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ROAST-A-SCROTEbunbun6969/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:50 PM
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Brotha not everyone wants to get married and have kids. That is my worst nightmare. I go on so many random holidays and trips with friends and indulge in my expensive hobbies. Kids would ruin that. I also don’t care for marriage (or weddings).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:04 PM
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Other men want super buff muscle men. To be a gay man on grindr, having an endless buffet of options
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:17 PM
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In that case men are trading resources for reproduction. I believe once you become a parent your kids should be the most important responsibility in your life, and courts tend to agree. They do what they think is best for the child and they usually award the primary caregiver of the child custody and sometimes alimony. Children are a want and not a need. If a man wants children then this is the risk they must take or he should marry someone willing to be the breadwinner and take on what is consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:26 AM
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Both, usually cause their clothes also stink as a result of their body odor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:43 PM
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I’ve had to forcibly spray some of my guy friends down cuz they smelt like shit, and spray them with either glen 20 or perfume. I also force them to wash their hands when they come to my home. Funny thing is that they are completely normal and attractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:23 PM
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What’s ironic is that I’ve grown up around married couples where the woman is clearly the boss and their husbands follow their lead and orders. Some essentially treat their wives like their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:38 PM
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I could never be submissive or be with someone who’s submissive. I find it wildly unattractive and I view submission as weak. I like it when people can banter, have deep discussions and debates and even give and receive criticism. If a man tries controlling me then it’s an easy way to get dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:31 PM
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Do you think it could be attributed to the fact that for generations/centuries, society has been taught to see men as ‘superior’ to women. Therefore, why would a woman date a man who is inferior to her, it doesn’t make sense in a patriarchal society. For men to have better chances of dating in the future, then gender norms need to change and stop being so ridged. For example, a more dominant woman may want a more submissive husband (and vice versa), and this could be a good match, but society di…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:56 PM
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Your worth shouldn’t be based on you attracting woman and/or getting laid. You’re a human being, you have so much other facets of life that you can explore and enjoy. I personally don’t ever want kids, my focus on life is living a comfortable enjoyable life focusing on friends and hobbies. I don’t want to get married either. Placing too much importance and obsessing over romantic relationships isn’t healthy for your mental health. Focus on building robust friendships as friendships can meet your…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:39 PM
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Thats just natural selection at work then. I’m currently in a relationship, but if I find myself single, I would be content to stay single than date again. Maybe men shouldn’t place their value and self worth on the ability to attract women. It’s super unattractive when a man is self deprecating and hates the world. Invest into hobbies and focus on other stuff if you’re bitter. Bitterness is an awful trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:25 PM
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I was more referring to women who want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:18 PM
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I’m more referring to those who are desperate to rush marriage and kids and haven’t had any luck in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:58 PM
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It’s essentially just two people using each other to reach their goals. For example, a woman wanting marriage and kids and doesn’t particularly care about who the man is, as long as he provides. Or a man wanting a wife and family as a symbol of success. They both mutually benefit, but it isn’t a union based on love. In some cases love forms over time, but in others it results in resentment. In certain cultures, being married with kids is seen as a sign of success and a status symbol and having u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:03 PM
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In a world like that, I would just become a professional widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:58 AM
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And gay and bi men have it on ultra easy mode. You’re in a new city and want your dick sucked, just hop on grindr and find someone within seconds. A man who’s a 2/10 to women may be a 10/10 to a large group of men. Bears for example, large, big or fat hairy men, most women would find that disgusting, but for some men it’s an aphrodisiac. There’s someone out there for everyone, but that being said, those who find you attractive, may not be attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:47 PM
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If they still have the stamina and viagra, then they would get plenty of young grandmas at the nursing home. Old people’s homes have the highest rates of STDs. Homie would be crawling in ancient pussy 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:43 PM
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Because they have kids. Children change the dynamic completely. Childbirth absolutely destroys a woman’s body and a large majority suffer from post-partum complications, and hormonal changes thus not wanting to have sex (due to change in drive or because it’s painful). Children take up a lot of time and they become the priority and the marriage takes a backseat. A lot of marriages suck/fail as a lot of people feel obligated to stay together for the kids, or due to divorce being an inconvenient o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:05 PM
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I’ve managed to cultivate life long friendships with both men and women. The friendships with other women have intimacy and closeness (not sexual intimacy). So I am blessed in that regard. My friends also have similar views and lifestyles and are also childfree - which is great as we can travel on a whim and have money for activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:31 AM
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I am in my 20’s and childfree by choice (I dislike kids and would rather not interact with them). I don’t care for marriage, but would prefer a legal contract if we are together long term to protect assets (my family comes from wealth). I’m currently in a relationship, but if I were to find myself single again, I am completely indifferent to being alone. Tbh I would rather be single than be with someone I dislike, and it’s wild to me that people get married to people they feel lukewarm about or …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:12 PM
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Maybe their personality isn’t attractive or compatible with that person. I have friends with wonderful personalities, but in terms of dating them, we would be wildly incompatible. For me personally, I prefer to be with someone with good critical thinking skills and intelligence (preferably with a degree, I’m in the process of getting a masters) and of similar socio-economic status. I’ve given other men who don’t meet those standards a chance, but the relationships don’t last. They resent me for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:52 PM
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People should only date who they’re attracted to and compatible with, anything else is just a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:21 AM
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I would rather be single than date or sleep with someone I’m not attracted to. I’ve tried giving ugly men a chance, but it repulses me when they try to touch me. My boyfriend is hot and we are compatible. I would rather stick to dating hot men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:51 AM
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I love when my male friends have girlfriends. I’ve helped a lot of my guy friends meet girls too. Seeing my friends happy is the goal. Furthermore, I would befriend their girlfriends and hang out with them too. I see it as a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:14 AM
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It’s a good deal for men who want to be a dad, but are not fully committed to parenthood. At least there’s no child support and you get to avoid the early years. The kids may even be grateful to have a father figure in their life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:07 PM
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70k is nothing to brag about. It’s a pretty standard wage. I even know family members and friends who make more than that in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:57 AM
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Maybe consider the fact that those who aren’t educated (university level and above) don’t appreciate our education and accomplishments as much as someone who is educated. I’ve had people tell me that getting a masters degree is a waste of time and money, thus showing they don’t view education through the same lens. I also find that those who are educated have similar political views as me and are less likely to hold religious beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:54 AM
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Technology will only get better - there is already AI girlfriend simulators, VR Porn, Interactive porn (cam sites etc.), various sex machines and realistic dolls that exist. A lot of people are already addicted to porn, so much so it affects their actual sex lives, where they prefer masturbation. Family doesn’t have to be a nuclear family. If you really want to raise a kid there’s heaps of options. You could raise a kid with a friend. You can adopt animals. Live with friends (who become your fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:39 PM
