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| 31 | Advice on an almost everyday occurrence... | SEEKING ADVICE | bunnybuns77742 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:10 AM |
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| 104 | A form of negging new to meLol I would but I never willingly talked to him, or ever needed to. Reminds me of another thing he did in his short time there. (We sell women's clothing and lingerie) he once again was asking me where things go, he briefly held up a t shirt, I pointed where it went, then held up this skimpy see through lingerie piece taking time to unfold it and hold it up towards me all "what about this???" And I pointed him away and it immediately made me feel uncomfortable but I couldn't figure out exactly w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 225 | A form of negging new to meHad a male coworker (all women workplace before him) I never had to actually talk to him but he asked me what my name was 12 times (I counted) I don't think he actually didn't know my name and was trying to start conversation or something. On the 10th time he would say similar name's like he didn't know mine. I would just reply and walk away. He would also ask me where things go when he could just look around, like at all for where it went. He gave everyone creepy vibes and was super half assed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Pay attention to how he talks about his own mother and sistersI thought the speaking highly of his mother and sisters was a good thing. Until I found he was a horribly enmeshed Mama's boy whol slept with his stepsister while we were dating and had a borderline incestuous relationship with his biological sister. He was able to hide it well too. Until he wanted me to dye my hair and dress like his sister. Looking back, what he said about his family from the start was the biggest red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 61 | Yet another scene of Covid restrictions lifted and men GO FUCKING NUTS because starved of female attentionDid the same thing! Cut about 14 inches off my hair into a coconut head and dyed it hot pink. I was never one to wear baggy clothes before and now I wear oversized everything even in the heat + a hat sunglasses and mask combo. Even with all that I still can't be left alone to get my groceries or pump gas. Had A man follow me in my car last time I got gas after yelling at me across the pumps. Had to drive around a bit to lose him. Does the designer help? I know how much confidence helps but just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 27 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureSimilar boat. Beginning of the pandemic I stopped wearing makeup completely and my skin cleared up. Now with the masks I have a lot of breakouts and if I'm ever hanging out outside I feel like it need to cover it because it's so bad rn. Also how did you find out dairy was contributing to your breakouts? Sounds like it may for me as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 33 | We can't just vet the men we date, we must vet the men we befriend.I had a male friend exactly like you described. He wasn't very smart and I though that made him less threatening but he then became very entitled to my time and would get upset when I spoke to any other friends. Eventually I cut him off and he got extremely aggressive, threatening to come over to my house (when it was just me, my mother and a baby by ourselves) and tried to ruin my friendships with everyone in our group. Basically making up different stories about things I allegedly said or did.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:59 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?I'm 23 and am often told I look 16/17. I exercise outside and men bother me a lot so I still say I am 16 for them to leave me alone. Half the time this backfires and they want to pursue me more, asking when I'll be "legal". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Manipulation through musicHad an x that was just like this, would constantly be on my about liking the Weeknd. Saying he was Trash because he sexualizes women in his songs (which is true). He would then proceed to listen to Xxxtentacion and loudly sing the parts about "throatfking bches" and other disgustingly violent things. Never acknowledging the hypocrisy. Really he was just insecure that I liked any little thing about a man that wasn't him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 4 | The bar is underground at this point 🤮I doubt he's doing it "because of the texture" but to degrade her, and also degrade her blatantly in front of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Fear of “glowing up”?I'm sure it's either way with men. Before the lockdowns I would never go out without makeup and try best to look nice and dress up even for work. Men would actually avoid talking to me (which I loved tbh). Now I've stopped wearing makeup and I only go out for essentials and exercise. That being said the amount of attention I get from men is exponentially more frequent and more forward. It could also be them getting desperate with the isolation but the only thing that's glowed up is my skin. So I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 7 | 👇How did you find them? Were the cameras well hidden or easier to find? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 02:31 AM |
| 8 | Advice on an almost everyday occurrence...The skate and ignore method always works, it's only when I sit down to drink water or rest for a minute that someone comes up. And the creepiest thing about this is how so many people tell me I look 16 so these men are fully aware most of the time they approach that I may be underage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:50 AM |
| 10 | Advice on an almost everyday occurrence...This is a good idea! It's going to happen anyway so why not monetize the views 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Advice on an almost everyday occurrence...I think this is one I can do lol, I don't even get periods anymore. This might backfire cause creeps are into creepy things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:43 AM |
| 7 | Advice on an almost everyday occurrence...This is good advice, in the moment I didn't know what to do so I just snatched it and ran. But I've always been afraid to say no because of retaliation. Idk I guess once a man has lashed out for it you're just prepared for it everytime. When I was in highschool a boy broke my jaw for rejecting him. And then in my town I had someone attempt to kidnap me and had to jump out of his car while he was moving. That's why I talk and try to be as nice as possible but yeah saying no immediately and diseng… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Advice on an almost everyday occurrence...Yeah I know this is a thing that just happens to every woman. It's just frustrating and discouraging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:36 AM |
| 6 | Ladies how are you keeping busy? Please share what makes your lives fulfilling!Getting back into longboarding! Bought an upgrade already and it feels good. Something to keep in shape and have fun! Makes me excited for snowboarding this winter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 5 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?Yeah I had a falling out with some friends because I was "making them look bad" losing all the weight. And yeah finally getting my hormones balanced and finally having clear skin was a huge confidence booster. Sad that people tried to make you feel bad for it. Another thing I've noticed is how much men would flirt with me and approach me and now that I actually feel beautiful it's just nothing at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:58 AM |
| 16 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?I Definitely think this is an insecure/pick me thing. I've somewhat recently lost a lot of weight and I've been exercising outdoors and I get so many looks like that now compared to almost never getting that several months ago. It really bothered me at first but they're doing it because you look good! It's also mostly overweight women if I'm being honest and it makes me feel weird since I used to be in their shoes at almost 200 pounds and I never judged a girl for being skinny or looking good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:51 PM |
| 13 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.Yeah it was some kind of male supplement or something because it made me feel super sick. And whenever I made my own food I was fine. But it's all good now, been broken up for 1 1/2 years and lost all the weight and then some. And thanks to that and FDS for my self esteem back so it won't happen again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:59 PM |
| 23 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.Had all this in my ex, he ended up putting stuff in my food to make me gain weight, took me a year post breakup to lose it all. Gained 60 pounds and the whole time he would put me down for it and say I looked horrible. Also he was cheating with any girl who would give him attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:38 PM |
| 16 | Two Hotels???He's cheating. My ex would do that too and show me. (Messages/bank transactions) He's basically telling on himself but thinks you'll believe him because he's being "honest" and showing you the evidence directly. You're supposed to think he wouldn't let anything slip if he was doing something bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:36 PM |
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