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Lmao if you’re so “above average looking” than why is it so hard for you to find someone. I see ugly men with women partners cuter than them all the time. Surely it can’t be your rotten personality!
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 08:00 PM
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My bf knows (we know each other’s Reddit account), but it’s definitely not something I would advertise to anyone else. PPD is like my guilty pleasure and way to blow off steam from stress. However, I am upfront about my feminist values with my partner, friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:48 AM
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In your post you said that towards those women, men “have every right to not be honest with you”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:53 AM
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That’s such gross behavior. A decent healthy person would find a woman “fake” in heavy makeup and then just not want to date her. You’re saying that you would still want to date, you’ll just lie to her and be deceitful instead. You really need to think about how fucked that is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:47 AM
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But being “fake” about your looks with makeup or plastic surgery is not the same as being dishonest to your partner. Being dishonest to your partner is lying and deceiving your partner with your WORDS and ACTIONS towards them. Makeup and plastic surgery would only be dishonest if you lied about having it. You could easily just not date a woman who wears makeup (that would likely filter out all the plastic surgery women too). I bet the truth is that you actually don’t care. You’re just pretending…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:37 AM
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Sure and it has nothing to do with the fact that it’s not aesthetically pleasing to you. Men also like women with nice faces, something that women are born with. That’s still not shallow? All physical preferences are shallow if you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:56 PM
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A lot of women?? Like a tiny percent of women. There’s always a small percent of people who are bad people, but most people aren’t so malicious and calculating. Just like there’s a small chance that when women go home with a new man that they’re dating, that that man might rape them. It absolutely happens, but you wouldn’t find it fair for me to say that most men would do this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:58 PM
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Yeah that’s how social interactions work lol. Is everyone here socially illiterate?? Even for non-dating, if you’re at party or work/school, would you continue to talk to someone who doesn’t seem that interested or is distracted? No you wouldn’t. Does that also mean you should never initiative conversation again? The answer is also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:39 PM
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As usual, these are just OPs opinions based on biased generalizations. There’s literally nothing to back it up. The only one I could kinda see is the cheapness one because it is true a lot of women expect men to pay. However, that’s less because of “cheapness” and more because men paying was the cultural norm until recently. All the other ones, I could use those same type of biased gender generalizations to argue that actually those traits are more in men. For example: Entitlement: Men thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:33 PM
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Yes, but that hopefully happens after decades of being together and at that point you’ve had so much history together and love for each other, growing old fat and tired isn’t a big deal. Couples who were passionately in love from the beginning are far more likely to have that If you’re with someone you’re madly and passionately in love with from the beginning, it’s so much easier to get
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:27 AM
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Cool story; women still don’t want to fuck you sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:17 AM
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Yeah OP has such an unhinged perspective wtf at that point just be single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:44 AM
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Ew men like that are gross though - no matter how attractive their face/body are. In college they got a pass since we’re all maturing at that age. But since college, none of my friends or me go for guys like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:46 AM
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LOL you’re so dumb. Literally the source of the article you sent me clearly says that they didn’t find significant difference between men and women. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/journal-of-relationships-research/article/breakup-likelihood-following-hypothetical-sexual-or-emotional-infidelity-perceived-threat-blame-and-forgiveness/AE402B54CC6987C48BC2052706602FEE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:48 AM
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That’s such an assumption to make. Do you have any evidence to back that up? From what I know women and men I personally know would dislike both equally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:32 AM
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You have to have some common sense and critical thinking to pass the bar. Seems like OP has none
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:56 AM
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Lolol what garbage. Is this what you tell yourself to justify cheating? Also I’m shocked that someone sitting for the LSAT can be so stupid to attempt to argue this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:43 AM
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Also likening criminals to promiscuous daughters lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:53 PM
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It doesn’t matter how “attractive” someone is, if a man did those things I described above, I would find it creepy. Creepy is based on behavior. The fact that you refuse to admit that simply suggests that you often get labeled creepy for your behavior. But instead of owning up to it and changing, you’d rather just put the blame on not being hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:57 PM
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What type of compliment? Going up to a woman and yelling nice ass? Going up to her and saying “you’re so pretty” but then getting butthurt when she doesn’t want to continue to engage with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:18 PM
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Just the way you talk gives me the ick. Theres a difference between confidence and being a creepy asshole. Someone who is confident and “doesn’t give a shit” wouldn’t waste their time writing this weird rant. Only creepy assholes behave this way and these are the men women avoid with a ten-foot poll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:38 PM
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I’m really sure it’s not as bad as you think. Maybe you need to just find the right clothes and hairstyle to match your look. If you have skin issues, go to a dermatologist. I feel like no matter what your actual face is, if you’re fit, have nice hair and skin then it can’t be that bad. And if it really is, then honestly surgery is an option. You talked about poor dentofacial growth. Do you have any chewing or jaw problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:15 AM
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So much misinformation on this post. Just a bunch of lies advertised as “analysis” with a link that doesn’t even supports his creepy rant. It’s almost like OPs trying to blame Talibans takeover on women and justify the Talibans treatment of women. Absolutely disgusting and unhinged. Seriously OP get help
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:29 AM
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I think it’s perfectly fine to be an introvert (I am too), but I find it a huge red flag if he’s doesn’t have any friends and isn’t close to his family. He also needs to have decent social skills (good manners, social awareness, considerate, can hold a conversation well with strangers/acquaintances). It’s not about the “influence”, it’s about being able to form healthy relationships and function in society. In terms of the people he’s close to, I only expect them to be decent people. I couldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:20 AM

Yeah I don’t think I am either, but they threaten women with it as if women care when in the truth we really couldn’t care less whether men “contribute” or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:08 AM
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Exactly. It’s equally wrong in both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:47 PM

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10bbphi/young_men_provide_in_peace_their_labor_to_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Hmm astronomically small subset of men? That entire thread are manchildren threatening to “not contribute to society” if they can’t get laid. And honestly I fully support them to leave society because they hurt society anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:11 PM

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10bbphi/young_men_provide_in_peace_their_labor_to_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This entire thread is manchildren threatening not to contribute to society if they can’t get laid. And btw, I couldn’t get less if they want to self-sabotage and be broke for life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:08 PM

According to this subreddit yes. Like when does this subreddit talk about a women’s personality and companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:01 PM
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I haven’t asked a guy out first before lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:29 PM