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I find its easiest to make a blanket statement to my guy friends that I have zero interest in dating them or sleeping with them. If they still get crushes its on them at that point. My response to guys in the past confessing their feelings is usually something like ‘that sounds like a you problem’. Btw I do not flirt with my guy friends in the slightest - we talk about shit like WoW or League.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:58 PM
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Why on earth do you think its a good idea for women to settle for men they’re not emotionally and physically attracted too. That just creates a toxic situation where the husband feels rejected, undesired and emasculated by his wife. The wife will end up resenting or being repulsed by the husband. In the past I have given mediocre and unattractive men chances, and it just makes me recoil in disgust and think of ways to escape. Some of them are very lovely people, but I do not want them touching m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:20 PM
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I’m friends with a lot of nerdy men (I play videogames) and this is precisely the reason why I remind my friends that I would never fuck/date them and if they chose to ignore it, well that’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:22 AM
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Empathy still wont make a woman sleep with you if they aren’t sexually attracted to you. Empathy also works both ways, you can’t expect women to care about your personal problems if you aren’t considerate and understanding of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:24 AM
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Nursing/old people homes have some of the highest rates of STD outbreaks amongst their residents on account of horny old people having sex. No one uses condoms either as pregnancy isn’t a concern. If you’re old and lonely, join a retirement community and you will make tons of friends. Furthermore, cats and dogs are adorable and good companions. There is evidence to suggest that pets can contribute to extending life expectancy by lowering stress and blood pressure, and encouraging social activity…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:00 AM
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It’s kinda fascinating how many fetishes men (primarily) have discovered/popularized. There are so many categories and sub-categories. Even with gay hook-up apps, there are apps that specifically cater to singular fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:44 AM
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There are 100% people out there that will find them attractive, they just might not be attracted to them in return. I’ve tried setting up two unattractive friends and they both thought the other person was unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:57 PM
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Go to a gay club or post shirtless thirst-traps on instagram and you will have men complimenting and sexualizing you for days. All the male gym ‘influencers’ comment sections are absolutely filled with compliments. It may not be the gender you want to receive attention from, but it will still improve yourself esteem. One of my gay friends constantly compliments one of my straight friends, and its had a noticeable impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:54 PM
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Go to a gay club or post shirtless thirst-traps on instagram and you will have men complimenting and sexualizing you for days. All the male gym ‘influencers’ comment sections are absolutely filled with compliments. It may not be the gender you want to receive attention from, but it will still improve yourself esteem. One of my gay friends constantly compliments one of my straight friends, and its had a noticeable impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:54 PM
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I was 12 when it started and got especially bad at 14-16. I can also remember a few creepy mall santas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:56 AM
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Make prostitution legal in the US. Passport bros are essentially paying for sex indirectly to women who aren’t attracted to them. It’s like cutting out the middle man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:44 AM
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I feel like men who believe these woman to be ‘docile’ ‘traditional’ and ‘submissive’ are likely to be easy marks. The women can just play into these stereotypes, all whilst having ulterior motives. Once the marriage is secure, they can behave and act however they like. Its also likely they see these men as ‘stupid Americans’ especially with access to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:39 AM
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Plus the older the are the more likely they are to die soon, thus inheriting more money. Also elder abuse is bound to happen, but that’s the risk they knowing take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:31 AM
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If you believe sexuality is so versatile and open to change then why don’t you download grindr and give it a try? If you enjoy it, well then you can have a new man for everyday of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:49 PM
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General attractiveness is not the same as sexual attraction. Sure they may be aesthetically pleasing and good people, but I still have 0 desire to sleep with them or date them. Therefore the friendship stays platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:25 PM
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Her life sounds utterly miserable. I hope for her sake she leaves before he gets even older and she has to care for a geriatric. He is going to be such a burden on her and her life. Poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:44 PM
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I can’t imagine single men wanting to create and raise their own children solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:57 AM
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I have more in common with my peers and similar lifestyles. I find that older people tend to be more conservative, stubborn in their views, more religious, don’t understand pop culture references or memes, easily offended, can’t banter and some can be technologically inept which makes it frustrating. They also tend to have families and children. It’s very hard having conversations with boomers about capitalism, the economy or politics, they get defensive really fast and don’t understand the impa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:13 AM
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Not when there is a severe age gap, gaps in life experiences, income, financial stability, knowledge/education and you’re likely going to have more issues with compatibility. At some point, it does swing the other way into elder abuse, especially with those over the age of 65. I also do think it would be incredibly weird if an emotionally and intellectually stunted 40 year old had the same mental capacity as a 20 year old. Lets say for a period of time they are equals, the issue is that the 20 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:42 PM
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I have no problems with age gap relationships for those that are 30+ plus. At that point its on them and for whatever reason they want to pursue an older man/women then its their choice. I believe genuine equality in relationships is vital for successful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:01 AM
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I am also from a country where prostitution is legal. I am very much in support of consensual sex workers. By market do you mean what is local to you? Because yes that would be based on your economy. If you’re talking about importing sex workers, then I’m sorry the fact you’re European doesn’t matter. They only care about money and if the price is right then they will go for it. It’s all about supply and demand, if you want to offer less money, feel free as it is a free market after all. The pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:01 AM
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If you’re only 20 then why are you complaining about women your own age already being jaded?? You should in fact date your peers as you’re in a similar stage of life and will have more in common and you can actually interact with their friend groups too. If you are wanting younger girls at 20… then I am at a loss for words. I hope that is not what you meant, and I will assume you don’t like children for now. Have a normal young adult experience, go out and experience young love with a woman of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:29 AM
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Ahh so you’re sticking to prostitutes. Its good you have removed yourself from the dating pool. I hope those young hookers can profit off you and live their best lives. I have friends who make thousands off men like you, so thank-you for funding their lavish lifestyles (they buy all the girls designer). My friend who looks like a minor (in her 20s) profits the most off men like you, she pretends to be ‘bratty’ as thats what the oldies like to pay for. It’s quite common for sugar babies and prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:17 AM
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Saying that younger women being less bitter is your reasoning for dating them is weak. Everyone experiences trauma at some point in their lives, a lot experience CPTSD too. What about young women who are already jaded? You seem to just be making excuses to justify your attraction and urges to creep on younger women. You also do realize that young women date older men because they have money. Saying that you expect to spend less money on them is ignorant. My friend married her sugar daddy at 20 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:10 AM
