buckeyetree Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Do you offer to pay for your own food and drinks in the early stages of dating? Either treat them, split or offer to pay when they invite me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 04:50 PM
–	The big disconnect in modern dating: ending the first date strong vs. going for the same-night hookup Eh, you just feel it out. Depends on the moment, the person, the vibe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 08:38 AM
0	Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers? No. It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 05:55 PM
–	Reasons for men to decenter relationships Yes!! That’s a great idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:32 PM
1	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already God who has the TIME	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 11:20 PM
2	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? I don’t need my boyfriend or friend of any gender to get into a physical fight for me. But I expect them to back me up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 06:22 PM
3	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. I am grasping the mocking but you didn’t make an argument here. Make it. I’m curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:11 PM
3	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. Living like a nun does not equal being a nun in the religious sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:01 PM
3	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. Are you not familiar with the concept of empathy? Like I feel bad for people not getting health care? Edit: Also I’m not a nun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:58 PM
6	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. Okay? But they might worry about other sexually active heterosexual women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:32 PM
13	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. I don’t even live in the US and the overturning of Roe v. Wade doesn’t affect me. But I care about it because I know that it takes the decision away from many other women. It’s not about needing or not needing men, it’s about being trapped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:53 PM
1	What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to? Intelligence I know so many people through work that are smart and have these really good, original ideas. Humor A friend of mine makes these incredibly sharp observations that pairs with witty comments chefs kiss Kindness Skills Style just generally like being around them. They’re good people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 06:15 PM
1	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. No, I don’t unterstand the point you’re trying to make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 07:09 AM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. As I told the other guy: Why would I care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 04:20 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. Live a happy and fulfilled life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 04:08 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. Yeah, I unterstand the point. But why would I care? If that’s how they think about relationships they were never potential partners for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:58 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. What I am saying is: If you think an AI is a better option than me then you’re not the person for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:38 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. If the person I’m in a relationship with prefers a fake me they can control and shape, that is always available and caters to them, then they don’t want a relationship with me, an actual human being, but with a fantasy version of me. That makes them unattractive to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:25 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. If I can be replaced by an AI in a relationship, that’s not a relationship I’d want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 02:57 PM
1	Why don't you approach men? I used to approach men. Sometimes it was fine, sometimes it was great, sometimes it was awkward af. With dating apps I like to get to know the person for a few days before I ask them out. There it was like 50:50ish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 04:47 PM
4	Women hate sluts more than men do And they have a BEST stories	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 06:36 AM
21	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity I thought the exact same thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 12:49 PM
3	Do you believe circumcision is harming males? It should be banned. It’s outdated and can heavily impact men’s sex life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 03:53 PM
0	Q4M: How often do you do the following chores? Huh? My bathroom gets hella dusty. Also…how does a mirror make you a narcissist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 11:34 AM
3	Q4M: How often do you do the following chores? I don’t put it there yet it finds a way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 04:52 PM
5	Q4M: How often do you do the following chores? Do you never get toothpaste or dust on it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 04:35 PM
1	Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get married I don’t know what a dark triad is, but my tastes shifted in the sense that I have different standards now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/24 08:23 PM
18	How do you feel about the fact that women aren't really expected to give the same level of care to men's consent as men are to women's consent? It sucks and needs to change. Not that men are all that great with consent but we need to move away from the image that men always want sex or want to be touched.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 10:02 AM
1	How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man? I think it varies. There are people I have an instant spark with, but mostly it takes time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 04:33 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back Yeah exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 11:49 AM
0	If men go away women would not look back How are they different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 09:34 AM
4	If men go away women would not look back I mean…I’d be very sad about my brother, my friends, my coworkers just being gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 09:23 AM
4	What does "insecure" even means? Oh ew that’s so gross. Don’t comment on other people’s bodies like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 05:29 PM
44	Why are women so keen on having male friends I am a simple woman. I see a person I like, I befriend them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 09:36 AM
5	Do the plethora of choices in men when it comes to online dating and social media make it more difficult for you to commit to one man long-term? No. It makes me appreciate how special my boyfriend is and how lucky I am that we met. Online dating is exhausting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 09:09 PM
2	[Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past? Same	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 09:37 PM
