buffal0gal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Big Facts. And some states really screw any available man for child support to avoid spending any tax dollars on welfare and medicaid for the kid. In some places, the mom's husband is always presumed to be the legal father, even if a paternity test says otherwise. Men are getting screwed by the system, but that doesn't mean we should make it worse by denying safe, legal and increasingly rare abortions to women.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 11:58 AM
-2	Big Facts. Feminist ideology promotes equality of all genders. You're completely miss-characterizing the movement. Most feminists would agree that single dads currently get a shitty deal and that we should fix broken legal and social welfare systems so all children are wanted and well-cared for.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 11:48 AM
2	Big Facts. u/bumbemch asserted that it's equitable to take away women's bodily sovereignty because single dads are oppressed by a shitty social welfare system. Just because men routinely get screwed by family courts doesn't mean we should make it worse by forcing pregnancy on unwilling women a la "The Handmaid's Tale". The answer is demanding better safety nets for kids, regardless of their parentage. I (perhaps unfairly) assumed that because u/bumbemch advocates for an incredibly oppressive punishment for…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 11:38 AM
14	Big Facts. Totally agree. In a civilized society that actively cares for vulnerable people--like children of single parents--fathers WOULD have equal reproductive rights. Unless we vote for pro-social politicians, that will never happen in the US. The last hard swing to the right in the last 50 years has really screwed a lot of us.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 11:19 AM
0	Big Facts. I agree that current legal protections for fathers suck. We should challenge elected leaders to come up with a more equitable system. But in the mean time, the government avoids spending any money on children in poverty by finding any father they can and force him to pay child support. The unfairness to men is real, but that shouldn't mean it's ok to take away women's bodily autonomy by forcing pregnancy on them.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 11:04 AM
-4	Big Facts. His choice is having sex knowing that reversible birth control isn't 100% effective. By having sex, men accept the risk of fathering a kid and ALL that entails with our current legal system. Women also choose the risk of pregnancy, but for them, it's a huge health risk along with the same financial risk. Being pregnant and giving birth are life threatening	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 10:54 AM
-2	Big Facts. US maternal mortality rates suck.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 10:44 AM
3	Big Facts. Are you OK over there? You're not making any sense, buddy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 10:26 AM
-10	Big Facts. In some civilized countries where paying taxes is still seen as patriotic, like Scandinavia, deadbeat dads aren't much of a concern since there are decent benefits for single parents. But I bet you're a mouth breather who always bitches about "muh taxes".	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 10:24 AM
-25	Big Facts. You've obviously never been pregnant with an invader who takes over your body and your life for the better part of a year. Pregnancy is a HUGE and dangerous deal. We don't force people to give up organs or even blood for other people. Forcing birth on pregnant people is just another way assholes police women's bodies. If men don't want the risk of paying child support, maybe THEY shouldn't be so slutty.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 10:19 AM
-66	Big Facts. Usually, I really enjoy this sub for dishing out comeuppance for shitty behavior. But this post... Sex between fertile hetero couples, protected or not, can always result in pregnancy. Both parties are responsible, but the bodily autonomy of pregnant people should always trump the financial concerns of partners who still think pulling out works.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/10/20 09:28 AM