Except for the fact that the incel group is so much larger than the other group and also so much more likely to threaten (and commit!) violence when they don’t get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:28 PM
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If they were the one to ask me out, personally I like it because in my experience the guys who didn’t offer to pay turned out to be not that great or not for me (they were cheap in general, weren’t that into me, or turned out to be not very nice people). I always offer to split the bill, but if a guy accepts that offer, it would turn me off a lot. Also I would never go on a date with someone I wasn’t interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:55 PM
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Although you’re feelings are valid, it’s creepy af that you’re so obsessed with fucking a teenager just because you never got to when you were younger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:36 AM
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Always ironic when an unhinged man talks about what he finds a “red flag” in woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:04 PM
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Lmao what garbage. I know OP wishes otherwise, but women are not two-dimensional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:26 PM
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Yes he is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:48 AM
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Yeah I’ve seen several great women throughout my life with loser asshole men way below their league so idk what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:26 PM
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OP doesn’t care. All that matters is that the men are having sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:22 PM
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Dude maybe these women haven’t found someone they want to be long-term with (there’s more to relationships than attraction and sex), but they found someone they want to have sex with. Men do this all the time no questions asked, idk why it’s so surprising women do this too. Women are a different sex, not a different species lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:33 PM
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Lol it’s like that scene from pulp fiction finding someone who you can be comfortably silent with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:41 AM
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No but women very comfortable expressing their sexuality and enjoy casual sex are far more likely to have a high sex drive than the average woman. Like it’s literally common sense. If a woman loves acting sexual and is sexual with many men, then logically she has a high sex drive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:57 PM
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I have nothing against shorter men and I certainly don’t frown upon them. I just personally love the feeling when my bf is taller than me because he feels big when he hugs and cuddles me. And I’m already a little tall myself and I’d like my guy to be at least as tall as me when I’m wearing heels so I feel like that puts the guys around at least 5’9/5’10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:10 PM
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Honestly being a good person is the most important thing to me. Not just kind to the people he cares about, but also kind to strangers, animals and cares about the world in general. I want us to have amazing sexual chemistry, but also be best friends. I also value education, ambition, curiosity, adventurous, confidence and responsibility. For looks, he really doesn’t have to be a model, but at least average looks, above average height (like >5’10), and obviously takes care of himself (works out,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:54 PM
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“Nice guys” or actual nice guys? Because the actually nice guys I know are in happy relationships with attractive, smart and kind women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:33 PM
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This comment answers the question. Men who say shit like this make it obvious they don’t “get” women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:17 PM
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Not true at all. I’ve seen plenty of non-assertive and nice guys with lots of girlfriends throughout my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:16 PM
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There’s no point. You’re a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:11 AM
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Your views on women are so far detached from reality, it’s honestly sad. If you think these things, it’s best that you just stay far away from us
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:59 PM
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Lol how many women do you think do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:18 PM
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Lmao just admit you’re a lazy fuck and want a bangmaid not a partner. Not like you’d be getting either with your attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:23 AM
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If you find it so important, then you should be the one to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:20 AM
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That man is disgusting. Is that really who you want to be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:44 AM
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Lol as if those women would give you the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:42 PM
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I would consider being a cop a deal breaker personally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:39 PM
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Yep motherhood is part of women sexuality. Like that’s literally all you care about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:27 PM
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All these examples have to do with women sexuality, which further proves a lot of women’s point here that you don’t see women beyond being a sexual object who should behave in what way you deem to be appropriate. You haven’t talked about intellect, kindness, maturity, curiosity, hobbies, values outside sex and motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:56 PM
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That’s fine and totally normal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:35 AM
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It really doesn’t. Nice genuine good guys can absolutely be amazing in bed, and also can be super rough and dominant in bed too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:14 AM
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No it means someone who wants to date someone with money so they can be fully supported financially. Wanting to have similar income and thus being able to split finances evenly is not being a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:50 PM
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No I understand perfectly. I just don’t agree. Also it seems like you think picky women give a fuck. Is that your revenge fantasy or something? I couldn’t care less who men are with as long as it’s consensual and age-appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:26 PM
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Wtf, absolutely not. People didn’t chose to be born into this world and they have no obligation to keep bringing people into this world. It doesn’t matter if society risks economic collapse. It’s no ones duty to be forced to have kids they do not want. And I support immigrants so I’m not sure why you’re acting like using immigration to replace population loss is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:15 PM
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What’s your point? Jobs in healthcare, social work and education have just as much value as jobs in male majority fields like construction, engineering and there are more women in male-dominated fields every day. People do not have a duty to society to get married and have children. That’s some backwards and outdated attitudes. And women definitely don’t have more of a duty to do that than men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:57 AM
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Most women work now so they are fulfilling both roles, meanwhile men are not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:44 AM
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He’s not really a leftist lmao he thinks by cosplaying as one his shit post is somehow more credible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:57 PM
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It stops me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:50 PM
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Wtf most women would never do sex work. It doesn’t make a difference who the asks her, the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:33 AM
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It doesn’t help that they count handjobs and fingering as sex also but yeah still doesn’t explain the huge difference from other states
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:52 AM
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Yeah that’s really shocking I wonder what’s so different about Washington?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:50 AM
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All the more reason for women to wait to have sex just to weed out men like you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:11 PM
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Ew, good riddance then. Literally no woman would want to be with a man who thinks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:28 PM
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Yeah I’ve chosen a really stressful and challenging career path and there are times I moments it (like why didn’t I do an easy job in tech that could have been similar pay but much easier) but overall it’s really rewarding and meaningful to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:08 PM
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I’m sure there are women who don’t care about ambition (not me personally I care a lot lol), but in those cases most women would still like you to have interests/hobbies outside your career and be a responsible adult (be able to take care of your self, be financially independent, clean, cook for yourself, make appointments, be relatively in shape etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:03 PM
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Yep like wtf if someone had a ons once, now they’re suddenly expected to fuck everyone on the first date?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:56 PM
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Because by communicating you can find out what’s wrong and fix it. I’m assuming at one point the gf was attracted to her bf, so even if she’s not anymore, there’s the potential for her to be. More likely though, he’s gotten lazy in bed or something. Either way, by communicating you learn what’s wrong and can make steps together to fix it. Like dude it’s not rocket science. If you can’t communicate with your ldr just be single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:36 PM
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Lol if you think sex is just thrusting then clearly you’re bad at sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:30 PM
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That’s so gross you would rather date a 21 year old at 31, then a woman your own age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:30 AM
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Yeah it’s so off putting. I met my bf on hinge and he’s 3 years older than me, but I found out I was on the lower end of his dating range. I think he said he did like 4+- his age. If I found out he would had been open to dating women 10 years younger that would have been a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:27 AM
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I’m in my 20s and if I was single and dating a 35 year old who I found out filtered out women over 30+, I would break up. I find it really off putting when guys refuse to date women their own age. Be sure to tell women the truth are so they know who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:25 AM
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Sometimes the case for someone overweight but not someone obese (like I bet only like 1% of obese men are obese because they’re such big athletes) and like I said over 40% young men (age 20-39) are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:34 PM
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Idk I live in a big city and when I walk outside on the streets I usually see couples with overall similar sizes. Most adults are in relationships and date and also most adults are also either obese or overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:28 PM
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Lmao that’s hilarious and so typical for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:59 PM
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They often date obese men. These posts and comments are honestly super frustrating because I only see this shade towards obese women. You all act like obese men don’t exist when in fact there are slightly more obese young men than young women. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db360.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:46 PM
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It’s equally shitty for both genders. If I had so that when I was online dating, it would have been an automatic left swipe no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:39 AM
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My boyfriend literally knows everything about me and my past. He’s my best friend and we don’t keep secrets Lol and yeah basically you just admitted to hiding your true self to your wife because you know she’ll hate what she finds if she finds out the truth. What a great marriage lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:42 PM
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Show your wife this post if you’re so happy. People in genuinely happy marriages don’t have to hide their true personality and moral values. I guarantee you won’t though because any normal woman would be horrified and disgusted if she found out her partner thought like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:14 PM
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He sounds like a psychopath like holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:10 PM
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It’s not a thing for any girl I know, myself included. Like I have no interest in dating someone im not sexually attractive too, like I would much rather be single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:47 AM
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No dude it’s about the poor women being exploited by old pervy men. The man is providing for her on the condition that she gives sex and has no power in the relationship - that’s why he seeks out these types of women. It’s predatory and gross. If these men were marrying beautiful foreign women who were already financially secure and had equal power in the relationship, then I’ll be happy for them! But that’s not whats going on. If you can’t see that then I guess it’s because you’re like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:44 PM
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For those traditional women who behave that way because it’s their culture, they unsurprisingly marry within their culture. They don’t marry some gross old man from another country with a completely different culture lmao The ones that marry those gross old Western men are the ones who are in desperate situations and so they tolerate those men and marry for economic or political safety. Those men are predatory and gross because they know this and take advantage of that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:31 PM
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I just threw up in my mouth a little bit If you’re disgusting to hot “low n count” women here, you will be just as disgusting to hot “low n count” women in foreign countries. The only women who would be okay with you are those who are in such poor and desperate circumstances they feel like they don’t have any better options to have a decent life (aka will tolerate you, if it gives them economic stability in America) So essentially what you’re saying is that you like to go to developing countries…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:38 PM
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I just threw up in my mouth a little bit If you’re disgusting to hot “low n count” women here, you will be just as disgusting to hot “low n count” women in foreign countries. The only women who would be okay with you are those who are in such poor and desperate circumstances they feel like they don’t have any better options So essentially what you’re saying is that you like to go to developing countries so you can take advantage of desperate virgin women who are much younger than you. It’s just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:37 PM
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It feels creepy and exploitative that they seek out vulnerable and much younger women from developing countries who will be the submissive and virgin woman these men want them to be because these women are trying to get to America and have a better life. Like how can someone not find it icky
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:28 PM
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Yeah typically young hot women don’t like old creepy fucks like you. What’s your point? Like you think it’s acceptable that 40 yrs old men don’t want women their own age, but you get butthurt when 20 year old woman doesn’t want a middle aged man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:10 AM
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I haven’t seen women going on self-pitying tangents about how attractive men don’t want them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:07 AM
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Are you also tender and humble? Or are you aggressive and competitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:42 PM
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Dude that doesn’t mean you can say bullshit with a good tone and women believe it (what you argued in your post) lmao. Besides those are your opinions, those aren’t facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:49 PM
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That’s a normal reaction. Men also have to be ok with women wanting to leave the friendship after that (maybe she doesnt feel comfortable one side has feelings, maybe she has a partner). Still, most men are normal, but because there’s a lot of men not, it’s become a trope. That’s what “nice guy” means. It’s even more common with male acquaintances and sometimes even coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:21 PM
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Dude not every scientific question has been studied. There are literally no studied been done supporting or against these arguments so there’s nothing to share. However, the study you shared has nothing to do with your argument. The study you shared just says women are more like to follow their instincts. So please explain the mental gymnastics you did to go from “women more like follow instincts” to “women don’t believe what they say” and “women listen to me based on what I say rather than how …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:16 PM
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I think he can but if he expressed his feelings or changes his behavior because of it and the women’s not down, then he has to accept it. Either the my go back to friends or maybe to remove himself from her life (up to him), but that doesn’t mean he can have a meltdown and be abusive to her because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:02 PM
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Um I don’t think it’s really accurate to compare behaviors of adult women to 12 year children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:57 PM
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I mean literally dozens of people post screenshot of these crazy men who have meltdowns when rejected every day. Most women have experienced it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:55 PM
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Wow… that’s a lot to unpack here. I think this is a you problem and I agree your partner is too much if this is what’s going on. In this case I think investing in a biweekly (even weekly) housekeeper might be best and then having a real conversation about what both your expectations for chores. Healthy couples should not and do not have this problem. Also it’s unfair to assume the husband is always making “twice as much” just because you are. OP for example is making slightly more than her partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:52 PM
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What do “whores have to do with this” lol like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:59 PM
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We’re saying this because we’re trying to fix your shitty and ridiculous analogy of comparing it to “eating in order to see whether you’re hungry”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:58 PM
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LOL what? Your response doesn’t make sense. It’s literally nonsense. I literally just said that those are my red flags and would leave, and that my partner and I need to communicate. What does “whores” have to do with any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:41 PM
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Typically being go on online advice forums to talk about their troubles, not to talk about what’s going great lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:58 AM
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Yeah a guy who can’t listen to their partner because that makes him “feminine” is a manchild and that’s a deal breaker. Both partners need to communicate well and at times that means listening. Like Jesus, how hard is it to act like an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:50 AM
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Yep that would be a deal breaker for me. I only date guys who are clean and take care of themselves and are responsible. We will both be working full time so I expect responsibilities to be split without nagging. Warning ladies, if these things aren’t great before marriage, it will only get a lot worse after marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:48 AM
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LOL tell me you’ve never had sex without telling me you’ve never had sex. Also LOL at “pathological” Sexual compatibility is not the same as sexual attraction. It has nothing to do with “seeing their face, seeing them laugh and watching them move in everyday life”. Sexual compatibility is seeing if you have compatible sexual behaviors. While some of it can be discussed beforehand (by discussing kinks, sexual boundaries, libido), a lot of it cannot be figured out until you actually start having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:37 AM
2