1	You're focused on the wrong qualities that are triggering her lust: He's more attractive than you because he's more masculine, not because he's an asshole. Oh yeah me just over here lusting over Joe Biden	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 10:29 PM
3	What do people get wrong about the blue pill? Here! My type is either bookish victorian ghost or dudes that are built like a square.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 07:33 PM
1	Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30s Why should they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 11:56 AM
13	What women consider “high value man" is symmetrically tied to the amount baby momma’s he has fighting over him This is such a sad, reductive worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 05:43 PM
6	Women who are very experienced in romantic relationships (whether sexually or emotionally) would you date someone who had never been in a relationship? She didn’t say that is was a moral failing. To me it would make a difference if somebody never had a girlfriend because he expects her to be his bang maid vs he traveled a lot/he had to work out personal issues first/it just never clicked with anybody. As a woman that was single for a long time it get this question a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 07:22 AM
3	Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days? I think the whole ick thing is mostly an internet phenomenon. There is not one master list of icks that has been sanctioned by the council. And people make fun of stupid icks for a reason (Fellas, is it gay to…?). Everybody has their likes and dislikes when it comes to attraction/dating. The most important thing is to critically evaluate them and be respectful about it. I get the ick from overgroomed eyebrows. They just freak me out. But I don’t go out of my way to tell everyone how gross/unnatu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 05:16 PM
1	Does vulnerability and open communication tend to kill some sexual tension early in the dating process? Agree. I’ve experienced both and I think it’s just a vibe thing. With some people you have more of an emotional vibe, with others it’s just a playful/lighthearted vibe. Both can be sexy as long as both people are on the same page.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 05:44 AM
3	Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv? A girl can dream…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 08:23 PM
2	Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv? That sounds so dope. Wish I had the income for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 08:17 PM
5	Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv? Yes, isn’t that the general idea? One person works, the other takes care of the home?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 08:07 PM
13	Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv? Agree. This would be amazing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 02:25 PM
–	Its ok for men to have preferences, but its not ok to belittle someone Everyone can have preferences. Hostility is not okay though. And it is healthy to question and evaluate your own preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 11:58 AM
1	Women will not feed a man's ego You do you	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:14 PM
2	Women will not feed a man's ego I am a woman. This is what I deliver, this is what I expect in a relationship/companionship/friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 03:26 PM
17	Women will not feed a man's ego Building someone up is part of every normal relationship/friendship, hell even coworkers. I’m not saying blow smoke up their ass but compliments and support are a very basic part for a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 02:55 PM
1	How attractive do you usually find your female friends' boyfriends/situationships/fwb/ons? I usually don’t find them particularly attractive but once I see them together I tend to change my mind. Seeing them through her eyes kinda thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 10:18 AM
–	Most Girls are in Harems Nowadays Ah shit I must’ve missed the email invite	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 11:21 AM
24	The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool? Spot on. I think it’s also healthy to critically question why you have certain standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 08:13 AM
1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? Love your flair!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 09:23 PM
6	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? Same. I just don’t think about men that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:46 PM
1	Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ? That would be amazing. Maybe not right now since my income would be tight for two people but once I move up the career ladder a bit, sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 10:49 AM
–	Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some? Do you ask people on dates what they bring to the table? I find that a difficult convo because it’s more of a „show don’t tell“ thing. I wouldn’t tell people I bring to the table that I am reliable or funny or trustworthy, because they get to determine that for themselves after I have demonstrated it (or not lol).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 02:08 PM
–	Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some? I guess for me it’s hard to determine what exactly I bring to the table, because it depends on what the individual person values. My boyfriend likes my humor. But is that something I bring to the table? For another person my jokes might be annoying. Same with career, hobbies, financial status, looks etc. Maybe the question makes people feel pressured to market themselves in a general sense while a lot depends on the individual relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 10:37 AM
0	Do women see it as “shameful” to propose to the men their with? And if so, why? I don’t understand how expressing your desire to get married to someone you’re with officially somehow lowers your value because you have different body parts. A few of my friends did it that way and it went well. I don’t really want to get married but I’d propose if it was important to my partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 09:25 PM
6	Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important women Exactly. I prefer helpful over chivalrous any day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 02:13 PM
1	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. Eh I think I didn’t phrase it very well. My point is that people falsely believe that if they increase the shaming (the pain) it will help people lose weight (They just need a wake-up call! I tell it like it is!) But as you pointed out not only does it not have any effect with regards to weightloss or health it’s also very damaging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 05:48 PM
20	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. Exactly. I will never understand why people straight up abuse people and then say ✨It’s for your health ✨💕	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 12:42 PM
2	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. Fat shaming makes people want to lose weight. It does not help them lose weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 12:38 PM
