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I'm not going to argue the healthy relationship part, it's way too subjective and way too nuanced. I don't think a majority of men are searching for a megan fox look alike. Will they accept it, of course, but men have realistic standards. I can't argue the point because I don't speak to women about their relationships, but I would wager a majority of women don't think they were settled for even if they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:15 PM
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There is no bar for sex. The bar is still super low for relationships because of the current quality of available women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:07 PM
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Yes, by strict standards, men are hypergamous, but that doesn't tell the whole truth. They're hypergamous due to the current state of the average woman. I think a lot of men would be fine with their equal, but it's not out there or it's the top 20%. Women would/are not happy with their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:22 PM
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Your point implies men only settle because they can't get quality women when there really aren't many. Yes, the top 20% is the top 20%, whether it's 2 women or 20,000, but your whole point really isn't the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:43 PM
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Yes, but men only settle because the quality isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:19 PM
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This is not an introvert only nonsense. Im recently out of a divorce and have had to get back in the dating market. Trying to find a single, thin, and childless woman is almost impossible to find between the ages of 25-30. Those are incredibly basic standards, and most women can't meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:13 PM
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The bar for women is at the ground, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:02 PM
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A majority of women seem to be very good at multitasking. I couldn't do it to save my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:45 AM
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awareness that women feel unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:40 AM
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I completely understand your post and agree with part of it. I know this was meant to start a conversation about the way women feel in spaces alone with men, but where is that conversation supposed to lead? What do you expect the average married/taken/single man to do about the issue? I've never met a man that admitted or encourage assault on women. If I see something, I will say or do something but no one has the responsibility of protecting someone. So what is the whole goal of the conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:38 AM
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Bingo. There's clear evidence that social media uses video/pictures/posts to elicit a certain response, whether it be positive or negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:22 AM
1

Absolutely. My wife is pretty similar to me personality wise but nowhere near as disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:00 AM
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That's disgusting behavior, and women wonder why men have turned to rp/bp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:04 PM
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Red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:19 AM
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Care to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:44 AM
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This has always been one of the points of contention I have with RP philosophy. It's a catch 22. If a woman puts out early, she is low value (I agree with that point), but she is also low value because she doesn't put out early for YOU. It's a completely stupid premise. My wife does not have a high body count. When we seriously started talking, we decided we wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. That was completely fine with me. I don't understand why RP guys expect women to be respectable …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:40 AM
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Is a man not having a woman as a close friend a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:08 AM
1