So basically this is just your opinion, you have no actual objective reason. But you should know, while you’re entitled to your opinion - this opinion (and the hypocrisy of your views) are disgusting to all women including those who don’t engage in casual sex. I just hope that you have the courage to be as upfront about your views in real life as on the internet so women know to stay clear of you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:34 PM
2

Why does casual sex “disvalue” someone as a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:02 PM
2

Yep my boyfriend thinks I’m dumb as fuck wasting my time on this subreddit but he doesn’t really care either way. Lol honestly I agree with him but I think I do it to escape stress from school
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:40 AM
-1

Because I called you out on your lack of high school anatomy knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:44 PM
5

Wow if you think the only way women improve in life is through domestic work and finance then you have a incredibly superficial and backwards view of women and also have a complete lack of self-awareness. I value a partner who is constantly looking to improve themselves and gain skills in all aspects of their life. The fact that you don’t think that’s something your partner can do, makes it clear that’s something you would never consider for yourself either. A 30 year old man having the maturity…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:17 PM
-2

Lmao please don’t tell me you actually think the shapes of penises mold a woman’s vagina. This is peak r/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:11 PM
2

Looks like you’re lovely ex with a N count of 1 is all “run through” because she dated you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:08 PM
2

Lmao I’m sure you have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:22 PM
11

OP I don’t think you realize how repulsive your thought process is to at least 90% of women. Those remaining 10% are women who have those same thoughts about men who have casual sex. So do what you want, but don’t expect for very few women to be ok with your view point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:15 PM
2

Absolutely. I think the most important thing for a women is to have financial security independent from her partner. Luckily I’m pursuing a career I love (medicine), but even if I wasn’t I would always want to work regardless of my partners job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:03 AM
16

I would think it filters most people out, but clearly it’s not filtering you out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:51 AM
9

Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:07 AM
2

You still haven’t told me what specific genes make women more “caring and loving kids” and “men protective and providers”. You’ve just described some small anatomy differences in men and women and extrapolated that make some ridiculous claims not backed by science. Linking some sexist arsehole talking to a conservative shitarse is not published literature. Please post some scientific published literature. I’m waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:07 PM
4

Dude that’s not genes. Using slight differences in brain anatomy to argue “genetic” difference isn’t science, it’s bullshit. Genes are bits of DNA that make proteins. They’re not some fictional explanations based on some brain MRI differences between sexes Show me some genes from published scientific literature that prove what you’re saying, not some stupid YouTube vlog
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:09 PM
2

Lmao generic programming Please tell me what genes makes women to be “caring loving and having kids” and what genes make men “protective and providers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:07 PM
1

Actually up to 2/3 Americans have hsv1 (usually oral cold sores but can cause genital sores) and most Americans will get HPV (but vast majority will clear HPV within 2 years). Although common, most people do not get other STDs like chlamydia, gonorrhea, hsv2 (genital herpes), and people rarely get hiv
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:09 PM
3

Lol yeah repulsive is such an extreme word lmao. I’m personally not really attracted to him, but to say he’s repulsive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:57 PM
17

You say modern feminism is “absolving women of accountability and responsibility” but then you say feminity is “differing responsibility of protection and provider to the man” and gives the man the responsibility “to make difficult decisions”. It seems that you just want women to have the selective responsibilities that are convenient to you, such as domestic and sexual services, but don’t want women to have any agency in their life choices, careers or relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:48 PM
7

If you’re so attractive then you simply have to be normal…like it’s really not that hard. It sounds like you’re coming off either really aggressive or passive and awkward. Just be normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:39 PM
8

My first long-term ex-boyfriend is actually one of my closest friends. We met each other as friends, we ended the relationship as friends and we’re in the same friend group so it’s impossible to avoid each other anyway. He’s now in a long-term relationship and I’m actually friends with his partner. Despite that, I know most guys wouldn’t be okay with it so I straight up tell them that in the third date. But actually so far my exes since him and my current long-term partner have all been ok with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:09 PM
2

As in their partner is the only person they are supposed to have sex with. The definition is not that they MUST be having sex with each other; it’s that if they have sex, then it is with each other and no one else. Are couples who are waiting until marriage to have sex not monogamous? Are asexual couples not monogamous? The mental gymnastic you’re doing to justify cheating is astounding Also why are you applying the definition of monogamy for birds to humans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:17 PM
3

No that’s incorrect. The definition of monogamy is being in a romantic relationship with one person at a time. It is not defined by having intercourse lmao. There are people in monogamous relationships who don’t have sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:00 PM
2

A monogamous relationship is surprise surprise defined by being monogamous, not by having sex. And so if you’re in a monogamous relationship being monogamous is prioritized over having sex. If one partner disagrees or is sexually unsatisfied, well that’s what communication is for. I would hope that if two people were in a long-term relationship/married, they would be sexually compatible, although I recognize that sometimes things can change after a few years where one person now wants sex a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:44 PM
5

Because the expectation for monogamy in a relationship does not change unless talked about explicitly. If someone isn’t satisfied sexually in a relationship that’s a very valid and reasonable thing being up and discuss with your partner. And both parties should come to a mutual agreement: more sex, do nothing and see what happens, open relationship or separate. Going behind your partners back is not the answer. If you so badly want to fuck other people, tell your partner - either they say yes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:31 PM
5

The alternatives are that you both agree to an open relationship or you separate. Going behind your partners back to fuck someone else is the ultimate betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:12 PM
7

I am being sarcastic lol but you’re right on this sub you can never tell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:52 PM
19

No he wouldn’t. He also wouldn’t love her if she pgained weight. But those are acceptable reasons! Men still love unconditionally! On the other hand if a woman stops loving a man because he doesn’t contribute to the house, is lazy, puts zero effort, or gains weight, then the woman clearly can’t love unconditionally and is a stupid whore!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:24 PM
-49

So you think that if a man contributes to society he should be rewarded with sex? What if there isn’t a woman who wants to have sex with him? Are you saying that men should “strike” from work/society until a woman will have sex with him?
/r/MensRights03/11/22 01:32 AM
1

Dating a man with kids is an absolute deal breaker for me no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:06 PM
9

The data shows they are the happiest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:06 PM
0

Lmao you guys are truly insane…
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:59 AM
6

Your conservative church friends are a poor presentation of society at large lol no one cares what they do or think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:16 AM
3

Would rather be divorced than married to a piece of shit husband
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:15 AM
-4

What would that look like for women? When things are made right?
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:04 PM
4

They’re just hoping to find an Asian woman who has such poor circumstances that they would be willing to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:43 AM
1

No it doesn’t because he lied about the results of the top 3 reasons why women have sex. The top reason in the article was attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:10 AM
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Lol they literally do. For example, in 2003 for women aged 44, 85% total women had married but yet only 3.3% total women have abstained until marriage. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17236611/ Most people like sex and don’t care about their partner having sex before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:35 PM
34

Most women have premarital sex and they marry just fine lol what’s with all these ridiculous troll like posts today
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:23 PM
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For all the articles he’s linked, he’s either straight up lying about the article results or he’s taking it of context Definitely a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:25 PM
23

Wow…this post must be a joke because I can’t believe there are people who think like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:47 PM
15

Is this satire? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:44 PM
2

I feel like the most likely way to be successful is meeting women through friends, events (weddings, parties) or hobbies (rockclimbing, book club, etc). First have a normal non-flirty conversation with a woman. If it goes well and they’re single, you can try to make it slightly flirty. If they’re receptive continue, and if not then be respectful and stop. I feel like for complete strangers it’s a lot harder, but the most important is coming off normal and having a good opening. For example, I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:57 PM
22

I was a virgin until I lost it to my bf when I was 21. I’m so happy I waited until I was with someone I loved and trusted. But if I had found he was “virgin hunting” I would have been horrified and broken it off lol, luckily he was not like that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:25 PM
1

This post is so dumb. Some guys like the guys in this subreddit are weirdly obsessed with n count, but in real life most guys don’t care much lol. In fact in all my relationships, if anyone brought up n count it was me lol. Actually they cared less than I did and these were all attractive, smart and successful guys smart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:16 PM
1

Bad in a subjective term based on your biased experience with women. Women talk about these things with friends and I know for a fact that no woman I have talked to would be ok with that
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:07 PM
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It’s not an assumption. I am a woman and literally none of the women I know would be ok with that. And also what’s wrong with being upfront about your boundaries? Especially if they’re unpopular ones
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:59 PM
-4

Not flirting is normal. It’s a deal breaker for almost all women to not be allowed to have a “long conversation” with half the population. I personally don’t know any woman who would be okay with that level of needing control and paranoia in their partner
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:29 PM
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That would be a deal breaker for almost all women (including me) so I would address it early on
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:23 PM
2

What do you mean by show restraint around other men?
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:13 PM
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Yeah there’s nothing complicated about this. Lots of attractive women are single all the time (both those who have casual sex and those who don’t). Not sure why it’s surprising. Personally, I’m considered an “attractive women” and a few years ago I went over 2 years without being with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:06 PM
2

