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There’s not much you can do because if you blow up her phone constantly it could be a turn off. If you’re traveling maybe send a cool pic of something fun you’re doing. That might get a conversation going, or post on social media and see if she reaches out. Don’t overdue it though. I doubt she’ll get locked down in a months time.
/r/seduction16/05/20 06:18 PM
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I’m 6-1 215 and girls are definitely not intimidated...there’s also people way bigger that to great with girls
/r/seduction16/05/20 06:09 AM
0

Pretty much
/r/seduction15/05/20 07:41 PM
2

Become more attractive yourself....dress better, work out, be well groomed, be social and have fun hobbies
/r/seduction15/05/20 08:28 AM
1

I’d probably talk to her a little more and try to make her laugh, build a little value first if it’s a random person. Make sure your social media looks good then when she’s laughing at what you’re saying or you found something in common just say “lets go get drinks, what’s your number”
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:34 AM
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Either 1. She doesn’t like you like that 2. You didn’t build enough “value” before asking her out, it’s harder if you’re just sliding in the DMs out of nowhere 3. That’s kind of a needy way of asking her to talk, you’re already DMing, just be more direct maybe? 4. Some combination of all of the above
/r/seduction14/05/20 02:10 AM
3

Gotta stop hitting her up and let her come to you....1 date in a month she’s probably not feeling it that much. If she doesn’t come to you meet other girls
/r/seduction13/05/20 01:57 AM
1

Waaaaay too much texting. Texting does not = interest, I agree she probably sees you as a friend
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:21 PM
1

Ya he should just wait till after
/r/seduction05/05/20 05:28 AM
1

I’m just sharing what works for me based on a big sample size. I used to do it the other way when I was younger and it doesn’t work as well. There are exceptions to every rule but this approach works way better. I’m not saying to be rude or to act cold.
/r/seduction05/05/20 05:28 AM
18

2 steps forward 1 step back, kiss her, kiss neck and all that but I like to break away from kissing them first to leave them wanting more, then keep building
/r/seduction05/05/20 05:24 AM
9

Usually attraction lowers the more you text someone, there’s no mystery, she knows where she stands with you. If you’re texting her all day you’re probably not texting other girls like that. The phone should be for setting dates, not being a male best friend
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:26 AM
1

You don’t have to say date, it’s pretty much implied. But i’d stay towards more nighttime activities that are more romantic. Obviously quarantine changes that and you might have to stick to walks, hikes that sort of thing. Go walk and get ice cream or something like that. In general coffees and thing like that are more friend activities.
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:04 PM
3

Make a inside joke about something that happened at the bbq....then ask her out. “When are you free to get together”.......she responds with days/times then make plans with her at the day/time she said. Definite day Definite time Definite place to meet Then say “great, see you then” and don’t feel the need to blow her phone up and make small talk leading up to the date, it’ll lower her attraction.
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:41 PM
15

If she’s not reaching out to you you should back away and give her space. Asking what’s wrong and trying to “do something” is only going to push her away. Let her out some effort in, if she doesn’t then let her go. I know this from experience
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:25 PM
1

The only thing you did “wrong” is hit her up after and tell her you had a nice time blah blah blah. That’s a little too needy in some girls mind. I agree with the comments saying you should give her space and see what else is out there. If she likes you she’ll find excuses to hit you up. If she reaches out assume she wants to see you and make plans to meet up, check out Coach Corey Wayne’s vids on YouTube
/r/seduction02/05/20 07:59 PM
2

It’s a good question and I definitely subscribe the the less is more texting philosophy at first (during the first part of dating). Why not just let them text you though? Think of it, if you liked someone and they texted you all the time and suddenly stopped....you’d reach out to them because your insecurities would take over. Did they start talking to another guy they like better??
/r/seduction01/05/20 10:21 PM
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To many guys don’t do this properly and fuck their chances with women that might’ve actually had sex with them because they wanted nudes and don’t know what they are doing. Have sex in real life then you’ll be 10x more likely to get nudes
/r/seduction01/05/20 08:51 PM
1

