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| 1 | Is your wife completly incapable of selling anything on ebay?I agree that women don't always use logic IE: " let's put in on ebay " But any examples of how to use something like this to my advantage? | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | 9yo daughter asks this question - how would you respond?Leesabutt and party_dragon, I'm curious what answers you would have given? Would you have gone with the edgy "men are showing weakness" answer or the safer "men's clothes are more unisex" or the even more politically correct "it's all a matter of personal choice" answers ?? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | 9yo daughter asks this question - how would you respond?Not scared. Just practicing some good STFU. Don't feel like engaging with a woman in a topic like that. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | 9yo daughter asks this question - how would you respond?Bingo. The answer that immediatly popped into my mind was similar to something like this. "When a woman acts like a man, she's elevating herself, but when a man acts like a woman, he's lowering himself" But Random_Throway has a good reply too without getting into edgky stuff "Men's clothes usually don't have gender identification, whereas womens clothes often do" | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | 9yo daughter asks this question - how would you respond?IMHO I wasn't conceding the question to my wife in a passive way, I was ordering HER to answer it. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then herMarried guy checking in. I'm fairly built from years of lifting. On one hand my wife loves running her fingers over my pects and lats, but on the other hand she doesn't like me actually lifting. (as if those muscles are going to just happen from nothing). When we go to the beach or a hotel/resort she also doesn't like me straying too far because she doesn't want me to be seen by other women. She will complain about getting fat in certain areas, but will never do any kind of exercise or food rest… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Have you fucks just ruined every romantic film ever made for me?Also thanks to TRP I also can't listen to most songs on the radio without getting annoyed somewhat. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Why so many fitness bunny moms married to dough boys?I made comment about giving good massages That's a good one. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Why so many fitness bunny moms married to dough boys?Alpha Bucks raises the potential cost of her cheating or branch swinging and serves as a deterrent until it doesn’t. Makes a lot of sense. spouses who get involved in long duration fitness in groups (think runners clubs, triathlons, etc) are prone to affairs with their new social groups if their spouses are couch potatoes... Makes even more sense. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why so many fitness bunny moms married to dough boys?and they have secret side dicks for alpha fucks And I have to wonder.... if these moms are giving me this much IoI at little chance meetings in the grocery store or school functions, I wonder what's happening with guys they have much more time-access too (like work or the gym or whatever) | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Compliments are an invitation to escalate? (more TRP vs PUA)I agree, I should give it a rest. Interesting though to see how the TRP vs MRP vs PUA all intersect, yet diverge in some ways. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Question about complimenting a woman you're gaming.But see my other reply - what if she compliments back as an IoI? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Question about complimenting a woman you're gaming.Interesting that in the PUA world, saying something like "you look really nice" is a standard opener. I guess this is part of the conflict between the RP and PUA worlds? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Question about complimenting a woman you're gaming.But what if she does response B and compliments me back? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Gaming married moms that are into fitnessthere are a ton of sexy 35-45 year old women who take very good care of themselves and have husbands who are complete dough boys Just as I suspected. these women are great for creating dread if you need to Thank you. I'm willing to wade through a bunch of insulting replies just to get one useful one like this. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Gaming married moms that are into fitnessTypical askMRP type response. Everyone there is so fucking angry. (I see in your posting history you already like to do name-calling) Shitstorm? I've had some of these moms do overt IoI's right in front of my wife. It does wonders for making her appreciate what she's got. (and probably great for dread) Marriages aren't forever. AWALT. Be prepared. Meanwhile, you speak of being single with disdain, so I guess that's your agenda. Captain/FirstMate/Whatever. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Gaming married moms that are into fitnessNah, please re-read my post. This gaming is something I do for practice. There's NFW as long as I'm married that I'm going to fuck these milfs. Gaming is a skill I was pretty good at in my single years, but goes away after you're married. This is a way for me to bring that skill back and keep it sharp should I ever need it again if my marriage ever ends. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Married men of the red pillTo be honest, I got married mostly because of social pressure. As in "Real Men get married". But I've been successful with it. Nice house, kids, wife stays hot looking because I lead her in a direction of good health. I also had that fear we're all told that if we don't marry, we'll be lonely old men. Guess what? I know 2 guys in thier 50's, both divorced who are swimming in divorced milf pussy. So much for that theory. One of those guys is also very financially successful because he can devote … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Caught completely off guard...the only way to win is to provide value. You really do need to be the better man, there's no way around it. This. As much as it is to acknowledge the all hard work (to keep building that value) that lay before us, this is it. She has to feel deep down that "Shit, this is not a man that I want to lose." | /r/askMRP | 01/07/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Gaming practice on fitness moms (sort of a FR)Wife is not there. They know I'm married. And yet they carry on with the escalation as if our spouses don't exist. Women have no loyalty. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | OPSEC compromised and wife found some fight club.Question for anyone: is "emotional affair" a catch phrase that many women use to accuse their guys of any kind of email/messaging correspondance with any other female? I sorta went thru this myself a while back, but was able to difuse it. But still... "emotional affair" is one of those things that's hard to define but still sounds bad enough... and a woman will use it as just another tool when she wants to attack? | /r/askMRP | 01/07/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Caught completely off guard...Hey I wanted to thank you guys for this thread. It really hammers down the point that divorce is not something to discuss with your wife. Always keep it on the DL and only show it when the papers are being served. Question for anyone: OP's wife said "I'll take all your stuff". The few times when the wife and myself have not too seriously discussed "what if we broke up?" she has said something similar (IE: "I get everything") But talking to a guy I know who went through a divorce here, this is no… | /r/askMRP | 01/07/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Some small proof that high n-count is bad for pair bonding?According to my wife, the girl I mentioned in the OP had a reputation as a nympho, but apparently was also known within the school to be in competition with a small group of girls who were trying to see who could get the most guys (inb4 someone mentions it: No, my wife was NOT part of this group) Word was that they all had n-counts of something like 50+ by the end of high school. High school. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Seeking opinions: did I handle this OK?Thanks, you've confirmed what I was thinking - she's DTF. But as much I hate to say it - it's still just a catch and release thing for me right now. But if my marriage ever implodes, I've laid the groundwork with her and hopefully a few more local milfs. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Ya know what else sucks about marriage?>There is no reason that you can’t be with the younger more attractive girls. Here's a reason many 30-35yo guys can't do that.. because they're *married* . Like I said in another reply, There's enormous social pressure on guys in their 20's to get married. At that point (30-35yo) their looks are at their peak, but they can't exploit it (like the pretty teen girl surrounded by single guys) because they're *married* or in a LTR which is expected to become an engagement. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Ya know what else sucks about marriage?couldn’t you use that peak to date younger women? The problem is that many, many guys that age are married. There's enormous pressure on guys in their 20's - especially late 20's - to get married. At that point their looks are at their peak, but they can't exploit it (like the pretty teen girl surounded by single guys) because they're married or engaged. (edit: or in a LTR which is expected to become an engagement) | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | For those who cheat. Is this a shit test? What is this?Park your morals man. "MRP is amoral but you're weak if you do X" is you projecting your morality onto a stranger in a supposedly amoral sub. One of the best replies I've ever seen here. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 11:06 AM |
| 1 | For those who cheat. Is this a shit test? What is this?They dont care about their husbands, your wife, kids, condoms of if you fuck them in your marital bed on your wives side no less. They will meet you in the parking lot, leave their kids play, go upstairs at a crawfish party or into your master bedroom closet. God this is starting to really hit as the redpill keeps going down. Women have no loyalty. They just don't care. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Question about nagging and frame pullingIt's odd that while you say you stand strong against the pull of their frame...you post a question about their "frame pulling" online. I didn't notice it until I saw a similarity to nagging.. which prompted me to ask about it. But she'll absolutely try and make you conform to it. Yea, which is probably a big part of what's going on. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Question about nagging and frame pullingShe wants to know that she is your equal and that you want/need her for more than just sex. So she resists you. Good point. That's probably a big part of what's happening. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Tactics for practice to keep your gaming skills sharp?Good replies so far. Anyone want to share any opening lines? (as always, delivery is key) Supermarket - while looking intently for something (even if you know where it is) ask her just as if you would ask a store employee: "Do you know where whatever is?" The degree to which she'll want to help you shows her possible interest in you. Starbucks - if you overhear what she ordered for her drink, ask her something about it like "does the soy milk taste like real milk?" Kids sports events: "when exac… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/18 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Getting a bj instead of sex... is this a bad thing?There's an old saying in baseball... "A walk's as good as a hit" | /r/askMRP | 19/05/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who cheat does it ever become an issue with the girl you’re trying to cheat with?First, let me say that I have no intention of cheating on my wife, but I do want to keep my game skills sharp by talking/flirting with women when I can. How do you guys get around this? By working my ass of to be the best looking guy I can possibly be. I'm past the tipping point of what women consider good looking. I can talk about my wife and kids all I want and they're still bombarding me with IOIs. What I'm finding is that once you're past a certain threshold of looks, women just don't care -… | /r/askMRP | 19/05/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What would you do next?You are allowed to talk to hot chicks you know... And we