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big no to stop working and become 100% caretaker to someone you're not married to and only pays for the rent...
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 01:01 PM
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because you are a man pretending to be a woman to spread your sick sexual fantasies.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 07:46 AM
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dude, quit the fantasies and go off the internet
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 07:44 AM
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why is this even a question
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/26 10:43 AM
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I am not opposing the two things. I am making two unrelated examples stating that I am both not interested either in galaxies and planets or astrology ;)
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 12:02 PM
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not talking about astronomy. try reading again.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 10:39 PM
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My boyfriend sometimes talks for hours about the galaxy and planets and it is something that doesn't interest me at all. I'll usually let him yap about it in the background while I do something else (cooking, playing a game, knitting etc.). He knows that and doesn't take offense at it. Equally, there are probably some interests of mine that will not interest him at all. Personally, I'm not into astrology at all and if a girl friend would talk about that for a long time, it would bore me out of m…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 02:40 PM
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Sorry but why did you not only take him back but also stay with him while he's right now actively disrespecting and betraying you by keeping contact with the other woman? Also, could he be the reason of you having depression and anxiety and not being all fun and light? Just saying...
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:45 PM
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Girl, don't ever invite a stranger to your house anymore! Also, cooking for someone is a privilege (for them). Men will know to appreciate the time and effort you put in them by making a special meal - but they will do that when they know they've earned it. You basically gave this to someone who you don't know and who has done nothing for you. So what you're telling him is that he shouldn't bother to impress, you'll give him a privileged and special treatment anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 06:09 PM
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"matchmakermaria" on instagram. i don't agree with all she says or shares, but there are some interesting parts such as this rule.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/24 04:26 PM
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curious about the specific tips if you'd like to share!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/24 10:25 AM
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I am not very familiar with female porn addiction, so I'll take another approach. As I'm a person who struggles with libido, could that be an issue? Personally, I take meds that make it lower, and stress affects it too.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/24 10:10 AM
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I would say that him consistently inviting you over means that he wants to sleep with you. If you're not ready for that, and don't want to go down that path so quickly (understandably, as you haven't even discussed exclusivity yet, right?) you can either tell him upfront that you'd like to wait (a great matchmaker/influencer on instagram has a 12-date rule on this and encourages women to tell men about this rule) or if you're not comfortable telling him directly, maybe propose a date idea yourse…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 11:24 AM
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My partner is Georgian. If you find a man willing to marry outside of his ethnicity, Georgians are real gentlemen. :) edit: I only now read your post properly. You seem to be happy in Georgia. I'd take time to work on your mental health (however, it seems like your ex was a cause to it getting worse), learning the language and culture (good luck!!) and taking care of kitties, which is a beautiful and feminine hobby, as you take care of others (and therefore of yourself it seems). so, don't rush …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 12:42 PM
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If you enjoy cooking, you can cook for the both of you - but see it as a pleasure to have a meal together; not a chore. I would stop cleaning alltogether; he's your boyfriend (!), you have your own place to clean. I would suggest to stop go there every night. Make it something special you do when you both want to spend conscious quality time together.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 07:44 AM
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It's funny to me that it's never quite ok; the man has a small penis and there are problems, he has a large one and there are problems. You said it yourself; preparation, so long foreplay and lube. Also, find the positions that are comfortable for you and don't be afraid to stop or change or take a break if you feel discomfort (generally, with any man). The bleeding is probably from friction and/or sensitive skin around the entrance of the vagina. Lube should prevent that - unless you're very yo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 03:21 PM
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So he's around the same height as you, not shorter. Look, as others said, if he's perfect in every other way, go for it. My boo is just a couple of centimeters taller than I am (I'm 1,75) and my parents' couple, my mom is also taller than my dad. What counts is his personality and attitude, plus you say he's good looking. Maybe if he works out and wears shoes that make a bit taller (e.g. doc martens or other type of shows) it will not be noticeable - especially for you, if he's masculine enough.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 06:39 PM
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i don't think you phrased it very clearly, maybe that's why you're a bit misunderstood
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 02:31 PM
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Your friend is supposedly jealous of your affair with a man who lies pathologically about his age, relationship and children? Alrighty Anyway, don't confront him. Break up and go to therapy, something is wrong with your self-worth.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 12:05 AM
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no; cold water just gives the breasts goose bumbs and makes the nipples hard. then you get dressed and everything dissappears lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 03:27 PM
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I'm sorry, but he just wants a doll, but of course that doll also needs to work and pay - otherwise he doesn't get ALL the benefits.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 02:41 PM
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I just want to say, that given the current situation, even if you'd accomodate him on everything he demands, he will 99% still not marry you. Him saying you're being taken care of, yet you have to pay your part on the few trips, rare dates and a house that won't ever be yours, is a scam. I think that the manosphere rp content really messed up with his view on women and relationships (especially since I read he doesn't come from a traditional family, this internet content is all he knows).
