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Frame, mindset, abundance mentality, are all the terms for thinking straight with clear priorities. This is called the Winner's Mindset. Women want a winner thus we adopt the Winner's Mindset. A winner can form relationships by choosing from a pool of admirers. A winner has something they're good at and demonstrably so. A winner's peers come to him for advice or help. A winner has these options because he worked for them and put in effort which allowed himself to have those options in the first …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:35 PM
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It's not that some are too stupid to understand -- everyone can understand. It's a matter of what time that person is willing to understand.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 02:42 AM
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You're right if you use some random verb like 'writing'. What's your mission? Are you writing 15 minutes a day just 'cause? Do you want to write articles for a magazine or write a novel? Intensity in those cases can be measured in completion and quality. Sure, you can spend every day writing 15 minutes but you need to practice. No one cares about your witty little one-liners you're putting in "your next novel". You need to test your ability to follow-through. You need an activity that's intense …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 06:38 AM
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Are you getting laid more than him? Women not bothering you all the time isn't a negative if you actually have women in your life.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 06:36 PM
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Doesn't matter how much you think your SMV is if you don't put yourself out there. I wouldn't spend all my time texting or messaging over the internet, but if he's talking to multiple women on the daily then he's bound to find one that'll take his dick. the guy is ripped What woman doesn't want the local alpha? Especially having a baby with him.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:51 PM
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This is the corollary to TRP's gym mindset. Going to the gym is good but the gym is also for training -- training for powerlifting, for rowing, for football, for power or endurance. Going to the gym to get into shape is one thing but once most people get into shape (which is different than being fit) they falter at the gym. This is because they've achieved their goal. This is why I think that joining a sport's team is better advice. It gives you a reason to be at the gym, it gives you a place to…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:05 PM
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Why are you lambasting people over having constructive, albeit done before, discussions when your thread is the equivalent of being a quote salesman?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:55 PM
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I don't remember where I first saw this little piece of advice I'm about to dole out, but it's done wonders for my relationships (in general, not just women): Judgment is a feminine quality and building is a masculine quality. Don't tear down and judge people in your life and instead build them up. Not only will following the advice help your social life tremendously, ridding yourself of the burden of judgment will free your psyche. Judgment and discrimination are, of course, good tools for any …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:54 PM
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This is generally true for waitresses who are paid to come to your table and be nice and laugh at your shitty jokes about how the meal must be free. Otherwise you're just making up excuses not to talk to women.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:31 PM
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A woman will take you on adventures if they trust you. Sometimes you get to meet her friends and her friends already know how well you fuck her. This kind of pre-selection is ace. Just getting into the carefree mindset that a woman can have and understanding it was almost as big as a mindfuck as doing psychedelics. But it requires little judgment from you and for you to not logic it all out. Of course, being a man, you can't live in this state but its a nice relief every now and again to hang wi…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 08:14 PM
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Nah dude, you've got it wrong. You don't have to treat a woman like you don't give a fuck about her. You have to treat her like you've got options and that she isn't the center of your life (preferably this happens automatically because its actually true). Coincidentally, not giving a fuck about her will accomplish both of those tasks, but then you won't get to experience the positives that women have either.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 05:59 PM
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You can be dominant while doing more than "power fucking." In fact, you don't even need to take it slow, you just need to introduce different kinds of stimulation like hot breath, talking, biting & scratching, and skin to skin. The best dominance I've experienced in bed is where your strength is implied and you are commanding her. Instead of also just jumping head first into sex by just taking her and fucking her, you can flip it and make her seem like she's the one who wants it. She got dolled …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 05:19 PM
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you have oneitis for a girl you've never met. talk to girls irl. grow some balls, ask one out. be confident, go for the kiss. this is all you need at your age if you're a decent looking 17 y/o as you say.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:27 AM
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You missed the point. This was about the picturesque relationship. Those relationships take work and effort to maintain throughout. It also requires abundance before the relationship to even be able to filter out enough women to find one that is compatible with your way of leading. Anyway, being alpha isn't about being perfect. No one is perfect. Being alpha is about not being beta.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 03:45 PM
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There are strong relationships out there. But they are built on top of a strong man. TRP is primarily focused on single men and interactions with women. There is a saying that an LTR is TRP on hardmode. The reason for that is because when I'm with a woman then I have to be strong for several hours, tops. When you are married, you have to be strong 24/7/365 and you lose or dampen some of your woman-management abilities like dread. This is repeated often but I will repeat it again for you: AWALT d…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 12:01 AM
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are you doing anything for this woman? have you done anything other than "told her a couple equations"? if yes, she's manipulating you. if no, she's interested and wants you to make a move.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 05:24 PM
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When I started seeing myself as big is when everyone saw me as big.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 02:49 PM
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imo, "you're intimidating, I'm uncomfortable, I'm not used to this", is woman speak for "i've never gotten the tingles in this situation, you are mysterious and handsome and I don't know what to do so please show me." I would've gotten her number at least. You should've set up a date to talk more about those subjects you didn't want to dive into at the time.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:40 PM
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Strong eye contact doesn't mean relentlessly staring someone down.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:26 PM
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There's no hard rules. You just want to keep yourself less invested in her because if she gets event the slightest hint that you waited months for her so she can 'be my gf' then she will run. Avoid 'hey whats up' and other needy bullshit. Send her pictures of interesting shit you're doing and she probably will too.
