bubblytoes11 Archive

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10	How many relationships did you have before you met your husband, and do you think previous relationship experience helped you or hurt you?	DISCUSSION	bubblytoes11	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/22 06:01 PM

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1	Women with successful relationships, what do you think is key to maintaining the relationship. The biggest thing that makes a successful relationship long term, in my opinion, is true commitment. This means that my partner and I place the health of our relationship over all other relationships. Valuing commitment let’s my wife and I feel very secure in our relationship and paves the way to solid communication. Solid communication means that we both know what the other needs. For example: my wife knows that I need her to do the dishes always. My step-father used dishes as a way to abuse me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 01:48 AM
2	I’m a newlywed who has raised as a staunch feminist. How can I have a great marriage and let go of my old programming? Yep! Go as low contact with those family members as possible. Surround yourself with people who bring positivity and support to your life! I wish you luck :-)	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/22 05:15 PM
1	I’m a newlywed who has raised as a staunch feminist. How can I have a great marriage and let go of my old programming? You are submissive to your husband, but that doesn’t make you submissive to others. Perhaps you need to adjust your mindset. I know it helped a lot when I started to think of me and my wife as a family that I am responsible for (my wife is the head of our family and I am her support). My wife and I are responsible for creating an environment for our family that focuses on the ideals we value. When our family members offer up advice that does not align with our values we simply say, “Thank you fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/22 01:54 PM
1	How many relationships did you have before you met your husband, and do you think previous relationship experience helped you or hurt you? Not insecure at all. They knew each other for a long time. They even worked together for a couple of years at a tennis club (before he moved last summer). I met him and we were all buds. He attended our wedding with his wife and their little girl was our flower girl. He is an awesome guy! I will never doubt their friendship and I can totally understand why my wife dated him. She was on the tennis circuit and travelled constantly. He played in several of the same tournaments and they were coached…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/22 12:27 PM
1	How many relationships did you have before you met your husband, and do you think previous relationship experience helped you or hurt you? They were great friends, and had been great friends since they were young. She definitely liked him in that sense. As far as sexually though, there was no attraction. She sincerely just thought she was doing what was normal. She, like myself, was just entirely unaware of the fact that she was no sexually attracted to men. But it doesn’t matter either way. What matters is she likes me most lol	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/22 05:59 AM
3	Question For Women: How long would you go without sex in a relationship? My wife had to have ankle surgery and was laid up in bed for 6 weeks. We were fine. My depression sucked my libido away. We didn’t know how long it would gone. We didn’t have sex for three months, and we were fine. We usually have sex four or five times a week. We have had other dry spells caused mostly by depression/depression meds. It is what it is. We have our whole lives to have sex! To answer your question, as long as I knew the reason as to why sex wasn’t happening, I could probably go for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 02:34 PM
1	Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way? Everyone was a beginner once. Beginners lose. I would be proud as fuck that my partner is trying, learning a new skill, competing, and putting themselves out there. For those who lose: you may be embarrassed, but that doesn’t mean the people who are associated with you are embarrassed by you. For those with a partner that lose: make sure they know you aren’t embarrassed by their loss by pointing out the things that impressed you. Like “wow when you punched him in the face that first time, he loo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 03:34 PM
4	[deleted by user] It is my understanding that receiving child support affords your children the opportunity to stay at the “level of life” to which they have become accustomed. A divorce should have as little impact on children as possible. Do we have a perfect system? Fuck no. Do men get the short end of the stick most of the time? Yep. We need to overhaul our system, but holding a father monetarily responsible for the children whose creation he equally contributed to is fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 02:25 PM
2	How many relationships did you have before you met your husband, and do you think previous relationship experience helped you or hurt you? That’s so awesome! Thank you for sharing!	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/22 07:26 PM
1	How many relationships did you have before you met your husband, and do you think previous relationship experience helped you or hurt you? I am also autistic! Always nice to meet others on the spectrum. Thank you for your input :-)	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/22 07:26 PM
1	[Q4A] Does a Lack of Relationship Experience Early On Significantly Impact Relationships Down the Road? I am a lesbian woman who didn’t know I was a lesbian until I was 22. I had zero relationship experience because the thought of being sexual with any of the men who asked me out made me want to vomit (and they were above average looking, athletic, successful for a teenager so good grades and shit, dudes). My wife was the same way. We both think that since we had no prior relationship experience before meeting each other, we weren’t jaded about relationships. We have been together 9 years and have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 05:24 PM
1	depression is getting in the way of my goals Do not be afraid to seek medical help if necessary. You probably won’t need an antidepressant forever. Medication is simply a tool to get your brain balanced enough to allow therapy to work. Once you have rebalanced your brain chemically, you can start therapy and then slowly wean off medication when you and your doctor think it is appropriate. Be sure to find a therapist who aligns with your beliefs. I use BetterHelp and they let me choose the characteristics I was looking for in my therapist. …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/22 07:22 AM
1	Hypergamy on Display Oh haha - that’s not what my wife and I are like. We would both be described as “femmes” or whatever you call a lesbian who looks super feminine all the time. But yeah, neither of us cared about provider-ship. We are both happy to let the other pursue whatever career or livelihood they want - even if it is low paying. Hell, my wife is happy to make me a “kept woman” if that’s what I want (because I have less desire to ever have a career haha). That’s been my experience with most lesbian couple, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:40 PM
6	What does marriage mean to you? To me, marriage signifies to the world that legally, I am the most important person to my wife. If she is in the hospital, I can see her. If health decisions need to be made, and she can’t make them, I’m the one she trusts. If she passes always, I’m the one she trusts with our children. I’m the one she trusts to carry out her will. She trusts me so much, that she gave me the legal right to do so. Marriage means trust to me. All the love, the sex, the dates, living together, blah blah blah - we d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 02:49 PM
0	Hypergamy on Display I wonder what the writer of this article think about lesbians. I mean that in a genuine way. Do some lesbians prefer a partner that earns more and some lesbians want a partner to look up to? I didn’t think much about money or career at all when I was dating. When I married my wife, I just knew she was an awesome person and the hardest worker I knew. So I was sure that she would be successful eventually even though she didn’t have a college degree and was working an hourly dead end job. (I was ri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 02:43 PM
3	Romance/erotica novels are no better than pornography The average reader does not engage with erotica the way they would engage with porn, be it male or female. Even the same person would approach porn and erotica differently. Most people I know aren’t sitting around reading their erotica and stroking their dick/clit to orgasm. And most people don’t sit down and think oh let me just click on this porn for it’s entertainment value, no need to masturbate. They are fundamentally different mediums, and serve different purposes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 05:16 PM
2	Looking for advice If you are not adverse to using a dating platform, I would suggest “tawkify.” They aren’t OLD. They are an online matchmaking service. This is going to get you better results faster, and you are going to meet people who are looking for the same thing as you. If you’re ready to look seriously, you can’t waste time. It sounds like you have a timetable in mind, and with the desire to have children, you want to be sure you’re meeting someone who is equally yoked. You sound like a successful young la…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/22 12:27 PM