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 07:41 AM
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It happened a year ago. You wanna do it in one year? Take this new year to work on yourself and get over it. Also, sure, he's wrong for having cheated on you but exposing his sexual, private preferences is beyond wrong. Be better than that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 11:12 PM
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In my relationship (almost 2 years together, 23 me and 27 him), we post each other on instagram. We started doing it about a month into the relationship. I understand people who find it cringe (depends on the picture of course) but on the other hand, in the current day and age, as you say, if someone doesn't post their partner it might be weird. An ex of mine refused to post me and only later I understood it was because he wanted to keep the door open to his ex. Overall, I'd say that if your par…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 12:36 AM
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Avoiding to let things pile up is the secret yes haha Thank you for sharing :))
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 11:23 PM
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Yeah I saw OP's answers. Tough situation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 11:00 PM
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Can I ask you, how do you balance your job as an engineer, which I imagine is very demanding, and taking care of the house/children, if you are in a relationship and/or a mother, too?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 10:59 PM
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I understand. It's true his family is important, but you and your kid are his close family now. Visiting regularly, if you can afford it, is important to spend quality time together. If it makes him feel better, sending (more) money or gifts can be a compromise. Of course, as long as you don't get into financial difficulty due to these two things. When you talk to him, try to use "I" sentences. So: "I feel..." "I think...". Try to not accuse him of anything, don't say out loud you think you aren…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:34 PM
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Are you of South Asian descendance too? Def talk with him once back. Maybe not immediately once landed but after a couple of days or a week. Try to understand what his idea is, how he envions your future. If it becomes tough, maybe take into consideration couple counceling. Why are you thinking about separating? Are there any other areas that aren't working well for you two?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:26 PM
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Oh god! I think you should've mentioned that in your post, it changes everything. Is your husband working remotely or did he give up his job? How are you coping these 4 months?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:21 PM
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Move for 3 months?! That is not realistic if OP and/or her husband have to give up a job in Canada, potentially need to find a new one there and then give that up, too, in case after 3 months OP decides it's not for her. Not talking about the trauma for the kid. Leaving behind all he/she knows, going there, slowly getting used to a know the place, potentially leaving again. Edit: just saw the kid is one. Then the latter part I wrote isn't very relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:05 PM
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I also feel that OP is not totally fair to him. The fact that he doesn't give her much attention whenever they go and visit them for a short period is absolutely normal: it's his family, they're evidently close and they live very far away from each other.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:01 PM
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Def stop engaging with him about negative topics! It drags you both down.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 09:18 PM
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it's over
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 12:41 PM
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There is no one size fits all. The pill was a life-safer for me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 07:56 AM
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how much does he use his phone when you two meet irl?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 11:43 AM
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ofc he wants to stay friends, get sex and a housemaid without commitment. do yourself a favor: respect yourself and go no contact with him.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 11:33 AM
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You'll do great! I'm the child of a (former) single mom, she had me in her late 20s. When I was 6 she met the love of her life and the only person who is dad to me. Break it off with this guy. It sounds like love bombing to me, and now he showed his ugly, real face.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 08:21 AM
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His 80% is his weed and videogame addiction, his lack of ambition and him taking advantage of your generosity. If his 20% is sex and some good talks (I really don't know how to interpret it otherwise, you don't write anything positive about him besides describing a generic "loving" relationship), it's not enough. A loving relationship is with someone you can trust, who has to offer to you what you need and at least matches your effort. You're young and you can find so much better. Like another u…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 08:22 AM
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Why exactly are you with this person? You're projecting your desires (which are valid) on someone whose context and actions speak very loudly, yet you decide to look away and not listen to them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 11:54 PM
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get into therapy, go to a psychiatrist (i read your post history) and stop watching and reading content of so-called red pill alpha males. jesus.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 11:45 PM
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He did go to therapy but I don't think for this particular issue. The relationship ended more than 2 years ago so maybe by now he found a girl who's into it, who knows.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/24 12:25 AM
