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Make female friends. Connect as human beings over shared interests. Suspend judgementality. Express(or become a) expressive and touchy person. Be comfortable with your own sexuality while being empathic towards other’s feelings and comfort. You’re 17 you have much to learn in the social skills department. So with that said, don’t be hard on yourself or fall into this toxic mindset that you HAVE to get laid to be worth anything. Sex is great, but there are better things in life. And if you dgaf a…
/r/seduction10/09/18 04:38 PM
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Ask for her number and to hang out sometime. No better play, and nothing to lose.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:42 AM
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Yea I’m gonna agree with the other guy, you’re kinda fucked up man. There’s a difference between acting in favor of mutual interests vs preying on vulnerabilities.
/r/seduction18/08/18 04:42 AM
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pretty sure that means “keep touching me”..
/r/seduction23/07/18 06:50 AM
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“What brings you to tinder?”
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:10 AM
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Main factors here is 1) keeping it short and sweet 2) it’s only weird if you think it’s weird, and then act like it’s weird It’s perfectly normal for a social guy to want to chat up a girl and ask for her Instagram. If she declines or ghosts you when you do, you back off like a emotionally balanced, social guy with options and figure out another prospect. Happy trails friend.
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:06 AM
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You’re legit such a bitch that you did all of it for us lol Your own sense of self-worth is so in the dumps that you literally have no greater enemy than yourself, no one else can even roast you nearly as hard or throughly as you already roast yourself and I think my post, which is probably gonna be the harshest one, is literally merely pointing out the fact.
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:02 AM
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“Instagram cool tho?”
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:53 AM
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Male hamster. We’re not different just more of the same. Same rules different contexts.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:52 AM
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Lead with an honest foot and this all solves itself. Be clear that you aren’t looking for a relationship, but you think she’s fun. Expectations are everything, let her know that she can have her fun on the side and explore other options too.
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:30 PM
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don’t ever ask a girl if she likes you, she’s already made it obvious so you a) look stupid and emotionally unintelligent b) you acted needy in response c) you are validation and approval seeking The right frame of mind is, you don’t give a shit if she likes you or not, she’s fun and you are all about fun. From here? If it goes south just ghost and think about your actions. Ghost on your terms though, i.e. don’t be a needy whiny bitch trying to grasp at straws to save the situation. Let her come…
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:24 PM
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Read a bit about calibration and physical escalation. It’s very natural and intuitive stuff, you just need a little reminder coming rusty out of a relationship :)
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:52 PM
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ok so the answer really is simple if you just flip the script a little. She’s a girl and her goal is to secure commitment with the tools at her disposal, she knows you want sex with no guarantee of further which is why these girls hold out on you, because you make it obvious that way. Think about it, why would she give in and fulfill your win condition without fulfilling hers? Common sense, it’s like if she expected you to commit fully before sex like a little beta bitch. Now there’s still ways …
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:45 PM
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You’re good at attracting women, yea. But these women share this similar pattern. In a sense, you can only confirm you’re good at attracting shitty women who are only worth plating and not committing to. You have to change something on how you approach meeting women.
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:37 AM
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More like righteous indignation tbh, I’m with him.
/r/seduction13/07/18 02:27 AM
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You can only learn this through experience unfortunately. A good place to start though is looking at your own hobbies and lifestyle. You might not be exploring your own interests, growing yourself, and living your own life. Secret is if you can answer all of these in detail and they don’t involve your SO in some way shape or form, you probably wouldn’t be over worrying either.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:36 AM
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YOU GOT HER NUMBER FROM THE SYSTEM? That’s so fucked up bro. You needa chill. Same goes for your texts, they convey “no chill”. Control freak. Has to have his way. Which all imply no abundance. A thin veil of playfulness isn’t enough to mask this. In fact makes it feel more forced here. Which again conveys, no chill, control freak.
/r/seduction10/07/18 07:38 PM
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Here’s my secret, I know this is true because I’ve walked the same road. Abusive childhood, social outcast, ludicrous libido, chronic depression, “gifted” intellect(started at a prestigious university at 14), and have pondered the mysteries of myself, people, and the world around me for many years after realizing more studying and “book smarts” won’t fix what is wrong with me. It was a human element I was missing, the ability to read social cues and form connections with human beings. I’m not di…
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:33 PM
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See this is part of the problem. You think you’re some kind of special snowflake exception case that needs individualized treatment and special care. You probably think you can (or at least should be able to) reason your way into getting what you want, into a girl’s pants, but that’s not how ANY of this works. Forget what you know. Let go of what you believe. You need to rebuild. Ground up. Fact is you aren’t. Picking up girls, social interaction, it’s the same for everyone and across cultures. …
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:04 PM
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There’s no helping you if you don’t listen. Why are you even here if you’re just going to fight everyone’s advice? You bind yourself in victimhood, shackles of the mind bro.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:52 PM
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Good luck with that Mr. “Rats I’m gonna be a virgin forever :(“
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:47 PM
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Jesus Christ dude the lifting is an ANALOGY. The above advice holds true for ANY skill worth learning or thing in life worth having. I don’t give a shit about your paragraph of bitching about how horny you are(you think you’re the first guy with a libido, hello dude?). Hire an escort, jerk off til you cum blood. Rape a girl and rot in jail for all I care. But realize that you will find no real satisfaction until you realize the message I’m trying to convey.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:31 PM
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Guess what? Girls are happy hearing that from their boyfriend. But are you this girl’s boyfriend? Maybe you’d like to be but she’s not convinced yet.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:21 PM
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And if you believe that you most definitely will. You are limited by your beliefs. If you believe you can’t get jacked and therefore never set foot into a gym what will happen? And if you go into the gym do you instantly deadlift 300 lbs and come out with with shredded lats and a six pack? No. You don’t. Social skills are just that, a SKILL. And skills like anything else in life worth having are built. You get in there and you grip the empty bar worrying about people looking and judging you but …
