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In this "all men's space" and "only woman." I fly first class pretty regularly, and there are always women there. It's not a place where men smoke cigars and sip sherry discussing finance and politics. Its slightly wider seats with free drinks and a paltry meal. Most people keep to themselves and don't have a rats ass about the other people there.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 08:54 PM
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Statistics don't lie but liars make statistics. Like most things, it's a tool that can be used to frame something however the person made it wants them to be. Don't avoid them, just look at their source and methodology. Make sure they are displayed in a way that paints the whole picture. Validate the data is correct.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 12:42 PM
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Laws are largely fucked on this regard. Look at the kids charged with possession and creation of child porn for taking pictures of themselves.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 08:00 PM
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Almost all crimes the state can prosecute whether or not the victim wants it to occur. The criminal case is the state vs the defendant. Not the victim vs the defendant. Whether a prosecutor would want to pursue a case with an unwilling victim will depend on whether there is sufficient evidence to obtain a conviction without the victims testimony or assistance.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:04 AM
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libtards Please stop using any derogatory statement for political opinions. Regardless of whether its for the left or right. Using words like these are a way to ignore and write off the opinions of an entire group of individuals. What we need isn't division, but unity and compromise. By using words like libtard, you are already categorizing that person as someone whose opinions and experiences don't contribute to the political discourse. Everyone has experiences, opinions, and priorities that di…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:39 PM
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I never said it gets better, it may or may not. I also never said that being selfish was a bad thing. It sounds like your implying lack of freedom or being enslaved is enough to drive a man to kill himself. In my opinion that would be a gross oversimplification of a complex emotion and drive. It also sounds like you are implying that mental illness didn't exist in slaves. I'm sure it did, as many are driven or exasperated by a lack of locus of control.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 07:20 PM
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I can't be mad at them for trying, they really are! They just don't know how. I hope you're in a better place. I hope you've been able to find the support and help you need.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 05:52 PM
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To a depressed person, they literally cannot imagine improving their future. They literally do not get joy out of the "many things to learn." For most people who are neuro typical, they cannot imagine being depressed. They don't have the same perspective and can't fully empathize with a suicidal person. It's not a bad thing though. They just don't have the same experiences to feel those feelings. The best thing they can do is recognize that someone can experience something they cannot. Don't com…
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:40 PM
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I really hate the idea around calling suicide selfish as if being selfish is a bad thing. Being selfish can be a great thing. Setting proper boundaries is being selfish. Saying "no" to things you don't want to do is being selfish. Putting your health first is being selfish. Exercising regularly is being selfish. Those with mental health issues NEED to be selfish. They need to start taking care of themselves. They need to learn that they are worthy of self care.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 02:08 PM
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This is almost exactly how I felt. It scared the shit out of me. I really hope you have or can find the help and support you need to pull through.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 02:01 PM
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His description is pretty spot on for major depression. A big part is a sense of hopelessness. When people are going through it, there is no changing yourself. You truly believe that your existence is a burden on others and the best thing you can do for others is to no longer be a part of their lives. When that emotion applies to everyone, that's when suicidal ideation becomes the solution. I'm glad you were able to find motivation to change yourself and your situation. But describing your exper…
/r/MensRights22/11/22 01:56 PM
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It's not just the "woke agenda" or liberals. The other side is what they don't teach. Which many republicans have focused on by banning books and topics. What needs to happen is to have impartial, factual education. Kids should be taught about racism and sexism. What it is and how it perpetuates. But it needs to be impartial and make it clear that it can happen by anyone and to anyone. It's not black vs white or women vs men or lgbtq vs cisgendered. Teach egality. And teach people to mind their …
/r/MensRights23/09/22 12:36 PM
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It's not just some old dictionary definition that can change. It's literally what the word is. Deci, being the prefix meaning 10. As in decimeter being 1/10 of a meter or decimal regarding a base 10 number system.
/r/MensRights03/10/19 04:24 AM
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Which, hopefully department heads and/or a university chair would see reason. At this point, I would just refuse to do the assignment. Discuss alternatives for the grade, but if they refused another presentation, up the chain. A university isn't a place for faculty to push ideologies.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 01:51 PM
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Freedom of speech protects you from the government. Not your boss.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 12:51 PM
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Can we stop labeling every woman who makes any comment against men (or even a man) a feminist? These comments aren't about rights or privilege. At this point we're using it as a straw man and it's embarrassing.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:58 AM
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Dating app where you swipe, just like every other. But men cannot send the first message, and matches disappear if neither party talks to the other within 48 hours or something.
