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RANTbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:57 PM
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DISCUSSIONbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:36 AM
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SCROTES MADbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:16 PM
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NAH, SISbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:19 AM
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DISCUSSIONbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:17 AM
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#JustLVMThingsbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:02 AM
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PICKME CULTUREbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:17 AM
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DISCUSSIONbuffysummerrs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:19 PM
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Holy hell! What a fucking crazy disgusting ugly ass man. Too bad she didn’t have a fucking bat to beat his face in as well. The guy literally tried to touch or rape her... that’s what it looked like to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:07 AM
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Right!! And Jensen Ackles has bowed legs and girls think it’s cute. God forbid the most perfect woman has... interesting thumbs. See, this is the difference between men and women. Women find oddities to be cute, men just attack and puke nonsensical hatred out of their mouths. This is why men are crazy. I honestly think most men are mentally ill and most of them have zero EQ (emotional intelligence). That’s why they don’t see people as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:44 AM
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This. Most men cannot handle being alone. You’ll notice through most male behavior patterns that men are obsessive, stalkers and crazy. Men obsessed over women that I don’t see women doing even with the hottest men alive. Men obsess over a hot Megan Fox in a more much obsessive way than women do with a hot Jensen Ackles for example... who are both equally the same hotness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:34 AM
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Well. I responded a couple times and basically just told him that he needed professional help and hopes he gets it someday. I left it as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:44 AM
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Yup. I mean there were people who definitely agreed with me. But that one POS was so triggered by me venting over the guy falsifying his photos. It was a shame too. Because he was very handsome in those old photos. I was like thinking to myself “why don’t you just lose the weight instead of using old photos.” But I digress, anyone lying about their weight or looks is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:58 AM
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What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:10 AM
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The first guy is so gross looking. The way he holds himself says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:17 AM
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I love how the James guy told him off. To be told off by another guy just means you’re an extra douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:05 PM
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So it’s a never ending cycle! This is a perfect answer to why men are like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:14 AM
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Yeah, they don’t realize the non-pushy hotter men come off more confident and sexy. They (tend) to write witty things or only message you with important stuff (from my experience). The ugly guys just message you about ANYTHING and a lot of times talk and talk and talk or over share...stuff that make you roll your eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:11 AM
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That’s good. But for me it’s more online. Facebook, Instagram, etc. Like I have a lot of Facebook friends/Instagram followers and I just tend to notice that guys that follow me or that I’ve known in real life who are uglier bother me/harass me a lot more than the attractive men I know. The attractive men might like my photos or have a casual conversation with me (you know like a normal person should), but the uglier men will message me CONSTANTLY, they lack boundaries that should come naturally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:45 AM
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Of course not! Personality, respect, drive and everything matters. I’ve met POS from all different heights. I just don’t like when men get angry what girls are initially attracted to. I like certain hair and eye color too. Who I’m attracted to when I walk into a room or see on a dating app isn’t going to change because some loser guy online told me I’m shallow due to his own insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:20 AM
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Men are even jealous and intimidated by other tall men. So obviously women like tall men for a reason. Like another girl pointed out it makes you feel like he’s protective and masculine. It’s more passionate feeling and screams testosterone. I can’t help it, no different than a guy can’t help if he likes a skinny girl with big boobs. We drool over what we drool over. It’s all about reproduction in the end and that’s what our bodies want. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:56 AM
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Yup! Same height here. Like I’ve told other girls, I find men with a body of Jensen Ackles (6’0-6’1) very hot. Very masculine body, masculine height, masculine voice. He screams testosterone. Like, oops my bad... I don’t want some scrawny 5’7 Justin Bieber boy. A short man with a higher voice is estrogen. If I wanted that, I’d date a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:50 AM
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This is so perfect! They do think it’s an hate crime. What you’re not attracted to when it comes to dating an adult male isn’t a hate crime. It’s biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:47 AM
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Right! I saw that on Instagram and basically said the same thing as you to some girl. I wrote “That’s great. But I’m not attracted to that. What you like is your prerogative, not mine. If I don’t feel any passion or heat towards a guy based on his physical appearance, then that’s that.” And they always argue back. Like, really girl? Why the fuck do I need to argue who I develop a crush on! I don’t need to explain shit! We can’t help who we like. I think Jensen Ackles is a babe and I can’t help i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:44 AM
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If that’s the case, I’ll just dress like a hobo, never shave or do my hair. I mean they should just accept me for who I am, right? It’s stupid to say that. Like even if I did accept a date with the shorter dude, I’d keep looking at the taller dudes all night long lol. Do they really want that? I don’t think so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:41 AM
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Yup! 9/10 dudes who are short are insecure of their height and use that shortness to project hatred and jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:39 AM
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That’s what I don’t get! I’m a brunette, with dark eyes and light skin (like Nina Dobrev). And if I met a guy who said he only liked blonde hair and blue eyes, I wouldn’t yell at him and tell him to change his thinking. I would just think “Welp, he’s not the right dude for me”. What’s the point? He’s always going to look at me less than the Taylor Swift and Margot Robbie who pass by him! That’s not cool. Stick to a guy who finds YOUR attributes beautiful... not settling for it. Men need to reali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:35 AM
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Yup! A guy literally wrote that and it got filtered. To men, if you’re not 110 (no matter what height) you’re fat. Guys are dumb as fuck. I remember when Britney Spears back during her “I’m a Slave 4 U” days said she was between 115-120 (she’s 5’5). I literally remember guys saying she was 100-105. BAhahahahahah! Idiot men. And Britney was ripped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:19 AM
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Because society is DISGUSTING! That’s why I tell the truth, I don’t sugarcoat, I am blunt and if I have to be nasty about it I will be. If another guy doesn’t like what I’m looking for that is obviously realistic, he can stick it where the sun doesn’t shine. At the end of the day, my choice in a partner affects NO ONE but me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:14 AM
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Exactly! I’m 5’4 and 5’11 to 6’3 is what I like. I can walk in 5 inch heels, so I don’t want to be this giant Hagrid next to a midget man. It makes me feel like less of a woman and more like the dudes boyfriend. I mean it’s pretty understandable. Not sure why guys can’t understand that. Would they want to date a girl with a boy body, hairy legs and short buzz cut? Most likely not. I’m traditional. I like a handsome guy who dresses like a guy, has a deep voice and other male traditional attribute…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:13 AM
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Even if they find you hot, they’ll tell you you’re ugly to cut you down to make you feel like a piece of shit when they’re rejected and what not. Lol It’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:06 AM
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Yup! Thats the thing, any guy can be a piece of shit. We talk about it on this subreddit all the time. I just have noticed a correlation to Napoleon syndrome that tall men obviously don’t have. My sister dated a guy who had it badddddd. He was 5’6 or 5’7. He wore his big construction type boots to the beach, he was an abusive sociopath (he stab a cat as a kid we found out), he HATED all my brothers for being taller than him, he got upset when my sister would wear heels if it wasn’t a place he co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:04 AM
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I wasn’t saying a 150 lb girl is over weight... I was just replying to the douche bag who wrote that. 150 lbs is NOT fat. Men are retarded when it comes to weight too. They think if you’re not stating you’re 110 you’re fat. They’re dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:08 PM
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That gave me a good laugh! Omg! This exactly here is why girls don’t like short guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:43 AM
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Exactly! It’s evolutionary. I’ve tried to explain this. So many dudes want to pretend not to understand that. It’s so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:16 AM
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I’m sure you’re not below average. Don’t let people who try to bring you down make you feel that way. I’m sure you’re lovely! Sadly, society attacks women for anything. Like when Jessica Simpson got big due to her pregnancy or Britney Spears back in the mid 2000’s. Both good looking chicks and still criticized for minor natural crap that everyone goes through. I think a lot of male celebrity heartthrobs have gone down hill, yet never a peep about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:56 AM
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Yup! It’s completely genetics. Just like why we enjoy clear skin, nice teeth and thick hair. It’s all to make us reproduce. A taller man with masculine features is supposed to give us more quality looking children who are healthy. Ask God why... I don’t know why. Also, their size is evolutionary to ward off predators... but that’s another topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:52 AM
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Yup! Or they date that girl who isn’t as pretty but cheat on her or complain to his friends how she’s not hot. Whatever it may be. I’m visual as hell myself. All humans are.... it’s how we pick partners who will give us attractive children. Like duh! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:50 AM
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This is the most blunt statement ever! Thank you! I want to feel feminine and petite! I want to feel like the girl on the cover of a romance novel with her knight. Lolllll. Not the little Rumpelstiltskin next to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:49 AM
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Oh totally! I thought face and personality was a given. I’m just talking about body. I mean I think Jensen Ackles is cute as hell... but if he was 5’4 like me. Sorry nope. I would feel like I’m dating a midget man. Lol It’s a whole mix of stuff, looks, body shape, personality, drive and career..... but in the case of like on the prowl for a date... a tall guy (with a cute face) is going to outbeat a short dude with a cute face, IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:45 AM
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Weird. I’ve never noticed a guys philtrum or personally met a dude who talked about it. But I do have a preference with noses, personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:44 AM
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Exactly. Do you know how many girls I see write that on Instagram and stuff and the guys can’t get it through their thick heads. Wanna know why? They don’t want to understand. The power of denial is fascinating. And most humans can’t handle criticism. So they prefer the girls saying that shit aren’t “worth their time”. Except most of those girls can get any guy with a snap of a finger. Most men don’t get that luxury. They need to just deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:43 AM
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Lollll philtrum? Wtf is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:41 AM
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I just think preference is preference. I’m using dainty as an adjective for like sexy or girly. Also, I get the bald thing. My sister hates bald dudes. Taste and preference just is... otherwise we’d all like the same people and that wouldn’t be fun. Humans like a certain biology though and that can’t be denied no matter how hard these salty men try to deny it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:32 AM
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My grandpa was in the Korean War too and he and my grandma had like a perfect relationship. Was that time period just full of great men? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:52 PM
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Bam! This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:34 AM
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This!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:55 AM
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This! It means he enjoys hurting women but doesn’t want to get hurt himself. Aka a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:50 AM
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It’s like the men who have big Instagram accounts. I’ll see all these girls who will write “Omg you’re so handsome!” “You can have me daddy!” “Sexy boy” “🔥🔥🔥” And I’m thinking “Ew. You’re just feeding into this narcissists ego. He doesn’t care. It just makes him go ha-ha I’m so hot and everyone knows. Then he feels he can act like a dick to everyone and get away with it. He already knows he’s hot, hence why he made an Instagram account and has 30k followers. You don’t need to tell him.” I actual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:48 AM
