bullmooseman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
574	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction	Red Pill Theory	bullmooseman	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 04:36 PM
32	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you.	Red Pill Theory	bullmooseman	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 06:03 PM
8	How to maintain frame to lengthen sexual relationships, longer than a night?		bullmooseman	/r/askTRP	10/07/16 05:42 AM
1	What’s the best way to cool off a woman, and not piss her off? Specifically, if she’s your boss		bullmooseman	/r/askTRP	06/03/18 05:40 PM
0	Marriage financial (mostly tax) benefits versus risk of divorce cost. Anyone ever crunch the numbers and calculate when it's beneficial and when it's not? Based on financial investing tactics the cost of risk, etc.		bullmooseman	/r/askTRP	12/06/16 05:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Anarchy and Theophagist are the two best people on Reddit.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/16 06:00 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Based on stuff that I've read throughout the years and personal experience, a competitive mindset seems to work well. For me to consider adopting a new mindset I would need to expend considerable effort learning how to do it. Before doing that, you must convince me.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 11:43 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Fair enough. I'd still have to see a lot more evidence that being competitive hurts performance to accept your alternative meditative state as a better mindset than competition.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 11:25 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Your example that you pulled out of your ass... also after a quick google on the benefits of competition, I found this: https://hbr.org/2014/09/you-perform-better-when-youre-competing-against-a-rival Something to think about. It is the intense rivalry, the competition, which motivates these runners. Why not have that mindset of intense rivalry and competition with everything you do? Take the difference between women and men. Men are said to be much more competitive than women. Throughout history…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 11:05 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. And yet it was the competitive asshole who was able to spike his testosterone and win... the glorification of non-competitiveness may work for women (which is why it's pushed by feminists), but not as much for men. Also note that artists are statistically much more feminine than other men. Likely they can adopt a more feminine tactic towards accomplishing things.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 10:50 PM
2	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Ideally you're right, I should have been able to do it the first try. But for some bizarre reason it was "his frame" that brought it out in me, and I'm glad he did. It was the competition, and I imagine most males are motivated the same way. Team sports are the same way; you use the competition to motivate yourself. A while back in some documentary on strength they showed this world champion armwrestler who would yell, scream, gloat, etc at the other competitor. His status was being challenged b…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 10:35 PM
3	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Maybe for some people. Personally though, the idea that I'm competing against someone gives me more motivation, better results. A while back at work there was a doorway with about a quarter inch frame around it. The question was raised of whether we could get enough grip with our fingertips to do pull-ups on it. Several of us tried, including myself, and we couldn't do it. The foreman tried and was able to do it. After seeing him do it, I was able to do it as well. On my first try I was thinking…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 10:20 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Not sure how this applies. but the harm with heroin pleasure is the crash after. The pleasure we get from competing, and then winning is much more beneficial to us in the long term.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 09:39 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Not competing is part of the whole movement against "toxic masculinity". And yet, it is the competitors of history, for biological reasons mainly men, who have shaped the world we live in.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 08:58 PM
2	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. Interested in your argument that not competing will yield better results. True, we live in an easy world, full of average, boring, mediocre people. The idea behind effort is to maximize it with yields. So the more effective effort, the more yield. But the successful people (in X field/concentration) weren't happy and content with their results in X field. They improved them with effort. The goal of this sub is improvement in X field. This post is about continuing growth beyond "above average". E…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 08:54 PM
1	Stop comparing your success against other people's lack of it. Other people are fucking worthless losers, and so are you. We are to compete. It's human nature. Those who don't compete don't win. The danger of winning, though, is thinking you're good enough.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 07:51 PM
2	Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here. Exactly. Women that I'm fucking all the time will tell me tons of red pill things in private. They actually do get it many times. Many times they'll unload their insecurities and shit on me (complaining they're weak, etc). My response is basically a biological defense of traditional gender roles, that they shouldn't hold themselves to masculine standards. And you know what? They're comforted to know they don't have to have a dick and be strong and independent. In public this wouldn't go over wel…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 04:51 AM