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Okay well if you’re going for college aged girls then you should either be in that age group or also in college (as a student). If you’re hanging around college towns in order to creep on young women then you’re a fucking predator. They may be perceived as less jaded or less demanding, and thats due to their LACK of maturity. You’re highlighting how you’re attracted to immaturity, women who don’t have backbones and have little relationship experience. Thats creepy as fuck. Let me ask you this. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:55 AM
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Yes please date women your own age. You will find more happiness and respect there. Younger women will only see you as a geriatric wallet and will wait for you to die. Its such a common joke amongst my friend group that they would old be with an old guy if he’s rich and on his deathbed. If you are close to death though, it may be a good deal to exchange your inheritance/life savings for the company of a prostitute in your last days. That way you can at least die knowing you have set up a young g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:46 AM
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I can understand why, its creepy as fuck for a man in his mid-20s+ to go for barely legal high-school aged girls. It just indicates to women (especially in their age group) that said man is too immature for an adult relationship and he’s dating down in maturity as a result. Or he’s just attracted to teens, and then it becomes a waiting game for him to appear on a register. If young men are dating people their own age and their peers then they will have 0 problems. An 18 year old and a 25 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:42 AM
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I also wouldn’t be surprised if all those under 25 models are just Leo’s beards or glorified prostitutes. I hope for their sake they are simply playing a role and don’t have to touch his repulsive doughy old wrinkled body. I find if you have to be professional to someone, there are ways to hurt their ego whilst playing ignorant. When talking to clients you can say stuff like ‘you remind me of my grandpa’ or ‘I’m flattered but you remind me too much of my grandpa’ or ‘how many grandkids do you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:37 AM
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He seems like the type of guy who would raise a daughter and then marry her when she’s of age….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:06 AM
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I’m in my 20s and I find it absolutely repulsive when older men hit on me. Unfortunately for them I will absolutely make a scene in public and accuse them of being predators loudly. I’m sorry but no man who’s older than 35+ has 0 reason to talk to me (not including staff, employees etc). I’ve been hit on by older men since I was 12, I find the best solution is to call them out publicly and embarrass them. It works for me as multiple men have apologized for their creepy behaviors and promise to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:05 AM
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I’ve dated people from differing socioeconomic backgrounds, but I find I relate most to those of the same socioeconomic status. E.g. shared experiences - like going to private school and similar family dynamics. I found that those who were from a ‘lower’ socioeconomic class resented me and were jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:09 AM
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Cooking/cleaning/housework - general stuff that all adults should know and be competent at. My partner would prefer a massage over me doing his laundry. If he asks for help then of course I will help him, I just don’t want to be treated like a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:09 PM
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Of course we both do extra things for each other and are thoughtful but that doesn’t need to come in the form of domestic labour. It’s a reciprocal relationship and equal. We both have strengths and weaknesses and we help each other in that regard too. Aren’t relationships essentially friendship with sexual chemistry and compatibility? I believe that your partner should be your best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:51 PM
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Unless planned prior he is responsible for feeding himself and keeping his spaces clean as well as cleaning up after himself. If I am cooking of course I will cook enough for him, and vice versa. But I will not go out of my way to make him a meal when he is capable. We both make our own money and have our own assets, hence the international holidays. Mutual respect, love and companionship are amazing in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:30 PM
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Functional adult who can cook and clean and take care of themselves. Independent and self-sufficient (the relationship is based on the fact we want to be together, not that we need too). Loyalty, empathy, kindness and respect. Mutual goals and good communication. To join me on my yearly holidays. Someone who shares me interests. Doesn’t follow any cults/religions or conspiracy theories - AKA must be educated. My partner fulfills all those expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:13 PM
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Private sperm donors does not equate to sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:33 PM
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I’ve always had more money and more assets than my boyfriends. I expect equality and for everything to be 50%. I will never clean up after an adult man and If they can’t cook or clean they’re essentially a child. I don’t ever want any relationship to feel like I’m their parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:40 PM
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Its more ethical than woman purposely getting pregnant by hook ups and one night stands in order to get a baby (if passing on their genes is that important to them.) You fail to consider LGBTQI+ couples, and those who suffer from fertility issues. This also wouldn’t force women to have sex with men they aren’t attracted to. A lot of people don’t use traditional sperm banks to make babies already, they either use an unsuspecting man or have someone willingly help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:31 PM
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If they act predatory then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:00 PM
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Hell no. He would get dumped with a side of public humiliation. I make it very clear in relationships that if they cheat its essentially fair game for me to do whatever I want and that I will no longer respect them or their privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:45 AM
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When I say approach I’m specifically referring to someone approaching me for this intention. If they are polite about it I just tell them no and give a disgusted look. If they are rude and weird, then yes they will absolutely make a scene and draw attention to it. When interacting with people platonically I have 0 issue with age, sexuality, race, gender etc. I care about peoples values and how they treat others. I am a blunt person, but I treat everyone with respect (unless they show me they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:50 PM
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I don’t use those for advice, I just find it interesting and half the posts are like irl soap operas so its very entertaining too. If I need information or advice I can easily ask an advisor at uni, a therapist or a lawyer depending on my situation. There are also vast academic resources online that are peer reviewed in every field. What I’m trying to say is I would never take advice from unqualified strangers on the internet, especially when I do have access to resources and information. This w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:39 PM
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I’m in my early 20’s and in a relationship, thus your assumptions about me are incorrect. I am just very disturbed and disgusted by most of the men who try hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:29 PM
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You can believe what you want to believe. It will make you feel better if you perceive me to be unattractive. Unfortunately this has been my sad reality since I was 13. Thats why I’m blunt and don’t care about hurting a mans ego. I will always call people out on their poor and bad behaviours to their face. Regardless of gender or sexuality. I’m also assuming that the last remark is a joke about either an intellectual disability or autism spectrum disorder, which honestly is disgusting and ablest…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:27 PM
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I’m not mad I just enjoy debating people as its amusing. I’m just speaking my opinions and how I feel in those situations. And of course people do what they want, we wouldn’t have full prisons otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:22 PM
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Damn dude with an attitude like that I doubt any woman would ever respect you. You have extremely poor reading comprehension, I am literally saying that I find it repulsive when I’m approached by older men. We don’t want this, and thats why we are being vocal so these old farts leave us alone and go back to having a midlife crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:20 PM
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Then why is fertility such an important feature for you when finding a partner? Infertile and/or older women are still hot and have heathy libidos. It just sounds like you fetishise youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:12 PM
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I’m specifically talking about men who go out of their way to target younger women. Hell any person who goes out of their way to purposely target someone young and inexperienced. What you’re describing is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:02 PM
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The imagery of an 18 year old with her dads old mate having sex is extremely disturbing and feels violating as hell. Also relationships of these nature aren’t always consensual and often involve coercion from the older adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:34 AM