Yeah, I don't care. That's their problem. Those girls didn't have to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:41 AM
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Great. It's always nice to have people with differing opinions in a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:39 AM
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I wear a wedding band because I'm married. I see a real difference in how women treat me. They approach me (in a friendly way) way more often and joke around a lot. Before I would say I'm pretty average looking and pretty socially skilled but women still seemed to keep me at arms length. Now that I'm married (or they see my ring) they are way more friendly and outgoing. Will call, text, or talk to me about whatever whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:14 PM
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If you get so aggravated, just leave the sub. If people don't take your argument in good faith, just stop replying than.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:28 PM
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Get off the internet bro, no one cares if guys do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:31 AM
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I’ve been trying for 3 years, I’ve had to accept it’s just not going to happen for me. Irrelevant and unimportant. It is though, your dating life has a direct effect on how you view the dating world. I understand you want men to find other outlets to consume their effort, but that's not happening. I tried to explain it in something you can understand, but you just don't because you have never lived the life of a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:02 AM
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I understand your point, but the two are incomparable. To start off, if that's you in your pfp, you will have no problem picking up an average man. So I wouldn't say the dating world for you is hopeless. Unlucky at worst. You know deep down you could have a companion (even if he doesn't check ALL your boxes) anytime you want. Most men don't have that back up person or peice of mind. Therefore, they feel pressured to find a spouse/companion asap. Men crave companionship and physical attention. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:46 AM
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I'm genuinely curious. What do you expect to get out of this post? I don't think anyone would disagree with this. Is this just to vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:55 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:40 AM
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Life isn't fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:54 PM
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This is exactly what is wrong with modern dating. This is not an uncommon way of thinking for a lot of women. I don't envy anyone in today's dating market. Being a descent gf/partner = pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:31 PM
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Married man can confirm, wife is exactly like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:13 PM
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The female cope in the comments, "yeah I would chose B but but but...." then say "oh well most men would pick choice B too" that's completely wrong. I'm a materialistic person, and I would choose A every day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:09 AM
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You completely missed the point. Most women would choose B if there was enough of them to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:05 AM
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You definitely staked one side better than the other, intentionally or not. Why does the less attractive person have to work hard to get their money while the attractive person doesn't have to do anything to keep their looks? You also specified that the attractive guy has no anger, negativity, or issues in his life? That would imply the wealthy one does. Due to this being PP I would say you worded your post this way to get the outcome you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:14 PM
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Wtf no lol. I only notice obviously mismatched couples. You took one word from my comment and ran a mile with it, settle down. Not every guy in here is an incel that hates women and thinks they deserve the worst in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:34 PM
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I almost never see mismatched couples. But I do wonder what the deal is if it is skewed one way or the other. I usually ask my wife if she thinks they are mismatched. If she disagrees, I just move on, but if she agrees, I ask what she thinks one did to get the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:26 PM
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Hey no one said the dating world was fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:15 PM
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All the female whores I knew either never settled down or never married a HV man. Their reputation proceeded them and they couldn't find a high-quality man to deal with their past but it may be what they were going to end up with anyways, very few whores I knew were above a 5. Any other time, I believe a female that's a 5 can get a little higher quality man than she deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:45 AM
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Don't be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:56 AM
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I'm neither RP nor incel but I agree that personality makes a difference in the long run. You can have an amazing personality, but if you don't have a basic attraction level, you're not getting in the top 1% of hookups. That was my argument, you probably would be able to find a gf, albeit difficult, but you could find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:28 PM
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I'm curious, do you actually have stats, or are you just pulling numbers out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:30 PM
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"Top 1% sexual partners" refers to what exactly than? To me, that implies top 1% in attractiveness, which are 9-10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:10 PM
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Yeah, I don't believe you were having consensual sex with 10's with none of the listed attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:45 PM
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I'm sorry, I will usually give the benefit of the doubt on here, but you are just completely full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:30 PM
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Yes, my wife is completely fine with how much I make right now, I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:11 AM
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This page has really turned into the oppression Olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:37 AM
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If a chick isn't obese she is already a head of like 40% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:35 PM
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The definition is "a person lower than another in rank, status, or ability." It does not say value anywhere in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:33 AM
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I don't care how someone feels, their value is independent of how others feel. Do you see people below you as less valuable human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:20 AM
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In regards to people! So there are people out there superior to you. Is their life more valuable than yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:56 AM
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That's such a stretch. Do you, at this moment, feel vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:25 AM
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Inferiority in regards to people doesn't mean less valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:22 AM
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More open minded
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:50 AM
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Just admit you aren't cool /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:16 PM
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Cool ad hominem attack, are you actually going to counter his statement? 80% of female replies on this sub aren't even counter arguments, they just attack someone on a personal level they don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:24 AM
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Absolutely based, unfortunately RPs usually have neither lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:53 AM
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Remember men, any man a woman can't control/manipulate/gas light is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:50 AM
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"Oppositional defiant disorder"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:06 AM
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I 100% disagree. I've seen so many relationships go down the toilet because they didn't share similar interests. One of the main ways of strengthening a relationship is quality time, and shared interests make it incredibly easy. Sharing values and goals is the most important, followed by shared interests. A lot of people are selfish and won't even give their partners interests a chance, and when they do, they don't enjoy them. So, it breeds unhappiness and resentment in MOST relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:14 PM