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in the case of my ex i think his mother made him like that haha
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 06:36 PM
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This reminds me of an ex bf of mine. It will not change, he will not change. It will drive you crazy and you'll feel super frustrated and not in touch with your femininity. There is not much you can do. Either you accept it and go further or you find someone who's more masculine. I did the latter.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 09:47 AM
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should not, exactly. but life catches up, especially for my bf. please keep such remarks to yourself as I doubt you´re a psychiatrist ;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 04:04 PM
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unless i'm confronted with it, i don't think about sex because it simply doesn't exist in my brain anymore. if i force myself to think about it i find it uninteresting and stop. and we are very flirty with each other.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:14 AM
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Don't pay for a man (except gifts), especially this early in the relationship. Within marriage in some cases it would be acceptable. You're being used, as the other user stated.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 08:15 PM
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i agree, except for having the talk with this dude. i think enough was said from his side with this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/23 09:46 PM
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to avoid heartaches and misunderstandings (to say the least) like in this case, you should definitely make sure you're exclusive and in a relationship. a man doesn't have to ask - in my relationship (of almost two years) i asked this my boyfriend on our 4th or 5th date. he was weirded out as he assumed we were together, but he confirmed my questions. having things black on white avoids this type of situations. now go on, let him go and avoid this mistake in the future. good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/23 09:44 PM
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your whole post history is about you wondering whether you should break up and describing how he's not a wonderful person at all wouldn't surprise me if after you'd break up your OCD and anxiety would get much better anyway, good luck
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 09:45 PM
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this OP did you ever consider therapy? you are not treating yourself right by being in this relationship
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 09:32 PM
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You are anxious as hell because this relationship is not it and you know it. I read the breakup letter in your post history and... just no.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 09:31 PM
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In my experience, since there is also some bipolar disorder history in my father´s bloodline, I think that asyou are aware of this, you are already one step forward. I find your boyfriend´s concerns pretty ableist and ignorant. Bipolar disorder can be treated, people with BD can lead normal lives if they take their medicine (and sure, maybe they´ll have to take it for their whole life but it wouldn´t be any different if God forbid they´d have Diabetes type 1, for example). Why did I say you are …
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 08:40 PM
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another AI list?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 07:44 PM
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exactly... i'm sad some women have been conditioned into thinking they're "needy" for the bare minimum (like compliments)...
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 07:15 AM
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it seems like she just wants someone looking good for the sake of appearance and otherwise is ok with being treated very poorly
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 06:55 AM
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you're right, i think in metrics system so 6ft doesn't mean much to me😹 i meant more the "non-requirements". it's odd fr, recipe for unhappy marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 06:53 AM
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Comments: Should instead of try Has healthy multiple relationships with male friends If you have one, this is gonna be annoying Personal choice I don't necessarily agree with (I'd never get someone who hasn't at least at some point lived completely alone) What the heck?! This standard is below earth. I'd expect texting multiple times a day and daily calling (or at least every other day). People have so much screentime yet you say guys hate texting?! First of all, false. Second of all, the bar is…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 05:16 AM
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I hear you, to me a similar thing happened in my last relationship. I was together with him for almost a year and we were long distance (temporarily) for two months when he started behaving in a weird way. In the end it turned out he wanted to open our relationship. I was supposed to be in his city for a week but the same evening I arrived and learned this I booked a flight and flew away the following day. I never looked back. I took some time for myself to heal and I realized that relationship …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 07:38 PM
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I think you focus a bit too much on a couple of things: the fact that you lost virginity to him... at some point you lose it, and imo it doesn't make a huge change to a woman - it's more of a social and ideological construct; the fact that you've been with him for 1,5 years... it's not that long. better find out now than in 10 or 20 years; the fact that you'll have a body count higher than one... each can think what they want about it but there is nothing wrong with having a sexual life and leav…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 06:53 PM
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In the end you claim he's a great partner, but he's really not. Ambiguous and immature behaviour concerning instagram, not meeting your needs on valentine's day, the rest I couldn't even read...