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I get what this post is about. But on another more “literal” subject, I’ve realized that most men I’ve spoken to (all types... guys who have gone to school for all sorts of stuff) have a limited vocabulary. Then again, I pride myself on my vocabulary and general knowledge. But I noticed that most men simply suck at understanding the meaning of words. I can only think of a few guys who have a good vocabulary in my personal life. Yet, I find it funny how men think they’re so smart, when I have fou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:35 AM
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Hahahahaha Omg! Yes! Anytime I see women who talk like this, I literally roll my eyes. These are women who need acceptance and reassurance in their life. Something happened to them that they need a “wow you’re such a cool girl!”. Brown nosers I guess for a lack of a better word. It’s pathetic. Also, I love when you see ugly engagement rings and girls say “I dunno. I wouldn’t mind it if I got it, just saying 🤷🏻‍♀️ “ Oh and they gotta do that little 🤷🏻‍♀️emoji I posted and say “just saying”. The p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:27 PM
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Were there any other signs besides saying he wanted to murder you? Like thinking back did he do or say odd stuff that maybe you overlooked?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:43 PM
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True. It doesn’t make sense why any girl would want to be with a guy who doesn’t like her personality/lifestyle. I mean would a guy want to date a girl who doesn’t like his personality? No. He would blow her off. And it applies to women too. Date someone who is on your level. Likes your humor, your intelligence, your goals, your hobbies, your opinions. If he doesn’t like you, why are you with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:32 AM
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Doesn’t understand why telling someone you want to murder them would be upsetting? Wow, you married a psychopath. Chris Watts warnings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:30 AM
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Yikes! That’s really sad that men do that. To not be able to form real relationships and just use people as backburners is really pathetic of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:15 PM
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Sadly. It’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:12 PM
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It’s true I guess. Since I’ve moved around a lot, I get guys who message me often on social media from my old states/areas. And I can usually tell when a guy is “into” me (as much as the internet can let you). This guy liked my pics and commented on my stuff, but I guess he just wasn’t into me. I thought it was attractive that we had more stuff in common than I previously knew, and so I found that alluring. But I’m not going to bother caring anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:20 AM
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Yup! This is how I feel exactly! Don’t even bother when people don’t put their 50% in. There’s no point AT ALL! Like you feel as though you’re going out of your way to be nice, make a connection and it feels rude when someone isn’t doing their half. I mean I can see if a person was being boring or not responding because the other person randomly messaged them uninvited and they were just creepy (we as girls have been there where a creepy guy we had no previous interaction has messaged us) but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:17 AM
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Yeah. I thought he kind of was interested. Not that I was thinking about this dude day and night. Lol. It wasn’t like that. He liked my pictures on FB, liked my statues within a period of time and would agree with stuff I said, etc. so when he followed me back immediately on Instagram and instantly starting liking my Instagram pictures (like 7 of them in a row), it peaked my interest because I thought he was cute. I didn’t reciprocate it. I didn’t like anything of his or message him. I only mess…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:16 AM
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Especially himself! Don’t people take pride in having a personality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:26 PM
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I don’t message on tinder. But unfortunately Bumble FORCES you to. They really need to make an app that forces the men to message first. Not sure what idiot woman (and yes bumble was created by a woman) thought this was a brilliant idea. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:24 PM
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Hahahahah! I just know how people should talk. I write stories so that’s probably why I’m good with “le dialect”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:20 PM
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When a guy writes like that I find it equivalent to a person rolling their eyes and turning away from you. Kinda like a person going “Psssh”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:15 PM
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Yup! They do that too. I forgot to mention that. Men don’t put effort into ANYYYYTHING. Bunch of lazy ass guys from this generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:38 PM
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Unfortunately I don’t have many friends and living in a new state I really don’t have any. My best friend is a guy too. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:35 PM
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99% of the dudes on these apps deserve rejection. I was swiping and saw an ugly fat guy who said he was picky in his bio. Lol ummm like he was fat! I could see a man like Jensen Ackles being picky, but an ugly fat nobody? These guys are dumb as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:32 PM
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Karma points by harassing an animal? Sounds like sociopathy at its finest! I feel any guy friend I know or my brother would go “Uhhhh okay.” if a dude told them how they told off a woman and her cat lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:30 PM
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I feel like they just want attention. Like they want to see how many matches they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:15 PM
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Wow. Yeah it’s asshole comments I get like that. Like l’ll write something witty or funny just like you and I get those EXACT responses. I wrote about my situation on the dating subreddit and I got a lot of people (probably mostly men) saying my story how I got matched with a dude with my rare last name and making a joke about it wasn’t funny and was stupid and that’s why the guy went “Cool... anyway...”. They claimed they would have responded the same way. LMFAO. Goes to show that men are retar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:02 PM
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I can agree on that. But they can’t even say “Oh hey what’s up?” How do they expect to go out with someone if they don’t know how to say hi. My mind is blown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:58 PM
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Yup! Sad that these idiots don’t realize if they want sex they have to put in effort. Morons!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:57 PM
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That’s really sad. These men are sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:09 PM
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They’re online because they can’t meet girls in real life. I have the excuse of moving somewhere and I broke it off with my long term boyfriend which is why I’m single. But at least I make the effort. These guys think one word answers will land them a date lmfao. I mean why even go on these things if you’re not gonna talk to anyone? To see how many matches you can get? That’s stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:30 PM
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It’s not. But I don’t know anyone in my state. I just moved here 2 weeks ago lol. I don’t go to school here, just work and I’m single. So this is how I’m going about it. I like to believe online isn’t the only way. But I did meet my last long term boyfriend online, so I know it’s possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:27 PM
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I’m already over it. I just moved to Florida 1000 miles away from my old state. So I use it as an ice breaker stuff like “Oh I heard the water is the warmest in October! Is that true? Where I’m from the water is still super cold!” and I basically get one word answers. Maybe those aren’t the most interesting things but I have no material to work with when all I get is “Welcome to our state.” Or “Anything new?” I told somewhere I went to this haunted lighthouse where I live and I’m scared of heigh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:21 PM
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Which I mentioned too and got down voted for. I already explained that what I was speaking of are the people who go out to like the Pine Barrens of NJ or some other rural area and perform rituals and open portals and shit, burying like dead animals corpses of cat heads, the stuff you’d see in like a creepy horror movie or American Horror Story. But like a person on TV like Zak whose just making a general statement to his viewers that already know what he’s talking about isn’t going to sit down l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:46 PM
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Well I didn’t know people took satanism so seriously as a religion they get offended over it. That’s surprises me. Never met a single satanist except people on here, yet I know loads of people who like ghost hunter shows or crazy ghost buzzfeed videos and other general supernatural shit. The amount of people who subscribe to Strange but True Stories, or Top 10 ghost videos that have like 5 million views or the YouTubers have like a million subscribers. I think it’s pretty normal. There’s a subre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:27 PM
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https://youtu.be/RhzdH_B14lM https://youtu.be/DqZBHrcj8x0 https://youtu.be/HwiDfXXSkq4 You mean the same child psychologists who talked about how they saw the child on the wall, the police offers who talked about it and confirmed it on camera. The police nor firefighters wouldn’t even go into that house. The family who owned it before Zak purchased it wouldn’t meet with Zak because they thought it attached themselves to him due to going in the house. The priest who went into the house had organ …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:04 PM
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Okay, what you’re describing is something different than what Zak was talking about. The church of Satan? These people are the ones who do rituals and were the cause of stuff like The Demon House documentary he made where they found a fingernail, underwear among other stuff in the basement of that house buried in a ritualistic offering. He knocked down that house in Gary Indiana. People who open portals and pray to Satan and worship him and reject God. Anyway I don’t think a person like Zak is g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:29 PM
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He’s like the biggest Scientologist in Hollywood. Anyone who is apart of that is like practically a satanist. I remember Zak Bagans talking about it on Ghost Adventures. He investigated the house of the dude who started it or whatever because it had demonic activity and Zak was like “don’t get involved with this stuff, it opens portals.” Honestly Tom Cruise is a narcissistic sociopath. You can tell when listening to him. He gives you these creepy vibes that feel wrong. He reminds me of the Onisi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:30 PM
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My best friends mother went to high school with him in North Jersey. From what she said, Tom was a piece of work. She said he was creepy in high school. And called him a short little chubby thing that followed her around. He lived on a dirt road, his mom had no car. She said he would stalk the girls in school. And apparently he lied a lot, to where when he told people he was taking acting lessons, no one believed him. She said like a year or two later he was sliding down the hall. In her words “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:29 PM
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My mom also had this idea that you should “date around” not just for us girls but the boys too. Literally my mom doesn’t think it’s cheating because you’re not married. Like to me, if you’ve been dating a guy a few months and he asks you to be his girlfriend and you say yes, you shouldn’t be dating other guys, that’s stupid. My mom thinks you should keep all options open. Like to me you only do that if the guy isn’t committing or is playing games. You don’t date other guys when a dude asked you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:28 AM
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If I said that stuff my mom would get tired of the conversation too. It’s more like just a complaint when the topic of marriage comes up through a web of other conversations. And she does it with all of us. Not just me. She even complains that my cousin Chelsea has been with her boyfriend too long and needs to get married. She says things like “Your generation needs to stop with this just dating thing! It’s stupid! If you’re together for 2 years and haven’t gotten married, then end it! If the gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:18 AM
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Your lucky your mom is like that. You know what’s funny, my mom wasn’t always like that though. Something happened where she got weird. I remember there was an episode of Keeping Up With The Kardashian’s and Kim turned 30 and complained how she was still single and my mom was like “Oh well. Then she can be the attractive single one of the bunch. It’s not a big deal”. I wonder if it’s because she turned 60 last year she thinks she’s like gonna die. My parents have gotten weirder when they got clo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:04 AM
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My mom got married at 23 going on 24, and my oldest brother thinks it’s because my mom was pregnant. He’s born July 13th and they got married 2 days after Christmas and were engaged like a couple days before Halloween. But they used the excuse that my fathers mother was dying of cancer (which she was) so they wanted to hurry up. Who knows what the real truth is. Also, I think it’s generational thing. I’ve heard many women who are above 55 (even the ones who seem like cool moms) that say women ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:01 AM
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I’m still in my 20’s but my mom treats me like I’m gonna be 40 next year. She also says things like “all the good ones get taken in your 20’s” she may be right to some degree seeing as it was tough for my older sister once she was in her 30’s, but I think it’s regional too. Like my brother works in NYC and dating is easier there than my sister who lived in New England where people are more townies and cliquish. My sister even once said that anyone she knows who got married in their 20’s got divo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:51 AM
5