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The problem comes into play when most women WANT all those qualities but don't even have 1/3 of positive female traits to request such a mate. Therefore you have thousands of guys that have one or two of those high value traits but the low value women think they deserve more. There is no shortage of low value women, there is actually a large surplus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:58 PM
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You couldn't find them, CHECKMATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:49 AM
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Didn't know oral for so many women was mandatory. I guess I got lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:50 AM
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But there are far more men that "just exist" (and women) than there are extraordinary men. The problem comes up when women that "just exist" want an extraordinary man instead of a man that "just exists". Extraordinary high value women have no problem finding an extraordinary high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:45 PM
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You're getting bad boy mixed up with dangerous. Women want a dangerous man because they have the capacity to commit violence in defense of their girlfriend/wife, but they don't want that violence committed on them. There's a balance. When she meets a guy who is obviously passive or soft, women don't believe they have the capacity to protect themselves or a woman. I've never met a high value women that enjoyed dating actual criminals or actual "bad boys" Also, I'll give you a little insight on ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:11 PM
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I've been out of the dating game for 5 years. It's changed so much, I honestly don't know if I could give sound dating advice in this current climate. I could only preach self-improvement and patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:31 AM
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You can set aside the red pill stuff, I really don't care. I'm trying to have a genuine discussion about how men are supposed to navigate the current dating market in regards to women using them for a temporary financial crutch or just taking advantage of them. Isn't that what "Chad" is doing? He's not making excuses for himself. He knows what he wants and goes and gets it. So men should go up and ask a woman in the first conversation, "Are you using me for money or are you interested in a serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:13 PM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:01 PM
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Like what? Are you supposed to go up to a girl and ask? Go on dates with them? How much money or time are you supposed to invest in a woman before finding out this information? Because I doubt she will come out and say it in the first conversation knowing men will most likely leave when they find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:42 PM
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How can you tell just by outward appearance what women are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:06 PM
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You say "not all women" and I'm sure you're right but I don't see much to the contrary. I don't see any women calling this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:56 AM
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Yes, because they can't face their lack of accountability and hypocrisy. Women don't like being called out on their shit or being the butt of the joke. I'm sure there are some terrible things said on there but to attribute it to all men on those forums is literally proving their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:47 PM
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I can tell you prior to getting married, I had friends who were girls. They always seemed to keep me at an arms length, like we were never truly friends, but after I got married, women would actively come up and talk to me. They try to build a friendship mainly by playful banter. No matter if it is at work or in college (went back at 26) they have no problem texting me out of nowhere or adding me to an all female group text. I don't know why. I don't know if it's a safety thing or confirmed HVM …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:23 AM
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I feel this shit so much after getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:15 AM
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Are you trying to say butch gay woman don't want a more masculine woman? I don't believe I understand your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:38 AM
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Exactly, I said can for a reason. Why did you type all that shit? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:26 AM
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It CAN work, but I would say a majority of women do not want a feminine man while they are masculine. They just find a man more masculine than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:53 PM
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You have the benefit of hindsight. He had literally been lied to over and over by being told "if you're nice and subservient to a woman they will like you."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:31 PM
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All that shit goes out the window with rules 1&2.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:54 AM
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Help her, I'm not going to make some poor girl at the gym pay for the transgressions of internet whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:59 PM
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They will watch that video, give no actual thought to it and move on. Asking women to be self aware or to hold themselves accountable just isn't possible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:40 PM
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Yes i have to remind my wife sometimes she has gained too much weight and needs to slim down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:01 PM
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Do you have any actual evidence to support that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:26 AM
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I never said women didn't care about that. I said that's not a majority of women's main driver in relationships. They would be fine with a financially responsible guy making 30-40k year with no bad debt, descent looks, and a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:20 AM
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Showing off your money with a nice car, house, clothing, or social status. Now, don't misinterpret my feelings. A majority of women are not looking for that. I'm just talking about in this specific situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:40 PM
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Because they can spend time doing something they enjoy with money over spending time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:36 PM
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The more you lack in personality and looks, the more you will have to make up with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:32 PM
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The problem with dating older is you get the benefit of a mature spouse, but they are usually set in their ways. Being set in their/your way makes things difficult on compromise. It's not impossible, but maintaining a relationship may be more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:59 AM
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I'm starting to get older (currently 28) and younger women (18-27) just don't have anything to offer at a young age. They have no wisdom, they will not help you out, come to your rescue on the side of the road, most women's hobbies (if they even have any) don't usually overlap with male hobbies. They are absolutely terrible at listening and giving advice. Not all young women but a majority of young women make absolutely terrible friends. They have all the qualities of a bad friend and none of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:41 PM
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I can say if you are a nice outgoing person, you will eventually find someone. Just work on your social skills. I knew a couple I had to deal with at my old job due to the nature of my work. Neither of them were much to look at and were functioning (medically) mentally retarded adults. They were both nice people and really loved each other. If they can find someone you definitely can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:14 PM
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You are looking at it from a man's perspective. Women do initiate in their own way. Now I don't agree with it, but they have their own way. You're oblivious to it just as much as she is oblivious of how terrible it is. For example, a woman picks up a box and says "wow this box is super heavy, I can barely lift it" You look over and she doesn't appear to be struggling or in distress so you don't offer your help. In her mind, she just BEGGED you to help and you sat there and watched her basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:32 PM