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Optimal age of male fertility is 29 (https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13685538.2020.1765330#:~:text=Most%20researchers%20have%20shown%20that,or%20especially%2040%20%5B2%E2%80%934). Old farts have no business spreading their low quality sperm and subjecting innocent kids to health defects. The whole fertility argument is just an excuse for old men to use to justify preying on younger woman. If they really cared about fertility then they should have considered having kids earlier or us…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:15 AM
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If you understand then why would you encourage old disgusting men to prey on young women? You’re encouraging potentially dangerous situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:08 AM
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There is a problem when they act upon it. How would you feel if you had a daughter that you raised from birth and when she turns 18 she begins to date one of your friends. How would you feel knowing you raised a whole human being that your old friend is now taking advantage of and violating? Btw I would find it equally as disgusting if women were to prefer barely legals over age appropriate partners. There is a LOT wrong with predatory behaviour, just because it’s common doesn’t justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:04 AM
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Whilst I do think he’s attractive, I’m not sexually attracted to him. He’s too old for me and is closer in age with my father. Secondly, I would be extremely freaked out and uncomfortable if any older celebrity targeted me or propositioned me for sex. I would be wondering what the fuck is wrong with them or what went so wrong that they are fixated on younger woman. Unfortunately, Henry Cavil does date teenagers and its honestly quite disgusting. Either he’s feeling horny and paternal at the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:40 AM
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How delightful. I still think its disgusting and predatory for older men to target young women for sex. You seem to have a very jaded and one-sided view on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:35 AM
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Age gaps are predatory in nature and often have strong power imbalances. Theres nothing natural about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:55 AM
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Thats fucking disgusting. I would rather rip all my fingernails off than have sex with someone old enough to be my dad or even grandfather. Its absolutely revolting and completely unnatural. I have nothing in common with them and quite frankly its repulsive for them to think I would even want to sleep with someone who looks like a grandpa. They should be more concerned about their retirement than preying on young women. Its pathetic and predatory and theres nothing more scary than a successful c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:45 AM
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Same, I find it absolutely repulsive and insulting when an older man approaches me to hit on me. They have 0 reason to talk to me or approach me. I always make sure to loudly tell them that they’re old, disgusting and delusional and to leave me alone and go back to the nursing home. I find that publicly humiliating people who do this works fantastically at deterring this behaviour. In my opinion a 40+ year old hitting on a woman in her 20s is pathetic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:49 AM
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A lot of men have mistook my kindness for romantic interest, but I’m just extremely extroverted and talkative. The topics I talk about are not even remotely romantic (ie. trivia about weird topics - ie ww2). I am also very un-flirty and blunt. I’m just wondering are you misreading social queues? If you’re getting rejected by women who you perceive as being interested then clearly there is a disconnect somewhere. That disconnect would be on your end, i’d suggest politely asking one of these women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:51 PM
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Either he is ignorant or lacks the skills and reading comprehension to understand/read academic and medical journals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:55 AM
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Unless you’re also into men. Then you can have as much casual sex as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:40 PM
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If that is the career she has chosen, it is cruel to demonize her and cheat on her due to perceived inequality on your part. You need to respect peoples boundaries and career choices and not use it as a reason to cheat. It honestly sounds like you’re trying to justify cheating at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:50 PM
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Well yeah technically he can pay for her services, but I was referring to the fact that she would never interact with this man unless he was a client. Huge difference between a client and a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:05 PM
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You’re gatekeeping sex work and its very odd. It may be a big deal to you, but for the general population its not. Its not different at all. There is a market for both men and woman. The obvious solution here if for you to abstain from dating sex workers as you clearly cannot handle it or deal with any potential consequences. Leave those poor girls alone, they don’t want to be with someone who looks down upon them and sees them as an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:58 AM
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I believe its insecurity when you knowingly enter a relationship with a sex worker and then expect her to change her lifestyle to conform to your wants and needs. You can replace sex worker with any career, and my point still stands. Its insecurity and bruised ego. The only situation where his feelings are valid is when she decides to start doing sex work during the relationship against his wishes. In that scenario they should just break up. There is nothing forcing men to date sex workers and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:27 AM
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Brother, with your mindset I don’t think you’re on track to have any happy or healthy relationships. When you’re jaded towards women’s sexuality and and treat women like they’re objects its unlikely that any of them would see you as a viable partner. A lot of women would consider that cheating and would absolutely leave you regardless of your warped views. You cannot force someone to bend to your will or follow your opinions. Sadly, if you continue down this path I doubt you will have any succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:21 AM
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I know a lot of gay men who make absolute bank off only fans and porn. You underestimate male sexuality and how it greatly appeals to other men. Familiarize yourself with Grindr as its a great insight into how gay men behave towards other men on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:16 AM
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Yes but you fail to realize the goldmine that is ‘gay for pay’. Regardless of your sexuality, if you’re a man with only fans your likely audience is going to be other men, and occasionally middle age-elderly women. Obviously is a man is that insecure about his relationship to his sex worker gf then he shouldn’t be in a relationship with her. You can’t justify cheating by creating false equivalences. Your reasoning is poor and borders on misogyny or even homophobia. You honestly need to work on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:08 AM
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Damn dude who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:29 AM
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Once again I did not date him for his height. My one weird dating requirement is someone who plays videogames. As far as I know height doesn’t determine gaming ability 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:56 AM
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Well my boyfriend is over 6ft. I also have dated men of all heights, I don’t know why its a detail people obsess over. He’s very aware of my feelings towards marriage/kids and shares those views and respects me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:59 AM
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As a woman I would only consider marrying a long time partner if either of us needs a medical proxy when we reach old age. (As our parents would be dead). Marriage otherwise is just a legal document that people celebrate with a party. Its expensive and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:15 PM
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I would say ‘nice and sensitive’ more refers to a person having empathy. Being able to open up to your partner about your thoughts and feelings is an important part of a relationship. Everyone deserves an emotionally mature partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:51 PM
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Some guys are so persistent and pushy and try to back us into corners. I’ve resorted to pulling up graphic gay sex on my phone and watching it in front of them to get men to fuck off. Its astounding to me that men only leave me alone when I make them uncomfortable. Its a similar concept to when men send me dick pics, I will relentlessly send them gore, gay porn, pictures of people shitting in the streets etc. until they’re traumatised enough to leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:55 PM
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Me and my friends all have signals and and multiple plans in place for when weird dudes hit on us. Most of us don’t even feel comfortable going to clubs and bars without another man present (to essentially act as a bodyguard). Which is good as all I have to do is make eye-contact or mouth ‘help’ and one of my friends will rescue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:49 PM
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What I’m trying to say is that when people have the option (regardless of gender) they will always chose the more attractive one. I was trying to highlight that in a hypothetical scenario where there are two men who are just as bad as each other (or equally as good or even just equally as average in regards to their personalities and morals), the only difference between these two men is appearance and aesthetics. Logically people will chose the one they find more attractive. This is applicable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:54 PM