/r/seduction26/04/17 12:23 PM
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Meet other women while she's away. Text her sporadically to keep her interested. Do not become her texting buddy.
/r/seduction26/04/17 12:20 PM
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Strong eye contact implies strong confidence. Even if you're not attracted to a particular woman you still want her to say something positive to her girlfriends about you.
/r/seduction26/04/17 11:48 AM
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Positive affirmation is good, especially to those undergoing positive change. It says, "You're going the right direction." What would be bad is setting your self worth based on external validation.
/r/seduction24/04/17 06:58 PM
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My mindset on leading was like yours when I was in an LTR. I do a lot at my job and I just want to come home and chill. I thought I would be happy if I just let her choose what to watch, what we should eat, and then I would fuck her (hey at least I got that part right). This is what I thought I wanted and how I lived my life for so long. It wasn't until I really powered through what it meant to lead that I started seriously enjoying my life. I really enjoy my social circle now and its one I crea…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:12 PM
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She's probably not going to let you know. Next week when you have some free time in the evening, go out. Invite her to go with you, but still go out regardless. My advice: start building an interesting social life by going out to things you can invite people to.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:01 PM
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I would invite her out one more time but during the week. I wouldn't expect anything to come from it.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:54 PM
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It might've been your choice of Friday or Saturday night. First off, women are going to be busy with their friends or guys on those nights. Secondly, having those nights off -- you communicated specifically BOTH nights free for her -- indicates you have no social life and thus low status because both Friday and Saturday nights are social nights. You did the correct move by moving on to another woman. But adapt your logistics. Best way I've gotten newer women to hang out with me Friday or Saturda…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:47 PM
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When you're talking all sexy to her during sex say something like "oh god it'd be hot if you were all tied up and couldn't move when I do this" while doing something to her. Then after sex mention it casually again. Don't bring up fantasy stuff outside of the bedroom. Only bring it up in the bedroom when she's in her sex mindset.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:34 PM
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In my experience: no. When I drain myself like that I feel honestly no desire to escalate and, while I can get an erection later, getting an erection later requires a lot more focus. In short, jacking off before going out removes my sexual energy from the encounter.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:57 PM
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sounds like you're getting attached to the first woman who is actually interested in you. speaking from my experience, this is the surest way to make women uninterested
/r/seduction14/04/17 06:40 PM
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not everyone you talk to will be interested so just move on to someone who is
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:32 PM
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negging, teasing, or whatever else aren't about insulting people you just met. it's not hard to understand that people aren't receptive to being insulted within seconds of talking to you.
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:48 PM
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Even interactions where I don't get a number are smooth. From the way you typed everything up, it seems like something is wrong and the women are extremely jarred in a negative way. I've been turned down but I have never had women treat me the way it seemed women treated you. My approaches are typically more passive-based though. For instance I would go to the park, sit on a bench, read Hagakure (and actually read it), and smile at the women who walked by when I'm taking a mental break. I would …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:16 PM
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nah, sometimes you just gotta take advice from zyzz and stop being a sad cunt
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:16 PM
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Ice_Poseidon is actually a great example of how some nerd who plays Runescape can actually pick up women. He does it all the time, too. Just remember to log off and actually go meet women instead of doing Zulrah.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:19 PM
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Of course most want to be jacked, fuck hotties, make millions but only few can endure the hard work required to get there. They have their reason (usually experiencing lack of something in childhood). I do not. Then be the guy that masturbates, eats alone, plays games, and lives on welfare and stop shitting up this board with questions you already know the answer to.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:23 PM
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Next time get coffee and talk for a bit and then go on a walk with her.
/r/seduction08/04/17 10:24 PM
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Is there any way to increase the chance of the women wanting to meet up again? 1000 approaches for 2 lays seems really bad. I still cold approach but only on women who give me a reason to approach. For example, if I'm eyeing some girl and she catches my eyes and smiles then I will talk to her.
/r/seduction08/04/17 10:03 PM
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I lifted for a year and saw great gains before I started eating about 180g protein per day while also getting enough fat and carbs. I started completely destroying my PRs every time I attempted for the next 8 months. It was absolutely ridiculous. Proper nutrition is the cornerstone of lifting but it's not something people readily believe. It's probably the same with sleep and lifting, too.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 03:56 PM
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The surest way to never have sex is to never be sexual with women.
/r/seduction07/04/17 09:14 PM
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I have a mantra that I repeat to myself often. Progress every day. Notice that it doesn't quantify progress. I don't complete projects everyday nor do I simply think about them. Make an effort to make meaningful progress every single day no matter how small. Remember that these small additions add up to something great over time but they were easy to do because you have a habit of making progress every day.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:17 PM
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Most men are absolutely terrified of being rejected. If you're being sexual with a woman then you're risking being rejected.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:33 PM
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This is clearly a case of sexual pedestalization. Best self-improvement to be done is to take the social risk of being sexual. This lays the groundwork of risk-taking later in life.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:43 PM
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A horny girl took off her pants and then you fucked. Quality report.