12	Women would do better in dating if they involved the men in their family with mate selection I love my brother to death, but I let him use my tinder once and he selected only massive beefcakes for me. I’ll pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 09:04 PM
1	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:59 AM
2	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Ah yes, as have never met another human being I couldn’t possibly have washed a blanket. What are you so mad about? I am not nitpicking. I am explaining that while yes, house work has become easier, a lot of it is not automated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:48 AM
1	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Would you please chill? I have washed things by hand, and yes, even a blanket lmao. What I said was: Tech lessens house work, it does not eliminate human labor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:58 AM
2	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Yes. Hopefully it’s dead. All I was pointing out is: Housework has become easier but not fully automated. That’s it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 11:30 AM
1	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Yes and if you remember my original point: Housework has become less but tech has not replaced human labor. It is perfectly comfortable to live alone but it’s not like a robot caters to your every need. And again: I am not advocating to get a partner to do your housework. That’s pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 11:18 AM
3	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? I mean if you don’t always wanna eat alone and a ready made meal or some bread with cheese I’d say you need more than one plate (pots, pans for cooking). „What they enjoy wearing“ was not to mean they change several times a day but they have nice clothes that they enjoy wearing. Sure you can throw everything together and wash at the same temp. But then your clothes are not gonna be nice for long. Again, I’m sure you could build a life around having minimal housework, if that’s what you enjoy, by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 10:21 AM
3	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? The average amount? And who only needs one plate? Anecdotal evidence but most single guys I know don’t really structure their life around having minimal tasks but more what they enjoy eating/doing/wearing. If people wanna live like that aight, not my problem, just sounds a little sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 10:07 AM
7	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Yeah housework has definitely become easier but tech has not replaced human labor. You still need to sort, iron, fold and sometimes dry the clothes (most people in my country hang dry things). Somebody still needs to fill the dishwasher, empty the dishwasher, put the dishes away. With roombas I guess they will develop but so far they still need to be saved a lot (from falling off a cliff which is actually a step lol). I’m not arguing that you should get a girlfriend to do these things (that’s ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 09:58 AM
4	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? How has tech replaced a human doing the housework?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:51 AM
51	The modern equivalent of a "strong, independent" women is unattractive to men Exactly lol. I read this post and thought …and? I don’t see a problem here. If a man does not want to be with me because I’m a feminist that’s fine. Bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 06:52 AM
1	Would you date a man whom has an OF account and regularly tips on it? Yes. He pays creators for their work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 07:59 PM
7	This is the worst time in human history to be dating. What a chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 02:29 PM
2	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? Yes, super realistic scenario. But you misunderstood what I meant: So when a man works and has kids, he is not „actually raising the kids“ by your logic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 07:23 AM
1	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? It will always be wild to me that people feel comfortable saying that they want women not to work so they can „actually raise the kids“, implying they don’t „actually raise the kids“ when they work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 07:17 AM
1	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? Ideally we split bills 50/50 and both have our own spending money. Real life situations rarely line up with that. But if you’re asking for the ideal, 0% of the spending money comes from him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 04:28 AM
3	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? It’s not about having spending money, it’s more about making my own money. All my income coming from a man…that makes me very uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:04 PM
2	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? I think I’d prefer to be independent tbh. I like the idea of volunteering or studying, but I think it would bother me to not have my own money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:00 PM
7	The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signalling Why do you equate being chubby as a man with „not taking care of yourself“? There’s just different body types and not everyone is super into working out. I prefer dudes that are short and wide, muscular but a little chubby. Everybody has their own taste.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 12:42 PM
5	So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days? As a woman: I prefer first dates that I can exit quickly if things go sideways. Dinks, walks, coffee. Activities can wait.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 09:51 AM
2	If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies? Idk, I like to watch people play or hear about the plot of a video game. It’s not that different from reading or watching movies, which count as legit hobbies (or at least I fucking hope they do).	/r/seduction	02/09/22 02:20 PM
5	What would be the things that "Sons of sinlge mothers" should Unlearn when thinking/dealing with women? And what they would replace instead? You didn’t really use offensive words but the concepts you present are troubling. First of all: Why do sons of single mothers need to change? Then “dealing” with women…you do know we’re human beings right? But what really makes me think therapy is the whole idea of “rock solid don’t share any feelings”. That’s a damaging mindset to yourself and others. Therapy can help you to learn how to process your feelings and share them. Those are key elements of any healthy relationship. Good luck.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 09:05 PM
14	What would be the things that "Sons of sinlge mothers" should Unlearn when thinking/dealing with women? And what they would replace instead? Dude please go to therapy.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 09:36 AM
9	Have you ever hooked up with a chick and she didn’t get fully naked, either left her bra and or shirt on? You sound unpleasant	/r/seduction	12/11/21 08:36 PM
11	The truth about women - repost of a great old article This is…sad.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 10:38 AM