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It’s human nature to complain. Consider this, why would women chose the ugly man who’s equally as misogynistic/unpleasant/racist as an attractive man. Both men are bad choices, but at least one is pretty to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:30 AM
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It’s human nature to complain. Consider this, why would women chose the ugly man who’s equally as misogynistic/unpleasant/racist as an attractive man. Both men are bad choices, but at least one is pretty to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:30 AM
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It’s only logical that people want to date well-adjusted, smart, kind people they’re attracted too. No one should lower their standards and tolerate someone they don’t want. The difference between men and women when it comes to trauma is that men will ignore red flags and trauma if she’s attractive enough to fuck. Treating a partner like a therapist/mommy is weird and toxic and expecting them to solve your problems will just lead to more problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:59 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation. Just because you don’t know anyone close to you, it doesn’t erase those who are currently or have been negatively impacted by pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:33 PM
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Your wife is not the blueprint for all womankind. You’re honestly just indicating to me how ignorant you are. Every single person is different, and whilst some people can ‘bounce back’ from traumatic and life changing events, some may have lifelong struggles beyond your comprehension. If you weren’t aware, chronic health issues can cause both weight gain and weight loss. 2 years is quite a long time to lose weight, when I want to lose a kilo or two (for vacation) I just do more cardio. So it mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:25 PM
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My point is that both are very traumatic events/occurrences that can drastically change someones lives, so its not as black and white as a woman simply ‘letting herself go’ after pregnancy. Its such a one dimensional way of looking at mothers and honestly misogynistic It’s extremely hard for the average person to bounce back from a traumatic injury, life changing event, especially when there is added responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:13 PM
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Homie you straight up sound like a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:36 PM
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Pregnancy has many complications, and can also result in death. Please educate yourself on human anatomy and how the body changes during and after pregnancy. This is one of the many reasons I will personally never have kids. Pregnancy affects hormones, chemical imbalances, it can even permanently change a persons personality (via changes in the brain). It also makes bones brittle and teeth can fall out as a result. Childbirth itself is a medical procedure (one that can go horribly wrong or leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:33 PM
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You don’t need a woman to have sex, if its such a strong need for you why don’t you have sex with men or pay for it instead of expecting it from women in your life. You could argue that you’re not attracted to men, but I would say that the majority of women are not attracted to you, which is evident in the way you conduct and present yourself. Or the easiest solution, buy a fleshlight or some other sex toy and leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:47 PM
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Maybe due to the fact that women don’t sexualize men in the same way they sexualize us. Men who are attracted to curves, big breasts and ass are likely to find bigger women attractive due to these women having ‘more’ of said attributes. Fortunately if you’re a man who likes other men, then there is heaps of gay/bi men who sexualize other men in a similar manner. Straight men need to understand that the male and female gaze is so different. I find that the majority of women want a partner who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:19 PM
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Families and parenting doesn’t necessarily have to be a monogamous heterosexual couple. A group of friends can even consider themselves a family. A single mom and her kids are still a family. For women its easy to acquire a child, either get a sperm donation, adopt/foster kids and accidental pregnancies. (Still don’t need to settle). Whereas for men the options without directly needing a woman are limited to adopting/fostering. (Also don’t need to settle). What your suggesting only affects men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:07 PM
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Because the local men are a whole different breed of misogyny - that is especially prevalent where men are seen as superior to women. This is common in asian cultures, muslim cultures, and even in some European countries. I know a lot of Russian women and they hate the local men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:55 PM
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I think its more of a case of men desire women more than women desire men. Most women would rather be single, happy and content than be in an unsatisfactory relationship with someone they have 0 attraction to (both emotionally and physically). I would say I’m mostly straight, but I find women have more attractive personalities and I feel safe and comfortable around them. Our ‘standards’ have changed in regards to woman are no longer forced into shitty relationships/marriages as a means of surviv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:51 PM
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It honestly would be beneficial to populations where there are significantly more men than women, like China and India. One of the biggest issues would be normalizing it and de-stigmatizing it. I do hope that the dolls would help reduce sexual violence and rape. In terms of companionship, if you’re able to have close fulfilling friendships then it could be a viable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:57 AM
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Have you considered other variables that have affected your perception of women and their patterns? For example, people who grow up in small towns are more likely adopt similar mannerisms and hobbies to those within the community, whereas a city is full of people living vastly different lives with different backgrounds and life experience. Education can also affect ones personality; those who grow up in communities where education is underfunded and undervalued are more likely to be people who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:11 PM
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I’m really happy that you’re taking a look at things from different perspectives! It will make you a more understanding and empathetic person in the long run too. I hope you have a wonderful week too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:54 PM
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Everyone experiences a form of mental illness at some point in their life. It can be short term, long term, mild or severe. In general, everyone experiences depression at some point in their lives. Certain events and stimuli can trigger various mental health crises and it varies from person to person. A lot of the older generation are under diagnoses for certain disorders due to stigma. As the stigma has gotten less, more and more people are seeking help and finding out as an adult that they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:38 PM
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I am personally surrounded by smart ambitious women who have rich social lives and created their own success. They all have different hobbies, interests and outlooks on life. I personally would say that my interests are even more variable than most of my guy friends. I enjoy sewing, crafting, making weapons (i.e. long swords), writing books, building computers, I enjoy education (university) I love animals, painting, drawing, DIY/Home improvement, just to name a few. Whenever I find something th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:31 PM
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Mental illness doesn’t mean she’s crazy, it’s disappointing that people still stigmatize mental illness when it affects such a huge proportion of the population. I’m also a woman and I honestly don’t care for that stuff. I value respect over material items and I hate it when men buy me flowers and jewelry as it means they either don’t listen to me or they perceive all women as the same which is far from true. Every single person on this planet has different personalities, thoughts, opinions, lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:38 PM
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Sounds like your mother suffers from impulse control and mental illness, this isn’t limited to woman and can affect any human. There’s nothing wrong or shameful about mental illness either, its super common. You should try have a little more empathy for your mom as it’s not an easy thing to live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:39 PM
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Clearly you don’t understand how vaginas work. I pity any woman who has had contact with you. FYI if it feels ‘tight’ it means she’s not turned on. You’re more likely going to traumatize a teen girl than give her an enjoyable experience. Sexual education has failed you sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:09 PM
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Imagine bragging about being an adult who is attracted to and fucks teens, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:56 PM
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They’re not looking for love. It’s transactional and anyone who thinks otherwise is delusional. I know way to many women who have married for green cards, money and lifestyle, and once they get what they want they ditch the dude. Take a look at 90 day fiancee, its full of old men and women chasing foreign young adults. The younger people are there for money and citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:27 PM