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 10:55 PM
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i feel this!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 04:56 PM
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You're right about that, still, it's a personal preference. I know plenty of men that prefer women on the curvier side (not talking about overweight). And afterall, if we consider "Nothing there, amazing" to be a compliment... idk, the bar is low af
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:51 PM
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associating looking good with having a flat stomach is absolutely subjective and also cultural and time related, in plenty of other countries a curvier female body is considered a beauty standard ;)
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 01:28 PM
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New title proposal Trigger warning: My man really cherishes a flat stomach. Now I'm gonna make a generalization out of it. P.S. I saw your posting history and that you posted you can't find a partner a month ago. If your bf makes this type of remarks less than a month into the relationship, I seriously have doubts whether this is healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 09:30 AM
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yes but girl, why don't you find it creepy that he pursued you when you were 20 and he was already 37? it's the same level
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:20 AM
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how are you planning to manage the tri-/bilingual raising? my partner and I are still young and we just talk but don't plan anything yet but... he has 2 main languages and so do i + we met and live in another country (of which we both speak the language but both not as a main one). it will be messy but i'd love my future kids to speak 5+ languages like my partner and i do🙈
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 07:26 PM
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no girl, you're not the problem. i stay by the first paragraph i wrote about arab guys.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 12:57 AM
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I don't wanna throw around stereotypes BUT vast majority of arab guys date western women for fun, because none girl of his own culture wants to have sex and date. They'll never mean it seriously, they'll never make it official. They'll leave you at a certain point and a month later you see a instagram post of their marriage. All you described shouts: no, you shouldn't stay with him. He isn't serious about you. If you wanna save yourself from similar situations I'd recommend keeping sex off the t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 12:09 AM
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he's some type of narcisistic psychopath. he's lovebombing you for sure, too. your gut knows, but you're gaslighting yourself. you actually deeply know, that's why you ask here for confimation. get out of this asap.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 11:50 PM
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absolutely!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 09:22 PM
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Look, if you want to give this a serious try, you should have solid boundaries. You should have him meet you soon, too. You should look into yourself and see if you really like this situation. You should take this slower. Afterall, he's a stranger. Allow him to impress you, to show his best side. And for the love of God, stop oversharing with men. Also, one can be a narcisistic pos even without watching questionable content or without being alt :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:40 PM
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poly marriage? jokes aside, look at his actions and how he treats you. not what he says. it doesn't sound like a man you'd want a LDR with, but that you should decide for yourself :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:33 PM
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So you spoke with him for 5 months while he was in a relationship, then he broke up and two weeks ago you became "official"? It sounds like a rebound. Really, I don't see anything good coming out of this tbh Also, all these problems have been coming just in the past two weeks of you being in a relationship? He should be showing his best now!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:22 PM
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Let me break this down for you: He's a stranger In 7 months he never made the effort to stop being a stranger (aka coming to see you) you're heavily oversharing with a stranger he's poly and wants to remain so but you still have hopes to be exclusive with him whenever you will live closeby (and then? he'll stop being poly all of the sudden?) ... I don't know what type of advice you're looking for? This isn't healthy, that I can tell you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:17 PM
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I don't find this info: did you ever meet him in person? In my opinion you're sharing too much personal information (trauma, past experiences with other men) without him actually being your boyfriend (and i mean, exclusivity comes before that!). You're basically giving to someone all the knowledge to hurt you and take advantage of you. And probably faking intimacy by that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:06 PM
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You listed all the things you do for him (which is a lot), but never mentioned what he does for you...