do. Talk. Lots. But I agree with GrahamBaby - texting/messaging carries problems. I don't trust that the woman on the other end isn't going to fuck things up in some random way. Better to keep it all verbal. No trails. | /r/askMRP | 14/05/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Who practices catch & release, and to what degree?Good reply, I agree it's not worth it getting pone numbers and trying to set up a date. I just don't trust women to keep it quiet. I think you’d have more success as a married man gaming older married women as they won’t be expecting dates and you won’t have to lie about your wife and young children at home That's what I do. Flirt hard (and they usually reciprocate) and then walk away. Repeat again next time you're both around each other. And one thing we RP guys have in our favor is that we lif… | /r/askMRP | 14/05/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Who practices catch & release, and to what degree?Clarify what you want for yourself and act on it The majority reason is that I want to keep my game skills fresh. I know marriage may not be forever, and she's never yours, only your turn applies to every wife including mine. If my marriage ever ends, my game skills would still be good, and I've build up some good rapport with some other moms who may be ready to branch swing or whatever. As a secondary reason, it's a nice little validation high, which I'll indulge myself considering I don't wast… | /r/askMRP | 13/05/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Mothers DayWill all this nice stuff finally persuade my wife to want to fuck what she perceives to be her oldest child? Here's what might work better: Friday: push day Saturday: pull day Sunday: leg day | /r/askMRP | 13/05/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | What would you do next?this girl is clearly ovulating LOL, interesting way of putting it. But to answer the question, I say No. As much as I love catch & release flirting as a hobby, I wouldn't escalate from there. If you want strange, get a divorce first. | /r/askMRP | 13/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | (Game question)When she wears low cut tops and ensure you see itIf you can say it with just the right amused mastery or whatever, this might be a good time to use the classic line "your boobs are staring at me - tell them to stop" | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Married Men- how do you game other women? How far do you let it go if there is a serious connection?The difference is I don't escalate. I don't pursue. I don't go for numbers or mini dates. This is my experience too. I have kids in middle school. My wife has anxiety talking to people, so I go to nearly all of the school trips and after-school things my kids are involved in. Thanks to obsessive weight lifting, cool clothes, and a stubble beard + good haircut, I get bombarded with IoI's from all the mom's (many of whom are still hot looking, but their husbands aren't). Like MrBowlfish above, I c… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | OMFG, r/adulterycause you were doing it all for her. No, actually one of my wife's comfort tests revolves around my lifting... she says "who are you doing this for, because you're certainly not doing it for me. Who is she?" She just can't comprehend that I'd be doing this for myself. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 11:05 AM |
| 2 | OMFG, r/adulteryNothing will stop them, once they decide, and rationalize Once the decision is made the hamster creates the justification. Because we men are often brought up with high minded concepts like "loyalty" and "trust" this behavior is hard to comprehend, but we must. (Edit below) she realizes Chad was only a fuck buddy and her Merp ex-husband laughs in her face. I know of at least 2 guys who went through breakups (one was a divorce, the other a very LTR) where the woman initiated the breakup only to c… | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | OMFG, r/adulteryI have plenty of things to motivate me, I just threw that on as an afterthought. The point is that the quantity of women on that sub squashes all the BP stuff we grew up with like "men are the biggest cheaters". That sub proves otherwise. It's a real life life RP/hypergamy/rationalization lesson that's only a click away. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | With social media, online dating/tinder, and hook-up culture, the majority purpose of marriage now is children?If the technology (social media, whatever) gets to a point where even average people have a reasonably good chance of always being able to get a date at almost any time (with someone they truly find interesting, not just "anybody") and there's no intention of having children, why be married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Therapy today is like 17th century medicineWhat she thinks is communicating is really the feeing of attraction By being quiet, are we building an aura of mystery (or whatever to call it) which is what she's finding attractive? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Therapy today is like 17th century medicineCommunication is a fucking lie we have all been fed. This. It goes against the regular mindset, but the rule should be "Communicate with your wife as little as possible" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/18 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Marriage Therapy today is like 17th century medicinewas brought on by openly sharing too much verbal diarrhea about my own fears, angers, or insecurities Many times I did this and realized "if I had just sat here and said NOTHING AT ALL we wouldn't be having this argument... it was all brought on because I had to go and SAY something" I learned to STFU all the time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/18 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Should I relent? Wife going batshit at minor changes.I made $205k last year I JUST DON'T GET THIS. How can a guy make 6 figs and be her bitch? Why even be married? | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"I'm not denying that technology has made it easier to keep up with old friends. I'm also curious if some medical technologies will come along that fight a lot of these age-related maladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"Seriously, how many old people do you know that fit this imaginary life you've conjured up? Go onto Youtube and type something like 70 or 80 year old bodybuilder or fitness instructor. There's a reason these RP subs are always saying to lift, lift, lift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"I read about the Pareto Principle a long time ago. But I'd be curious to hear your (or anyone else's reading this) guess/estimate of what percent of the (Wester Civ) population is "marriage material". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"still had an active family to look after him Notice in my OP that I wrote "TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF" The point is to take care of yourself - even in your elderly years - and not rely on others to do that. We're already starting to see a generation of super-fit 80-something people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"Well, you don't actually lose your friends at that age, you just get out of touch because of all the time spent with childcare. Once you get out of those years, there's more time again. Technology keeps changing society. Thanks to FB/linkedIn/Insta, this was the first generation of middle aged people who could emerge out of the "busy child raising years" and easily reconnect with friends they had lost touch with. (and who knows what even better forms of social media tech will come along?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"Here's a thought, lets use the 80/20 and say that only 20% of the population is good "marriage material". A couple (both of whom are 20-percenters) get married. They have a successful marriage and raise 5 kids. But according to 80/20, only one of those kids is "marriage material". That child marries a 20-percenter from another family and they have 5 kids. All the while, the other 4 kids from all these families do not get married and have kids. The population is kept going, but instead of the typ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"then wait until you're 35 then 40 then 45 I agree that the things you're posting about are true for people in that 35-45you age bracket. By "old age" in my title I was referring more to about 65-85yo (senior citizens age bracket) Maybe I should have made that clearer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"because they don't post their shit on social media? I should have clarified that I meant FB messenger. I agree that a lot of the newsfeed postings have become shit, but FB is still a much easier way to contact old firends via the Messenger part rather than trying to get their email or phone number for texting. But the people who haven't been active on Fb for so long the time stamp is blank? They're nearly all married with kids. I have no idea if they're in contact with others via email or phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sexWhole groups of girls half to full drunk recounting the fux they had been apart of. Question - are they mostly bragging about the HAWT guys they've done, or it doesn't matter anymore.... that quantity over quality is the more important aspect to brag about now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"WTF? Was that last part sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Refuting "If you're not married, you'll be lonely in your old age"You only lose touch with the friends who do get married. Yep, I've noticed that the people I know who got divorced are the most active on FB communicating with other friends they've known for ages. It's the married people who seem to be isolated in their "family bubble". (btw, I'm not opposed to FB when it's used as a communication tool) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)another person they genuinely admire and respect and can laugh with Good point, but if all men held to this standard, I think only about 10% of the female population would be "wife material". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)I have mixed feelings about this reply. I get it. Respect from other men (that you respect) is a very nice feeling. But why did I respect them in the first place? TBH, because of their accomplishments in building a business and the money that goes with it. I'm not respecting them because they had kids (being a patriarch). Likewise, I think a single guy who accomplishes business success will likely get the respect of other men, whether they're patriarchs or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)Just curious, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)Men write and direct and produce all of the movies Apparently the majority of men who go into the entertainment field tend to be beta/BP/WK and the storylines reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)I've never see "How I met Your Mother" but what if they altered the plotline to have him pickup on middle-aged (good looking) cougars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)some variation of player, but ultimately falls for the lead actress for no particular reason. Thanks for reminding me of the word "player". And just like in my OP, he usually "comes around" and commits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)Yea, there's a certain irony that his movies espouse one type of behavior while he's practicing the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with silent treatmentWomen are like bloodhounds when it comes to emotions and body language, it's literally the key to their survival. Thanks, it's always good to read these things and be reminded of them. | /r/askMRP | 03/02/18 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Men, would you rather share a hot woman or have an 'ok' woman exclusively?Woman who is nice-looking You have to understand that once a woman reaches a threshold of pretty-ness the curve flattens out. Men are not THAT much more attracted to women at the top of the looks scale compared to those just above the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do even very attractive men choose to be monogamous?All three of those reasons are essentially (external) social pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do even very attractive men choose to be monogamous?Money changes everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?but they stay married through clenched teeth because of religion. And I should just jump in here to mention that one of the biggest promoters of marriage (and stigmatizers of divorce) is religion. Marriage + children was an excellent way to spread the faith and fill the collection plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?I generally agree that's the way society looks at it, but there's one good situation that kills it - MONEY! If someone (male of female) has managed to make aton of money, society tends to give them a free pass on never having had a serious relationship (because they can always say "I was working too hard to have a marriage" - over the top work ethic usually has a positive image in western society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?They want to sit on the high horse of marriage but don't want the shamming attached to it should the horse fall apart. I suppose if the prestige of marriage goes down over time, the shame of divorce will also go down too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?Not completely dissolved - in fact probably far from it (which is why I'm making this post) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?It was not my intention to do an ad hominem attack, maybe my tone came across wrong. It’s a legal term, not a disparaging one. Yes, technically "divorce"is a legal term, but to that woman I know who posted "stop calling me divorced - I'm single" it was certainly indeed a disparaging term. (and probably as well to all the friends who Liked it - and probably to many, many others who feel the same way) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?baggage Did you unintentionally use a shaming word there? Does this imply that people with "baggage" should be labeled as divorced and those without it are single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Are military guys mostly pro-marriage?a thrice divorced command sergeant major is quite normal. Think about that. His marriages keep failing, but he stil persists in getting married again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Are military guys mostly pro-marriage?The few ex-military guys I know are very, very traditional/conservative. (the ones whom I mentioned pedestalize their wives in the OP) To them, marriage is one of those things that's beyond questioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Are military guys mostly pro-marriage?The (US) military also heavily incentivizes marriage in various ways. Very Good post. But I have to ask... these incentives didn't just magically appear, somebody (multiple somebodies, actually) put them there. Why did they do that? Did these somebodies have a pro-marriage agenda? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Are military guys mostly pro-marriage?Thanks for that article. But how is the divorce rate for ex-military guys once they are done with their service and all the usual problems with serving are out of the way? Is it about the same rate as the rest of the population? Or slightly lower or higher? (I would think it would be lower because of the pro-family/discipline training) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?Yea, I know what your saying. It's as if they replace one drug with another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?But shouldn't we be questioning all social norms for their impacts? Isn't that how we grow? My favorite short reply so far. Yes, I want to question the social norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?Yes, I've heard of this and I get it. The occasional outlier atheist who is smart enough to figure out that religion is just a social construct is usually very peaceable and didn't need reigning in anyway. It's the people who AREN'T smart enough to figure it out that need things like religion to keep them in line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?No, YOU are the faggot here in spades. I never saw any usefull advice on MRP of how to proceed with a divorce and avoid divorce rape. The thrust of MRP is on STAYING married.... and staying married by fixing yourself... but staying married nonetheless. (and the attitude that if you have to get a divorce, then you must be a faggot, because you couldn't stay married like us). Make no mistake, MRP guys may sport a sort of TRP badass posturing, but it's still a pro-marriage crowd. (as you seem to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?And a 6th: there's this small odd group of married men (obviously pro-marriage) who take a sort of boot-camp attitude like "Man up! Real men get married! You're a faggot if you aren't married like us". MRP has a few of these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Opinions here of The Coolidge Effect?a shorter refractory period when presented with a new partner This is technically correct. But from all the articles I found from google, the coolidge effect is becoming a meme for natural polygamous tendencies. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Opinions here of The Coolidge Effect?The best pussy is new pussy This is one of those type of expressions that hardly ever gets muttered, but when it is, it immediately resonates because deep down it feels true. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Opinions here of The Coolidge Effect?While I agree that being the best you can be is the true TRP end-game, marriage is always touted/puported/declared to be the end-game. But it's never talked about that there are evolutionary factors like the Coolidge Effect and Polygamy/Hypergamy at work trying to defeat it. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife crying on NYE. I know what I have done wrong.She is by nature very shy and socialising takes a lot out of her. All she really seems to want to do is watch TV. and drink a bottle of wine Does anyone else see these as clues that she may have Social Anxiety Disorder? Getting sub 15% BF, building frame, and all the other usual improvements may be good for him, but will she follow his lead? I'm not so sure on this one. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage like an atheist questions God?True, but we know 99% of the congregation is just going to show up, listen to the readings that have been picked out for them, and that's about it. | /r/askMRP | 30/12/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage like an atheist questions God?marriage isn't advisable for some But virtually no one in our western society is saying that. The prevailing attitude seems to be that marriage is advisable for EVERYONE. If they have a flaw, well that flaw can be overcome. "There's someone for everyone" blah blah | /r/askMRP | 30/12/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage like an atheist questions God?I can now see the matrix and I question everything now. I found the RP not long after I also went thru a period discovering that religions tend to recycle old mythologies. Questioning something as socially deeply held as God/religion put me in a frame of mind to also question marriage. (typo edit) | /r/askMRP | 30/12/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage like an atheist questions God?I read here about women who just decided no. I don't want kids. Their entire environment would say "you'll get around to it" or "you can't have kids?" Yea, there's also immense social pressure on women to get married/have kids and they in turn put the pressure on us men (along with the church and politicians who want as much "family" as possible to keep them funded) | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Questioning Marriage like an atheist questions God?Actually much of Matt 19 before verse 12 deals with the question of marriage, and I notice that this passage often gets read aloud at Mass/Service: For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’[b]? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. But the following passages where Jesus followers question marriage NEVER get read at Church AFAIK. IMHO, this is one of the su… | /r/askMRP | 30/12/17 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Married women are easy to game because of these reasons for their husbands declining SMV?It means you do a long slow supplementation of testosterone injected weekly (cruise) with an occasional more intensive "blast" of about 3-4 months of a stronger compound. Then you stop (cycle) and go back to the cruise to let your body recover (the higher strength compounds have side effects) | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Always having the best SMV/Frame is more important for married than single guys because...Good reply. And there seems to be some assumption in our society that it's the single guys who have to remain razor sharp while the married guys can now "relax". But in fact the opposite is true. And yet because of that assumption (above) we see so many married guys who "let themselves go". Where does this come from? I would suppose one of the reasons could be the whole "for better or worse 'til death do us part" vow of marriage. It makes an assumption that she'll accept you for what you are no … | /r/askMRP | 16/12/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Told my wife of 3 years, 8yrs together, that I want a divorce...your next relationship There's that word "relationship" (assuming you mean LTR) Can we get out of this mindset that we have to have "relationships"? What's wrong with spinning plates for fucking ever? | /r/askMRP | 11/12/17 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Things that didn't exist years ago that make me question being married nowI meant in the sense that years ago, most of the time, you had to know someone at a gym to get juice (I have no clue if you could get it mail order, because where would someone advertise it?) Today you can order it online. You still have to understand things like bitcoin and encrypted emails, but it's a lot better than trying to get it maybe 20 or so years ago. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | When the wife's best friend is getting divorced...Good post, much appreciated. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/17 12:17 AM |
| 1 | When the wife's best friend is getting divorced...OK, but you completely sidestepped the question: do you ever use the words "divorce" and/or "lawyer" when in a dread situation with your wife? | /r/askMRP | 10/12/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | When the wife's best friend is getting divorced...The reason I say this is that I had a significant other who had a good friend go through a nasty divorce and used to tell all sorts of stories about her experience to my significant other. Shortly later my girlfriend started in on me about my actions sometimes, citing 'her husband x and she found it was y, you seem to be doing something similar.' Can confirm. About 2 years ago a friend of my wife went through a divorce and was telling my wife all the crazy stuff her ex-husband had done, which my… | /r/askMRP | 10/12/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | When the wife's best friend is getting divorced...This is a thread about divorce. Just asking, when you're using dread on your wife, do you often say things that involve the words "divorce" and "lawyers"? IMHO, it feels pointless to say vague things like "If I'm not the best you ever had then maybe you should look for someone better" vs "If you don't like it I'll call my lawyer and have him start writing up the papers". | /r/askMRP | 10/12/17 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Things that didn't exist years ago that make me question being married nowThanks for the good reply. Then eventually I decided to have another LTR. Just curious, is this an actual marriage? Or a long term exclusive dating arrangement? (if so, are you 2 living together?) Big difference. | /r/askMRP | 10/12/17 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Things that didn't exist years ago that make me question being married nowI would not at all recommend getting a divorce because you think Tinder will pay off for you I totally agree. That's not what I'm going for. Go find James Marshall talk about Tinder on YouTube I did a search on James Marshall Tinder on youtube and couldn't find a video that fits that description, anyone have a link? My guess is that he wasn't successful because Tinder is skewed towards LOOKS to get that first right swipe and texting game to escalate. My guess is that Marshall is not all that gre… | /r/askMRP | 09/12/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Things that didn't exist years ago that make me question being married nowAs my friend that just got divorced would say “Lots of Batshit Crazy”. Yep, I would definitely have my radar at extremely high awareness for that. on the apps When it really comes down to it, the post-Tinder dating apps may be the biggest game changer of all. (The other 3 things I mentioned are merely "nice") God only knows what those apps will morph into in the coming years. | /r/askMRP | 09/12/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Things that didn't exist years ago that make me question being married nowThe targetboard hasn't just changed, it's been replaced