I’m white (American) (Scottish, French heritage). My parents aren’t involved with who we date. Half my siblings live in different states and my parents are moving like 8 states away, so they wouldn’t know any anyone to start with. I would never let my parents pick a person out for me, anyhow. They are ultra conservative, Christian and tbh my mom has an ugly taste in men. One time she pointed out to me this really short guy who looked totally aged even though he was like 5 years older than me, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:44 AM
1

Well this was a red flag because the guy was a creep and narcissistic. I also think he had a sex addiction. And I remember being 14/15 with guys hitting on me, and they were weirdos. I also had a friend in high school who was like 15 and dated a 21 year old who legit used her for sex and shit, and his girlfriend after her was also the same age. So, no it’s not a pink flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:41 PM
1

I wasn’t dating this guy and it was almost 6 years ago. I was younger and more prone to gossiping and hearing someone out like this. Now I would have said goodbye but I wasn’t like that at the time. I mean there’s a reason why I don’t speak to him, don’t have him on FB or have his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:52 AM
3

I’m not 20. I said HE was 20 when he got with her. He told me about it a few years after it happened. I’m in my late 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:24 AM
1

You’re suggesting I report this story to the police? I’m confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:43 AM
10

He probably did. I’m sure he did know she was jailbait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:17 AM
14

Which is disturbing. Like dude you’re fucking old! I’m in my 20’s and think 42 year old Jensen Ackles is hot and yet I feel weird thinking about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:57 AM
34

Except Buffy. She’s awesome! And all the girls in the show tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:55 AM
8

It was about 5 years ago. I’m not friends with the dude on Facebook or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:32 AM
7

I don’t remember why it came up. It was 5 years ago. We may have been talking about sex or relationships and I think he told me it in a “you’ll never believe what happened to me once” type of manner. And I was like “What?” and he was like “When I was 20, I met this chick and thought she was 18. I got with her but it turned out she wasn’t.” He did tell me he stopped talking to her after he found out but who knows if he was just saving face and what people lie about. I remember telling him that is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:47 AM
8

Well he was immature too. Immature dickwads can only get with young girls because the girls his age didn’t want him. That’s how I view it. He was a bit older than me too and I didn’t want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:40 AM
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I think she was a 9th grader (not that it matters) and I think they were white trash. Anyone I’ve known who came from a white trash family don’t care about their kids like that. He was white trash too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:12 AM
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This was a while ago. I don’t talk to him anymore. It was just something I always remembered and cringe at when I think of creepy conversations. I always was like you I remember being a freshman, and some drunk guy at my neighbors wedding was like “How old are you?” I was like “15.” And he’s like “Damnnnnn. You’re hot”. I remember being like “What a weirdo drunk.” The dude was like I don’t know 40. Like what 40 year old thinks 15 year olds are hot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:52 PM
3

Ah the age old “I’m a guy comment.” That just makes it worse and you’re pointing out how guys can’t admit how shitty other guys are. Give her some real advice, how her boyfriend is a sociopathic half wit who she needs to drop now! iM A gUy.... please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:03 AM
1

Agreed. Once in a while I’ll see someone from Boston hang around in NY or NJ with their New England sport teams hats on and of course they don’t know how to cross the roads and jay walk (there’s this law in New England where cars have to stop for you and thus they are allowed to cross the road as a car is approaching. It’s very dangerous and they abuse it badly and because of that they think this applies everywhere. Eyeroll. My father constantly made fun of it.) You can also tell who they are if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:46 AM
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Not sure why someone downvoted you. People are jealous, IMO. I’m a fellow Jersey person with NY relatives and siblings who work/live there, etc. To live comfortably in NY are most people’s dream among what like living in Beverly Hills or San Diego (I have family out there too) or near a beach in a tropical area. The fast paced lifestyle, the lights, the events, the people, the art, the food. It’s so much to take in. I love shows! I’m an artsy person at heart and I appreciate it all. There’s noth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:36 AM
5

For own sake I hope that relationship worked out. Because otherwise she’s probably full of regrets once she realized she threw every opportunity out the window. Unless her like parents pushed her to go into that career path and she didn’t want to to start with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:17 AM
11

Don’t let them tell you it sucks. It’s amazing. There’s TONS to do. Especially in soho and midtown. Brooklyn is amazing too. I mean look up any video talking about why NY is amazing and you’ll get it. I brought someone I know whose never been to NY for the first time and she went crazy at it all. It was during Christmas and the lights and music and just so much. We played Taylor Swifts Welcome to NY as we drove over the bridge. It’s a surreal feeling if you’ve never seen it. I remember last time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:55 PM
1

Why?? Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:44 PM
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Wow. And he just let her do this? I guess living near NY most guys are career driven and would have dropped their mouths if they heard a girl was leaving that type of job. Honestly that girl could have made MILLIONS! She could right now be living in a high rise grand apartment in NYC looking at the city sunset with that type of job. What a waste of a gift. I mean I certainly could never be a lawyer. What a shame! Like in NY having a profession like that is big big money. Ugh. I’m actually gettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:36 PM
2

More like Candace Cameron. She’s in ALL of these films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:32 PM
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Exactly! Couldn’t have said it better myself. I’m from NJ and lived outside NY too. My entire family works there, lives there or is from there. And it’s an amazing city. There’s a reason Frank Sinatra made a song about NY or Taylor Swift. It’s an amazing city! I also lived in a rural setting like this post is making fun of. No fashion, people are boring and quiet, not outgoing, cliquish, the men are uglier and usually very sexist in these rural areas. Not sure why anyone would want to live in a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:29 PM
9

Whoa whoa whoa. I’m from NJ and NY and it’s one of the greatest cities on earth. I mean people come to America to see NYC. So many things to do there, at all hours, tons of different people to meet, the pizza is bomb! Also, careers!!!!! My brother works making commercials in Manhattan and his place is owned by Instagram. You’re not gonna find that unless you’re in Cali. I also have a slight NY accent and I love the accents. I love the attitudes. People aren’t mean like you think. I’ve actually m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:27 PM
17

Lmao! I always make fun of these movies. But it’s more like..... Girl lives in NYC. She broke up with her UGLY ass fiancé. Goes to Vermont for Christmas. See’s this absolutely 10/10 hot guy in a bakery or bookstore that in reality DOES not actually exist in Vermont. Hot guy likes her. She’s too “prideful” or “shy” to get with him OR she’s still obsessed over the ugly ass fiancé. Hot guy and girl almost kiss, but ugly ass fiancé comes around the corner “Kate! I’ve been looking everywhere for you!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:26 PM
3

Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:51 AM
11

Why do men even wants kids if they don’t want to take care of them or do anything, period? That’s like saying “Man I really want a dog. But I don’t want to walk it, feed it, brush it, bathe it, play ball with it, or really anything. But if it’s in my house I’ll like look at it, maybe rub it’s back.” Or another “I want a car so bad. But I don’t want to pay for it, wash it, clean it, fix anything broken, drive it, but I’ll look at it from the window. Just don’t ask me to do anything with it.” Why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:00 AM
4

Oh trust me, my last boyfriend was only a grade above me. Dating someone 5 years older than me was stupid as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:41 PM
1

He got shat on by men in the comment section too. It wasn’t just me. Just proves further how much of a dimwit he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:26 AM
1

Bingo! Nothing going to for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:22 AM
2

Oh he got shat on by another guy after me and another girl told him off too. The guy said “You don’t get laid, be honest at least. I doubt women want you.” And then he proceeded to call him gay or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:21 AM
20

He’s just angry at the world. If he died tomorrow, the world would keep on turning... better than it did before, actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:21 PM
7

Oddly enough, I’m funnier than my own boyfriend and he admits it all the time. He’s the serious one and I’m the funny one. My entire family notes it. Sometimes the things I say go over his head. Whoooosh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:53 PM
2

Just ghetto hick slang. They’re hicks. So I don’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:48 PM
1

He sounds proud to be pumping it in her like “I’m a man and it’s my job. The rest is hers to push out”. Like “I scrub the dishes and she dries them and puts them away.” It’s creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:46 PM
9

It’s actually so hilariously white trash, I was having a field day telling my boyfriend some of the stupid things guys have been saying on the internet. This being one of them. He laughed saying “Buffy I’m gonna write on my status and joke with my friends how I wanna pump in you in September. Do you think your family will be okay with that?” And he laughed. Basically saying how disgusting that post is. It’s sad, because the dudes a pretty good looking guy and so is his wife. But crap like this? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:18 AM
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Good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:02 AM
1