/r/MensRights27/02/19 02:11 AM
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She's a minor, but couldn't have been tried as an adult. Not saying a man would have been, just that it's a possibility depending on the DA prosecuting.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 08:54 PM
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Yeah, they took the bullet for women. But I bet you many would have taken the bullet for another man. This isn't about gender, this is about a group of men who laid their lives on the line for another human.
/r/MensRights09/11/18 12:31 AM
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Anyone notice the plaque on her desk? "The future is female"
/r/MensRights26/10/18 02:30 AM
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heh. Can't feel remorse or generosity either. Neato
/r/MensRights24/01/18 01:30 PM
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This was what surprised me most. Why can any student email the entire staff and student body?
/r/MensRights04/04/17 07:02 PM
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The judge didn't see her as a classic pedophile, but had to "send a message to the community."
/r/MensRights19/01/17 03:48 PM
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Combine these two legal terms. http://thelawdictionary.org/good-faith/ http://thelawdictionary.org/best-efforts/ Especially in civil suits it gives a huge boost to any cases legal standing.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:47 PM
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If female students set up a women's center, filing a title IX complaint is jumping the gun. We can't force female students to create a men's center as well. A case would need men's students to be denied the same opportunity and resources that the women had to set up their.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:39 PM
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Honestly, I think the complaints on women studies is horse shit. Men have played a large role in history and courses that focus on women's involvement and influence isn't a terrible idea; we can't marginalize the things women have worked for, accomplished, and achieved. Having a degree for women's study is meaningless though and should be abandoned. History degree with a focus in women's studies would be more appropriate. Political Science with a focus in women's studies. Psychology with a focus…
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:33 PM
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I wouldn't be able to make it through the class without commenting every few minutes. But I could stand the states of the feminists there, I'd probably enjoy it as I call out the stupidity of what they're teaching.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:22 PM
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Silly example, I don't know why he used that. Maybe learning for doctors? Or prenatal could be for couples who want to learn together how to take care of the woman.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:20 PM
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Legal proceedings won't be easy and this sounds like abuse to overwhelm the systems ability to actually handle valid issues. I don't think volunteering to work/manage what you're asking for is necessary, but a good faith effort to resolve the situation before filing the complaint will serve anyone extremely well.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:17 PM
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Let's be better than the game. Where we have issues, we rally behind them. Where we are actually being discriminated against. If you have a complaint, be encouraged to file it. Have volunteers that know the process and can walk men through it. But going out of your way to look for discrimination is petty. Being petty to defeat petty people is a zero sum game. We're all going to get fucked over.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:11 PM
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Those damn whores are stealing all the service jobs!! It's a job you don't want to do, no one is making you, no one is making her. God forbid people want different things for themselves than some perfect ideal.
/r/MensRights15/08/16 08:39 PM
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A chance, sure. But a large subset of the professors I've had made up their practice exam questions from previous exams. But I'd wager that OP's professor is female.
/r/MensRights25/06/16 12:09 AM
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Yep. Same as everyone else, but she's made to take the picture.
/r/MensRights22/05/16 07:27 AM
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It's not SJW bullshit. I legitimately disagree with you. I'm not taking offense for anyone else, just expressing my view. I'm not calling for justice. I do consider it bullshit to use gender to discriminate. To make a decision before even looking past that. As far as sex changes go, in no way would that be equal. Gender imbalance isn't discrimination. It was in direct reference to your previous comment about hiring men without even looking at women. And I specifically said passing up a man to hi…
/r/MensRights18/03/16 04:18 AM
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So sex change surgery and hormone replacement (which only goes so far and can't change the chromosomes or the persons DNA that nature gave them) is equal in your eyes to going to school for a license? A genetic, chromosomal determinant that a person does not get to chose and does not have the ability to change is reason to discriminate. That's plain and simple bullshit. The nursing profession is highly dominated by women (about 90%). Is it right that men should be passed up in that field to wome…
/r/MensRights18/03/16 02:00 AM
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A license isn't just a guild or tradesman issue. Even if I were to know all the right people I wouldn't be able to get one without meeting certain requirements. Usually schooling, degrees, testing and/or experience. A license is a showcase of minimum required ability and knowledge. Ergo, still equal opportunity because everyone has the ability to earn that license.