Definitely, just have fun, don’t think so hard....if she’s inviting you over she likes you
/r/seduction24/04/20 08:47 AM
3

Just go for it when you guys are laughing and having a good time. One thing I’ve done in the past that works is when you’re both drinking wine or whatever out yours down and say “put that down so I can kiss you” take it from her set it down and boom you’re good to go. Say what you’re going to do and do it. It doesn’t need to be complicated. Kiss her a little and make sure you pull away before she does, leave her wanting more
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:01 AM
4

You’re not looking at it from the right prospective, if your end goal is to “get a girl or girlfriend” then you will subconsciously and consciously communicate needy behavior to her. You need to make more friends, work out, travel, improve your life in every category. Then you’ll become more interesting and self confident so girls will either come to you or you’ll have amazing stories and fun experiences to share with them when you’re meeting them
/r/seduction22/04/20 08:43 PM
1

Meet some other girls and stop talking to her so much, texting is the quickest way to ruin attraction
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:12 AM
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You make female friends the same way you make male friends, have common interests, make each other laugh etc. it definitely helps you meet women because it shows you’re probably not a weirdo. Also it opens their friend group up to you
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:09 AM
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How old are you? Why don’t you get your own place....problem solved
/r/seduction12/04/20 10:24 PM
2

DO NOT CONFRONT HER. Act like it never happened and move on with your life. When texting a girl, find out when she’s free to go out then make plans for when she’s free. If she cancels or flakes in any way don’t let it bother you and stop contacting her. Just act normal and have fun if you see her in person and see if she reaches out to you. If someone is into you it’ll be obvious, if they aren’t you’ll be confused. Bottom line is you are hitting her up too much and she can probably sense you don…
/r/seduction10/04/20 08:43 PM
3

I would just cook for her and do a movie night, it’s perfectly fine considering there really aren’t any other options right now.
/r/seduction10/04/20 06:04 AM
24

Invite her over and tell her to bring a bib lol....if she’s into you just make moves there’s no need to overthink it and talk yourself out of it
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:11 AM
1

I’m real life, I can use dating apps if you want to but mutual friends, social activities are the best
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:29 AM
3

You have to have good interactions In person, texting doesn’t matter that much. If you’re charming, funny, flirt in person you can get girls to like you. Then just use the phone to schedule dates and have fun
/r/seduction07/04/20 04:43 PM
1

Yes I’d wait a week, then send a text and see if she responds and go from there
/r/seduction06/04/20 06:58 AM
1

Very cringe, it’s ok to be nice but you can’t let women use you while you pay for everything especially with someone you just met. Any romantic attraction for you went out the window when you gave her that jewel thing and started treating her like a girlfriend waaaaaaaay to soon offering to wait on her every need
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:29 AM
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No it does not make you any less respected, deserving. I didn’t lose my virginity till I was 23, I was a late bloomer. I’ll admit that society makes guys feel like that sometimes though. Since I’ve hooked up with some very very attractive girls. Some people just develop later, the best thing you can do is work on yourself to make you more confident. The gym is a great way to do that, read books, socialize. Eventually it just happens if you keep improving yourself. No need to stress over it!
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:23 AM
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I’d just focus on getting them naked in real life....if you have sex with a girl and she likes you she’ll be way more likely to send you nudes. Unfortunately most guys try to get buses and blow their chances of hooking up because they come off needy or desperate
/r/seduction28/03/20 05:00 AM
1

Hit the gym, everyone should be working out and taking care of themselves. You can do basic stuff at home till the Caronavirus is over
/r/seduction27/03/20 02:26 PM
2

