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I'm still interested in what you mean by historical female oppression.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 07:28 PM
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Wow, what an interesting perspective, thanks for you comment. My college roommates is a computer engineer, and we've had conversations about this, and her and her female classmates don't feel their credit is taken away and given to the feminists, they feel they are given WAY TOO MUCH personal credit beCAUSE they are women.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 07:27 PM
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Yes yes yes yes!
/r/MensRights27/03/13 04:38 AM
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I agree with this. I have opinions that differ from a lot of feminists who think it's black and white. Some don't believe that I value women's rights, but I do, just as much as I value men's rights. But I have experienced shaming tactics from both sides, actually, I don't fit in anywhere. God I should just go to the egalitarian reddit already... I think the whole term means something different to everybody. Just go in a classroom or an office and ask each person what it means separately and they…
/r/MensRights27/03/13 04:31 AM
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Could you define historical female oppression?
/r/MensRights26/03/13 07:43 PM
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Now I'm confused if I'm a voiceless girl or a radical feminist causing all the problems... Hold on while a find another stranger on the internet to answer that for me... Anyway, I'm not equating all women to feminists, I was referring to Anna March being a feminist (she has published articles mentioning it), even though her views are very different from mainstream political feminists thought, and I find many of the men on here are happy to see this view published. Just because she's not fighting…
/r/MensRights26/03/13 07:41 PM
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Hahaaaa!!
/r/MensRights26/03/13 07:13 PM
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Yeah, the analogy does kind of suck, actually. My main point wasn't really about how the woman dresses, but the attitude a lot of people have that a women is protected by the law, and therefore doesn't have to think smartly in possibly dangerous situations. And the other thing is that in situations where both the man and woman are drunk, there's so much emphasis on the girl giving consent, and she legally can't if she's drunk, meaning basically, she is given legal pardon for making a mistake, bu…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 11:20 PM
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Thanks for the response - yeah, I don't actually believe that women are "asking to be raped" when they dress that way, and what you say is all true, and I agree. I didn't mean to sound negative, but I do think a girl or women should be responsible with how she dresses. Kinda of like getting into a car accident even if you followed the rules. You still got into a car accident, even if legally you're safe. I suppose that is more what I was trying to say. Thanks for the discussion novodarling!
/r/MensRights25/03/13 10:38 PM
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Nice to meet you runs_in_circles! I'm buffalohugs!
/r/MensRights25/03/13 10:10 PM
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Why?
/r/MensRights25/03/13 08:51 PM
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Of course I realize that. I'm sorry, but I fail to see your point. Are you suggesting that all feminists think the same way and the this author is clearly not a feminist because other people say she's not?
/r/MensRights25/03/13 08:49 PM
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I know there is a large group of feminists who are idiotic, and I'm not at all saying to ignore their backwards way of thinking, but I do feel any person who claims their sex is being generalized as "rapists, criminals, etc." should also not generalize, and that this article is written by a feminist who doesn't agree with those idiot feminists. I think a large problem with feminism is that a lot of feminists forget that women have what they were fighting for 100 years ago (in Western countries),…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 08:47 PM
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Oh, okay. Perhaps I just think of sex differently. I also think fingering is less intimate than sex for both parties as well. I didn't really follow the Steubenville case, but wow, all the hoopla over fingering? I need to get myself updated!