/r/MensRights18/03/16 12:01 AM
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Do you not test them? Do they not provide you with work experience? References? Interview? Looking at their physical build is enough of a "test". What genitals someone has in their pants should not matter. Will fewer women apply for a job lifting all day? Yea, it sucks. Most probably can't do it. But those that apply probably have a reason to. Please expand on what you mean by doctor shortages. Those going into critical areas still have to go to school, study, intern/residency, test and get lice…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 07:45 PM
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How is hiring licensed dentists only not equal opportunity? Are we somehow preventing women from getting licenses? Everyone has the opportunity to get a license. The individual went through the training to learn, test, and get licensed. They weren't born licensed dentists. Equal opportunity isn't a sham. Artificially padding gender/race acceptance to schools/programs/jobs to give the illusion of equal opportunity is a sham. Regardless of race, religion, creed, ethnicity, color, or sex everyone h…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 07:39 PM
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I believe that gender shouldn't bias or decisions. Sure, the average man and average woman aren't interchangeable. But two men are different too, and due to those differences, not interchangeable. Men aren't equal to other men. I don't have the skills/knowledge to be an astronaut. He and I couldn't change places. But if I apply myself I could learn and do just as well. If women applied themselves they could do pretty much any job just as well as men. Equal opportunity, eliminating prejudice, val…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 05:02 PM
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No, I got it. And in my third paragraph agreed with him that women usually respond more to emotional appeals than logic. Where I disagreed was the way in which /u/kireol generalized his statement to all women when responding to a story about a specific individual. And in doing so treated the woman in the story as just a subset of women instead of an individual. If the post /u/kireol responded to hadn't used "she" we wouldn't be talking about how women are different. If you reread that post and c…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:54 PM
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Cool. Cool cool cool. I disagree with you so I must be a misandrist. I'm the ignorant one, I'm stupid. You're the shit poster that gives MRAs a bad name. You're the type of person that OPs picture is talking about. Thank you for "representing" MRAs everywhere. I'm going to go back to being the MRA who doesn't hate women and enjoy my happy life. You can keep being an angry person on the internet.
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:33 PM
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I don't think so. If everyone is given the same consideration for whatever issue is at hand we can treat each person as an individual with their own sets of flaws/talents/strengths/weaknesses and use that to treat people. As men, you and I expect to be treated the same. Offered the same resources and opportunities. But we're not the same, are we? One of us is stronger and one of us is better at math/driving/swimming/drawing. If I'm looking for someone that can lift 100lbs all day, biologically m…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:27 PM
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Personal attacks are not called for. You're doing the exact same thing using a group of men to generalize the entire group. Men and women are not equal. Plain and simple. But we all need to be valued the same, offered the same amount of help, the same opportunities, rights, freedoms, chances, and failures as each other. Until men start birthing half the population, taking care of half the housework, raising half the children, half the sewing, and all the other myriad of tasks women primarily do …
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:45 AM
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So many downvotes. Second class is just clickbait. It's impossible to relegate an entire gender to second class when there are so many different areas where one is above the other and vice versa. If we can't realistically look at the world and see that there are places men do have certain privileges over women we will never be able to truly address the issues and get fair and equal treatment. So many bashing you for saying we're not second class because you're sampling a portion of men when they…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:33 AM
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I've driven between a lot of cities in the U.S. and there is a lot of empty space. It just is really shitty. If you really just wanted to be alone in your own utopia you probably could find a place. Sure, you're technically subject to whatever laws of the nation/state you're a part of. But if there isn't anyone around to enforce/report/arrest you and if no one really knows you're there they don't really matter.
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:24 AM
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Urgg I disagree with you but had to upvote as you are providing actual discourse to the argument. I'm not very well informed on this individual, but it's a woman who claimed to want 90% of men killed and the rest in farms? This would put women in charge over men. A pretty extreme form of feminism. Just because other feminists didn't align with her doesn't change whether or not she is an extremist. I'd say it would even further show that she was such an extremist that other feminists thought she …
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:12 AM
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Hey, I'm gonna make a post generalizing an entire subgroup of people on a post about generalizing a subgroup of people!! /s Just like men, women vary greatly on how logical and emotional they are. Emotional appeals and logical appeals need to be tailored to the individual. To just dismiss women as only reachable through feelings is demeaning. I think you weren't saying that women ONLY respond to feelings, but that the ratio of women who respond to emotional appeals vs logical appeals is skewed f…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 04:03 AM
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Suffrage is a terrible thing! Millions of women are affected by suffrage EVERY YEAR. We must end the suffrage! Protect America's women!