Judging from your Reddit profile you’re 100% not getting any likes because 1) you’re looking for a very niche girl 2) you’re a extreme conservative, anti-science, ultra-religious, pro-life, anti-women nutcase
/r/MensRights24/10/22 01:13 PM
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Lol I just hope that all MRA men dislike college educated women so they filter themselves out from the dating pool
/r/MensRights22/10/22 09:19 PM
4

This whole argument is unimportant because it doesn’t matters how easy or difficult to get sex. That doesn’t change the morality of it or if it makes that person “a bullet dodged” or not. The reasons for men and women for wanting the sex in the first place is still similar, because they both like sex and they don’t mind doing it casually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:45 PM
1

You literally made a post to argue your behavior is fair and not hypocritical, so don’t be surprised when people argue back. Also calling out shitty behavior is fair. The same way it’s not shameful to shame racist, it’s not shameful to shame misogynistic hypocritical assholes like you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:28 PM
1

Lol those are such huge assumptions to make. Of course when there’s a high N guy, it’s different right? They’re just manly chads, confident, desirable. It doesn’t enter your mind that guys who engage in casual sex do so for the same reason that women engage in casual sex? That they both like sex and don’t care too much about the romantic part of it? Your entire viewpoint is full of misogynist and hypercritical undertones. Like I said, those are your feelings, but you can’t not expect others not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:10 PM
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You see it’s this “bullet dodged” language that grosses everyone out. Sure some women have preferences for men over 6 feet, but they don’t describe men under 6 feet as “bullet dodged”. It’s this language in acting like women who engage in casual sex are objectively bad (while somehow men who engage in casual sex are objectively good?), when the truth is there’s nothing objective about that at all. You’re not just having your own personal preferences, you’re looking down and shaming women who don…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:53 PM
3

Lol it’s more like I find men who don’t value women for more than sex and domestic life sexist and gross. But yes, I am a career women. And I am very happy with my career bf who loves, respects and supports me and my career goals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:15 PM
1

The only compliments you give your partner is that she does domestic work and fucks you - basically a bangmaid. So no I don’t know any women who seek out men who view their worth as no more than a bangmaids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:10 PM
1

Resentful of what? Resentful that my bf doesn’t consider me as intellectually inferior and doesn’t dislike that I’m career woman? I guess it’s fine if both partners are on the same level, but I still find it icky when men have that as an expectation for women. If she were to change her mind later on, would you still be supportive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:18 PM
2

That’s good you do not want to date women with any agency, because I can assure you they would never date you. I hope you manage to find the bangmaid that you’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:09 PM
2

Yep I actually do agree with that. It’s definitely more important for women vs men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:05 PM
10

Lmao I hope you’re a world class neurosurgeon to make such a statement that you’re smarter than all women. But instead it sounds like you just have a inferiority-complex because you’re quite average or below average As someone who’s in a ultra competitive field that’s basically all critical thinking and problem solving, I can say the my male and female mentors I work with are equally brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:01 PM
7

Sounds like you just want a mother/submissive sex slave built in one, not a partner on equal standing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:01 PM
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Yep I feel like some men (especially the men here) feel uncomfortable dating up in terms of intelligence/career, but most men in top careers (especially STEM/medicine/law) are typically seeking partners who are on their level or close to their level. At the end of the day, people want a partner that they can connect and vibe with on a intellectual level
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:59 PM
6

Being a physics major is not a flaw, and you really don’t want to be with a guy who would ever think that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:56 PM
3

Yep if anything the couple that I have seen go for the “dumb pretty” type definitely have gotten the side eye from our peer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:51 PM
13

I don’t know how much I agree with OP’s statement. I can’t speak for men, but I’m in a field that’s very competitive/intelligent/high earning potential. Based on what I’ve seen the most guys (even very cute guys) are with intelligent women either in same field or other good fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:18 PM
0

Dude obviously they were referring to that co-workers shouldn’t sexualize and get distracted by someone wearing shorts. Also a big assumption to assume they were short shorts.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:59 AM
0

Then why don’t you show her if you’re so confident
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:38 PM
3

What are you talking about. Only 30% women trying for a baby get pregnant after 1 month, and only 60% of women trying for a baby get pregnant after 3 entire months of trying. That’s nothing close to 50% chance pregnancy for each time of having sex. Stop pretending to know about medicine or women’s bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:28 PM
-2

I was quoting your own word choice idiot. And so you question my morality because I stated the fact that family often have the ability to take their loved ones off life support? You’re literally have nothing more to add. Just accept you lost the debate
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:11 PM
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Very convenient that you chose a random non-peer-reviewed article from a CATHOLIC university Here are some actual peer-reviewed publications: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8303918/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12696784/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17624932/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5499222/ Literally none of them say the consensus is that life begins at conception. Cherry picking articles from biased sources that agree your viewpoint does not make your “facts” correc…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 05:31 PM
4

If someone commits to monogamy and then they cheat they’re a piece of shit person. Unless a man has a history of repeated cheating or sketchy behavior, no woman should expect a man to cheat just because he’s very good looking or rich. This post reeks as though OP thinks these kind of men are entitled to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:20 PM
10

I literally don’t know a single woman who currently is or is planning to leech off their male siblings/relatives like wtf this post is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:15 PM
-5

No the vast majority of biologists do not agree life starts when the sperm and egg meet. That’s factually incorrect. Pregnancy is a dangerous and life changing medical condition. If women want to terminate a pregnancy to protect their health and body, that is their right, and it takes precedent over a fetus. When women have an abortion, the purpose isn’t to kill the fetus, it’s to remove the pregnancy from their bodies. It’s not like when an abortion happens, they kill the fetus/baby after it’s …
/r/MensRights16/10/22 05:04 PM
-1

Giving a someone a powerful medicine without their consent is completely different from someone not telling another what they’re going to do with their body.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:56 PM
-5

You should show her this post. Except I’m sure you won’t because you know she would be completely put off after
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:50 PM
0

LOL keep your ethnic fetish fantasies to yourself please
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:20 PM
4

This. And also btw OP, even those Instagram model’s bodies don’t look as perfect on Instagram as they do in real life. No ones body is completely flawless. Everyone has imperfections and imperfections are beautiful too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:47 AM
1

That’s because they spend all their time on the internet whining and don’t bother to go outside and see for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:14 PM
4

No what you said is that those 80% women “become a welfare leech”, “whine about men not committing” and “be a burden upon humanity”, whereas the reality is that the vast majority of those 80% women are in stable relationships/have their own families and/or have their own careers and are doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:22 PM
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Lol this sounds more like your fantasy than reality. Most “top 20%” men I know personally (attractive, responsible, educated, and good careers) want to settle down in their late 20s/early 30s and start a family. They usually do so with their women equivalent (attractive, responsible, educated, maybe not top earner but have a career and are financially independent). And for the rest of the women, you realize that most women above 30 are married or in stable relationships and they’re happy with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:11 PM
4

I would rather him have some experience. I feel like guys who have been in relationships before are usually better partners because they have the experience to know how to make a relationship work. Also as someone in my mid 20s who likes to date guys around the same age or slightly older, I think I might be kinda suspicious why he hasn’t dated before. Overall, not a deal breaker but definitely a red flag for me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:45 AM
2