/r/MensRights25/03/13 06:11 PM
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Sorry, my bad etiquette, I just replied to the end of the thread, and you happened to be the last poster. Next time I'll be more clear whom I direct the conversation to.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 06:06 PM
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It did attract me, because I'm glad a feminist is publishing something that finally makes sense to me.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 06:04 PM
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There's this great article, perhaps you've heard of it http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/my-bad-sex-wasnt-rape
/r/MensRights25/03/13 06:03 PM
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I stand corrected. I commented too soon.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:58 PM
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I would be just as offended as you. I'm a woman, and that HAS happened to me. I was shoveling with a bunch of male classmates, and the Professor (male) looked impressively at me and said, "oh - you're doing a good job, you look like you've done this before". I agree with your later comment about women wanting equality but then saying stuff like this. It's super hypocritical. If I don't want to be the sole person doing dishes, I shouldn't make a man feel like it's a woman's job. I hope she was an…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:54 PM
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Not disagreeing with you on the whole, just want to point something out (and it's possible you weren't implying this anyway). I'm not an expert in all women, but I think for most girls/women, giving a hand job is a very different act than having sex. It's less intimate. So giving a handjob doesn't mean she's consented to sex, or it shouldn't, anyway.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:47 PM
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I could be misinformed, but I think in the Steubenville case there actually was a lot of sympathy for the attackers (am I wrong? I actually didn't follow it very closely.) Perhaps she is saying if enthusiastic consent was a standard and common knowledge, then the attackers would not have had sex with this girl in the first place, because there would be no question how the situation would hold up in court. If I'm understanding it correctly, then I do feel she could have been slightly clearer, but…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:41 PM
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Maybe I should read that part in context before replying, but... what the hell. It is interesting that she says this, and it does seem a bit opposite of the other things she's saying. Maaaybe she's saying not necessarily this is the way it should be, but what it has come to.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:26 PM
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This article is about the stupidity of radical feminist thought. What, should every article about a successful black person mention a successful white person, because they're equal?
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:23 PM
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I think I've said this in another comment to you, so I won't repeat everything, but I'm really glad you've put this on here! You do seem really informed and a sane, logical person. I haven't been able to hold up my statements with this much fact. I have tried, and often failed, to get the same message across. Thanks!
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:19 PM
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Yeah, actually, I'm with runs_in_circles here. I know there are so many different types of feminists, and although I think of lot of them don't define themselves, it's interesting to note what categories there are because it's good to know and very interesting to understand the group as a whole, with differing viewpoints, but also so I can defend myself as a feminist and not have it be synonymous with hating men. I want fair rights for everyone, no matter what sex (and plenty of people who are b…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:14 PM
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A lot of what women wear clothes or how they act in a way where some say they were "asking for it". I've had female friends get upset with that phrase, as in "women should be able to wear what they want and not feel afraid of being assaulted". And yeah, to some extent, I agree to that, girls like looking hot (source: I'm a woman), and guys like looking at hot girls, so I'm not saying we should go back to Puritan times, but maybe Stephanie, you should wear underwear under your short short skirt -…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:04 PM
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So I agreed with manlovingfeminist first comment to you (about only reading the feminism on this site), but I hadn't realized what comment he was commenting on - your original comment is totally cool with me, and he jumped the gun a little bit, and I think didn't understand what you were saying. If he did, I'm not sure why anyone would give you crap about it. Thanks for these interesting paragraphs, I liked reading them.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 04:48 PM
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The fact that everybody is labeled is the whole reason this subreddit exists, so I don't understand why this is an argument.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 04:41 PM
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If this is the first time you have seen feminists say something you agree with, then you definitely haven't seen much of feminism outside of this site. And that's SAD.> You're one of the not-too-common people on here I've seen talk realistically, I'm honestly sorry you're getting crap for this comment when I want to make a hundred reddit accounts so I can upvote you on all of them! Thanks for you attitude.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 04:39 PM
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Well of course, women can't be raped.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 04:35 PM
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Thanks, fixed. : )
/r/MensRights21/03/13 04:41 AM
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I agree. A lot of the what women's rights activists are fighting for today feel like thinly veiled "women need the advantage because they can't do it otherwise" and is frankly insulting to me (I'm a woman). It's not 1960 anymore. edit: typo