/r/MensRights17/03/16 03:53 AM
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And I agree, but that doesn't change that a ruling of not guilty is not equal to a ruling of innocence. Not guilty and innocent may essentially be the same in the eyes of the law, but far from the same in the eyes of the public.
/r/MensRights25/01/16 04:20 AM
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I disagree. Anything less than innocent doesn't give credence to partly punishing someone. All it is saying is that there is not enough evidence to be sure that the accused has done the act. He still might have, he might not have. They aren't there to pass a verdict on innocence, only on guilt. That is quite literally the extent of a jurors job. A verdict of not guilty should be the de facto verdict and how the media and everyone SHOULD portray the accused until they have been found guilty by a …
/r/MensRights25/01/16 03:11 AM
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Who you are, what you do, leaves a huge impact on women. If all you want to do is fuck as many different women as you can, fine. Go the route of disrespecting women. Be rude. But know that shows her she was right in having no interest in you. It shows you are a sore loser. Furthermore, it sets a bad example to everyone here. I pity associating with you. There is a quote that Style attributes to Ross Jeffries. A maxim that Ross claimed to live by. And that was to leave everyone better off than yo…
/r/seduction27/02/15 05:25 PM
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Just because you don't know her isn't a reason to be rude.
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:03 PM
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I love speakeasies. I use one near me for dates (and my usual hangout. Its nice being a regular.) There is also a craft beer and whisky bar I like to take people to. I get lucky with first dates. I can almost always just go to Disneyland.
/r/seduction04/02/15 09:41 PM
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TO THE MOON!
/r/MensRights07/01/15 08:44 AM
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We all know the patch is coming in January. Version 20.1.5
/r/MensRights05/12/14 12:08 AM
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That's exactly introversion. There are a few extroverts that can give me energy but they are few and far between. I can be incredibly social if I am in the mood but I get exhausted. I need to leave. And many times I do that without even saying a word to anyone I'm with. A couple of my friends are the same. And I get along with them a ton more when we have a mutual understanding of each other. They do the same where they will just need to leave. But put them with someone they feel comfortable wit…
/r/seduction29/11/14 07:26 AM
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I'm also an introvert and certain things have helped more than anything. One was working in a place where I have to be social. Two I've learned that there are certain people that I want in my life and many, many more I've met that I just don't click with. I've been able to curate my friends, but I still give everyone a chance. I initially got into this community back because I was such an introvert and had a hard time making friends. I used this crap on everyone before I was able to be comfortab…
/r/seduction28/11/14 06:22 PM
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I call largely to set myself apart from others. If I am actually interested in a woman, I call. If it's just a possible and I don't know what the future holds, I'll text. I want to set the expectation that we will be talking on the phone. I cannot stand having a relationship and the only contact when we're apart be text.
/r/seduction07/11/14 10:08 PM
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Just the other day I was taking a leak at a urinal and two women emerge from one of the stalls. I kept on doing my business. They took care of theirs. No one gave a damn about either.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 05:37 PM
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Ah. I see. Yea, seems like a shitty trend. Especially the hair. Contrasting colored pockets could work. And same with bright jeans. Just weird.
/r/seduction23/05/14 03:59 AM
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Yea. I usually spend about 70-80% of time on one dominant eye and bounce around the other 20-30%.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:53 PM
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I have to say this is some really useful advice and its what I tell my friends when they start giving me shit I've studied this stuff. Its not about making seduction your life, its about using seduction to showcase your life. To invite someone in. But once they're in its all on you and who you are. Seduction is making the woman give you the chance. But if you have to run routines every time you see her, she isn't falling for you. She's falling for a facade. And thats fine if you only want to sle…
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:48 PM
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Fashion is still good for attractive people. Don't blow off the whole idea. But you're right, minimalism as a fashion style is good if you have the body to commit to it. I find it said that we have to tell someone to look at fashion when we're really saying pick a style that looks good on you. (Goth, prep, skater, peacock, whatever) and get clothes that fit you and commit to it. Fit and commitment goes a long way in fashion. That's why you can see someone wearing something totally out there and …
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:43 PM
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Pushups will naturally pull your shoulders back. Doesn't hurt to do a short exercise regime every day.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:36 PM
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There is the power triangle. Flick your gaze between each eye and the nose or mouth. It can also be used to initiate a k-close or at least get her thinking about it. Eyes and mouth are pretty huge elements on sexual physiology.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:36 PM
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One, fuck you. I love fashion and see trends come and go. Do you ever see something that just looks dated? Thats because its no longer in. Barney looks so awkward in the beginning of HIMYM, but that was the fashion ten years ago. Two, /r/malefashionadvice is pretty conservative and goes for the more classic, sustained fashion. It's not about what ever is newest on the scene. Its what has been a standing tradition for years. Three, it doesn't matter what sort of fashion you follow (because there …
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:31 PM
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Ya never stick your dick in crazy. And to the accusations that this is staged. I wouldn't put it past some people. I've seen how some people can manipulate a situation so that no matter what its the other persons fault and they're the ones that are getting hurt.