Lol just showed my bf your comment and we both laughed at how insane and unfounded it was….but on a serious note, please get help. You seemed unhinged
/r/MensRights12/10/22 01:06 AM
0

They’re trying to argue that by living in the woods they’re not relying on others the way city women “rely on men” by living independently in a city. But even if someone lives in the woods, if they use gas, internet, phone, take meds, have belongings that aren’t made by scratch themselves, they are relying on society to make and supply their resources/goods just like everyone else. Overall their argument is completely hypocritical and contradictory
/r/MensRights11/10/22 08:29 PM
-15

How is living in a city alone relying on men? Because she lives in society lmao? Unless you’re living in the woods with no electricity, no gas, no internet, no phone, never receive medical care/take meds, make your own clothes/furniture/toothbrush from scratch, and hunt your food then technically youre all reliant on both men and women lmao. These comments are so ridiculous lmao
/r/MensRights11/10/22 01:42 PM
-21

So what? Why do you care so much if a woman doesn’t want to be with you lmao
/r/MensRights11/10/22 01:34 PM
-12

Why is it important for you to stop women from living independently in a city? Why does it bother you so much?
/r/MensRights11/10/22 01:30 PM
7

Why would a woman be interested in you? What do you have to offer? You’re paranoid, cold, judgmental, selfish and incompetent (talk about how much you want children, but then say you’ll just have your mom take care of them lmao) What good qualities do you have that any woman would want to be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:25 AM
4

Do you want genuine intimacy or do you want a partner who fakes intimacy and just complies to your demands to escape whatever desperate situation she must be in to get in a relationship with you Literally no person could form a genuine bond with someone who has these types of thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:20 AM
16

Not really because we don’t know WHY Gisele wants divorce. We don’t know what their relationship is like, how they treat each other and their kids, if they’re faithful, if they’re good partners or parents, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:37 PM
46

We can’t learn much because we don’t know the reasons for their divorce. You’re making so many assumptions when you know nothing of their personal lives. People divorce for so many reasons and we have no idea what happens behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:15 PM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:22 PM
10

I don’t know a single woman who would be okay with these conditions. Not just because of the conditions themselves, but the fact that OP even thinks those things is so gross and such a turn off Clearly he’s never been in a relationship or likely with a women. All he does is post on r/mensrights about how awful women are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:19 PM
-14

Have you been in a relationship before? Or dated a woman?
/r/MensRights10/10/22 04:15 PM
0

Assuming these things could happen, do you believe in abortion rights for women or no?
/r/MensRights08/10/22 01:38 PM
0

I think what OP means is that they would be better off anyway. A guy with those kinda views of women’s sexuality are likely to be controlling and sexist in other aspects of their life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:49 PM
1

Is this response just a really roundabout way of saying no women should not be in the workforce?
/r/MensRights30/09/22 10:52 AM
2

What do you propose? Should women not be in the workforce?
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:27 PM
11

Not only is it morally wrong to record sex without consent, it’s also illegal
/r/MensRights24/09/22 12:42 PM
4

Lol a partner doesn’t have to treat you horribly for you to morally break up with them. Sometimes people have different values and goals or sometimes people simply lose attraction to their partner. No one is morally obligated to stay in a relationship with anyone, and especially if they’re not married
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:13 AM
2

?? I never deleted my original post..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:54 PM
1

His choice, but I can find him creepy as hell. Also turns out he married her when she was 16. So he’s a pedophile too. But I guess you support pedophilia too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:00 PM
1

Holy shit he’s a straight up pedophile…how am I not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:38 AM
1

There’s still a power difference and difference in life experiences and success. It’s also weird that they find women who are 30 so unattractive. Like those women are are 26 are going to be 30 in 4 years anyway, so then what? Men can like who they want, and I can judge them for it and find them creepy and shallow. And as a girl in that age range, if i was single and found out my 35 year old date was old only interested in women younger than 28 that would be a deal breaker for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:33 AM
2

I personally wouldn’t mind, but my partner would definitely not be ok with it so I would respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:01 AM
1

When I mean younger I mean like significantly younger like a 35 year old man only looking for girls below 28
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:57 AM
0

Lol shes been in a relationship for months now with one of those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:54 AM
-4

Lol OP don’t listen to this. Complete bs. My elder sibling’s friend (early 30s woman) broke up with her long term bf and was on dating apps. We were going through all her matches together on Hinge and there were probably over 100 cute successful guys matching (and messaging her) within 2 weeks. I will admit that she is also very cute and successful and no kids, but she literally had zero problem finding dates with great guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:53 AM
1

Do you even want to be with a guy who only dates women a lot younger than him? If it’s about appearance, women in their 30s are often just as attractive as women in their 20s. My older sibling’s (early 30s) female friends honestly look just as good and in shape as they did 10 years ago. They’re just more mature and established in their careers now. I think it’s a red flag for a guy who only goes for younger women. Even see the comments, they’re “less picky”, less assertive. They basically want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:46 AM
1

You sound like a creep….
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:40 AM
26

I feel like most the guys who post here (especially those long drawn out misogynist posts) are posting because they’re bitter about their crappy dating lives. Guys who are getting many dates with women are unlikely to feel the need to post here. Of course there’s always a risk your date is a misogynistic asshole, but I guess you have just be careful of red flags and take a chance. I actually found my bf through online dating and he’s really amazing. He’s kind, smart, cute, successful and so so s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:48 PM
58

Trust me when I say the men you want to date aren’t going on subreddits like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:35 PM
3

I replied to the wrong comment. My bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:45 PM
-13

Lol perhaps sad for you, but they’re happy and living their best life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:55 AM
2

Yep in real life 99% of people over 20 don’t care about virginity unless they’re super religious. It just shows how detached from reality this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:26 AM
1

Maybe stop living at home as an unemployed man almost 30. Your talking badly about your mother, but she’s letting you live at home rent free. If she’s so awful just move out
/r/MensRights08/09/22 11:37 AM
4

Lmao too true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:39 AM
5

Yeah seriously. My parents are together, but if I was dating someone and found out they had those beliefs that would be a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:12 PM
4

I think slut shaming is looking down on other woman for having casual sex. While that’s not something I’m into, I don’t look down on others who do it. As long as it’s consensual and they’re happy, then I’m happy for them. I do know women who do it maybe for the wrong reasons (insecurity or pressured into it), but I know others who do it purely because they like doing it despite having lots of “options”. People who judge others for living their lives can go fuck themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:09 AM
1

lol as a woman that’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:27 PM
5

Whats LMS?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:32 PM
2

By spending time with other guys, you mean she has friends who are guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:32 PM
16

Yes but this was back in college in my campus so it felt less dangerous since I knew they were a classmate. One guy I dated for a few months. I have occasionally given my number on the street or in a coffee shop, but it’s more like I’m caught off guard, and I always got nervous and never replied the messages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:21 PM
2

Yep mine too. So lucky :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:46 PM
2

Consent can be revoked any time during the sexual act. If someone wants to stop sex and their partner doesn’t, that’s rape
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:44 PM
-3