/r/MensRights20/03/13 02:21 AM
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Do you have a link for the prison vs community stats? Interested to read that.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 07:17 AM
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Hahaa! Touché! : D
/r/MensRights06/03/13 05:28 PM
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I'm sorry to hear it makes you ashamed to be a women and to view feminism only by the actions of the radical extremist. I think it's important to recognize that these women don't define the entire sex, that their beliefs have no bearing on your beliefs and we are all free to have our own opinions. That is the ultimate goal of equality, yes? That we are seen by the law and by one another based on who we are, and not what sex we are? You should be proud of yourself! Thanks for coming on here and p…
/r/MensRights06/03/13 05:26 PM
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Yeah, that's a good point about jokes and whatnot, completely. People like getting offended (road rage, internet on phone not working), and it does take away from what's really important. I see now what you mean about the courts helping change the opinions, that it doesn't always have to be the other way around. I do still think that changing the opinions first is definitely not necessarily wasting anyones time though.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 01:41 AM
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Haha, yeah, that's what I mean, they're just talking to each other, it's not mansplaining at all, which also, you explained differently than what I thought it meant, so now definitely not mansplaining. And you're right, it should be called jerk-splaining, because it definitely happens both ways. There are lots of feminists out there that think they're fighting for equality, but only have their own selfish agenda. It's terrible and a bastardization of how I see feminism. I don't know how to becom…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 06:42 PM
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I did reread it, and I'm terribly sorry for misinterpreting you. Perhaps you can see where I went wrong, and I did make the mistake of applying a certain tone that wasn't there. For that I'm sorry. It can be very difficult to apply tone to one's words over the internet. I think where I misinterpreted you was because you did not seem to imply there were any other idealogies that feminists have then the one's you provided in your paragraph, and that rubbed me the wrong way. Can you perhaps clarify…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 06:08 PM
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I don't even want men to stop liking boobs! How on Earth did that come across in my paragraph??? I am saying the exact opposite of that! I said I was NOT offended by the song, that I don't care about it, and I really don't feel the need to be apart of any conversation complaining about it, because I AM NOT OFFENDED! I don't care if men like boobs. I WANT men to like boobs! Hell, I LIKE BOOBS, everyone likes boobs! I am not even trying to make a big deal out of the song, but so far all the commen…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 06:00 PM
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I am not trying to shut down dialogue. I'm tired of those in /r/MensRights who are putting words in my mouth. Many of you say you want the "good" feminists to fight against the bad ones, and until then you won't listen to them. That's exactly what I'm trying to do, be it thus far only on the small scale of reddit, but you're assuming without listening to me that because I call myself a feminist that I disagree with you. I agree with your goals, okay! I am trying to understand the hypocritical cl…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:49 PM
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I've thought more about this comment all day, because I did find it troubling that my interest why I had such an interest in something as trivial as Hollywood, compared to your example. But after thinking all day, I wasn't suddenly realizing my critique of Hollywood was trivial, but rather, keeping my original opinion that it is important in a conversation about equality, and I think I've discovered why. I hope you have the patience to read further. And also that, at least for the purposes of th…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 07:06 AM
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Wow, great response! Thanks! I really appreciate your explanation, and I agree with everything that you have stated, though I think I have been less surrounded by equal rights issues on both sides in RL, and therefore my conversations in this subreddit have given me a crash course, lol. Not everyone in this group is as fair as you are, and thanks for making me see that not all MRAs are extreme. I hope it's safe to assume most MRAs (male or female) outside reddit share you views as well.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 02:40 AM
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I think the song is a fair conversation on prejudices, except that I don't care about the song, so I probably won't be on that conversation. Others were offended and for all I care they can go ahead and talk to each other about it all day if they want to. Good for them. People can go ahead and talk about fart jokes too, and maybe they'll happen upon something insightful, who knows. It's the old clichés that are still around that are shaping the way people think. That's why change is so hard, bec…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 02:28 AM
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Thanks for the insight! All conversations should be reasonable and fact-based no matter.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 01:22 AM
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I'm from the north (US), and it's the same. Men like being chivalrous, but damnit, I want to be chivalrous too. If I ask you out on a date, I'm paying. Seriously.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:54 PM
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I'll drink to that!
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:48 PM
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Isn't it important to realize where societies prejudices are coming from to enable change?
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:47 PM
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Oops, bad analogy. If it were legal, then why are you fighting for rights in the legal system?