with a whole new targetboard. | /r/askMRP | 09/12/17 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Tip: how to improve yourself by 20%* in one fell swoop...Question for anyone - instead of buying a Digeridoo, could we essentially get the same type of exercise by practising the drone (raspberry) for periods of time? Doing this while driving alone at night seems like it might work. And isn't the Drone very similar to the Valsalva maneuver (used by weightlifters) just extended longer? | /r/askMRP | 29/11/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?To reply to OP's question: I think monogamy is a social control of female sexuality that favors most men, and is higher on a human's rights scale. I sometimes see the 20-80 rule applied to men in the sense that the top 20% are "high value" and the lower 80% being "low value". By "most men" do you mean these 80% lower value males who without an emphasis on monogamy probably would have a difficult time finding a female partner? (as others have posted in this thread) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?We're talking about the tens of thousands of years of human history before those social institutions (Judeo-Christianity/Islam/etc) even existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?they played a similar Darwinian role in favoring women whose tastes ran to fewer sexual partners Good point about STD's and natural selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?This is why TRP is "blue in the face" from telling men to stop getting married. I'm beginning to think that marriage is a flawed institution because of problems with BOTH sexes... women are designed by evolution to constantly want a better man (hypergamy) and men are designed by evolution to constantly want a wider variety of women (polygamy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 03:59 PM |
| 2 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?Good post. Your statement that women become "satiatied" and don't look elsewhere when a man is good seems similar to what I said above about what may happen when a man loses value, so I guess we're generally in agreement. Also from that post: men’s polygamous nature, in which men are attracted to a bunch of women at the same time Hypergamy is monogamy, even if it results in serial monogamy. Again, we're in agreement. This is stuff I wrote in my OP above. Glad someone else sees it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?In ancient times, the husband was the financial provider for his wives. But what about all those thousands of years of evolution before those ancient times, before marriage? (Hunter-gatherer tribes?) I would suppose men were polygamous in the sense that they would just try to have sex with as many women as often as possible? (hence polygamy in a "soft harem" sort of way) The ones who wanted to have as much sex with as many women as possible spawned more children who also had that trait who also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | If men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous, does monogamy tend to favor women?Yes, hypergamy is monogamous more than polygamy. It’s defined that way whereas polygamy literally is not. Thanks, that's what I've come to know also. To me, it does not mean hopping from man to man climbing them like a ladder always on the lookout for the next best thing. I'd be curious to know what your definition is. I'd agree that the "always on the lookout" part may not be as constant as we sometimes think, but it's definitely there when the man starts losing value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | (Men are Polygamous) Women are Hypergamous, which is really a form of Monogamy?But do you see Monogamy as being more in favor towards women/Hypergamy? | /r/askMRP | 24/11/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | (Men are Polygamous) Women are Hypergamous, which is really a form of Monogamy?Good post. I guess I could have worded my question better... do you see Monogamy as being more in favor/biased towards women (who happen to be hypergamous)? | /r/askMRP | 24/11/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | A Interesting ComplicationRecently also I was in NYC for a board meeting, and I noticed the men's watches - it was a sea of Rolex. .... And they were all Rolex Submariners. Question for OP. Would you describe the men in this meeting as a sea of over 20% bodyfat BB's? The few guys I know who wear Rolex's all fit this description. It probably also says something that they're all wearing the Submariner.... they're like sheep. FWIW, I wear a $400 Seiko Kinetic. As for personal appearance, my top priority is lifting and muscu… | /r/askMRP | 20/11/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | One egg = Female Hypergamy --> Many sperm = Male Polygamy?Dont really have time to read it, but heres a quick video from his website: https://youtu.be/AQO0yPvwTDg It's a lot of the anthropology that gets talked about here the RP subs. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The more I STFU with her the better life is with her?You are talking your thoughts Yep, thanks, that's what I was doing and trying to stop. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | The more I STFU with her the better life is with her?don't overshare or allow your mouth to run off with you, because they are both feminine traits that reduce attraction This is my problem. I talk too much and I'm trying to change that. Not only does it increase the chances it'll trigger one of her many anxieties, being "chatty" is a feminine trait, and I don't want that. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The more I STFU with her the better life is with her?Marriage is a CONSTANT battle, jockeying for position Lots of gold nuggets in that post, but if I could pick one, that's it above. If there is a dispute, men want to reach a comprimise where everybody can be happy. Women want to WIN. Ironically, the most ruthless female I've encountered in terms of doing whatever it takes to WIN a debate is not my wife, but my own sister. I've said some truly horrible things to her during arguments and instead of backing down she just keeps coming back even wors… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | One egg = Female Hypergamy --> Many sperm = Male Polygamy?a huge underclass of hopeless men who could then revolt I don't have a link, but I think this is what happened with the Vikings. There was no availability of women, so all these single guys just went on pillage sprees, or something like that. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | One egg = Female Hypergamy --> Many sperm = Male Polygamy?but you can set up a soft harem Funny thing, in the past I've had multiple simultaneous GF's each of which I really, really liked and had deep feelings for, almost to the point of oneitis for each ... and I felt odd because society is telling me I'm not supposed to do that. But in fact it's my true polygamous male nature? (How ironic is it to have simultaneous cases of oneitis .. it's like a self-contradiction) | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The more I STFU with her the better life is with her?Thanks, man. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/17 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The more I STFU with her the better life is with her?When you get a grip on yourself and stop DLVing, Agreed, thanks for that. Yea I have this ADHD-ish problem of often blurting out whatever's on my mind. I'm taking steps to stop that. EVERYTIME before I speak with her (and now everyone else) I ask myself: "Is what Im about to say really neccessary or just ADHD blurting out?" and "Is what I'm about to say going to make me look like higher or lower value?" These are MY problems and I'm trying to own them and fix them. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The more I STFU with her the better life is with her?Agreed, that's why I'm going for a more stoic, strong-silent type thing. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Doxxed by wifeOP, were you using Google Chrome browser which makes your History very easy to find? May I suggest Firefox which is much easier to set up in Private Mode? | /r/askMRP | 18/11/17 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is the post divorce "revenge body" mostly a myth?I have had 4 friends whose long time wife got a Breast enhancement- AND ALL 4 WOMEN STARTED CHEATING WITHING 6 MONTHS. Holy shit. My sister knows of a co-worker who got a boob-job -- ironically at the behest of her husband -- and she cheated on him too. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Would Alpha males tend to be atheist, even if they don't admit it?but never met an athiest who wasn't a mess, emotionally and usually life wise. Not all atheists are evangelicals. Many keep it to themselves. You may have met more than you think, they just didn't tell you about it. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Is the post divorce "revenge body" mostly a myth?Agreed, we should not GAF after the divorce, but it's the myth of the "revenge body" that I GAF about because it helps lead down the path to divorce in the first place. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/17 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Is the post divorce "revenge body" mostly a myth?she got weight loss surgery Holy crap. Is this the modern female mentality? Don't put in the effort to diet or workout, just open the checkbook and BUY the weight loss? | /r/askMRP | 13/11/17 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Would Alpha males tend to be atheist, even if they don't admit it?Going fishing is not reall a "problem" per se. As a practical example I've seen situations where a problem exists (IE: major health issue, job loss, etc) and many times I will see women and betas take the attitude that it's "God's Will" and that you can't really do anything meaningful about it. Whereas someone more motivated (alpha?) WILL try to do something about it. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Weird behavior from my female classmate ..."What's the 'magic word'?" I like this. It forces her to be submissive and say "please". If she doesn't (IE: she says "now") you can just reply with a dismissive "I don't think so". | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Notice that "mid life crisis" is mainly a female accusation?Thanks, good article | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Notice that "mid life crisis" is mainly a female accusation?It’s a message to get back into beta form. Makes sense. One saying that keeps me going through the BS goes something like: "Women discourage masculine behavior... then they reward it" | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why should I stay married at this age?Yea I have a good LOL at the annoyed responses that are like "why are you actually asking a question in a sub call askMRP" | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why should I stay married at this age?Also consider yourself. Would you fuck you? Have you maximized you top % man characteristics? Would you be dooming yourself to a sexless single life? Hell no. I'd get laid no problem. I pull lots of interest from other women. In fact, my wife really doesn't want me working out for this reason (and the fact that she'd have to start exercising herself to match the women showing me interest) | /r/askMRP | 21/10/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why should I stay married at this age?we all think that's bullshit I agree that we the men who hang out on RP subs know that, but the women consuming all the modern media are hearing something different. you should be leading by example. I sure as hell am trying. I work out nearly everyday (home gym in the basement) and eat a great diet and encourage her likewise. What does she do most evenings? Sits on the couch and eats potato chips. | /r/askMRP | 21/10/17 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why should I stay married at this age?You mention twice that it should be an equal relationship... Where did you read that? The entire modern feminist-slanted media is constantly pushing that agenda. (this ain't the 50's where we hear "father knows best") She constantly hears stuff like that from TV, movies, magazines, her GF's, etc etc etc. You're the captain yet you want us to tell you what to do? I don't want anyone to spoon feed me. This is askMRP and I asked a reasonable question. I also sense that you're looking for a quick re… | /r/askMRP | 21/10/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] women don't make senseI've been thru a lot of the same things as you (implied in my recent similar post) and I'm really starting to ask (now that my kids are nearing college) ... Why am I married? | /r/askMRP | 21/10/17 12:49 PM |
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