bugga2024 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How do I stop being the red flag in my relationship? Even in a small town, the odds are slim. My graduating class was about 100 people or less and that situation would never happen. They'd talk to someone other than your partner than talk to your partner directly.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/05/26 06:00 PM
1	Torn between following a trend/tradition versus following my own idea. Need a girlfriend’s advice! You could always get a very light pink dress that would look almost white! I wore blush for my wedding because I didn't want to wear white (with my skin tone I'd look sickly in white) but in photos it's so close you can barely tell it's pink.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/26 05:47 PM
2	Told my fiance he's weak, can we get back from this? If it's a persistent issue, it won't just go away. I'd take this into consideration while deciding how you two are moving forward. Apologize and talk, but that's the most you can do unless you decide it's a deal breaker for you	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/26 03:18 PM
1	Told my fiance he's weak, can we get back from this? Were they things you felt strongly about or was it minor stuff you didn't care about? I could see being upset if she wanted to change big things like the color scheme or venue, but if it was something small like moving a decoration from one spot to another then why not appease someone who you will possibly inherit significant wealth from? Are there other instances where this was an issue or has he complained about it himself? Is it possible he just liked whatever idea she had and wanted to do it…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/26 03:05 PM
3	Is it worth it to date as a teen? I started dating my husband at 16 so I say yes. I was just upfront about what I wanted in life and from a partner. He knew I wanted children and wanted to be a stay at home mom when that happened early on.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/26 02:01 AM
5	What do I do? When he says dominate, what does he mean? Is there room for compromise? There are things I'm into that my husband is not and vice versa, so we find a middle ground for it until someone says they want to push a little further.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/26 12:30 AM
2	weight loss after anorexia Hi, fellow anorexia recovery person here! I'm not sure where you are in your journey, but it took me YEARS to feel confident at my healthy weight. Are you in therapy? They may be able to help you come up with non weight loss solutions. I know for me, dressing for my new weight did a lot. I'd also consult your doctor and tell them that you're not comfortable at this weight and would like to lose a little bit without going overboard or relapsing.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/26 03:19 PM
3	Dealing with my husbands new panty rules and looking for advice What about bikini style bottoms? That shouldn't create lines but wouldn't bunch up either?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/25 03:31 PM
32	Dealing with my husbands new panty rules and looking for advice My husband has preferences about me not wearing sweatpants or leggings often because he feels it looks lazy, but he wouldn't care about my underwear so long as I'm not exposed. I'm struggling to see how boy shorts don't cause more lines because they bunch up on my legs when I wear them with pants	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/25 03:12 PM
14	How do you see the traditional wife role—toughest job or easiest path? There's a few things I would factor in, disposable income, number and age of children and health status of children. With my one child, it's not hard. I clean during his nap time and I only have him to worry about, but if I had 6 kids, it's a different story. I think it's also as hard as you make it. If you expect perfection from yourself, it's near impossible.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/25 12:48 PM
4	What did your partner get you for Christmas? I made my mom a grandmother on her birthday and told her I can never get her another gift because I'll never top that	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/25 05:33 PM
4	What did your partner get you for Christmas? Two books, a lip set and perfume from bath and body works, a gift set from bath and body works, and two new pairs of shoes I got him three golf shirts, two pairs of golf socks (one from our son), and new gold shoes	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/25 05:32 PM
1	Am I wrong for seeing a male provider behind my partners back? When it comes to your health, it shouldn't matter to him who you see as long as you're getting adequate care. My obgyn is a man and I tell my husband all the time what a wonderful person he is. My husband went with me for my ob appointments when we had our son and he immediately understood why I like my Dr so much	/r/RedPillWomen	20/12/25 12:30 AM
6	Finding beauty (or, put on his love goggles for a minute) As a newer mom, it's so hard to do! My body is foreign to me and has been since just about the second trimester. I've found that self-care has made a huge impact on my ability to feel attractive	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/25 02:54 PM