/r/MensRights11/05/14 04:20 PM
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I know texting is easy. But for fucks sake, just call. It's the best way to get a response from someone. Texting isn't supposed to replace conversation, its for short messages to hammer out details.
/r/seduction26/04/14 04:30 PM
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She actually seemed really eager to see you. It's a positive. Don't think that just because shit comes up that its over. Be playful, don't stress it, and give her a chance to make it up to you.
/r/seduction26/04/14 02:58 AM
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Dumbass should have just brought the old grips.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 08:45 PM
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I've seen this several times on this subreddit. Google caches definitions from major dictionaries. Last time this came up it was Princeton or something. Don't blame google for someone elses definition.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 05:44 PM
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Wow. You've taken that to an extreme. Nowhere in anything I have presented have I taken it to such an extreme as you have. Lets be real here, we're talking about a slap, in the heat of the moment, that in the grand scheme of everyday life amounts to nothing. It doesn't require prosecution or the intervention of police no more than a shove. His children won't be out looking for revenge for a slap. Whatever you're taking to come to that 'reality' pass it here. It sounds like you have the good stuf…
/r/MensRights03/09/13 10:58 PM
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Its god damned self respect. Man or woman, stand up for yourself.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 03:17 PM
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If a man slapped a woman? Hell yea, I'd say suck it up and don't talk to him again. This isn't a fucking gender issue. Its being a damn adult and not overreacting. I've been swung at and sucker punched and didn't have anyone arrested.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 03:16 PM
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Okay okay, I'm going to take a slightly less that popular view here. This doesn't warrant charging her with assault and battery. Has it gotten so bad that every time anyone lays a hand on anyone they have to be arrested? Suck it up and deal with it like adults. This is a case between the two of them. I'd demand an apology, and if I didn't get one keep her out of my life. And should I have to be anywhere around her, keep an eye on her.
/r/MensRights02/09/13 08:29 PM
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Flirting shouldn't be selective. Flirting is just fun and games talking to people. Having high standards when you want to escalate is a good thing, imo. Even higher if you're looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:42 PM
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This is princeton. It says the source right below the definition.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 04:59 AM
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I've been fooling around with this girl. She doesn't want to date any one guy. I get jealous as fuck, but still accept it. Still fool around. Jealousy is a pretty natural feeling, sometimes you just have to kind of accept it.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:04 PM
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PM your email.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:47 PM
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If your unhappy, spending thousands and uprooting yourself to move out will probably turn out better in the end. It can't all suck. Are you still living with your ex? You might consider looking on craigslist somewhere you want to live for people that need roommates. The forced interaction with them could end up really beneficial. You can also get a job in a service industry for a while. They tend to attract people who like to talk. Besides the fact you'll have to get comfortable talking to custo…
/r/seduction18/03/13 06:38 PM
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Bitch be crazy.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 06:34 PM
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That's a pretty poor reason. Being a ginger has no effect on your game.
/r/seduction18/03/13 02:24 AM
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Send me your email in a PM. But Imma be honest with you. I agree with /u/ProfessionalAssh0le. Whats holding you back isn't lack of material. Its AA and lack of experience. The only way to get over that is to go out and get experience. If you're out of this relationship, why can't you move back to where your friends are? I started in pickup with the goal of being more social. Not hookups. I used it to sarge friends in the beginning. Then I used what I knew in all aspects of my social life and sti…
/r/seduction17/03/13 11:19 PM
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Lets just say, they will need to flex their seduction muscles to get the invite. Or flounder hideously to where I think they need it most. I've learned many things over the years I've been in this stuff on and off. I don't give anything away without the other person earning it.