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Maybe we could do weekend purges, I think that would keep things balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:28 PM
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It was a joke, but thank you for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:49 PM
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I would still be unsure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:46 PM
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To you maybe, but it's their goal, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:23 PM
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I mean shit, op is kind of right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:53 PM
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Chances are if they didn't do/have it before they won't after. You either are or you are not. Let's take some popular names. Andrew Tate and Eric Thomas. They are motivational for different reasons, but their means to an achievement are similar. Hard work will get you where you want to be. If you aren't already trying to better yourself, no amount of A.T. or E.T. videos or TRP reading will persuade you to. Now I'm not saying it never happens but a majority of time if someone is motivated to do s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:44 PM
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Don't give me that soap box crap. If you could pump and dump, you would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:47 PM
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I understood that my wife would not stay the same 20 year old when I married her. I just told her I wanted her to try her best to keep a healthy weight and if her weight ever became a problem we would discuss it. As per your choice in man, find a normal guy. You don't have to share every interest. He will understand your fondness of hentai and either take a normal interest or just find another way for yall to bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:28 PM
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Isn't that what this sub is about /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:29 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:21 AM
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"Still single" from my comment meant not in a relationship for an extended period of time. There is also an implication of choice. People who want to be single don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:21 AM
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You're still single for a reason. Almost every single person I know is not dating material in one way or another. Women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:07 AM
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So? Men like hot women because it's a status symbol too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:13 AM
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Women can date/marry up, men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:57 AM
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Women are descent at relationship advice, but their advice about getting a relationship is lacking. I'm no relationship guru, but I've been happily married for 5 years. I can tell you, work your social circles, and improve yourself. If you don't follow rules 1&2 than OLD probably won't work. You should work on improving every other metric you can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:44 AM
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Women that are 6-8 looks wise get approached far more than the other ranges. Men are going to hit on women that they think are attractive but still have a chance with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:15 AM
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It's a moot point really. If the intimacy I want with my wife/gf/whatever is sex than that's what it is. Just because a woman gets her intimacy through cuddling or quality time does not mean her way is superior. It doesn't discount the way their significant other feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:21 AM
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Having fun now and waiting to settle with some beta in a few years after she has been ran thru. Just like the thinner girls, the only difference is thinner girls get way more quantity and quality of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:00 AM
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You are incredibly out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:31 AM
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The double standard is there because of the libido of men vs women. A majority of men are in the mood way more than the average woman. I would like to have sex with my wife 4 times a week, but she could never keep up with that so I settle for half of that and have to take care of my needs in other ways. Ie your premise above.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:29 AM
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And women are so quick to call them a "pick me."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:21 PM
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Thigh gap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:16 AM
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I saw the post earlier too, seemed like someone overestimated their market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:48 PM
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I agree with you OP, but I don't think there is any actual way to measure it, which is par for the course on this sub because relationships aren't a science. You also look at the dating sphere as a market. The problem with the market and why women can date up is women generally are more attractive, I think they can handle being alone easier than a man, and they can artificially inflate their market value a lot easier than a man can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:48 PM
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Is it my favorite? No Will I take any compliment from anyone? Yes Not going on a pity fest but receiving 1/100,000th the compliments women get, most men will take anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:58 PM
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I don't hate women with high body counts, it's their business but to pretend men and women have the same standards on body count is ridiculous. Yes it's different when it's a woman there is no actual penetration with a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:33 PM
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I do agree with your final statement about fairness but I disagree with your point regarding body counts. A woman's body count is a measure of self control. Almost any woman can get laid in less than a day most less than 30 minutes. It takes no effort to get laid on a woman's part. But a man cannot get laid whenever he wants especially not within 30 minutes. A man has to have personality, charm, good looks to get laid. All a woman has to do is open her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:07 PM
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I use to have this thought process regarding this subject. I didn't care if it was some 18yo and 30yo. Until I was 27 and actually met and had a conversation with an 18yo. They are incredibly young and unwise. They aren't stupid just naive. She was attractive but if I slept with her it would be like sleeping with a child, it felt very wrong. Another point I wouldn't recommend large age gaps. I'm currently 28 my wife is 24. Just 4 years difference in our age and I can tell the difference on occas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:43 PM
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They are using sex to improve their odds of being proposed to and married. They stop because they already have the man and don't understand how a man's brain is wired. I would say a majority of the men I speak to though hasn't had that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:54 AM
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Yes my wife did haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:27 PM
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This is posted every day. Yes, girls can date and marry out of their league. Get over it and make yourself better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:29 PM
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Where does this lie come from that men are intimidated by intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:59 PM
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They try to raise them to be the perfect man in a woman's eyes. Men don't operate that way and I don't know why but a majority of women don't like a sensitive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:57 PM
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An overwhelming majority of women are undeniably poor drivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:49 PM
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Oh no, the toxicity of the internet is not lost on me. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:23 AM
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My workout is pretty balanced and imo is great for raising a men's attractiveness. 30 minutes each day. 2 days upperbody (arms, chest, back) 2 days cardio (running and ab workouts) 1 day legs I'm not going to post it, but if anyone is interested I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:50 AM
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People on this sub should post their picture, it would give/take some of their argument's validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:45 AM
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What does a guy that gives organisms look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:43 AM
2

