end? A LOT. Nowadays all wooing and pursuing does for a woman is inflate her ego and encourage her more to keep rejecting because she now feels she is a 10/10 when maybe in reality she is a 7/10. I know a woman is…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 06:05 PM
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I saw the link and I still dont see a diff between the pics there and here. Im not into women who wear heavy makeup but if i did went on a date with one who did, its not like my face is gonna be sooo close to hers that id be able to tell she has hideous acne underneath it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:42 PM
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You underestimate the power of makeup. Ive seen videos where people looked drastically different afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 PM
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Thanks. You should let him know sooner than later. If he was never that kinda person before then it'll be easy for him to stop.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:31 PM
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I had a situation similiar to this. I'm a funny sarcastic person by nature, so every now and again when my ex would have moments of not getting jokes right away, id tease her about not being quick on the draw followed by a smile or a laugh. Years later she confessed that my playful teases really used to hurt her feelings. It blew my mind and taught me that women really are overly emotionally sensitive to the point of being unwarranted. My same jokes is what attracted her to me when were stranger…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:21 PM
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None is selfish but clearly having lots of casual sex is harmful to society. Building up so many soul ties with hundreds of people and then wonder why you cant find "the one". Not to mention the biggest risk from casual sex, unplanned pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:53 PM
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I find it funny that you "a woman" is telling me "an average to above average man" what my dating experience is like as a man dating these average to sometimes above average women. Your god complex is off the charts lol. Who died and made you queen of the common womenfolk? 😂 The average man and the average woman does not receive 50/50 equal attention in the dating market. The ratio is 30/70 or 20/80 respectively. I dont need a social media app to know that in 2022, if im an average guy trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:02 PM
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Derailing. The undisputable fact is that when it comes to dating, to most women height matters more than it doesnt matter, whether the guy is taller than her or he's over 6'. Side bar: most men dont care about a woman's height the way most women care about a man's height. The reasoning behind why is not of relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:48 PM
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What age group of women are you referring too? 🤨 40+ year olds? I dont know of any 20+ year olds thats not using OLD 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:47 PM
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Oh please lol. Do i need to see a snake every day to know that it's scaly and it slithers? There was a time when social media was a huge part of my dating life for many years and now theres a time where its not apart of my dating life anymore and i chose to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:29 PM
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Most women are dating painfully average men. If you think all women are living in la la land demanding Chris Hemsworth, maybe it’s you who spends too much time online, because it isn’t representative of reality. Agree to disagree. If you call being on reddit not representative of reality than youre correct lol bcuz reddit is the only app im active on. My last facebook post was in 2017 and i dont have an instagram account.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:55 PM
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Not marginally better IRL when peoples first inclination is to avoid human contact since coming out of the pandemic. Most of dating post the pandemic is happening online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:48 PM
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Even if women dont have the "6-6-6 requirement", most still prefer a man to be taller than them. So a man's height will never leave the check box. Finding a woman who just wants an average guy in 2022 is like finding a unicorn when just about every girl lives in social media (aka never never land).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:42 PM
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Anything is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:28 PM
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The caveat is that that correlation is highly unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:15 PM
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Fuck them! They arent wifey material or worth you losing what you worked hard for by frivalously spending on them just so they could run to social media to inflate their ego. You are in no way obligated to do anything for them besides provide the basics: home, food and protection. Anything extra is a luxury not a guarantee. At the same time "it aint tricking if you got it" so if you wanted to spend to impress, you can if you choose to. But just understand a women's nature: they all desire the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:31 PM
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And its perfectly fine if you disagree. Im not losing sleep over it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:39 PM
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Women - Why cant you emotionally open up more? Men - Okay "opens up to woman" Also Women - You have feelings ewww, im turned off Ya cant win. What ive learned is that as long as ur not being a toxic asshole, it doesnt matter what they want because as soon as u bend to their will, its like they lose attraction to you. Im not kidding about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:20 PM
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Half of "her" money or half of the money she got from her "fortune 500 husband" ??? It still goes back to "his money"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:29 PM
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Okay true, in that case i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:18 PM
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My OP was specific to "post wall women", not "women". You just said "men". Most men are not neurotic, the aspy and social avoidant Are these the types of men you have competing for you 🙁?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:58 PM
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Unless you are a very high value guy who has always been in demand with women, almost impossible If "NoName Joe" wins the mega-million lottery at 52 years old or his business he been grinding for the last 20 years suddenly explodes like amazon and he's a billionaire, guess whose in HOT and HIGH demand now! Millionaire Joe baby!!! A man can always increase his financial bottom line and become in demand. A woman cannot de-age or unbirth her children or unfuck peoples shes been with and become in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:43 PM
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By hassle, im assuming you mean you tried dating, it turned out to be a disaster so it was better to remain single. Thats understandable. Were you ever in a good, healthy, supportive, non-toxic relationship that was not a hassle, everything was going right and you still ended it because you still thought it was better for you and your kids to remain single?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:34 PM
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Ah i understand now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:25 PM
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And i agree, any man that says that is lazy. But guess what? I bet you that lazy sack of shit is still some woman's baby daddy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:22 PM
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Thats the point because if an older woman did have a good option available to her, she would not choose to be single. I dont know anything in this world thats viewed as "good, valuable or desireable" thats available to anyone, that just sits on the shelf for forever until someone decides to access it as a last resort because theres nothing else to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:19 PM
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People with realistic standards who dont over value themselves, pair up. Attractive people have no problem getting who they want earlier on, thats their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:56 PM
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You say that as if a man whose your same age wont run games and cheat on you too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:49 PM
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Dont really understand. Younger women have high standards because a million men are vying for them. If you have a bigger pool to choose from, then automatically youre going to be extremely selective. If you are young and have 0 experience, then how do you also have the experience to know an older man will abuse you to avoid them? Are men in your same age bracket not capable of abusing you the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:47 PM
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The biggest lie women post wall tell themselves "im single, by choice".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:29 PM
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Been dealing with anger issues all my life up until recently 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:49 AM
1

Sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:00 PM
1

Who tf said 25 was too old? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:56 PM
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The stat she provided on "higher n count sex = higher % not staying married" doesnt seem to apply to what you said because ur saying something different which is "women can have trauma and baggage not related to sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:23 AM
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Troll lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:27 PM
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Am i going to go back to college? Lol Lmao right!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:52 PM
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Bingo! If you were to interview all the women supporting the stigma of "older men shouldnt date younger women" you'll find majority of them are single and unhappy with their dating choices. People who are in comitted relationships or marriages are too busy being in love and dont have the time or energy to care what happens in the dating space.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:22 PM
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Kim kardashian, lala anthony, madonna, britney spears and erykah badu and many more celebrities are surely pushing that "40-50 year old woman dating a 20 year old man" narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:21 PM
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The older you are the the more experience you have, the less drama you have time for and the more stability you want. The younger you are the more inclined you are to treat dating as a buffet because unlike women who have a biological clock to give birth, we can settle down at any time. Therefore most women will be more likely to get played by a younger man whose new to the game, than an older man whose had his fun and wants to retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:20 PM
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Most women unfortunately are not near as promiscuous as men and usually don't prefer men for no strings attached sex like men do Whats the difference between "no strings attached sex " and "we've only been dating for a few months, he treats me nice, we have good sex but he's not emotionally available or doesnt want a relationship". Either way sex is still in the equation without a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:05 PM
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Excellently worded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:23 AM
2

So right. Its like men gotta go below the counterpart while women only entertain above their counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:22 AM
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Yeah for sure, the cut off point for the average woman is very high compared to that of average men. So many little boxes you gotta check off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:21 AM
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Right. A man can be a "2/5" face but if his style and everything else is "5/5" that balances the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:18 AM
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To be clear, youre saying that "looks" is the dealbreaker for both men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:09 AM
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Well i still disagree regardless. I believe men generally are more focused on looks when selecting a partner than women are. Women generally dont care about looks if a man has everything else going for him like style, hygiene, status, finances etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:58 AM
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Lack of self-confidence is way more ugly than actually believing your appearance to be ugly. But if you do believe you are ugly, compensate for it by again, having self-confidence, dressing nicely, have excellent hygiene, develop your personality, and if you can do something about your income do it because having more money is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:44 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:27 PM
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Not disagreeing with anything you said, but any guy that sleeps around just for the sake of sleeping with as much women as he can is still a whore to me. When it comes to dating, a lot of people love to say "im trying to find a solid partner for the long term possibly leading into marriage" but when you start asking questions and poking into their past, they either lie about their body count or will answer in such a way that doesnt make themselves seem like theyve been casually having sex with e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:33 PM
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Same goes for me too. If a gal ignores her dealbreaker for me that always boosted my confidence, not destroyed it. But people have different ways of dealing with their shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:11 AM
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People are human you know and everyone has insecurities even tall people. Clearly you had an insecurity too about dating short guys before you finally grew courage and jumped in the deep end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:15 AM
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The most accurate comment on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:34 AM
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Double reverse + skip + uno (last card) + draw 4, im out! = multiple alpha's fucks a million times, gets her pregnant, splits and then she goes looking for beta to wife her and complete her family
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:51 AM
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Then why are there more single parent homes gloablly than there are two parent homes? And before you spew whatever tired rhetoric about "its because men dont step up and take care of their children", there are just as many women with the "i'll raise my child on my own" attitude as there are men (who women chose to sleep with) who never wanted to be a dad in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:47 AM
3

Exactly correct
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:39 AM
2

Two parent households have been on the decline. Today, children are being raised in single parent homes more than two parent households
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:27 AM
1

Brilliant analysis Harry Potter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:20 AM
2