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:43 AM
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I didn't mean you OP but the comment that meanwhile has been removed :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 08:29 PM
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Just wanted to give my 2 cents about the amazing sex with the toxic alpha men: probably it was so amazing because sex was the only form of intimacy you could get from them. Think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 04:34 PM
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look look, an incel on a women-only subreddit!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 02:25 PM
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I would cut off contact with him, this isn't going anywhere anymore. You prevent yourself from meeting true love by letting him stick around and not respecting yourself despite your discomfort being so evident. He was in love with the idea of you - and you probably with the idea of him. Get in therapy to work on your coping mechasnisms, it will help for your next relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 04:59 PM
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Can be because of the guy, too. In my last relationship I was the same but mainly bc my ex was indecisive, insecure and deeply in his feminine energy. The man i'm together with now is the opposite and I feel more like I can relax (though I still have to improve haha)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/22 11:25 AM
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I'm in the exact same position as you! Just so you know, you certainly aren't alone
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/22 08:47 AM
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It's not that YOU are not high value enough, it's that HE isn't. He craves attention from other women because he's not confident enough, he's too insecure to end things with the other women and because he enjoys the free extra attention. I've gone through something similar two years ago. I made the mistake not to end things immediately. If I were you, I'd leave. It's not gonna get better and your trust has been broken.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 08:08 AM
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i'd do that too. but OP's husband shouldn't "force" her to watch football with him. i'm sure everyone involved would enjoy it more if he'd watch matches with his friends
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 11:47 PM
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Why did you feel the need to comment this, exactly? My original post was days ago, we already fixed it. In fact, we already came back from the trip. I don't care that you think it's miniscule, to me it mattered. Tip: you could spare your free time instead of replying this just to invalidate someone's feelings. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 12:02 PM
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I see, you might be right on that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 07:04 PM
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He is def not irresponsible - he made a mistake in this case but is not an irresponsible person. He does provide and protect. Our relationship is way more than the 1% of it that I described in this post. :) Sorry but you're projecting something, nothing from what I wrote in my post justifies what you said in your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 07:01 PM
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it makes totally sense. thank you for these words
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 02:17 AM
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thank you for your long answer, I appreciate it
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 12:18 AM
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Thank you for your words
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 12:17 AM
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That's an interesting perspective
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 12:16 AM
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I'm not sure if I got your point? :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 12:15 AM
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I see... I'm sorry about that
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 12:15 AM
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I guess...
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 12:14 AM
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Thank you for your words and reflections, I appreciate it
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 04:22 PM
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You're right, thank you!🥰
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 03:55 PM
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Your husband sounds lovely. My boyfriend def shows me his love and care but in other ways, too. He also likes to go with the flow and generally doesn't plan far ahead (something I've always done: I've always had plans for my studies years ahead, to make an example).
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 03:43 PM
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In my parents' relationship it's also like that: my mom decides the vacations and trips and interior design and my dad puts his opinion in the end and the money. I talked about it with her in the past and she also said I should just embrace and accept it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 03:40 PM
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About caring: he assured me he does and I believe him that he's honest. Planning: Yes from the beginning. I am always very grateful and positive. I would love him to make more decisions for me, too (when it comes to simple things like "Where will we have dinner?") and I tell him that. About the hints and positive reinforcement maybe I could learn more, feel free to share your ways :) Last part: You might be right on that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 03:37 PM
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Not really. I asked him also and he said he's been 100% up for it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 03:33 PM
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Having some facial hair (which I have too, yes) is different from a beard. Anyway, got it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 09:03 PM
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Again, I personally feel you're incompatible. If he doesn't want to be helped, leave him unhelped I guess🤔
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 09:01 PM