"The bar is literally on the floor"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:39 AM
3

Women go for men out of their league all the time, I don't see a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:29 AM
8

He is a little generous in the higher numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:25 AM
2

I would say about 80% of people I have met are happy with being mediocre. It drives me nuts to not focus on improvement and moving up. People like us are just wired differently. It's not a bad thing, not everyone can be the head man/woman. It balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:16 AM
1

Not every woman in a friend's group has the same taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:00 AM
2

Absolutely fucking not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:59 PM
0

At least the women in this sub are honest. Most don't want to set their male friends up with females but they won't admit it. I have a suspicion that they know the male friend probably has some feelings and gives them attention. They don't want to lose that attention or back up plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:00 PM
4

There has always been a big back and forth about this but I think a lot of people miss the point. One thing I've seen A LOT of women consistently want is protection. Agreeable/sensitive almost always equals passive or not protective. That is why a lot of sensitive men get friendzoned. Also in my opinion someone can still not be agreeable AND sympathetic. The two are not exclusionary of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:54 PM
1

You're too smart to waste your time being a cop. Get your degree in the nuclear field and make that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:55 PM
17

Holy shit op go touch grass. There are millions of couples now and historically that had happy sex filled monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:12 PM
11

I disagree because I'm a bit of a hypocrite when it comes to body counts for men vs women. It comes down to self control and social status. No matter what a woman's status is she can get dick whenever she wants, so if she chose to be a slut it's a character flaw in the sense of lack of self control. A majority of men cannot get pussy on a regular basis much less whether they want. They have to have something going for them, they have to get a head using some self control (discipline working out …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:04 PM
13

Was coming to comment something similar. OPs argument is based on the fact their goal is a woman who had a hoe phase. I wouldn't want a woman that had a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:59 PM
1

My mistake. Once a month for me. Probably once a week for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:18 PM
2

I can't give perspective on a story told by a third party. There is just too much going on they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:05 PM
1

At least once a week bare minimum, but most of the time 2-3. 27M/24F
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:01 PM
5

Rule #1 and rule #2
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:59 PM
0

The whataboutism in this thread is nuts lol. Every comment "no but men do the same" ok that's not what OP asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:14 PM
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Always keep two categories of women. Ones to keep around for sex and ones you're vetting for a serious relationship. Girls you want a serious relationship with don't give up sex easily anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:40 AM
1

A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:53 PM
2

I'm a capitalist, let the market decide. The overall dating market is how I described it but everyone ultimately has their own choice in their own dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:27 PM
22

Woman don't want to change a think about current dating. They get the best of both worlds an easy life with every right and privilege they could ever want. They know there are still acceptable men out there so they aren't too worried about finding a mate. They have almost every dating advantage in their favor if they are semi attractive and somewhat outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:01 AM
2

Suuure lmao Great counterpoint Ben Shapiro. Purity culture and the degree to which culture assigns sexual desirability as women's only value for a start. No, woman do that because a majority of them have nothing else to offer. No one demands every woman be a virgin, they want woman to be wise when choosing sexual partners because it boils down to an issue self control. 80% of women could find someone to have sex with them within 6 hours or less. Don't bother replying back, I'm not going to conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:19 PM
0

