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A cult or new religion is what perfectly describes the movement, complete with an original sin (to have a penis) . If you happen to have one you have to undergo constant scrutiny and bashing in hope to gain redemption (being an ally)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/21 11:46 AM
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This is an unfortunate proposal, there is no dialogue possible with bigots and fascists. Trying to reason with someone convinced of the validity of the patriarchy theory is like trying to convince a flat earther, a waste of time. So whereas I understand that you are trying to open a dialogue, given past experiences I am positive that a dialogue with a feminist is not possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/21 08:24 AM
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I am not sure where in my post you read "throwing women under the bus". What I am saying is that up until now I tried to make an extra effort to be mindful, after all I understand that a woman is generally weaker then me. But since these events are unfolding and more misandry is directed at men, I don't see the point anymore for the points you make at the end of your reply.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/21 11:44 AM
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Women believe that they are in constant danger thanks to demonizing media and feminist narrative, so I don't see how the male population could take all this men-bashing and still be mindful of women's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/21 09:45 AM
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Sure comparing men to ticks will make us want to help women.
/r/MensRights15/03/21 02:44 PM
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At the same time you will drive away other people like me, but again, do your thing. " If you wanted to make a social media post about this under the hashtag I'd be more than happy to give you resources. " Im am not sure what you mean.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:18 AM
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You won't make people trust you just because you use their offensive wording, changes come from a positive angle. Anyway, it's your idea so go for it the way you like, I know I won't support the use of harmful terminology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:12 AM
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Still a mistake in my opinion. Their narrative and these terms have to be discarded entirely if we want to create a better one. By using "toxic masculinity" you will just piss off people that might otherwise listen to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:02 AM
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Aknowledging the term "Toxic Masculinity" is a mistake.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 07:18 AM
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For how tough it's going to be, everyone should make an effort and reopen the dialogue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/21 05:19 PM
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We can only be patient and lay out own our ideas in the clearest and most logic way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/21 04:31 PM
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" All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident. "
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/21 08:32 AM
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Sure the consequences would manifest immediately for boys, but I'm not in any way convinced that it would somehow be of benefit to girls. I mean Jesus, I don't imagine being mad I hope you are right and I am wondering, what makes you think so?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/21 12:17 PM
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I share your sentiments, living an innocent life and still being treated with contempt by these lunatics made me say enough is enough some time ago. Feminists and their egoistical, solipsistic point of view are abusers, moved by conspiracy theories tailor made to put other people down and, as it's more and more evident, gain power.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/21 03:43 PM
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Hard to say, but I agree that i start seeing more and more people realizing what modern feminism is and more reddit and instagram posts acknowledging men's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/20 09:15 AM
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I am sorry that you can't see the mind games that they are trying to do. Speaking to feminists they tend to reduce men's issues to this narrative that "men should express their feelings as it will benefit them". And that's the only concession I have seen towards men in general from that ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/20 08:31 AM
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This is still feminism telling men how they have to be. According to this logic a man has to be what the feminine point of view finds acceptable and I reject this narrative. Men tend to have qualities like stoicism, industriousness and capacity to face issues rationally. These qualities should be promoted to make a stronger person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/20 07:58 AM
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As a start, feminist arguments have to be dismantled with proper information. Until they misinform, use shame tactics and oppose progress, the discourse will not go forward.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/20 10:27 AM
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Pro choice for both men and women. As things stands now, we have an imbalance and a right for women that men don't have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/20 07:27 PM
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My perception is that some people just swapped a religion with another one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/20 12:44 PM
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Answering your final question. No, as patriarchy is a made up concept that doesn't exist in real life. Both men and women were oppressed and trapped in the roles society required of them throughout history. We should, however, counter feminist narratives to stop the misinformation and lies that they spread.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/20 11:47 AM
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You are facing the impossible dilemma of men. We are supposed to be confident, ask for a date in a certain way and possibly not be a creep when you might not know what "being a creep" means to a lady. On top of that, even if you are good looking you have much less chances when compared to a woman of your same attractiveness level. So just learn to put rejections behind you as quick as possible and when asking out adopt a don't give a fuck mentality. If it works, good, if it doesn't, next. This s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/20 11:11 AM
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I am not an mgtow, infact I am in a long-term relationship. However I understand the risks that having kids and marriage brings to a man's life and, from my perspective they are not worth it. I can't blame mgtow's for what is just a rational conclusion. Does it help? Maybe not, but that's how things are today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/20 05:48 PM
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As long as you understand the risks in the country you are in, power to you. I have decided long time ago that a childfree life is the right choice for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/20 01:48 PM
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This post should be pinned. This is gold advice.