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When I was in my early 20’s me and my friends would still kancho each other in public, we would prank civilians and play the penis game loudly in public. We were all dumb as shit. It’s wild to me that grown adult men found us attractive, even when we were still behaving like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:31 PM
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Most would rather be alone than lower our standards. Plus you’re never truly alone if you have a group of close friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:11 PM
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They’re clearly too delusional to understand this. Much easier for them to just blame women than accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:09 PM
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Don’t forget the fact that women don’t want to date misogynistic, resentful and/or aggressive men. Lots of us are choosing to forgo relationships as they would prefer to be alone than settle for someone they have 0 interest/attraction too. Hypothetically if attitudes are to change, where men actually parent equally with their partners and where there’s more government support (i.e. better paternity/maternity leave, access to affordable child care etc.), then establishing families and having chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:36 PM
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Thats not an issue for child-free people. It sounds like you don’t want them/feel pressured to have them. Let me tell you its 100% a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:00 PM
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Then just don’t have children? Easy as that. Get a vasectomy and that solves all the above issues. Your genetics and bloodline are not special or remarkable, if you want to be a father then adopt and you can give that kid all your love and parenting without worry. Furthermore, its likely that women who change their mind on pregnancy and get an abortion chose that path as they don’t want to be permanently tied to that man for the rest of her life. Even if you’re not together, you’re still forced …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:31 AM
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Start a charity ‘Sex for ‘cels’ where timid, shy, skinny/fat nerdy boys can apply and get 1 free 1hr session at a brothel (charity has a deal with local brothels where they give a lump sum to the brothel owner for x amount of coupons to give to the nerds). Mutually beneficial all around, though prostitution would need to be legalized in more parts of the world. There are independent SW who specifically work with those who are disabled, so this would be all inclusive. Also no woman owes anyone se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:39 PM
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I was replying to your comment, but my answer applies to the vast number of incels and weirdos who believe that sex is a need and thus they are owed it. No one owes anyone sex. It’s also safe to assume that since you seem to prescribe to that ideology that you’re not getting laid and for a good reason too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:04 AM
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And why would anyone sleep with someone who annoys them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:48 PM
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Sex isn’t a fucking award. Sex isn’t transactional either (unless in the context of actual prostitution). Self-proclaimed nice guys are just as bad as these ‘bad guys’, the only difference is that they’re ugly. You seem to forget that women have their own autonomy and we are allowed fo fuck who ever we want, sucks for you that women don’t want you. Natural selection at its finest. Yall are seriously weird as fuck for treating sex like its owed to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:47 PM
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No you have 0 right to complain about someone else’s standards, if they don’t want you that’s their choice. No matter how intense or ridiculous those standards may be everyone is entitled to have their own standards. You can’t force someone to be attracted to you just because you disagree with their standards. You are not entitled to any woman or anyones body, if no one finds you attractive then I guess that sucks for you. You genuinely sound like an incel, bitter and angry at woman, you don’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:46 PM
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Why the fuck should women even entertain the idea of dating men they’re not attracted too?! Standards are standards for a reason, we don’t owe it to anyone to lower them. Most people would rather be alone than be with someone they find repulsive. No one owes incels sex, they can get off their ass earn some money and pay a sex worker to meet their needs. They’re incels for a reason, their personalities, appearance, personal hygiene and misogynistic views are straight up revolting. It sucks for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:59 PM
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You’re not attracted to men and I’m not attracted to ugly men. Do you feel violated when men sexualise you and say vile things about your body??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:17 AM
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Your sexuality doesn’t matter. I have heaps of gay friends who LOVE straight guys and love to chase them. You’re not attracted to men, and I’m not attracted to ugly low quality men, thus if neither of us want that interaction. Its likely that even gay men don’t find you attractive, but if you got even half the vile messages some of these men send (both gay and straight men) you would absolutely feel violated. Imagine if a guy like Harvey Weinstein was messaging you describing how he wants to pen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:11 AM
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Literally this!! It’s always their attitude and personalities that suck and drive women away. Do you think their high expectations come from their mom’s telling their sons what special little guys they are? Its genuinely so pathetic that there’s adult men who behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:39 PM
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If you do want the woman experience though, maybe hop on Grindr with a full face and body pic and your instagram link and watch the sexual dms pour in. It’s never going to be from hot gays, its primarily old men who say this shit. My gay friends constantly complain about the lack of quality men on Grindr and dating apps in general. But I can almost guarantee you that if you create a profile, some grandpa on there is going to think you’re sexy as fuck. Plus if they have ED means you can be the au…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:34 PM
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I’d rather get absolutely nothing and be single than be with some weirdo creep. It’s essentially like this, if I’m hungry I’d rather starve than eat an expired hotdog found on the side of the road. I bet if you men where constantly harassed by other men you would feel violated. Some of my hot straight male friends understand, they get the most vile sexual harassment from other men in dms, comments and in public. As well as being propositioned. One even got offered to be a sugar baby at his place…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:31 PM
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At the end of the day its their choice, if they are falling for promiscuous women then they obviously have a type, especially if it keeps happening. Sounds like a them problem, not a you problem. Having standards means you respect yourself and not settle for someone you don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:32 PM
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If thats her choice then so be it. Who cares, and if her future partner is so miserable then he can leave her. Its likely they will both be miserable together and stick together cuz both parties settled. Stop being so bitter about other peoples life choices. These woman aren’t going to date you regardless. The woman that do this are not the same woman who would date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:29 PM
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There’s already hidden MMR on dating apps. Unattractive people just have low dating elo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:26 PM
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This is so true! I don’t get why so many people cannot grasp this concept at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:43 PM
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All about context my dude. When I’m shopping I hate being approached, I’m on a mission got shit to buy and don’t have time to entertain some rando who chased me down. At bars and clubs tho, anyone is free to approach me to chat. Getting hit on by an uber driver is one of the worst ways i’ve been hit on. Who tf wants to be hit on whilst trapped in a car. Just be appropriate when approaching them and improve your social skills if you’re having trouble determining when to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:41 PM
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Aka he’s unattractive with little to no social skills/awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:37 PM
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Humans in general and really shallow. I think everyone should constantly be working on bettering themselves. Those who cannot better themselves or let their vanity impact their lives are just going to have to deal with it. It’s their life and if they wanna be shallow then let them. There’s always consequences to people’s actions. I still think its important to date people you’re sexually attracted too. Otherwise it just feels like you’re having pity sex with the other person. Imagine how heartbr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:34 PM
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If he wasn’t hot I wouldn’t even have talked to him. We both have joked that if either of us were ugly we wouldn’t be with each other. It started as mutual attraction and we quickly found we had heaps in common and were super compatible. Love doesn’t happen right away, and we took our time as we didn’t want to rush into things. I also just can’t fuck guys I’m not attracted too, I’m genuinely repulsed at the thought of it. I dated a guy who’s personality I liked, but I just wasn’t attracted to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:24 PM