3	Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here. I agree to an extent: you can say whatever you want as long as you do it the right way. But using red pill language in the real world is pure faggotry. You're not Jesus, you don't need disciples.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 04:41 AM
1	Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here. Yes. Its bizarre how often people talk about alphas in social settings these days. Typically, I play dumb when it comes to all this stuff in the real world. The information here is best not shared with others, until they really go looking for it.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 04:33 AM
2	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction The goal of the red pill, as I understand it, is too accept how people are in reality. Being disappointed in someone implies they aren't living up to your expectations. Once you internalize how people really are, it doesn't bother you. That's just how it is, and all you can do is be the best you can be, utilizing their selfishness to your own benefit, and their own benefit.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 01:41 AM
1	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction Witty one liner comments that have multiple meanings can be very entertaining. Humor is always good. Also you can end the conversation before it fizzles out	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 01:09 PM
3	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction True, obviously the person has to want to talk to you. Typically, it's more like one question and then you say things (not necessarily questions) to get them to keep talking: summarize what they're saying and they'll keep elaborating. And yeah for some bizarre reason I hate getting asked questions and always turn the answer into a joke, flip it back to them, whatever. I'd rather stay elusive, not too comfortable talking about myself.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 03:19 AM
2	Attraction and Desire – What I learned from taking estrogen and living as a girl Did you find any difference in the way you learned information? Women tend to get better grades than men, what can you say about that aspect of estrogen?	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 02:38 AM
1	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction For me this seems to work for women. Usually as I'm talking to a most likely boring woman, I'm digging to find something interesting about her. The idea is to steer the conversation to something that's interesting. Any time she emotes, I emote her thoughts as a hyperbole. Exaggerate, whatever, in order to get her more excited about her own life. Also allows you too tease her, make jokes, whatever.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 12:26 AM
16	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction Agree with live free or die. People don't give a shit. I'm the most interesting person I can think of (yeah I'm humble too) but they're too self absorbed to ask. And you know what? That's ok. You come across as mysterious and charming, without ever needing to talk about yourself. It is the listener who holds all the power, not the talker.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 11:41 PM
14	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction By being wrapped up in what the other person has to say. You will still have an inner monologue, but it expresses itself in the form of spoken words.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 08:45 PM
2	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction Absolutely! Economic transactions are just as, if not more important.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 08:43 PM
-1	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction So the more social interactions, the more value created just from sheer numbers. On top of this the quality of interactions goes up as you learn to better create value within social interactions: practice improves quality.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 08:12 PM
4	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction People want to engage in social/economic transactions. You're not screwing them over. You're working on a mutually beneficial arrangement that provides value to both parties. Everyone knows you have motives, and trying to hide them makes you less likeable.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 08:02 PM
13	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction Personally, I make an effort not to hide my motives. Women can read your mind that you want to fuck them. If you try to hide it you look like a loser. If you show it in your eyes without hesitation or apology it turns them on. They'll tell you to stop looking at them like that, because your audacity turns them on and they know they shouldn't fuck you like they want to. But they will.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 07:51 PM
29	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction I'm genuinely interested in some people when they're interesting. If they happen to be a woman, it makes it easier to fuck them. If they happen to be a man, it makes them think more of you (and oftentimes give you opportunities). As someone who's gone from the selfish loser to in many cases the life of the party, I can attest that practicing being interested, and succeeding in being genuinely interested is possible. The motive of being interested in what someone has to say doesn't have to be a "…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 07:38 PM
1	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction So the introvert who bitches about not having many friends and not getting laid has less of a need for sex and friends than an extrovert? I think he has more of a need for these things, because he has less outlets to obtain them. Maybe he doesn't need them as much, and that's fine. But he shouldn't complain when he doesn't have them.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 07:25 PM