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:45 PM
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It's easy to find terrible people on the internet, just please realize it's not the way most women actually think. The majority of women don't feel obligated to hate men, I don't know any woman that does. It's just... such a weird concept for me. What are the women like in your lives? Do they feel this way? I'm honestly just really curious.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:38 PM
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Don't break your nose, it may distract you from my point. It's important to realize that legislation comes directly from people's ingrained attitudes about things, which comes from the family you were raised in, the schools, art, and media, and I'm sure a million other things. The media is just the easiest example because it's pretty consistant no matter where you live in the country.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:02 PM
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I'm a woman and believe in male and female rights. I consider myself a feminist, but in this subreddit, it seems like a bad word. I just want fair rights for everybody, not just woman, and I feel unwelcome to most of these posts in this subreddit. Bad-mouthing feminism as if they aren't doing exactly the same thing you all are. Yeah, there are terrible one-sided feminists, and I feel like they're digging the hole deeper, personally. And all you need is one minute in this subreddit to find terrib…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:58 PM
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No worries, I didn't mean to sound like I was accusing you. I'm not always the best at articulating my points. : )
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:10 AM
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An activist is an activist. They come in many varieties.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:54 AM
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Yeah, I almost feel like this is a "stage of progressiveness" we have to go through or something. I think it's the same for race equality and sexual-orientation equality. Like black history month pointing out successful black people. It's awesome and it's empowering, sure, but you know what it also does - it reminds me to think of black people differently. Same thing with women. Pointing out powerful women makes me think of women differently. I think it's just a stage we as a society have to go …
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:46 AM
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I definitely agree - it really troubles me that she doesn't entertain the idea that a man can be raped by a women (or two), almost moreso because she IS the gender that is often in the media for being victims of rape, and therefore she's probably thought about how terrible it would be if SHE were raped, and how can she not extend those fears and understand how her boyfriend feels. It's really sad, both for OP to have to deal with this on his own, but because the public's view of male rape is pre…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:35 AM
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I'm a feminist. Read my previous comments and see if you have an issue with me.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:14 AM
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Her article written by a man about women wouldn't fly in a million years, it's so true. Probably going to get it for nit-picking, but maybe she didn't destroy her husband financially. Isn't the reason your on /r/MensRights is because you're sick of people applying gender roles? But that's exactly what you just did to your own sex (assuming you're male).
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:07 AM
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Hahaa, he kind of is, I think he just doesn't quite know where the appropriate place to stand is in his argument, like he's trying really hard not to offend anyone. I think everyone is affected by the unrealistic ideals of attractive people on screen, and it just sucks, because we keep giving them money to see these people in the movies, so where is the studios motivation to cast more normal-looking folks?
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:56 AM
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You've just pointed out precisely what the article is not describing, so I'm trying to figure out why you said it.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:47 AM
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I know probably no one is going to see this, but I'm a woman and I wasn't offended by the song. I've been trying to figure out if I should be or not every since. I was hoping there would be more comments, because I'm interested to hear what you guys have to say about this.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:17 AM
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Maybe he should find another girl friend, but first work with her and explain why her attitude hurts. It's not just feminists who cane blame the victim, it's anybody. Not all feminist feel that way, just like not all everybody-else feels that way.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:09 AM
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: D
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:51 AM
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Just wanting to clarify what you're saying, because I think I agree with you. By feminism "dying", do you mean there will be no more need for activism (for female or male rights), because people will just stop caring what sex you are and treat someone based on the things that actually matter. Is this what you mean?
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:36 AM
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As a female feminist who believe in female and male rights are equally important, I'm incredibly offended by the definition as well. I'm calling myself a feminist because it's important to understand that feminism isn't inherently a man-hating way of thinking. I'm guessing it's pretty easy to forget that with the way some of the louder feminists act.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:26 AM
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It important to remember there are many different types of feminist females. I'm a female feminist, and I'm just looking forward to the time when no one comments on how good a year it was for "women in Hollywood" or how many "women receive awards for bla bla bla" or how many "Woman work in bla field" and the sex of the person in the job or who made the movie doesn't matter.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:15 AM
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