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:44 PM
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I'm not jumping on this bandwagon yet. I think there may be a set ratio for guys/girls and I'm okay with that. BUT until I know more I won't call sexism. I know MANY of these events increase ticket prices as tickets sell out. The tickets may increase at the same rate based on availability and men's have just sold quicker.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 08:35 AM
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Maybe they were priced the same to begin with and both have identical points where they increased in price based on availability. Perhaps men have just reached that point sooner.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 08:31 AM
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Oh, and have you ever seen somebody with something and you wanted to know what it was? Ask them. If you want to buy one too, ask them where they got it. Its little things that add up to being comfortable talking to people in general. You can learn scripts and routines. But never rely on them. They just get you over the bumps in the road. Conversations should be natural. If you can't think of something to say, I bet you've overlooked something in a sentence they talked about. For instance, if she…
/r/seduction10/06/12 09:31 PM
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It is one of the things I've picked up on in the book. The important bits I got out of it was to take care of yourself first, do what YOU want, and not to live by others standards. The confidence it takes to live the life you want is attractive. Pursue the things you are interested in, women love a man that wants to work on something, be it art, a car, whatever. You should have interests besides her. I can look up the chapter if you want and where it says it. But most openers he used in the book…
/r/seduction10/06/12 09:19 PM
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I am an introvert, I don't exactly function very well in clubs or bars or other large gatherings of people. You get used to those settings, but often times you don't exactly change from an introvert to an extrovert. I still prefer one on one, or small close groups of friends. But you can learn to be sociable. That is just about talking to people. One piece of advice that was in "The Game" was don't google things, ask people instead. I was in Vegas by the pools the other day, thinking about the s…
/r/seduction10/06/12 07:08 PM
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Or fox news?
/r/MensRights28/02/12 06:59 PM
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But is its value outweighed by insulting a significant portion of men who don't conform to an overly masculine image? Equality goes both ways, women are able to meet certain masculine archetypes and men are able to embrace femininity.
/r/MensRights23/02/12 04:09 AM
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I hate these videos. They are complete crap. If you believe the things in that video, I pity you and your narrowminded view of what constitutes a man.
/r/MensRights22/02/12 10:27 PM
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I had to deal with a verbally abusive woman to her husband yesterday at work. There is only so much an observer can do. Although because of her antics, she was escorted off property by at least 8 security personal.
/r/MensRights21/02/12 11:31 PM
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I don't think I can upvote this enough.
/r/seduction02/02/12 06:07 AM
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Reading through the top comments, I thought you guys would appreciate their take on the issue. It's pretty nice to hear it brought up somewhere other than in /r/MensRights.
/r/MensRights31/01/12 07:42 AM
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I think I would take more of an indirect approach. Be social and friendly. I wouldn't hit on them at the gym, but befriend them. After a few interactions I'd make plans to do something and then pull out game there. It is a lot slower than night game though, but gets the type of girl I want.
/r/seduction27/01/12 04:18 AM
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I'd say neither. It sounded more awkward. I'd go in with more of a reason to converse. Have a story or question to talk to her about so I don't have to force conversations. Not to say you can't talk to a girl without some bullshit cover, but it doesn't sound like you are there yet. It sounds to me like you need more work calibrating. But good on you for having the balls to go for it. From your post, it also sounds like you had low energy (or just off energy for the situation). When she says some…
/r/seduction22/01/12 05:17 AM
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I look forward to having a daughter. And a son, but little girls are so adorable that I would be disappointed if I only had sons. Not to say I wouldn't love a son as much as a daughter. I am sure that when the time comes the fact that I have a child will outweigh any sex preference I had.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 09:21 PM
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I don't have the mentality that everyone is missing out on me. In my mind it's more: I want to talk to this person. Let's see if this person wants to talk to me. And I have to interesting, because I like talking to people. I'm confident enough to think people want to talk to me maybe they just haven't noticed me, but if they don't I'll find someone else. It's all good. Honestly, there is a lot of fluff in seddit that doesn't need to be here. Most of my posts can probably be ignored even. We're a…
/r/seduction18/01/12 07:31 AM
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Have you read the Game by Neil Strauss? It's one of my favorite books and has less to do about seduction than it has about building up who you are. I personally feel that the whole seduction community is more about learning to be social with anyone and improving on your life. Sure there are parts about sex, but pretty much everything else applies to social interactions of all sorts. Alpha is just one road to women and life in general. But it is by no means best. None of these tactics are. I see …
/r/seduction17/01/12 07:47 PM
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That's why I like to use what I learn to build a lifestyle and social network. Women come along then as long as you can have a conversation and not be scared to escalate.
