bsmithril Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	What are some good ways of asking if she’s single besides “are you single?” And how is that working out for you?	/r/seduction	26/06/25 04:40 AM
1	Hey, I’m thinking about approaching women at a coffee shop but I don’t know what to say. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm genuinely curious. Why are you here?	/r/seduction	06/06/25 02:29 AM
9	Fat guys of seduction, how successful are you? Entitled? Is it entitlement to apply for the better paying job you may be unqualified for? Is it entitled to expect great things for yourself and go for it? No, it's not entitlement, it's ambition. Ratings are made up approximations and a motivated mid can get better women than a settling 7. I mean this from a place of love: don't give yourself easy excuses to give up on the life you want.	/r/seduction	16/04/25 03:39 AM
10	Fat guys of seduction, how successful are you? Yeah for sure everyone including her is trying to date up. I get it you just want to know if any other biggins are able to have success at it. The higher up you shoot for the harder it is. You have the right attitude I wish you the best and I hope you can beat the odds.	/r/seduction	16/04/25 03:31 AM
1	I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try. For sure, if you want something go for it. The experience comes from the experience. Getting used to not caring so much about outcomes is the best experience.	/r/seduction	19/02/25 08:31 PM
3	I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try. I think I understand. She's really amazing but more importantly the odds of getting with her are way higher than any other prospects. Perhaps to the point of thinking you have no other prospects. Ok, If you want to get in the way of something she already has. "Let's get coffee sometime" isn't the way. It gives too much time for her to think about it. Instead, pull her into an experience, show her things. Maybe instead say "have you had the (some drink/food/etc). I'm going to get one you should c…	/r/seduction	19/02/25 05:10 PM
3	instead of a real man...? The longer you use it the more you'll see the ticks and mistakes and it'll start to lose its verisimilitude and seem inauthentic and you'll kick that ai boyfriend to the curb like all the other boys who came before.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 06:13 PM
1	instead of a real man...? Also the movie Her.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 06:06 PM
1	Body language if he doesn’t know you very well? In a cold meet situation where he doesn't know you at all, the latter is probably more common unless he's confident and used to putting himself out there. He may avoid looking at you all together. In order to know, someone is going to have to give a little first. If you catch him looking at you he quickly looks away then he's probably interested. Follow that up with acknowledging him somehow friendly. If he is in fact interested he'll then start to behave like you describe in your first portion.…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 09:09 PM
3	What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls) You should've said you get 1 new girl per week consistently since you were 15. 3 in a month doesn't quite get you there. Too late now though take backs aren't allowed unless you change your name.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 06:33 PM
9	I finally did it ! It's pretty normal for 20 somethings i think. Not all ppl but some will only share snap. Bits safer to get a feel for a person from stories and what not. Phone number exchange is like a milestone in a relationship.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 12:36 AM
1	The most important question in the history of seduction But then lid gets zero action and there's a bowl of toilet water wide open for anything to fall in.	/r/seduction	10/12/24 01:34 AM
1	Need advice I've done some small research and I can understand why you would feel so down about yourself. However there is no reason to try to pull others into adopting your filthy self view. Everyone is trying to be better your shit isn't helping anyone especially yourself.	/r/seduction	08/12/24 06:32 PM
4	convince methat women want sex too The difference between creepy and not creepy is if she's attracted. Everything could be considered creepy these days. It's best to not be too worried about it.	/r/seduction	05/12/24 04:40 PM
3	Why does the chick keep staring after rejection? Maybe it's a shit test. Realistically though they probably aren't interested initially but watching you after is good news. They are watching and determining if they are attracted. At the least, giving you a chance to turn it around. Put your game face on and keep smiling and having fun. Let them watch you talking and having a good time around the club with both men and women. It helps your cause for her to see you engaging with both. In my area people out are usually happy to mingle with strang…	/r/seduction	25/11/24 05:57 AM
8	How do you guys keep going? The best thing I ever did for my personal happiness is delete the dating apps.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 06:12 PM
1	How do I end to attract confident ,courageous,fearless,assertive women? And it's hard to know how they are seeing you.	/r/seduction	12/11/24 11:17 PM