I don't see it that way. Because the thing is, I think that simply talking baout dating and relationships as a matter of demand for commodities is the first mistake that RPers make. And they make it from their perspective of their desire for women. Reality doesn't care how you see it. That's what makes it reality. Men look at dating that way because that's how men view the world in more quantitative way than women. Therefore they try to use something statically wise to prove a point. Suffice to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:06 PM
2

Right, the issue is that I don't see women on a pedestal, I see them around the same place as men. So fundamentally it's not about removing them from a pedestal, but putting them back down in the second class. Where do you get that? Woman and men do have equal rights but woman clearly have an advantage in the dating market, the demand for woman is far higher than the demand for men. Therefore woman are treated far better than men when it comes to relationships. Lmao we do not live in the same cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:19 PM
2

I think RPers want the culture norms of putting woman on a pedestal to stop. This culture tells woman that their mate should accept them no matter their choices or abilities. They tell every girl they are special and deserve Prince charming even when she is trashy tubby Tammy. That is bad for both sexs but arguably worst for men who do not fair well being alone. Woman can die alone and be happy but they would be happier with a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:09 PM
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I have no problem with a woman being this way IF she has equal attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:04 PM
1

I (m28) do 90% of the housework now and 100% of the work outside. I don't want to hear this, women aren't givers and they take just as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:02 PM
2

First of all, case in point, you read too far into my comment and assumed I was talking about you in the final paragraph, I never said you read too far into what they did, I mentioned it was shitty what they did and atypical. I would say that if you made the first move and you still don't have luck with men, than there is something wrong. You're either lacking in the looks, personality, or social department. Also you mentioned about a guy using his native tongue earlier, I hope we aren't debatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:53 PM
1

Yes but I promise you if an attractive female that has desirable characteristics approaches a man (even if they aren't actively looking), he will make an attempt at a LTR. There will be men that sex is the only thing he wants from them but don't make it sound like that's the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:09 AM
1

If an average looking woman approaches an average looking man and they have a descent conversation, I would bet the man takes her number 80% of the time. And I don't know your friend but if they only want sex from her, she probably doesn't have much else to offer. An attractive female with a good personality will not have trouble finding a mate even with hypergamy in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:55 AM
1

Would you say other women have similar results of being rejected 60% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:40 AM
2

How many times have you asked for a man's number and he refused? % or fraction would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:22 AM
0

How old are you? Not to make light of your circumstances but it sounds like school age. You have no idea what the actual dating world is like. Yes those are shitty things that happened to you but what do you expect in school aged boys. Telling your friend or passing a note to a boy in class is far from an approach. I asked for the details because of the clear disconnect between men and women. Women think they are making all these obvious signs and approaching men when all they do is vague signal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:58 AM
3

I was rejected A LOT. Men just didn't want me. No they weren't male models or anything like that, jus regular guys. I was rejected. They also didn't take kindly to the fact I initiated anything or approached first. Men seem to think that they would love it. No you don't. Men usually snapped at me for it! Can you specify what this situation looks like? Did you openly ask them out or did you show signs that you were interested? What is approaching to you? What is your definition of snapped? I ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:00 AM
3

"They feel shame and the only way to not feel shame is to subjugate someone else." A true man never puts down another to feel better or raise himself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:41 AM
6

Holy shit. Get help, you self sabotaged a real life relationship because of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:46 PM
1

The acronyms on this sub are getting out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:54 AM
-1

Possibly but it's a well known phenomenon with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:44 AM
1

Don't worry they will only do that until you get married then she will quit. She will do a lot of things until you get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:36 AM
2

Post nut clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:07 PM
2

I love action movies and Tom cruise is a great actor. For some reason I could never get into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:05 PM
9

I think the difference isn't relationship, it's more about sex. Their argument is 90% of women can get laid with little to no effort. Now that isn't the same for a relationship, probably 60% of women can get a relationship with little to no effort. About 20% of men can get sex with little to no effort and 50% could get a relationship with little effort. This place is bad about blurring the lines with relationship vs sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:41 PM
1

OP asked a question. I have seen it and discussed it with other men and women. I have not discussed your question with other men and women therefore I can't make an educated guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:06 AM
1