Nope. I’m a yankee. Are southerners not allowed to talk about sex? My best friend is a southerner (border of Alabama) born and raised, and had sex in high school and plenty of girlfriends and doesn’t think sex is taboo, he’s just a normal dude. He’s actually an extremely chill, open minded guy. He’s agnostic, used to be a shroom head. I’m not understanding the correlation here? So because you’re from Texas, Louisiana, Georgia or Alabama you’re automatically a weirdo who is Christian and is a dim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:57 AM
1

I mean I never once talked about sex with my very Christian parents. But I talked about it with my friends and the internet and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:16 AM
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It’s also weird how he chose what month he’s gonna do it. I mean maybe she wants the baby in the September? Either way why say “pump a baby girl into my OLD lady.” He’s trying to be funny (yuck), but if you’re gonna even write something like that online for all of us to see, don’t sugar coat it. “I’m gonna cum inside my wife in September.” This entire conversation is WEIRD and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:04 AM
1

I might sound weird, but have people never heard of simple birth control or the fucking PULL out method? Like c’mon. I’m sorry, but most dudes I’ve been with or even just know understand the pull out method! You’re about to cum and you pull out of her. Do these people not realize the guy doesn’t have to cum every single time? Yikes! Like it’s not a requirement of sex to cum. It’s an option in some way. I think there’s even a subreddit about guys not cumming or something when masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:56 AM
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I feel many women were probably unsatisfied when they found out how small their husbands dicks were or that the guy came in like 3 seconds. I certainly would be like “Wtf did I marry this asshat for?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:52 AM
1

But but I’m 28 and have a massive crush on Jensen Ackles who is like 42. Are you saying he and I will never be? Honestly it feels weird saying his age compared to mind. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:48 AM
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When I was 17-18, I wasn’t going to any parties and I’m an extrovert. I could talk to any guy, I wasn’t shy, I was self assured. But I wasn’t going to American Pie parties or stuff like that. Yet I knew TONS of guys my age who were partying constantly. Made my life feel like I was a boring fuck. I also knew guys who were shy and different and played videos games all night long while smoking weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:46 AM
2

I actually find it interesting when you say the woman would cook a nice meal the 3rd or 4th date. It’s romantic honestly. It’s unfortunate because so many people I know live at home or with roommates and making a nice meal that is romantic can be hard or the woman never cooked (same applies to men, men should be able to cook too). I remember my sister had a roommate for like 6 months and she tried to make her boyfriend and his parents a meal. My sister was like “Uhhhhh, I have stuff to do for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:35 AM
2

Even a hot dude can be a turn off when he acts like a bro or idiot which is what women generally find unattractive. But the thing is, most men DO act like this... even in their 30’s. And it’s not normal. It’s not normal to be a creepy persistent dude who is coming up to you and won’t leave you alone online or in person. Call it women’s intuition, but we can sense when a guy has a badness about him. Being “creepy”, it means you don’t know the intentions of someone and that is NEVER a good place t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:35 AM
1

Most men do not look like Jensen Ackles and Scott Eastwood. It’s said people are attracted to certain face shapes over noses/eye color/hair. And from what I notice is most men don’t have these broad faces. Now I’m not saying every woman LIKES that, but it’s pretty well known that men like more feminine small faces and women like masculine (think Channing Tatum and Emma Watson). So if you really like the face shape of I don’t know Chris Evans or Brad Pitt, you’re going to find other men who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:19 AM
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Right? Like he basically wrote online for everyone to see “I’m gonna cum in her”. Had I not read the comments I would have thought his post with his wife and kids were cute. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:07 AM
56

As my sisters MALE coworker/friend once said “Guys do their little song and dance for women and the girl picks if they want him. That’s how it works and any guy who tells you otherwise is a shitbag.” If a guy is saying that, there you go. Girls aren’t entitled to do anything but be regular human beings. You go out, you see if you connect mentally and then later on you can have sex if we choose. Hell you don’t even have to have sex in your life... and if the guy doesn’t like it, he can go find so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:02 AM
25

I would have written that back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:01 AM
42

I guarantee that dude friend told your crush some weirdo things about you in order to have “you”. Like when Regina George tells Aaron Samuels how weird Cady is in Mean Girls so Aaron would be turned off by Cady. That’s legit what my gut told me as I read your situation. Envy is a deadly sin. What a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:59 AM
12

She’s beautiful and I bet that guy who gave her a shit rating would have drooled if he met her in real life. Also, Megan Fox has oily skin and she’s a bombshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:21 AM
12

I love Cher! I wish I was her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:10 AM
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I have literally said the exact same thing as you. It’s like a person being too lazy to buy themselves clothes or shoes. Like okay, then go around naked or get sores on your feet have fun with that. It’s a necessity. And food tastes good. Personally, I can’t stand when people put stuff on my food or make food I hate. I’m sure there’s millions of men who like their food a certain way and would rather do it themselves. This old “make my food women” thing needs to die out. The losers of today who a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:06 AM
12

Jokes on them, I have no friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:57 PM
2

Agreed with my dad too. My dad takes the political discussions by the reigns in my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:58 AM
5

Good! I’m glad he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:57 PM
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I’d like a guy who has a similar sense of humor to me. Has the same political and religious views. Apparently that’s hard to find. Honestly talking about this reminds me of the episode where Jerry Seinfeld meets a girl just like him and he goes “I realized what I’ve been looking for all these years... myself! I’ve been waiting for me to come along and now I’ve swept myself off my feet!” A few days go by and he’s like “It hit me, I realized what the problem is. I can’t be with someone like me... …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:52 PM
8

This! Or you try to break up with them and they go insane and act desperate and obsessive. I’m dealing with this right now. But yet tell you that they’re a piece of crap, have this problem and that problem. That they’re lucky to have dated you. That they fucked up. But yet they can’t “let go”, but want YOU to let go... but they just can’t. It’s making me want to stay single for the rest of my life. Dating and marriage is a joke and for suckers IMO. A few years ago I wouldn’t have said this, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:39 PM
6

I’m a Scorpio that has been burned and crossed. I have no natural instinct to comfort. I cut people off completely, like 100% cold turkey them, like they never existed. It’s crazy how obsessive men get when I do this. Emailing me, trying to find any social media to communicate. Guys are crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:36 PM
11

Wow this has a very familiar ring to it! That example conversation sounds just like a certain person I know. Me: You said stuff yesterday that pissed me off. And I don’t want to talk to you. Him: I’m really sorry. Him: I have to tell you something. I’ve been honestly having horrible pains with my jaw and I think somethings wrong with it. I need to call a doctor soon because I think it’s getting bad. Yup. I’ve been there. They take the focus off what they did bad and act like a victim. Is this na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:32 PM
9

My mother always told me to stay away from policemen - dating wise. I have actually gone out with an guy once who became a cop and he was crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:26 PM
17

Most men I meet who are feminists are feminist for the wrong reasons or what benefits them. Like I met a guy once who said, “Well, I’m a feminist.. so I believe that women should pay for dates and work as the breadwinner, why should the guy have to do it?” And he also believed that’s why men should be able to hit women back ...and he actually did punch a girl. Uh, no dude... you’re just a piece of shit who is using his political party and the term feminism to justify being a horrible human being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:12 PM
15

Yeah! I don’t understand why women think spending their own money equals equality. Guys don’t think like that. My older sister always said, “What do guys bring to the table? Nothing! Girls don’t want to have sex with them the way guys want to with us. Guys don’t have anything on their bodies... we don’t care about butts like them, they don’t have boobs or hips.” And it’s true. I typically look at guys faces over their bodies and I like shoulders and arms. But guys don’t have like “body parts” if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:11 AM
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Looking at his profile at specific things, I can see why. It’s sucks that so much trash is out there. Plus he’s short. I just don’t get it. I have 2 older brothers who would never in a million years be this cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:03 AM
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Exactly. You can read it on your own from my comment history. She said the guys she’s met who pay are usually the worst type of men. I told her of a couple stories of my own. One where a dude I personally met named Scott who pretended to be a feminist claimed women should pay, and even tried to get me to pay half on our first date, I found out he thinks men can punch women and that he actually did once. She can have that loser. Lol I mean he thinks women are independent. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:57 AM
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Tell that to the girl I was arguing with on the bumble subreddit. Thinks spending her money on dates and doing everything for the guy makes her independent and better than the girls whose men offer to pay. Then tells me she’s offended by guys who pay and I can have them lol. It’s women like that that make the men like OP’s situation think they can act like this. Guys are talking to women who are “independent and do everything”. I don’t have to pay or set up dates. I’ll let her do it and then get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:53 AM
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It says he’s an engineer but he can’t pay for takeout. What the???? He lives in NYC! One of my friends is an engineer up in Massachusetts and he makes like 90k and he’s only in his 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:46 AM
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Yup! I responded to a couple people on there. One girl said she always tries to pay at least half for the first date. Lol my mother always told me the rules of how to not look cheap. She was the type of person who could get a guy with a snap of a finger. You don’t set up multiple dates up with the same guy in 1 week, you don’t pay for dates when you start dating him. Honestly the only time I think I ever did that, was a LVM years ago who basically claimed he was a “feminist” (he wasn’t he was ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:11 AM
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Yeah I just chewed him out on there. I threw it out that we all know he just wants sex from her so what does he bring to the table besides being poor. I lack tact with these types of douches. Someone has to say it so he gets it through his thick idiotic head. I don’t sugar coat shiiiittt. Of course he wrote a “lol okay! Thanks” and downvoted me. He wants a girls opinion but wants it to suit what he deems valuable. Basically “Tell me I’m okay for doing this to help my ego, but if you have an oppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:25 AM
5

