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Yep! Exactly it is just sad how society has "forgot" how to do this in real life (I'm guilty of this!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:21 PM
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I recieved those messages when I was on OKC and get 99+ likes within seconds of downloading Tinder. And in the rare occurance when I swipe right, 9/10 I match with them only for them to be duds, it's still the same crap, trust me. You're actually more likely to sift through garbage the more attractive you are, I honestly had to quit because it was so overwhelming. The derogatory and rude messages also put me off apps for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:20 PM
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I second this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:13 PM
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Yeah, they try their luck my building "competition" in your head, this tactic only works on insecure women or those with low self esteem sadly. And LOL, the gym rats and stoners, it's like tinder is full of clones too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:13 PM
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Yeah, same. I've lowered my standards loads of times in the past and it results in the same shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:11 PM
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Very well said! And yep, there are lurkers on this sub who feel personally attacked by this post who have private messaged me. All I can say is if the boot fits wear it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:10 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:01 PM
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OMG this! I even questioned my sexuality at one point 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:20 PM
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Lol! My mum actually told me that attractive/high-quality men wouldn't need those apps years ago. I was like oh everyone uses dating apps get with the times! ...Now I realise that she was right despite there been less stigma around OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:23 AM
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Good on you! I've been celibate for years and its actually empowering. The only way I'll consider sleeping with someone again is on my honeymoon, I know I'm missing out on nothing with it comes to dating apps and ONS. I'm in your position and was in a worse predicament recently. I lived in such a remote village, had no circle there and wasn't meeting anyone... it was just awful and what made me rely on OLD apps. I only recently moved and saw sense of it all! I too work from home so I know what y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:32 PM
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I know your pain as I literally got asked for ID on my 27th birthday of ALL days! But women who look young like us are still gonna look good and have it when where much older. I haven't tried this and it sounds cliche but your usual clubs, groups and meetups give you a better chance of finding high quality people. Your return of investment will be a lot more than wasting hours on apps. Because even if those methods don't work, you would've had fun in the process. People have survived without the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:54 PM
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Wooow wtf?! How long did that relationship last out of curiosity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:49 PM
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Your experience is not uncommon as I've heard this a million times. Especially the many pointless dates scenario. But its better to know now than to still be clueless and have no self awareness later on in life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:48 PM
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It affected my self esteem a lot in the past too. I felt like I'd never be good enough for a relationship since all these men only wanted sex. Thanks to FDS, I know the truth. What was even more difficult is the advice on other subs on here and on other womens forums. I'd either get the "Lower your standards" or "Oh I met someone I married online, your defeatist attitude won't get you anywhere". Seriously, just p*ss off. I know my worth now and like you, I'd rather be happily single forever than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:46 PM
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Yep. You're more likely to catch an STD than have an orgasm too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:41 PM
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So glad to read this. You're much happier better off investing in you and living a fulfilling life. And yep, most men are losers on there from my experience. One guy opened my eyes and told me that HVM wouldn't be on these sites or if so, very rarely. So us women have the illusion of choice, many likes and matches but with little to no options. This guy was bi so he knows dating on both sides, it was incredibly enlightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:41 PM
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That's brilliant and well said 😂👏🏻 But think it's more like fools gold rather than a cubic zirconia!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:38 PM
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If he can't even hold a conversation in real life, imagine how boring he is in real life, next! There's so many low effort guys on these apps that its unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:53 AM
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Thanks for your response! I'm glad it helped. I just don't want women to feel like its just them or feeling not good enough like I did. I'd post on other subreddits about this and would get responses from butthurt men like, "Lower your standards and give average men a chance" or "You're unattractive". BULLSHIT. I know I'm an attractive woman, I get thousands of likes and matches and that means nothing. I even tried forcing things with mediocre "average men" and even below average men in past cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:51 AM
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As a 27 year old who has only had sex with one person (in a relationship with the wrong person), I get shamed a lot for "not having enough experience" for my age on multiple occasions. The joke is that these men that criticise are clueless. Sex gets better with practice and when I say practice I mean with a trustworthy partner on multiple occasions. How is it going to even get or be good with a one night stand? And chances are if they guy doesn't give a fuck about you, he literally won't during …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:47 AM
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