That question is way to specific to answer generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:58 AM
2

He is benefitted but the woman does not take that into consideration. She does it for her own gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:50 AM
2

Security. If an attractive woman nabs an unattractive man, he will be easily kept around knowing he can't do any better. Other women will also be less of a threat if her man is unattractive, keeping his chances of unfaithfulness down. Trust me it's not for the man's benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:00 AM
2

Attention isn't always a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:30 PM
1

Well if you phrase it like that yes. You could say something like: I see you swiped right on me also, is there anything that stuck out to you on my profile that we share a common interest in that we can discuss or go out an do for fun? Not that exact quote but a way to find a shared interest and why she swiped on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:24 PM
2

Asking is a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:19 PM
3

It really boils down to options, but if I had to give any advice, you have to stick out of the crowd of options. Find out why she swiped right on you and capitalize on that. Meet fast but don't seem too eager. If you haven't booked a date within the first two days, it won't go anywhere, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:16 PM
1

Does a deep knowledge of anime and hentai count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:49 PM
1

Corinna Kopf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:26 PM
2

No you should, but the whole "just be around a woman for a long time and hope she falls for you" isn't going to help a man. That's definitely going to land him in the friendzone and make him more frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:05 AM
-1

This might be the worst advice I've ever read regarding dating. Congrats OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:59 PM
5

There were some things that normal people do in a relationship that she wanted me to do that I didn't know to do. We have been together for 5 years and it was only around the first 6 months to a year. Nothing sticks out in my mind since its been a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:15 AM
5

I think it was frustrating for my wife being my first real relationship, but I think she liked it in the long run so she could "mold" me into the husband she wanted. I didn't have any bad relationship habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:56 AM
2

Is this your first day on reddit? People have made up their minds on here and come here to change other people's views to fit their own. Most people on here have somewhat the same core realistic values in dating they just differ on the finer details. I come here to read woman's perspective because it's interesting to see the world through the opposite gender's view.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:54 AM
3

Body 9 Face 7, definitely not unattractive though Overall solid 8. If she has a solid personality definitely wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:03 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:40 PM
3

Women could never imagine a world without attention/living life on easy mode. So you are not going to get a valid answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:36 PM
4

I think a lot of people are missing OPs (poorly) explained point. He is saying that before you lose your virginity, your main focus as a male is losing your virginity. So as a result you're going to see every woman as a opportunity to reach a milestone in your life. He is not saying woman are objects, he is saying woman are opportunities. And before you say woman shouldn't be seen as opportunities, woman do the same thing with men, they just see a lot of men as an opportunity for LTR instead of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:55 AM
52

That's because you're spending more time on education than socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:49 AM
3

Well when should he get married, now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:17 AM
1

Its funny when women argue that women don't hit a "wall" not understanding that the wall is your value not how attractive you are. Then validate it by saying men will screw anything but won't settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:45 PM
2

I would guess its because woman want to date above their "level" in looks/status. The average woman is going to go for the above average man which is going to mean average looking guys get less attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:40 PM
11

Motherly instincts is an interesting way to say big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:24 PM
3

My wife plays xbox. Simps will send her money just to play with her when she asks. Over a four year period she has probably gotten over 3k. I can only imagine what female streamers make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:15 AM
26

Nice of women to come in here and give you confirmation lol. Every other comment "I'm not lowering my lifestyle blah blah blah"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:49 PM
2

So I would say a majority of above average younger women get hit on more often than drop dead gorgeous ones because men they think they are more obtainable. My wife who is about an 8.5 in looks gets hit on a lot, my suspicion is that she is very pretty but not super out of their league so they shoot their shot. Op you are probably very attractive and intimidating to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:20 PM
3

I think you're on the right track but there is a looks threshold that once you are below you will not find any women that will say yes. When I was OLD I had two categories. Woman I was interested in seriously dating and women I would sleep with. I guess you could say I played the numbers game with the women I would sleep with but I was more selective when it came to serious love interests. But I'm in the minority that found a good mate OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:29 PM
1

In the case 2 boys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:29 AM
0

Honestly, I would try to convince my wife to try to have all three as long as it doesn't risk her life. But if I had to make a decision personally because the guilt would be too much for my wife, 1 boy and the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:43 PM
1