I’m actually saying it like Cordelia Chase from Buffy where I learned the line. And she’s a bitch. It’s kinda like “YEAH! I should say so....”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:18 AM
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Is this some type of sarcastic post someone made? Where was this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:10 AM
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Dude all the guys giving 5.5 would probably die of heart attacks if these girls came up to them. It’s easy to hate when you’re behind a screen and look like Don Vito. I don’t get why girls even do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:06 AM
6

None of these men are even that good looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:02 AM
6

Yeah and Chris Evans or Jensen Ackles are 4’s and 5’s, even being late 30’s-early 40’s. I’m being sarcastic. But that’s how loony it sounds to say Miranda is a 5-6. If she’s a 6, I would love to see this flawless 9-10 woman they have in mind. Usually their opinions it’s the woman who would never give them the time of day, or broke their heart and aren’t necessarily 9-10.... but are looked up in their delusional heads as “hotter” for being unachievable. I once mentioned how Jessica Simpson was on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:54 AM
7

My favorite line is “Yeah, I should say so.” Not sure if it’s a kneecap but I notice it annoys a lot of guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:46 AM
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Men are trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:57 AM
7

I’ve heard that Jared is more like Dean in real life and Jensen is more like Sam in real life. I can believe it. I actually think Jensen is kinda shy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:54 AM
3

If it were me, I’d just go out with lots of men and say “fair is fair”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:48 AM
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My mother thinks he’s pretty cute. When I’ve played the show, she’ll say “Oh that guys handsome.” I mean for being what like 46 or whatever, Misha is great looking. All 3 of the boys are. Andddddd no one likes Sam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:46 AM
3

I try to explain it pretty much like you. And I get weird looks from everyone (the only ones who seem to agree with me are my family). Like I just don’t get it. Not everyone likes football, not everyone likes knitting, not everyone like social media or reading. How is it so hard to understand not everyone cares about camping (or related activities)? I’m sure not everyone wants to be at Paris Fashion week because “makeup, models and boring clothes.” But you know what someone like me or Susan down…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:44 AM
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I hope you divorced or dumped that guy. People who are pieces of crap like that deserve to be alone forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:34 AM
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I’m from right outside Philly in South Jersey (which was near the pine barrens but the city was right there too) and lived in rural Massachusetts (population of trees). So I know both sides. So many people in Mass love nature and will go even MORE north to experience it. It’s cool if you’ve never done it and just want to for a change. But to love it for the sake of it is just strange to me. My parents aren’t nature people. We never camped or stayed at lake houses (we do have a beach house right …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:19 AM
4

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:24 AM
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That’s when you say, “you take care of the kid. You’re 50% responsible of them”. Or just leave them with the kid the way they do to you. I don’t know, I’m a very vengeful person and nearly child like, so I doubt anyone is going to assume I’m gonna do anything by myself, especially with my ADHD. I couldn’t even take care of my cat without someone else helping. They’ll be like “Yeah Buffy, isn’t dependable on her own enough to do this, she’ll probably leave the kid in the fridge and forget.” I’m h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:56 AM
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I never just give dudes a chance! I stopped doing that many many years ago, because guys are shit and don’t deserve my “chances”. The thing is you don’t know if a “nice” guy is bad. It doesn’t come out til much later. That’s why they usually have friends and yada yada because no one sees it from an outside perspective. Look at Chris Watts. Most people said he was nice, helpful, quiet, a stereotypical dad. Then one day he decided to cheat on his wife and killed her. But he SEEMED like such a GREA…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:28 AM
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My mother has had 5 children but for being 61 she is very young looking. But not everyone is like my mom. I know woman my mothers age who look 80! My boyfriends mother is sadly one of these women and she only had 1 child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:19 AM
9

I still don’t get why guys get upset over this. I’m around 5’4, which is average for a girl. But most people THINK I’m like 5’7. My mother thinks it’s because I have a long torso and shorter legs. I’m an optical illusion. Anyway, so I notice when I wear big heels I’m taller than EVERY freaking guy unless they’re 6’0+. I also notice I’m taller than most women. My older sister has this issue too being 5’5. So maybe guys are used to shorter women, 5’3 and below? I honestly don’t know what’s going o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:38 AM
80

Uhhhh. I hope you got a divorce. What a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:33 AM
111

I don’t want to get married. Period. I used to as a kid/teenager. Not anymore, because I realized how fucked up men are in general. Or how crappy people seem to be in relationships on my Facebook. Sorry, to the women who have children, but most of the ones I see look VERY aged. Pregnancy and taking care of children seems to age women. I don’t want to go through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:31 AM
75

If you’re not Jensen Ackles, I don’t want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:30 AM
11

Yup and I get a lot of “Wow, how could you? I love camping/nature. You need to open your horizons.” Why the hell do people say shit like this? Like I love going the beach or seeing pictures of beautiful mountains/snow.... but I don’t personally want to be at these mountains. I don’t understand the objective. As someone with ADHD as well, I get bored after being there for 5 seconds. A beach has an objective, swimming and getting knocked by the waves, tanning, eating seafood and going on the board…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:23 AM
18

“His heart broken”. God. What kind of loser woman stays with idiots like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:10 AM
14

Curious, what city do you live in? So I know to stay away from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:09 AM
25

That is everything I hate. I hate motorcycles, I hate camping and I don’t like the outdoors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:08 AM
36

I’ve actually responded and have said “Why do you want a woman? How about finding a man? You’re obviously afraid to leave your wife, but you want your cake and to eat it too. Trash relationship.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:07 AM
2

Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:00 AM
1

I agree. His cousin moved away really early on and moved completely out of state (he has no siblings and his cousin and him are close). Where as my boyfriend has this constant guilt because his dad is fairly immobile and is getting older so his body body is going more downhill. My mother even said that if his dad dies that mother will attach herself to him. It really sucks, because my boyfriend IS a very driven, go getter type of guy, managing like 200 people at work and raising the bar financia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:59 AM
11

That’s what I think. Like he’ll let his mom make his lunch (which are more like dinners because he works second shift). My mom hasn’t packed me a lunch since I was like 17 or 18. I mean maybe dinner is very different if they’re making it already. But I’ve been there where she’s been like “What time are you working tomorrow? Oh, what do you want me to make for you.” And he’s yelled at her for being overly nosy and in his shit. I’ve heard him say “Mom, I’ve got it! Stop asking me this! You do this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:44 AM
3

Yeah I think so. Unfortunately I think his mother needed more than one child. Because she’s too overbearing and all over everything. She’s not like a monster in law mean witch. She’s very nice. But her maternity instincts are going way beyond the age limit. And because she takes care of his dad, I think she has this thing in her head that this is what women do or something. She also enjoys cooking like as a hobby, some of us don’t. I’m the type of person who doesn’t even eat breakfast and id rat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:31 AM
14

She’s said it before and before. Like “Well Buffy, you need to learn how to cook! How are you gonna make dinner for him or his lunches if you don’t know how to”. Something along those baselines. And I’m gonna say this, his mother still tries to do his laundry. She’s a lady full of anxiety and can’t turn the switch off. My boyfriend has stated “I can do my own laundry and iron and clean.” But he allows his mother to. Put it this way. I NEVER allow my mother to clean my clothes or iron my stuff un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:14 AM
1

Oh I found her on FB. It says she single. She’s most likely a divorcée 50 year old woman. That speaks volumes to me. She’s a nasty person who was fighting with several other girls too once I scrolled through the comments. No wonder why she’s angry, because she knows guys don’t like her. She’s washed up looking. My mother is a decade older than this woman and looks younger and my mother certainly doesn’t go Instagram and call 20 year olds female derogatory words. Infact I’ve never heard my mom cu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:35 AM
2

Brainwashed people is what I think it is. I know sexism is alive. Several years ago, some older woman boss lady I worked for had the audacity to tell me because I wasn’t wearing makeup, I looked bad and unprofessional. Can you imagine telling a guy that. “Yo Dan, you’re not wearing fake caked colored oil crap on your face, you look unprofessional.” I’m sorry that in order to be professional I need to hide my skin with chemicals. But men can go around with discoloration and acne on their skin and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:30 AM
1

She was worse than some of the guys on there. I just don’t get why someone would get that upset over saying how grown adults should act like... well adults. Could be because she doesn’t act like one (clearly) thus she doesn’t really understand why anyone would expect it. Her logic was strange....actually it was more like blah blah blah basic white bitch, blah blah blah C word, blah blah blah. Crazy people logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:45 AM
14

I bet she already has which is why she hates her life. All that angry word vomit because I said men who are adults should know how to cook just like they should know how to pay bills and wash their car. Can you imagine a guy saying “I think woman should know how to mow the lawn just like men.” And another guy saying “You’re a dick, women shouldn’t have to know that, that’s men’s work!” He would sound silly. Like you’re a single female, living alone with a yard and can’t afford to hire someone to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:59 AM
11

Especially for a woman. And my sister even said “It’s not like you attacked her. She interjected herself into your comment to another person and made it about her.” What loser woman defends lazy misogynistic men who don’t want to behave like grown adults? She’s 50 years old according to Mylife. com She’s like 2 and half decades older than me. She’s older than my aunt and uncle. I’m sorry but my mother is 60 and would never go on Instagram and argue with a 20 something year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:55 AM
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I found her on Mylife. Same picture. She’s real. But I kept calling her an angry little man. I was like “You curse like a man, you stalked my account like a man, you talk like a man. I honestly think you’re just an angry little man.” Last thing I wrote was “Maybe you should calm down you wouldn’t want to end up with another hemorrhoid.” All she wrote was “????” Such a dense angry little man. After all that angry word vomit and cursing, she had nothing to say to my response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:49 AM
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Hahahha clown army. I wrote “If you’re a 30 year old single man, you should know how to cook, clean and make your bed, wash your car, walk your dog, among other normal things. What are these men doing eating McDonald’s and getting diabetes from take out. It’s pathetic. Women work, some multiple jobs. This isn’t 1950 anymore.” I got called a C word for that. And she kept calling me a leftist. I’m a moderate. You can have views from both right and the left side and not being apart of either one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:37 AM
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Why are girls LIKE that? What IS that? “Oh he seems nice to me.” “Give him a chance.” “Well he looks fine.” Who the fuck cares if he seems nice to you. Wow you talked to him for 4 seconds of your life when he was on his best behavior. Guess what I also could also be a piece of crap to someone behind closed doors and pretend to be a nice sweet person to everyone else. That’s how MOST abusive relationships are. Are these idiots who say “Oh but he seems nice to ME?” braindead people? Do they lack i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:49 PM
7