How could she trust him enough to make a recording for him if he doesn’t trust her enough to not think she’ll accuse him of rape? Trust goes both ways.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:43 PM
-37

Lol consent is making sure you both want to have sex, not demanding your partner to record you “consenting” because you’re paranoid they will accuse you of rape. And the video is pointless anyway because consent can be revoked mid sex. Also not single; I shared that post with my bf who called it “bizarre” lol
/r/MensRights25/08/22 06:09 PM
-46

Lol you wish. I don’t know any woman who would be ok with that and most women I know are in relationships. If you can’t trust your partner to not falsely accuse you, then you’re not ready for sex
/r/MensRights25/08/22 05:49 PM
1

I’m a woman but before I met my current bf and was looking, any guy who gave red pill vibes became an instant no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:27 PM

No I lost it at 21. My friends thought it was uncommon but not weird. I’m happy I waited
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:36 PM
-1

Would you for a very pregnant woman?
/r/MensRights22/08/22 02:46 PM
2

As a woman, I disagree. Ive always felt bad and awkward when I reject guys. And not just because I’m scared they’ll get angry, but because I feel bad about hurting their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:01 PM
15

Are you illiterate lol? She just said she hasn’t found a man she wants yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:56 AM
3

Lol I’m a busy person and walking is my primary mode of transportation. I don’t want to be approached. I’m just trying to get where I need to be. What’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:11 PM
10

Lol I’m actually same age/height/weight as you and would rate my appearance similarly too. For me I would say mostly B - occasionally on the street (if I’m alone) and in coffee shops (If I’m alone) and often in bars (if I’m with friends). I also dress casual like mostly leggings/jeans with crop tops. And when I walk, I walk fast with my AirPods lol. Of note I live in a walkable city in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:51 PM
10

All the women I know aren’t rude when turning a guy down. We either say sorry we’re in a relationship or we’re not interested in dating. I’m sure some are rude, but there are some rude assholes in both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:26 PM
1

Someone who is anti-science and can't make responsible decisions about their health could never be my dream guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:17 AM
0

Absolutely would not date someone that wasn’t vaccinated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:56 PM
33

Islamic countries have low divorce rates because their culture strongly disapprove of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:14 PM
17

Not me and any of my friends (20sF) have used tinder. We think of tinder as meant for hooking up (vs dating) which none of us were interested in. We all used hinge or bumble. I think those apps have a lot more women in them and is a more accurate representation of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:03 PM
1

Lmao how’s that worked out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:37 PM
1

That’s not a citation lmao. There’s no medical literature that associates underwear with decreased testosterone levels or underwear with testicular torsion. You’re just speculating. If you disagree you’re welcome to share a citation lol
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:28 PM
1

Lol what? Do you have a citation for that?
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:25 PM
2

How does it make you fat?
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:17 PM
-3

Prostate exams isn’t good for screening and isn’t recommended. They’re only really for if you have an acute complaint/symptoms that may involve the prostate. Some people do PSA blood test screening but even that isn’t recommended anymore because there’s still lots of false negatives and false positives (better than prostate exam but still not good). In general screening is only recommended if the data supports that it’s helpful. Colon cancer (colonoscopies), cervical cancer (pap smears) and brea…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:01 PM
3

50yo is considered young in the medical world. Vast majority of 50yo are still healthy and active if they have a healthy lifestyle. Their stamina isn’t what it was when they were 35, but it’s more than enough to play and take care of their kids. 50yo do outdoor activities literally all the time - they can go cycling, go hiking, etc. The 50yo who can’t do those things, likely couldn’t have done it when they were 35. You’re being very dramatic lol
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:26 AM
2

How could they not be as good mothers? In fact older mothers are more likely to have more socioeconomic resources for their kids. If anything they would be better mothers. But at the end of the day the best mother is someone who can give their child the love, time, attention and resources for them to thrive. And whatever age the mom is for that to happen is the best time to have kids..
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:18 AM
1

How is it not the same? What can a 35yo do that a 50yo can’t? 50yo aren’t crippled elders who can’t play and do activities with their kids lmao There’s actually been a few studies on long-term social and psychological outcomes for late motherhood and they found actually children born to older mothers have better grades in school, higher educational attainment and even lower mortality. It’s also shown mothers associate parenthood with positive well-being and decreased stress when they’re older.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:01 AM
-1

Lol even if a mom has kids in her early 40s, she’ll still be only around 65 by the time her kids graduate college. She can still do all the same activity a younger parent can do while her kids are growing up. And if you have a healthy lifestyle, most people have a great quality of life, do lots of activities and take care of themselves well into their 70s and even 80s/90s. So most likely those parents would also be there for their grandchildren’s youth too. So not sure what’s unfair?
/r/MensRights09/08/22 11:54 PM
2

Because most women want to be self-sufficient and don’t want to depend on their partner for financial security. Most aren’t gold diggers like this subreddit often claims. Also women, like men, often have their career goals. They also like to travel, do hobbies, have leisure time - things that become a lot harder to find time and money to do when you’re raising children. Women are people too; they’re not ready to have kids early for the same reason most men aren’t ready to have kids early.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 11:45 PM
4

You’ve just said a lot of disinformation. The main risks for the baby are chromosomal abnormalities/congenital abnormalities and those are mainly discovered early in pregnancy. Geriatric pregnancy has also been studied for many decades, so all long term issues would have been discovered by now. And like I previously said, despite the increased risks, that vast majority (like >95%) of women and their babies still have excellent outcomes long term. If you disagree, you’re welcome to share medical …
/r/MensRights09/08/22 10:37 PM
0

How is it selfish? Yes there are increased risks with geriatric (>35yrs) pregnancy but it’s about weighing total risk vs benefits. Women who chose to get pregnant at an older age do so because that’s when they are emotionally and financially ready to go through pregnancy and raise a child. The alternative is women to have children when they’re not ready to or to not have children at all. That’s far worse. And btw despite the increase risks in geriatric pregnancy, the vast majority of women and t…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 10:09 PM
1

I've repeated this multiple times already, the fact that she was completely still, nonreactive, eyes closed while she was being penetrated and while the men talked to them and lifted Turner off of her, is more than enough information to determine she was unconscious. You're clearly just going around in circles because you refuse to admit that having sex with an unconscious person is rape. Seriously get help. You're truly sick.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:29 AM
1

Anyone can check to see if someone is unresponsive. You don't need to be a medical professional.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:19 AM
1

Unresponsive is the medical term for unconscious. Like I've repeated, evident by the fact that she was completely not moving and nonreactive while she was literally penetrated and while the men interacted and lifted Turner off of her. I see you're not only a rape apologist, but an idiot too
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:14 AM
1

No they saw a man thrusting into a disheveled woman who literally was completely still and nonreactive while he was thrusting. They literally said “what are you doing” to Turner and during that time she was completely unresponsive, aka she was unconscious. She was unconscious when they found her, she was unconscious when they came back, she was unconscious when the paramedics came. And btw if a person is “closing her eyes” because “they’re kinda out of it” when you have sex with them, that’s sti…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:21 AM
1