1	I lost today Right but people overlook trying that though? They end the night thinking hmm maybe I should've tried being attractive. It's like someone saying their car won't start and you're like "Have you tried turning the key." It just sounds crass and unhelpful that's all. I thought maybe they could elaborate on why it would be important to mention.	/r/seduction	09/11/24 04:47 PM
1	I lost today Really? Wtf do you mean? Ok maybe you're legit trying to be helpful could you elaborate?	/r/seduction	09/11/24 09:30 AM
1	Coming from a religious background, how do I overcome my indoctrination? I never experienced that with Christianity. Granted there are hundreds if not thousands of versions.	/r/seduction	01/11/24 06:41 PM
15	The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!) 😂🤣. This had my dying!	/r/seduction	23/10/24 07:06 PM
2	I am 40 and starting to learn game I don't think that's anything he said.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:53 PM
8	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? Some people give up before even starting all while attempting to convince themselves that whatever they do won't be good enough anyway. Try to decipher what is really going on with your thought process and consider if you are looking for truth or excuses. It sounds to me like you don't want to even try but you want someone to take away the guilt of your inaction by telling you it's a waste of time. Stop saying you can't because that's bullshit. Start saying you can and just accept that you can d…	/r/seduction	17/09/24 04:13 AM
4	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? It's not fact it's a cop out. You tell yourself you can't because you don't want to and rather than take responsibility for being lazy and pessimistic you say you're somehow different than everyone else like you have a gene that makes it physically impossible for you to make a conscious decision to take action in your life. Stop saying it's not possible and just admit that you're unwilling.	/r/seduction	17/09/24 04:05 AM
4	Has your views changed since learning game I guess my question is to the philosophy of it. Not to sound crass but sex organs are a renewable resource and will return to their original shape 😅. Why shouldn't a woman be free with sex? Birth control is available and it's easy to be safe to avoid STDs. If safeguards are taken, what is inherently wrong about it?	/r/seduction	10/09/24 06:23 PM
3	Taking a Break from Dating I second this. What op is describing is cognitive distortions.	/r/seduction	10/09/24 06:02 PM
1	Has your views changed since learning game I'm interested in learning your reasons. Is it a religious decision?	/r/seduction	10/09/24 10:16 AM
1	Does being seen with unattractive girls hurt your game? Ah yeah I agree. Though I do acknowledge the cold harsh reality that there are objective truths on attractiveness. Same goes for intelligence, body type, skin type, drive etc. And that both men and women alike have preferences that certain people are far less likely to be preferred in any of. It's cruel for sure. Probably there is a more righteous way to go about mate seeking. Like people who choose friends based on drugs use, ambition, or success. Surrounding themselves with people simply to he…	/r/seduction	10/09/24 12:01 AM
0	Does being seen with unattractive girls hurt your game? I'm curious what makes you think that?	/r/seduction	09/09/24 11:07 PM
10	How do I stop being a pu**y? You've recognized it that's the hardest part. You simply change the subject as soon as you start doing it. Think about things you are grateful for and remind yourself that you're doing better every day. That it's a marathon not a race and growth is a process. Legit remind yourself this every time you feel down about yourself. My thought process goes something like: "well that was fucking dumb,(realize my self talk) but whatever I'm figuring it out, game face back on". Try not to put my head down…	/r/seduction	05/09/24 12:16 AM
1	Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?" Heck yeah you're doing alright. Sounds like you have huge potential. Dating apps don't work for me, I have to go meet people in person. Sounds like you could afford a kick ass pad to host parties.	/r/seduction	09/08/24 02:11 AM
6	Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?" It definitely is much easier to come up with excuses as to why it's pointless than to actually follow through on fitness or financial/career goals. Yeah life sucks for sure. Maximize the things that are in your control and silence the internal victim.	/r/seduction	09/08/24 01:58 AM
2	Plea for help You're still young, have no STDs, no kids holding you down, no baby mamas sapping you for child support. If you want to be happy, it's very helpful to fill yourself with as much gratitude as possible. Think more of the things you are grateful and less of what you are a victim of. It's hard to do but the more aware you are of what's going on inside your mind the more control you have over your life entirely.	/r/seduction	30/07/24 11:30 PM
1	How do you guys respond to "I have a bf" in a playful way This reeks of an insecurity. Respect yourself man. Consider dropping that short term tactic based domination mindset where you see human beings as obstacles and prizes. Your ego will be the only thing doing the fucking and you're not going to be on the end you want to be on.	/r/seduction	28/07/24 09:48 PM