/r/MensRights29/10/20 08:17 AM
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That was a painful read. His bottom line is correct, never get married, don't have kids.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/20 06:55 AM
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I think your description fits perfectly with my experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/20 09:24 PM
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After 6 years living here I find that Netherlands progressiveness is just a facade. Most people I came in contact with, just have a preset of ideas and prejudices and are unwilling to challenge that. One of this is the perception that women have it worse, even in a country like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/20 11:42 AM
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I am afraid is just that, a prejudice, another thing I found embedded in many Dutch minds. Italy is having it's fair share of the feminist craziness since some time now. Thanks for the link!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 12:31 PM
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I am originally from Italy and lived in other EU countries. Well I think I have spent 1/3 of my life outside Italy now. I wasn't aware that the policy was stopped, do you have an article with the story by any chance?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 10:54 AM
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Well, his first article, written 10 years ago, was quite spot on. Not sure why you assume they don't anything about economics?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 09:23 AM
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Thank you for the recommendation! I also wish I was right, this article here has been king of illuminating from a ecnomic perspective. https://www.singularity2050.com/gems.html 10 years prior prequel here https://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html Maybe you know them already as they are well known writings.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 08:17 AM
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Men tend to be the innovator and net contributor in society. If you lack that push in a time of crisis, you are set for failure. So unless the trend changes we risk more men will not engage in the most proficient jobs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 08:14 AM
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I live in the Netherlands too as an expat and I have noticed all the things you said. From an external point of view, I perceive most of the women here as insufferable with few notable exceptions. I notice that my male colleagues, tend to be very submissive towards their partners, to the point that they refer to them as the boss of the house, not making a step without their approval. Living here for almost 6 years I thought this was anecdotal but then I started reading worrying news like this on…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 08:06 AM
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Strange to see Psychology Today adressing male problems like this. I have seen many articles from them pushing the classic feminist narratives, is this an editorial change? We are probably heading towards a deep economic crisis in the west and I suspect this might be the end of these misandrist narratives, so I take articles like these as the first signs of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/20 06:56 AM
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A small example of the horseshoe theory isn't it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 10:03 PM
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I am relatively new on this sub so I have missed that. But a couple of replies have been enough to understand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 09:59 PM
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And I don't know how to explain that the outcome is not relevant at the moment of the decision. It would be the same as to say that a woman abortion is bad for the child. So either you are willingly ignoring the point or you are posting in bad faith. In good faith I'll tell you, let's agree on disagreeing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 09:43 PM
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The decisions are exactly the same. Giving up the parenthood before a child exists. The woman can terminate her pregnancy, I never spoke of a father having the right to abandon an already alive child but to renounce fatherhood during pregnancy within the same timeframe as the woman can.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 09:28 PM
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It's not an analogy, it's symmetry in providing a decision. Wherever the woman has a choice, the man hasn't one, thus I am pro-choice in both cases. Moreover, at the moment of the choice a child doesn't exists yet and that's why your logic is fallacious. If the woman then wants to bring a child to life she has to assume full responsibility for it as in both cases she has the final say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 09:19 PM
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Not at all. The right should exist for a man that doesn't want to be a father to renounce it in the same timeframe as the woman can decide not to be a mother, the first months of pregnancy. Currently this right doesn't exist for men and exists for women hence I am asking for a right that is not there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 09:10 PM
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I completely agree. Of course what follows is anecdotal, but every time I tried to discuss the argument with a feminist, I found impossible to make this issue understood. The logical conclusion is that I discussed the matter with people that don't really want equal rights and are unable (and unwilling) to see the reasons of what they perceive as their enemy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/20 11:35 AM
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She sounds unstable and insecure, which over the years turns into a very bad combination. I have been there, you will feel like nothing is never enough to give her some sense of security because what she is looking from you is something really lacking from her inner self. So you have two ways you can approach this. 1: Invest in the relation, be prepared to spend time looking after her and probably a bad breakup at the end of it. 2: Put an end to this and enjoy your best years. It looks like a no…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:41 AM