Dont women care for and raise babies alone and on ther own? So only men are incappable of doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:14 AM
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Congratulations to them all, the Lord has truly blessed them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:52 PM
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Androids and cyborgs is right around the corner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:47 PM
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Easier said than done with the direction this world is headed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:45 PM
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So what about the other % of men that actually do want a loyal wife to bear children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:37 PM
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Honestly the answer is yes, women would lose their reproduction value, at least the uncooperative/independent women would!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:35 PM
1

The older i grow the more i realize that marriage is more about a business transaction and less about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:49 PM
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If im initially attracted to a woman because of her looks/shape, then there is absolutely nothing wrong or upsetting when a woman is initially attracted to a man because of his status/money he makes. Whats really wrong is when you are being used or taken advantage of only for what you have and nothing else. Being needed doesnt always mean being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:44 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:06 PM
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Uhhh... no lol. Just because women are born with their value doesnt mean its worth more. They also lose that value relatively quickly around or after 35. Around the same time when men value increases (if it wasnt before). I do agree with equality being a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:04 PM
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Well i was wrong. Yeah its like 51% males and 49% women. Thanks for correcting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:57 PM
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There are more women on earth than men so why are women still considered the prize? Thats not how rarity works right? The less of something that exists, the more value it has? You dont see people fighting over grass bcuz its everywhere just like women. But yes men today are so f-ing desperate for a woman to be in their lives to bring them love and meaning and to share their experiences with, its both appalling and sad. If i dont have a gf, im definitely not spending my time complaining, moping o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:08 AM
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U cant say "we". It implies u are talking about most average women, and if thats ur experience, u are in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:26 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:47 PM
1

I think youre missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:50 PM
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Apparently tinder, bumble etc. arent a thing either too lol. This aint the 70s or 80s anymore. In 2022, average/below average women dms are full
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:31 PM
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I think hes trying to say that as a man, u have to approach a lot of women and get denied before you get a "yes"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:24 PM
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Definition of creepy behavior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:26 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:22 PM
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I think another too depends on how u look as a guy. If ur blessed with good physical genes, u can approach any women and she wont be repulsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:21 PM
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Most average/below average women honestly believe theyre above average looking. Therein lies the dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:02 PM
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Lol dude what the heck are you talking about? No one is gonna do what you suggested lol Further more, love is not the be-all-end-all for everyone. Last i remebered, you cant pay bills, buy vacations or buy homes with love. If love was enough, divorce rates wouldnt be over 50% and wouldnt be initiated by 70% of women who are the queens at "looking for love". Also fyi, arranged marriages has been historically proven to last longer and be more successful (with a less than 10% divorce rate) than mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:07 PM
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I never used the words "all men..." or "all women..." so i cant answer you on that. You seem to think that just because a woman is a successful engineer by profession some how means that she no longer has a menstruation cycle aka she stops behaving/thinking like a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:50 PM
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Well duh because men are attracted to beauty, and guess what? beauty and youth are complimentary. Most of the attractive women ARE younger or appear to LOOK younger lol. Youre making it seem like all a guy needs to know is just her age and boom he has the hots for her if shes 20. It dont work like that. There are other reasons why men want a younger woman too like: less sex mileage, no children in tow, easier to mold personality wise. If anything women are more obsessed with age than men because…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:25 PM
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Human "nature" is complex. Humans are simple. Men are driven by rationality not emotion, women are driven by emotion not rationality. Do unicorns exist? Yes but exceptions are not the standards. When any woman meets any man she judges him on his physical attractiveness, how he makes he makes her feel and if hes financially stable or not. When a man mets any woman, he judges her on her physical attractiveness and her personality. I dont think OP is dehumanizing anyone. Every human has a want and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:36 PM
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Low key facts here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:20 PM
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When dealing with a woman, you either give up your time (talking, getting to know her, physical bonding moments etc.) or you give up your money (providing a lifestyle, paying for dates etc.) to get sex. If im at my peak, then i want the best, simple as that. Personally i care more about mileage than age. I will choose a less attractive 30 y/o that has way less bodies over a more attractive 20 y/o with a ton of bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:19 PM
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And this is why divorce rates are so high and why women lead the charge on that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:00 PM
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This doesnt make any sense at all because even if you date a 22 y/o (m), your value is still gonna decrease year after year regardless. A guy in his 30s will almost always have his life together = cash, car, place, job etc. over a guy in his 20s who is most likely just starting out unless he was born into wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:58 PM
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Emotional + rational are two words that definitely do not go together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:48 PM
1

More couples divorce than stay married
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:43 PM
3

Ending 10 years of bf/gf is easier than ending 20 years of marriage
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 04:04 PM
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Settling down to "forever and ever" is such a huge step
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 04:14 AM
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Try "its actually narcissistic that some do this instinctively"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:35 PM
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OP Youre absolutely right! I was thinking about this today like why its always men whose the reason for the breakup. Women lack ZERO accountability for anything they do because to them its all about image control and ego. The real truth is that theirs faults on both sides and sometimes its all hers but ofcourse she will die before she admit. I say leave em alone and let life decisions determine who won in the end or not. Sooner or later women get what they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:34 PM
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