/r/seduction06/04/17 05:30 PM
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get some rubbers, stop making sex out to be something it isn't, and quit lying to yourself kid
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:03 PM
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I've been where you've been. You think you don't want sex probably because you haven't had extended contact with women. You're yearning for a woman's caress and her lips. And you achieve that by getting sexual with a woman.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:40 PM
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you're not going to "infiltrate" a group and then become the alpha leader like some sort of social assassin. you just have to work on being social and this means doing things you're uncomfortable with. like talking to people and going out alone and being the new guy
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:20 PM
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TRP is a sexual strategy. The only way for you to enjoy "really wild people" is to have experience sexually. Quit lying to yourself about your sexual needs and wants.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:16 PM
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go learn to escalate with a new girl who doesn't have fucked up issues like cutting herself
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:08 PM
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invite her out with a time/place. if she doesn't text you then she isn't interested. i've gotten plenty of numbers that didn't go anywhere, just part of the game.
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:12 PM
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so many fucking excuses. never going to make it
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:50 PM
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An effort to be more social with men and women.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:50 PM
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Are you lying to yourself because you are scared to put in the effort?
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:01 PM
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/r/leaves
/r/askTRP03/04/17 07:41 PM
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Man what the fuck is with this sub and youtube videos?
/r/seduction03/04/17 03:53 PM
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"I don't appreciate my time being wasted." says the guy that waited two hours.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:47 PM
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lmao fuck off
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:28 PM
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Dread is where she knows how easily you can get other women because you demonstrate it in front of her somehow. She's inadvertently using dread on you by going to this festival. You simply went radio-silent on her and made her feel bad.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 05:36 PM
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You don't have to bring an entourage with you to make friends. People are accommodating of "the new guy." But that means you must actually be the new guy and push yourself out of the comfort zone by doing something with people you don't know. If you can't strike up conversation with random guys to find commonalities then you will fail even harder when it comes to picking up women.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:45 PM
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In my opinion, it doesn't seem like she's looking for the typical beta dinner date/movie bullshit. Invite her to your place for something you're both interested in and drinks. If she doesn't wanna come then actually ghost her and not "ghost her a bit" like you keep doing.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:02 PM
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She's not special. She's not a unicorn. You can't be a 100% alpha dog when LTRing a woman because she needs comfort that you're not going after other bitches. This is how women operate. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 01:42 PM
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Going out with the intent to make enemies won't do yourself favors. Instead learn to be comfortable with your true self and know that some people will naturally hate you. Too many men are sycophants who are afraid of rejection (even from males via friendship) that they won't do masculine behavior such as calling people out for their bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:22 PM
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Just write 3-4 sentences about cool things you do. Make sure to include things that she can comment on. Ladies usually never have to initiate (and actually don't need to) so making it harder doesn't do yourself any favors. Sample profile: "I love to go rock climbing & hiking on the weekends. When it rains I play on my guitar instead. I love great beer, let's grab drinks."
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:26 PM
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How do you know its her boyfriend if you've never talked to her?
/r/askTRP23/03/17 05:21 PM
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how about giving them something to craft a message from in your profile instead
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:11 PM
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You need to learn how to have a conversation. I suggest you take women out of the picture for a bit. Get in the habit of going to your local pub for happy hour and talking with the guys there. I get the feeling you'd be extremely nervous doing this and that's the reason why you need to do it. Once you learn how to carry a conversation with random people then you will be able to plug in all the cool shit you do (but never all at once). The key to being less boring is for people just to find out s…
/r/seduction22/03/17 03:51 PM
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I meet 18-20 year olds who consistently meetup with me after very little texting. This is because impressing someone in person is worth more than impressing them over words.
/r/seduction22/03/17 01:41 PM
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Getting muscle provides a kind of meta self-improvement where you know you're looking good because you can see the physical embodiment of "looking good" in your muscles. The confidence you gain from knowing you look good is probably worth more than the muscles themselves.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 10:43 PM
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I'm average height but I am wide. I have a large chest and broad shoulders. You make your words valuable through scarcity, you don't talk often so when you do people listen. This is the core of what I was saying. Abundance mentality applies to friends as well -- the Alpha can be the center of attention, loud and talkative, but he doesn't need to be. I've seen too many talkative chumps blather their way out of a woman's pants when they thought they were being cool.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:55 PM
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Something I've noticed about myself is my uncanny ability to be heard. It's something I realized one day when I was out with friends and I had an epiphany in the middle of speaking. I normally don't talk too much in groups and usually only talk to one or two people at a time. But every so often the group is going along and I want to chime in with a quip or short story. When I start talking everyone else stops talking and looks at me. It's probably happened many times in my life but I only just n…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 08:00 PM
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