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I have seen so many MRA types brag about how if their girlfriend put on weight they would bully her until she developed an eating disorder. I would love to show these men photos of what I looked like with bulimia with my skin peeling off, hair falling out and teeth that required a ton of reconstructive work. Or of a friend of my sister who died from anorexia. And I bet they'd still find it "hot"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:32 AM
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I've encountered multiple guys (both online and irl) suggest they'd like to date a woman with an eating disorder because at least she'd stay thin. And seen internet scrotes suggest that if your wife / girlfriend puts on weight you should bully her until she develops an eating disorder. I've had bulimia, and a friend of my sister's became dangerously anorexic and eventually died. I dare any of these men to look at photos of either of us at the worst of these diseases and then say that's attractiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:19 PM
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I know a woman who spent her 20s travelling and working as a teacher, around 30 she decided she wanted to train to be a doctor instead and at 40 is qualified and practising. No marriage or LTRs by her own choice (she dated at least one unpleasant LVM in her early 20s - maybe he put her off), owns a home and earns good money, happy ever after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:22 PM
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I really like Louise O'Neill's "The Surface Breaks" which is a feminist re-telling of The Little Mermaid, with many details of the original version including all the mutilation she goes through and leading her to despair when she realises she's put herself through this for someone she in reality barely knew and didn't "love" her. The ending isn't a happy one but it does allow her a chance to fight back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:27 AM
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I imagine a lot of it is because of the perception that women's highest value is in their teens/early 20s and they need to settle down quickly before they become unappealing and lose their fertility at 25 or 30, whereas a man improves and becomes wealthier, better looking and more desirable with age so he can afford to be picky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:15 PM
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"Open-minded" usually means he expects anal all the time and / or any degrading or painful thing he's seen in porn. Or is looking to act out BDSM fantasies that are basically an excuse to be violent to a woman "Looking for a healthy woman" - most people prefer a fit, active partner who's not overweight, that is not unreasonable but emphasising it on a dating site can indicate someone who thinks he has the right to bully a woman over her looks. I've known men who said they would rather date a wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:47 PM
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I remember seeing a website article about women who don't shower regularly - most of those featured had health problems and / or very busy lives with young children, and they all said they sponge bathed every single day (not ideal, but better than nothing.) Many of the comments spoke about how disgusting it was and criticised the women because aren't they giving their husbands sex? But it's apparently fine and dandy when a man doesn't bathe at all and we should still be having sex with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:57 AM
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I wonder how this guy treats Black women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:18 AM
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They often educate all the kids at home (we don't want them going to a lefty public school to learn about stuff like evolution or women's rights!) And some of them grow all their own food and make everything from scratch i.e. bread, clothes, curtains etc. which takes time. There are "trad" families that try to live in a bizarre simulation of the past and refuse to have a washing machine or a modern cooker or use a mop rather than scrub on hands and knees, so cooking and cleaning take hours longe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:22 PM
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I'm not "triggered". I do know what happened when my grandmother's husband walked out on her in the 1970s and she was stuck as a single mother in poverty trying to raise three children by herself, having married at 17 and with her only work experience being a year or two on a factory production line. So while I don't deny that some women are happy being stay at home mothers, I would never give up my financial independence (this doesn't mean "working in an office all day and neglecting the childr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:42 PM
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And will you "love" anal sex so much when you have a prolapse? This is basically the kinky version of those articles by conservative women about "I was nagging, demanding and focused on my career and children at the expense of my husband! Our sex life was nonexistent, until we agreed to have sex every day whether I wanted to or not! It saved my marriage!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:35 PM
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I guess this is a variant of #4 but still: guys who resent spending any money on the children, or contributing to household expenses and are all "*I'm* not their father, why should I be expected to pay for them?" Misogynist and won't treat your children well Also, the kind of manbaby who throws tantrums when you're not at his beck and call because you need to take care of your children, or you think it's more important to attend the school play than go out with him, etc. This should be obvious b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:01 PM
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I like my men how I like my coffee: not talking about its erection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:34 PM
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When my sister and I were teenagers living at home, a friend of hers came to stay with us for a few weeks. Something about him felt "off" to me and I was wary, but not sure why. To cut a long story short, I found out from Facebook that he'd been following one of my sister's classmates around (this girl and my sister were both 15-16, the guy was 18-19) and "joked" to his mates about raping said classmate. At the time, I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to admit I had snooped thro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:24 PM
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The reason for a lot of my "pickme" behaviour when I was younger was that I wasn't attracted to older men but feared that if I got "too old", no one my age would want me and a guy in his 50s or 60s would be my only option. I've seen enough examples of age gap relationships being predatory or, in the case of my sister's first marriage, just not working out due to the differences that I wouldn't consider it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:42 AM
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That is the single worst excuse I've ever heard. He deserves to be kicked out on his ass for even trying it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:30 AM
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I am recovering from a major case of pickme. That was caused by a combination of many, many things but mostly the following: My mother's side of the family are from an Asian culture which reinforces being a wife and mother as the "right" life for a woman and a duty to society and parents. Even in my teens I feared the consequences of growing old alone and getting too old to have children Having friends with the same kind of views; most of them Asian, but I had white friends who had married very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:56 PM
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Why do these men think they should be venerated throughout history basically just for being male? It reminds me of a discussion I once saw on TRP or similar where a bunch of scrotes all agreed that any woman who wouldn't take their name was an evil bitch not worthy of being their wife, and the most upvoted comment was something like, "she should feel HONOURED to use my name and be a part of MY legacy and if we divorce she no longer has that privilege." And who exactly are you? What have you done…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:14 AM
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I once read a magazine article about women who become Catholic nuns despite no prior religious upbringing or desire to be a nun. One of the subjects interviewed was a young late 20s-early 30s woman who was currently studying to take her vows and she said that she had hesitated to give up the chance to get married or have children but had ultimately realised that she was more attracted to the idea of having a wedding, the "honeymoon period" of the first few years and the excitement of a first bab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:21 PM
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Some people here might be familiar with the author Helen Bailey and her book When Bad Things Happen in Good Bikinis, a memoir she wrote about her experiences as a widow after her husband died unexpectedly. When they got married she was in her early 20s and he in his 40s and on his third marriage. One chapter of the book is about how her view of him and his behaviour changed over time and the consequences to their relationship - he didn't like her challenging him on things she wouldn't have befor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:32 AM
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