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I know its not, but its an option those who are super desperate for sexual action. Its also kinda like glory holes for example, in porn the person on the other-side is a hot ‘virgin’, but in reality its usually another man or some beast (as eloquently said by Steel panther)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:15 PM
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I’ve never rejected a man for his height, I’ll reject someone who I’m not sexually attracted too, or if they have a shitty personality. It’s always the awful personalities that stand out to me. One of the models I dated in the past went on an antisemitic rant and I instantly lost attraction. I find that a lot of men I’ve interacted with on online dating come off as bitter and desperate and it’s a huge turn off. Who cares about those girls who care about height, they are telling you right there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:11 PM
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Newborns are extremely expensive, as is IVF that ranges between 15-30k in USA, and in all honesty if you cannot afford 15k or have that in your bank, then you’re not financially stable enough to have a kid. 15k is not even a lot of money, its the price of a shitty car or 2 designer handbags. I did some quick research and my findings were fairly consistent - a single child can cost approx. 9k to 23k a year to raise. Therefore if you cannot afford a simple 15k up front then you’re not going to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:02 PM
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Men also have this delusion too, the amount of absolutely ugly, weird, creepy and just disgusting men that hit on me and my friends is crazy. These weirdos are in our dm’s begging for a shred of attention, even bad attention (telling them to fuck off etc). I would say both genders experience the similar stuff in regards to chasing people out of their leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:45 PM
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If you cannot afford IVF or similar procedures then you cannot even afford to raise a baby. Furthermore, if a woman is so worried about fertility and having a child, then her standards should be super high as children as expensive as fuck and drain on resources. Furthermore, not everyone wants children, so if a woman ageing is your big bingo then you’re an idiot. Fertility is only important when both parties want children. Also men’s sperm declines in quality too (leading to more disabled childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:40 PM
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Everyone should have high standards. Whats the point in dating someone you’re not attracted too? I have tried to give ‘nice guys’ chances, but all those dates were awful and they were pushy and intolerable. They would get super mad at rejection too. No one wants to date ugly people, its basic as that. The reality is being an ugly straight guy sucks, whereas an ugly straight girl can still easily get laid by a desperate guy (yet he still wont want to date her or be with her further, and then thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:31 PM
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I always take responsibility for my own actions, as should every functional human being. I don’t want to enslave others, I don’t know where your pulling all this bullshit from. I’m not an elitist at all, I believe education should be free for all and same with health care. There should be more equality amongst people, regardless of religion, gender, race or socio economic status. I see a lot of value in socialist economics and I would happily pay more tax if it meant free healthcare and educatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:50 PM
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You’re completely missing the point on what I’m saying, hence why you need to educate yourself further on this topic. Human psychology and development is not rigid, there is so much external stimuli that can affect or impact one’s development. Personal development never stops, no one is too old to make personal changes and better themselves. Unfortunately there are bad actors everywhere in life and if you follow that thought patten then you may as well be just as bad as antivaxers. Andrew Wakefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:49 PM
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You sound very uneducated. I’d highly recommend reading literature on this subject; make sure the articles and papers are peer reviewed. Our brain doesn’t stop developing until we reach 25, and that very much includes personality. 12-25 are the prime years of development of personality (https://doi.org/10.1002/per.2251). I would start with looking at developmental psychology and cognitive development to broaden your understanding. Another topic you may find interesting is neuroscience, whilst it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:54 PM
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The only part your correct about is that I live a privileged life that has allowed me to go to private school, finished a university degree and pursuing higher education. I also have 0 debt and am aware of that privilege. Privilege doesn’t mean I’m blind to the inequalities and injustices around the world. I believe people should be treated equally and with respect; everyone should have the right to free health care and education. I am trying to educate you on some topics as it seems you don’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:16 PM
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https://repository.law.umich.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1274&context=mjgl https://www.businessinsider.com/women-accused-trump-sexual-misconduct-list-2017-12?amp Please educate yourself. Some of those victims were CHILDREN when the r@pe and assault took place. Trump has been positively linked with Epstein and victimised some of the same children. Quite disgusting that your invalidating the countless victims of Epstein and Trump. https://jaapl.org/content/49/1/144 https://www.vanityfair.com/n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:09 PM
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Oh boy where do I start… He was friends with Epstein and engaged in the r@pe and abuse of various minors. Over 26 women have accused him of r@pe and sexual misconduct. He denied and lied about covid, which was extremely damaging to the American population. The KKK and other white supremacists praise his actions, notably when he fought to keep confederacy monuments. If this is something you personally agree with then that says a lot about your character and values. Trump constantly pushes racism …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:43 PM
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I’m not bitter nor jealous. I date men my own age who are my equals. I don’t want a relationship with a skewed power dynamic. Furthermore I will mock anyone who is a genuinely bad person, I have a lot of criticisms towards the Kardashian family, Ghislaine Maxwell, Epstein, Trump etc. Gender doesn’t dictate my actions or opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:58 AM
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No, I’d also say the mocking was valid as these men were predatory creeps. I used to be friends with a guy who slept with a 16 year old when he was 25, he was complaining to me that people kept calling him a pedo and I told him they were right and he’s a dumbass. I don’t mock or shit on other people unless it’s valid. Like Jeff Bezoz is a piece of shit, so is Georgina Reinhart. Idc who you are, if you’re a deplorable human being then you deserve any mocking that comes your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:36 AM
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I’m of the belief that we are all equal, people just chose to be selfish instead. Older men preying on young women are the problem. It’s so typical, old immature man seeks out barely legal/young woman for her youth, and easier to manipulate. Then the young woman grows up, develops their own personality and ditches the guy who’s had 0 growth. So yes a lot of those men are absolute losers, but in saying that, every human equally has the ability to be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:09 AM
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I have a wide variety of friends, I just find people interesting and I love to hear all the tea. I just don’t personally like to get involved in drama and not much shit phases me. Furthermore my friends who were groomed were victims. I find it hard to feel sorry for those sugar daddy guys as they know what they’re getting into, these men approach my friends, none of them seek them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:58 PM
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I see it as an equal exchange. Its like an investment, the woman exchanges her youth for financial security in return. If these older men think they can get young woman without paying for it in one way or another then they are delusional. Furthermore if a guy is stupid enough to marry someone for their youth then 50% of his assets are rightfully the ex’s, as she would have done more than enough to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:14 PM
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When I was in highschool all the significantly older guys my friends dated were weird as fuck and we all mocked them behind their backs and also to our friends faces. One was a 25 year old loser working in fast food who picked up a 17 year old girlfriend, he was really unintelligent and she was also an absolute nutcase, they were constantly fighting, breaking up and getting back together, she would threaten to kill herself too. She eventually dumped his ass when she graduated as she was studying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:06 PM
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But can you differentiate between biological blondes and fake blondes. What about girls who are born blonde and dye their hair dark. If you truly believe that a persons hair colour makes them bubbly then should I assume you only target biological blondes 🤣 If you haven’t noticed already I have been mocking your misogynistic viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:03 AM
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Yet I don’t fit in to the stereotype of ‘reddit girl’, I find how people interact with each other on reddit super interesting, especially observing incel behaviours and the red flags associated as I would like to avoid them at all costs. I also am in a relationship with a successful man my age who is mega hot, he’s an amazing person, plus our interests, goals and ambitions align. I have men of all ages constantly harassing me and flooding my social media dm’s (I have a following but I don’t want…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:42 PM
