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You're trapped by your own mind. You might feel that you're being selfish thinking about taking care of yourself. There is nothing selfish about surviving. In tribal culture the hunter eats before the mother and child. Without a healthy hunter there is no food to go around. Take care of yourself. You can't take care of your daughter if you starve. There is wise selfish and stupid selfish.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 05:20 PM
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The problem is that we've become so accustomed to this kind of thing that many of us have accepted it as the way things are. I don't blame anybody for not seeing this kind of thing for what it really is. I wish more people would get outraged over this kind of behavior.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 04:57 PM
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there would be the same nervous laughter If there was then I highly doubt any reporter who openly laughed (nervously or otherwise) at female genital mutilation on national television would have much of a career after that kind of outburst.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 04:53 PM
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I think a lot of us have been there. I remember how I acted like a stupid moron when my spouse had her first seizure in front of me. I still beat myself up over the fact that I didn't react appropriately. Even though I've been told many times that it wasn't my fault that I was in shock. I feel for this guy who might never get over what he did. EDIT: I was also told by the paramedic that even though he had years of experience he didn't react appropriately when his own kid was choking. It's hard t…
/r/MensRights28/07/12 05:21 PM
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I couldn't have said it better myself. :)
/r/MensRights28/07/12 01:01 AM
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The word coward is a vestigal term to shame men into self-sacrificial behavior. That does not go over well here. We have no idea what she did. She likely ran, too. So, maybe she's a coward for not stopping bullets for other people? We can shame both ways, doesn't make it Ok to do so. Totally agree.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:53 AM
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I'm just going to throw out a few guesses: 1. A guy having a mental breakdown. 2. A guy in complete and total shock. 3. A guy being shot at. If you think you know exactly how you would react to being in every shocking situation that you could be in then you're fooling yourself. I know I was fooling myself until I watched my spouse have a seizure. I didn't react in the heroic way that I had planned that I would. I still beat myself up over it. But yeah, I do agree that his behavior was messed up.…
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:51 AM
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I can't fault him for anything because I wasn't the one getting shot at. But I have been in shock when my spouse had a seizure in front of me. I didn't run away but neither did I react in an intelligent way. Here's something to think about: That was relatively minor but I still beat myself up about it. This poor soul will probably never be able to forget what he did that day reflexively. It might haunt him till he dies. My heart goes out to him.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:43 AM
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This is key: until you're faced with this sort of life or death situation, you can't really know how you'll react. But yes, it is strange that he drove off. We can only guess at what was going through his mind at the time. I just hate to leap to the conclusion that he's a coward when he could very well have been in shock and not even had an idea of what he was doing when he was doing it. I mean, we have people who forget their kids in parking lots when they aren't even getting shot at so I don't…
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:34 AM
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When I saw the first article about the "heroes" this is exactly what I feared would happen to the men who didn't die that day.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:30 AM
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That's what concerns me most.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 09:27 PM
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I fear it would only lead to the deaths of more men.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 09:24 PM
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Haha. Will do. :)
/r/MensRights23/06/12 03:51 PM
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It's tough to keep calm about this kind of stuff. I hear another man going through something and I rage inside. But I do hope that I will gain some wisdom from it and above all strive to not spread negativity even when I may feel strongly about a topic. It's so hard to chill sometimes. Thank you.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 10:17 PM
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There are a lot of things that are illegal. It doesn't mean anything if the police and court system refuse to hold women accountable. In many case they are treated like children by the court system. They get a slap on the wrist for a crime that would land a man in jail for ten years.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 04:49 PM
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Yep, welcome to manhood. My ex threatened my life with a knife. I believed her and managed to get the knife away. I may have saved my life but my reputation took a tank dive. I was the only one treated like a crook by the police. She said there was no knife and so it magically disappeared. The only reason she got charged with anything at all is that she admitted to threatening my life in court. The court refused to even allow me to testify on my own behalf. They didn't even let me in the court r…
/r/MensRights19/06/12 04:42 PM
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It might just be that stare. I find that I have to be overly assertive around taller guys to get the same level of respect I get from guys who are around my height. My spouse is a lot shorter than I am and I notice that she gets bumped into all the time by strangers who refuse to share the side walk when we're walking even when we move over. So I would venture to say that women are also affected by being shorter. Maybe not as much as men might be.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 08:43 PM
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Same here. 5'7". Though my employment has been affected by my name more than anything else I can think of. I have a very feminine name and I have twice been in potential employment situations where I showed up to the job interview and was told that they were looking to hire a female for the position. Essentially the only reason I got the interviews was that my name was clearly feminine. I even thought of pursuing legal action against one of these employers because they told me in no uncertain te…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 05:30 PM
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I wish I knew. I feel the same way.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 08:27 PM
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My feelings exactly. I used to admire feminists until I realized that many were not interested in equality in any way shape or form. I'm sure there are some great feminists and some terrible men's rights activists. But I'm amazed by how much of a double standard there is.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 08:25 PM
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Thank you. You make a very good point.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:37 PM
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They do give that impression. I'm not anti-gay. If that's their thing then they're welcome to it but I thought their arguments against the men's center were lacking in any real substance.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:36 PM
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It is a bad thing. Men are devils. Women are angels. There is no debating this... it is a fact... that all men are terrible people...
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:33 PM
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It amazes me too. It got to the point where I didn't even see the abuse as abuse in my relationship until it almost cost me my life. Heck, till she had the knife in my gut I never took it seriously. It made me rethink my whole stance on when it is okay to defend yourself against a woman.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:28 PM
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I'm sick of this kind of blatant anti-man B.S. My whole life I've been told that it's wrong to be manly, be assertive, or even speak loudly, and now they're drugging boys from grade three on for having too much energy. Our boys are being mind raped by feminists from kindergarten on... The kind of men who support this kind of misandry are the ones looking for an easy way to get laid by saying what their feminist oppressors would like to hear.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 05:41 PM
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I'm grateful that people are starting to see that men are not only the aggressors in these cases of domestic violence. Having been a victim of domestic violence as a man I found that I had no options available. If I had defended myself then I would have been the abuser. I had to lock her out of the house because I was afraid of her. She was threatening my life with a knife that time. The police treated me like the criminal when she was the one with the knife and I had never touched her once. The…
/r/MensRights04/05/12 05:10 PM
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