4	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction Every human exchange is an economic transaction. At your work, if you don't expend effort into it you will not gain value from it. Lottery winners aren't permanently happy. Money in and of itself doesn't make you happy, expending effort towards a goal wraps up the entire human experience of happiness. We have evolved to feel satisfied after expending effort. Do you think a caveman who's entire life was a struggle thought about depression? No, he was wrapped up in his work of surviving. The depre…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 06:57 PM
2	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction Obviously being selfish is an engrained trait, that we all have to deal with to some extent. Sure, some people may be more genetically inclined towards selfish behavior, but anytime people talk about introverts they're just stroking egos and hamsterring weakness.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 06:18 PM
7	Charisma: Forget you exist in any interaction You don't fail a shit test by saying the wrong thing. You fail a shit test by caring (or if you're a perfect actor, showing you care). People can see through what you say, to what you are. This, in combination with being an idealized version of myself seems to work. Obviously you need to work on yourself in your own time to become the best you can be: but once you are, you no longer have to hide behind lies, calculated manipulation, or ego. You just are, and by forgetting yourself other people w…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/16 06:06 PM
3	Spinning plates? Women somehow figure out that I'm "emotionally unavailable", get mad after sex and tell me they're not going to have sex again. How does one spin a plate? Shit there's my problem. Opening up to them hah	/r/askTRP	08/09/16 02:54 PM
1	Spinning plates? Women somehow figure out that I'm "emotionally unavailable", get mad after sex and tell me they're not going to have sex again. How does one spin a plate? Thought I did do the whole conversation thing and after sex talk pretty well. In fact after sex is the only time I can really open up to them. But geuss it just takes more practice.	/r/askTRP	08/09/16 02:51 PM
1	Spinning plates? Women somehow figure out that I'm "emotionally unavailable", get mad after sex and tell me they're not going to have sex again. How does one spin a plate? Fair enough. So what's your suggestion on having sex more passionately with a woman I don't really care that much about. And this last one I did care about her, just not enough to date her (nor do I know her that well).	/r/askTRP	08/09/16 02:39 PM
1	Spinning plates? Women somehow figure out that I'm "emotionally unavailable", get mad after sex and tell me they're not going to have sex again. How does one spin a plate? As far as the orgasms, when they're convulsing uncontrollably in the front seat of my truck, I think it's safe to say they're not lying about that. And yes, what they do is agree to meet me again and then are unable to resist, but they figure that out and then just decide not too meet me again, because "they're not usually like this". Of course they are, but that still doesn't help me if they won't meet me again where I can seduce them. So what do you suggest?	/r/askTRP	08/09/16 02:28 PM
1	Can anyone recommend resources for emotional IQ? This. A lot of new material that I hadn't considered. Not sure how well I will apply becoming vulnerable to my life, but it perfectly explains why I don't connect with women, because I'm incredibly guarded. Also definitely helped my understanding of what an emotional connection is, and I can see the parallels to my successes in the past when I actually did connect with women.	/r/askTRP	08/11/15 05:38 AM
1	DC/Maryland members interested in the fraternity... The red pill is something that you shouldn't openly talk about. Obviously many organizations engage in red pill thought, but drawing attention to it is a bad idea. We're not here to save the world, we're here to improve ourselves.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/15 04:03 AM
2	Can anyone recommend resources for emotional IQ? Yeah I used to think that was the case, that it was some bullshit term made up by liberal professors, but whatever you want to call it, I need it. I will check out BANG, thanks though.	/r/askTRP	06/11/15 04:00 AM
-1	Setting the record straight: Mad Max: Fury Road is humanist, not feminist Didn't read your text because I don't want the movie to be spoiled, but so what if it is a "feminist" movie. A lot of movies have females prone to action and violence, but in the real world this is not the case. Movies are fantasies, not reality	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 12:05 AM
1	"Surprise victimhood" as a tool of feminine power We should not learn how to use it for ourselves. A king doesn't care about the trivialities of peasants. Women are like that yes, if you allow them to be. Ideally, you maintain your composure and remove yourself from the situation until she calms down. I know I used to respond to these types of attacks from my ex fiance by calming her down with sex (i knew how to push all her buttons). The problem with this is that sex was a reward for her, and she began to start fights more frequently because s…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/15 11:16 PM
-2	The stronger you are, the less anyone cares about you Why would you want anyone's condescending pity? The other man has pity, he doesn't truly have their respect. People like helping the weak to feed their egos, but people like being around the strong because they actually enjoy being around them. Let the weak have their pity, we don't need it.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/15 01:42 PM