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:16 PM
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Holy shit you’re so lost in so many ways I can’t even begin. You need some self-awareness, some introspection. You’re young so you have time but only you can save yourself.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:55 PM
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Never ask, wtf? Needy as fuck. Why the fuck does she need to justify herself to you? Who the fuck are you? If she says she’s busy, she’s too busy, FOR YOU. If she wanted to, she’d make time. She’d ditch friends, lose sleep, put off studying, etc.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:48 PM
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Not happening. You have the dick, you do the approaching unless you are just OOOZING value. Looks help but it’s mostly just charisma and social proof. If you are one UGLY motherfucker but you’re surrounded by a bunch of cool dudes who respect you and girls who admire you guess what, you’re a cool ass dude.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:43 PM
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It is your fault. Once you accept that you can start to build. From what it sounds like you have a long but rewarding journey ahead of you. You need more than a bunch of redditors can do for you. Check out the sidebar, check out rsd, focus on fundamentals of of socializing in general, then comes game. It’s 85% just being a decent(confident, non-needy, funny, respectful, emotionally well balanced) individual, and 15% technique. You’re gonna have to accept that there’s just plain some shit wrong w…
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:37 PM
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This guy fucks.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:21 PM
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Virtually all teases are closes if you play your cards right. You can consider it a shit test almost.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:07 PM
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I never judged you before this post (grinding, a good time and a number close is good stuff) but now I just see you hamstering and think you have some mega weak ass will if you have to justify all of that to an internet stranger. Which is most likely why you didn’t f-close a hot set. Inner game bro.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:05 PM
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If you were passing tests well they slow down. But they never stop. And if they intensify there’s even more reason to be passing well. It means she’s making sure you’re the real deal. Which means she wants to fuck you, or consider more with you.
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:25 AM
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Too much pressure from too much too fast. You’re a car salesman selling her a car at employee pricing, she knows it’s a good deal so she hasn’t bailed but it’s a big purchase that she needs to think about so at the very least she wants a test drive. Long story short, you’re not offering enough value to be an insta-buy, but this is by no means a no-sale either.
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:18 AM
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Anywhere. As long as your frame is solid and you internalize trp principles. It’s important to make peace with the fact that “it’s just your turn, she’ll never be yours” However, you can increase your odds with girls who are 1) low sex drive 2) have strong senses of morals/values 3) lower sensation seeking behaviors But this is just slight and trp always applies. And these girls are often ugly or boring. Sexually strategy is wired in the same place that makes us breath and eat, and you know we c…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:41 PM
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We need stories.
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:10 PM
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Front to front and eye contact for a human connection. She was there dancing and feeling hot. You could’ve talked to her too, it’s not needy it’s just a missed opportunity
/r/seduction25/06/18 01:25 AM
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....? I mean yea I get some of the stuff you are saying but this reads more like a schizophrenic rant than anything
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 12:47 AM
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Girls have been known to do this self-culling when it comes to dating too far above their smv. They are wired for hypergamy so their solipsism leads them to believe you will do the same. There isn’t much you can do besides build trust (by qualifying her and building her up, she needs reason to believe why you’re there and not elsewhere) More confident girls require less (and by extension exercise less hypergamy than their insecure sisters who NEED to branch jump as their senses of worth are exte…
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:37 PM
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I’ve heard you need to make up for it by being rambunctious and shit. Don’t compete on where you are lost. Be a cheeky cunt, make her feel like a young carousel-rider again.
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:35 PM
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Friendly vibes, build more comfort, you have all the attraction you need right there on your face. Escalating is rougher since you have to convince em you aren’t a fuckboy, trust becomes a bigger issue for you than most as well, unless the girls are well travelled then yea you are good.
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:16 PM
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It’s never too late, the same rules apply. You can cold approach, you can meet people through activities, always befriend the group before targeting a girl. You can still hit up a club (if that’s how you find gf material lol) Cept, everything has a time cost.
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:13 PM
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Found this post after suffering from a similar issue, would love a dm too!
/r/seduction21/06/18 01:50 AM
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Waiter boy hamstering and ego tripping, grasping for something he has over a man with money and power he’ll never see. This sub is sad sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 03:47 PM
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Good argument, they have no tangible reason to. But girls love gay best friends for a reason too.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:48 PM
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Thanks for your piece as well friend. I’ll be sure to check out Jung in more detail. I’ve reached my conclusions off of eastern/existential philosophy, plus youtube pickup videos LUL (RSDTyler resonates with me), and mindfulness in general. Stoicism as a concept is resonating more with me as of late, I’ve always had the playful energy of a woman or child though when I’m in state. Makes sense to reign things in. May I ask what some key turning points were for you? PM is good.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:34 PM
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Validation is a fine trade for my needs, finances aren’t a problem too, I’m not gonna be taking girls on no trips tho. I’m doing this for wholeness and mental health, poon-getting is a different story and doesn’t quite fit into my mission. Of course I’m going to make every effort to add value as well be it treating meals, “therapy”, offering perspective. I think it’s fine as long as I come from a place of warmth and abundance. The only way I can see this backfiring is if I fall for one of the gi…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:26 PM
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Precisely. Many new folk who are in the midst of their pain/anger phase, and old folks who are stuck up jaded and romanticize their jadedness, both fail to see this.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:33 PM
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Do it. Fuck the retards and haters. Empathy is not weakness, it is a virtue, and a man stands by his virtue against adversity.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:31 PM
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