She looked unconsciousness when the men first saw them and grabbed him off (she wasn’t moving and she didn’t respond to them grabbing him). It doesn’t take an in-depth examination to tell if someone is conscious and alert. Them chasing the rapist after doesn’t change anything. I can’t believe I need to explain this… And btw all those names are guilty (literally 3/4 are convicted and the remaining one has a mountain of evidence and multiple accusers). The Turner rape is just extra horrifying to d…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:07 AM
1

No she was found unconscious at the same time he was actively raping her. Two men literally grabbed Brock Turner to get him off of her while he was penetrating her. She was unconscious at that moment up until she woke up in the hospital hours later. Are you seriously defending a convicted rapist with multiple witnesses to the rape? This is so disgusting even for this subreddit, but somehow can’t say I’m surprised
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:52 AM
1

Having sex with an unconsciousness person behind a dumpster isn’t rape to you?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:44 AM
-7

Women like who they like. Like you said forcing isn’t the answer. And if that means lower marriage and birth rates (although I think that has to do more with our economy than anything) then that’s life
/r/MensRights05/08/22 02:52 AM
-14

Do you think women should submit to men?
/r/MensRights05/08/22 12:42 AM
10

Those computer cubicles aren't that private. If he had discomfort the appropriate thing to do is go to the bathroom or tough it out until after the exam. Taking out and touching your genitals in a public space is still very inappropriate even if it's done non-sexually.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 12:15 AM
6

How is this a men’s rights issue? Multiple witnesses saw his penis was erect and out of his pants, while he touched it multiple times. Do you think this should be allowed or something?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:43 PM
-2

It’s far more cruel for partner to have sex when they don’t want to, then for a partner to not have sex when they want to. But based on all these comments, this subreddit doesn’t think so. If a couple can’t manage to get on the same page, they should separate. They shouldn’t cheat, they shouldn’t punish and they shouldn’t coerce them into having sex Get a sex doll if you want to have sex with someone with no body autonomy
/r/MensRights01/08/22 07:50 PM
-3

Body control? If a women doesn’t want to have sex, she shouldn’t force herself to have sex to make her partner happy. You think a women should have sex even if she’s miserable doing it?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 07:13 PM
-7

I’m not sure why you didn’t say this comment first. Therapy and communication is much healthier than cheating and punishing your spouse for not having sex. But otherwise, that’s great you both sorted everything out and are doing well
/r/MensRights01/08/22 03:59 PM
-18

On the contrary, research shows children being raised in a household with a dysfunctional/high-conflict marriage is way worse than being raised by two single parents. Clearly a marriage where you punish and cheat on your wife because she doesn’t “oblige” with sex is a dysfunctional marriage and is sending the wrong messages to your children of what a relationship should look like https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3223936/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2882314/
/r/MensRights01/08/22 03:41 PM
-29

Dude that’s way worse for the children…it’s better to divorce, then to cheat and coerce your wife into having sex with you. What type of values are you trying to teach your children?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 03:28 PM
1

If a married couple has kids, do you believe one parent should be stay at home or both working? If you believe in one stay at home parent, does the stay at home parent have an allowance from their partner or do they use their savings?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 03:41 AM
0

Do you think women should take their husband’s last name?
/r/MensRights31/07/22 08:23 PM
-14

Those are online articles; they’re opinion. They aren’t published academic studies Can you link an academic study?
/r/MensRights30/07/22 07:55 PM
0

You think women deserve it if they are harassed based on the clothes they wear?
/r/MensRights30/07/22 07:50 PM
-5

What are you talking about? Also you still couldn’t answer my question, which shows how delusional you are that you think women dress up nice to impress you. What a joke lol
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:32 AM
-5

But you haven’t said anything logical… You’re attempting to argue that women dress in leggings/sports bras for male attention, in which case why would women wear leggings/sports bras to women spaces? You think women purposefully dress up at a yoga class for the 10% chance that a dude will show up? That makes zero sense. And you never answered my question. Do you not believe that women like to dress nicely (and comfortably!) for themselves?
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:27 AM
-12

Wtf what kind of mental gymnastics is that. Most of the classes don’t have any men at all. By your logic if those women went to the gym to impress men, then they would to male dominated spaces, not female dominated spaces. Is it so difficult to believe that women just like wearing leggings/sports bras for themselves?
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:07 AM
1

How so?
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:33 PM
9

I go to exercise classes like barre, yoga, pilates etc and they’re pretty much all women. >80% wear leggings and sports bras/crop tops
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:13 PM
-33

No one likes to work out in sweats wtf leggings and sport bras are so much more comfortable. How is that “dressing like a ho”
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:09 PM
3

Wow is it only because of the circumcision or other reasons too?
/r/MensRights26/07/22 10:23 PM
0

Lol what truth? Everything you’ve said is your shitty and incorrect opinion, not a fact
/r/MensRights24/07/22 02:38 PM
3

I stopped reading after you said “women are designed to raise children”. There was an earlier thread today asking why so many people hate this subreddit. It’s because of comments like this
/r/MensRights24/07/22 01:37 PM
2

Unfortunately that’s not true nowadays. With increased cost of living, most people actually need two incomes per household to live comfortable, especially households with many kids. Also if both parents care about their career, it’s not fair that one should have to sacrifice theirs for the other. It’s also good for both parents to have the capacity to be financially independent in case something happens (divorce, the working partner gets sick/disabled/dies)
/r/MensRights24/07/22 01:31 PM
4

Abrogating the responsibilities of parenting? Do you believe women shouldn’t work then and be SAHM?
/r/MensRights24/07/22 11:31 AM
13

Um all types of people get raped regardless of their sex and appearance
/r/MensRights22/07/22 10:42 PM
2

No means no and she respected that. It’s reasonable to inquire why someone says no to answering a simple question. And if someone has this ridiculous “boundaries”, it’s ok for the other person to not want to pursue a relationship. You can’t have it both ways. You have these ridiculous expectations for women, but then get upset when they don’t want to pursue a relationship with you
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:17 PM
-2

Lmao yes asking why your date why they don’t want to share what they do for work is abuse….completely ridiculous
/r/MensRights13/07/22 04:57 PM
1

No I ask my dates what their jobs are to get to know them. And also see if they’re responsible driven people with goals. I am not looking for financial support. I am more then capable enough of taking care myself. This “biologically driven” is horseshit. Just an excuse to be an asshole. It’s far more invasive to ask about someone’s job than sexual partners. One is considered an appropriate question to ask a relative and one isn’t
/r/MensRights13/07/22 04:54 PM
-25

Lol clearly asking about someone’s work is very different from asking someone’s body count. One is universally considered a much more private question. It’s comments like these which make women not take this subreddit seriously. This whole thread is so telling
/r/MensRights13/07/22 10:42 AM
-18

I think it’s normal for men to ask a women what she does for work. It’s good to get to know your date, that’s the whole point. Not sure what height or weight have anything to do with talking about jobs. But I think both men and women can have weight and height preferences
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:29 AM
-49

Your career is a big part of your life. It’s where you spend the majority of the your day most days of the week. Knowing someone’s job often gives insight to their personality and goals. She didn’t ask how much money he made, just what he did for work. It seems a natural thing to ask on a date, especially when they had been talking weeks prior and she had just finished talking in depth about her own job. I would be really turned off if my date made a comment like that if I asked. Either his job …
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:18 AM
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