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mid 40ies and never had kids, never wanted. One of my priorities in life is being location independent and with few attachments so kids would be a burden for me.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:34 AM
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I don't and thank god I broke up with a crazy ex that wanted them. I can't imagine how miserable my life would have been if I caved in to her demands. In my 40ies I now have all the time in the world to follow my hobbies, workout, travel. I look at my friend with kids and they all seem unhappy.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:32 PM
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If you are confident you can joke any way you like. You should be able to feel when your flow of conversation is cool.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:50 PM
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I went there, it led to the end of the friendship.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:57 AM
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check bogleheads site, they should have some portfolios samples.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:44 PM
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I think many here went through a beta phase, otherwise we wont be here in the first place. Now that you realize it you can take action.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:30 PM
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If lying is not a red flag I don't know what it is.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:00 AM
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Second that.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:23 AM
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You have to make training a habit in your life. You will end up liking it and how long it will take won't matter.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:08 PM
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I would find something I like to do and stick to it. Then make a job out of it. In my 30ies I was erratic with my interests, I had too many.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 08:22 AM
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interesting takes, thanks!
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:26 PM
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I am curious and ignorant on the subject. Why do you think that the stock market is a good idea now?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:13 PM
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let's get back to this comment at the end of the year.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 08:03 PM
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The author of the "misandry bubble" said 10 years ago that a global crisis was needed to end feminism. The crisis is arrived.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 12:59 PM
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Check what happy preppers do, with a grain of salt as they can go to extremes. They have tones of recommendations on their website.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/20 09:21 AM
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If you want something recreational as well as masculine try Wilbur Smith, I recommend the Ballantyne's saga.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:03 PM
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At the word "manwhore" you have me genuinely laughing a lot.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:16 PM
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Never wanted them, and my LTR neither. We are 43 and 38 so that's going to be it and we are perfectly happy of the decision. We both don't do well around kids for too long, they tend to be annoying after a couple of hours.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:02 PM
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They are all great sports/martial arts. I have practiced boxing and Muay thay and I am now doing kickboxe, all of these will give you confidence and SOME ability to defend yourself. In the end, do the one that suits you best.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 01:51 PM
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They are a delusional bunch.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:16 AM
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Been there. It's your brain telling that you won't make it, you sweep the thought under a rug and then it happens again and you start thinking you are a lesser man. You are not. You are simply giving sex too much importance and let it define how much of a man you are, so you are letting something that is out of your control to define your own value. Anxiety is usually a sign of an underlying problem that you will need to assess sooner or later. Also, I am reading a lot of good practical recommen…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:53 AM
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If it was me: First have a good thinking and assess what you might have done wrong or right in your judgement. Whatever your conclusions are, it's clear that trust has been broken. After you have done this, go and talk to the guy directly.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:42 AM
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It looks to me like this constant exchange of ideas between red pilled men is bringing some evolution both in the ones that embrace it and in the ideas themselves. This comes with a (growing?) number of people that will make their first steps in rediscovering themselves, some of them surely moved by anger. But they are esposed to some wise content in here and in the recommended books, a content that by it's own definiton should give a man the means to better himself, and ultimately outgrow the a…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 11:37 PM
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I fail to see the connection.
/r/MensRights04/02/20 07:46 AM
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Reading this, I stumbled on this part: "Right now, Laurence Fox, whether he realises it or not, has just landed the biggest part of his life. He is legitimising hatred and division. " Which is so ironic, coming from a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 01:30 PM
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Sounds like you became Italian.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 10:23 AM
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