Men are going to try to attract the women they want. Those men don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:15 AM
184

Call am ambulance.......but not for me!
/r/PussyPassDenied06/04/22 12:03 AM
1

Positivity isn't something that happens to you, its an outlook. You're the only person that can turn things around. You will, I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:32 PM
9

If you think your male friends aren't still holding out hope to get back together, you're naive. Your/every man knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:24 PM
1

I'm in my late 20s I would find it refreshing in today's world, a lot of people I know male and female enjoy/make them. If a guy is turned off by your dark humor he probably isn't a good fit for you as a friend or lover wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:13 AM
1

This is a debate sub, good luck getting an answer outside the FDS echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:02 AM
7

I'm not saying marry super young but I'd say beginning at 20, each year your eligible quality dating pool goes down by 50%. Quality men are not waiting until their 30s-40s to settle down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 11:12 PM
0

I (married male) try to keep my female friends laid back but professional in a class or work setting. I do not have any "personal" female friends, my wife wouldn't be comfortable with that and neither would I be comfortable with her having male "personal" friends. I don't really crave a friendship with a female because honestly they don't have much to offer because they are so different than men. My wife is very close to me personality wise but we are still very different people. Prior to being …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:56 PM
2

Just mainly views on dating and how woman can interpret things differently. I was aware of woman's struggles but I'm more aware of what they actually are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:36 PM
1

On?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:32 PM
1

I appreciate the outside view points. Keeps me grounded outside of echo chambers and challenges my views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:56 PM
2

I was considering leaving this sub because it was just straw man arguments on both sides. When a good comment was made legitimately countering OPs argument they would double down or bring up unrelated points. But after reading through this thread it gives me hope, I think this will save the sub, its very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:32 PM
1

A HV male is not born, but there are genes that help. Much like other say a HV man is somewhat subjective and based on the woman that makes the call. I'll give you an example of what I personally believe is a HVM and talk about female HVM. A HVM is a man that is responsible. He is responsible about his health, he eats well and exercises. He is responsible about his education, he learns about what interests him and makes him better. He is financially responsible, he doesn't go into massive debt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:33 AM
4

Probably going to get downvotted into an oblivion but here it goes. Look the way he wants you to. If he wants you to be fit, thin, and pretty be that. Now don't do anything unhealthy or immoral but he will be happy with you, if you're what he wants already. Both genders have fallen into the trap of thinking "they should love me for me" really? Why? Why do you think you have the right to be low value when you owe it to your spouse to be the best you, you can be. It's also a TWO way street. If he …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:22 AM
1

My comment is strictly about two people in a committed L.T. relationship so I'm not going to argue any on your first point. I didn't specifically state it but my post has the qualifier that the woman does not have sex with her SO or even make a move. Also I would disagree that men have a reputation of being disciplined, well modern men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:02 PM
1

My point was regarding cheating, and yes married men do fuck hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:50 PM
-1

I agree its a choice but totally throwing out the discussion of urge is completely irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:10 PM
0

So where do you draw the line? If I cheated on my wife after she didn't want to have sex for a week I doubt you would think that's okay. What time frame would you give a normal man for his cheating to be more than discipline?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:08 PM
9

You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. Most normal man have a NEED for sex. Not a right to sex though so don't get me mixed up with the incels. Judging by your post you're probably not a man or you're a low T man. You don't understand the urge to have sex drives a lot of your decisions (hence the term post nut clarity) like cheating. When a normal man gets what he wants from his wife sexually his mind is clear and he wouldn't even look at another woman that way. But when he hasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:55 PM
3

It's MAM!
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/20 11:34 AM
5

Slap like lady ehh?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/20 07:00 PM
1

Yeah she knew someone that made a phone call, or the department didn't want bad press.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 05:18 PM
-1

Holy shit these people in the comments don't know shit about DUI stops. Breathalyzer readings are not admissible in court. She refused an Intoxilyzer test. Breathalyzers are not maintained like intox machines are which is why they are not admissible hence why he didn't just get her license and make her blow into a breathalyzer. I know no one can say whether she is truly impaired except for that officer on scene that observed her eye movement, so none of you Reddit law experts can tell if it was …
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 12:14 PM
1

Yeah, drop an "Ultraviolet 2" and see what happens.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 03:22 PM
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