Um, it is when you don’t want to have sex with them, when you don’t feel anything when they walk in the door. Also, did this book ever ask WHY you fell out of love? Maybe he’s a LVM type of guy and you realized he sucks at life. I don’t even know why I need to explain myself. I don’t need to explain why I hate Brussels sprouts either or why I like cats over dogs. You either feel something or you don’t. There is no grey area... that’s called friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:46 PM
30

It’s insane to even say that when many women look better in their 20s compared to 30’s. Same applies to men. To put everyone into one category is stupid. Plus, I notice many guys can’t tell the difference between a girl being 30 and 25... so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:40 PM
3

I’m 28 and I don’t know what it means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:39 PM
5

Don’t people talk about these things before getting married? This is why I think marriage is flawed. Half the people who posts these things have abnormal relationships. Like might as well be single because you’re acting like it except with sack of potatoes walking around the house. Also, how people choose to have children with these LVM is grotesque.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:29 PM
7

Yup and then they get upset when you reject them for a dude who plans dates, doesn’t flake on you, doesn’t play games, shows he’s genuinely interested and isn’t snapchatting 15 girls. Don’t just say “Hey I’m going to the bar, meet up with me.” Sorry dude I’m not your buddy. Ask me on an appropriate date next time. Then they wonder why they got friend zoned or rejected. I lose so much interest when a guy makes things casual. If I wanted to be causal I would hang out with a trusted guy friend or g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:33 PM
2

30 year olds are desperate???? But this creepy 50 year old is dating 20 year olds? Sounds like a mid life crises with mommy issues. That 50 year old is screaming for therapy. If you’re dating girls who could be your daughter, you need to a good talking to from Chris Hansen and you need to see a psychiatrist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:28 PM
3

Honestly I think guys just don’t understand the 1-10 point system. I’ve noticed this with dudes. They’ll never give a girl a 9 or 10 for anything, even for someone like Adriana Lima or Kendal Jenner. They’ll be like “Eh. 6.8” and these dudes rating these girls look like George from Seinfeld. I’m like “Yeah because that Kendal Jenner look alike girl would TOTALLY talk to you in real life when her boyfriend is like a Chris Evans look a like. Gtfo.” It’s jealousy. The I can’t have her so I’ll rate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:20 PM
5

Dude she’s like an 8.5 or even 9. Big nice lips, beautiful hair, big eyes. That subreddit is trash. I bet her inbox is FULL of guys drooling to talk to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:18 PM
1

This sub would rate Megan Fox as a 6 or 7 when IMO all these dudes would be crying their eyes out if she rejected them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:16 PM
2

He has no jaw. His head is penis shaped. And his hair and clothing is just ugh... so hopeless looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:15 PM
2

Words like “quiver” are so unappealing when spoken in a sexual context. I can’t explain it, but almost like how people hate the word moist. It’s not sexy to me... I just arg, it makes me grossed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:12 PM
7

It’s sick considering women have a harder time losing weight. PCOS for example can make you gain weight. Men don’t get PCOS! My sister always says “Men don’t have shifting hormones, they don’t bloat or get period cravings, their bodies don’t hold on to fat to have babies like ours do AND they lose weight quicker. Guys have zero excuses.” I understand there’s guys out there where obesity runs in their family and stuff. I give that the benefit of the doubt. But besides genetics, it’s trash how guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:56 AM
4

My username should say it. Buffy Summers from Buffy The Vampire Slayer. Or Sarah Michelle Gellar (love her too). I like them both. But anyway... She’s strong as hell. She’s girly but can kick major ass. She still loves fashion, dating and all that stuff. Buffy has a great bubbly but smart as a wit personality. And not enough people give her credit as a superhero. Buffy is just the girl I want to be on the inside really. Her one liners in the show are simply awesome. (I also love Cordelia too, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:28 AM
10

Yup. Maybes are for friends because you honestly don’t owe your friends shit lol. “Hey John you coming out to the bar tonight with so and so?” “Eh. Maybe I’m not sure if I can. I’ll hit you up if I am.” It’s like these fuck boys don’t know the difference between friendship and relationship. I’m not you’re effing friend and I won’t be treated like I’m a back up plan (it’s crummy enough when friends do this to eachother, nonetheless to a date). I remember doing that once like you. Nearly the same …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:56 AM
7

It’s okay. But like someone else said, you’re writing too much. Just say “Coffee sounds nice. But I’d rather go to the bar/local diner/smoothie shop, honestly. Hope that’s cool with you.” Simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:49 AM
2

It’s not shallow at all! My sister and I have ALWAYS had to explain to guys that it’s biological and that’s just the way it is. I think it’s evolutionary. And honestly men stereotypically like small girls. What the difference? I mean it’s the same thing as wanting a guy who has big muscles not skinny bones. You’re looking for the dude who evolutionary speaking can be a good hunter and protector. I’m 5’4 and 5’5 guy would not be able to do all that. Now take 6’0 Channing Tatum, yes he can. You al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:43 AM
2

I cut off a specific male friend I had who was toxic. He wasn’t even cute and I was a million times hotter than him but he was fuck boy slut. He actually got jealous because some guys he knew, kinda in the similar circle we had (who were much hotter than him) always liked me. He never understood why I didn’t like him but liked some of the dudes he knew. He always told me about cringy slutty player shit he did. Anyway, I forget but about 5 years ago he said something really fucked up to me or got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:30 AM
9

As a girl who has approached men in the past. The answer is simply no and never. It’s sad but men do not respect women to approach, they just don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:26 AM
7

Yup. I did this when I was 15/16 with a guy a grade older than me who really was painfully shy, he never had a girlfriend til he was like 20. I think I scared him off actually with how forward I was. lmao. I was extroverted and the new kid and wanted a boyfriend. Hahah. I still cringe at it. I tried to be less like that as the years went by but it took me until like the age of 23 to completely cut that crap out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:18 AM
25

The key word is “maybe” “hey maybe we can hang out” “hey maybe we can go to a movie sometime.” I just turned 28 recently and it took me til about the age of 24 to realize never to give into “maybe” or exactly what this dude is doing to you. I knew a guy who was legit the “Hey when I’m/you’re around your area/my area sometime maybe we can meet up.” I just had completely stopped giving these type of dudes the time of day even if they seemed harmless or charming. I just don’t care. Over it. I’m not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:11 AM
3

Yup! This is why like me and my sister and my one friend (who was from Orlando) always said. “Guys in Massachusetts like fat ugly chicks because they’re easy to get and easy to cheat on.” Guys in NJ from all the people I’ve met in both south and north (and I’ll include NY and Philly too) don’t look at it like that. Guys down there like pride themselves on being with pretty girls. They don’t reject you because you look made up. They like it. Massachusetts guys make fun of you for it. I’m being se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:31 AM
2

Angel. But I do love Spike. I do not like Captain Cardboard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:21 AM
1

Yeah exactly. NJ, which is known for being mean isn’t even that mean. In NJ you can be from anywhere and people will generally like you or won’t even ask. NJ people don’t care. They’re like “Oh you’re from Texas, cool. What’s it like there? Oh wow. I have a friend who moved out there. She likes it too.” Or they don’t even ask, even if you sound different. They’re used to people moving in and out they don’t notice. I remember having friends move to my area and not knowing anything about where the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:15 AM
2

It is jealousy. New Jersey has better pizza, better bagels, actual diners, 2 major cities to choose from, several sports teams to pick from, they don’t get pounds and pounds of snow, the autumn is better IMO, the beaches are nicer and warmer, cape may is prettier than cape cod. The beaches are pretty lame in Massachusetts. I’ve been to every beach people could show me in Massachusetts and I’ve never been impressed. Rocky, freezing, no bars or places to eat, it’s usually very desolate. But they’l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:50 AM
2

I’ve never seen a town like Morristown in Massachusetts or Moorsetown. I think Cape May is a lot prettier than Cape Cod, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:48 AM
1

They aren’t even frat. I always said the men up in Massachusetts remind me of the cockroach farmer in Men in Black or Cousin Eddie in National Lampoon. “Shitter was full!” and not in a funny way. In a white trash way. The towns in Massachusetts are pretty dirty. For every 1 nice town in Mass, there’s 15 disgusting ones surrounding it. My friend from Georgia even says the same thing. He says the towns in Massachusetts are gross compared to where he’s from outside Atlanta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:46 AM
2

It happens a lot up here. People here in general hate NJ and NY and make fun of it more than any other states simply because they hate the Yankees and now hate the eagles because the eagles beat them in the SuperBowl last time. Sore losers. They don’t even consider CT part of their region because it’s a “close proximity” to New York. Lmfao. I’ve heard this so much it’s become a broken record. I remember telling people I know from CT this and they’re like “Wtf? Massachusetts people are crazy, wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:39 AM
9

It’s okay. I don’t live there anymore. And my username isn’t used for anything else nor is there an email associated. I didn’t say my new town now for the sake of identity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:30 AM
5