/r/seduction14/01/12 07:55 PM
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When I want to live in the moment, I get rid of expectations. All of them. The future doesn't matter if you don't have any real goals from the interaction. That way everything I am doing is to have fun right then at that moment. Might not work for you, but that's how I do it.
/r/seduction14/01/12 07:54 PM
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I like this. A bit reaffirms some of the qualities I have garnered from joining the community. For the first, I will answer questions, be a little aloof, but I don't lie. And if they ask too much, I usually respond with "I don't like to talk about myself that much, if you want to get to know me, you're just going to have to spend time with me."
/r/seduction14/01/12 07:51 PM
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You're right, it was rape. But I don't think it is a bad article. He states that society is coming around to admit that men can be raped. Sure, he isn't as with it as this sub reddit, but it is indicative of a societal shift. I don't think we should condemn the guy because he isn't with us right now, because it sounds like he is coming around.
/r/MensRights14/01/12 07:48 PM
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Honestly, I think before you start learning theory, techniques, routines, openers or anything, the best way to start is to just go approach a couple dozen sets. Figure out where you are, try and get through it, then come here for help. It may take you longer to get to where you want to be, but you will be you when you arrive. Not some theory/routine spitting robot.
/r/seduction13/01/12 05:28 PM
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Never stand around waiting for her. Especially if you don't know her yet. Best bet would probably be to come at off times when it is less busy. Talk to her then.
/r/seduction12/01/12 09:42 PM
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You already stated that they specifically mishandled your hearing. Document it in every way, see if you can find a new lawyer who can mail your university saying they broke their contract over a list of specific instances. That it needs to be rectified immediately or else it will be pursued through the states legal system. Basically, you have a contract with the school and the school did not follow it. That would be the basis of my stance with the university. After that would be the sexual assau…
/r/MensRights12/01/12 07:17 PM
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I hate this whole "I'm stuck in the friendzone" crap. It's not friendzone that you have an issue with, its one-itis. Am I in the friendzone with a couple people? Yea, but at least I made a move and it didn't work out. And I enjoy being their friend. It's someone else I can go out with, have fun with, and meet people through.
/r/seduction11/01/12 09:46 PM
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Game isn't lines. Game is the ability to be comfortable and control a social situation. The whole purpose of lines are something to fall back on when you can't think of anything. They are a crutch to prop you up, but will not take you all the way.
/r/seduction03/01/12 09:50 AM
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Most of the time I just say "thank you" and keep talking.
/r/seduction27/12/11 10:01 PM
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It depends on what your tone is. It can come of cocky or playfully.
/r/seduction27/12/11 09:59 PM
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Stronger frame is pretty valid. I am reading "The Lucifer Effect" and its on the stanford prison experiment. He talks indepth of situations affect our disposition to such a degree that in a social setting if something is perceived as acceptable, people will accept it. Even if it normally would be sleazy. If you are the perceived authority on whether that is creepy or not, its how you pose the line and your response to what you yourself said that will get a positive reaction.
/r/seduction27/12/11 09:57 PM
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IOI stands for Indicator of Interest. Basically anything a girl does to show she is interested in you.
/r/seduction27/12/11 09:54 PM
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Its another aspect to understanding kino. We learn things work and how we build trust. But hardly look hard at what we are doing. He mentions at the end his favorite way to release Oxytocin is with a hug, and it probably is one of the best forms of kino for me.
/r/seduction18/12/11 12:24 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ngqey/paul_zak_trust_morality_and_oxytocin/ Reminded me of this TED Talk. It also builds trust in others, and Paul Zak talks at the end how to release it.
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:34 PM
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You're welcome. Let us know how it goes. Good or bad, there are things to learn.
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:25 AM
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I cannot believe that video was made. It's utter crap. It's fine to respect women and treat them like people. They have feelings, you have feelings. Don't act like some entitled prick about being a man and always having to be tough. It's macho bullshit perpetrated by idiots.
/r/MensRights13/12/11 12:25 AM
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I agree with this, I would say its best to pull a girl close to you when you have comfort than to enter her space.