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Okay I don't totally understand at this point, beard, female, non binary? I'm not too acquianted with these things. As the other user said, try on some LGBT subreddit to get more specific advice.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 08:57 PM
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A lot of Muslim guys play around with Christian/Atheist women for a while, without commitment. But 99% of them marries a girl from their same religion and ethnicity in the end (it's the same with Muslim girls, btw). Did you ever meet his parents?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 08:55 PM
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Sorry, didn't get that you needed advice on that specifically. In this case I'd include him sometimes, invite him, present your friends to him. Generally be open and honest about it. Normally if you're insecure/jealous this helps.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 08:52 PM
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Well, you're not compatible if you want to have friends of opposite sex (is that even a thing if you're non-binary?) and he doesn't want you to - especially if you can't come to a compromise and/or an agreement. About your second question, idk. I'm not redpilled, I just have sympathy with certain concepts in this subreddit. Personally, in my relationship this doesn't play a role at all tbf. So as said, let it go if you're incompatible. Otherwise find a compromise. There are enough people on eart…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 08:43 PM
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Being "alpha" and being red pill is very different. If you look up the red pill philosophy from men perspective (it's enough to give a look at their subreddit, you'll get the idea) you'll see that... it's intense. To say least. I agree with the other user stating that here you might not find the best advice for your case. I'd try on relationship advice or dating advice. Him being supposedly red pilled (which I read you're not even sure about) has in this case not much to do with it. He just seem…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 08:17 PM
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What about accepting that she just wants to sleep in peace in the morning? You can have sex in any other moment of the day. This isn't about feminism, making her feel powerful or whatever. Just respect her boundaries, she wants to sleep. If she consistenly turns you down generally when it comes to sex then talk about it with clear communication. Finally, respect her for the person who she is. Maybe over time she will change, maybe not. If you want her to lay back a bit, then take over the lead. …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 04:43 PM
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exactly!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 06:05 PM
1

The problem is not only your racism but your general attitude, your energy, your vibe - call it however you want. People sense that. Like another user said, do you even take accountability? What have you done that your previous relationships didn't work out? But whatever, I'm done answering here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 05:54 PM
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You must be very young and/or naive for thinking that a relationship will solve the issues YOU have. Getting a relationship isn't like grocerie shopping. You have to present your best self. This hate and self loathe is gonna send decent men away because no-one sane wants to put up with your toxicity.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 05:48 PM
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go fuck yourself, how can you talk like that to someone
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 04:53 PM
2

I wouldn't consider myself a redpiller, just have sympathy for some concepts of this sub reddit specifically. I'm everything but racist and alt right (I literally vote for leftist and social dem parties in my country lol). So that's -1, and pretty confident there are plenty of other ladies here who aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 04:46 PM
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I think that you missed the point of literally everything here. You must be a troll, no other explanation. If not, please go to therapy. Your self-esteem is below the ground.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 04:42 PM
3

are you ok?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 04:37 PM
2

I'm your same age. I'd never date a man more than 10 years older than me, but that's me. As I said, invest in your self-esteem and in your confidence. You may feel inadequate for those reasons but he might feel inadequate for other reasons that make you special and unique - maybe your empathy, your selflessness, maybe banal things like your smile, your charisma etc. You might always feel inadequate, but remember other people do too
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 02:12 AM
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Texting is fine. Just try to not always initiate the convo, don't double text if he doesn't answer the previous message and just don't be so extra. He's a stranger.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 05:49 PM
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This is waaay to much. I'd do some reflexion and understand: why you want you want to push things this much (are you afraid he's the only man in the world?) why you can't let him plan and take the lead (no trust in his actions?) why you're trying to proof yourself (low self-esteem?) This is so much, it's almost weird. Calm down. Do you really like him? In order to understand that you should let him the freedom to plan and organize and surprise you. Relax, dating is about getting to know each oth…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 05:43 PM
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break up, it will be for the best. it seems like this man is not choosing you (polyamory stuff) and this really affects your self image and self esteem on every regard of your life, trust me, i've been through it. break up and stay single for a while to heal, otherwise you'll just perpetuate the habit of settling for shitty men. you deserve better.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 08:33 PM
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girl you should figure yourself out... a month ago you post about wanting to break up and about being on dating apps (!) and 2 weeks ago you post about being on vacation with him (and for changes wanting to break up). this relationship is probably not healthy but sorry to say it, i'm afraid you also play a role in it. i saw you're planning on starting therapy. that's a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 07:25 PM
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