Around Lexington? I don’t know if he was wealthy. He grew in like a rancher sized home (I know the homes are more expensive there), so I think his parents are middle class. Nothing great. But yes he was sheltered, enough to assume that because I’m from Jersey, I’m Italian.... I’m french and scottish. 🤦🏻‍♀️ And he definitely acted entitled, that was a big one. But it’s more than him. I’ve met people Framingham, the central mass area, the western side... the most normal guys I’ve met are the ones …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:11 AM
3

They don’t think they are though. They think everyone else is the problem and they aren’t. My little sister refuses to date anyone up here, and my mom was like “Why don’t you ever talk to boys, etc.” she scoffed and was like “Um no. I don’t want to date anyone from here. Never.” Like even my best friend from Georgia who is a male says the guys here have issues. He got shat on because he likes Georgia college sports (it’s normal down south to like college sports). He was like “Why on earth would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:43 AM
6

Nope. He’s originally from Lexington and I met him in the more central Mass area. It’s not just him though. I’ve met guys from all different parts and while YES some guys don’t care naturally where I’m from, the majority do and make fun of me. I’ve never met a jersey guy or NY guy or PA guy who gave a shit where someone was from. Like I was with a whole group of people from south jersey and some kid from Maine was down there for school and everyone was like “Oh that’s cool.” Even when I was movi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:49 AM
8

My female cousins is born and raised near Los Angeles and she is no Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian (and her family is wealthy too). So I understand the stereotype. They aren’t all bitches with blonde hair. It’s a HUGE state, you can’t say every girl is a money hungry blonde.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:47 AM
5

Well it’s apparently acceptable in Mass I know that. I’m from Medford NJ and my town and the surrounding towns that were by me are a million times nicer than any town in Massachusetts I’ve been too. Lots of garbage towns here or rural nothingness with weirdos and what my father calls “broken wheels”. I even think Cape May is nicer than Cape Cod. People say Concord Mass is nice. But it looks no better than Moorestown NJ and that’s a random nobody town. Our nobody towns are as nice as Massachusett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:42 AM
12

When I was 18-19. I dated a guy who was eerily like this. I mean in a very uncanny way. He’s a sociopath, and the way he treats his new girlfriend is in the same trashy way too. The masturbate and sex pressure, everything you said hit home, the stop hanging out with your friends, etc. This is all classic narcissistic sociopathic abuse. It’s been years and I look back and go “Why did I let that guy in my life?” he wasn’t even hot. My parents hated him, etc. I know this won’t persuade you. But whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:56 AM
12

Showing your underwear tips isn’t even cool anymore. This guy is a loser. Didn’t even have to read his bio. Source, I have 2 very fashionable brothers who live in Manhattan, they do not show their underwear tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:50 AM
24

Please tell me he was joking. And even if it is a joke, it’s a lousy unfunny one. Delete, block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:49 AM
37

Men are the worst when it comes to being rational. They’re the ones who start wars, racism, and sexism. Not women. Sounds less than stoic to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:46 AM
5

Yup. The classic if he cheats with you, he’ll cheat on you. Would you want to be the idiot who takes pictures with your boyfriend, posting up lovey-dovey stuff, while all the girls around you are snickering because they know the truth? No. And girls need to ask themselves this! It’s the fact that girls can’t put themselves in others shoes. Surprisingly men WILL tell other dudes “Yo, your girl is messaging me just so you know.” Men have a bro-code... women need a code too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:44 AM
26

Exactly! Otherwise we’d be going around shooting and stabbing eachother or robbing our neighbors without any sort of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:36 AM
58

Yup. Agreed. Men IMO are way more emotional than girls in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:35 AM
1

Wow 22 is young to want kids. I’m in my late 20’s and still don’t know if I want them. I think the idea of pregnancy and birth is what makes me think so negatively about it. I feel if I was a guy I would want them more because guys don’t do SHIT. Also, older kids is better because there’s someone to take care of you when you’re older. A lot of asian cultures even look at the benefits of their older children like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:16 PM
11

Hahahah he got pissed that he got called out for looking desperate. So he tried to gaslight you. I hope he goes to sleep knowing he looked like such an idiot and all of us are laughing at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:53 PM
18

What a loser. At least he won’t be bothering you anymore with creepy pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:51 PM
12

Nope. He’s white trash and ghetto. Half the things he says I don’t understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:26 PM
16

Half the stuff he posts are memes that are misogynistic, depressing or trashy. Like he’ll say “I got a motel for the night. HMU.” Or he’ll talk about how he’s making all this money, then 2 days later say “Why is everyone asking me for money? SMH.” He’s a very dumb person. He has a “baby mama”. They get with each other off and on. He’ll post about her when bad stuff happens or how all girls are crazy and “hoe’s” This is the type of dudes living in our society. This trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:13 PM
2

I think you’re right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:37 AM
9

Tbh it’s any guy. I’ve had many guys eat me out and I just don’t like the sensation at all. I get no enjoyment out of it. It’s the only sexual thing I really hate doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:42 AM
3

Yup. I remember my brother called me and tried to tell me the guy was a loser. I wish I took my brothers advice right there and then and dumped that piece of shit. But I thought my brother didn’t know what he was talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:41 AM
8

I’ve always said there’s something wrong with guys from Turkey. Ever just get that gut cringe feeling? That’s what I always got whenever I saw a guy on tinder who said he was originally from Turkey. Creeped me out. I remember once even saying it to my sister and she was like “OMG I KNOW! The men there are creepy!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:36 AM
12

Shanann Watts. Pregnant and had 2 girls. Her husband Chris Watts, killed her (obviously the baby inside) and his 2 little daughters. Then he drove out to his work site. Buried Shanann in a shallow ditch and dropped his daughters inside these big oil tanks. Crushing one of the daughters shoulder bones to drop her in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:32 AM
8

Chris Watts. That piece of shit still doesn’t understand what he did wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:30 AM
10

Personally I hate being eaten out. The feeling of saliva on my vagina grosses me out to no end. But I also think men who REFUSE to eat a girl out are self centered psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:29 AM
16

Well most rappers are trash. That’s why I don’t listen to rap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:27 AM
12

He’s probably gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:26 AM
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Exactly what I said. He’s gay. As a woman I think vaginas are ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:25 AM
3

He’s gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:25 AM
4

I dated a guy when I was 18-19. (I already told someone else on here) but he was about 23 at the time we dated. The dude was gross. I only thought he was cool because he threw parties at the local university and because an “older guy” was giving me attention. Anyway he was sex obsessed and thought beastiality porn was hot. Me being new to sex didn’t want him to think I was a prude, so I agreed with him on the subject. God, he was disgusting. He always wanted phone sex when we were away and I had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:08 AM
4

Ugh. I’m 28 now. But when I was 18-19, I dated a guy who was about 5 years older than myself. Yeah, ew. Anyway. He didn’t get mad about me walking ahead but he got SO jealous because I thought the guy in a movie we watched was hot. He was UGLY by the way as the years have gone I noticed he got even uglier and balder. It’s fun to watch the evolution. The guy was a SHIT bag. He did some majorly fucked up crap. His license was suspended, he drove his moms car around, smoked cigarettes several times…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:59 PM
3

High school? Please tell me you guys haven’t dated SINCE high school, because this guy is clearly pathetic for being hung up on someone that he dated 15 years ago. Unfortunately my older sister has guys exactly like this. She dated a sociopathic nut job for about 1.5 years... about 3 years ago. He’s since had a baby with some girl he’s know forever. And yet STILL harasses my sister just LIKE this via email. My sister has a boyfriend now. Guys like that are psychopaths. And yes my sisters ex was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:54 PM
5

Was he hot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:53 PM
7

She’s 46? She looks like she’s 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:52 PM
7

Dude most guys would fuck an old grandma in the dark if the opportunity arised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:51 PM
12

They had 50 something years to find someone. Clearly something is wrong when after more than half a century you can’t find one person. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:48 PM
15

The guy needs sterilization. Sounds like the type of dude to beat his wife and then beat his child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:42 PM
5

There’s a reason this guy is single. Probably came off POF somewhere. They say at night you can find him on old YouTube comments arguing with people. On another note, this guy needs this entire comment section screenshot and sent to him. Let him realize every girl out there is laughing at much of an idiot he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:41 PM
11

She should dangle all of his expectations in front of him and pull it away back. Let him taste his own medicine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:34 PM
41

Saddest part is she probably won’t. She’ll let it slide and spend another 6 years only for him to grow tired of her from his own insecure delusions and cheat on her. He’s a sociopath. I can already tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:28 PM
16

I imagine her boyfriend looks like the redneck Cletus from the Simpsons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:26 PM
36

Tbh, you have to have an already trashy sociopathic family to A. Raise a guy to think that’s funny and B. Assume it’s okay to play a “joke” that like in front of your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:24 PM
14

That guy is a fucking loser with a mean spirited sense of humor. The only guys I know who act like this are sociopaths. On another note I sent this to my boyfriend and he said “That is cruel, fucked up and complete trash.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:17 PM
27

I’m not trying to claim what you experience isn’t real. But I’m a brunette and from what I know is most men like brunettes. I even read that 80% of men like them. My sister died her hair blonde and she said got “different attention” and typically it was more shallow. I’m told I’m pretty but I still got the guys who wanted me for sexual fun night. I’ve known brunette girls who could blow anyone out of the water that were used for “fun nights”. Basically what I’m saying is, men are little bitches …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:04 PM
15

That’s really gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:53 PM
3

I don’t care if someone HAS a dog. They can have whatever they want. If they want a pet squirrel, so be it. I just hate being called a crazy cat woman because I like my orange cat. I’m a witch. I’m even subscribed to a witch subreddit and I’m a Scorpio and love the fall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:35 AM
4

I feel like if I got with a guy like that my entire family would give the hitch hike thumb and say “Out! NEXT!” Meaning get rid of him. They’d be mortified. It’s creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:37 AM
3

Of course because men want this perfect model that doesn’t exist... but not too model like because then she’s high maintenance. But not too low because then she’s not good enough. Men are dumb. And the worst part is, all these idiot guys are probably ugly as fuck with 4 inch dicks who last 3 mins in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:31 AM
7