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I doubt anyone would talk about using reddit on a date… And of course everyone is going to have a different experience in dating, but the general consensus among young women is that old men are gross. Kinda weird you’re fetishising women for their hair colour and stereotyping them, you must be fun at parties 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:46 PM
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Also quick note, older men who are handsome and attractive still come off as super seedy. Basically like quagmire from Family Guy. He basically represents a single attractive bachelor, yet his behavior is disgusting (i.e him counting down the days till a girl is legal). So yeah still gross af. Don’t delude yourself into thinking young girls want older men, because we DO NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:02 PM
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I would not date an older man regardless of how attractive he may be. If he’s preying on young girls its a huge turn off and repulses me. The only difference between a hot older man approaching me v.s an ugly older man is that I find it more offensive and insulting when ugly old men hit on me. If they’re attractive then I don’t feel offense but I will still feel disgust. It’s super insulting when some unfit, dad bod, balding and unattractive man approaches me, like how delusional is he to think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:59 PM
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The way you view and talk about women. You see women as objects and the way you talk about women is super demeaning. That is a clear warning sign as to the type of man you would be. You also seem to resent women who don’t fit into your dated ideals of what a woman should be. Quite frankly you behave like an incel (regardless of your marital status).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:52 PM
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I find older men repulsive and when I was 18 I viewed 30+ as middle aged and old. Especially the ones with receding hairlines and dad bods. The only time me and my friends found older dudes attractive is when they were hot movie stars like Brad Pitt and Orlando Bloom. Why waste my time with an old dude who’s trying to delude himself into thinking he’s still ‘young’ and ‘hot’ when in reality we just see you as sad men who can’t attract women their own age. Men who are only attracted to young wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:41 PM
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I pity your wife. I’m not salty, men like you genuinely terrify me. Men who think like you are likely to commit crimes against women. Your views towards women are the reason we fear for our safety. The only way I can ever see you grasping this is if you have a daughter, and then you will see how men treat her and the fear she feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:40 PM
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Buddy I don’t think you need to worry about American women wanting to date you… or just women in general. Your personality is awful and will repulse women everywhere. You may think certain women are trash but I guarantee ALL women will think you’re trash. Furthermore, only Ugly men behave and think like this, so congratulations on exposing yourself as hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:22 PM
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Kinda like how men who follow RedPill ideologies are actively avoided by women. I also would see it as a huge red flag if a guy my age had 0 experience in dating. I can appreciate it if a man has had healthy relationships in the past as its a good indicator of future behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:25 AM
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By value I mean he brings happiness to my life thus increasing its quality. I don’t care about who he’s slept with prior, that’s extremely weird to focus on. I’m with him because he’s smart, funny, we have similar morals and values, we have the same interests and tons of stuff in common, our life goals align, he also treats me with love and respect and treats me like an equal. But yeah dude thats a super weird mindset to have, people who hyper focus and judge people based on how many people they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:56 AM
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I’m very content with myself when I’m single and honestly love the feeling of being super independent. I have high standards and would rather not waste my time with someone I have to tolerate and who makes me miserable. I’m currently in a relationship and that’s because he ads value to my life and we have mutual goals, values and morals. He’s amazing. (Btw when I say ‘value’ I am not talking about financial, I mean he makes my life more enjoyable and happier) I’ve dated awful men in the past and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:52 PM
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Id say its fairly even, the old guys just stand out more cuz they’re hella creepy. Men that hit on women 10+ years older than them come off as huge creeps, the only attractive thing about them compared to younger men is the money (which is even more humiliating for the broke old men). But if you’re relying on money to get a young woman then prepare yourself for a absolute sham of a relationship. Im friends with a few girls who are sugar babies and the way they talk about the man is hilarious, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:01 AM
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The age if they are older than me. Its creepy as hell when men who are 10+ years older than me even have the audacity to hit on me. Also old men hitting on young women tells me that he’s either a man-child, abusive or unbearable hence why women his own age aren’t interested. Other that that I just perceive them as borderline pedofiles. If you’re struggling to get women I’d suggest lowering ur standards rather than targeting young girls. ALL my girlfriends who have dated older guys (both underage…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:12 PM
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Hell no, older men who hit on me absolutely disgust me and what it tells me is that no one in their own age group wants to date them, a huge red flag. Plus they’re physically unattractive to me, (Side-note: Men who were hot in their youth that are still hot when older can still be attractive to me, but I’m talking models and men who look like Henry Cavil and Chris Hemsworth). People who are ugly in their youth generally stay ugly as they age (and aging doesn’t do them any favors). The only attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:20 PM
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I offered this as a potential reason as to why people may struggle, we were raised by the previous generations who held those ideals or followed the cultural norms at the time. Those views are still pretty prevalent in other countries (i.e. India, where men are treated like kings and women as inferior). There’s a multitude of reasons why people of both genders may struggle with dating, and neither gender is entitled to any kind of relationship. Relationships should be mutually consensual and wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:06 PM
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Well if you’re a genuinely good person with strong morals and treat people with kindness and respect in addition to having a good personality you should have no problem attracting women. If your problem is lack of social skills or a mental health disorder then I would suggest seeking help via therapy or a social support group. Work on improving yourself. Alternatively, if you’re unattractive I would lower your standards (on looks, not personality) and work out. I’m being realistic, I’m not here …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:59 PM
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I subscribe to heaps of subreddits as I enjoy observing how others behave and the logic behind people’s thought patterns. I see men and women as being equal and my beliefs align with treating everyone with kindness and respect (until they give you a reason not too, i.e. if someone took a shit on your bed). My comment was more referring to trends in cultural norms and the shifts in how genders are perceived in current society. After WW2 the whole ‘nuclear family’ ideal was pushed heavily on socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:50 PM
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Thats a huge generalization, and the reason why its so prevalent now is due to perverted and disgusting men making it profitable. My friend makes over 150k+ a month from just bikini pics, not her fault that gross men decide to pay for it. Plus there’s also a huge market for men to sell sex, unfortunately for straight men the men who pay for that content are gay/bi thus deterring them. Men sexualize themselves just as much, sending a ridiculous amount of unsolicited dick pics, reducing themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:38 PM
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Men may struggle because women don’t need to rely on men for survival. Previous generations of women were treated as objects, as commodities and now that we have choice we don’t have to settle for low quality men to avoid being homeless. Access to education means women are able to be free and independent. As I said, women had to marry for survival, thus incel men were easily able to get wives if they had jobs, and men were never expected to develop good personalities and had bigger egos and supe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:36 AM
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Correct. I would never date an unattractive man, I only get turned on by hot men. Luckily all the men I date are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:54 PM
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I consider myself average but I’ve never dated nor fucked an ugly guy. I have ex’s that are models (all have been attractive). I would much rather stay single than date an ugly dude, The thought of fucking an ugly dude is repulsive to me. There’s tons of things ugly dudes can do to look better or even hot - work out, get a good haircut, tattoos, Invisalign (teeth matter!!), high level of hygiene, good sense of fashion, also minor cosmetic surgery can make all the difference if all else fails. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:24 PM
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