/r/seduction12/12/11 06:25 PM
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Also remember, it build rapport if you are able to reiterate their statements for them. They could go on for 5 minutes that something makes them feel really comfortable. And if you are able to bring that down to "wow, that must have really made you feel relaxed" it creates a mutual connection and works wonders.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:25 AM
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The funny thing about feminism, is feminists can't agree on a damn thing for themselves. Back in the progressive era (I know I'm a little dated, but I'm in a Women In American Society class) there were big debates between the National American Women Suffrage Association and the National Women's Party over suffrage and the Equal Rights Amendment. They were afraid that if they were given equal rights that they would lose many of the legal protections they had based on their reproductive role. Its …
/r/MensRights12/12/11 05:17 AM
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You don't have to be someone else. Seddit focuses on being the best you. Giving women a chance to learn who you are instead of just outright blowing you off.
/r/seduction10/12/11 10:50 PM
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What strikes me is how subconscious the whole thing is. The poses themselves are so conducive to positive energy flow that it works without any effort. Like she was saying too about being unable to be down when you are forcing a smile, it seems like this would work perfect to boost the mood when you're in a funk.
/r/seduction09/12/11 07:59 AM
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Very true. I was amazed at the findings they had. I never would have imagined posing like that would boost confidence levels and increase performance like it did.
/r/seduction09/12/11 07:57 AM
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Yea. human animals and non human animals bugged me too.
/r/seduction09/12/11 07:56 AM
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You're welcome, man. One of my professors showed it to me, and I could only think "this would be perfect on Seddit"
/r/seduction09/12/11 07:55 AM
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Why is she refusing dates? Does she not want to see you? Is she busy? Is she taken? Thats where you need to start. If she doesn't want to see you, then you need to move on. If she is busy, get her schedule and try to work around it. If she is taken, move on. Perhaps she isn't comfortable with dates. Invite her to hang out with your friends. Or see if she will just come over and hang out. Keep it casual, though. Remember to mirror her texting habits. If she takes an hour to text you back, take an…
/r/seduction06/12/11 07:53 PM
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Sites outside of reddit. There are a few.
/r/seduction05/12/11 07:58 AM
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This is something I've had to hammer into friends when I tell them about Seddit (and other seduction boards). In general, pick up isn't just about talking about women. It's about being the type of guy women WANT to talk to.
/r/seduction04/12/11 06:57 PM
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Douchebags typically care a lot about themselves. How they look, how they have fun. So, they often actually are more attractive. They go out and do more because they are interested in themselves. They don't have to have company to enjoy their time. People like to go along with people who are happy, do their own thing, and have fun.
/r/seduction04/11/11 07:57 PM
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I can understand the emasculation. Society has put a man's role as being the one to initiate a kiss. To kiss many women. etc. It's another outside pressure on you. But I don't think it will be an issue to women. It's mostly just media that has instilled that expectation in you. Since you are looking for someone special for you, you can assume the woman is too, otherwise you two won't be intimate. Don't you think there are probably women who want the same thing you do? Our genders are not very di…
/r/seduction02/11/11 04:22 PM
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I think you have to be careful here. It sounds like you are thinking about others expectations and what they want. I'm not going to tell you that sex isn't special, or a kiss isn't special. Because personally, I remember every girl I've slept with. I highly doubt women are going to think bad of you that you haven't done anything. Most likely, they will think its cute. If you're really nervous or curious, you can run it as an opener on sets. "Hey guys, I've only got a minute but I need a female o…
/r/seduction02/11/11 04:08 PM
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Although to be honest, I've had some pretty awesome sex.
/r/seduction02/11/11 03:59 PM
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I'd rather they laugh at me than ignore me. At least they know I'm there.
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:55 AM
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Its not about picking up two girls at once. Pick a target, because it sounds like you trying to get both. Chances are if you treated them both they same, you could easily as come off as just a friend. Though it was a good move asking to go pumpkin carving.
/r/seduction23/10/11 09:31 AM
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For me it was the feeling that I was just fed up with the bullshit. So I started talking to people as much as I could. My friends, my teachers, whomever. If I had a question about something, I wouldn't google it, I'd just ask around to see if anyone knew. If I got curious about something someone was holding, I forced myself to ask them instead of wondering about it for the next hour. Mystery has always put approach anxiety as a normal mindset from tribe society. In a small society where everyone…
/r/seduction08/10/11 08:21 PM
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