bubblegumnicole Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!!	Court	bubblegumnicole	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:13 AM
4	How can I help my dad?	Getting Started	bubblegumnicole	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 05:48 AM

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1	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! No, the house is a total loss. She is still co owner. She just never took steps in discussing the sale of the house or connecting them with a realtor or appraiser. Just wanted to point fingers 16yrs later than the house hasn’t been sold or her bought out of it. So she will get half of that family house value. I thought 401K values were only from date divorce was finalized? Her getting access to equity of it SUCKS. In theory, is everything community property even after separation, and cut off for…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 06:13 PM
2	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! NOPE. It honestly looked like a third grader wrote it. It just says “shall list home for sale”, “will transfer vehicle and execute all documents in connection with transfer” Nothing else. Just a to do list. So yeah, she never gave up her rights to anything more so now we have to duke it out bc she’s taking from a retired man’s pockets. When there was already an agreement (although no finality jargon of that property only), but she greedily had to come back 16 years later to ask for more that she…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:13 PM
1	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! My apologies, I typed while emotionally charged so when I said ruined, I was thinking about the financial setback the new claims could have on a man that was months out from retirement. For a woman that’s been divorced longer than 16 years to stick her head out with claims for more property that wasn’t originally addressed, it just sounds like a scorned woman trying to get a leg up and last laugh. There was no definitive or closing jargon in the original decree that implied community property wa…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:05 PM
1	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! Oh yeah the AI overview definitely says no limit on filing a petition for partition, but related claims have TIME LIMITS (prescription periods). Obligation for spouse to provide accounting for community property under their control after community regime ended prescribes in 3 years from date community property regime terminated Claims for reimbursement are subject to a liberative prescription of 10 years from termination of community property regime I wonder if this means he has a stronger conte…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 02:04 PM
-2	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! you wouldn’t believe what women are allowed to get away with in Louisiana. I almost want to tell the lawyer, show me where it says she can do this!!!! (Yeah we already knew the house was toast) but to come back for more asks all the sudden?!!!! And does the judge even have jurisdiction over properties in Asia!! cut the man a break. funny how she’s doing all this, but she has 3 sons with one engaged. Now all the siblings preach among each other needing to protect their own assets. Way to go mom, …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:59 AM
0	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! Lawyer says she can only touch what was existing at time of divorce. Additional consultations say it doesn’t matter that ex wife didn’t address those community of acquets and gains in original divorce bc at the end of the day there was no jargon that said she gave up her rights to them. So it’s looking like a free for all for ex wife and a delay in retirement for Dad.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:51 AM
0	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! Bayou attorney hahahahahahahahahahaha. But that’s what I’m saying!!!!!! But it has to be in some way admissible bc her lawyer put it in writing and made it to court! Now, got to hope Dads lawyer pulls out every stop to protect as much of his doll hairs as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:42 AM
1	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! Thank you for commenting!!!! …but I’m not comprehending what you’re saying😭 What were you going back on after 5 years? Just wondering if there was a parallel there. And what do you mean by precedent? It honestly looks like the judge is going to have it. I’m trying to read some law books for anything to fight back with, but I literally get tachycardia and filled with despair every time. I absolutely need to try to save my Father from my mother’s greed.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:39 AM
1	How can I help my dad? how did the decades difference in trying to obtain things lend a different result to the black and white nature of women usually getting the payout they ask for?? I’m trying to remain neutral looking to my mom. I don’t agree with the extent she’s going. She can’t even say the level of greed is necessary to raise us and give us a good life! You didn’t seek it when we were growing up 17 years ago but all of a sudden you want to claim things now. There’s a complete power difference between capabili…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 03:27 PM
2	How can I help my dad? Yes! what were they thinking to set something so vague. if he had known more or had more guidance maybe he could have had the house appraised back in 2008!! bc values of things so much later and quantifying values during marriage become a bit of a thing needing double checking and extra investigations with maybe the tiniest ambiguity. I would have never known of a “written legal opinion”!!! Happy to have come across this jargon with you!! I reckon it costs more? To be honest, I would have expect…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 03:12 PM
1	How can I help my dad? it’s still happy solid advice I think. kind of laughable but it helped to see. at first glance i thought it was a lawyer replying LOL	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 02:53 PM
1	How can I help my dad? well im not sure if she wanted half… right now. getting info from my dad was like telling a bunch of fifth graders to pass a message down. it could have been two separate entities like half of 401k or retirement and getting listed as beneficiary on something in addition. disclaimer not familiar with anything and haven’t seen the full paperwork yet. If the greedy, scorned party only sees the money when the other passes.. im not sure why it’s something people get in a tizzy about. I assumed it wou…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 02:09 PM
1	How can I help my dad? hehe i know, the internet advice just adds something to my blank slate bc i know next to nothing about divorce proceedings! never seen or heard anything beyond peeks at my own parents. so it gives a base for my gears to turn around and spotlights things for when i do a google dive. that is a very veeerrryy interesting aspect. taking loans out against shared aspects just a little to help with legal fees. it’s almost like a HAHA you get less but I mean he will also get a little less bc the new spl…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 02:04 PM
1	How can I help my dad? are you saying take a loan out against the house that she wants half of to pay for legal values? im not sure how a lot of this works, but I think my dad might need to sell or refinance the house to give her her share at the end of the day, so a small loan upfront when a big loan would maybe be needed sounds counter intuitive? or are you saying by doing that method, the value of what item goes down and he’ll pay her less for it but he will also have the money for legal fees?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 07:40 AM
2	How can I help my dad? you are the best thing to happen to Reddit, thank you so much for taking the time to share all of this, especially in a manner so easy to follow and digest! we only have 3 weeks to try to make sure my dad puts up a strong fight. im not sure if that is enough time to obtain a lawyer for him if his eyes only recently opened to what’s going on so close to the court date, but our shield has a foundation thanks to your advice😭🙏 just need to find company names and get the right jargon to try to get th…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 07:31 AM