The couple in the middle CREEP me out and I think it’s a fake relationship. All I see are idiots who go “Awwwww so cute.” Gag me! I’ve also heard the girl in the middle picture wipes her boyfriends ass. What THE FUCK. We all know her boyfriend is trash and just likes her because she’s hot and he’s disabled and to him he won a prize. It’s shallow, it’s disgusting and women like that need to be given a reality check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:31 AM
2

They actually say men gossip just as much, if not more than women. The difference is men will be vague about it where women will dwell into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:29 AM
9

First off, cut the “I respect people’s choices” crap. Don’t EVER speak like that to a guy. You’re coming off as a doormat. I don’t and it weeded the idiots out. You need to be more assertive and say things like “Good for you. You like casual dating, I don’t. If you don’t like that, then don’t talk to me. You have a choice.” His real character will come out. Sorry, but I’m jaded and I’m not nice to men online unless they were super nice to me. If they’re already battling and arguing with you and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:21 AM
2

Wowwww. I would have just said “Eh no. I already turned around, sorry. But if you want you can come over to my house.” I hate pretending to be athletic and I feel most people on dating sites pretend to be. No one has hobbies in real life, unless it was like your number one thing growing up. So every person will say “Oh I work out at the gym and run, etc.” to be honest I think very athletic guys are annoying as fuck. I’m lazy. I’m an in shape lazy person, but I’m lazy. I don’t want to go rock cli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:16 AM
14

Wow. What a classy guy. That’s dumb. Any girl regardless of being married or not can say no to sex. Ironically, the old stereotype is that once you’re married, women stop having sex. So he clearly never heard of that. What a dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:12 AM
7

Ugh. He reminds me of all the creepy dudes I’ve met in the past who spoke like that. I dated a guy about 4 or 5 years ago (for about 5-6 months). He cheated on me by kissing another girl and then when I found out he broke up with me. I didn’t care nor did I cry lol. Funny thing is that same day he broke up with me, a guy I always had a crush on texted me. And then like 5 months later I met my boyfriend. The guy legit texted me a few months later and said to me “I wish you hadn’t taken that morni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:09 AM
2

The dude looks 46 to begin with. This had to be a troll account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:56 PM
3

What a fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:53 PM
6

Dude her proposal was cringy and his response was cringy. If she wanted to propose, why didn’t she set up a nice evening with Champagne and a nice dinner, and then ask him? Not at his work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:47 PM
10

They look older. I think it’s one thing if you started dating in your early 20’s as most people want to finish school, and don’t have a house yet. But if you were 30 and dated for 7 years that’s very different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:45 PM
3

Dude this guy has mental issues. What a creep. “Can we have a baby.” What a fucking weirdo. This guy needs professional help. Block his fucking number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:41 PM
12

It’s disgusting as I believe it hurts women (at least the first time) while it’s enjoyable for men. Your ex boyfriend is trash. Did he ever stop think “Wow anal sex can hurt really badly.” All he cares about is that feels good on his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:33 PM
6

Men don’t play hard to get. Women do. End of story. If he’s not calling, it’s because he doesn’t like you. Move on and let go. I’m in my 20’s but I wish someone told me this when I was in my teens.. instead of obsessing over why my crush didn’t like me back lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:59 PM
5

This makes me wonder why people even want kids. It’s a burden and money wasted. I don’t ... get it. I have 4 siblings and I saw how it affected my parents and we are from the upper middle class. Like once the kids are more grown up, I can see how it’s beneficial but for the first decade and half, what’s the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:57 PM
2

This 10,000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:56 PM
3

I have an ex from years ago (we dated I was 18-19) who is 5 years older than myself. We live a few states from eachother. I was young and just wanted to date an older guy. He was way uglier than me. I don’t even know I went out with him since everyone I knew, both men and women, asked what the hell did he have for me to even look in his direction. Answer? I don’t know. He threw parties and I was a freshman in college and thought it was cool. That’s about it. Anyway, he broke up with ME and found…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:54 PM
1

Hahahahaha haha! Yup! You’re like “Nooo I wanted the Channing Tatum looking dude. Not George Costanza.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:42 PM
1

That’s the thing. I’ve talked about this with girls in real life and I’ve heard girls complain about this. They can crop the women out of it. I’ve cropped people out of my photos. Another one is an ugly dude who has a hot guy in his photo. My sister swiped on a guy who had the looks of like Chris Evans while his friend next to him was like a 4/10. Guess who the profile belonged to? The 4/10 guy. She deleted him once she asked which dude he was. That’s another bad move. Even if you’re not bad loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:39 PM
1

Men who take pictures with HOT girls. I once called a guy out on this tinder subreddit or something. He asked how he could improve his profile. Then said “thank you everyone for the corrections. I now have this and that, and a picture with my female friend..” I interjected and said “Noooooo! Don’t ever post a picture with you with another woman.” Girls HATE guys who do that. It’s clearly you showing off the girl in the photo. Almost like “Yup. This hot girl took a photo with me.” If you’re that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:33 PM
2

Drop him. Honestly I could see if he wasn’t horny, but he clearly was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:28 PM
16

I’ve associated it with how “witches” owned black cats and they’re single ‘maidens’. Now society just looks at female owners with cats as today’s versions of witches without actually saying it. I think it’s why they do that and they don’t even realize it. Well I look at owners with a dog as idiots who can’t even clean a plate or make a bed and their house smells like wet mops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:25 PM
30

I’ve always said this! You can tell a lot about a person from how they don’t like cats. You know why they like dogs? Because dogs are obsessive and need constant love. It’s an abandonment issue and a need to be wanted obsessively. If someone needs that much attention, they need therapy. Do you know how many times I’ve told people this and they disagree with me and say I’m nuts. Glad to know other girls think like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:17 PM
10

Personally I HATE dogs. I was bit by my friends dog as a kid. My brother hates dogs because he was severely bit by a dog on his back as a child, my mother hates dogs. We never had a dog... only cats. Yet I get told “Ooooh. You’ll be a crazy cat lady.” Unfortunately my boyfriend has a dog and yup, I hate the thing. It was abused by its previous owners. It’s annoying, aggressive, mean, eats everything, is large and stupid. My boyfriend said after it dies he won’t get a dog again because it’s too m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:14 PM
11

My mother has an obsession with all us kids getting married... even my brothers. But she’ll constantly say to my sister how I need to marry my boyfriend or that my female cousin needs to marry hers. My mom also thinks like a boy too. We think my mother is a narcissistic sociopath though. She thinks playing games and that if you don’t have a ring on your finger it means you’re allowed to cheat. I don’t know how my mother can even live with herself half the time. Who grows up and believes “Oh I’m …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:07 PM
11

Dude, I HATE girls who say that crap. “Give him a chance!!!!” Most girls who speak like this, are emotionally sensitive idiots. My sister rejected a date with a guy once and her female coworker was like “Awww give him a chance.” My sister was like “Uh, no. He’s busted looking.” If you’re ugly, you’re ugly. Ugly guys aren’t suddenly nice. I’ve met some ugly dudes who are the biggest sociopathic pieces or shit ever created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:03 PM
5

Chad is the ugliest name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:00 PM
16

Yup. She needs to leave that guy PRONTO. He sounds useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:59 PM
33

Why do they even get married in the first place? Just stay single if that’s how they feel. Like next time maybe they shouldn’t ask that person to marry them! DUH! Also, men can be controlling, obsessive and whacked out of their minds. I think men act like a ball and chain way more than women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:54 PM
50

And they don’t understand the big deal of height either and they LIE! My sister is 5’5 1/2 ... so average. She only likes tall guys because inside she feels tall. She went out on a date with a guy from a dating site who added 6 inches to his height. 6!!!!!! He claimed to be 6’0. He was 5’6. Guys don’t realize we do know how tall a person is! I have a brother who is 5’10, another one that is about 6’0 and my dad is 6’1. I know when a guy is shorter than 5’10. I know when a guy is lying to me. I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:52 PM
18

Isn’t it also funny how men in general are uglier than woman? It makes more sense WOMEN would have higher standards to match their own features. If a girl looks like Megan Fox why on earth would she go after a guy who looks like some fugly 5/10? She wouldn’t! But guys who are ugly assume the girl who looks like Megan Fox should just like them. Reminds me of the movie Shallow Hal with Jack Black. Hal and his friend (George from Seinfeld) are clearly unattractive but their standards are so fucking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:48 PM
1

A trashy woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:37 PM
2

It’s only harder because women have to go through a million people to find one normal guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:53 AM
6

Did you know it’s actually the mans DNA that chooses the sex of the baby? So regardless of how many girls your ex tries to have babies with it’ll be the same outcome. Female eggs don’t choose the sex, males sperm do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:49 AM
2

How many Johnson’s and Smith’s do we honestly need?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:43 AM
7

Because they’re ugly! I don’t want to kiss a fucking dude I think is ugly. Pheromones is a real thing people! If you don’t like the way a person smells or their breath, you won’t like them. If you can’t imagine having sex with a person and it makes you shiver, you shouldn’t be with them, even if they’re a “nice guy”. That’s what friends are for. A friend is a person you get along with but don’t feel sexually attracted to. Clearly the creator of that post doesn’t realize “friends” is a word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:39 AM
5

Good! I’m glad you blocked him. Dudes like that shouldn’t be wasting someone’s time. It’s selfish and trashy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:30 AM
2

That dude is probably busted anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:28 AM
17

That guy had no IQ nor an EQ. They don’t realize it shows the lack of neurons they have. It’s laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:27 AM
3

Do they honestly think a girl is going to go “hey you Yelp person I don’t know who could be from anywhere! Sure I’ll go out with you.” These guys have either no IQ or they have shit parents. I’m going with both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:26 AM
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