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Your wife is a brat, an emotional midget. Treat her like a 3 yo.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 01:24 PM
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But she said your sleeping on the couch for two nights. I got to slap your dick twice and we don't have sex for another two weeks. I still don't understand this sentence.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 01:15 PM
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This fits my general observation. You can be the hottest, best dressed, most successful, wittiest man she knows. She may fall head over heels for you, but as soon as you relax and treat her like a princess, it will turn. You can objectively have much higher value than you wife, but your unconditional love will just feed her delusions of grandeur. Relative SMV in a marriage is nearly 100% determined by your day to day interactions with your wife. I got a whopping zero improvement in my marriage f…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 01:03 PM
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I have trouble following exactly what happened. Try proofreading your post and adding a bit more detail, including how long you've been married.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 12:51 PM
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I'm going to agree 100% with FF0000_captain's edit (disagree vehemently with his first statement). Not all woman are the same. It sounds like your wife is a lot like mine. Backhanded complements all the way. You can kino a bit, and DONT initiate. ​ Last night my wife initiated. I proceed to escalate. She starts complaining. I push through. She starts sucking my cock... then stops and keeps watching tv. I turn it off and start taking off her clothes. She complains again about her socks, then she …
/r/askMRP26/10/18 06:32 PM
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Ill give you my 2 cents since this is the only thing that worked for me. It doesn't matter how physically attractive you make your self or how assertive/aggressive you are if she feels that you are too HUNGRY. Your wife's behavior is UNATTRACTIVE. You should not feel like you want to fuck her if she is acting like a cunt. I feel like this is a huge shit test that everyone misses. Hitting on a harpy communicates neediness. You don't need her validation. Chat up your lady friends and hold onto tho…
/r/askMRP26/10/18 02:00 PM
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Clearly state your boundaries. There is little you can do remotely. Physically and mentally prepare yourself for your return home. Best of luck.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 04:59 PM
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Our opinion doesn’t matter so much because the stay plan is the same as the go plan. IMO the move was a test that you failed. Make the most of your freedom and get out and have some fun.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 12:30 PM
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That depends on what you consider 'withholding'. The ONLY thing that has worked for me is push, no pull at all. Make her run flirt and run drive bys. Be cool. Actually get to the point that she needs to work a little bit to get me going. I never tell her outright "no", but occasionally tell her I need to be seduced. I may tell her to put on some lingerie for me, I don't like her dumpy sleep clothes.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 06:24 PM
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I’ll add in approach men too. You still don’t know them and you are encroaching their space, but the fear is less. Just chat up everyone. Elevators are great for this.
/r/askMRP28/09/18 09:02 PM
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Reframe: Flirting is foreplay. The chase is part of sex. Make it about that. I had the oddest mundane conversation with a very attractive coworker yesterday. I made great eye contract and started chatting about a freaking software upgrade. She moved really close up into my space next to me as I was working on something else to the point our forearms brushed each other. I softened my eyes, dropped the tone but lowered volume of my voice a bit. Her pitch got higher and softer. We proceeded to chat…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 12:56 PM
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Because I believe true sexual attraction may be the one behavior that cant be reinforced in the long term. Her decision whether or not to have sex, probably can. You see the distinction? If a women doesn't lust you, and she has a good idea of "what" you are, you have to leave the relationship. This is why its so hard to turn a LTR around once you're seen as low status.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 12:39 PM
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I agree with you. I meant "what" in the original post.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 12:32 PM
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I do not understand the distinction between "what" and "who".
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 08:20 PM
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Women get validation from sleeping with high status men, just as I get pleasure from sleeping with a beautiful woman. In that sense it is transactional. I was trying to get at you should be high value, you shouldn't have to "do" anything you wouldn't do otherwise. My own anecdotal experience is that I didn't have any consistent success until I started flirting just to enjoy the sexual tension. If it led somewhere, awesome. If it did not, I could take that feeling and build on it next time with h…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 08:18 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with parts of the post. You should validate behavior that you want to reinforce. It should never be about sex. You should care less. .You should never view anything as transactional. That's a covert contract. That is you getting her to like you for sex. They can smell that weakness a mile away. Women sleep with men based on who they are, not what they do.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 07:00 PM
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I made a mistake and next time I'll do X. Say it with sincerity and confidence. Her frame is anger and falling into her frame is supplication (excessive guilt). This is statement of fact. Her opinion does not have influence on your action. Its all in the non-verbals.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 03:48 PM
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Desire and arousal are a LOT more then just testosterone. Just with testosterone, you have bound vs unbound and androgen receptor density. Even estrogen plays a role in desire with both genders. A man with no estrogen has decrease libido. Then you have neurotransmitters, dopamine (stimulatory) and serotonin (mixed effect based on receptor). Adrenal hormones, while stimulating, can provide negative feedback to testosterone. Prolactin has negative feedback with dopamine, which has positive feedbac…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 01:41 PM
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" Now, I get “ I love you sooooo much” with that old loving look in her eyes. I love seeing that, but I don't base my happiness on it, and I realize it can be completely different tomorrow, or even 10 minutes later... and that's OK. " ​ So true!! I'm still shocked at the rapid turnabouts. Adoration to loathing in minutes. Best to disconnect your emotional state from this nonsense. I used to think I could game my wife to a permanently positive place with moves/words/actions, but I still get rage …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 01:31 PM
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