I’d completely move on and forget about her unless she contacts you. Plenty of other women out there, it’s empowering to just say fuck it and move on. If I were you I’d check out Corey Wayne’s stuff on YouTube...very helpful
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:08 AM
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Move on, don’t contact her...if she wants to see you again she’ll contact you. Work on yourself and have fun with friends (even though that’s hard with the Caronavirus). Things that will kill attraction = too much texting and acting like a boyfriend before she’s ready for it. Women are scientifically more attracted to men who’s feelings are unclear. Be yourself but let them wonder about you a bit.
/r/seduction18/03/20 05:17 AM
4

That’s not a big deal, your mind shouldn’t even register that as a rejection...next time talk to them about something going on around you, make them laugh then they’ll be more likely to be cool with you being around
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:51 PM
1

No I think once you are no longer a stranger and she can obviously see you’re healthy things will be different
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:37 AM
5

Definitely not
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:19 AM
3

Most women will have sex on the first 3 dates if they like the guy and there is no religious hang ups. Invite her back for a movie or something like that but whatever you do don’t expect sex or get mad if it doesn’t get that far. Just be causal
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:43 AM
1

Idk if I’d have a convo about it, invite her to do something casual like drinks or something. If she comes that’s basically all you need to know. Most women don’t hang out with guys alone unless they like them on some level.
/r/seduction11/03/20 06:23 PM
1

I hear you but you still gotta go for it, a good friend of about 8-9 years and I just hooked up randomly. Didn’t make things weird at all.
/r/seduction11/03/20 06:20 PM
1

Yes, she’s into it....go for it. I’ve had similar situations before and the only way to know for sure is to go for it. Most girls don’t hang out alone with guys unless they like them at least a little on that level.
/r/seduction11/03/20 06:15 PM
1

Maybe after some time passes you could slide in the DMs
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:50 PM
1

Good attempt but ya definite rejection, keep practicing!
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:27 AM
12

This is correct, the phone is used to set dates not be a male girlfriend sending texts back and forth. Ik from experience you are far more likely to say some dumb shit trying to be funny and ruin it. Once I started only using the phone to set dates I had waaaaaay better results
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:23 AM
1

Give it another try next time you see her, you’ll regret it if you don’t! The fear of approaching is nothing compared to realizing you let a chance slip by and you’ll never get it back! Let us know how it goes!
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:20 AM
1

Those are good movies for sure
/r/seduction10/03/20 05:49 AM
1

Glad I could help in some small way. I’m pretty nerdy when it comes to taste in movies, comic books but also have a sports background and try to learn about different things....takes time but it’s worth it
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:50 AM
1

Ya you’re def right about that, I start by meeting people in person usually
/r/seduction09/03/20 06:35 PM
3

Ya most text “game” is going to come off as trying too hard, or you’re going to say some dumb shit trying to be funny. Make an impression in person, call or text her to set up definite plans, at a definite place, at a definite time. Don’t text much if at all.
/r/seduction09/03/20 06:24 PM
1

I never said to say Pardon me lol, that wouldn’t work in the states either
/r/seduction08/03/20 11:58 PM
12

Honestly there’s no magic words, if you’re at a bar or public place you can always make a comment on something that’s going on around you then just transition into normal stuff. For example one time I was at a bar and a super hot girl had a fake fur jacket on and I commented how it looked like she was in the nights watch from Game of Thrones. She laughed, asked me to try it on etc and a few hours later we hooked up. I usually will ask their names without giving mine because if they ask for my na…
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:09 PM
1

Don’t do it over the phone at all, maybe that can changed once you’ve hooked up a few times. Girls hate when guys do that shit!
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:19 PM
12

Go talk to them, they’ll either become friends, hookups, girlfriends etc and you’ll learn something from every interaction
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:16 PM
1

You’re being way to available with the girls you like, you shouldn’t be snap chatting and texting them. Only use the phone to make dates, women are scientifically more attracted to men who’s feelings are unclear. Let them pursue you more.
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:48 PM
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